How do you leave your kids with just noodles? lol

Red flags over and you keep giving them Chances and allowing them to keep repeating.. you need to follow through on what you say and stop helping. You did the right thing for not allowing him to move in with you .. he’s old enough to survive on his own .

I don’t get how you and your wife keeps doing what your dab laug and his wife tells you what to do when you clearly saw that they’re scamming you and using you. It’s your own fault. Your wife should have supported you. Who cares if she looses the bonds between n her family.

@tinayang2268

2 жыл бұрын

Agree. I dont understand why they keep giving in when they clearly are not happy.

@7mouths

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. I don't get it either. Why kept doing it over and over again when you know how he is already. He is so evil and jealous.

@itsmaichee

2 жыл бұрын

Fr.

@bytfitnessfamily

2 жыл бұрын

Agree!!! Just smh on how they can continuously allowed the dablaug do this to them, I mean, come on after the time first I'm done!!! I don't care if it's my brother if he doesn't respect me and my husband I don't need him in my life! 🙄

Look in the Hmong dictionary for the word "ruam". It's this guy!

@maitxhiablis9926

2 жыл бұрын

For real ruam tiag2 li os nyiag thaub no

Lim hiam tiag tiag, koj tsis yeem cia los nrog koj nyob li nawb tus ntsej muag no nas

Honestly after the second strike where he took you to court I would have denounced him and all his brothers. I would even divorce his sister if she is not willing to comply. Can’t believe y’all let it go for so long.

Stay away from dishonest and evil people. Wherever they go there will be turmoils

Dang...this family is hlwb rwj hlwb npua xwb os. Gives me a headache.

Dang sorry I would divorce that entire family. And shame on your wife for not backing you as the husband back. I can’t stand marriages like this!!

They get to go on vacation and still have the gut to complain

Cov nus mas yeej saib tsis tau cov muam kiag, kuv ces ua siab mus ntseeg vaj tswv es muab ntsov nyuj dov pov tseg lawm nawb

Wow family feud 😈😈 Betrayal = hurts Jealousy = kills Or vice versa

Amen. Never loan money to family or friends. Dude, your too nice. You kept giving him chances. Me, once is enough. You are a nice yawg yee.

@korxiong792

2 жыл бұрын

I give money to friends and family for free no pay back .

@user-bw9ro3jz4v

2 жыл бұрын

@@korxiong792 I wouldn't mind either, but not Thousands of dollars.

Tus txiv tsev aw koj cov teeb meem no ces yog koj lub siab zoo dhau lawm xwb os

Zoo mloog heev li os yog li thov kev pab Lo ntawv ib tsoom me phooj ywg sawv daw hos pab mus Txhawb qhas kuv thiab os ua tsaug ntau

Can't finish the story...tooooo annoying

Problem after problem los yeeb vim koj yog ib tug txiv neej ruam ruam tiag tiag. Don't blame on your brother in law entirely, you are probably part of the problem.

This man is too weak that's why the brother in law kept taking advantage of him and his wife is too stupid.

Omg!!! This sister is seriously dum or what. Generosity has an expiration date. Blood is not always thicker than water. Should’ve just stopped after that car theft accusation.

Yes I’m the first to listen......😎

That is so true brother

yog kawg mas, yog tau cov dablaug zoo dablaug phem los never never ever borrowed nyiaj los yog qiv khoom muaj nuj nqi kiag li nawb, nco ntsoov tias nyiaj mus ces nyiaj luag ntxhi tabsis thaum nyiaj rov qab los ces nyiaj dub txig, nyiaj mus ces nyiaj luag luag thaum nyiaj rov qab los kawg ua plaub txog hnub tuag.

He took you to court!! That relationship should had been over after that lol

Stop letting him into your life. You so nice that you still love your wife and didn't leave her just because she has a shitty brother who keeps causing drama with you.

I can’t imagine he comes live with you guys.

Late commenting but all in all, I'm sorry to hear you both are going thru this situation. Honestly, this is both your wife and your fault. You both continued allowing the same person to continue not once but numerous times and on-going. Hope and prayers to you both to have knowledge and courage to step up to your bnl.

