I liked your video very much. My last girlfriend was in 2010. She came from Tennessee to Massachusetts to be with me. She lived with me for 2 months but could not let go of the woman she lived with to come live with me. She felt she had to call her every day just in case we didn't work out. We had more arguments over that and until I told her that she had to go because she wouldn't let go of her. If you're going to be in a relationship with a woman, be in it wholeheartedly. Don't play the silly games and tear both your lives apart.

@jordanamichellegutman

Жыл бұрын

I'm very sorry she hurt you and wasn't ready to move on from her prior relationship. But don't give up. Hot lesbians are everywhere, and someone way better is out there waiting for you.

@jbsang54

Жыл бұрын

@@jordanamichellegutman Thank you! I really hope so! ;)

Wow. I didn't realise I was doing a lot of these and why I was doing it. As a lesbian, I've always liked the attention I get from men I consider to be good looking, though I have no interest in being sexual with them, I gained some sort of gratification from them thinking they have a chance with me. This video made me more aware of my toxic behaviour and I'm already working on changing this, as chances are I've subconsciously done this to other women.

@jordanamichellegutman

10 ай бұрын

It's really great to be self-aware and willing to work on changing the things we do that hurt other people. Lots of people will never care or be brave enough to self-reflect and change in that way. - But the lesbian community is small, so even just one person increasing awareness to avoid hurting other women will have a big impact on everyone. 💪🏻 🌈 💪🏻

@JazzyJ96771

9 ай бұрын

@@jordanamichellegutman thank you, I'm glad that's the case

This is actually all good advice for straight dudes as well.

@jordanamichellegutman

Жыл бұрын

Right on 🙌🏻

@thehammeredpair6748

4 ай бұрын

I'm here at the start of a new relationship that's getting serious. I specifically looked for Women v Women so that I wouldn't believe these things happen because I'm a man. Thank you

@themaggattack

3 ай бұрын

And for straight women- because straight men play these games, too.

I think all the single lesbians on here who had their heart broken from these games should date eachother. That way you can all skip the bs from shitty dating sites. I know that's close to how I met my gf and we've been together nearly 3 years now.

@yerneedsry

4 ай бұрын

Hey I am #1 in line here of your idea, anyone wanna chat ? lets take it slow, Im very loving no games..can be seen on OK cupid, Dawn.

The silent treatment thing is so messed up.

@jordanamichellegutman

5 ай бұрын

Totally.

I’m really glad I watched this. I always felt guilty about my reactions to how I was being treated. I can honestly say that every woman I’ve ever dated has played one game if not all at once. To make it worse, online dating seems to be all about power games. They get you interested and 👻 as soon as you make plans

@jordanamichellegutman

Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry you've interacted with so many women like this. Not all women play games though, so just move on as fast as possible from the ones who do, and keep believing in love.

@warrior100girl

7 ай бұрын

so true sis..I hate these kind of toxic behaviors

Yayyyy!! You're back! Very helpful.

@jordanamichellegutman

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! I'm glad this was helpful 🌈

Glad you're active on youtube again :) I love your advice!

@jordanamichellegutman

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! 🙏🏼💃🏻

@michellelohde8683

Жыл бұрын

@@jordanamichellegutman I got back together with my ex fiancee I got bowel cancer how thanks her being with me at hospital all night last night ??.

Welcome back!

@jordanamichellegutman

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! 💃🏻

It took me awhile to figure this out about a certain woman, I am happy to have learnt that she will only be an old fantasy 😉

I truly love your videos. I just wish I knew some of these things that I have been through by being used and played with in the wrong way. Wow. Thank you

@jordanamichellegutman

7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much. I'm sorry you had to learn these things hard way. But at least, with this new clarity, you can start to trust yourself that it won't happen again.

Spot on

@jordanamichellegutman

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🎯

I'm done w/games. These dumpster dive dating apps can all burn. They're cesspools for codependency, dysfunction & mindf*cks. I'm going to live my life & me & my wife will have to bump into each other out in the world. Likely at Home Depot.

@jordanamichellegutman

Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry you've run into bad situations on the apps. I encountered some toxic women there as well. But dating as an adult (regardless of whether you are on the apps) means you end up connecting with some unsavory humans and getting hurt here and there. But it's nothing we can't heal and bounce back from. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger. The truth is, practically every woman who is single and serious about starting a relationship is on the apps. There are lots of gems, hidden among the riff-raff. Unfortunately refusing to engage on the apps results in missing all of the high-quality women who are searching for you there. I experienced the dumpster dive that the apps can be, and I got my heart kicked around too. But in the end, I found my life-partner using the apps. And I advise all the women I coach to stick with it, despite the nonsense.

@ericah6546

6 ай бұрын

​@@aicofrena505 You're missing the point. It's hard for women who love women too. Besides, we are also competing with you when the girl is bi.

@yerneedsry

4 ай бұрын

Whats the best apps? @@jordanamichellegutman

Thank you so much helps alot

Woah yeah that emotional game is not cool at all. Everything you said is so true

@jordanamichellegutman

Жыл бұрын

Right on! 🙌🏼

I’ve been single for the last 14 years and have dated a little bit but it didn’t work out, therefore I have given up. I tried dating apps but found them to be full of catfish, so I stopped using them. The last women I asked out for coffee 1 hour before we were to meet had a panic attack and cancelled. She then tried to pull me into her emotional drama which I blocked after 3 texts. I’ve been in three serious relationship’s and was engaged in the last one. I’m not on social media because I have 0 interest in it. I have been too social gathering for women but haven’t found anyone. I feel I will be alone for the rest of my life.

