"life of a gold digger". Lots of sugar daddy's and lessons learned harshly. "Life is what you make of it." You chose it and you lived it. There's no such thing as mistakes. You knew exactly what you were doing. A mistake is things that are out of your control, not things you purposely do. Anyways, now you know what life is really about now. Take care of your daughter. Good thing you found your family again. The lesson here is... The best teachers are the ones that share their experiences with us. If we don't learn from it, then we'll learn on our own THE HARD WAY.

@johnmimisjourney3940

2 жыл бұрын

Hais yog tshaj!!

@bosslady8498

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed! Being a poj laib hooe gold digger with no brain is not the business! Everyone gets old and look will get ugly as we age but a good heart don’t . This is what happened when you only have the look and depend on others to care for you, once they gone you left at zero . The cycle will keep on repeats if the person itself don’t change and work for his or her money.

People usually do not understand their parents until they have kids of their own. I was lucky to learn in my younger days that my parents were my biggest supporter. Even when I chose to do something they didn't want (moving out and then out of state). In this world, only your parents will love you unconditionally.

We all make mistakes and live with the consequences. You did everything to hurt your parents; I’m glad you were smart and chose older men who loved you. And most importantly you didn’t get into drugs and alcohol. I wish you well and may God continue to watch over you so you have precious time to spend with your daughter.

@ir0nm0nkey123

2 жыл бұрын

Mistakes..?? You really think so? I thought mistakes only happened once or twice. She purposely doing nonstops over and over again and you call that mistakes?🤣🤣

@bosslady8498

2 жыл бұрын

@@ir0nm0nkey123 some guys cheat all the time and still claimed as “mistake” so 🤷🏻‍♀️ 😂🤣💀

@ir0nm0nkey123

2 жыл бұрын

@@bosslady8498 yeah I know, but what she did wasn’t cheating. Nothing was important to her then money. She’ll sleep or go with anyone who she think has money😅😅 and she’ll do it over and over again.😁😁

Wow. You are a true poj laib. Lol. Thanks for sharing. I think you needed to tell the story so you can let go and peacefully.

You say the more you sleep with guys. You learn more about life 🤦🏻 Peb hmong we call that “maus deb” 😂

Thov vajtsw foom hmoov zoo rau koj os leej muam

Sister, glad you found your family again. A lesson learn best is the self taught lesson. Hope someday your daught could write a book about your legacy that you left behind. Thanks for sharing your love story.

Zoo mloog kawg li os

Nothing beats momma's love. I wish you all the best.

Zoo kawg rau cov menyuam tsi mloog lus kawm kawg li. Xav kom kuv tus ntxhais mloog zaj no ua kev kawm

Peb ua neeg nyob yuav tau ua qhov zoo xwb os yus niam yus txiv yeej yog tus hlub yus tshaj xwb

I’m so sorry for all the things you have gone through. Me too, I made stupid mistakes in life. My mistakes weren’t like yours but I had a daughter at a young age. I tried to guide my daughter to walk a different path and tried to prevent her from making stupid mistakes like mine. No matter what I’ve said or disciplined her, she decided to move away from me, because with me-only give her stress and unhappiness. She is an adult now. I miss her so much and there is never a day go by I don’t think of her. I think that it is a blessing in disguise, every time my daughters say something hurtful to me-it makes me appreciate and love my mom more. I hope that the day she realizes my love for her I would still be here to hugs her forever. Don’t be too hard on yourself. As mother to mother, I know for a fact that she has forgiven you the moment she reunited with you again. Sending you healing and speedy recovery ❤️‍🩹 ❤

We all make mistakes and it's humbling to know that you've made changes to better yours and your daughter's future. Best wishes to you sister

@vivo8070

2 жыл бұрын

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I'm glad you learned from your mistake. Don't matter how long it took. Focus on the love now and your daughter. Wishing you much blessing

Good story so far. As you said you may have learned your lesson. Seemed like you enjoyed your life when U were young but hard at the end. Keep fighting n enjoy your time w ur daughter. Hope she listen to u.. good luck for u n ur daughter

Pray for you to live a long life with your daughter!

Niam ntsuab teev aw mloog koj cov neej neeg txhua hnub ces txoj tu siab los yus quaj heev os

God bless you. No one is perfect. We all make mistakes. Forgive yourself and continue to do good.

