I WAS FORCED OR TRICKED INTO DOING ANYTHING! Ik the risk with epidural and I decided too take it. Either way going natural or medicated having a baby is GOING to hurt! Yes it sucks that my situation went left but I wasn’t tricked so stop saying that.

@nessforbes7400

8 ай бұрын

Hun…. By them not informing you completely. Which you said…. “You didn’t know the pain….” That’s called not informing the patient. Informed consent done incorrectly could potentially lead to a lawsuit. They did not carry out that procedure properly. Either way… Baby is here! You’re healthy! Baby is healthy! Your good. Now you know for next time. That shit illegal asf 😂 Legally they have to provide informed consent and you were not properly informed. Congratulations! Hope this helps ♥️

@okayliyah

8 ай бұрын

@@nessforbes7400that’s what I’m saying love. You don’t know the whole story I didn’t record the whole 4days I was there. They told me it would hurt but they said a bee sting I’ve never been stung by a bee but I don’t think bees that powerful. Your supposed to be numbed but my numbing didn’t work. So yes it was done wrong but that’s not them misinforming me. Everybody pain tolerance is different. She was in there was all of 30mins and I never seen her again. She was the only problem “nurse” I had but she was also the only one available. Like I said you can go in with this plan (like I did) but that don’t mean the plan will be executed how you planned

@andrewnehemiah3467

8 ай бұрын

@@okayliyah Did they tell when they are feeling around on your back they are guessing where the spot is because theres no way to know exactly? Did they say that once your procedure is done you are to lay flay and not move for 24 hrs did they say after this procedure you are not to life anything over 10lbs. BUT yet they have your legs up and have you pushing with all your might, but you not to lift, they are moving your legs thighs yet your not to climb stairs, make this make sense. Doctors are more into delivering faster and into getting paid quicker and delivering babies faster making more money at your expense so when that first back pain come out of no where and hit you thank the doctors ok. Its like burger king have it your way!

@Worryfreelifestyle

7 ай бұрын

@@andrewnehemiah3467honey I promise you of all the labor vlogs I’ve watched and sisters and cousins that I know that gave birth they don’t inform you of all that so stop projecting please

@andrewnehemiah3467

7 ай бұрын

@@Worryfreelifestyle So what does that say? In a world no where everyone uses technology, googling everything yet not your health? When did this become a society of just believe whatever anyone says? You mean no one has ensight to look into things for themselves??? When someone comes to warn just in case you don't know receives all this? Wow

This is exactly why I hired a doula.. your experience with getting an epidural shouldn’t been that way. Thank God everything worked out! Beautiful labor & your baby girl is a doll!!

@okayliyah

Жыл бұрын

I wish they pushed out more info because I was literally lost about pregnancy!

This is why black women need to utilize doula services and we need to make their services accessible for everyone in any financial bracket. We need to educate people on why doulas are important. I’m so proud of you because despite all tha grief and pain you remained calm and confident in your decisions. And yes you did handle that pain like a G 😂

@craZbeauTful

Жыл бұрын

I'm looking now. My insurance has too much red tape to even make initial appt. 💔

@okayliyah

Жыл бұрын

Shout out to the bd for letting me squeeze TF outta his hand😂😂

@universalvessel2546

Жыл бұрын

I’m currently pregnant. I spent all of 2021 studying to be a midwife. Little did I know I’d become a mother. My biggest f* no is the hospital. I REFUSE to bring life in that hell hole. Thankfully I now have 2 doulas and a midwife apart of my birth team. Im so excited to meet my baby boy😩🥹

@theoriginalbunnygirl

Жыл бұрын

I'm a black woman and I'm currently training to be a doula for other black women if they need me which I hope they will!!

@bridgetteridley666

11 ай бұрын

Tried it didn’t work😂

This is so raw and uncut and I’m so happy that you shared this with us so we know what to look for and what to make sure we advocate for

I’m so glad you spoke up for yourself, no matter what that man child was saying, those nurses or anyone else. The nurse act as if she didn’t give a damn and the anesthesiologist was absolutely horrible. They think black women do not feel pain. Congratulations to you mama! Beautiful baby girl…

@legacylelanimommie

11 ай бұрын

That’s Factssss!!

congratulations girl! i’m 12 weeks 3 days today and i’m so excited i’ve made it this far. i’ve watched you since i found out i was expecting. i hope you continue posting with your new journey with the baby. good luck new momma❤️

@okayliyah

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the luv and support girlie! And congrats on your blessing🥰💞

Girl you don’t look bad at all to have just gone through that. You and the baby are beautiful

This has been the most thorough play by play of what they do in the hospital. Thank you so much

No! Getting an Epidural was the worst part of my c-section! I will never get it again (unless I have another c-section). Right away I could hear in her voice that she was frustrated. It’s her job to be able to work around the patient being in pain/moving. She wasn’t doing her job correctly, I hope you made a complaint. Happy to see the baby is here and healthy!