@jordanamichellegutman

Жыл бұрын

It's very frustrating when we are single and lonely and nothing seems to work out. It's easy to get cynical. We've all been there. You're not alone. But the important thing to remember is that fears are lies. When we tell ourselves nothing will ever work out (and that we'll be alone forever), that's just a lie. There are thousands of women out there who you would be super attracted to, who would be just as into you if you ever were to meet. It's just a matter of finding them. And that means getting out there and tolerating the catfish, the crazy drama of women who have panic attacks, the social gatherings where we leave without meeting anyone, and all the other nonsense... Because it's nothing you can't handle. And finding someone is a numbers game. It's about the number of times you put yourself into situations where you can meet new people, both online and in person, both personally and professionally.

I love your videos! Super high quality and helpful. I would not be surprised if this channel took off at some point!!

@jordanamichellegutman

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 🙏🏼

Thank youuuu

@jordanamichellegutman

7 ай бұрын

🙏🌈🙏

Wish saw this video some 13 years ago ! Damn so much truth bombs

@jordanamichellegutman

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! 🙌🏼💥🌈

I am manifesting the perfect woman for me. My only lesbian relationship lasted two years. HOLLY Molly, it was not a positive experience for me. I wish I had those two wasted years back.

@jordanamichellegutman

5 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry that the relationship wasn't a positive one. I hope there are (at the very least) some lessons you can learn from the experience, so that next time you'll see the red flags and it won't happen again. 🙏

Am a lesbian and I can't find one because of the place I stay, am dieing slowly please can any one help me out

excellent - thank you!~

@jordanamichellegutman

Жыл бұрын

🙌🏻 🌈 🙌🏻

Keep making videos please

@jordanamichellegutman

Жыл бұрын

I will. Thank you!

My ex cheated on me with a guy and now she love me but she don’t want me to say hi or she get so angry at me idk why I miss her so much

😬

Lesbian relationships are the hardest! Because it's made up of TWO women. Not just one.

@honghongtae9429

Ай бұрын

What is this even supposed to mean 🙄

Where on earth have you been? I watched your videos during lockdown then u went off the radar🙄

@jordanamichellegutman

Жыл бұрын

I'm back now, and there will be new videos 💃🏻 Also, I have a podcast called Women Wanting Women, so check that out for more content!

No she wants me more and i dont play emotional games, im just not interest and give a woman silent treatment, while she acts unspokingly weird or stands in the middle of a room, repressing my own choice to speak with others. Like shes not "my world". I think a woman should accept a no anf go on with their own life. Having no interest and ignoring out of being annoyed from needy attention seeking is not playing emotional games I was 13 years porn addicted and after cutting it was so abnormal...i think most women today watch porn, mind games and netflix, infiltrating their mind with toxic shit against any loving bond and self care. Emotional games drain my energy and are time waste I have a pluto semi square moon aspect and the best recommendation is: no porn, no netflix, healthy communication and instinct expression for subtle manipulation tactis. Use it for teaching others and let grow your strong emotions. Write, draw, sing, hear music, dance, walk, talk feelings out authentically. Pluto is feminine and transformative, let it be for the better

I won't date because I hate games.

@jordanamichellegutman

Жыл бұрын

There's no reason to be afraid of games because they're nothing you can't handle as long as you have good boundaries and high standards 💪🏻

@RiseofTaitoShirei

Жыл бұрын

@@jordanamichellegutman They're still childish and a waste of time. I don't want to waste time

@tiadeese

Жыл бұрын

@@RiseofTaitoShirei ...I totally get this. Just got ghosted from someone who was all into me. Yet out of the blue: she falls off the grid. I'm done. This societal mindful*ck of dating is EXHAUSTING.

I’d pay good money to wake up straight in the a.m. . Doesn’t really matter now that I’m nearly 58, and invisible. And bitter as hell. Lesbians are SO effed up! Everything she mentioned here has happened to me several times. She nailed it ! At least 20 years too late. I learned one of my favorite music artists recently decided she was a lesbian. Poor woman.

I've finally found it.... WOMEN'S RED PILL

Short n Sweet: women want me to do all the heavy labor including the driving, housework, yardwork, play the guy in dress-up games. Men just want to tie me up LOL.

Damn woman can be so complicated 😅💔

@jordanamichellegutman

Жыл бұрын

But nothing you can't handle!!! 🙌🏻

@yerneedsry

4 ай бұрын

And then theres ones like me that are not at all complicated..

@themaggattack

3 ай бұрын

So can men.

Every lesbian I have ever met plays an emotional game usually a power trip play. So the game perpetuates because I'm not getting played- I'm going to play her first... Ugg... This cycle has gone on and lesbian history as far back as I can remember. That's why I keep a side dude- no drama lots of gifts ,lots of sex. You don't have to go to the other side to be happy but it helps to have something on the side cuz the girls are mostly game players and monkey Branch girl to girl.

@theoreticalviews2939

Жыл бұрын

🤮🤮

@lakpoam4816

7 күн бұрын

Wtf????

This is the classic example of a narcissist. Man or woman.