LESBIAN STEREOTYPES

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  • @Anonymous-uv4xf
    @Anonymous-uv4xf6 жыл бұрын

    "If you don't like gay marriage, then don't get gay married" YES

  • @ruthh3496

    @ruthh3496

    6 жыл бұрын

    CommanderCreative do you know what song that is from?

  • @jaystarmans1751

    @jaystarmans1751

    5 жыл бұрын

    Its just a wedding gays are just people

  • @unusunus4613

    @unusunus4613

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@jaystarmans1751 It's sad that needs to be said and still people won't agree with it

  • @lauramarieulirsch8888

    @lauramarieulirsch8888

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@ruthh3496 witch song :)?

  • @TheJoisfun
    @TheJoisfun6 жыл бұрын

    When she said "just because you're gay it doesn't mean that you are good at sports", I said "nah, i'm afraid of balls", and then I realized what I had said. I have been laughing and crying for 10 minutes now.

  • @jordankennedy3489

    @jordankennedy3489

    5 жыл бұрын

    girl im literally allergic to nuts

  • @myjams7180

    @myjams7180

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @hammydammy123

    @hammydammy123

    5 жыл бұрын

    You’re afraid? *I’m allergic.*

  • @mjjae8122

    @mjjae8122

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jordan Kennedy SAAAAAME

  • @fish1705

    @fish1705

    5 жыл бұрын

    I suck at sports and also same with the balls😂

  • @kats5641
    @kats56416 жыл бұрын

    she really said "we shop at ikea" LMAOOOOOOOOOOO

  • @makaylamills5380

    @makaylamills5380

    6 жыл бұрын

    katrina swanson we do tho, they got Cinnabon’s and hot girls , what more do you want ?

  • @kats5641

    @kats5641

    6 жыл бұрын

    Kayla Mills i’m lesbian too hahaha, that’s why it’s funny

  • @sarac286

    @sarac286

    6 жыл бұрын

    katrina swanson yasss

  • @user-ld5vg2si9k

    @user-ld5vg2si9k

    5 жыл бұрын

    their meatballs are the only balls i eat

  • @sarawatson8756

    @sarawatson8756

    5 жыл бұрын

    Wasted Youth DJSKSKJD

  • @LauDevaux
    @LauDevaux6 жыл бұрын

    I'm a dog kind of lesbian for sure 👌🏼

  • @cepfins4875

    @cepfins4875

    6 жыл бұрын

    samee!

  • @nowimqueer2130

    @nowimqueer2130

    6 жыл бұрын

    ME TOO

  • @taylorb5475

    @taylorb5475

    6 жыл бұрын

    Me too, I like cats but I prefer dogs

  • @barbaravallecillos5309

    @barbaravallecillos5309

    6 жыл бұрын

    Laura Lu same

  • @godhateseveryonewhodoesntr5977

    @godhateseveryonewhodoesntr5977

    6 жыл бұрын

    I want a dragon

  • @cristinahawke
    @cristinahawke6 жыл бұрын

    "We shop at IKEA." LOL

  • @annieball934

    @annieball934

    6 жыл бұрын

    Riley Hawke Music LIESSSSSSS I hate ikea lmao😂

  • @pamaexe1177

    @pamaexe1177

    6 жыл бұрын

    Annie Ball, Same 😂

  • @woosan6594

    @woosan6594

    5 жыл бұрын

    Riley Hawke Music i don’t get it- can someone explain jdjtjgjg

  • @zivotjepes2
    @zivotjepes26 жыл бұрын

    who is that girl? we have chemistry but she doesn't know yet :)

  • @angeguchet2834

    @angeguchet2834

    6 жыл бұрын

    Andrea Mikušová 😂😂 yeah sure...