So the nurse was being a butt AND she put it in wrong?!!! WTF 😳 so sorry that happened to you sweetie.

@shalysophia8281

Жыл бұрын

The woman who did my epidural was a resident training and she missed my spine 3 times and told me it was my fault she did it wrong because I neglected to tell her I have scoliosis (Never in my life have been told I have scoliosis, I played sports my whole life and had many physicals done and never was told anything like that.) It hurt so bad when she did it and she was so rude. I requested someone else and the regular guy who did the epidural did it in less then a minute. I had no pain when he did it and it was perfect. It's a pinch but not supposed to hurt that bad. It only hurt really bad when I had the women who did it wrong do it.

@butterflyqueen1296

Жыл бұрын

So sorry 😢 that’s horrible!

Now this is a real and raw labor video you captured everything ❤️ love it and congratulations she is beautiful

You did so good and I love how you captured every moment! I'm so glad I was able to share your experience and see my grandbaby being born ❤

literally tearing up while you pushed her out! a moment of triumph! you did so good mama, God bless you both!❤

This was such a joy to watch 😊😊 Love your personality and how you stayed strong and had fun thru the process. ❤

Congratulations…currently 38 weeks pregnant induction in 3 days but I’m so happy for you and thank you for showing us your journey! Update: I had my son exactly on his induction day without being induced which is crazy lol he’s now an month old motherhood is just amazing I love my son so much words can’t explain it. I hope postpartum is treating you good and remember you got this!

I’m gettin induced in 2 months and can’t stop watching these videos congrats on your baby mama❤

Congratulations on your new baby. I have to say you handled that pain really well. Your anesthesiologist really did not know what she was doing because it should not hurt. My first time having a baby it worked like a dream no problems taking the epidural, the second time around it was a night mare. I went through the labor without it. The pain was real.💯

@tonshmar

Жыл бұрын

THIS, because I was about to say, I don’t think epidurals are supposed to hurt, because mine sure didn’t.😳 She did well considering.

🎉yasss!!! Congratulations mama, been here since Day 1 & i can’t wait to go on this Motherhood journey with you!💕🥲

@okayliyah

Жыл бұрын

Awww you’re so sweet! Thank you for the luv 🥰🥰

you’re gonna be an amazing mama❤❤

I enjoyed this raw and uncut video. You did so good. Congratulations 🎊🎈🎉

she was so real I loved this

Congratulations and Happy Birthday baby girl 🥳

You are so strong! I am almost 36 weeks and they are talking about inducing me at either 38 or 39 weeks. I’m scared but I know that it will all be okay once she’s in my arms! You are a champ, you had to sit through those contractions i don’t know how you did it! Nobody can say anything about you crying or hollering if they don’t know that pain. Great job and congrats on your baby🥳!

Congratulations Mamiana😍 I’m currently 37 weeks. Thank you for sharing your experience with us! I hate how you had to experience all that pain but you got through it 💪🏽💕.. and Baby Girl is such a cutieeee! 🙏🏽🙏🏽

@okayliyah

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! And wishing a safe delivery mamas☺️

Great job and congrats on your new addition!

Congratulations 😍😍😍 love your Chanel it has helped me so much soon to be a 1st time mommy May God always be with you and your baby girl she’s beautiful by the way. Your videos help me be prepared ❤️❤️

Thank you so much for sharing your experience . You did an amazing job momma ❤ Yasani is beautiful 😍

CONGRATULATIONS 🐥🍼... AWWWW... STAY BLESSED BEAUTIFUL FAMILY 💐🫂🥰🙏💕

The nurse poked you wrong!! Hell nah ! She should’ve got fired she was so impatient & not even helpful at all! She made me mad 😡!

You are so strong. God bless you. Beautiful and healthy baby 💖💖

I love your personality omg 😂😂🎉🎉🎉congratulations beautiful

Omgosh Ik I’m 4w late but god bless you I’m so happy that you and your baby are okayyy!

