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HOW WE REALLY MET | South African YouTubers

In today’s installment we explore our very eventful coming together.
It was ‘complicated’ to say the least while being God inspired at the same time.
We unpack lessons learnt in hindsight, forgiveness for past mistakes and reaffirming our love and commitment to one another.
#TheMakhs #LifeIsButAdream #HowWeMet

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  • @queennandiey725
    @queennandiey7253 жыл бұрын

    "A man that loves God more will love you right" I loved that.

  • @tessieakomuhangi6776

    @tessieakomuhangi6776

    3 жыл бұрын

    A woman that loves Gods will love u right.🤗

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Equally important❤️

  • @bevmwallo1712
    @bevmwallo17122 жыл бұрын

    I can relate to this ...I was also 24 and my hubby 22. We were not in God but my hubby knew he would marry me. Got engaged after 2 months of dating. When I got serious about seeking God years into our marriage, I prayed for my hubby and it was not long (less than a week) and we were both seeking & growing in God together. His grace has kept us and in October we'll be celebrating 17 years together! May God continue to bless your marriage!

  • @ItumelengParage
    @ItumelengParage3 жыл бұрын

    “She was clear about me but even CLEARER about Jesus” 😭❤️🙌🏿

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    True story 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @cocojiba2735

    @cocojiba2735

    3 жыл бұрын

    A true story of Matthew 6:33

  • @charmainemoyo1072

    @charmainemoyo1072

    3 жыл бұрын

    Deep

  • @maryhsaunders8666
    @maryhsaunders86663 жыл бұрын

    Be blessed. My husband and I have been married for 48 years on 12/152020.

  • @charaj5209

    @charaj5209

    3 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations Mary

  • @TaWandaJoyner

    @TaWandaJoyner

    3 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations‼🌟🙌🙏 I am 48 years old & will be 49 this year. I love it when I know of couples who have been married as long as I've been alive❣🌈🌝⭐🌞🎉

  • @asandazondo2961

    @asandazondo2961

    3 жыл бұрын

    😍😍😍😍😍

  • @lorraineanjili

    @lorraineanjili

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wooooowww 🙌🏾🙌🏾 His grace is truly sufficient for us

  • @JR-xz2uq
    @JR-xz2uq3 жыл бұрын

    I prayer for the young lady that you apparently weren't serious about. That she be healed and have a gealthy perspective about her life in God.

  • @vickymor3963

    @vickymor3963

    3 жыл бұрын

    This!!!

  • @tranquilsck

    @tranquilsck

    3 жыл бұрын

    I had to stop watching after that because... NO!

  • @JR-xz2uq

    @JR-xz2uq

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@tranquilsck ....explain please ?

  • @dorcaso1619

    @dorcaso1619

    3 жыл бұрын

    A lot of people are dating as immature people. Awakening love before its time. It's painful, but it's not abnormal or unheard of. A lot of people go through this. That's why I'm not into this dating around lifestyle. Dating people's husbands to be and wives to be... These folks, sigh. They shouldve handled this a whole lot better. But they know that, and it's a lesson for those who will see this

  • @liyahweh

    @liyahweh

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@tranquilsck naaaah. Don’t be offended. I know It’s painful to be on the other side but do you know it’s for her good? I mean the ex! Imagine her marrying this man just to have a terrible marriage. It’s painful but we need to learn that most of these men just date and that’s why we need to ask the Lord if this is it! Many Christians are only woke. They don’t know that God is interested in every area of their lives. Have you not seen how marriages have been mocked by satan? Have you not seen that people get married by feelings and then they end up divorcing? It’s painful yes! Painful that he was just wasting that lady’s time. But I’m happy he found his wife so she can move on! I’m sure God will reward the lady and help her heal. God doesn’t do half work! God also revealed to me how he wants relationships that will stand firm because it was ordained by him. Not just carnal people choosing for theirself.

  • @mapulakaraboramolefo9151
    @mapulakaraboramolefo91513 жыл бұрын

    “People are constantly trying to negotiate with themselves, negotiate with their conviction , negotiate with their values “ mmm I felt that 💯💯🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lerato dropping pearls there!✊🏽✊🏽❤️

  • @cbu4695

    @cbu4695

    3 жыл бұрын

    DEEP DEEP!

  • @nyanisamajavu4508

    @nyanisamajavu4508

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameeeen!!! I think 🤔 it is because there is so much noise in the world 🌎 and many voices are speaking at the same time . As Mrs Makhs says on here sometimes GOD’s voice in us is not loud. And maybe, if we tried hard enough to listen 👂 to it-it would be much more easier to remain steady in our convictions than not. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @terrancemakhosonkendhlovu9352
    @terrancemakhosonkendhlovu93523 жыл бұрын

    Everytime I watch you guys, I feel compelled to be a better man. Thank you so much for being real and allowing us into your space.

