I am from Sicily and my father was very abusive verbal, mental and physical. My mom 3 times she was almost dead seen that as as child it was terrifying and hearing my mom screaming and crying. As a child I couldn’t do nothing. 😥😥😥

@sahinozkan199

4 ай бұрын

@@MeryemAydin-xl2mj Niye adamı bu kadar üzdün Meryem'ciğim?

@charlievetta1385

4 ай бұрын

@@sahinozkan199Because the man is mentally ill.

@deborahminter6231

4 ай бұрын

I am so sorry!

@CookieBear187

4 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry for what you and your mother endured!

@stephanietautolo6486

4 ай бұрын

So sorry you and your mother experienced this 😢

in South Africa, everyone knows someone who lost their lives due to a partner. Femicide is widespread and is so sickening!

@MESSEDUPWORLD30

4 ай бұрын

I blame feminist idealogy polluting modern society.

@yuiitodoro7791

4 ай бұрын

Omg that's something

@Sunshine-lo6vd

4 ай бұрын

It’s all over the world. Man is the devil and by man I mean anything with testicles. Driven only by sex.

@minmin-bk1gn

4 ай бұрын

That’s scary and sad

@kathleenhillock9366

4 ай бұрын

It's global.

My father was continually abusive to all of us, but more especially my mother. He died at the age of 63 but when my mother sobbed at his funeral I think it was with relief. She lived for a further 24 years without him, free at last. It was almost impossible to find any refuge then. My mother was offered a room in the old workhouse in Southwell! For some reason we were brought up to believe WE should be ashamed, not him.

@minmin-bk1gn

4 ай бұрын

Hug to you, I have similar experience but to a less extent. Those traumas have been following me all my life. I will seek therapy later

@cocochocookiedough

4 ай бұрын

OMG same here. Gender based violence I am still experiencing is being pushed on me like it is my fault.

@cocochocookiedough

4 ай бұрын

Bastard child here. Me and my dead mother are still paying. He never had to pay for anything. My mother made a mistake to raise me in a Catholic viper den.

@user-st8mb2is5v

4 ай бұрын

RB, when I was 20 in COMSUBIN I came home to hear my neighbor screaming for help. I was in the middle of eatting breakfast when I heard the commotion so I grabbed my dive knife and went next door to pay the man a visit. He never spoke again after that because I warned him if anything ever happened to that sweet lady it would be his last breath. He moved out that day without his wallet and bank card because he caused the mess now he has to pay for it in cash to his wife. The people in our village watched as he left throwing rocks the entire time. If the police wont do justice then the people in my village will see that there is justice. The old way. I hope you heal with time. If you want to talk we can. My English isn't perfect but I try.

@stefanschleps8758

4 ай бұрын

@@nicholasphelps3872 (Great job dude!) You're trying to blame the women. Don't even try to defend your position! Bottom line. There is NEVER an excuse to harm your spouse! Never!

Domestic violence is a big issue all over the world, including the United States.

@Joe-gw9wh

4 ай бұрын

In the United States, over half of all women homicides the perpetrator is an intimate partner with a gun. And over 5 million women have reported being threatened with a gun by an intimate partner.

@taliabraver

4 ай бұрын

What about the violence towards women that hamas did?Oct 7 was the work of devils!

@solveeasy2056

4 ай бұрын

Including Russia where the femicide rates are higher

@jacktran7024

4 ай бұрын

Leave America alone...

@Grelotmystiqueetal

4 ай бұрын

@@jacktran7024No. you leave American women alone: do no gaslight them.

Here’s the thing: all these murderers are narcissists, and Turetta was no exception. He couldn’t accept the fact that she had left him, that she would graduate before him, that she would move to another city to attend another school because not only she was into engineering, she was also into art (her grandmother is a painter and writer). He was a looser: he didn’t have friends (unlike her), he couldn’t pass the exams etc he couldn’t accept her success.

@rv706

4 ай бұрын

Nope. He had borderline personality disorder and anger problems. He couldn't manage the emotions related to being "abandoned" by her. This whole "narcissism" obsession by pop psychology and some media has to stop: it's a moral panic.

@amberfur5750

4 ай бұрын

@@rv706 That’s what he has been diagnosed with: narcissistic personality disorder. I don’t know what you mean by “moral panic”.

@M_SC

4 ай бұрын

@@rv706no, it’s a moral awakening. Borderline PD overlaps with NPD a great deal and actually is a controversial diagnosis that may be reclassified anyway. And people can be narcissists without having NPD,

@_Amarin

4 ай бұрын

​@@rv706Well, whatever mental illness he had, it's not an excuse for his actions. Don't defend the indefensible!

@RonLarhz

4 ай бұрын

Because toxic patriachy and masculinity that makes men feel superior to women while repressing emotional intelligence development. They were taught that violence is manly/show of dominance. Problem with the whole world. Sick world.

Put her NAME in the title! The way you put names of school shooters and serial killers. If someone deserves to be called by their name, is an innocent victim of domestic abuse, so she doesn’t become just a statistic 😑

@leonardoferrari4852

4 ай бұрын

It's in the description of the video

Thank you people of Italy for caring about women. ❤ from the 🇺🇸 😭 Prayers for the young lady, may she rest in peace.

Condolences to her father and the rest of her family, community, and citizens of Italy.

@Stranger_ThanFiction

4 ай бұрын

😢😢😢🥺🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🥺😢😢😢

@ChloeLayneXO

4 ай бұрын

Her father probably doesn't care as much as the "rest of her family" think about it... he is a man.

@kevinc8955

4 ай бұрын

@@ChloeLayneXOWhat a deranged thing to say.

@andy2172

4 ай бұрын

​@kevinc8955 Its tragic, what happened to that woman, but the deranged feminists and misandrists are all out in the comments here. They don't realise they are just as hateful as the people they lament.

@francisdrake7060

4 ай бұрын

​@@ChloeLayneXO You should check what her father said this whole time, shame on you, Snake!

My mother was hospitalized when I was a kid and I escaped a violent partner age 22. People don't want to know, they prefer to stick their head in the sand and blame victims. And they are scared because the law doesn't do enough to protect and safeguard victims or people who challenge them

This is why so many women are opting out of marriage & children we see the reality, condolences to this young woman’s family

@kevinc8955

4 ай бұрын

Makes no sense. In countries where femicide is highest in the world, South America and Africa, population rates are exploding. Try again, Misty.