I don’t like how they were so rude to you 😮‍💨 especially with you having to go through all that pain I’m glad you got through it though congratulations you’re strong 🤍I get induced Tuesday night or the following Wednesday because they want me to be 39 weeks 🙏this is my second child and I plan on making her my last I’m 38 weeks and 5 days pregnant

Yesss ma’am I had all my babies natural boo I was scared of the epidural !! You doing good love ❤

Your so pretty!!! Congratulations!!!❤❤

Due in may , you did amazing congratulations ❤

Congratulations you did amazing i hate that you had to endure that pain an rudeness praying all is going well lil mama is beautiful a new subie here

You made me cry 😢 when u was in pain. I'm most worried about the pain of contractions and epidural. You did so good through all of that tho. Congratulations mommy ❤️ I also love your support system

@okayliyah

Жыл бұрын

Thank you boo💞!

congratulations mamas & welcome babyyy🎉💕💕 thank you for showing us the real side of epidural girl you got me terrified lmaoo. & your bd face look like he was about to bus out crying 😹

@okayliyah

Жыл бұрын

Apparently you not supposed to feel it! They numb you but my numbing obv didn’t work😭 so don’t be scared girl. I feel like I’m the only one with this experience.. everybody else seems to had a great one! And yeah I told him I he was really analyzing everything💓😂

@dreandnikatv9324

Жыл бұрын

@@okayliyah as a birthing doula I can assure you that your not the only one who went through this. Another Queen like yourself will experience the pain and careless attitudes with hospitals/ nurses as you did until we get knowledge about labor and delivery ourselves

@dreandnikatv9324

Жыл бұрын

@@okayliyahcongratulations Queen you did so good I just got so upset watching them act the way they did towards you BUT you handled it like A Warrior

Congratulations love and she's beautiful ❤

I just had to click on this video to say that is the CUTEST newborn i have EVER SEEN!!❤

@okayliyah

Жыл бұрын

Omg thank you!

I have scoliosis and when I had my first son the anesthesiologist was upset that he had to leave church, which was that Easter Sunday to give me my epidural. He had pissed me off so bad. I told him if he doesn’t know what he’s doing he can just leave because I wasn’t about to keep getting stuck with that long needle. He finally got me numb in both sides my nurses and Dr was awesome though! I hate you had to experience that, but the part where you was actually giving birth was beautiful. It made me tear up a little! She’s in the Pisces gang! 💪🏽 Congratulations!

Congratulations welcome to motherhood I definitely agree with you some of those nurses in labor and delivery they are a piece of work but you should get a survey how your experience was and I will give that feedback on that but you know that's how people are in society you're going to meet a bunch of arrogant people but the good thing is you have your little bundle of joy and congratulations again hey you write people never tells you about the after part of going to labor they should but I'm just grateful that you had a healthy delivery God bless you stay encouraged🎉❤

Congratulations on your baby girl

Congratulations!!🎉🎉new mama❤

Whew lord. This making me so nervous all over again. I’m 39+4 today & I been beasting for baby to come but now I’m super scared lol. Those contractions are noooo joke man. I’ll literally take the pushing over the contractions! 😂😂 but girl yu did sooo good. Women are absolute superheroes! Congrats on your beautiful baby ❤

Congratulations you did great and I also had a bad epidural experience the guy was on me so long and kept taking it out and inserting it I knew something was wrong then they called another person but at that point I rather just go through the pain because they made it worse but I’m happy you spoke up and had a safe delivery ❤️❤️❤️

You did so good and God blessed you with a beautiful baby girl

Congratulations baby girl ❤❤

she is so pretty 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

Awwww congratulations Aaliyah the video is as beautiful made me tear up ❤

I knew that hospital looked familiar lol , I have my babygirl in 3 months more than ready ! Congratulations 🎉

CONGRATULATIONS ❤

congratsss 💖

Bby gurl u went through it! ..but thank god u made it out with a beautiful bby girl .. Congratulation

Congratulations 💕

Just gained a new subscriber ❤️

This is a good video for first time mom’s like me my baby is due in May congratulations to you and on your new journey of motherhood

@okayliyah

Жыл бұрын

Congrats on your bundle of joy mama❤️❤️

30 Weeks Officially Today Baby when I say once 35weeks hit I’m going on walks and everything with my mama

Literally watching this, your labor and mine were almost the exact same, my epidural lady wasn’t an asshole, but I did tug of war, had the ball, everything even down to the crying freaking out bc the pain, you did such a great job baby girl I’m so proud of you. You did that!

Congratulations, she is adorable.

