Knowing when to say "I'M DONE" | Hospital Physical Therapy 🏥 (8.3.18)

Mary's pushing her body hard in the #hospital, but sometimes being done is not quitting.
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  • @thefreylife
    @thefreylife6 жыл бұрын

    Oh that tricky balance in life- push yourself- but not too hard. Attempting to learn that balance- how bout you?

  • @eej1983able

    @eej1983able

    6 жыл бұрын

    The Frey Life i pushed myself too hard yesterday and i felt gross as a result so today im easing up

  • @pinkyblessed2218

    @pinkyblessed2218

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yes, since we know God is a god of order & balance I try so hard to emulate those characteristics of His. I fail daily in a thousand little ways, but I celebrate each victory instead of focusing on the negatives. And yes, listen to your body. Pacing myself is such a difficult process.... 🙃 I am praying for “all the things” for you, Mary! 💕

  • @maddiewalbridge9444

    @maddiewalbridge9444

    6 жыл бұрын

    The Frey Life please do some watercolor art!!!

  • @doris1826

    @doris1826

    6 жыл бұрын

    Still praying for you, Mary & Peter! God will give you what you need for today, whatever that looks like!

  • @2listening1

    @2listening1

    6 жыл бұрын

    0:27 Singing is the second best airway clearance! ;)

  • @IrishRunningVlog
    @IrishRunningVlog6 жыл бұрын

    “There’s a difference between quitting and knowing when you’ve had enough” you made the right choice finishing up in the gym

  • @2listening1
    @2listening16 жыл бұрын

    0:27 Singing is the second best airway clearance! ;)

  • @Haysalto
    @Haysalto6 жыл бұрын

    Squeeze the bag is so funny yet so evil! 😂 love that Mary laughed so hard out of joy that she actually triggered a coughing fit 😨😂

  • @NurseMickiLea
    @NurseMickiLea6 жыл бұрын

    From a nurses standpoint it is always nice to hear patients tell us they think we are nice, cool or just a thank you. Keep up the good work and push through that imepenum, that is a hard one!

  • @staceycotton2728
    @staceycotton27286 жыл бұрын

    Mary, what you said really hits home for me. My health has declined. I've been diagnosed with yet another chronic illness and it is really hard from me to come to terms with accepting this is my life. I feel like such a failure and not good enough. I try to stay strong, but it's hard. I really look up to you for your strength to keep fighting and not giving up. I say alot to myself if Mary can do it I can too! I also live by and have your sweatshirt....Do What You Think You Can't Do.

  • @invisibleinkling1474
    @invisibleinkling14746 жыл бұрын

    Mary... I love you. Rest is not bad and it's not giving up. It's good and I'm glad you're embracing it. It rejuvenates.

  • @jannalawlor5832
    @jannalawlor58326 жыл бұрын

    You go Mary! Remember to just take it one minute, one hour, or one day at a time. Whatever you need to tell yourself to keep going strong.

  • @rmjames83
    @rmjames836 жыл бұрын

    Just remember Mary, anything exercise wise will help your recovery from the surgery-it doesn’t matter how big/small-it ALL counts!!! We are cheering for you!!!

  • @rmjames83
    @rmjames836 жыл бұрын

    It’s such a fine line-that “sweet spot” is so hard to gauge-(something I’m still not brilliant at). I have to remind myself a bit/something everyday is better than a lot whenever I can (as doing “lots” usually results in me not being able to do much for a day or so)-slow steady wins!!!

  • @Torzv
    @Torzv6 жыл бұрын

    Glad you're doing better

  • @ellie-ou6pq
    @ellie-ou6pq6 жыл бұрын

    When I was younger I wanted a DS so bad, but I never got one! Seeing you play with the DS made me smile and brought back memories of when I was in about 3rd ish grade and I would just watch my friends play

  • @anngabriel5455
    @anngabriel54556 жыл бұрын

    Great job Mary, I'm so proud of you. You remind me to smile no matter what.

  • @FunsizedStyle
    @FunsizedStyle6 жыл бұрын

    The reenactment of all of that when you said episodes and just describing all of it - I have not laughed that hard in days :) By the way, on the total opposite end of the spectrum - the way Ollie was laying on the hospital bed when Peter went for a walk - totally melted my heart!!

  • @amyshaw4729
    @amyshaw47296 жыл бұрын

    She is sounding SO much better. Mentally and physically. Very proud of you my dear!!!

  • @XK_tyX
    @XK_tyX6 жыл бұрын

    Food Service personnel in the hospitals can make or break it!♡

  • @angelafischer7608
    @angelafischer76086 жыл бұрын

    Mary, I am so happy to see you kicking butt! You’re determination helps us with chronic illness, to keep moving forward and there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Your amazing! Big hugs Mary, Peter and Oliver! 🤗

  • @zackreynolds8905
    @zackreynolds89056 жыл бұрын

    Stay strong Mary! And just wanted to say thank you for your port videos, I’m an emt and the knowledge that y’all provided really helped me relate to and calm down a patient I had the other day. Thx!!!

  • @justdaisy15
    @justdaisy156 жыл бұрын

    Keep kicking butt Mary...You Got This!!!🙏🏼

  • @2listening1
    @2listening16 жыл бұрын

    13:29 ...."walk....!" Ollie gets triggered; head tilt! HAHA! :D

  • @naomicarrier1733
    @naomicarrier17336 жыл бұрын

    I just ordered from your shop today !! Love y’all and praying for you Mary 🦋🌷🙏♥️

  • @sandraleaming9789
    @sandraleaming97896 жыл бұрын

    Amazing how you have the utmost strength. Definitely admiring, you rock!

  • @glennthompson7525
    @glennthompson75256 жыл бұрын

    Impressive effort to get after it Mary!! Thanks for sharing and kudos to all 3 of you for working hard together!

  • @wandapitzen3636
    @wandapitzen36366 жыл бұрын

    Yay, Nicole, for being so nice!! Thumbs up, Mary. Hang in there, girl.

  • @MissBrossart
    @MissBrossart6 жыл бұрын

    boy she has such an amazing husband and dog always love watching there vids

  • @kimkaye2219
    @kimkaye22196 жыл бұрын

    Aww Mary, you’re fighting so hard! You’re doing a fantastic job! So proud of you lady!

  • @haleyaud7297
    @haleyaud72976 жыл бұрын

    You are my inspiration Mary!

  • @hilda1170
    @hilda11706 жыл бұрын

    Glad you gave yourself grace. You didn’t give up.

  • @katieknight4782
    @katieknight47826 жыл бұрын

    I just finished watching the vlog and realized that I had been grinning the entire time! Thank you for bringing me joy! Keep doin what ya think ya can’t do! 💕

  • @djlawlz4041
    @djlawlz40414 жыл бұрын

    I love the “I’m not a giver-upper!”

  • @victoriaobrien2599
    @victoriaobrien25996 жыл бұрын

    I found your videos about a week ago and I think you’re amazing. You don’t let anything get you down. Thank you for helping others realise that you can still have an amazing life even with a chronic illness xxx

  • @FROG_PUSH
    @FROG_PUSH6 жыл бұрын

    I'm so proud of Mary & her resilience with all she deals with on the daily but even more so at the hospital stays when we know its not always great. Sending love & prayers to you guys 😘😘😘❤❤❤🐸🐸🐸

  • @emilymoore3569
    @emilymoore35696 жыл бұрын

    Good job Mary!!! You are doing so good!!! I hope things continue to go well with your treatments and the surgery!! Praying for you ❤️

  • @ksueconleymattsmom4735
    @ksueconleymattsmom47356 жыл бұрын

    I love you guys. You are in my daily prayers..

  • @sandyseibelhager7131
    @sandyseibelhager71316 жыл бұрын

    I think realizing your body's limitations is more like it. Keep up the good work! Can't wait to see you at home again!

  • @2listening1
    @2listening16 жыл бұрын

    3:38 I'm so proud of you for braving the hypertonic saline, Mary! So many CFers skip it.

  • @annaeinfeld7283
    @annaeinfeld72836 жыл бұрын

    Keep up the hard work. Mary you inspire me everyday to keep trying even when things get tough.

  • @panterachick1127
    @panterachick11276 жыл бұрын

    I just love everything about you 3! The amount of inspiration you bring me every day means so much thank you❤️

  • @jordynbouch8423
    @jordynbouch84236 жыл бұрын

    Super awesome Mary👍👍👍 You both are so encouraging and these videos always make my day💙

  • @lightofmine124
    @lightofmine1246 жыл бұрын

    You guys are so nice, to compliment Nicole! That would make anyone's day. Peter and Mary restoring our faith in humanity and spread acts of kindness and Joy!

  • @morphman30
    @morphman306 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad they gave you a distraction from hospital life. Games can be fun sometimes.

  • @sarahweishaar8364
    @sarahweishaar83646 жыл бұрын

    You guys are so great to watch! The positivity and faith you display is amazing! I am a full time church worker and really appreciate what an example you both are, your lives are an amazing witness!

  • @dawncrowe5647
    @dawncrowe56476 жыл бұрын

    You are very strong. Watching y'all has really helped me, I try not to push myself to hard, my husband is my rock, my 4 boys are always helping momma! Praying for you!

  • @maryj367
    @maryj3676 жыл бұрын

    You both have a heart of gold... I don't usually follow people that have CF because it brings back so much memories of my daughter that I lost 8 years ago... and emotionally I'm not fully recovered. Still cry like a baby...but you guys bring so much light and smiles to my face...THANK YOU!

  • @karynahern970
    @karynahern9706 жыл бұрын

    Good luck with your surgery on Monday, everything is going to be ok. Praying for you and Peter. Love you both and Ollie too.💜💙🐶🙏

  • @wildbanshee1
    @wildbanshee16 жыл бұрын

    O my love for u mary is like a proud family member u battle through all this and still av a smile i always wait say goodbye to ollie with love and prayers from my home to u in hospital xxxx

  • @mamabear8565
    @mamabear85656 жыл бұрын

    I’m terrible at pushing myself too far, too often. Trying to accept that I’m sick & have limitations I didn’t before is a really hard thing to wrap your head around. Especially when that’s not in your personality.

  • @victoriakahakina6371
    @victoriakahakina63716 жыл бұрын

    You are amazing Mary! So many of us struggle different battles. I watch your videos almost daily now. You are such an inspiration to not be a giver upper. Your beautiful in mind body and spirit. Peter and Ollie are amazing too. I'm so glad you have their support. Humour is a great healer and many times when I can't find a smile I watch your videos and feel all of your fight fiest and fire. Thank you for sharing your journey. May you all be blessed.

  • @sonias9722
    @sonias97226 жыл бұрын

    I’m always looking forward to your videos, you do something funny even when there’s not much to work with (one single room!) and when things are hard. Definitely not giver-uppers. :)

  • @maryreynolds5310
    @maryreynolds53106 жыл бұрын

    Way to go Mary!

  • @dawnwilson4286
    @dawnwilson42866 жыл бұрын

    Hugs and love!!

  • @sunkissG
    @sunkissG6 жыл бұрын

    Awesome fighting! I had someone remind me yesterday to keep fighting because I felt like giving up; it’s been a rough week. Lots of love. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @LiveASMRTime
    @LiveASMRTime6 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry that your having a hard time of it Mary 😔 Fingers crossed you don't have too much of a setback after surgery I'm glad your white cell count is up 😊 I hope you have a nice weekend 💖💖💖💖 xxxxxx

  • @Nikkitoney
    @Nikkitoney6 жыл бұрын

    Speedy recovery mary

  • @janicebell4786
    @janicebell47866 жыл бұрын

    Bless you 3,get better soon Mary you are a wonderful couple xx

  • @Micha-fb1gp
    @Micha-fb1gp6 жыл бұрын

    So fun seeing you enjoy the Nintendo DS XL, I couldn't tell if it was the 3d or not but either way so fun and great way to pass time! Mario has always been my favorite console game! Great seeing you push through, I had day surgery the other day that didn't go so well, my body didn't take to the medication very well. But they did biopsies and are looking for stomach cancer. I took my do what you think you can't do sweater with me to remind me I can do it. And it was much needed. Thank you for the inspiration, hang in there with your tough days upcoming, I'm rooting for you, so nice to have oliver and Peter with you. Hugs from your deaf viewer😊

  • @shannonwelsh5830
    @shannonwelsh58306 жыл бұрын

    So proud of you for listening to your body! PS... your flowers are beautiful. 💐

  • @ashleyhalteman2856
    @ashleyhalteman28566 жыл бұрын

    Praying for U Mary

  • @kimberlyearly8918
    @kimberlyearly89186 жыл бұрын

    Mary, you are so funny with the game boy haha!! I never played one but I’m sure it will help keep you entertained while in the hospital!! This vlog really made me smile! You guys amaze me at how you can even make hospital vlogs interesting! Good job working out and not giving up, Mary!! Hugs to you all!!💕😘

  • @courtneycox8297
    @courtneycox82976 жыл бұрын

    Thumbs up for you guys and for Nicole!

  • @sophieleanna9391
    @sophieleanna93916 жыл бұрын

    Kudos to Nicole! And a million thumbs up for Mary. You are definitely not a giver upper. I'm amazed at how much you did today. Good job Mary! Just so happens that hubby had an emergency appendectomy yesterday. Because of you guys I was much more prepared to deal with the hospital experience. Tried my best to stay upbeat and positive in my role as caregiver. Luckily, he did so well that we got to come home this afternoon. Love you guys!❤️

  • @jaylintaylor4333
    @jaylintaylor43336 жыл бұрын

    i love ur smile and seeing u on KZread I hope ur doing okay and prayers

  • @ejdoug8328
    @ejdoug83286 жыл бұрын

    Well, it looks like the cutest couple ever had a pretty decent day. You even kicked some butt there girl. In the words of goodybeats " you got up this morning so your already winning". You have my continued prayers.

  • @Juicyangel82
    @Juicyangel826 жыл бұрын

    It's so important to know when it's OK to push yourself but to also know your limitations and it's hard but you need to accept its ok to not force it and listen to your body xx

  • @aubreyrose3878
    @aubreyrose38786 жыл бұрын

    I hope you enjoy playing Mario on the DS as much as I do! It’s a fun way to pass the time. Sending positive vibes your way Mary and Peter!

  • @sarahkelly5254
    @sarahkelly52546 жыл бұрын

    👍👍 up for Mary!!

  • @crystalschneider3605
    @crystalschneider36056 жыл бұрын

    Praying for you

  • @fralinsandfriends
    @fralinsandfriends6 жыл бұрын

    You simply mean you don't like to admit when you reach your limit. Don't beat yourself up.

  • @VelveteenBippy
    @VelveteenBippy6 жыл бұрын

    Y'all are so funny! Glad today wasn't so bad. Got my sweatshirt. Can't wait to snuggle up in it! xox

  • @wheelchere
    @wheelchere6 жыл бұрын

    I can relate to accepting changes. The older I'm getting the more my body is not able to do what I could before and it feels really defeating.

  • @kimbo500
    @kimbo5006 жыл бұрын

    You're doing a great job Mary! You did so much in one day! You have good reason to be proud of yourself!! I was at the gym Friday, and a few of us have the same diagnosis, and we ALL have really been struggling lately. I think it is our hot/humid weather right now, that is making things worse. This is when people really see, how difficult that 'balance' is. The slightest bit too much, can make you have a flare up lasting several days. I'm hoping tomorrow is a better day, because I am to be going to a Service Dog Organization Open House/Graduation! I REALLY want to go, because I have some questions for them regarding their 'owner training' program. Fingers crossed, and saying some prayers!! :)

  • @mistycgrimm
    @mistycgrimm6 жыл бұрын

    Love you, Mary!!! Good job! You are a fighter!!! 🌸💐🌷🌹

  • @sarahsrandomvideos6965
    @sarahsrandomvideos69656 жыл бұрын

    You guys are great. Stay strong sending gentle hugs all the way from Kent UK x 😀❤

  • @Julia-en5ys
    @Julia-en5ys6 жыл бұрын

    Wow Mary, that was an active hospital day!!

  • @AlejandraGarcia-ix6ge
    @AlejandraGarcia-ix6ge6 жыл бұрын

    Hello Mary and Peter, keep up the great work! Your vlogs are very inspiring and just so good, I learned so many new medical stuff and they have helped me cope with current issues I've been going through. Thank you very much! P.S: I, too, am a medical nerd and will soon be starting nursing school 😃 Also, the console Mary used to play Mario is a Nintendo 3DS, my second favourite console my first being the Playstation 4

  • @chrismarczuk3951
    @chrismarczuk39516 жыл бұрын

    Keep up the good work Mary you can do it.

  • @hannahmariellewellynllewel7128
    @hannahmariellewellynllewel71286 жыл бұрын

    My day was ruff but with mary sing it made my day with smile thank u Mary and Peter 👦👧🐕🎤🎵🎶

  • @Haysalto
    @Haysalto6 жыл бұрын

    Omg Mario on the 3DS is so fun!! Great way to spend some time 😍

  • @addisongrenier604
    @addisongrenier6046 жыл бұрын

    You got this. Your so amazing. I love your videos.

  • @jennifernunn779
    @jennifernunn7796 жыл бұрын

    Prayers

  • @lightofmine124
    @lightofmine1246 жыл бұрын

    Yay neupogen worked! Staying in the fight with ya! Praying continually!

  • @beadyarngal83
    @beadyarngal836 жыл бұрын

    You are doing great Mary! I loved your expression on the gameboy. I was laughing really hard. So cute. I love how Ollie "fist bump" on peter's hand. I just love you guys! You bring smile to my face when I watch you! :) :)

  • @kittymervine6115
    @kittymervine61156 жыл бұрын

    I'm laughing to hard, but Mary, don't laugh so hard!!! But what a prank!!

  • @darciclark4991
    @darciclark49916 жыл бұрын

    Ok that re-enactment was freaking hilarious!!

  • @Alicia-kf9lq
    @Alicia-kf9lq6 жыл бұрын

    Mary your so Beautiful. God bless you three xxxxx

  • @abbykuusisto3731
    @abbykuusisto37316 жыл бұрын

    Love y'all you got this Mary!!

  • @l1a7r0i0s9s9a
    @l1a7r0i0s9s9a6 жыл бұрын

    I love y’all!

  • @DanisLife
    @DanisLife6 жыл бұрын

    I decided to do my research paper on biology on cystic fibrosis. I can’t wait to learn so much more on it. I wanted to do it on gastroparesis which is what I have but teacher said no tothe topic. Always pushing myself way to hard then I pay for it for days.

  • @WyntersFrost
    @WyntersFrost6 жыл бұрын

    Still praying every Morning for you. :)

  • @fuzzywuzzy588
    @fuzzywuzzy5886 жыл бұрын

    Thumbs up for Mary :) Sometimes finding balance is very hard ,when one doesn't have many options

  • @jpmansell66
    @jpmansell666 жыл бұрын

    Keep fighting!

  • @Traderof4
    @Traderof46 жыл бұрын

    I hope you feel better.

  • @holly1610
    @holly16106 жыл бұрын

    Your hospital pranks are hilarious!

  • @MissTupsy
    @MissTupsy6 жыл бұрын

    Loved the prank!! Ha ha...that's great! Mary you look great for all you've been through. I also love how Ollie took over your bed!! 😂😂 He's sooo o adorable!! Stay strong Mary. You're doing great. Praying for you both!🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕

  • @jenniferburger2710
    @jenniferburger27106 жыл бұрын

    Squeeze the Bag, if its ok we may have to do this when my daughter isnin the hospital. She spends a lot of time in the hospital at times Anything to make hospital life fun, you are such an inspiration and Peter your support to Mary is amazing.

  • @ErinAndParker
    @ErinAndParker6 жыл бұрын

    When my body is done and I'm "giving up," I call it "tapping out"! It has a better connotation and doesn't make me feel bad haha :)

  • @krisy_87
    @krisy_876 жыл бұрын

    your doing great to peter!!

  • @grainne916
    @grainne9166 жыл бұрын

    You are starting to be a good bit better even yr big smile is back xxx

  • @ameliaswiatek2558
    @ameliaswiatek25586 жыл бұрын

    Even at your weakest you are incredibly strong 💪💪💪

  • @itssewxtra1713
    @itssewxtra17136 жыл бұрын

    I had a pink gameboy, I loved it! I think that would be a good tool for boredom for sure!!