  • @zivotjepes2

    @zivotjepes2

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ange Guchet realy, I have this feeling :D but also it's her win :D

  • @angeguchet2834

    @angeguchet2834

    6 жыл бұрын

    Andrea Mikušová 😂😂yes, I think so too. I really feel the tension between her and you

  • @zivotjepes2

    @zivotjepes2

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ange Guchet :D :D yes the tension is everywhere :D

  • @angeguchet2834

    @angeguchet2834

    6 жыл бұрын

    Andrea Mikušová yeah right, so much that I think I am pregnant😂😂

  • @internetslayer9000
    @internetslayer90006 жыл бұрын

    I would say you forgot about the whole flannel thing, but..it's kinda true so nvm lmao

  • @Angelvalare

    @Angelvalare

    6 жыл бұрын

    actually I don't own anything Flannel lol

  • @makaylamills5380

    @makaylamills5380

    6 жыл бұрын

    iputtheinternetonmyback no it’s no- *realizes I’m wearing flannel * GOD DAWM IT XD

  • @kmskys4321

    @kmskys4321

    6 жыл бұрын

    iputtheinternetonmyback I don't wear flannels

  • @soda_3121

    @soda_3121

    5 жыл бұрын

    My dumb self freaked out over your profile picture.

  • @user-ld5vg2si9k

    @user-ld5vg2si9k

    5 жыл бұрын

    i wore flannels before i realise i was gay

  • @dinamariexo382
    @dinamariexo3826 жыл бұрын

    I don't think the uhaul thing is a lesbian thing. I think it's a girl thing. A lot of girls fall hard and fast. If guys were down I think that would happen a lot in straight relationships too.

  • @philosoraptordied66milyrsa22

    @philosoraptordied66milyrsa22

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dina MariexO Okay so true? I hate commitment but my latest bf totally fell for me and fell hard in less than a month and I noped tf out of there, he said “I love you” on the first day of dating!! Literally just asked me out like 2-3 hours before then. I prefer to wait and get to really see beforehand, he scared me out of it and broke it off only a few weeks in.

  • @fez1732

    @fez1732

    5 жыл бұрын

    Actually I’d say that guys fall harder

  • @charlenec9543
    @charlenec95436 жыл бұрын

    She looks like the type of girl that would take all the fem girls I liked. 😪

  • @user-qw1jp5jv6t
    @user-qw1jp5jv6t5 жыл бұрын

    I don't hate men, I just can't imagine being in a relationship with them

  • @helloitsmeKP2
    @helloitsmeKP26 жыл бұрын

    This channel has so much potential. I can really see it being something big, especially if you guys uploaded more often and had a lot of people feature. This channel could potentially help a lot of gay/bisexual/queer youth and it probably already has! I can see it being similar to some of the videos Buzzfeed makes (but better). Keep up the good work! I love it

  • @annieball934
    @annieball9346 жыл бұрын

    “We all own cats” **while stroking my cat** That’s not true!

  • @Aj-ct4lh
    @Aj-ct4lh6 жыл бұрын

    "We shop at IKEA",,,that is so damn true omfg

  • @cameron4015
    @cameron40156 жыл бұрын

    I fit a lot of these stereotypes lol .. sorry world

  • @Blueishyellow11
    @Blueishyellow116 жыл бұрын

    She's so beautiful 😍

  • @allieissocoollikee
    @allieissocoollikee6 жыл бұрын

    Loved how inclusive this was!

  • @billiemae2853

    @billiemae2853

    6 жыл бұрын

    allieissocoollikee I hated how inclusive this was.

  • @Angelvalare
    @Angelvalare6 жыл бұрын

    AND! We dont want EVERY woman we see!!!!!.... we do have taste(no pun intended lol) and types of attractions

  • @raismin739

    @raismin739

    2 жыл бұрын

    yeah! thsi is probably the second most diffused steretype after the hate men thing and it's so false lol

  • @86753090811
    @867530908116 жыл бұрын

    LMAOOOO. ...we shop at ikea 😂😂😂

  • @maily2195
    @maily21956 жыл бұрын

    WE SHOP AT IKEA. LMFAOO GOOD BYE.

  • @sweatersteacandlesxo9697
    @sweatersteacandlesxo96976 жыл бұрын

    OMG yes to all of these jesus!!! also you are hecka pretty wtf

  • @kyaraven8706
    @kyaraven87065 жыл бұрын

    1- sometimes I do 2- hell no. I’m so bad at sports. 3- no way. What’s mine Is mine. 4- never seen either 5- I always have bras on 6- I love dogs 7- nope 8- I shave. 9- sometimes I am 10- I don’t hate men. I just don’t feel anything towards them 11- nope

  • @KorababeeyTV
    @KorababeeyTV6 жыл бұрын

    I missed her face 😍😍 shes so beautiful 😘 y'all need more videos guys I would love to see more content..