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh wow!! This is such a great honour 🥺❤️. We are truly humbled by what God is doing here❤️❤️❤️😩😩

  • @madampraises4450
    @madampraises44503 жыл бұрын

    "relationship is supposed to awaken something in you that you don't necessarily know is there" shuuuu! 🙌

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @mathonsimr

    @mathonsimr

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is so profound

  • @keneshawilliamson1574

    @keneshawilliamson1574

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen!!!❤️🙏🏽❤️

  • @KushQueen9

    @KushQueen9

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh absolutely!!!!

  • @carmelariley9491
    @carmelariley94913 жыл бұрын

    When GOD wants two people together !!! It will happen in ways you can’t imagine 😂GOD is amazing!!! I’m enjoying this!!!😃

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    He is so strategic❤️❤️

  • @maddemadetv445

    @maddemadetv445

    3 жыл бұрын

    so true

  • @steph_steph876

    @steph_steph876

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is what I am slowly coming to accept which is a bit hard because honestly, it's hard to understand. What do we do when we dont understand?

  • @cdgameface

    @cdgameface

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me tooo!

  • @mariaglover4202

    @mariaglover4202

    3 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate this comment. Thank you

  • @melbathompson9513
    @melbathompson95133 жыл бұрын

    For me a women of substance will always influence a man to become the best version of himself........and that is what Pheto is 👌🏽

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    That we s very affirmations and we couldn’t agree more 🙏🏾

  • @dr.sallybrown7827
    @dr.sallybrown78273 жыл бұрын

    I loved when you said, "My attraction to my wife was a spiritual attraction" not a physical one.

  • @reid3363

    @reid3363

    2 жыл бұрын

    Smiling as that was my attraction to my present husband. Met him 34 years ago and we got married 5 years ago

  • @dineomokgehle
    @dineomokgehle3 жыл бұрын

    Someone said when the student is ready, the teacher will appear. Yho Godly marriage in our day in age. I stan!!!!!

  • @naomitshibangu7331
    @naomitshibangu73313 жыл бұрын

    "staying in prayer when God reveals something to you"!!

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    That is so important🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @mareelottering2436

    @mareelottering2436

    3 жыл бұрын

    Please can you pray for me i have been struggling with this

  • @rosemakena8267

    @rosemakena8267

    4 ай бұрын

    I needed to hear this

  • @keneiloemyoli
    @keneiloemyoli3 жыл бұрын

    When you know you know. Somethings are just God. My husband paid lobola 2 months after him and I met and it's been 7 years now. May God continue to bless your union

  • @gbngcobo
    @gbngcobo3 жыл бұрын

    I can't believe that I'm enjoying this channel SO much. There's something so beautiful and genuine about this couple!

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    We can’t believe the love that you show week after week! Thank you ❤️

  • @boitumelokutlwano1716

    @boitumelokutlwano1716

    3 жыл бұрын

    You really really love them

  • @Scottybabygirl

    @Scottybabygirl

    3 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/dash/bejne/p5aXy7SucZC3ctI.html

  • @nyanisamajavu4508

    @nyanisamajavu4508

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love the transparency, rawness and conviction about the purpose of setting up their channel. It is a quite but evident purpose. And truly nourishes my spirit I walk away with a gem 💎 or two afterwards. Keep going guys ♥️🙏🏿🙇🏾‍♀️

  • @Ukversuskenya

    @Ukversuskenya

    3 жыл бұрын

    I felt it the right I opened it for the first time today. Such a beautiful and peaceful atmosphere.

  • @reneetshabangu7086
    @reneetshabangu70863 жыл бұрын

    When she said “A man that loves God more than me will surely love me right” I screamed yaaaas girl👏🏻❤️

  • @sasihle3056
    @sasihle30563 жыл бұрын

    When she said "I'm getting emotional" and Lerato held her hand😭😭😭❤️

  • @enigma6451
    @enigma64513 жыл бұрын

    I must be the only Jamaican here but I'm happy to be. I broke up with my on and off again boyfriend while watching this. He's a road block. Thank you guys

  • @NyabyizaJudith

    @NyabyizaJudith

    3 жыл бұрын

    🙌🏾🖤

  • @Lee-up2cy

    @Lee-up2cy

    3 жыл бұрын

    Your not at all hun and all the best with your next relationship this time hand picked my God

  • @kimoyallen

    @kimoyallen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Definitely not the only Jamaican reevaluating your reasons behind the relationship is so important. I had to do that, but trust God enough to guide you to where you need to be. He loves you 🤗🤗 more than any guy can and lead will to someone that will love you with God’s ❤️

