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KABELO & GAIL MABALANE ON: Purpose | Grief & Friendship in marriage
One thing that’s evident with @kabelomabalane and @gail_mabalane is how purpose led they are and this is reflected in how they raise their kids, do marriage and point people to the cross.
You may not know this but they are also extremely funny! They had us in stitches from beginning to end. They have a powerful friendship that is palpable and we were just in awe of their wisdom❤️
Thank you Gail and Kabelo for taking the time to allow us to drink from your cups🙏🏾
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Seeing black couples look so good yet filled with so much wisdom . So incredible ❤
@dorcushatlane9525
Ай бұрын
Cherry on top is that they Soo love the Lord, in all of their discussions they reference God.. awesome 👌
Kabelo is so eloquent. He makes being a born again (Christian) so easy. He explains the scripture so smoothly that even a layman in the scripture can understand. And Gail is so in sync with him. They are so loving of each other
As a divorcee, I love how this series has highlighted the importance of being accountable as an individual in a marriage. I learned that in therapy and I'm so happy that all the couples that come here are so open about the realities of life. I love Kabelo and Gail so much and the Makhs have become family to me now. May God continue to expand your territories fam❤
@missmasakona3886
8 ай бұрын
57:54 😊😊😊
@rorisangtsoeu253
7 ай бұрын
Mmmm fact DT Ur a divorceee and Ur this chilled...warms my heart...I can't say more or less...buh the calmness in you is soo cool
@nenesibanda4171
7 ай бұрын
Do you after this episode wish you were still married?
@DzunyB
7 ай бұрын
@@nenesibanda4171 to the same man, no. But I do wish to be married again God willing ofcoz
@cindymotloung4714
6 ай бұрын
BEST EVER!!!❤😊
Gail adores her husband bathong. The way she gives him her complete attention, you'd swear he's the only person in the room with her. 😍
@TalentZwane91
4 ай бұрын
Can you be my Gail ? I'll be your Kabelo 😊
@user-nw7fq9pf7q
3 ай бұрын
This is love
Kabelo & Gail are so mature and firm in the things of God. Absolutely beautiful to listen to. So much wisdom & insight!
Gail is so humble. We met in a lift once, and she came in after me. She came in and greeted me. Love them both
I can’t get over how pretty Gail is. To the Makhs,Thank you guys for this series maan I feel so sharpened, may God increase and expand the well from which you draw, continue shining for the kingdom ✨
Gail is effortlessly gorgeous 🔥🔥. Great segment ❤
This segment has taught me so much about relationships and marriage as a single woman. Thank you so much, I am sharpened for sure❤.
@nomsa06
8 ай бұрын
Me too. Dare I say this was my favourite episode 💞. The fam was vulnerable. At some point it felt like therapy on both ends. We thank God for the Makhs 🙌🏿.
@azola_dawedi
8 ай бұрын
Fully agree with you❤
@ntsakothandekanziana1976
7 ай бұрын
Me too, sis 😊
My hubby was dropped at my door. Be busy with God's business and he will deliver... 😊
"Before you get out you pour"- Gail Mabalane this is so profound I love that wow🙌
“Love is not a feeling is a decision” this episode just made me introspect my own intimate relationship with God. Thank you family!
I've been so pleasantly surprised with Phetola's interviewing skills. Mrs Makhs, you have the gift of asking the right questions and making people feel comfortable enough to open up. Keep it up!🥰
@zimkitanyembezi
7 ай бұрын
I love her oh my gosh! She’s so charismatic ❤❤
As a newlywed, I love this series, the institution of marriage is revived through these discussions I love that we are reminded that we are human as much as we are husband and wife
Black excellence all four of you! Absolutely enjoyed every second of this podcast.
This segment taught me and also emphasized what I was taught. Marriage is honestly a representation of our relationship with Christ. We tend to go into Christianity or salvation because of what we can gain out of it forgetting that it's a call to serve or be of service and dying to self everyday. As much as marriage and love are based on choice and not so much on feelings so is salvation and/or being Christian. Because if we were to be honest with ourselves had it been based on feelings a lot of us would have thrown in the towel a long time ago.
The way Gail was looking at Kabelo towards the end when he was speaking about his favorite thing about her truly warmed my heart, this was such a beautiful, truthful and realistic conversation we tend to put people on pedestals and strip them of their humanness particularly in the church and I like how Kabelo was intentional in steering us back to the fact that they are humans who are simply evolving. We are all in process
When God is the center of it all, magic happens. I thoroughly enjoyed this fruitful conversation. Thank you ❤ for the wisdom and guidance.