  • @sim-641
    @sim-6416 жыл бұрын

    Another one is that (at least where I'm from) if you're femme, like me, you can't be gay because you don't look butch lmao

  • @savannahzamora6513

    @savannahzamora6513

    6 жыл бұрын

    sim - I relate

  • @alexander_yoko

    @alexander_yoko

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm a guy, and I only date butches. And manly guys.

  • @angelanguyen3372
    @angelanguyen33726 жыл бұрын

    Last time I watched your video it was when I was in the closet and watched your coming out vid like every other day, and you guys only had like 7 videos or something. And Now I'm like half out. Happy I found your channel again ( don't be offended I never subscribed to lgbt channels when I was fully closeted)

  • @TechBroNina
    @TechBroNina6 жыл бұрын

    Your channel blew uppppp I love the glow

  • @Sunflowers9191
    @Sunflowers91916 жыл бұрын

    None of those stereotypes fit to me except for the cat one haha.

  • @m.lalenyapeters1685

    @m.lalenyapeters1685

    6 жыл бұрын

    Livelifelaugh same lol

  • @violet4239
    @violet42395 жыл бұрын

    Omg, got a little scared when you started (unintentionally) implying that only cis women can be lesbians, but was quickly relieved when you said “trans women are women so they can be lesbians”. And acknowledging that you had to explain it to make it clear. You’ve earned my sub!! Go trans lesbians! We love u! You’re included as lesbian sisters and always have been! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @rebeccag5042
    @rebeccag50425 жыл бұрын

    I have seen every episode in OITNB lmao, I love it sm and it helped me come to terms with my bisexuality

  • @thegaydemons4282
    @thegaydemons42824 жыл бұрын

    Her: Every lesbians is good at sports Me: Nahhhhh, im the thater kid, and i draw

  • @timmyshimies4653

    @timmyshimies4653

    4 жыл бұрын

    im just the thater kid I don't draw

  • @aliceaizza2273
    @aliceaizza22736 жыл бұрын

    OMG did I just hear BEIJOS?? As in Portuguese? I just got excited by hearing my first language hahah

  • @YuLi_R.
    @YuLi_R.6 жыл бұрын

    Lmao These are facts!!!Cause I've never seen a single ep of The L Word 😂

  • @briescobar8927
    @briescobar89275 жыл бұрын

    The frank ocean intro made me subscribe

  • @romyyyy7106
    @romyyyy71066 жыл бұрын

    1.She's cute 2. That Free Love verse at the end was fucking great

  • @suspirian2359
    @suspirian23595 жыл бұрын

    The introooo!!! 😰💕

  • @Saaaaaaraaaaahhhh
    @Saaaaaaraaaaahhhh5 жыл бұрын

    wow her hair... so beautiful!

  • @yodelinglizard8076
    @yodelinglizard80766 жыл бұрын

    I literally love this woman omg

  • @marthapalving5702
    @marthapalving57026 жыл бұрын

    lol the sterotype about hatenig men literally the first thing my mom ask when i came out to her if i hated men

  • @lukanieuwenhuijsen3347
    @lukanieuwenhuijsen33476 жыл бұрын

    I mean I've watched every season of the l word and orange is the new black

  • @cayterined5148
    @cayterined51485 жыл бұрын

    It's been 3 years I'm still in love with destiny's curly hair

  • @tbh_6692
    @tbh_66925 жыл бұрын

    We all shop at Home Depot.. NO WE SHOP AT IKEA SWEEEEEEDDDDDEEEEENNNNNNNNNNNNNN

  • @10casipongkyreljaren81
    @10casipongkyreljaren815 жыл бұрын

    She's so pretty! 💕

  • @sarac286
    @sarac2866 жыл бұрын

    I just came out bisexual . And I am loving it !!

  • @pyrotechone
    @pyrotechone5 жыл бұрын

    Can we appreciate the JCole In the background. 😍 Also this video lowkey describes me 😂

  • @stormylovely8912
    @stormylovely89125 жыл бұрын

    My girlfriend and I have been dating for a month and joke about moving in together way too much😂

  • @user-bz3mn9zj3x
    @user-bz3mn9zj3x6 жыл бұрын

    intro of frank ocean is crazy!!

  • @reereedeedee
    @reereedeedee6 жыл бұрын

    You guys need more videos !