Thank you for sharing your story. I definitely listen with a open heart and mind. I’m sure you didn’t mean to hurt your parents, sometime things happen for a reason. ♥️

Yes, there's no love like parents love. How can anybody else love you more beside your partner. Partner may love you more but sometimes, it's only for awhile but your parents are forever. Any parent want their kids to do well in life. Parents will always be there for you when there's no others. As for brothers and sisters, they can only support you mentally. They can only be happy for you and your family. Best of luck to you and your future.

Thanks for putting your intro song back on! 😍

Everyone learns from their mistakes. Big or small. That what shapes us to be who we are as of today. Young or old, everyone makes mistakes. I am happy that you found your family again.

It is aways those who have parents and they go on acting like they have no parents or no support system at home. Our parents work really hard so we should all be grateful.

Story starts at 2:48

Thank you for sharing your story sister. I am so glad you turned back and reunited with your family. Yes, your mom must have been very heart broken. The best thing is that you finally become a good person for her. May the Lord bless you and your family.

@hxmobile1679

2 жыл бұрын

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@hxmobile1679

2 жыл бұрын

Io km in k

@hxmobile1679

2 жыл бұрын

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I believe I can fly!

@suesue242

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@bosslady8498

2 жыл бұрын

😂🤣

Why sad? Like you and your daughter mentioned, you have tasted the 🌈 and had a good life. Be happy of what you've got...

Tseem poj laib tiag lau koj naj...

Leej twg los thaum ciaj ces yus mus fab yus ib txoj kev thaum yuav tuag ces yuav coj los tab kaum niam txiv neej nus lub luag hauj lwm os

Wow your story muaj qhov bad plus good to the other to choose their path of life .why you still proud you had many men in your life is a gilf and you are a super love and cuddle hihihi

puas yog li koj hais ko tiag maj niam txiv txij nkawm yav laus tsis sib hlub tsis sib raug zoo li thaum hluas lawm o me muam aw.

Ua neej nyob yus tseb dab tsi yus cog dab yus yuav tau sau dab tsi ces yog lis kos ntag los mas. Vim koj tseb yam uas tsi zoo ces yus thiaj tau sau yam uas tsi zoo.tes zoo lis kos ntag .

No one is perfect, glad you learned from your own mistakes. Life isn’t too late to start over and better yourself from here on out.

Hahaha hais tau yog kawg nej tej kev liam kuv paub zoo heev thaum mus pw Tom tej qab choj ces ti npaum cas los xyeeb hlo yus lub cev rau lauv txawm yus ib leeg hos pes tsawg leej txiv neej los pw ua txoj ua tus tsis paub tsis hnov ki ces Kaj ntug lawv khwv tau nqaij, mov, zaub, dej, quav los sawv daws thiaj tau noj , yog lawm qhia ncaj kawg yom

Thank you for sharing your story for kids who are very stubborn and not listen to your parents good advices.

What a crazy life, I almost felt emptiness at the end because you didn’t have anyone in the end, and you finally went back home. It’s sad that you may not have enough time to spend with those who truly love you, may you find peace in the end.

In life, it is all about being young and free, but we all have a price to pay at the end. When we are old, sick or can do then we look back and wish we can change. If only was can go back and started to change ours destiny.

Tej laus niaj txhis piv lus tias tsiaj txhu tsis mloog tswv ces kawg tsov tom. Me tub me ntxhais tsis mloog niam txiv hais ces kawg ciaj dev.

😃😀😅😂😂😂

Kj ma mu ua laib ntev dhau lawm os poj laib aw mu nyob me ka teb e ca tsi xyuam tsim txiaj os tu viv ncau aw 😭😭😭😭

Glade to hear you reflect of your mistake. It's always too late when your realize your did wrong. Bite your teeth and continue living best you can. There's only one life. Life can't be revised nor edited.

Nam ntsuab teev kuv nyam noog koj ccov neej neeg heev lễ os vim lawv lub neej tsom 2 nyem thooj lawv lub hab

Peb cov ntxhais hmoob tsis mloog lus ces zoo li koj mas cas tseem tuaj muab hais rau peb mloog dab tsi nas peb tsis xav tau ib tug ntxhais zoo li koj nawb

@pebtsevxeemthoj3391

2 жыл бұрын

We not God here to judge anyone here…We are human and will make mistake in our life…At least she realizes her mistakes and come back to ask for forgiveness from her mom and she still received her mom’s love.