Don't live near selfishness relatives!! Not a healthy lifestyle!! Hmoob os Hmoob!! 😭💘😈🐆🐍💀

tu neeg tsis nyiam koj ce yuav ua kom koj pluag thiab tuag ma nw thiaj zoo siab

Liam tiag tiag

Zaj neej neeg no qhia tau zoo heev muaj ib cov hmoob yeej zoo li no kuv ntsib kiag lawm thiab

Yes!!! Kuv yog thawj tug tau mloog, ntawm zaj neej neeg no wooo!!

@cua1879

2 жыл бұрын

Nrog koj zoo siab os! Es koj yeej khoom plig dab tsi na?

@Gamerlamer2023

2 жыл бұрын

@@cua1879 😂😅

@bluewhisper5008

2 жыл бұрын

@@cua1879 I know right. Lol.

@mayshoualo4823

2 жыл бұрын

@@cua1879 exactly🤣🤣

That's hard to believe that court hearing will wait around for you if you are 2 hrs late. They don't do hmong time.

Tug siab kawg

Mloog ua kev kawm nawb .

I would have divorced his sister to get rid of him. So toxic.

@myprecious6751

2 жыл бұрын

He should've divorced his wife. Hell he should've knocked her brother teeth out

@dialee1729

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Hi

OMG, this story made me so angry listening! I hope eventually you did not allow him to move in.

Loan and family business never works out with family….Greed, jealously, selfishness, etc. ruins relationship and family forever.

@wisteria4550

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with. It all has to do with greed and jealousy. My family and I had a business together. At first my brother-in-law said we will never survived. But, when we started to make money, he wanted a piece of the pie. He never contributed ideas. He always criticized how lazy we are and will never succeed. But when it comes to $$$$, he wanted to get paid. This is why family doing business will never work.

@phengyang6133

2 жыл бұрын

@@wisteria4550 is doing good with his kids today so I

Funny Family!!!!

Wow ua human nyob Es cav muaj 1 hom neeg Es siab phem txog 6 theem no los cas koj tseem siab ntev tas ntev tuaj ntev dhau zaum tas zaum tuaj .koj mas thiaj hu tau ua superior yawm yij tiag2 lau yog kuv ces ntshe kuv twb xum g yuav nws tus muam kom dim kev lwj siab

@lhlh4513

2 жыл бұрын

Kuv yog ma nyiam koj zaj dab neeg no kawg kuv lo tu siab kawg li thiab

Cov neeg siab zoo thiab siab muag ces Txhua yam ua tag ua tuaj, pab tag pab tuaj, los tseem pab li vim koj lub siab zoo siab muag. Pab tag, luag ua phem rau yus los pheej xav tias nyaj tsi ua ntxiv lawm es thiaj pheej pab dua. Tab sis, cov neeg phem lim hiam yeej tsi mus txog twg. Karma yeej rov los qhia.

Nws siab phem dhau lawm es ntshai yog lub ntuj rau txim qhia nws xwb os

Looks like you and your wife never learned. You two allowed her brother to use and abused you over and over again. It’s you and your wife’s fault for allowing them to take advantage of you. Koj niag poj niam no ruam tiag hlwb tsis duav nws. Nws tus nus dev no ua phem rau neb tas los ua dua tab sis koj tus poj niam tsis zeem kiag. Koj niag poj niam no tsis paub tu siab li. Koj niag dablaug no ntsej muag tuab tiag yom.

@leek-te5dx

2 жыл бұрын

Just why like that. He tupid. In the words of Hmong English.

Ua tsaug ntau2 os. Hais tau yog tshaj plaws kuv kawm tau kiag lawm nawb.

3:15

Cov zoo li no tsis yog dab laug os yog dab ntxwg nyoog xwb os kav tsij muab tso plig mus yog qhov zoo tshaj

Greatest con man ever

Learn from watching dramas, ppl! If you want to go into business with family, get you a good lawyer. Draw up contracts, everybody sign. They no sign, they no go. Make everything legal so you don't leave no loose ends.

Nej cov poj niam mas yeej raug dag yooj yim thiab siab muag muag.