And we're live💃🎉Let's go.I can't wait.One of my favourite couples.I can't get over how absolutely gorgeous Gail is my word😍😍😍
The wisdom flowing here! You can see that the holy spirit is at work within this union.
What a liberating conversation. Thank you to the Mabalane's openness and Podcast for building a space for them to tell their story.
Mum and Dad. There is nothing I love more than Kabelo's sermons at Rhema, I absolutely love them as a couple. Gail is an all time fave this was such a treat :)
I've been married for 16 years, and I must say I've learned so much from this conversation. When Kabelo mentioned that love is not a feeling but a decision, that was a revelation for me. So much wisdom and insight, wow. Thank you The Makhs team, May God increase you; we truly appreciate and are learning from this series.
She’s a PHENOMAL actress and beautiful! Love her cheekbones ❤✨
I love the Mabalanes so much ,they're so humble 😊❤️ I enjoyed this installment so much
Agh this was a gooood one! Absolutely loved this episode. I'll say again, Christ-centered marriages are where it's at❤❤❤. Such a superb job you guys are doing with this series!
This episode felt so short 😭. Loved it ! Aus Phetho and Abuti Lerato you guys are doing a great job ! 🙌🏾❤️
What a beautiful conversation. When Pheto said “now I want diamonds” 😂❤️. Learning and growing so much from these instalments. Thank you to all the guests who continue to speak truth and ultimately give glory to God. @The Makhs, thank you for your excellence. God bless you.
I love this couple, they really show us what the Kingdom of God is about. When Kabelo mentioned all the stuff he's recovering from, it just reminded me that God really uses everyone and anyone for his glory, we are all called to be the children of God, dosent mean we are perfect but God certainly turns what the enemy meant for evil for good. God bless their union❤ Thankyou for sharing this lovely couple with us Mr and Mrs Makhs
We are so privileged to have such videos that pour into us and prepare us for navigating relationships, friendships and marriage. Thank you so much for the videos thus far ❤️
"Marriage is a constant dying to self" - Gail Mabalane
@mpumemngadi959
Ай бұрын
So true, pity my husband is not seeing this 😢
This was so beautiful to watch. I love the Mabalanes’ so much bathong so much wisdom ❤️ Sesi Phetola you are such a bubbly soul. Your smile always brightens up the room, how calm and chilled your energy is 🥹❤️. Love that soo much ❤️
The wisdom shared here🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾unmatched!! I got chills throughout!! Love it!!❤❤
Another riveting installment indeed. The way i look forward to Tuesdays bathong.. I'll be shattered when this season ends.😢 i myself am in that 1st 5 years of marriage uphill and i can only continue to pray that it gets better.. such conversations inspire us really to keep fighting. THANK YOU❤❤
Thank you The Makhs for such authentic representation of marriage. God all glory. We learning n noting❤❤❤
This new project is healing me. I always say this and mean it all the time, this has to be the best instalment of all time. I am learning, unlearning and most importantly healing.
I loved everything about this episode. The questions from The Makhs were so profound. The wisdom and vulnerability from The Mabalane's was so encouraging and inspiring. My cup is full, thank you for sharing beautiful people❤. Umtshato osekelwe kwi siseko esingu Yesu umnandi, uyabukeka kwaye umhle. INkosi inisikelele nonke bethuna❤❤❤❤❤
Ah man. I'm glad I watched this alone because I had this stupid smile on my face throughout the entire thing😂. Guys thank you so much. I have learnt a lot today. This was so nice, I had to watch it twice ❤❤
❤❤my fav!!!!! I have beeeeen waiting for this episode!!!!!!!I admire both of them!!! Pastor Kabelo chose well. Gail is one timelessly beautiful lady!!!!!❤❤❤❤
All i can say is yhoo...the wisdom shared here is really mind blowing. Even us the singles get to learn a lot more about ourselves &individuality.
At this point I just want to pay my TV licence to the Makhs. And the beauty of both Gail and Pheto is just 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@nadea2645
8 ай бұрын
They are beautiful.Pheto is so wifely,you can see she isnt just married ,she is married to serve God ,she is so respectfull to her husband. With Gail too,you can see she looks up to her husband ,she listens to him like he is her leader ,taking in everything he is saying.And watching her do this is fascinating ,becos Gail is an in charge type of woman and you would think in this kinda interview she wuld still take charge but no ,when her husband is speaking ,she is soo attentive The men married to these women are blessed. That is what happens when you surrender to God as a man.
Guys I am so impressed and learn so much from this podcast,you have absolutely no idea.I am older than you guys,I married my husband when I was 26 and my husband was 25,we have been married for 26 years but as Gail said" we failing forward". It's a journey after all.We didn't have pre-marital counseling and so navigating marriage has been all on us,until we found God.. My husband watched this twice.Again thank you,so much wisdom and knowledge for free.We are blessed.