@sonihawj

2 жыл бұрын

@@pebtsevxeemthoj3391 Agreed! Not everyone agrees with her life choices but we can agree that she realized her mistakes and asked for forgiveness. It’s better late then never.

@kanetoews7747

2 жыл бұрын

@@pebtsevxeemthoj3391 well said

Zoo kawg li os ua koj rov qanat los lawm mog

Why regret? You did well... more than most "obedient" people did in 2-3 life times. You enjoyed life, met and married many rich, old men and inherited their entire wealth and in the end, your family still took you back. So it's like you got the best of both worlds. This is a great accomplishment. You'll probably be worst off if you took the path of a boring life as an obedient Hmong wife who just work 9-5, pop out babies and take care of them until you get old then your husband goes and marries a teen from Laos.

The best lesson learned are the ones you teach yourself.

Ib tug neeg yus niam yus txiv yus taub yus taub hau luaj nrig xwb luag hlub yus npaum cas yus thiaj loj yus tsis mloog niam txiv lus luag hais tsis tau yus li yus ua li yus siab nyiam.tus menyuam ntaw yeej tsis tau zoo neej ua Li os.tsis ntxov los yeej lig

Txog txij paub es Lig shah hwv lawm.

Txoj kev khav2 tias yus zoo nkauj os. Your siblings are correct, yog koj tsis yuav tuag ces koj yeej tsis rov los tiag. Thov lub ntuj kom koj tus ntxhias txhob siab phem rau koj li koj tau ua rau koj niam koj txiv nawb, vim koj yog neeg muaj mob ib tsam ces koj hos plaws nres.

In pursuit of your freedom, you lost valuable time with the ones that truly loved you. You were young and selfish but as humans we all make mistakes. Everyone deserves a second chance and I’m glad you found your way back. Take this opportunity to do good and enjoy your time with your family.

@dialee1729

2 жыл бұрын

Kkkkkl kkk

@aming3737

2 жыл бұрын

@@dialee1729, ືາ7เ.

Neeg tsis mloog niam mloog txiv hais ces yeej tsis vam meej ib sim neej li os tus sister aw

Yog u twb tsis mloog niam txiv hais ces tsis tas hlub u cov tsis tas hais u cov li cia nyias ua raws nyias txoj kev ntshaw xwb tiag ua neej nyob tsis muaj leej twg hlub mob siab npaum u niam u txiv txhua yam niam txiv qhia thiab ua rau tej me nyuam yeej yog yam zoo xwb sawv ntxov dhau lawm os me ntxhais aw txawm li cas los thov kom koj zoo xwb thiaj paub txog txoj kev ua niam ua txiv ntau thiab ntev mus rau yav tom ntej nawb

You really know what you are doing. You liked the easy and nasty unthinkable life you chose from.

God is giving you a second chance. Live the best of your life going forward. Be good, do good. It's unfortunate that your father passed but love those that are left especially your mom.

@choyuen968

2 жыл бұрын

He has given her many chances but maybe long suffering.

T3

Tej laus yeej ib txwm hais tias luag tsi cuag yug ua yug ua yug thiaj li paub qhov tseeb ces yog li no.

Tsis txhob tusiab yim ntau yim zoo xwb. Kavtsij mus nrhiiav tus tshiab ntxiv tsam tsis muaj sijhawm lawm tawb.

I’m guessing we as human don’t know loves till we have one as our own meaning children, this way we will understand the love our parents has for us..sorry for the timing you lost for your parents

Sound like a h0e story to me lol

@howardlee5654

2 жыл бұрын

Gold digger too

@bluewhisper5008

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

Put your advertising last

Understand the good news of Jesus Christ and be saved. Why did he come and who did he save and why do you and I need him.

Hahahaha ...May aw, cas koj mus caij "Titanic" lawn es ho tsis coj koj tus me Ntsuab Teev mus khawm koj duav ne....

the only thing you lucky to see your Mom when you come back. Everything you said is only good you.

This one should be retitled to, "Koj tau yam koj ua". LOL

@bosslady8498

2 жыл бұрын

Because they sick and dying and no one to care and burry them. Sad but true in most case .

Chick went to the cheapest tattoo shops lol

Luag ib txwm hais tias yus yug tau me nyuam yus thiaj paub txoj kev mob no ne

Is too late to felt remorse for what you did sis. You deserved what you get. Enjoy your life from now on while you still breathing. Like the elderly said when you have a child of your own you will know how much the elderly loves you.