Wow!! kuv saib tus yawm yij dab laus no ntshais yog hmoob hais yog muaj teeb meem tiam tas los es thiaj rov los cob caub xwb, ho tsi yog li no ces zoo li nej pab no ruam tas tus ua dab tsi los tsi ua kom meej thiab tu kuas, thiaj muaj teeb meem qhov tas qhov tuaj li xwb naj!!

You gave way too many chances. Just listening to your story annoyed me to no end.

There's a saying in English, "Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me." Shame on you, guy in the story, for letting this good for nothing dablaug trick, lie, and cause all sorts of problems for you. Shame on your wife for constantly not supporting you and giving in to her awful brother. Toxic people should be kept at a distance with zero interaction, regardless if they are family or not. At the end of the day, all these problems arose because you didn't have the courage to say "NO" to both your dablaug and wife. If I were a guy with a wife who doesn't support me in my decisions to protect myself and my self-interests, then that wife better consider very seriously who she wants a life with---me or her loser brother. The rotten person may be your dablaug, but many of these problems could have been nipped in the bud if you had stood your ground.

@maimoua1371

2 жыл бұрын

Well said lol

@bytfitnessfamily

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!

Ruam ua luaj es tos li

Gosh I wouldn’t even dare to watch their kids ever!

Tus ntsej muag dab laug no liam tiag tiag!

Tus nus aws ces zoo lis koj thiab. Tsis muaj peev xwb hais no rau cov neeg txais yus nyiaj thiab siv yus ces thiaj muaj tej xwb txheej no.

Such a sad sad story 😢😢

Soon me n my brother will be like that

I'd like to see this from a 3rd person's view before deciding who is really at fault in this story. This guy makes himself sound too good and makes his brother in law sound too bad!

Nyob zoo og tug py kV tuaj saib koj dhau lawm og

Ungrateful a$$ bro in law. No need for family meeting anymore that’s one thing I hate about Hmong people. Family or not jus handle ur own business 🤜👨

Nej ces yog tsiaj tauj tsiaj xwb os. 2 tog yeej nyiam plaub ntug thiab tsis paub ua siab neeg ua siab tsiaj xwb.

It doesn't matter if they are family. When they are that toxic and use you like no tomorrow and screw you over and over again, it's time to cut them off. After the second time you're BIL screw you over, you should have cut him off already. But!!! We never know what we'll do till we're in your situation. Good luck brother

Dab laug os dab laug awsss. Txaus luag dhau. Lol

Poor pour p!

Kuv ce thawj2 zaug xwb zeem lawm cov neeg coj zoo li koj tus dab laug kom na

My husband and I learned the hard way, too. We’re now enemies due $$$$$ greed. Lesson learned NEVER do business with family members.

Kuv niam cov dab laug ce zoo li txoj neej neeg no kiag

I don’t know why Hmong people have SO many “hearts” to break?! It’s called having BOUNDARIES, people. It’s about teaching people how to treat you. They can’t respect you when you allow yourself to get mowed down over and over. I would have a difficult time having respect for someone who doesn’t know how to hold down their own boundaries. Smh. We all need to change this.

this guy's story doesn't sound entirely true...if the bil was that bad, he would have never let all the problems he encountered happen over and over again

I don't feel bad you you guys nej ruam tshaj qhov ruam lawm

Thaum muab ob tus neeg hlwb tsawg ib yam los ua yawm yij dab laug mas muaj qab hau kawg laiv. Neb sib phim kawg yuam.

Niag dab laug thiab niam dab laug yau kom ces siab lim hiam thiab hlwb tsis tees koos loos. Hais lus tom ntej tom qab. Ib pliag zoo siab rau yus. Ib tsam hos chim siab. Ib chim ces hos luag ntxhi. Kav tsij txav deb deb ntawm cov neeg zoo li no. Muab ncaws tawm kiag hauv yus lub neej mus. Yim ncaws tawm txom ces yus yim nyob kaj siab lug txom nawb! To the owner of this story: Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me. If someone takes advantage of you way more than twice, you only have yourself to blame. Once someone has shown themselves untrustworthy, you should not be surprised when they betray you again.