Yes hospital apple juice hit diff !!

She’s so beautiful Omggg god bless you girl you got me tearing up 40:15

Yes, that if a door hurts I went through it 2 times cause I had c-sections. And it numbs you from what stomach to your legs. No more pain. Unless you hit like ten centimeters, and then youst a little bit of a little pain and that baby's coming out

💐💐I'm glad you and baby are healthy and safe after delivery. Congrats🤍

At the end. She checked you for talking about her😂 She was letting you know that she come when she feel like it. She was warm.

Congratulations! So sorry you couldn’t have a positive experience, that sucks 😕 I’m due in May and really hoping these hospital staff don’t ruin my day!

@okayliyah

Жыл бұрын

Honestly other then the whole epidural situation my hospital stay was perfect 🥰 every other nurse so extremely sweet! Don’t let my experience stress you out..

Congratulations❤❤I cried watching you in pain because i know that feeling n I cried like a baby cause the meds wasn’t going thru my back the right way

@okayliyah

Жыл бұрын

I feel your pain 🥺

Congratulations 🤩

You made me cry hell I was in pain with you but you did that mommy

Awwww sorry you had a bad epidural experience I had it at 4cm I got induced n the pain was bad ...You did well...Congratulations hun..💖🙏

I had my children in the seventies. Epidural was never even heard of. You had zero choices on anything. Nice to see the improved situation for mothers.😊

Congratulations 🎉🍾🎈

I agree. I’m 37 weeks pregnant and I’ve been having a lot of Braxton Hicks for 2-3 weeks now. I went to the doctor today to find out how the baby was doing, I’m 4cm right now so crampy and I also don’t agree with the internet saying these pains are like period pains. Lol they feel just as bad as strong contractions but that’s my opinion. This is my second pregnancy after a miscarriage, because I have a weak cervix with this pregnancy so I’ve been in the upmost pain every since I found out I was pregnant. I’m so ready to have this baby now.

@mzamie247

Жыл бұрын

I agree. People leave out how painful getting the epidural really is. Bee sting does hurt. Getting the spinal block with my surgery is just as bad as the epidural so y’all please pray for me when it’s time to get the epidural as well. I just wish they would put us to sleep with both spinal block and epidural block.

@beautystill

7 ай бұрын

Me as well I been experiencing Braxton Hicks since last week I reached 37 weeks Friday I'm due Dec 13th but like she said I want to experience all natural I did it with both my pregnancy I didn't go to the hospital until it was necessary in needed I had to be induced with my daughter but I didn't get any pain meds or anything cause babygirl wanted to be there longer lol my son came 2wks early I was labor all day with him until that night to where it was time for me to have him & I plan on doing the same with my third baby he's also a boy ❤

@mzamie247

7 ай бұрын

@@beautystill a new update on this topic, as I was typing this post 5 months ago I ended up having my baby 10 hours later. A key takeaway from this, I don’t like pain whatsoever so I’m not sure if it was better for me to have waited 2 more weeks or just go ahead and have my baby as soon as my water broke. My water broke on June 10th at 7 am , I didn’t have a ride to the hospital until 11am but I still wasn’t 10 cm yet. So the hospital staff waited and waited until I was emotionally and ready for what was to come next. It was 3am the next day the staff increased the pitocin all the way up to 19 that’s when my contractions got worse of it all , then the epidural. I was screaming and crying. They had to cut my son out of my body. The next few months of giving birth was soooooo sooooo painful. I guess that’s why the doctors say you will need at least 6 weeks to fully recover from birth. I will never ever ever get pregnant again and go through that again. I’m happy for the women who have a better pain tolerance than me because that’s not me!

@beautystill

7 ай бұрын

@@mzamie247 wow so glad to hear that you and the baby are okay and healthy hope y'all have many more blessings 🙏🏾💗🥹

@mzamie247

7 ай бұрын

Thank you. And blessings for you and your pregnancy and birth.

Congratulations 🎊 🎉❤

You did great I'm 36 weeks and ready to have my baby like today lol but with my first I had the same experience with getting my epidural the man that put it in was so rude literally asked me why was I crying like wtf 🤔 but this round I plan on having all black Drs and nurses I feel like that will play a big role plus having a support team that's not afraid to speak up for me when I'm overwhelmed.

