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Mom has a nasty attitude

@phatbabyk

Ай бұрын

She definitely had a nasty attitude and disposition and I’m a mother of a two males and a female sooo having grown children you can voice/address your opinion & feelings without being nasty and rude with your words and disposition! As a black woman and mom that was distasteful and snooty.

@LeshaFBaby

Ай бұрын

She is when I seen the haircut nd nose in the air I knew what we was working with

@PDOT1990

Ай бұрын

I disagree she was pretty calm, just raised her concerns, wasn't rude about anything like that. I do think they should waited just a bit maybe though

@beautifulmind1834

Ай бұрын

@@leichaurellelux7547Her Mom Exudes Snobbiness And She’s Mean Spirited . Seems Set In Her Ways . The Parents Weren’t Giving Him A Fair Chance . He Didn’t Lie . More So Don’t Go In With High Expectations. Be Fair And Open Minded . He Was Trying To Appease Them And He Seemed A Bit Intimidated By Them Or AtLeast Their Expectations Of Him .

@daniellemckinley1046

Ай бұрын

You crazy if you believe everything you see on TV

whose's watching this with me!! this show makes me value and love myself .... you cant have a significant other, if you don't have respect for yourself.

@Anillll2004

Ай бұрын

Word

@robinwaley6850

Ай бұрын

I AM! 😊

@jacquelinembalo1974

Ай бұрын

I am! And I'm addicted 😅

@ayandakhumalo8692

Ай бұрын

I am watching all the way in South Africa 🇿🇦!!!!

@pearlmbhele2123

Ай бұрын

I'm here with you all.

This is a prime example of parents with too much input..

@NikkiRich174

Ай бұрын

LITERALLY

@toschajeffries8833

Ай бұрын

Yes...I would be happy to have him as a son-in-law you can tell that he loves their daughter and him being fake the man is trying to live up too their standards.

@helena3631

Ай бұрын

She dating a ADOSan doesn’t she know he’s a descendant of slaves and we have a negative net worth because we haven’t been made whole by reparations… she seems like she living a fantasy life the average blacks person has no money she even said she likes to use credit cards that tells me she don’t have it like that and her parents appear to be boomers so they might be work 300lbs it’s thier house included and about 50k liquid .. thiers no upperclass black people we have been sold a lie by celebs your net worth is all your debt minus ur assets 10/10 she’s living above her means

@IveyleagueOfMyOwn

Ай бұрын

Waaaaay too much

@batteriesnotincluded4715

Ай бұрын

Wasn't the parents INVITED & ASKED for their opinions?

I haven't heard a single thing about what Laci brings to the table. Nothing about her character. Her loyalty. Her talents. Nothing. All we know is she knows how to spend money and receive gifts.

@daniellemckinley1046

Ай бұрын

Do your research! She IS the table!

@salome9124

Ай бұрын

@@daniellemckinley1046what research? lol this was her chance to show up. Nothing to see further.

@daniellemckinley1046

Ай бұрын

​@salome9124 you do know this was edited! She was sent off with a credit score above 800, a maxed out IRA, and the only debt was her mortgage!

@virgo3576

Ай бұрын

That part!

@toiawilson2468

Ай бұрын

I was thinking the saammmmee thing!! All it seems she can do is spend🤦🏾‍♀️

At first glance her parents are coming off as very unlikable, judgmental and pretentious - probably b/c of their delivery, but they do have valid concerns about him being a husband however they should also look at how unprepared their daughter is to be a wife.

@NinoJokersChild

Ай бұрын

This👏🏾💯

@djsaveaves

Ай бұрын

Yes! I think they’re pushing all the weight theyve been shouldering onto him when it should be equally distributed

@toschajeffries8833

Ай бұрын

True

@salome9124

Ай бұрын

They don’t need to look outside and judge. They need to finish raising their daughter. She not done.

@hayaglamazonluxe

Ай бұрын

Her parents need to look in the mirror way more instead of excessively criticising Vidal. From this video, I don't see someone ready to be a wife. Being a wife is not easy and you can't run to Mummy and Daddy when you and your husband get into it. She needs to grow up and cut the cord.

The crazy part is...the mom is trying to be her daughter's biggest advocate and protector but the whole time the mom is the one making lacy cry!