Neeg txheeb nyiaj tsis txheeb ov , nco ntsoov cia nawb

kuv seb koj los yeej ua tsis tau txiv li tso koj niag poj niam rov mus yuav koj niag dab laug xwb vim niag dab laug dev xav xav yuav nws niag muam xwb

Yep, never loan money for your family or friends if your care about them and you have money than just give 100 or 1,000 to help and don't ask it back

Sick and tired of Hmong people.

@baothao1728

2 жыл бұрын

Yog li thov txhob yuav txiv Hmong thiaj tsis hnov Hmong story ov Hmong ces yeej tshaub Hmong tshuaj xwb maj Mee aw! Tus tod twb ua tsis yog lawm los tseem tsa22 nws cai thiaj zoo li zaj story no maj Lol 😂

You and your wife are too nice that why he don't respect you two! Me, he taking vacation in jail the second times

Tsis ua luam ces yog niam txiv tub, ua luam ces yog suav dub

Neb ruam dhau nws lawm nev twb yog tus yeej los rseem swb lawv cov kwv tij thiab ne luag yog ib cov naj lawv ham tsis tuaj ib tog los as , koj poj niam kuj tseem thawj nws thiab ne ! Neb ham tsis nplws tes xwb !

Sounds like them brother and sister want to be a couple. How can you be so jealous of your sister’s new husband, if you ain’t have some un-pure feeling? And how can your niam dablaug be jealous of yawm yij, if she ain’t have some feelings toward him. Drama drama drama. Just switch pojniam then end of drama!

Tus mi nus aw koj siab zoo kawg li lawm os thiaj li muaj ib zaug tas ib zaug dua os yog koj xwb yog lwm tus ces ntshe twb tsis yuav tus poj niam ko lawm os vim nws tus nus siab phem dhau lawm

Brother you n your wife r too nice. U let your BIL n his wife used u over n over. Good lesson learn. Thanks 4 sharing ur story.

OMG!!!!! This guy don’t learn his lesson. I did feel sorry for him at first but the more I listen the more I don’t feel sorry for him anymore.

Noj nceb tsis taug cav ne zoo li no thiag..

Dab Laug dev tsi yg dab laug neej ua kev kawm nawb yg leeg twg mua cov dab laug zoo lis z db neeg no

This is TOXIC AF! I will never let this slide!! Blood brother or not I'm cutting you out and getting that restraining order.

WOW they left for a whole month. Yet they expect 2 packs of noodles to last their four children. Why didn't you take them to the grandparents? I wouldn't have pay that policy. Screwed that. Brother you allowed yourself to be taken advantage of and used plus for granted.

The noodle part is so ridiculous. It was not even necessary to argued over

Wow Tus dab laug no yog dab laug khuj noj khuj haus xwb tsis hlub koj li

Brother yog Koj xwb yog koj tus muam es ua rau koj ces koj poj niam twb muab koj lawb lawm ov.

Kuv saib mas zoo li koj pheej kawm tsis tau thiab nad.

Koj tu dab laug ko ce yeej yuav tuag vim txoj kev npam

Oh tseem muaj tej tus hmoob meka xiam hlwb li koj tus dab laug thiab los🤣

Koj tus dab laug dev ntawv liam tiag tiag

Ruam npaum koj ces mus noj quav zoo duas

The wife is so annoying! If this is my husband. I will cut ties with the brother already. I have 6 brothers, but none of my brothers will never mess with my husband like this. They know me well.

Xyuam xim ov muaj li no tseeb tiag nawj xav zoo zoo

Txhob ruam ruam lawm nawb. Txhob pab pab nws ntxiv lawm. Tsam yus tseem mag teeb meem dua os. Poj niam los ruam heev thiab. Muab tsev neeg ntawv dov kauj vaj kiag xwb os.

Kwvtij, peb sawv daws yeej muaj tus neeg phem li no. Tsuas yog peb paub handle. Koj thiab koj pojniam neb ruam tsis paub handle xwb. Yog tim koj pojniam tso tsis tau nws tus nus.

Ruam ua rau Ntse, Ntse ua rau Ruam mas teeb meem tas sai tiam sis RUAM UA RAU RUAM ces zoo li zaj neej neeg no ntag.... Neb tus dab laug tsis tees koos loos lawm tiag los neb haj yam tsis tees koos loos lawm thiab. If you have to blame someone, blame yourself!!!