Love love love love love love love!! Conversation so deep and rooted in Christ I didn’t know I needed🙌🏽! Thank you for blessing us❤
This was sooo good man. I got soo many nuggets that I'm gonna run with. Thank you to Kabello and Gail for sharing themselves with us and thank you guys for opening space for them ❤️. Now let me share this. ☺️
Yeeeyi now this is the gospel I wanted to hear. Gospel vs Arts. Mr Mabalane nailed it there. I wish the relevant people in the government cabinet should listen to this. Some of us got healed by Artists. I don't know where I would be if it was not of me listening to music, looking at my daughters dancing & listening to The Soil or Bob Marley singing. Thank you for this Podcast The Makhs❤❤❤
Oh man, I don’t even have the words to describe how beautifully packed this conversation was, but thank you to the Makhs for inviting all these couples to your platform. I always say this channel is like premarital counselling, we’re learning so much. And I LOVE that these are Christian couples! Omg🥹❤️
Here on time. One thing for sure where there is LOVE there is always a good story to tell. Now let me watch
BY FAR THEEEE BEST EPISODE ❤️❤️❤️so much wisdom and knowledge from this couple! I’m not even married but I learnt so much for my own personal life and single season🥺🥺🥺🥺
@masabathamhlongo6378
8 ай бұрын
By far thee best I agree🙌🏾👏🏾
The beauty that is kingdom marriage guys 😢😍😍😍 to God be the Glory!!
You guys are just getting better and better each episode joh, go di fire fire in here and I love it. Thank you so much for this season and such conversations, indeed our cups are being filled and its amazing. God bless y'all shem. We love and appreciate you.
Man I love sesi Pheto her questions are so direct😂 Thank you so much family for such a wholesome content much love❤
Guys I'll be honest these podcasts has changed my life as a almost married woman these have managed to open my mind, I'm in awe with every eposode
🙌🏾🙌🏾. My fav word’s dying to self and serving the Lord with not just with your heart but your whole life that’s one of the greatest ways to find your purpose and live it and. Because my position in him determines my condition. in him. That’s why everything that you desire will be added unto your life.
Yhoo Makhs this series!!!!! God bless you guys for making this possible. We are learning so much, our lives are literally being changed. Another great episode guys we love the Mabalane's so much❤
This is so profound. These are conversations that we need to have regularly just to gauge how far we have come in relationships. I am learning so much from these conversations..
My cup is indeed full. Thank you to the Makhs for such content. Thank you to Kabelo and Gail. Love you guys, man I'm full. 😊❤
Kabelos wife is beautiful 💖 love her strength...
@mazwideamahle4091
7 ай бұрын
And wise!
Watching this I can safely say I can’t wait to get married❤️🙌🏾thank you for the amazing episode 🔥🙏🏾
@sisandagxowa7168
8 ай бұрын
Say that again me too
@morenabohlale8615
7 ай бұрын
"In your relationship with one another, have the same mindset that of Christ Jesus"... It's great to be excited and rightfully so, make sure your partner has the same mind of Christ Jesus as YOU DO!!! even if their Christian, they need to have the same MIND OF Christ as you do!!! That is my biggest advice to you my sister... It's most preferably you marry someone from the same church or church circles...
Ohw my goodness! What a wholesome conversation! Thank you Makhs family and a big thank you to the Mabalanes. I am learning so much from these conversations. May God continue using you and blessing you in abundance 🙌🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This was Soo beautiful to watch!❤ The synergy between interviewers and interviewees was really easy going and flowy.
What a treat this interview was
Failing forward in marriage & life It is so refreshing listening to both of you family 🥹❤
No words, just wow!
Oh my word!!! My friends and I were speaking about this the other day! So good! Loving all the topic choices❤❤❤
Oh this is beautiful! Thank you so much for this episode 🥺❤❤
As a single person I learnt so much from this episode. Thank you all.
The Mabalane fam is so grounded and I love it for them. Beautiful interview - first time watching this podcast ❤
Oh wow, I enjoyed this episode so much. Gail and Kabelo are flawlessly insightful and full of wisdom. I love how they are centered in Christ, I took away a lot that I will use in my marriage. Wow, Wow Wow!! My cup is full, that you guys and God Bless you :-)
What a breathe of fresh air. This conversation was beautiful.
This has blessed me in so many ways. Jesus I see you! Through Your people 🥹🥹♥️
Beautiful people!! Humility epitomized. Enjoyed this conversation so much❤
I am loving the caliber we are bringing forth :). Is it possible to invite Buli and Kev as well as Mpoomy and Brendan?