The dad hugging them both at the end 🥰♥️🙏🏾 they needed that and i honor him for that ✨

@wally6914

Ай бұрын

Yes, that was beautiful

I’d love to know what her parents’ financial situation was when they were 24. This seems like a lot to expect from this young man at his age.

@emilyndu338

25 күн бұрын

That is the saddest thing sometimes when parents want things for their children based on when themselves are. Not allowing them to have a journey. They are missing out here on a man raised by 2 parents, educated, with solid friends. I just don't get what they want

@RayRom1797

21 күн бұрын

I agree. I'm glad they leave their blessings

@sarahanyango505

3 күн бұрын

Exactly

That mama…boyyyy! Nobody is ever going to be good enough for Laci. I like the groom’s crew much better. Laci’s dad was more palatable and forgiving. He gave Vidal a chance to redeem himself which he did. Still don’t know about Laci’s mom, but I hope Laci and Vidal make it❤.

@mathmommy

Ай бұрын

I’m trying to figure out what her hang up is!

Take ya daughter and go on..they getting on my nerves ..that overgrown and over spolied bs is not cute it causes issues later in life

@carolinagirl2428

Ай бұрын

‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

@misslady5029

18 күн бұрын

Right!!!!!

@miawhorton3029

14 күн бұрын

It sure does Any man that Laci dates she is Always going too compare Her parents To her man. And always Having to fill those shoes.

Her Dad is a good man. At the end, her Mom was suprise that her Dad gave the blessings. That look look said it all. I love the hug the Father gave them

@sashoysquire1267

Ай бұрын

Right!! You can tell she gave her blessings because the dad did. She was not expecting him to give her is blessing

@backpackmami

Ай бұрын

Yes 😂 it was very “that is NOT what we discussed!” LOL and mama did what a good wife should and followed suit. she had to get her dig in but she definitely made sure that they looked like a unit.

Her mom thinks she living her daughters life.

I can't get enough of this show! They need to bring it back!

@tonyamscateyezmcmillan1417

16 күн бұрын

They are sometimes this month

I luv the connection she has with her father. He's a protector and a provider. He can sense when she needs him without her saying a single word 🩵

@ms.peaches2834

Ай бұрын

❤wish I had my dad still here, I'm 50, my sister on my dad side, she cremated my dad without me knowing, no body no ashes. Hi,from Chicago South Side

@sharondeshay5734

Ай бұрын

OMG I am sorry to hear that. My daddy transitioned last year, it's been hard but just know your daddy is with you ❤​@@ms.peaches2834

@CK-yo7ub

Ай бұрын

@@ms.peaches2834 Hi Ms. Peaches, I sympathize with you & my prayers go out to you 🧡

@naynaywill

24 күн бұрын

That's also the issue. He needs to step back and allow her to ask. And then even with her getting married, her parents should be the last people to call.

@sadaeya868

24 күн бұрын

@@ms.peaches2834😢😢😢😢you are strong babe! Your dad loves you and I’m sure he’s by your side most of the time!

Her mom needs to check herself and her attitude… she is not the prize she thinks she is.

@carolinagirl2428

Ай бұрын

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@jenniferlie6451

Ай бұрын

True

@Ginaaaa555

Ай бұрын

With that wanna be Tboz hair do 😂😂

@oloveaklove6576

Ай бұрын

What's crazy ISIS her mom once her fiancée to be so perfect and have it all together but she was a young mother and she didn't have it all together she had to work multiple jobs this man has graduated college one of the biggest accomplishments a person can have in their life and he sings so sincere and everything that comes out of her mouth is so negative about him She should be ashamed to herself

@oloveaklove6576

Ай бұрын

@@Ginaaaa555 her hair looks terrible😂😂😂

I love the fishing trip ❤ her dad just needed to separate from his wife. She too negative.

@YourFavoriteRealEstateAgent

25 күн бұрын

Nah he probably doesn’t take any crap from her, that’s why she is so messy otherwise. I love that he is still a strong masculine figure but allows his wife to be herself. He probably loves her and spoils her rotten that’s why she is so “high falutin” lol

I actually like them too together Vidal seems to be a good guy he was just trying to hard to get approval from her parents just be yourself everything else will work out

@Crystal-Love

Ай бұрын

I agree‼️Nice looking couple.

@crystallatta8770

Ай бұрын

Me too!!!! Yes, they both have growing to do, but no major issues that they can't resolve together. They get my blessings too🫶🏾

That mom is a piece of work.