@damnedifidonut

4 ай бұрын

​@@kevinc8955 I'm from Nigeria in Africa, and tbh, the only reason why population is exploding is because of 1. Poverty and illiteracy 2. Societal expectations/pressure on women to get married and give birth 3. Stigma against divorced women It's so hard, fr. But I know if my husband hits me, I'm leaving. Idc what my mother or any "elder" says. I'll leave and move far far away

@sarabavota

4 ай бұрын

We are forgetting that women mostly educate young male, if males are violent the problems are in the family mainly

@cherryberry4264

4 ай бұрын

@@sarabavota what?

@ogolden8315

4 ай бұрын

@@sarabavotaLies!!!! Women are not the main influence of males past a young age. Boys are more influenced by how the males in their immediate environment behave.

It happens here in The Netherlands a lot too. And is stigmatised as "family drama" instead of exposing these men. If there are children the men kill them often too. The women dont stand a chance the press charges but police doesnt do anything until its too late😢. R.i.P Guilia

@edithputhy4948

4 ай бұрын

Yeah they call it "family drama" too in Germany unless it's a Muslim perpetrator and victim, then it becomes an "honour killing"

@Amazigh_MaeMae

4 ай бұрын

@@edithputhy4948 thats so true!!

@bastian9693

4 ай бұрын

@@edithputhy4948Most of those cases aren’t even talked about or perpetrators arrested. The thousands of rape and abusive charges in Cologne 2015 enough shows this. In the UK, parents could face hate crime charges for their daughters being sexually abused by migrants or the police they hardly take action at all.

@edithputhy4948

4 ай бұрын

@@bastian9693 C'mon, that is blatant right wing fake news meant to stoke resentment against migrants. No, people can't catch hate crime charges for their daughters being sexually abused by migrants, that is the dumbest thing I've ever heard and that never happened.

@crestfire8008

4 ай бұрын

Men will always protect eachother's crimes

How sad to treat a beautiful girl with such violence and disrespect and to find her body so abused and dumped in a ditch. That boy couldn’t have really loved her to be able to do that to her.

@sumonjamal1653

4 ай бұрын

It's not love... it's possessiveness. It's entitlement. Parents often kill their daughters by "honor killings" in conservative societies if she steps out of their will or ways (Ex. - gets a boyfriend... divorces the man they picked for her... is revealed as a lesbian... or shows defiance) ... Some people r not meant to be parents, especially if they hold the life of their own female child w/ such misogyny. Boyfriends or husbands often face the same mentality... They view a woman as a 'possession'; a means to have sex and children... and they abuse the women to keep them under their thumb... If the women break free from their abuse or influence, they see it as the ultimate betrayal and it kills their ego & enrages the men... And they lash out in rage, fury and indignation - "If I can't have you, no one will..." It's the way they claim their 'possession'... It is misogynistic, unwarranted & evil. They see themselves as figures who have been given a huge 'injustice' by being rejected by women, and their recourse is to act violently and kill them (In their minds, a woman is 'less than' a man... and he has to reclaim his manhood because he feels 'less than' her when she leaves him or defies his will) Unless a man can assume a healthy relationship w/ a woman and they treat each other w/ respect and as equals... this trend will not dissipate, tragically. That being said, women (and girls) have to be better taught to recognize these misogynistic, narcissistic men and not get involved w/ them, romantically or otherwise. I've seen too many beautiful women fall for low lives and they end up in terrible situations.

@KC-ni5gw

4 ай бұрын

He thought he was entitled, cause of his gender.

My father thank goodness was never abusive towards my mother. During my 25 years of marriage, I continue to be very supportive of my wife; it is beyond important for my three children to see a functional relationship.

ABC News is really putting issues regarding women front and center. Kudos to you!

@Phillip19655

4 ай бұрын

Unless it’s a man in women’s sports!

@ljthirtyfiver

4 ай бұрын

It’s liberal news they’ve been doing this for years now .

@vicom134

4 ай бұрын

@@Phillip19655What is your stance on abortion?

@Phillip19655

4 ай бұрын

@@vicom134 My stance is it should not happen, unless the woman is in danger of dying from giving birth. Rape,incest, and not things like not just a woman had sex and doesn’t want the baby. No changing my mind ok.

@vicom134

4 ай бұрын

@@Phillip19655 So you don’t truly care about women rights! Interesting!

Excellent report. I is painful to see how much damage is caused by violence against women all over the world.

@juicyfruit4378

4 ай бұрын

And men as well

@chihirostargazer6573

4 ай бұрын

​@@juicyfruit4378 Men commit the vast majority of all violent crime... including violence against other men. So the problem is male violence.

@nicalb6929

4 ай бұрын

​@@juicyfruit4378who gets murdered more in a relationship men or women. And when men do get murdered its usually caused by other men

@norahelaine6041

4 ай бұрын

@@juicyfruit4378Get out of here with that. The subject of the video is women. 99.9% of the time that a woman and a child is a victim of homicide, the perpetrator is a male. Sickening!!!!

@juicyfruit4378

4 ай бұрын

@@nicalb6929 again, and hopefully the last time, the subject is about equality and suffrage - men suffer just as much as women do and women aren’t the only victims of abuse - got it?

Imagine what the number is in the USA...

@JenniferPChung

4 ай бұрын

That thought crossed my mind. I think people need to be taught how to navigate through their emotions in a healthy way. I believe people who are emotionally unstable when a impactful event occurs stems from being raised in a toxic masculinity environment. But that excuse can going go so far because at some point they have to be unwilling to break free of that and learn how to navigate their emotions. And by emotionally unstable I mean letting their sadness transform into aggression. Yes. I am most definitely tippy toeing around this really delicate topic but I hope my point still comes across.

@HoneyLove77

4 ай бұрын

EVERY 4.5 HOURS A BLK WOMEN IS FEMICIDE BY A BLACK MAN! SMH!

@elle8hcim

4 ай бұрын

Chicago has severe femicide problem

@cocoace7587

4 ай бұрын

African-American women are unalived every 5 hours . 😢

@genabrianna7267

4 ай бұрын

@@JenniferPChungyes but America has violent hatred for women. When it comes to media, music, entertainment etc. America has never even had a female president

stats in the US is even worse

@meahdahlgren5875

4 ай бұрын

Right

@jamecia8550

4 ай бұрын

Definitely, I love your username. Btw

@Letizia2810

4 ай бұрын

Unfortunately I still read a lot of hate and mockery from many men (and sometimes even women!) in many Italian videos where femicide or s. assaults are the topic. Many comments are compassionate, but unfortunately the bad comments are still many. Usually they are people over 50/60. However I’ve noticed younger men are mostly more understanding on the topic, more intelligent, sensitive and less aggressive, except for some angry lonely incel here and there that likes to troll and write horrible stuff to get attention.

@alessiovalentini4401

4 ай бұрын

​@@Letizia2810Fortunately, Italy has the lowest rate of femicides in the European Union

@ButterflyG673

4 ай бұрын

Italy has a lower population compared to the US🤦🏻‍♀️

In prison the boyfriend will soon learn that his role is reversed.

@STRANGERINMOSCOW1

4 ай бұрын

In prison here in Italy, he'll be just fine. He'll be out in a few years with a free law degree that they'll help him study for, then his " social workers" psychologists and the like will declare him "reformed". He'll have a new identity and a damn good job too. The He'll make thousands by writing a book and appearing on TV for interviews. Meanwhile Giulia ...

@lunababy4259

4 ай бұрын

@@STRANGERINMOSCOW1I’m not suprise Italy is like Greece they’re very ignorant there

The good thing about Italy is that it has one of the lowest rates of femicides in the world and this topic makes headlines unlike in countries with extremely worse situations like the USA

@rodolfoquiroz7819

4 ай бұрын

Why the need to bring up the US? Keep your attention on Italy. So quick to want to turn the tables. Own it Valentini, you're just as fkd up as us Americans.

@intersezioni

4 ай бұрын

Let's see then the number of voluntary homicides committed by family members or (ex) partners per 100 thousand women in EU countries in 2020, Source Openpolis, Eurostat data as of February 2023: Latvia: 2.14 Lithuania: 0.87 Croatia: 0.67 Austria: 0.60 Slovenia: 0.57 Hungary: 0.57 Germany: 0.53 Netherlands: 0.45 France: 0.43 Czech Republic: 0.42 Malta: 0.40 Italy: 0.32 Spain: 0.32 Sweden: 0.25 Greece: 0.16

@UncleFred-mb4eq

4 ай бұрын

@@rodolfoquiroz7819this is an American political theatre to further divide people. Three murders. One year. RIP to the lost.

@Joe-gw9wh

4 ай бұрын

@@intersezioniin the U.S. it’s 2.6. - Sanctuary for Families

@kevinc8955

4 ай бұрын

⁠@@Joe-gw9wh 2.6 is heavily skewed. It’s 8 per 100k for black women. We already know 13% of our population has issues with literally everything. Check Europe in a few years of immigration and get back to us.

Did a highly violent offender not recently receive a home-sentence with his parents because prison made him gain weight.... after stabbing his partner over crumbs in the bed. Rethinking judgements like that is urgent.

@deborahminter6231

4 ай бұрын

🤢 Are you serious?

I’m honestly kinda scared of men…

@LukeHartman-ro7hl

4 ай бұрын

Because you've been programmed to. You are who your company is.

@slaonestephens7575

4 ай бұрын

@@LukeHartman-ro7hlno because of the experience we make with them.

@LukeHartman-ro7hl

4 ай бұрын

@slaonestephens7575 can men who have had bad experiences with women make the same claim? Or does the narrative not apply?

@abor1males

4 ай бұрын

@@LukeHartman-ro7hlCrime stats dummy

@chuckscott-cy7iq

4 ай бұрын

That sounds like a You problem.

Condolences to this ladies family and friends 😢. A huge issue all over the world. 4 woman were killed by their partner in ONE week in South Australia, just two weeks ago. One lady was 85 and her thing of a husband 91!

Italian court ruled in 1999 that a woman "can't be a rape victim " if they're wearing jeans at the time of the assault during a sexual assault case. Nothing much seems to have changed.

@jeanneratterman

4 ай бұрын

Seriously? Jeans? 🤦‍♀️ That’s the problem? Not the sick b*****d who will not control his urges? Who feels entitled to ruin a woman’s life? 😱 I’m preaching to the choir, i know. I just have a hard time comprehending the asinine and cruel rules or laws - largely passed by men, who maybe want that ‘safety’ in case they ever need it(?) 😤😠😡🤬

@deborahminter6231

4 ай бұрын

Actaully that was a law in America in the Southern States during the 70s. Are you sure your talking about Italy?

@deborahminter6231

4 ай бұрын

@@jeanneratterman In America the pathetic excuse was that...A man couldn't take jeans off, so rape with jeans was impossible 🤢

@chiararuocco2811

4 ай бұрын

​@@deborahminter6231I'm Italian. In Italy the sentences of a tribunal aren't laws, so that sentence is valid only in that case.

@tremblence

4 ай бұрын

There is a high incident in rape by immigrants (Nigerian, African and the Roma Gypsies) Indigenous Italians (White Europeans) commit far less rape and crime on average...... but non-European immigrants are PROVEN to rape, steal and assault more often than the natives

Men have to be taught as children on how to be men, to love, care, support etc so that they can be healthy partners, learning to love themselves so that they will be able to love and respect others (women especially). They can only change their ways not personalities but they can improve their mindsets. Women must be taught as children to know early on, what’s healthy and unhealthy behaviors displayed during their relationships and how to safely get out when able to. RIP Julia.

@kippesolo8941

4 ай бұрын

Women have to be taught as children that if they hurt other people, may it be emotionally, there might be consequences. So they can be healthy partners.

@chirho8657

4 ай бұрын

You taught men how to do that already, thats why the amount of men not having sex in the United States is up to 40%, feminism destroyed a generation of men.

@theartcave1489

4 ай бұрын

Alot men including myself were taught to respect EVERYONE. That doesn't stop mentally ill people or psychos. Get it through your head

@whatever2206

4 ай бұрын

​@@kippesolo8941Ok but many men cheat on women and emotionally hurt them but still arent killed while sleeping by those same women they cheated on and humilated. Do you really think women cant kill men for the same reasons men kill women as well ? For example many women can kill men while sleeping to take a revenge but they just dont do it even tho they experience cheating, emotional abuse etc... If a woman can stand being cheated on without hurting a man, man MUST STAND BEING HURT WITHOUT DOING HARM TO OTHERS. Otherwise its pathetic.

In prison here in Italy, he'll be just fine. He'll be out in a few years with a free law degree that they'll help him study for, then his " social workers" psychologists and the like will declare him "reformed". He'll have a new identity and a damn good job too. The He'll make thousands by writing a book and appearing on TV interviews. Meanwhile Giulia ...

Se thing happened to an Egyptian new bride recently! And they didn't do anything for her... so sad

@lunababy4259

4 ай бұрын

She already was born without any rights in that country just for being a women so I’m not surprise

@straight1080

4 ай бұрын

it's a rampant occurence in the Muslim world, and barely discouraged by the society.

I don't date anymore ever since my ex tried to hit me in the middle of the street. I know there are much more good men in this world, but I'd rather not risk it, especially in a world where I have to think about "safe ways to break up." What am I missing here anyway. Chances of getting HPVs?

Domestic violence is frighteningly still high across the world....

@straight1080

4 ай бұрын

it is much-much higher in non-Western and non-Christian nations, women are almost like cattle in these societies. Western women don't realize how good they've gotten it.

Italy has a domestic violence rate that’s lower than the EU’s overall.

@gailainsley6939

4 ай бұрын

And yet still it’s every 3 days. Wow. This shows how huge this thing is.

Outrage !!!!!😡 No Justice!!!!!!!!! No Peace!!!!!!!!!

This greatly reminds me of the case of my high school friend who was murdered by their father just before they graduated this year. This problem is a pandemic and needs to be handled!

@Lin10uson

4 ай бұрын

@@kristinajakakas9068, trash like you run around and act as if you've seen it all and are the toughest of the tough when you're just a disgusting person who insensitively tries to hurt other people the same way she's apparently been hurt by the things she's had to witness and experience in life. Just because your life has been to witness savagery it doesn't mean you should act so callous to other people when you slide-into the comment section of a video. What you just put forth in this comment section was unnecessarily nasty and insensitive and it did not have to be. You chose to go-out-of-your-way to make someone feel uncomfortable after they just expressed feelings about the murder of their friend from high school. They find some semblance of relevance in this video that describes a murder that took place hundreds of miles away that seems very similar, and your reaction is to tell' them to shut-up in the face of their friend's murder. I don't know who r∆p3d and maimed you, but it shows.

@Xeodyn

4 ай бұрын

What a wanton,@@kristinajakakas9068.

@Lin10LEN

4 ай бұрын

Wow,@@kristinajakakas9068, you must have been graped' by your father to come off the wall with some disgusting shyt' like that. You've got the wrong one.

@LinTennyson

4 ай бұрын

You're a sad, sad little heaux',@@kristinajakakas9068.

@alvincyt

4 ай бұрын

friend their they Can you explain a little more?

I’m so sorry 😞 rest in peace queen 👸 god be with you

At a high school near where I live in the U.S, a 16 year old student was stabbed 14 times at her school by her ex boyfriend who she had recently broken up with for being abusive. She survived but her injuries had her in the hospital for a few months. There are some crazy men out in the world. Of course it can happen the other way around too, but it is more common that men attack women in this way.

@thewewguy8t88

4 ай бұрын

Honestly I can't understand why someone thinks it's okay to attack anyone let alone a woman like that.

Happens everywhere. So sad.

Now, how about a story about all the missing indigenous girls and women in the U.S.

It is heart breaking. So much potential lost yet again to male entitlement. I appreciate that the Italian people turned out in droves and the officials addressed men, instead of women, like they do in other countries.

@kevinc8955

4 ай бұрын

And I’m sure there were no warning signs with these men prior to them killing the woman right? Never laid a hand on her and then all the sudden kills her in a fit of rage? OR…he was just so manly and handsome and he’s trying to do better, he swears it…and all my friends and family just don’t understand how much he loves me! Want to live a peaceful life free of violence? Marry the pimply faced skinny armed nerd in Hs who worships the ground you walk on.

@ilsehelena12

4 ай бұрын

​@@kevinc8955or, avoid men entirely. I think that's the better option. Stop blaming women for men's crimes

@Krissy_K888

4 ай бұрын

​@@kevinc8955 If you were a pimply faced nerd with skinny arms who the girls didn't like and it still hurts your feelings, then it's time to try talk therapy rather than scan the internet to find excuses for victim blaming. If you continue ranting under my comment instead, I will have no choice but to find your behaviour as one of those warning signs you mentioned and report you.

@IndianCurrycel

4 ай бұрын

@@ilsehelena12It’s woman’s fault for rejecting men. God made men and women together not two men or two women together.

@ilsehelena12

4 ай бұрын

@@IndianCurrycel lol then be better, that way women won't reject you 🤷 simple

My heart,condolences & prayers goes out to the Cecchettin family. To lose Giulia Cecchettin in that brutal and violent way. It's so terrible that violent against women is all over the world. This has to stop somehow. I am glad the ABC news shed light to this case.

questo porta vergogna alla nostra gente perché un uomo debole non è riuscito a controllare i suoi problemi emotivi. non c'è spazio per queste sciocchezze. né ora né mai. quest'uomo dovrebbe essere punito alla vecchia maniera...

We definitely have this problem in America as well, I'm really struck at how the people are handling it in italy its powerful.

@jonmartindeiii962

4 ай бұрын

Yeah but so many men and some brainwashed women in america say "we don't need feminism" and men make fun of feminism. I understand the recent wave of feminism in america is so unnecessary, and i feel its like it's cause ppl take advantage of feminism. In reality, feminism is important ALL AROUND THE WORLD, especially in muslim countries, asia, africa etc. I feel offended and sad when some american women think and say they dont need feminism and its USELESS, because they are privileged and lucky... I saw some women even say they wish feminism didn't happen just so they could be "traditional housewives" and live in a cottage, like bitch why you taking advantage of the rights women in history fought so hard to get for you?! Fucking privileged

I am so sorry.

He did a monstrous thing! I will never understand certain males' refusal to just let go of a woman who doesn't want them! She had her whole life ahead of her! RIP 🙏

@Aven-Sharma1991

4 ай бұрын

Lol, who the f are you kidding? Playing with someone’s emotions like that, just leaving them and you’re expecting them to be skipping down the street? I don’t advocate violence or anything but here you’re just being friggin arrogant

@cindychristian1700

4 ай бұрын

@Aven-Sharma1991 She no longer wanted to be with him! What part of that do you not understand?! She had a right to move on! Why couldn't he?!! If you really feel the way you stated, then please, get some help! ASAP!

@truthismycause2800

4 ай бұрын

​@@Aven-Sharma1991Women are not property, you son of the devil. You can't keep them against their will just because you get a heart booboo. Deal with it and move on. Women get rejected too.

It all starts from the family, kids learn that is okay to do, say and act a certian way from the parents, it's not a men issue its a family issue, the only way we fight racism, sexim, and other hate groups is by having better parents, my mom thaught me well, i would never even slap a woman unless my life gets threatned, so let's stop blaming Men, start blaming poor PARENTHOOD.

The problem actually starts with mothers in Italy spoiling their sons - sons grow up with a sense of entitlement and expectation that they are very special and deserve anything they want from a woman - if they don’t get it later as grown ups they throw tantrums and sometimes, as in this case, they even get violent towards their female partners. The matter is exacerbated by fathers who support this attitude of entitlement in their sons because they themselves were spoiled rotten by their mothers.

@sometea4741

4 ай бұрын

It is by male examples of violence. Not by raising males to feel special but by observing adult male violence that males mimick. They have no control over their anger.

@wexmcl8076

4 ай бұрын

yeah this reasoning makes no sense, and with a twisted narrative puts the blame on women. 1. People don't kill other people because they are spoiled, they might throw tantrums or become assholes but they don't plan and execute a murder. 2. Italy has a way lower rate of femicides than many other countries that apparently don't have this culture of "mothers spoiling their sons". Please, this is a serious and complex topic, do not just throw around random theories based simply on how you are feeling or on your skewed perception of the world.

@creampuffwar4457

4 ай бұрын

@@wexmcl8076 anybody who knows Italy just a bit knows that men here are spoiled by their moms and woman in general and have big problems taking rejection. Don’t be pathetic with your political correctness - nobody is blaming anybody - it’s just the way it is in Italy and of course the case at issue shows exactly that this is a correct analysis of the situation - don’t talk about things you don’t understand

@charliesargent6225

4 ай бұрын

Out of 23 European countries, Italy was 19th LOWEST IN THIS CATEGORY, much much lower than all the top European economic countries, Greece 20th, then Cyprus, Iceland, Malta all tiny countries/populations. The rate per 100,000 is just over 0.2. This story makes it sound like a dire pandemic is spreading in Italy. In the US it's 2.6, 13X more. Mexico, which is known to under report crime, is 10X higher. Same as crime...mafia, mafia, mafia, yet Italy has one of the lowest crime rates in the world, nearly 1/2 that reported in Germany, lower in certain categories than Sweden, Finland, S. Korea.

Xy's violence against women is very concerning. Their behavior needs to be addressed.

@captainobvious6070

4 ай бұрын

Put radical feminists into power. These wars on humanity will stop.

@mommak10

4 ай бұрын

Women are hated so much it’s sickening. I’m scared to be in a relationship 😢

@GameFuMaster

4 ай бұрын

lol, maybe females should fight back then. Or are you going to cry to another male for them to do something about it?

@bastian9693

4 ай бұрын

@@captainobvious6070tell that to Sweden’s government right now. In Germany, a 15 year was raped by 9 immigrants and only one was sentenced and it was a Anne Maier Goering, a female judge that did this…

@crestfire8008

4 ай бұрын

@@mommak10 don't be in relationship with males. Save your life and peace. Male's don't value women's lives

every death is a tragedy, said so, saying that in Italy is there a "patriarchal culture" is just not true, I was raised in Italy 40 years ago and no one ever suggested that it was ok to be violent, possessive or disrespectful to women. To me and to my circle of young friends was thought the opposite, "never beat a woman" was repeated to us many many times during our young age... in many households is the woman who is in charge for family decisions and man are already discriminated by many laws. I live in the north of Italy, I can't speak for other places, but here were I live you just can't say the culture is misogynistic nor patriarchal. My parents were from 1940's and my mother already used to have the last word on every decision in the house. In the video they say that one woman is killed every 3 days: it is misleading since that statistics refers to woman killed in general - even child killed by her mothers are included in that number - it is not what is called "feminicide", don't make confusion! The murders of a woman from an ex-partner or a family member are less that 40 each year. Even one is too much, I agree with that, but you can't say that there is a cultural issue against women in Italy, that is just propaganda from feminist groups. Checking on the numbers and you will find that Italy is one of the safest countries in the world for women. 05:10 in Italy there is a crime called HOMICIDE, why do you need to distinguish by gender? If it a woman being killed is it worst than a man murder? Are you sexist??? And, by the way, the murders of men in Italy are double than women, maybe is it worth mentioning to provide a more broad perspective.

@DMAGAEscober

4 ай бұрын

Propaganda at its finest

It’s time for femininity divinity to rise

@coolbreeze5683

4 ай бұрын

Then there would be no more wars. Can't have that or else the rich men will have less things to profit from!

@faraboverubieskerry

4 ай бұрын

Yep . But ALL of the women would have to be in agreement for that and the patriarchy spent so much time training women to compete and hate each other... specifically so we wouldn't unite.

@Blakoss

4 ай бұрын

@@faraboverubieskerrymen compete and hate each other as well, it’s just human nature. The patriarchy didn’t teach you that

@kevinc8955

4 ай бұрын

@@faraboverubieskerryThe patriarchy didn’t teach you to complete. Nature did. You have limited amount of eggs, the best male partners are likely going to be taken by other women, so let the back biting begin. Nobody hates women more than other women.

@GameFuMaster

4 ай бұрын

after they stop arguing with each other over small matters. If women can't even run businesses together, how are they going to run a government?

When there is little or no trust in a relationship, it is time to break up.

@karolineCPH

4 ай бұрын

The sad thing is, breakups are often a catalyst for murder.

Let's pray to God that there will be justice for all. 😭😭😭😭

Male pattern violence as usual

@ampmri2434

4 ай бұрын

Exactly, media is able to expose the domestic violence more in modern times.

@theartcave1489

4 ай бұрын

You clearly have never heard of female violence.

@missandry2669

4 ай бұрын

Usual gender usual suspects

@missandry2669

4 ай бұрын

@@theartcave1489Rare nice try

@konyvnyelv.