  • @mariawallace5515

    @mariawallace5515

    3 жыл бұрын

    not the only Jamaican

  • @charmainefrancis4721

    @charmainefrancis4721

    3 жыл бұрын

    🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

  • @drolaboni8520
    @drolaboni85203 жыл бұрын

    You are so beautiful - Both of you. Oh my word. I’m so happy to see South Africans as “Kingdom Influencers” Keep up the good work. God bless you abundantly in all spheres 😍😇🤩

  • @Rose_Karey
    @Rose_Karey3 жыл бұрын

    Just bumped into this, and what can I say. Truly inspiring. It's stories like this that help me keep waiting.! God bless your union forever

  • @PHoz_y

    @PHoz_y

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too!!!! It’s a blessed day 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @rosannefarley828
    @rosannefarley8283 жыл бұрын

    It's the realness for me... It's the authenticy for me... It's the transparency for me... It's the presence of God that is evident for me... This is a beautiful vid, beautiful story, beautiful setting, beautiful people.

  • @lydiakenosi4778

    @lydiakenosi4778

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey, I gate-crashed their wedding..i felt everything that you said above....I was siting in front as if ke family le bona.

  • @lorraineanjili

    @lorraineanjili

    2 жыл бұрын

    @lydia 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you're crazy

  • @Pabistar
    @Pabistar3 жыл бұрын

    Watching this made me very emotional towards the end. That part where Lerato says that people negotiate with their values and convictions, but Pheto didn't, hit me like a ton of bricks. Your faith in God is inspiring and I pray for his mighty hand to continue to carry you both and cover you as well. Love you guys so much!🥺🙏🏾❤

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re sooooo loved little sis❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @laurateofilus3384
    @laurateofilus33843 жыл бұрын

    I dated a guy who showed me love, support, care and challenged my faith and made me realise my worth .when I wa with him I felt safe, home, and felt like he knew my secrets although I never told him . I felt as though he knew me ,the real me and yet still choose to love me . And I screwed up and he later dumped me. But I really love him . I just pray God brings us together. I miss him so much

  • @ritawanjiku6286

    @ritawanjiku6286

    3 жыл бұрын

    If it's ment to be it will be.

  • @tiisetsokumalo9172

    @tiisetsokumalo9172

    3 жыл бұрын

    Apologise sis to him and to God then forgive yourself! It will happen!!!

  • @jacquen7444

    @jacquen7444

    3 жыл бұрын

    Let go and Let God! It's so easy to say but so difficult to live through. 10 months into finding myself in God and putting him first has lessened the pain and loss of what could have been because God's promise is bigger than the pain and loss we experience in the present. Going through the most difficult phase ( grief and denial), the Holy spirit said to me : I will bring to you a comforter that will never leave you, I took comfort in that, only to find this verse in John 14:16 when I read the Word late at night. What peace that verse brought me I still cannot comprehend. Believe in Jesus and he will never leave you nor forsake, God bless.

  • @sybillamula

    @sybillamula

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow I think you should tell him

  • @laurateofilus3384

    @laurateofilus3384

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you all for your support .. I am here to tell you all that I moved on . As in I don't feel anything for him anymore . I think what I lacked was self love. And once I discovered that you realise that something are never meant to be. Some things are meant for season , preparations for a journey . Lessons and I am grateful that I sun an experience because without it I wouldn't be where I am today .

  • @leengoyi7145
    @leengoyi71453 жыл бұрын

    "My wife saw this in me that I ddnt even see in myself", "She spoke to the God in me", "She saw me" 🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @steph_steph876
    @steph_steph8763 жыл бұрын

    So the main point that resonates for me is that relationships can happen in the strangest way. God can put two people together in a way that he wants to even when we are questioning it because it does not fit in what we grew up to believe. I really loved this and I am glad I watched it.❤💖

  • @mariaglover4202

    @mariaglover4202

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love that

  • @markuskiefer4625
    @markuskiefer46253 жыл бұрын

    Love that you're unafraid to talk about God

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    The Way , The Truth and The Life🙏🏾❤️

  • @gio3434

    @gio3434

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheMakhs YASSSSSS the only way!! 💯

  • @nonkululekomachika8911

    @nonkululekomachika8911

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheMakhs Amen

  • @cassandraoliphant804
    @cassandraoliphant8043 жыл бұрын

    When God is the centre of a relationship❤🥰

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Could anything be better ❤️🙏🏾❤️

  • @refilwesibiya5322
    @refilwesibiya53223 жыл бұрын

    Also Lerato’s comment about negotiating with yourself and with your convictions, shuuu I felt that for myself 🙌🏾