Congrats she's pretty ❤

I am so happy I have found your page I been using KZread to find many other moms because I am pregnant with my first not due till October 14th and I am starting a KZread channel and would like to make content like this and I love how you made sure to capture everything and I’m sorry you did not have the best experience no one deserves that but you are beautiful and congratulations on your baby girl💕🫶🏽

@okayliyah

Жыл бұрын

Go for it girl! Don’t wait post ASAP you can do it! I came into 2023 saying this the year ima be a content creator. And that’s what I did by simply js uploading.. I ain’t think my stuff was gon blow

@okayliyah

Жыл бұрын

And congratulations mama praying and healthy delivery 🫶🏽🫶🏽

I didn’t know they did the little song when someone delivers I’m gonna ball when I hear mines😭😭 I cried during your whole experience congratulations momma!

@okayliyah

Жыл бұрын

Me neitherrrr it’s soooo cute!!

@quanishaable

Жыл бұрын

I heard it after I had my son but I didn’t hear it when he was born so I’m not even sure if they played it

@okayliyah

11 ай бұрын

They play it when you transfer out of labor and delivery and into postpartum

pregnancy y labor is a beautiful experience felicidades 🎉

Congratulations 🎉❤

Lol awwww I feel like that with the epidural they don’t tell you that yo leg be doing it’s own thing and the pressure of it going in is crazy!!! My anesthesiologists was kinda rude too talking bout she’ll leave and come back trick you tryna poke me while I’m having a damn contraction! You did good though! Bet you won’t rush the next one out lol. Congratulations

@okayliyah

Жыл бұрын

Nah I’m still happy she came when she did. Rather she came early or late it was still gon hurt 😭 if I would of went full term that would be a 8lb baby!

You did a great job 👏🏽! I’m glad you got it over with! That was stressful I’m scared now 😂

❤Congratulations!!!! I’m 34 weeks excited to meet my baby but not ready for labor yet

@okayliyah

Жыл бұрын

Girl I’ve been ready 😂 I was tired of being pregnant! But I wish the best of luck to you ❤️❤️ congrats mama💞

26:20 that epidural hurts like hell !! it’s only good for the pain but afterwards ? omg I’m only 20 and I have the WORSE back pain ever !!! Don’t let it be cold or rainy, tuhh I nearly cried.

My epidural experience was horrible with my first kid. It led to me having a non emergent c section (completely unnecessary) so I decided to have my second child completely natural. No pitocin( something they don’t tell you that they give you ) and absolutely no epidural . But you go girl !!

@okayliyah

Жыл бұрын

They told me they gave me Pitocin.. but I’m sorry you had a bad experience as well

boutta get induced in 4 days and seeing you crying in pain scares me oh lord i hate being in pain im scared of how bad its gonna hurt😅 i signed myself up for this shii

I know I'm late but Congratulations on your baby girl

Girl You A Real Boss At That Woow Girl You Handle That Like A Boss😊❤ Congratulations 🎉 Tho Baby🫶🏼

I’m 9 weeks and 3 days and I need tips I’m due in January 2024. And congrats on your baby ❤️💕💕

the anesthesiologist was RUDE !! omg i am so sorry you had her. and her telling you to communicate with her?! bro do your job!! when i got mine my guy did not say to communicate with him, he knew what he was doing and my epidural was pain free. some discomfort yes but i wouldn’t call it painful. i am so sorry mama ❤

Giiirrrlll watching the epidural part seriously made me cringe! Bless your heart ❤️ 😢 my first epidural experience was bad as well, the second one was not as bad. She was messing up cause her stank attitude. At least you got that gorgeous baby 👶🏽 😍 I had the same experience on the Same date 19 years ago! 🎉❤

He looks so scared for her . Im happy she got through it congrats

Omg I’m due March 7 of next year 😍 you did that girl 🙌🏾

Loved this! She was born on my birthday!! Your so strong, i'm 21 weeks now and excited but not ready for this part lol but I know i gotta get ready! Your vlog just gave me a sense of peace.

@okayliyah

Жыл бұрын

You got this mama! ☺️💞

Whew I’m 39 weeks and get induced Sunday at 40 weeks!

Congratulations

Im so so sorry that happened to you 💔 please report her! Congratulations on your blessing ❤❤

I had the balloon too and when I said I sobbed when they filled it with saline….it hurt SO bad, like literally soooooo bad I couldn’t even sit up I laid down the whole time bc sitting up hurt my poom poom so bad 😭😭 31 hours of labor and she was out. The peanut ball helped me a little bit but BARELY lol my daughter was so stubborn

U did awesome , next time have your mom or husband be very stern with nurses they tend to take advantage of us black and Hispanics