@MamaHakoe
8 ай бұрын
Support this ❤
@samkelisotshuma8485
8 ай бұрын
Yes please. Nozi and Skhu❤
@akanirikhotso6513
8 ай бұрын
Mpoomy doesn't do these type of interviews because she has her own page. It would be nice though.
@msjay6780
8 ай бұрын
@@akanirikhotso6513I think she does
@Noza896
8 ай бұрын
Yet another another amazing, informative God driven instalment… thank you to the Mabalene’s, this again proves with God ,Marriage with its many challenges can still be beautiful…❤❤❤
This man is smart, the intelligence to break down things precisely.
Kabelo and Gail, you are blessed and continue Pray. We love you so much guys and don't ever take each other for granted.
I enjoyed this so much. The 4 of you exhibited so much maturity, Godliness and accountability. So lovely to witness such. Wishing you the best in all your endeavours...
My God!!! I finally get the part about “commitment & putting in the work”! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
"I enjoy listening to conversations that are centered around Christ and are mature and genuine. In today's society, where marriage is often undervalued, it's refreshing to see young couples who prioritize their faith and choose to do marriage God's way. Thank you for hosting Pastor Kabelo and Gail."🥰😍🥰😍
Two of my favorite couples in one space❤. Thank you for standing up for the kingdom in entertainment industry 🙏🏿
Yho yho I'm so happy the Mabalanes and the Makhs intense and profound conversation 😭❤️this is a real treat.
Since yesterday I was looking for this episode and glad it's her now,I would like to say that seeing these couples that are in successful marriages had changed many people's negative mindset about marriage,we are learning and encouraged to hear what they have to overcome to be where they are,I believe that even those that are not yet married,are taking note so be ancouraged guys, for what you are doing is not in vain!!!❤❤
Wow fam this was so uplifting - it's very cold where l am but Bouga Luv when you spoke about people being delivered at festivals l had goosebumps cause l had never thot of it that way Beautiful family beautiful message May you continue to live the purposeful life that God brought you together to live Im going to watch this again and again - so many gems👌👌👌
I'm a 53 years old widow and this came at the right time. God works in misterious ways 🙌. I've been having so many questions about the relationship I'm in right now and most if not all were answered in this interview. I thank God for speaking through all of you.
Love,love Gail and Kabelo,thank you for bringing these Godly couples The Makhs.
This was one of those thought provoking conversations, I grew , I laughed and fell in Love with how you guys always hold a good conversation. Thank you for this! ❤
That was insightful and please tell Mr Kabelo Mabalane to bring back bootcamp ,it really helped those who were struggling with weight loss
That part were Kabelo said “Ai! Mfana”😂 and him and Lerato being the boys about it..I loved it😂😂😂 Blessings on Blessings to both couples man!! To the Makhs, keep on doing the Lord’s work , we love it❤
Gail really has quiet strength, I can relate so much 💗. I’ve started listening to Kabelo’s sermons online which led me here to the Makhs, I enjoyed this so much.
such a powerful conversation on life, thank you bringing us Kabelo & Gail. We love the Makhs 🥰
Oh how I loved this ♥️ “ Where there’s unity, God commands a blessing “ 🙌
😂😂😂😂 gosh I loved the ending. I loved the whole episode really. Kudos to the Makhs for this wonderful podcast. Keep em coming. ❤❤❤❤
Kabelo and Gail.....love you long time. What a powerful wholesome conversation. Thank you Makhs
I feel like this was so short man. I love them. It’s really great to see that these people are actually human after all and go through the same things we go through. Loved it man ❤
Another winning installment. Loved it!
Shuuuu these people mind blowing omg they flow streams of living waters, live them, thank you fam this is absolutely powerful…my God!!🤭🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ This platform is a MINISTRY 🔥 🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾, I feel like offering😅
So I was supposed to sleep after my midnight prayer, then me suddenly scrolling KZread. Boom my favorite couple. Watched until 02:50am. I have never been so soul fully fed. I have a new perspective for relationships and marriage. Thank you for the wonderful nuggets.
Love this so much , thank you so much fam for such a beautiful conversation. Christ being the center of our lives the anchor of all things.. We draw from Him, our life choices and decisions are based on the living Word of God. Thank you guys.
So much wisdom I love them 💗💗💗💗💗
Blessed and encouraged the transparency and the truth they put on the work thanks The Makhs as your parents said Love must be serviced love you guys be Blessed ❤❤❤❤
Loved this interview, what a beautiful couple ❤
So much wisdom and insight. I'm absolutely enjoying this. Love is a decision, it's not a feeling. 💯