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️

  • @nofanelosithole5752

    @nofanelosithole5752

    3 жыл бұрын

    It did ey😔

  • @refilwesibiya5322
    @refilwesibiya53223 жыл бұрын

    “Why o sa mphe tissue? 🤷🏾‍♀️” Pheto guys 🤣🤣🤣 it’s the nuances for me, it’s the honesty for me, it’s God at the center for me!!! Bathong you guys are doing the Lord’s work laitsi. We need more God-centered relationships like this so our kids can know what it looks like when GOD directs your steps. May God continue to elevate you, and protect you because ra itsi hore marriages like this Sathane o ema ka di kwaai kwaai, but now you have an online army who want to see you guys win and go to even greater heights. Modimo a le blesse thata 💕

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mara e kae tissue bathong🤣🤣🤣🤣!! Aaaah Fifi thank you so much for your message and for the love! We are so grateful to God for giving you wisdom waitsi. A few weeks into starting the channel we spoke about how we need to be more relentless about prayer because Satane doesn’t rest. He hates marriage with all his heart because he knows that good, God Centered marriages can create and environment for healthy strong boys and girls to thrive. Thank you so much for rallying around us. Your prayers mean everything to us❤️❤️

  • @refilwesibiya5322

    @refilwesibiya5322

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheMakhs I’ll give my testimony one day about where on my journey I was when I started watching this channel. Modimo a le etse hantle ♥️

  • @soniarussell7712
    @soniarussell77123 жыл бұрын

    This is my first time watching. I love your story because it reminded me so much how God placed me and my husband together (23years married). There is a Special unusual Grace, LOVE for commitment released upon GOD ordained marriages. I decree and Declare your latter will be greater than your former Years. May blessings of extreme FAVOR be your Portion In Jesus mighty name Amen. So let it be

  • @thandekasihlangu2398
    @thandekasihlangu23983 жыл бұрын

    I have been praying for a partner for years and I believe God is gonna bless me

  • @beencouraged7317

    @beencouraged7317

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen hun he will bless you I speak it over your life

  • @amzoksesay3839

    @amzoksesay3839

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen and Amen

  • @samantha_mampofu

    @samantha_mampofu

    2 жыл бұрын

    Any update?🥹💕

  • @lediawhiteside9964
    @lediawhiteside99643 жыл бұрын

    “God Has Really Carried Us” “But We serve a God that’s great “. What a blessing ❤️🙏🙏🙏

  • @Bonolontamu
    @Bonolontamu3 жыл бұрын

    "people negotiate with their convictions" - I felt that 👌👌👌👌

  • @Audrey-faithlife
    @Audrey-faithlife3 жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful story. I am praying for my future husband, and I also have a list.And I love that you mentioned, it was written in the heaven. Amen.

  • @ayanda_amazwi
    @ayanda_amazwi2 жыл бұрын

    I said the same thing to God, "the next guy I meet and actually date is my husband". This was back in 2015 when I got saved. And let me tell you, God has been keeping to that word. It hasn't been easy, to say the least, but this encourages me so much to know that I'd rather wait for God's absolute best than to settle for what isn't it. Thank you for continuing to be an encouragement. May the Lord continue to bless you and keep being His instruments.

  • @manakontsekhe3728
    @manakontsekhe37283 жыл бұрын

    Who is here because they were scrolling and bumped into this amazing video😍😍😍.. I am hooked❤ everything is seasonal

  • @lilithantsundwani
    @lilithantsundwani3 жыл бұрын

    "She wasn't pursuing me romantically, I think that is very important." It is indeed!❤

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @rachels.9602

    @rachels.9602

    3 жыл бұрын

    But she was... her intent from the first moment in asking Fifi about him was romantic.

  • @OBrianDavids

    @OBrianDavids

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@rachels.9602 But to persue romantically is something else

  • @rachels.9602

    @rachels.9602

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@OBrianDavids kinda disagree but I’m glad for what God did for them, however it came about!

  • @OBrianDavids

    @OBrianDavids

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@rachels.9602 i am happy for them too :-)

  • @ingavika9383
    @ingavika93833 жыл бұрын

    😭😭😭😭 I’m not crying you are! Oh Bethuna! The love is so palpable! 🙏🏾

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    😭😭😭❤️

  • @kabelop9082
    @kabelop90823 жыл бұрын

    I like how Lerato was happy, that she was not willing to lower her standards for a man. I have just called my 15year old daughter to come hear it.

  • @ma_ncube
    @ma_ncube3 жыл бұрын

    How am I only just discovering that you guys have a channel? 😭 what a beautiful couple 😍 can’t wait to dig into your content

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    WELCOME!!! So glad to have you join us ❤️❤️❤️

  • @creativembl8405
    @creativembl84053 жыл бұрын

    I love this story ,when something is ordained it's so beautiful. Still patiently waiting. One day I will have the same.