Shes a damn scavenger. Type of women to look for a sugar daddy more so than a husband cause she dont wanna work.

Wow the life of a true gold digger. Remember sister….life is a process. U have to go through stages so u can truly appreciate ur surroundings and the one the was there for you all the time. The reason u can’t be good to ur family is you were too shallow and selfish. You only thought of urself and what ur heart desire. You thought that you can make it on ur own without ur family. Hopefully lesson learned and love ur family 2x more.

You are a real sugar baby hmong girl. Some one have to be the first one.

Thov pab caum kuv tshooj thiab os

Nyuj ua nyuj thauj nees ua nees ris xwb Txhob tu siab hahahaha

Death is unavoidable in life. We need to face that fact is fact. Heavy smoker, lung cancer. Heavy drinker, liver issue, You’re happy the way you lived, now it’s time to pay up. Don’t over stress too much and enjoy what is left.

“Like your daughter say, you got what you deserved.” I’m sorry you learned your lesson the hard way. Live and enjoy whatever time you have left with your daughter. Love and makeup to your mom for all the years they spent worrying about you. You can’t turn back time however just live your life and just enjoy the present moment. Good luck !

@johnbarron4843

2 жыл бұрын

Karma lmao

That's the definition of begin hypocrite, do as I say not as I do.

Thaum koj tus ntxhais qhov zoo nyob los txog ces nws yeej zoo tib yam li koj ntag Nplooj yoog kav noob yoog tsav koj puas tau paub?

Gold digger will suffer at the end.

@bosslady8498

2 жыл бұрын

True and she’s not just a gold digger but a hooe too! Sad for her !

Sister it’s too late for you now , but I’m glad you shared your story for young girls / boys who’s thinking about taking the same path as you did to think about it before making the wrong choice. Most young hmong American kids now days think this is a free country, but it’s not. It’s just the way how this country have rules and laws to govern it’s citizens.

Why ppl only learn when they R dying?

Your brothers dont know how to think because their wife wear the pants. But you have money, you dont need their pathetic pity. You didnt do anything wrong, you just choose a different path. At least you didnt turn to drugs and sell yourself off as a meaningless piece of trash. Just live for your daughter and make the times worth living.

Koj yog ib tug maum dev of this planet. Tuag mus zoo dua os koj.

Koj mas yog tsov dig muag xuas tau ntiv ghiav ntag los maj

Koj twb tia tau ntau thiaj zoo no ne ua cas ho txawj tia cas ib sij ib tug yuav mob tsawg zaus no thiab ma

Your husband & wife really loves you, but he/she can divorce you, not your parents.

You came back to your parents ONLY because you hit a dead end. You were wrong all the way. It is very late, the damage is done, but at least your daughter did NOT trail after you.

Kuv xav xa kuv zaj tuaj koj hai thiab yuav xa li ca thiaj laib

@solomoua5520

2 жыл бұрын

Hope we learn something good 😜

Good for you. You deserve every punishment you get...hahaha..

@bosslady8498

2 жыл бұрын

😮😂🤣

May what is your background music that you use for the beginning of your story?

Why do use the word mistake "yuam kev"? You intentionally did all the bad things you planned. So please don't use the word mistake

Talk means nothing. Even the devil knows what he id wrong and can advise others to do the same. You are all Talk. Why talking about it, we all have heard this kind of bad story for centuries, no one will learn from it. Bad people of each generation will continue to do bad, even your own parents advising you and you didn't believe. So why now advising us? You are not our parents, but a fool.

Thank you for sharing your story. I got very emotional in the middle of it. I hope you know that our Hmong parents also didn’t know better either. To raise their children especially daughters in America is challenging because we learn to find our own voice and live life in our terms. Without resources we can find ourselves in unfortunate situations. You did what you did to survive. And I hope you know your story meant a lot to me. Take care!

You are a true hypocrite. You want to do all the bad things yourself but you don't want your child to do the same. This story is selfish. I can do but you can't

Sister, sounds like you had loving parents but chose the YOLO path. you were lucky to find successful men who were attracted to your beauty as you said. You lived the life you wanted and gained from it as well. However, your beauty also worked against you because in the end you had to remove your tats and implants.

You should go work for Hmong community tell all our Hmong sisters to not be like you. Write a book about your experience you’ll probably be a famous person for our Hmong community