Her father is amazing. When he got up and hugged both of them I cried 😢❤

@moniqueturner7628

Ай бұрын

Me 2...the strangers on this show always get me in tears everytime

Vidal is so handsome wow. I can tell their marriage is going to be a blessed one. And as far as the father, I can see that when everyone is on the same page, he will go above and beyond for both of them.

He’s letting her parents intimidated him and he’s panicking. He needs to man up and be himself

When the dad gave them both a hug at the same time, that really touched my heart❤

She’s not spoiled. Instead of buying her the Range Rover we’re paying for the wedding 😂

@jasminehouston-burns1691

Ай бұрын

That's also a move to get her to cancel the wedding. See if she'll bite.

@daniellemckinley1046

Ай бұрын

Have you priced weddings lately? You do know that they are about the same cost as a range rover.

@ItsMike81

Ай бұрын

@@daniellemckinley1046 my point exactly

@ginoblackofficial

Ай бұрын

@@daniellemckinley1046Only fools spend that kind of money on one day. After 25 years of marriage, my advise is to invest in the marriage (homeownership, businesses, investments), NOT the wedding day. I’ve seen very EXPENSIVE weddings end in less than two years. I’ve also seen modest weddings that lasted a lifetime. Some people are too caught up in the show of it all. That wedding day doesn’t NOT make a successful marriage. The work you put into your marriage is what makes it work.

@daniellemckinley1046

19 күн бұрын

​@@ginoblackofficialAnd you're implying that they can't have both??

Lacey is definitely gonna have to give her mom boundaries! And be very careful of what she shares what goes on in her married home with her mom.

Mama is a tough cookie. Damn, what is really the issue? Vidal seems like a great catch. He treats Laci with respect and obviously loves her.

@misslady5029

18 күн бұрын

She's a piece of work... He's a good guy. You're daughter is not a prize.....

@tonyamscateyezmcmillan1417

16 күн бұрын

Well hopefully the family sees the show

I hope they had all the answers when they were young the way they're putting all this pressure on this young man. Like pull him in, guide him. Why give him such a hard time?

Her mother acting like she better than the young man. Wow

Lacey parents seems as though they have their nose too high up in the air. And what about Lacey's OWN money? If something happens to her parents,God forbid, then what? Can she stand on her own without Vidal?

@MyStalkersArePostingMe

Ай бұрын

Im sure she will have inheritance…she’ll be alright…her dad provided for her💀

@daniellemckinley1046

Ай бұрын

It's called "PREPARED" Lacy has her own finances/career...we PREPARED her before sending her off like ALL PARENTS should!

@hayaglamazonluxe

Ай бұрын

I agree fully. Her parents are very arrogant and full of themselves. They aren't perfect and nor is she.

@tyehood8529

24 күн бұрын

​@@daniellemckinley1046Can you share the things you did to make sure that she was prepared?

@naynaywill

24 күн бұрын

Right. If she calls and asks for a Gucci purse, like she said, the answer should be no u want it, u buy it. She can't stand on her own because she's never had to. So u can't expect her to lean on her man if she doesn't even know what it feels like to do it herself. Would she actually have this super extravagant wedding if it was only her and Vidal paying for it? Could she have actually afforded that Range without her parents? That she doesn't even know.

Mom feels betrayed😒 Love Dad’s hug at the end🫶🏼

Danielle is too extra, Vidal is someone's child too.

I have both a son and daughter and i truly pray that I get to know the difference between guiding and controlling and shielding them.

Her parents give off ‘my daughter should marry a basketball 🏀 player or lawyer’ not him …… they act as if he wasn’t worthy of her.

@jaylenefarrell7175

Ай бұрын

Muma needs her wig changin😂

Babygirl you need a backbone you cant have your mom intimidating your future husband

The I was in Miami drunk and I decided to hit him up was a big throw off for me. 🤦🏾‍♀️

@mrspaceforever

Ай бұрын

literally!! especially after friend zoning him for two years

@ashaf.6143

26 күн бұрын

She's literally acting like she finally gave in and settled for him. But to me I think he would have the most options if they split. She seems chubby and spoiled whether it could be editing or not 😅

@Powermoves1080

10 күн бұрын

Yea he should’ve curved her he’s a simp for that

I don't understand why everyone gets so excited ab out a house that does not belong to them. I mean it's nice and everything but....

@KianaDay

25 күн бұрын

I’m sure the producers ask them to do that every time.

Laci is spoiled rotten and Vidal is clueless.

@TheMwendaa

Ай бұрын

Spoiled is right, ugh!

@__Forever27

Ай бұрын

They’re happily married now boo

@cevanbrown2314

Ай бұрын

@@__Forever27 👻

@beautifulmind1834

Ай бұрын

@@cevanbrown2314Lol Your Hilar .

@vthe_listener886

Ай бұрын

😂

That Father’s hug was so needed. 😢 Making me teary eyed. Wishing them all the best in their union.

What I love is that there is genuine love and great chemisty between them both. They deserve the blessings and I wish wish all the best. They're still young and I'm sure their union will continue to grow.

Love this show. It allows ppl to see issues without compromising dignity

The mother is judging too hard...Vidal is a young man who does not have all the answers as an older man...

Listen!!! When Vidal was talking to her dad while fishing, I got goosebumps! And I could see why she fell in love. Also, I can tell that he comes from a good family

That hug at the end made me love this couple more and more and its okay to ask for help or time out

They have genuine love. I love how her dad embraced them both❤❤❤

Laci and Lance Gross won't have a good marriage

@JLive-jt6jc

Ай бұрын

Omg…i laughed so hard. He is handsome like Lance.

@__Forever27

Ай бұрын

They’re happily married now boo, and she’s an amazing mother in law to her son. They been married for two years. I folllowed them after this first came out. I’m glad they don’t listen to miserable people in the comment section that love to judge people because y’all l live a perfect life. Weirdos

@Ginaaaa555

Ай бұрын

I was thinking Marcus from Why did I get married 😅

@Passion85031

Ай бұрын

I agree

@thelonetravelr

Ай бұрын

Laci gives Octavia Spencer 😂

Materialism is wild. It never appealed to me.

@vibranthang13

Ай бұрын

Right

@jaylenefarrell7175

Ай бұрын

With all that damn $ mums got ratchet tripped out wig 😂

The mom acts like it’s herself trying to approve to be in a relationship with Vidal. SMH. Laci got to set boundaries

Her momma makes him sound like a random dog Laci found around the hood😮 RUN Vidal!!!!

Her family is way too controlling especially her mother. Let him breathe and what about her, what kind of wife will she be?

The bride's mother isnt the prize that she thinks she is and neither is her daughter. Need to humble herself

@mrsredmama33

Ай бұрын

Fo Sho

@CaramelRain331

Ай бұрын

Big facts

@Makavellah001

Ай бұрын

They got money so they are the price fytb 😂

@tiascotty397

Ай бұрын

Nah they definitely are the prize lol. Vidal knows he wants to be next to money

@salome9124

Ай бұрын

@@Makavellah001not everybody wants to be bought

Y'all got me crying 😂 I pray this marriage becomes all you guys desire❤

@edgetisha

Ай бұрын

❤ Yes the tears🥹! Beautiful spirits Laci and Vidal 💕now that momma!🫣 I kinda feel bad for the daddy😂

She wants to be married to say she’s a wife & he is floating through life. He needs to get some direction & that may help his insecurities.

@user-hr5rp5wk8g

Ай бұрын

Yep

I can’t give my mom or dad that much say in my marriage nobody is perfect and we have what he like and tolerate and need all the extra stuff the mom said was very uncalled for smh she giving hater

@jaylenefarrell7175

Ай бұрын

Her wig giving cra cra😂

Her mom 😮

@jaylenefarrell7175

Ай бұрын

That wigs trippn 😮

@daniellemckinley1046

Ай бұрын

​@@jaylenefarrell7175bumb

It's a no for he was in a friend zone for 2years until she got drunk and decided to call him,she's too spoiled.

Bride dad gets it as long as he can keep his wife reeled in, and dad supports this young couple they will be ok.

They are Not compatible at this stage. This girl is still in a kindergarten level of a relationship, she need to be independent before getting marriage to any valued man. She is not ready to set up a UNION without her parent input. She is desperate to be seen to having all the trimmings of a funfair wedding BUT Not in the long term real Committed Marriage. Just waste of money to show off to society.

@The12Believe

23 күн бұрын

Absolutely...The total recipe for Disaster!! Grow up!

Her mother is obnoxious

Poor Vidal. Her parents don’t like him 😢

Her parents got too much input

@carolinagirl2428

Ай бұрын

‼️‼️‼️‼️🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Why is all about material things. Thats not what the foundation of a marriage should be standing on. Just how much he can provide for her, what is she bringing?

Update: They got married September 2021

@Userrandom44477

Ай бұрын

how did you find their update

@billiejeanthesweet1

Ай бұрын

That's wassup ❤

@billiejeanthesweet1

Ай бұрын

​@Userrandom44477 I just saw it at the end of the video 😊

That Mother! Wow! Seems very controlling! She acts like he is going to be her Husband! Seems like her future Son-in Law is going to have to live up to the Mother’s judgement , expectations and rules forver! She is so harsh and doing too much! 😢

He seems like a really cool young man. Her Mom is looking for any reason to dislike him. Unfortunate situation.

Lacy MOM: I did not expect to give my blessings Also Lacy Mom: if it doesn’t feel right you can get out 😂

She not asking for designer stuff right now. He won’t measure up. This the 1st 2 minutes in the video

@deborahadams3745

Ай бұрын

Facts 👊🏽

The way Vidal talked about his bride …. ❤❤❤❤ so loving. He is such a good guy

She might be spoiled but she is not selfish. She is loving.

@salome9124

Ай бұрын

You can’t be loving and attempt to intimidate your man to be like two other people

He needs to do a forest gump and run, her parents will keep their noses in the marriage.

I cant complete this one...the parents act as if he is the worse as a mate...Like she is some kind of prize...she is a spoiled brat..and Lacis mom acts like she is above everyone

Lacie: LIGHTS, CAMERAS, LIGHTS & MORE LIGHTS!!! LOL😂

They don’t need to be on this show. Her parents are rude af.

Vidal needs to run!!

Ppl need to stop trying to start a new family by including their old one. Like i laws are PURE PROBLEMS.

The hug the father gave was so simply but so strong and loud ❤❤❤

This the type of father in law I want and it’s amazing to see both couples have parents that are married that’s rare . My parents are married and it’s hard to be in a relationship who hasn’t seen relationships

@daniellemckinley1046

Ай бұрын

❤❤ SO many people have bad examples!

Imagine being called high maintenance because someone else can’t afford it and having supportive parents 😂💅🏾

@CassieJackson-l2u

3 күн бұрын

Exactly.

He must remind her mom of someone from her past. She too hung up on him making her happy instead of the daughter.

He’s marrying a dependent child….Run….

The mom is jealous of her daughter.

She’s still a kid, her mom is a mess, groom’s mom is beautiful,and it’s great to see both sets of parents together ❤❤❤Love all the beautiful, traditional names. Nice. You can spell them, and pronounce them.😊

He is a true father. I love that.

Laci dad really heals a part of me that I will never get from my dad but I love to see my own people receive love!

Concerning the provider concept, a lot of men can grow into those roles. Things happen with time!

I really can't stand bourgeois people. Raising another MATERIALISTIC daughter is NOT a flex. People want real raw emotions and their feelings acknowledged!

That marriage is going to be a nightmare for him. Good luck with that.

I've watched this show since the beginning...this the only one brought tears to my eyes 😭...I'm happy for them... I've been married 24 years they got this

He don’t have a chance! Her parents are too much.

The hug at the end was beautiful. That mama of hers….chile.

This is one of the best couples I’ve seen , he really loves her and she’s still just a little scared . I hope they make it

I never understand this, God is giving you, the green light, to see who the person is and who they family is, before you marry them and giving you the opportunity to leave. Job 33-14-33 For God speaketh once, yea twice, yet man perceived it not 😩

Laci’s daddy was everything

They didn’t catch a single fish 😂 they holding their fishing poles the wrong way.

Omg who else is crying!! God bless this union I believe they truly love each other..

I think they should wait a couple of years.

Daaaaad🙌🏽🥰🙌🏽 YOU ARE AMAZING🙌🏽🥰👊🏽🥰🙌🏽

Looking at this, I can see why Laci's mom sees a mask.

Love how her Dad embraced them both. That was beautiful. They loved each other, and I hope they have a long lasting wedding.

This was a great episode, thank you for no more rachetness going on...level head communication.

Her dad is the bomb we need more men like him🙌🏽💯🙏🏾🫶🏼