  • @mariaglover4202

    @mariaglover4202

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @kimdee4275
    @kimdee42753 жыл бұрын

    So #Heartfelt ❤🙏🏾 To Us Single Women; Stay Prayerful & True!

  • @dubsy_mshika
    @dubsy_mshika3 жыл бұрын

    I thought they American until I saw "South African KZreadrs". My new faves. ❤

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mzansi fo sho!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️

  • @monicamuchindu

    @monicamuchindu

    3 жыл бұрын

    thry are so beautiful ❤

  • @zekhethelomchunu1818

    @zekhethelomchunu1818

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @karabokay8257

    @karabokay8257

    3 жыл бұрын

    She looks like Alicia Keys😍

  • @dubsy_mshika

    @dubsy_mshika

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@karabokay8257 Yeah she does and she's so pretty ❤️

  • @yonelamthintsilana1776
    @yonelamthintsilana17763 жыл бұрын

    Yhoo i can't believe i just fall in love with this couple nje kanjalo😭😢😍or maybe ino Jesu lento yabo

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love this comment🤣🤣🤣! Ine Jesu yona🤣. Thank you so much for your love. We appreciate you so much❤️❤️

  • @nzalisekocutu9801
    @nzalisekocutu98013 жыл бұрын

    "because a man who loves God would love me right" Soo powerful. I just found your channel today and I am so blessed. God is here. May God add more to your marriage so that you continue being a blessing to people.❤️

  • @siyandaxipu6516
    @siyandaxipu65162 жыл бұрын

    The way Lerato looks at his wife is out of this world 🥺😍❤️

  • @PHoz_y
    @PHoz_y3 жыл бұрын

    “It was written in the heavens” 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @blahjdjdkndbc
    @blahjdjdkndbc3 жыл бұрын

    sigh, yesterday I thought to myself, maybe my soul mate is in a relationship and today I saw this video. So glad you acknowledged that you should have been more honest with the girlfriend, etc. very mature of you.

  • @Mpho_la_dama
    @Mpho_la_dama3 жыл бұрын

    This video has been been in my recommendations. I am so glad that I watched it. Ya'll are so inspiring.💯😭

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amazing! Thank you KZread for the recommendation! Thank you for watching❤️❤️❤️

  • @sinazositshange96
    @sinazositshange963 жыл бұрын

    I don't even know what's happening on this channel but I just fell in love with these beautiful people. I had to subscribe immediately ❣❣❣❣

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aaaahh! We hope once you find out what’s happening you will stick with us❤️

  • @sinazositshange96

    @sinazositshange96

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheMakhs I'm here to stay 💃💃💃💃

  • @boipelosello6093
    @boipelosello60933 жыл бұрын

    Abuti Lerato and Ausi Pheto, I just want to take this moment to really appreciate your content . I for one do not constitute for the institute of marriage, courtships and so forth but I must say your content is catching my attention by storm. I'm slowly but surely changing my perception around partnerships and love..... I mean I am 25 , never been in a relationship only because I cannot picture myself with a partner and that worries me as I grow... Keep on producing such content, it incites an abundance of hope in us. Amen

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aaaah Boipelo❤️❤️. Your message🥺. Thank you so much❤️. God works in mysterious ways. You are still young and have your whole life ahead of you. We pray that God may lead your every step in whatever future decisions you make regarding relationships/ marriage❤️

  • @shamisomutsambiwa1871

    @shamisomutsambiwa1871

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love your LOVE..saw you on Black Love this morning..I had to subscribe. Thank you for sharing your LOVE and FAITH..Remain blessed and highly favored

  • @monicaolwagen9426
    @monicaolwagen94263 жыл бұрын

    My lady you were right thinking people in church dated to marry ! Cause a Godly man is looking for a wife not a girlfriend!

  • @motishengmoeng2073
    @motishengmoeng20733 жыл бұрын

    This channel is honestly worth subscribing to ❤️❤️ I'm in love

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh wow! Thank you! ❤️❤️🤗

  • @sivengwentle5835
    @sivengwentle58353 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story with us! The “negotiating with your convictions” part definitely stood out for me..🙏🏼❤️

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    And it resonates because it’s true. Most of us are guilty of having negotiated our values at some point in our lives. ❤️🙏🏾

  • @Kayla-qs8rh
    @Kayla-qs8rh3 жыл бұрын

    My future husband currently has a girlfriend as crazy as it sounds lol. Thank you for sharing your story! This is me encouragement.

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @Kayla-qs8rh

    @Kayla-qs8rh

    3 жыл бұрын

    Please pray he will come to his senses soon 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️🤣

  • @ThandiKhalaki

    @ThandiKhalaki

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Kayla-qs8rh

    @Kayla-qs8rh

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheMakhs lol im fr!!

  • @cynthialove__8865

    @cynthialove__8865

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too sis. Hang in there ❤️

  • @davidmotlaloe5628
    @davidmotlaloe56283 жыл бұрын

    Ladies listening in this channe, please don’t go around and fantasising and waiting for voices. You are going to end up hearing voices saying “ooh my child, this is your husband” because that’s what you may have imagined. Take it slow and keep serving God faithfully. Then the rest will be added to you

  • @nonhlanhlanhlapo1296
    @nonhlanhlanhlapo12963 жыл бұрын

    This is so beautiful 😍😁 my heart is beaming listening to this, I think it's because it's motivating me to wait.

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching. Motivation to look within is always our goal. Love ❤️🙏🏾

  • @kegomdlalani257
    @kegomdlalani2573 жыл бұрын

    Currently single but I love couples channel.. I love you guys just discovered your channel. I believe in love more every time I watch inspiring couples who love God. New subbie ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi Kego! Thank you so much for watching. It really is our hope that everyone can relate to our story. Single/ in a relationship/ married etc. Thank you so much for journeying with us❤️

  • @Tshegohatso
    @Tshegohatso3 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️ I can still see your face light up in the grace bible church car park when you introduced your future husband... That was end of 2008..One of the most beautiful love stories. May the Lord continue to be glorified.

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Heeeeeyyyyy darling!!! So good to see you on our TL🤗🤗❤️ . Aaaah wa gopola?!🤗🤗. Thank you so much dear friend. We appreciate you so much❤️❤️

  • @Bongaaa_
    @Bongaaa_3 жыл бұрын

    I love the communication between y'all. How you actually listen and pay attention to what your partner is saying. The respect. The love..... Ugh love to see it. And I love love love how you completely brought God into this 😭❤️🙌🏾. May the Lord continue to bless this relationship. May your channel also grow and may your story inspire more & more people.

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Bonga. It has taken us many years of learning how be that for one another. What has also helped us is our teachable spirit. We are still learning till today❤️❤️

  • @TheMakhs
    @TheMakhs3 жыл бұрын

    CORRECTION 8:53 - Lerato meant to say October 2008 NOT 2018😜

  • @leratonkatswang9306

    @leratonkatswang9306

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂 We didn't even notice. I was taken by the authenticity, I didn't want the video to end. I watched the video twice and cried as Sis Pheto got emotional. May God continue to bless,guide and protect your family. ❤

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh wow!!! Thank you so much for the love. We are so humbled! So so humbled by this love. It can only be God❤️❤️

  • @kamomothusi

    @kamomothusi

    3 жыл бұрын

    You can pin this correction comment so that it appears first on the comment section ❤️

  • @Tricey.89

    @Tricey.89

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ok thank you bc I saw the intro video with the picture of the two children and was like “niece and nephew ?” Lol

  • @allbyhisgrace8925
    @allbyhisgrace89253 жыл бұрын

    She is so pretty and born again Christian- wow I pray for that for my sons when they get married. Neen praying for their wives already , one is 7 and the other is 11.lol, never too early lol.

  • @fukutwatable

    @fukutwatable

    3 жыл бұрын

    My daughter is 3 years old and i already pray for her future husband 😂

  • @Amahle361
    @Amahle3613 жыл бұрын

    I saw your channel for the first time few hours ago. I honestly don't know how I got to it, but I did. And in my heart, I am like; Lord you wanted me to watch this story. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I am in tears, cause God has used your story for my life. God is always intentional. Thank you guys for sharing this story. I needed it. I really did. Thank you. I love you. ❤️

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wow Nandi!! Your message moved our hearts in ways unimaginable! It is one of our deepest desires for God to use our union for his agenda. We are so grateful that you stumbled across our channel❤️❤️❤️

  • @yolisamrso9827
    @yolisamrso98273 жыл бұрын

    Just looked at you guys and just loved you. Next minute I see the name Jesus and I came here.....talk about a connection

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Theincredibleme-98
    @Theincredibleme-983 жыл бұрын

    I am glad I found this channel,I am born again too,and 22,I am not really looking for a relationship,but I am kinda feeling ready,I just need to go back and reposition myself so I hear God clearly, about the way forward and the future

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aaaah such a sweet age.❤️ May God order your steps in all that you do❤️🤗

  • @carmelariley9491
    @carmelariley94913 жыл бұрын

    I love the way y’all talk!!! Beautiful sound in y’all voices!!! 🌹💕💕

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is such a beautiful message! Thank you❤️It’s weird you should say that because when we started the channel Phetola struggled to listen to her voice. She would always say to me, why didn’t you tell me I sound like that”🤣

  • @senotiemay
    @senotiemay3 жыл бұрын

    We need a skin care and hair routine phetola

  • @aobakwepheto2502
    @aobakwepheto25023 жыл бұрын

    Yoh fam! This time gona le nshapile 10-0. I can't even explain how this installment made me feel...I am lost for words. From goosebumps to tears...I am lost for words! Touched to the core! This was beautiful! Thank you!

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aaaaah😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️. Thank you so much fam! We love and appreciate you❤️ 🤣🤣🤣@10-0

  • @MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo
    @MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo3 жыл бұрын

    I'm following quiet a few couples channels and I was genuinely starting to feel like it's all monotonous.... But wow I discovered this channel a few days ago and I'm hooked. God continue to bless this beautiful union. ❤️

  • @nova9299
    @nova92993 жыл бұрын

    Oh my goodness! I love you guys 💕 Hearing you both speak about each other is filled with adoration and love! God truly is the center of your marriage and I pray his blessings over your marriage and family! God bless you! 😊

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    We love YOU!!! Thank you and we receive all blessings humbly so. We appreciate you Nairaz 🙏🏾❤️

  • @dintwengseate2442
    @dintwengseate24423 жыл бұрын

    Not negotiating with her convictions, that's very powerful!

  • @ingavika9383
    @ingavika93833 жыл бұрын

    Once again THANK YOU for sharing your hearts with us! I really get a sense that this channel is the beginning of something so BIG🎉

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for painting our wall with love! We appreciate you so much❤️❤️

  • @zamagumede5338
    @zamagumede53383 жыл бұрын

    ''People often negotiate with their values and convictions'' WOW

  • @annejeanpilippe5814
    @annejeanpilippe58143 жыл бұрын

    this is my first time seeing you guys and i already LOVE it here, God has really been leading me to the right to the right channels and im very glad i ended up here. PS i think you both are absolutely Gorgeous!! we really love to see it, keep it up

  • @ntsakomavunda54
    @ntsakomavunda543 жыл бұрын

    Watching this was such a refresher👏👏😍, Im glad I stumbled into this channel. The Lord is still in the business of bringing two people together in his own magical way👌 God bless you more

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    He is certainly still in the business of blowing our minds ❤️❤️❤️

  • @simbanyamayaro4550
    @simbanyamayaro45503 жыл бұрын

    This just brought me back to me. I’ve been all over with this hurting hurt 😞 and saying things that are outside of Gods will. I’m reminded that God is still God and that I need to continue to trust him.

  • @Tatzem
    @Tatzem3 жыл бұрын

    My literal church mom & dad 🤣. So glad you're still going so strong. May God continue to bless your union!

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    O MY!!!!🥺🥺😭😭😭😭. It is sooooo good to see you on our timeline baby girl!!❤️❤️❤️. Thank you so much🤗🤗🤗

  • @Withlove.K95
    @Withlove.K953 жыл бұрын

    Batho baka ba Pitori😍😍😍😍 I loved every minute of this video. I'm so inspired by the love you have for each other, but most importantly for God. It all starts and ends with God. May you continue to grow beyond your imagination. God bless🤗🙏🏽

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Pitori ya batho ba ba dese!🤣🤣🙌🏾🙌🏾. Thank you so much for your beautiful message. We appreciate you so much❤️❤️

  • @DrUnatiDrMHealthCorner
    @DrUnatiDrMHealthCorner3 жыл бұрын

    I cover you with the blood of Jesus❤️❤️🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿💫. Nibahleeeeee. Rooting for you from Canada❤️

  • @aobakwetaile5949
    @aobakwetaile59492 жыл бұрын

    You guys!!!!❤😭😭 I got emotional as well. I was scrolling through the comments to check how long ago they were posted and most of them were posted like a year ago, and there are so many comments that I don't think you will get to see this one. On the off chance that you do, this video is absolutely beautiful. I appreciate you guys so much for it. I'm in my third year of being single but like maybe a year and a half of intentional singleness and actually working on myself. Recently I have been feeling lonely, so I went on tinder and chile!,🙄 it's clearly not for me. I have gone on my fair share of bad dates, and met people that I only vibe with as friends. They just give off that friendship energy. Anyway, I have had this voice that keeps saying to me that I didn't settle way back when and embarked on this "search" for my purpose driven partner for so long, only for me to settle now. I put the word search in inverted commas because, maybe a life of singleness is my purpose, maybe what God requires of me requires me to embark on this journey solo. Oh my gosh, now I'm rambling. I just wanted to say that you guys are beautiful, I love how you love each other and how you are intentional about occupying the partnership role in all its aspects. I love you guys, keep doing the Lords work.

  • @keolebilemmoke60

    @keolebilemmoke60

    6 ай бұрын

    a year later after your comment

  • @siyamtolo6733
    @siyamtolo67333 жыл бұрын

    Didn't know you guys have a channel. Literally subscribed two minutes into this. Now I'm crying and ima be binge watching all the episodes. Love you guys. Stay blessed. The authenticity that oozes through this is just amazing. With Ntate Jerry and Mme Claudine as your parents your marriage is bound to make it. ❤️

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aaaah Siya🤗🤗. Thank you so much for your heartwarming comments. The folks are such a blessing❤️❤️🤗

  • @Busisiwe_Makhanya

    @Busisiwe_Makhanya

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the plug, Siya. I'm already in love and about to binge watch

  • @andilensele337
    @andilensele3373 жыл бұрын

    I just found your channel and this is soo beautiful... So unusual and just amazing.. God bless yall

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wow! Thank you so much for your kind words❤️. we are so thrilled that you found us🤗

  • @PeacedTogether
    @PeacedTogether3 жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate Lerato's honesty and transparency as he highlights the unimpressive reputation that men in the church have. It's encouraging and inspiring to see that as the story was being narrated, he was forthcoming about what he did right, and also what he shouldn't have done.

  • @lifecoachthirl

    @lifecoachthirl

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agreed!

  • @natashabee1

    @natashabee1

    3 жыл бұрын

    So basically the men in the worship team sleep around... not great but at least he has grown up. Proves a point though, that women mature quicker than men. Lol

  • @lesegodlulane8222
    @lesegodlulane82223 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing with us. This is a beautiful love, a beautiful story!!!! 😭😭😭

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    😭😭❤️❤️thank you so much for watching.

  • @tshepangsebola7556
    @tshepangsebola75563 жыл бұрын

    This is my first time watching your show and l immediately subscribed ,l just love you both . The best foundation of anything is GOD the creator of everything . l pray he blesses your marriage ,continue fight for you , cover you with his precious blood and keep you .Amen

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    AMEN & AMEN !!! 🙏🏾❤️

  • @beneettakulah7536
    @beneettakulah75363 жыл бұрын

    Okay I'm just into it, but the song ",it was the summer 2008" That part hit me instantly,because I know what I'm believing God for has a time when we met first was 2008 I'm still trusting on God and I guess the puzzles are going together, n it's not clear yet. But someday I'm gonna tell my story n testimony too

  • @carolnamakay7797
    @carolnamakay77973 жыл бұрын

    Awww this was so beautiful to watch. Also noticed that Phetola’s love language is touch.

  • @ChristianZiya
    @ChristianZiya3 жыл бұрын

    I am new here , such a beautiful couple with a beautiful story 🇺🇸🇿🇦♥️

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi!!! Welcome! Thank you so much❤️❤️

  • @SikiDlanga

    @SikiDlanga

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheMakhs you should watch their story too! It's amazing!

  • @portiacampbell1673
    @portiacampbell16733 жыл бұрын

    It's always good to trust in the Lord ❤️❤️

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    ALWAYS!!!

  • @sekgaboseselamarumo7483
    @sekgaboseselamarumo74833 жыл бұрын

    So my storytime: for the past month your Sepitori video has been on my recommended and I've been ignoring it. Then this particular video has been on my recommended for 2 weeks and because I'm a sucker for love I decided to watch it and man!! I love it! Your story bathong. I love love. And I'm binge watching the other videos now 😅 love from Botswana 🇧🇼

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Sekgabo! So glad you decided to stay and join the family. WELCOME ❤️❤️❤️

  • @LaTasha_The_STARR2108
    @LaTasha_The_STARR21083 жыл бұрын

    Your story really moved me to tears!! God is so incredible, and he does all things well!! This was my first time seeing your content, but I’m subscribed and looking forward to much more. God bless your family!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @sabamasaya2064
    @sabamasaya20643 жыл бұрын

    Here from the Pitori challenge because Mrs is my homie but staying for this content!🥺❤️

  • @nompumelelomadiya3643
    @nompumelelomadiya36433 жыл бұрын

    You guys give me so much hope 😭😭😭 May God richly bless you

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh wow!🥺🤗Thank you so much❤️🙏🏾

  • @LoveAngel333
    @LoveAngel3333 жыл бұрын

    I love how she apologized for interrupting him. Beautiful couple you can see the respect and love between the two

  • @beautyforashes1948
    @beautyforashes19483 жыл бұрын

    Going through something this is similar. Got tears of joy in my eyes. