You don't get to make lewd comments about other girls in front of your girl thus making her upset and then when she communicates that she is upset by what you're saying, call her abusive because you feel guilty but don't wanna admit that you did wrong.

@kendragonrider7432

Жыл бұрын

Honestly that part made me question if she was the abusive one or the boyfriends just gaslighting her That is a clear boundary she tried to set for obvious reasons and to call that abusive kinda just sounds abusive itself. Maybe its he's honest and it was how she said it and he didn't mean to label abuse straight away but it just rubs me the wrong way helping some of my friends abusive relationships

@dutchvanderbilt9969

Жыл бұрын

@@kendragonrider7432 yea she laid out boundaries, communicated her displeasure and he decided instead of apologizing and admitting he was wrong he just tried to cop out.

@leslie9951

Жыл бұрын

Yeah it seems like he picked a perfect victim. Someone who asks you to tell them when they're being abusive so you can never be in the wrong and they're always the abuser. Like cmon you can't gaslight someone by doing and saying things they don't like that hurts them and no woman would like and then acting surprised when she gets upset about it what the f*** was That

@recycledapathy7411

Жыл бұрын

It's a pretty common tactic for abusers to claim to be the victim. The best counter to such an accusation is just saying, "I'm sorry if I was abusive to you, and since I care about you, I'm packing my stuff and leaving. For your health." The abuser will then do what the boyfriend in the story did, and backtrack and be all, "oh no no, I didn't say abuse, I said something else because I'm making you question your own judgement so I can keep abusing you." And hell, if you think you're legit abusing someone, and you feel bad about it, it's best to cut contact anyway. Tell them you need a break to think about things, and go talk to a therapist, without your partner, to determine if you're actually mistreating them or if they're being a gaslighting asshat. If you're being abusive, therapy can help you learn better coping techniques. If you're actually the victim of abuse, therapy can help you recognize that so you don't repeat the pattern with your next partner.

@rollitup419

Жыл бұрын

@@dutchvanderbilt9969 doesn't mean she's not an abusive person.

Second story: Oh, good grief, OP! Your jerk boyfriend is gaslighting you! Dump him!!!!!

Story 2: why the narrator just focused on the therapy of OP but not in the way the bf behaves? like tf, he just complimented other girls (objectifing them tbh) and saying he's infatuated by them, like wtf? Bf knows what he's doing, it can't be possible the narrator simply missed the fact that OP is being gaslighted

My 10 yr old daughter listens to these with me sometimes and when you said "kids suck" she looked up from her book and was like wtf lol

@aaron-gz

Жыл бұрын

"what did I do? 🤨"

@thatrandomcharalover

Жыл бұрын

That's hilarious XD

1st story you know what's funny? The fact she took several gift cards could mean she is in fact stupid and about to be scammed by someone. (Scammers ask for payment in gift cards since that's untraceable and not refundable.)

@recycledapathy7411

Жыл бұрын

That was exactly my thought too. She had to buy gift cards to pay the IRS/bail her nephew out of jail in Boston/pay off a warrant/other phone scam. She seems the type to easily fall for it.

For the last story I checked for an update and it seems they didn't find a brain bleed or anything like that. It was just a really bad migraine. As to all the non-US people wondering why she didn't go to the hospital with the tingling and numbness, our healthcare is that bad, yes.

@recycledapathy7411

Жыл бұрын

Good to know that she was ok. I remember my first bad migraine, I was puking and my eyesight went blurry and I just wanted to drill a hole in my head to let the demons out (yes, I was a weird teenager who read about medieval medicine, lol). My mom helped me get through it because she got them too, and later we did go to the doctor to get a CT scan, which was clean. That was the first, but not the last really bad migraine I had - in fact, I had a few that were worse, and I can remember them, because in each case I got excused from work that day and sent to the doctor - in one supervisor's words, "What are you doing here? You look like hell. Go to the doctor and then go home." One of the only good things about getting old is that I only have a migraine about twice a year now, and they're really mild, especially compared to the ones my daughter now gets. I told her that's the crappy heirloom that's been passed down our family line from mother to daughter for at least 4 generations that I know of.

@Avrysatos

Жыл бұрын

@@recycledapathy7411 I still get migraines almost monthly but they aren't NEAR the level this girl got one. That's an order of magnitude I am happy to not have experienced. My grandmother told me when I was a young teen that they'll go away in my 50s. Almost there...but I mostly manage them now with medication and ritual (ice packs on the back of the neck and the forehead and lying back down after medication and making sure to get plenty of water seem to all assist.)

Story 2: dude is gaslighting O.P. He’s using her trauma to manipulate her

I love how the Karen says the guy at the checkout was racist technically making her racist.

@alicespratt9987

Жыл бұрын

@@SkankHunt42isback First did anything in the video say anything about what race the Karen or the employee is ????? Maybe instead of saying a racist statement you might have to pay more attention to things.Won't cost you anything at all to pay attention.

@K175UN3SHI

Жыл бұрын

Sad part is the woman probably did this intentionally because she was bored

@rollitup419

Жыл бұрын

@@alicespratt9987 cry

She needs to get out of relationships for her own mental well-being this lady is somehow convinced herself of a whole bunch of garbage and is having to hear conversation that would make me feel sick and bad for those girls who are being stared at like that

Story 2: are we just gonna ignore the fact that bf objectifies other women to her face???

@wowgek7

Жыл бұрын

wow just because he sometimes says things like that doesnt means he objectifies woman perse honestly it depends on how often it happens. he could be doing it but to make this conclusion just from this story tells more about you then him

@sebastianquinchia1840

Жыл бұрын

@@wowgek7 Mate, tf are you talking about? He's literally talking about other women's bodies, OP specifically mentioned how he'd point out their asses and thighs, to her face. Clean the wax outta your ears and listen to the story again.

@wowgek7

Жыл бұрын

@@sebastianquinchia1840 lol so just because he says that one or 2 times you make all kidns of conclussions she described 1 interaction just 1 which isnt even close to enough to pull conclussions like that. you pull conclussions way too fast. I am not saying he isnt not saying he is either.

@nyes4596

Жыл бұрын

@@wowgek7 you still cant say "dang she has a nice butt!" Infront of your girlfriend, that was just messed up.

@wowgek7

Жыл бұрын

@@nyes4596 I am not saying its a smart thing or anything but stil its 1 situation you cant judge someone like that because he said something stupid once or twice.

Story 1: I'm not surprised about how stupid the customer is, because I sometimes have to help idiots like that everytime I work, luckily I work as a Loader instead of being Cashier Story 3: I'm not surprised of how lazy the guy is, like if you're going to live with someone, then just do some chores besides video games. I normally play video games every day but I normally do something else besides video games, sometimes I go for a late night walk, go to the movies, do the dishes, cooking, setup the coffee maker and some yardwork (I'm right now waiting till March to do some early planting inside the house before Spring arrives)

Who else has been watching AmiTheJerk for over a year?

@CorruptedDataCorSMG4

Жыл бұрын

i recently found this channel a couple days ago

@raerose2278

Жыл бұрын

Me! Have you checked out their new channel too? Called: Am I the Genius? It’s awesome also! ✌️❤️

@raerose2278

Жыл бұрын

@@CorruptedDataCorSMG4Welcome to the AITJ fam! ✌️❤️ Enjoy!

@CorruptedDataCorSMG4

Жыл бұрын

@@raerose2278 thanks!

I started watching this am now am addicted

@xju303

Жыл бұрын

yot

Every NPC when you tell it to go somewhere: (walks right past it) Karen when you tell her to go somewhere: (walks right pass it)

It’s incredibly hurtful when someone suggests that you’re racist when you weren’t actually being racist. God forbid getting fired over BS like that.

I relate to the math kid, I can't do numbers for shit, brain just goes poof and I struggled in school. Teacher lost patience with me alot and told me I'm fucking stupid a couple times when I did pages wrong. She got to keep working unfortunately.

@madeleineallen7758

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, that story really hit me hard. I have a learning disability (tho I'm not autistic) and I ABSOLUTELY SUCK at math.

@aardvarktime1237

Жыл бұрын

I have one too but it affects my reading ability got bullied a whole lot by a teacher to the point I'd stay late just to learn how to read (was in year one)

@fanofpink

8 ай бұрын

I feel all of you about the math. I can't math for shit either.