  • @bitescratchkill6849
    @bitescratchkill68495 жыл бұрын

    “Lesbians hate men” sis if only you knew how much I talk about pretty boys,,,

  • @lunamalfoy7
    @lunamalfoy75 жыл бұрын

    2:00 ...Is it bad that I really like Hardware stores when I was a kid. Was this the first sign that I was gay?

  • @briannamartinez335
    @briannamartinez3355 жыл бұрын

    I’ve rewatched every season on OITNB so...

  • @jessicastokesxo
    @jessicastokesxo6 жыл бұрын

    i love the uhaul story😂

  • @superdemonboy
    @superdemonboy4 жыл бұрын

    This uhaul thing is a completely new term to me and I didn't know it was a thing. I feel like it goes deeper than that, though. My best "educated guess" is that gay people in general may be faster to shack up simply because it's much harder to find fellow lgbt people offline - especially one that you're compatible with. That's something a lot of us heterosexual people take for granted. As hard as it is for US for find a partner, it's ten times harder for members of the lgbt community. So it makes sociological sense to me that when you find that needle in a haystack you'd want to speed things up a bit.

  • @superdemonboy

    @superdemonboy

    4 жыл бұрын

    Btw, I like how the moral of the story and final conclusion was, "These stereotypes aren't true! Well, except, a lot of them are..."

  • @sophiadeg9266
    @sophiadeg92665 жыл бұрын

    why am I like in love rn wtf

  • @jinxesvixen9978
    @jinxesvixen99786 жыл бұрын

    I sometimes envy the male species it usually occurs during my menstrual cycle 😤😖...also is IKEA cheap? Why am I watching this ? Do I want a tattoo ? Why was this recommended for me ?!

  • @humacorn7434
    @humacorn74346 жыл бұрын

    Can we talk about destinys arm tattoo? Like seriously it's amazing! The cats one gets me to laugh because I can't stand cats 😆

  • @LunaEstr3lla
    @LunaEstr3lla6 жыл бұрын

    YAS Im always talking about ikea! But also I love Home Depot 🙈

  • @alyson6120
    @alyson61205 жыл бұрын

    I hate how no one would accuse me of liking every boy I meet and being bisexual, everyone assumes that I like every girl but I don’t. That’s dumb.

  • @onlytoldthemoon2753
    @onlytoldthemoon27536 жыл бұрын

    „We stop at ikea“ 😂👍

  • @lee-annheart6805
    @lee-annheart68056 жыл бұрын

    That up there is true talk but funny somehow

  • @maddieking8834
    @maddieking88345 жыл бұрын

    I've seen all the episodes of orange is the new black😂😂😂🤦‍♀

  • @BrianaCampo
    @BrianaCampo6 жыл бұрын

    I love that she mentioned polyamorous people :)

  • @elliothegland7843
    @elliothegland78435 жыл бұрын

    3:15 I feel the need to adress that not everyone knows from a very young age and you’re not a «fake lesbian» or you don’t «really like girls» if you find out later. Everyone finds out at different times and if you’re 5 or 68 it doesn’t matter. :)

  • @harmonyexists2834

    @harmonyexists2834

    2 жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏

  • @KatSantanaok
    @KatSantanaok6 жыл бұрын

    You're so cool!

  • @jacquelinekilkelly2076
    @jacquelinekilkelly20766 жыл бұрын

    This was a great video omg

  • @anonamass9244
    @anonamass92445 жыл бұрын

    I could literally listen to her talk forever XD

  • @evierodriguez8990
    @evierodriguez89906 жыл бұрын

    I've seen every episode of the L Word and OITNB 😂

  • @MsCassidy43
    @MsCassidy435 жыл бұрын

    I’m 15 and I’ve watched every LAST SINGLE EPISODE OF THE L WORD😂😂! GREAT SHOW!!! I recommend 😚 I’m Gay and a girl btw

  • @MintyUniverse0
    @MintyUniverse06 жыл бұрын

    I am a lesbian and I suck at sports so much. I hate all the lesbian stereotypes. Yeah, I'm a tomboy. And I love both dogs and cats. But I am allergic to cats. I fit like none of the stereotypes honestly.

  • @kaykay_sweet8681
    @kaykay_sweet86816 жыл бұрын

    What is the song in 4:24?