Ай бұрын

Immigrants commit more crimes but if you say this, you're labelled racist

after this nothings changed, everything goes on as usual

Not to minimize this problem in Italy but out of 23 European countries, Italy was 19th LOWEST, much much lower than all the top European economic countries, Greece 20th, then Cyprus, Iceland, Malta all tiny countries/populations. The rate per 100,000 is just over 0.2. This story makes it sound like a dire pandemic is spreading in Italy. In the US it's 2.6, 13X more. Mexico, which is known to under report crime, is 10X higher. Same as crime...mafia, mafia, mafia, yet Italy has one of the lowest crime rates in the world, nearly 1/2 that reported in Germany, lower in certain categories than Sweden, Finland, S. Korea.

So sad I didn’t realize it was such a large issue in Italy.

@francisdrake7060

4 ай бұрын

It's not, check the index, one of the lowest, it's just being more discussed by the Italian politicians.

@lanaofficiel4042

4 ай бұрын

It's a problem in the United States as well.

@DMAGAEscober

4 ай бұрын

It’s not, but propaganda is needed to be pushed.

@asellandrofacchio7263

4 ай бұрын

It's not, our index is one of the lowest in Europe and in the world. Sweden's index is almost double ours 😉

@Moodboard39

4 ай бұрын

@@lanaofficiel4042usa king of murders lol they the top murders...why u think they have crimes shows.....

Monsters hide everywhere... They are usually the people you admire.

"Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will kill them." - The Handmaid's Tale

Women need to stop being so freaking nice to these creatures and stop giving them access to you.

@a.b.2405

4 ай бұрын

This right here! Literally being too nice has gotten me in awful situations. 😢 Just so sad that being nice can get you killed.

@damnedifidonut

4 ай бұрын

Being cruel can get us killed too, but we must refuse to go down without a fight

@vxCOCOxv

4 ай бұрын

You do realize this is victim blaming right? This is NOT women’s fault! Blame the one who takes a woman’s life. Unbelievable.

@ChloeLayneXO

4 ай бұрын

@@vxCOCOxv um yea I blame them that's why I say stop being nice and giving them access to you. One cannot control what others do, say, or think! We can only control what we do right? So stop being SO FUCKING NICE TO THEM! THEY DON'T DESERVE IT! Makes sense?

@tulip811

4 ай бұрын

​@@vxCOCOxvnot realistic.

Has there been an increase in domestic violence during the past 100 years? Or has it always been common, ever since prehistoric times--simply taken for granted and ignored?

@MsSemki

4 ай бұрын

Men have been abusing women since the beginning of times. But all of that was ignored and women were brainwashed to believe that it's their fault and kept quiet. Not anymore.

@anneloving8405

4 ай бұрын

No it's just reported more and probably when we lived in smaller communities,very violent individuals were probably "taken care of"..

@cyndigooch1162

4 ай бұрын

@rossklatte7073 It was extremely common when I was growing up in New Zealand during the 60s and 70s, which is still a long way back! In fact, my homeland has the highest rate of family violence and child abuse in the developed world. I was advised to leave home by a psychiatrist when I was 15 years old, then left the country for good five years later, without meaning to. 😥

Italy is a first world country why is this happening? Women’s rights must always be protected.

In Franse every day one woman are killed by her partner.

@chuckscott-cy7iq

4 ай бұрын

I'm not surprised. Given the fact that paternity fraud is so rampant in France.

Condolences to her family.

A worldwide crisis

@Scifi4life

4 ай бұрын

In muslim countries

I start to sing the song... (sang in a rhythmic rap) If I'm in view of a man disrespect to a woman (which is just wrong) It begins very small, seems like nothing much at all, just a germ, just a speck, just a grain. But the seed has been sown and it’s spread through your life like a stain... Its power will struggle, for your love and your joy; for its hunger consumes & lives to destroy.... Hate is the Star, it becomes who you are, not the hate; but the hater, becomes a torment that's greater, it will eat you alive, consume and spit you out, hates gonna win. There’s not doubt about.... Hate doesn’t care who you are... Hate is the star... Learning hate is an art, even people who are smart, can be caught, can be crushed, can be creamed... It swallowed you whole, did you think you were in control?

This is a huge problem in Sicily.

@riccardoc1430

3 ай бұрын

Just 6 feminicides happened in Sicily in the whole 2023. It's terrible that these six women were killed, but it's a problem far from being "huge"

What’s being blurred out in the crowd?

@cad5017

4 ай бұрын

I’m guessing they’re blurring out their signs that they’re holding up.

Lol i agree all men need to change but after years of society accepting and encouraging bad behavior not going to stop overnight and it has to be taught by example

@LukeHartman-ro7hl

4 ай бұрын

"all men need to change" no we don't. I've never done anything like this. Stop generalizing. You are a part of the problem.

@tulip811

4 ай бұрын

​@@LukeHartman-ro7hl no it's your dad

@DMAGAEscober

4 ай бұрын

Can women change too?

If the Italian Government cared, they would've done a lot a while ago. Raise your sons to be respectable, decent human beings. Especially to your daughters as well.

I don't understand why anyone would do something like this.

How has he not been charged?!

@wexmcl8076

4 ай бұрын

don't worry, it just means that he hasn't been "formally" charged, likely because the judge and the authorities simply need to collect all the evidence, along with his testimony, to formalize everything, but he is in custody, as they already have enough evidence to put him in "preemptive custody"

Sometimes parents warn their daughters about their boyfriends but they don’t listen….. until sadly it’s too late…. There are signs and traits to look out for in narcissistic peoples eg controlling, stalking, and obsession the list is endless…

@tahliah6691

3 ай бұрын

@@user-od5fh3gn4d yes I’ve seen it so often in my line of work… but convincing these women to save their children if not themselves is another story hence why now in the UK they will threaten to take the children if the woman doesn’t leave…. We need to break the generational curses that keep women trapped in violence and not let the next generation think it’s the norm to suffer in silence… domestic violence is a global issue it’s just that some cultures have moved on from it some have slipped back into it and some cultures condone it as a way of power and control….

@tahliah6691

3 ай бұрын

@@user-od5fh3gn4d I think you will find it’s mainly Asian and South American cultures that will tell women to remain due to community honour…and there’s not support outside of the family that supports the victims …

Seems a deliberate choice here not to examine the rise of misogynistic far-right politics and the violence against women they demand.

@gailainsley6939

4 ай бұрын

I was just going to say the same thing. This is the highest it’s risen in decades and that whole Man0sphere / redp1ll space blowing up online at the same time isn’t lost on me. There is definitely a correlation there.

@Oblivisci........

4 ай бұрын

I agree with that, but I'll also point out how brainwashed the left has to be to raise the Palestinian flag while screaming about feminism.

@paddydoyle4234

4 ай бұрын

​@@gailainsley6939and a record number of abortions and promiscuous women to. You can't have one without the other.

Sad

I really don't understand what bringing a Palestinian flag to a femicide protest has to do with the cause

Идут века, но, в отношеннии женщин мало что изменилось. Женщины приобрели много прав, но всё равно остались без защиты.

Stay classy, humanity.

This made me cry. My heart goes out to all the victims and their families. I hope Italy is able to better the laws about it. Please stop turning a blind eye to the problem. I would try to help if I could. But I'm not powerful enough. Let's try to be a netter world for our children and future generations.

Wow. 😢

I am an Italian person. The TVs were saying, upheld by our fascist government, that the killer did in fact ‘lose control of himself’ although he literally planned the attack on Giulia. Elena, her sister, made a very powerful statement in a far-right transmission of a typically conservative channel (although many others are becoming the same way): she said that the killer of her sister has not to be considered a “monster”, but a sane son of a patriarchal society and calling for an uproar as, also her father said, even the slightest form of abuse to - in this case a woman - is violence. …While our PM condemned activists that, during a protest demanding patriarchal cis-heteronormative society to start re-considering itself, sprayed graffiti at the entrance of an anti-abortionist clinic of an deeply homophobic organisation, which is of course backed by those in power.

@nasciacito6651

4 ай бұрын

Con i precedenti governi (di sinistra) non sono mai state uccise delle donne, vero? In questo caso se ne parla tanto perché l'assassino è italiano, e non solo per questo... Quanta ipocrisia....

@Luca-si5fy

4 ай бұрын

Sinceramente, dire che viviamo nel patriarcato mi sembra un po' sciocco: Al massimo casi come questi sono le ombre dei resti di quello che era il vero patriarcato indo-europeo. Se vuoi conoscere il patriarcato vero consiglio di studiare le società indo-europee antiche e la ricerca fatta attualmente sui proto-indo-europei, coloro che la (propria) cultura patriarcale l'hanno portata in Europa. Casi come quello di Giulia hanno più a che fare con l'atomizzazione della società a parer mio. Nel patriarcato indo-europeo vero la donna è di fatto una proprietà barattata dal capofamiglia per il proprio beneficio e quello del clan. Ella era vista allo stesso modo del bestiame, e la volontà degli uomini era a sua volta assoggettata a gerarchie più ampie.

@amafirenze-vi1uh

4 ай бұрын

"Fascist government" 😂Bevi di meno.

@mujkocka

4 ай бұрын

Vote her out. All these far right politics are anti women. No women should be putting up with it

@asellandrofacchio7263

4 ай бұрын

DON'T BELIEVE THIS 1DIOT. HE'S DEFORMING REALITY.

We can't stay silent and do nothing while women get abused and killed every day.

This makes me soo mad 😠

Damn hope things change

Sounds like Gabby pitito case.

@caroespinoza9287

4 ай бұрын

Same thought 💭

They only speak up when it's their clique others don't get justice where's my justice as abuse victim of women.

@ghengis423

4 ай бұрын

When's the last time you saw men protesting and holding rallies against being murder victims? These women are standing up for their best interests related to what affects them, maybe instead of complaining about that you should do the same for what you care about? Or do you not actually care and just want to bitch and moan on the internet?

I recently heard a guy I know resent his ex for “projecting” her past abuse onto him and not taking his critical feedback well, his female colleagues for “having the personality” that gets promoted while he had the effort and intelligence, his mom for remarrying and having kids with another man that look nothing like him, and me for finding out about some duplicitous things he’s done as well as for making him feel uncomfortable, calling him out….and he likely thinks I’m crazy for blocking him because I saw signs of deeply rooted mommy trauma anger issues

@Rage_Harder_Then_Relax

4 ай бұрын

NOBODY like's getting others issues "projected" onto them. Can see where that problem began.....

I definitely think it a horrific crime. I also would point out 2022 there were 319 murders in Italy 125 of those were female. That means 61% of those murdered were males. Italy is a very safe place. Crimes do happen but the individuals involved are the culprits, the guilty. The overall society pursed the offender, jailed him, and is prosecuting him, that is evidence of a just society. I definitely feel for the loss of youth, potential, hopes she and her family had for her. My sincere condolences to her family.

Gulia! Her name is Giulia. It's not an anynomous victim.

Let's see then the number of voluntary homicides committed by family members or (ex) partners per 100 thousand women in EU countries in 2020, Source Openpolis, Eurostat data as of February 2023: Latvia: 2.14 Lithuania: 0.87 Croatia: 0.67 Austria: 0.60 Slovenia: 0.57 Hungary: 0.57 Germany: 0.53 Netherlands: 0.45 France: 0.43 Czech Republic: 0.42 Malta: 0.40 Italy: 0.32 Spain: 0.32 Sweden: 0.25 Greece: 0.16

@jeannerogers7085

4 ай бұрын

What's with Latvia?!

@tulip811

4 ай бұрын

Your typical slav men​@@jeannerogers7085

@MonkeyDLuffy-gd6se

4 ай бұрын

@@jeannerogers7085 latvia has 54% women its not as bad as it looks.

It’s wild how much Italian sounds like argentinian and portugués accents yet still sounds like any spanish speaker

What a depressing topic.

Terrible. Women really face a lot of violence in Europe, even though Europeans looooove talking about violence in non European countries. So sad... violation of human rights, say many non Europeans. Europe needs to focus on its lack of human rights, especially for women, because Italy isn't the only country in Europe with abundant violence against women.

@IndianCurrycel

4 ай бұрын

Italy doesn’t represent the rest of Europe. There are more than one country in Europe. Sweden, Denmark, Norway, Finland, Iceland, Netherlands, Switzerland, Luxembourg, Belgium, Germany, Lichtenstein and France are progressive European countries where they keep it civilized.