Story 4 reminds me of me because I was that good truthful kid too, but I would have a lot of breakdowns even if it wasn't a thing to breakdown over. So sorry to op for how they were treated.

I had a drama teacher who was also a cheerleader coach, she was the kindest person ever. I have multiple disabilities, neurological, mental, and physical and she was never mean to anyone

In the last story, when I heard about the numbness in the left side of her body, a stroke was the 1-st thing that came to my mind...

Oh man I had a scare when I was 11 or 12 that the doctors thought I was bleeding in the brain. The way they checked was to put a needle in my spine. No brain bleed but now I have vertigo

Regards to the messy boyfriend, well if that's how he's always loved and he's comfortable with that then it's her choice to live with him. Additionally, what percentage of the bills does he pay. He pays the bills then she does the cleaning.

@Kevinmcyeet

Жыл бұрын

They both work so it doesn't matter how much is split. My wife made significantly less than me but we were equal in maintaining the house. Relationships are partnerships, not a transaction

@Paul-yn2zy

Жыл бұрын

@@Kevinmcyeet Yeah partnership one pays the bill one takes care of the home.

i love your podcasts! 😊

Ty for these post everyday, they make my day better, and just made my 22nd birthday better.

@lapetite717

Жыл бұрын

Happy Birthday 🎉

@fluffybugz5748

Жыл бұрын

Happy birthday

@raerose2278

Жыл бұрын

🎂 Happy 22nd Birthday! 🎉🎈🎊 🥳 With wishes for a great year ahead! ❤️

@AugustaSleepy

Жыл бұрын

Ty

Story 4: How does that teacher still have her job? Because teachers unions have too much power, that's how. You could murder someone in broad daylight as a teacher and still have a job when you get out of prison in 25 years.

Story 2…so we just completely ignored the fact that her so called boyfriend talks about how hot other women are around OP and how that is a very good reason for her to be upset. I’ve been around guys I’ve liked and guys I’ve dated who have done that and I felt awful. I would constantly compare myself to those women and I was really depressed and felt I would never be pretty enough or good enough. To me I think the so called boyfriend is the abusive a hole. He is using things he knows hurts and upsets her to hurt her and upset her. That’s not healthy. I hope her therapist tells her what’s really going on and OP leaves that abusive toxic relationship. Story 4. I went to a very small school and the cheerleading coach was also the volleyball coach and the health/drivers Ed teacher. She was also 1 of 2 PE teachers. She is amazing. Very kind. She took me to get my drivers license on my 16th birthday. I got to miss some of school to go do that. She even got me a gift for my graduation. She helped me to not get expelled my senior year after I fell down the stairs and left without permission. I had to do a few months of after school detention with her. She never used my learning disability to insult me or make me feel bad. She always made me feel better about myself. I do wish more teachers were like her.

The moving story: I am EXTREAMLY forgetful and aloof and I ignore a lot of stuff. But the instant someone (parents friends etc.) draws my attention to it I have no issues fixing/cleaning the issue.

nah the first one, she got that zoro sense 😂😂😂😂

Last story: seriously, op should have taken his girlfriend into the hospital immediately. That was literally horror story to listen and i hope she dumps him, she could have died and person who was with him did nothing to prevent that. I'm giving op 5/5 BH and i'm giving 5/5 BH to Am i the jerk? channel for not realizing that simple fact. Always act if something like that happens, don't think if you are not a doctor, leave that thinking part for doctors, only thing you need to do is act immediately, period.

that wasn’t a ordinary lady that was zoro

@carbonated_milk9903

Жыл бұрын

No sense of direction 😂

Story 3 : (Story Summary [How it's perceived from the story by me] ) OP and bf are both hard workers earning money to keep themselves financially stable. OP moves into the house and takes control of the house. OP gets mad at bf for not helping around the house. bf asks OP to ask him to help around whenever OP is doing house chores. OP gets mad at bf because bf doesn't what and when she wants things done. I'm going to assume they are both renting because there was no mention by the OP of OP moving into bf's house. Final Judgement: Both parties are guilty OP : Lack of communication (No mention of a serious, discussion with her bf ) between OP and bf bf: Not enough effort put into helping around the house regardless of whether OP cleaning around It doesn't sound like the bf isn't refusing to help out around. It just sounds like he really has a mentality of not doing stuff if bf is not told to. SO YEAH, ya both need to sit down and discuss importance of ...... your issues

@firewing5592

Жыл бұрын

I feel like op and her bf just have different tolerance leaves for cleanliness too, I’m like that stuff doesn’t bother me that bothers others so I have to be told (yes firmly cause I don’t get hints) that it’s bothersome and to clean it. Also working from home if still working

@huntbat

Жыл бұрын

@@firewing5592 I wanted to include something similar I just didn't have the words for it. Yes, you're right. Some just don't care to notice a dirty toilet until it gets to a point where its unbearable to have in your house.

@recycledapathy7411

Жыл бұрын

Honestly, if your partner says, "Tell me what I need to do" then you should hand them a to-do list. That is their stuff to do, and they can't say they weren't told to do it. Maybe it's because my husband and I are ex-military, but both of us do really well with a checklist, because it was drilled into us to go over the daily/weekly/quarterly checklist for years. When I start getting overwhelmed, I sit down and make a list of everything that needs to be done, and I put it on the fridge. Then both of us can look at the list, pick something to do, and then check it off. If it's not on the list, we both forget to do that thing until it becomes obvious that it needs doing. If it's on the list, we have to make a conscious choice on whether or not to do that thing right now or check to see if it's okay to put it off until later.

@Lucifer-do7mf

Жыл бұрын

the bf asking to be told what to do honestly sounds like he might have autism or ADHD. im on the spectrum and i dont do shit unless someone tells me what to do specificly. i just cant get myself to do it on my own. maybe the bf has the same problem

@huntbat

Жыл бұрын

@@Lucifer-do7mf Lucifer be making sense on AITJ

0:21 but everything changed when the Karen Nation attacked 🤣🤣🤣

Story number four: I am the opposite of the OP, so if I could I would honestly stop by their house and help every night if I didn’t have any homework. Alas, the OP was in high school much too long ago for me to be any use for them.

For the Lazy boyfriend story, I do have one critique. Just because he works from home doesn't mean he automatically has more time to handle at home tasks. My mom works from home, and during her work hours, she is so busy, she doesn't have time to do major things like laundry. I'm not saying this dude is in the same position, and obviously he does need to help, but assuming that he has more time to help just because he's WFH isn't a good take.

What Op should say to the Boyfriend when he said "You should ask me" is "Okay, should we break up so I can go back home to my Family if you do not get your crap together and help with doing the chores?". THAT will get the hint across. And if he agrees to the break up, HE'LL be the one paying for it as then HE'LL have to do everything himself.

As someone who's grandfather died from a brain bleed I would've been terrified if a doctor said someone I love may have one.

i have a friend like this. We were doing a scout camp when suddenly he didnt feel very good.

Story one; I been in that situation, by another person of color. Funny thing is, I'm from China, so it was hilarious the moment someone else called ME the racist. Upside, the manager in charge at the moment knew she actually accused multiple people of other colors for being racist, so this wasn't new.

Sounds like a complex migraine. Sometimes can present itself as a stroke. I’m sorry you’re experiencing this.

Love the vids keep it up

At this point I think there is a Karen Corp that hires people to be annoying

The teacher one... i'm surprice she didn't get demoted sooner. I had one in 4th grade, until she was found to be bias to those who paid more. The a-hole was caught on the bullying by the entire class and got demoted by parents pressure half year in, especially my parents, and we got assigned someone else. The difference was day and night. I found her at the graduation of the high school year for my sister (Since she make the high school year on the same school i did all the grades), but ignore her completely and greeted the other teachers i had who were awesome, cool, or stricts but they actually got proud to see me grew up. Even the english teacher , since i live in a Spanish country, who everyone in school and even a friend who finish earlier, hated her guts, was happy to see me again, and even greet her and talk her in English as well (and it was like see someone trying to hold tears back too ).

My daughter attended a small, private school. In first grade a new teacher came in. She seemed nice enough and it’s first grade, hard to mess that up. Well, three months into the school year (3 months, remember that) I get a call from the principal. She told me my daughter had told another little girl that she wanted to suck on her “area that’s used to feed an infant”. (I won’t use the exact words, but it is not the word our family uses for that part of the body.). I FREAK the F out!!! I tell my boss I have a family emergency and I leave work. It’s a two hour drive from work to her school. The whole time I’m on the phone with my best friend in a panic. Where did she get that idea? If it wasn’t g rated, it wasn’t on our tv. And we only watched tv together. And where did she hear that word? Who was teaching these things to my 6 yr old little girl??? And what else had they been doing? Where and when was this happening? I know I work a lot of hours but I really thought the people in our lives were all safe…. I failed my baby girl. I didn’t protect her. I finally get to the school and immediately go to the principals office. The teacher and principal were both in her office. As I walk in the principal says, very cautiously, “There’s been a mistake.” Huh? What? Mistake? What are you talking about? Well it seems teacher mistook my daughter for another “blonde haired, blue eyed girl” in the class. These kids have been in her class 3 months!!! There were only 12 kids and only 7 of those were girls! WTF? I lost my shit!! I don’t know everything I said, but the principal never stopped me. Everything I said was directed at the useless teacher. The teacher was bawling and had snot running down her face. It was disgusting! When you screw up, take your ass chewing like an adult. My daughter, along with 5 other students were removed from her class and advanced to the 2nd grade class. When the year was ending, I made it a point to ask the board if that teacher was going to be back. The board did not invite her back the following year. Lost her job and had to move somewhere else, because after that no other school in the area would hire her. I don’t think that’s really sufficient for the years taken off my life in that two hour drive…

I swear there must be some Karen spawned in Ohio, Only Hell In Ohio.

Num 5: Seriously...? The OP does not want to pay for the bills

For Story #4: When I was in High School my main teacher during an IEP meeting with my mom said “Oh, He can’t handle Algebra so he’ll just get a Certificate of Completion instead of a Diploma.” My Mom’s response was “No! He’ll be getting a Diploma!” I took Algebra my Senior Year and passed with an A+. I was my Algebra Teacher’s favorite student and we would make jokes during class.

I don't understand why the girl with that crises didn't pay a visit to the GP, from the beginning, or even call an ambulance, as the symptoms might indicate something very bad, like a brain tumour or something...

My 5 year old sister could get those instructions 💀

40 Minutes..? Goodness.. she's lucky. Could be 40 hours too. Though the big M absolutely sucks and nobody who hasn't been through this has the right to talk it down. Or even claim to have it when it's merely an ache.. It's so grossly underestimated a disease people with big M should form a union and knock some sense into society.

"When a majority ruins the bunch" Hmmm, Freudian slip?

that teacher one sounds familer to what i had

1st story OP found Roronoa Zoro's entitled mom

still hurt my eyes watching. IT IS WRONG!

I have autism and when I was younger (I'm 15 now) I had a teacher in 5th grade who one day told me to basically told me to never talk to him ever again this was when my autism was worse but now I am better at controlling my autism but why do teachers think that being horrible to kids that really need help.

1st story, i know the karen is a dumb ooga booga

First story: Well having worked in retail for over 20 years, I can say that the Karen was up to something or just wanted someone to serve her. She could have been hoping that OP would leave the register to help her and then her accomplice would go behind the counter and try to open the drawer or steal something. Then when that didn't work, she pulled the racist card hoping to get something free for compensation. We don't know the races of the people involved, but it may surprise us if we did find out.

16:50 Actually in my experience this lady is the norm for special education. (speaking of the 80s-90s)

Diddy Kong Racing

Love the vids

She should have been fired

9:18 I mean if he does art I’d understand talking about the beauty in people but understanding what’s ok to talk about is important

Story 1 the Karen kinda reminds me of Zoro from One Piece

16:29 -- So she got demoted to assistant, or ASS. for short? :D

In the second story maybe the guy wasn’t lazy it could be he has problems with priorities like I have to have a list of things to do because I have the problem with priorities

for the third sory i can relate, work from home is extremely messed up, because split work and the comfort of your home is kinda hard, but bro come on wake up 5 min before a meeting.

Story 5 I think the gf was having a stroke and if someone is experiencing numbness in one side of the body and symptoms that the op described i think you should take them to the hospital

Ah yes bootleg Mario Kart

I don't know about y'all but I am pretty sure that first Karen has some neurological issues that she isn't aware of.

I think she saw it she just wanted to create a reason to have him fired

@johnnymcneal5914

10 ай бұрын

I don't know if it's the same situation but sometimes not very often luckily whenever I get frustrated sometimes get very angry and sometimes lash out myself

@johnnymcneal5914

10 ай бұрын

If you would have asked me she doesn't deserve to even have a job

@johnnymcneal5914

10 ай бұрын

That's not true not all coaches or that way I had a coach with the nicest person to ever want to meet

@johnnymcneal5914

10 ай бұрын

If I were the boss I would not even worry about it I would hire him despite his metal breakdown but try to make him feel better and hopes that a girlfriend feels better too

The first story, after she walked back he should of just walked her over to the checkout. She probably felt very stupid because she kept missing it and just wanted someone to hold her hand, regardless of what she initially said. It bothers me that she was just confused at first and then tried the race card like thats a last ditch effort to not look dumb. 🙄

How the principle being black have anything to do with the story?

About the teacher story. I was in special needs classes in high school (even tho I told them that I can handle normal classes) the teachers treated me like I was stupid and had that glassy eyed look like they didn't care and that your just a brain dead person who's giving them money. This teacher sounds a lot like my ex teachers. Mean and make very under handed comments. So I get the OP's perspective. I applaud OP for sticking up to themselves. Sorry for the rant and thanks for reading. This topic is always important to me. Because no one thinks about mentally handicapped people. Thankfully I'm on the high functioning side so I can pass as normal but I keep the positive traits of autism.

the first story is a little bit inconsistent at how he tell the story for the manager

I don't know what it is, but it seems like athletic coaches who happen to teach are just generally awful. Unless you fit into their clique, you're basically just a number.

Story 2: this absolute bastard...

Before 30 minutes. LETS GO

Story 5 the Girlfriend Has Hemiplegic Migraines and can be fatal but they rarely are I suffer from them depending on age it affects you for life

Story 2 is being gaslighted dump him.

the first story is, I'm pretty sure, what happened When dora the explorer turned to karan

I don't think she was stupid I think she was just trying to find an excuse to get you fired because she didn't like you for some reason I'm just guessing here

What game is that in the background

@Iron8127

Жыл бұрын

Diddy Kong Racing(N64)

@IdgrameonRoblox1

Жыл бұрын

@@Iron8127 thank you

Story 1: That Karen is just clearly trying to cause a scene.... and then try and pull the race card for some unknown reason. I hate people like that. Story 2: Sounds like both of you have issues that need addressing.... Story 3: The bf is definitely a lazy slob. It's fine that he works too, but he still needs to contribute to the household chores. Story 4: That teacher should feel lucky she only got demoted and not fired. You really have to wonder how some people get to be teachers. Story 5: Wow, sure hope the OP's gf is doing better, a brain bleed is very serious. At least the interviewers were understanding here, hopefully they let the OP do the interview again and give him a shot.

Hi

Story #2: you’re boyfriend is a total jerk l! I’m sorry girl but open your eyes…he’s toxic in the way that he’s saying ur “abusive” for basically expressing how you feel! Which is exactly what he’s been doing. And what he is doing is absolutely not right and you need to know that. I’m sorry but he says things about people’s butts and thighs and whatever other body part and you should be okay it’s because if your not it’s abusive? That’s ridiculous! Aside from loving you a partner also need to respect you. You’ve expressed you feel bad about that and it’s not wrong. I would be too. And he needs to understand that you have feelings and you should be respected as well. He needs to change his attitude girl and if he can’t then , you need to get out of there. It’s gonna hurt but, I have been there and it’s just the better thing to do for yourself!

🥳

FYI don't use the term "Race card" only racist use that term 👍🏽

Yes!!

Early

And I was the first like

Six minutes late

@suzannahinckley1114

Жыл бұрын

Claim your ticket here 🎟

First

People claim racism for literally everything. I was called racist for literally breathing in a place next to a black woman.

Story 2: so the bf can talk about ex's and other women to op and then when she lets him know that it bothers her, she is abusive? Wtf. She is allow to talk about what bothers her with out the bf building and manipulating her into thinking she is wrong. Bf is the mentally abusive one.

First

@76_EATDX

Жыл бұрын

You ment fifth?