  • @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327
    @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe93275 жыл бұрын

    I think I live under an uncultured rock, because I have NEVER heard of these stereotypes before.

  • @larkinwile4479
    @larkinwile44796 жыл бұрын

    I came out as bi at 11 and my mom said I’m too young and trying to grow up too fast... I’m like nahh I’m tryna be myself boi

  • @ivann19
    @ivann196 жыл бұрын

    I think you forgot an important one: attitude and body language and gestures

  • @heartlessvro
    @heartlessvro6 жыл бұрын

    Jcole outro 👌👌

  • @AlexPerez-fd8wd
    @AlexPerez-fd8wd6 жыл бұрын

    Life would be easier for me too I wouldnt have to keep strapping it on

  • @auresasworld8567
    @auresasworld85675 жыл бұрын

    I shave!

  • @hopetikvah2294
    @hopetikvah22946 жыл бұрын

    flannels.

  • @itisme8076
    @itisme80765 жыл бұрын

    You are so gorgeous!!

  • @kevindebruyne179
    @kevindebruyne1795 жыл бұрын

    She's so pretty!!!

  • @gracecleveland680
    @gracecleveland6806 жыл бұрын

    I do shop at IKEA more than I should 😂😂😂

  • @thepriceofsalt9003

    @thepriceofsalt9003

    6 жыл бұрын

    Grace_is Weird SAME, but thing is i'm a bi that leans towards girls, so basically i'm fine being called lesbian or gay lol

  • @marymonsour5044
    @marymonsour50442 жыл бұрын

    Exactly!!

  • @zaynakhan7918
    @zaynakhan79185 жыл бұрын

    She really hasn’t watched orange is the new black, she out here thinking it comes on tv.

  • @TurnTablesRDizzy
    @TurnTablesRDizzy6 жыл бұрын

    Destiny 😍😍😍😭😭😭

  • @mialuisa4505
    @mialuisa45055 жыл бұрын

    Oh my goodness she is so pretty

  • @daniflowing
    @daniflowing5 жыл бұрын

    “we all shop at home depot. no we shop at ikea” 😂

  • @yo_jazzyshepherd2455
    @yo_jazzyshepherd24554 жыл бұрын

    Flannels seems right to me??🤷

  • @Dawn-eb6mx
    @Dawn-eb6mx6 жыл бұрын

    What's the intro song

  • @melanieolsson606
    @melanieolsson6065 жыл бұрын

    Use a noise reduction for the sound :)

  • @2020Bookworm
    @2020Bookworm2 жыл бұрын

    You don't have to explain yourself to other people. Other people are strangers. Tell them to get a life of their own.

  • @lea-cf9ok
    @lea-cf9ok6 жыл бұрын

    omg I love your voice

  • @miasaratlija9246
    @miasaratlija92464 жыл бұрын

    Why is this in my recommendation now??? I don't mind

  • @Lover-of-Creative-Priorities
    @Lover-of-Creative-Priorities5 жыл бұрын

    The only time I like stereotypes is in movie's and it's very VERY creative Kinda like the American pie movie's or sex drive or anything that mirrors those

  • @plucee13
    @plucee135 жыл бұрын

    I saw this when it first came out, then I came out this year.....most of these apply to me. Am I supreme gay?

  • @YapCorner
    @YapCorner5 жыл бұрын

    I remember my lesbian crushes were Azula, Asami, Shego, and Korra. Only came to realise this now I’m 19

  • @jjcastillo6357
    @jjcastillo63576 жыл бұрын

    what’s the intro song?

  • @dll5765
    @dll57655 жыл бұрын

    💛12.18 Time: 4:15 A.M.

  • @Nobody-du7mj
    @Nobody-du7mj5 жыл бұрын

    id shop at ikea if we had one

  • @miut7995
    @miut79952 жыл бұрын

    She’s pretty and we have similar vibe. 👏🏼

  • @oatsbro5948
    @oatsbro59486 жыл бұрын

    I honestly don’t know how to start a conversation with my crush. lmaoo she probably isn’t bi, so I’m gonna give up.

  • @Tacothebandit
    @Tacothebandit6 жыл бұрын

    What’s the intro song ?

  • @Cocktailkatze
    @Cocktailkatze6 жыл бұрын

    I think I just fell in love

  • @guiltysearches130
    @guiltysearches1303 жыл бұрын

    Yes