@CigarettesAS

4 ай бұрын

@@IndianCurrycel I hope you're joking. Italy is one of Europe's countries with the LOWEST homicide rates, and one of the lowest WORLDWIDE. Sweden on the other hand has a rampant rape issue caused by immigrants...

@daisyrose9311

4 ай бұрын

@@IndianCurrycel that's what they all say. The Netherlands has geert Wilders in power, who is against Muslims and look at how Poland rejected non white migrants and almost banned abortion. Sorry, europe is the last place for human rights. I'd never look to them to try to civilized me.

@paulodacosta944

4 ай бұрын

@@IndianCurrycel you have never been to Italy, it is more civilized than you think more than France and Germany

@paulodacosta944

4 ай бұрын

@@IndianCurrycel Latvia: 2.14 Lithuania: 0.87 Croatia: 0.67 Austria: 0.60 Slovenia: 0.57 Hungary: 0.57 Germany: 0.53 Netherlands: 0.45 France: 0.43 Czech Republic: 0.42 Malta: 0.40 Italy: 0.32 Spain: 0.32 Sweden: 0.25 Greece: 0.16

Why is there a palestinian flag at a march against domestic violence??? What's the relation?? Pff these people are ridiculous

@Blakoss

4 ай бұрын

Especially since Palestine doesn’t even have woman rights, women are treated as the property of the man and literally sold off by their fathers. Unless they’re criticising Palestine which is unlikely

@dunphy1238

4 ай бұрын

Honestly tho…

As if disturbing the peace on the streets could stop homicide... 🤦

(Dec 23, 2023) 0:12 1:18 3:34

The youth has Andrew Tate as an inspiration

@Blakoss

4 ай бұрын

The problem was worse in the past so this doesn’t make sense

@zigzig9938

4 ай бұрын

@@Blakoss The problem is that young men idealize Andrew Tate, who used women to do sex work and earn money for him.

@goldencoast8896

4 ай бұрын

And that's a good thing. But balance has to be apply.

@crestfire8008

4 ай бұрын

@@goldencoast8896 a sex trafficker is a good thing?

@Que532

4 ай бұрын

No Andrew tate has nothing do with that madness it’s wicked women falling into their own device traps

Dear women, don't let men in your lives. No man has narcissist written on his face. He can change like day and night after relationship. You might feel lonely, but guess what, you'd feel much more lonely with him too. And more miserable. When you're alone, at least you don't have to worry about being killed because you talked back to a man.

@vvsshinobi2346

4 ай бұрын

That’s bad advice there are plenty of of good men out there, sorry for what ever situation you were forced into for you to have a messed up view of men.

@AB-ce3nn

4 ай бұрын

Its sad but true,the amount of violence I see other women in my life go through is astonishing, though not all are bad its still high where I live(Asia) We need to address this as a society, no one should die in the hands of anyone let alone a partner 😢

@gailainsley6939

4 ай бұрын

@@vvsshinobi2346how do you know? Do you date men?

@vvsshinobi2346

4 ай бұрын

@@gailainsley6939 no I just don’t believe out of 4 billion men every single one is some bad person that’s highly illogical to even think and if you do there’s a good chance you’re a misandrist.

@alexcarter2461

4 ай бұрын

Then you better stop using anything that was ever associated with men. Starting with your house, car etc. If you even possess those.

International problem, across time, across cultures. I'm so sorry. What a waste.

Y don’t they just say the rosary

We are 2 women and considered retiring in Italy. During our research, we learned about the macho culture in Italy and were horrified. At the time, a bill was being debated that would grant protections to women and the disabled, but it failed because it also had protections for gay people, and God forbid others are deemed as human beings deserving protection. At the same time, a friend moved to Italy but ended up leaving. One of the reasons was how she was treated as a woman. And Italy has the gall to think of itself as a better country because it's in Europe. It's no better than any other country in the global south. Its food and fashion are great, but it pretty much stops there because a plethora of countries in the global south have better laws and are more proactive towards femicides.

@topschlager7856

4 ай бұрын

so, which country is better? I would like to know!

@PhoenixBeI

4 ай бұрын

@topschlager7856 just look at the laws. The best way to find a country that's better on women's issues is to look at gay rights. Homophobia isn't a phenomenon on its own. It's a byproduct of sexism, misogyny, and the patriarchy. Now, that's not a guarantee of anything since women are seen as prey all over the world. There isn't a country in the world where women are 100% safe. But even when men on the street suck, legislation will indicate that the government is trying to address the problem. This is most certainly not the case on Italy. A little known fact is that the patriarchy affects men just as much or worse than women. Women bear the brunt because men defend/promote/justify their maleness on women. If there were no patriarchy, men would be free to be human beings rather than creatures obsessed with proving and defending their manliness, leaving a visible trail of women's raped, broken, and dead bodies.

@vivellaz

4 ай бұрын

I live in South Africa where crimes like that against women are more frequent than in Italy I'm sure. I do believe it is a universal battle for all women, regardless of where we live. We have always been harassed in one way or another, even in subtle ways, whether sexually or otherwise. It truly is universal and happens all over the world in my opinion.

@PhoenixBeI

4 ай бұрын

@user-od5fh3gn4d hell yeah! There's no biggest misogynist than a gay misogynist. There's an org in the US called Human Rights Campain, HRC. It has been the most reticent to accommodate anyone who's not a White, cisgender male. There's another org called National Center for Lesbian Rights, which came into existence precisely for the lack of support for lesbinas from HRC.

Beaten and stabbed? If only guns where banned in order to prevent incidents like this.

@sabinafiorentini3298

4 ай бұрын

It happens than when you have guns, ten thousand of people are killed with them per year. And only 100 stabbed.

@jeannerogers7085

4 ай бұрын

Guns account for the MUCH higher per capita femicide rate in the US.

@bootscooty

4 ай бұрын

Typical American gun nut using other people's tragedies to advance their sick agenda

@gaia7240

4 ай бұрын

You do know that in italy you can own guns right?

@Scifi4life

4 ай бұрын

​@gaia7240 you missed the joke

3:08 Doubt it, there is always something

As sad as this is, and it needs to stop, italian protesters are making it seem like it’s a very bad problem there, but in reality Italy by far has one of the lowest rates of femicide in Europe (and the world), with only a handful of countries where it’s lower, including Malta, Iceland and Cyprus…so Italy is not so bad after all…I also grew up in Italy with a father who used to yell at my mother constantly, really bad temperament.

not a good record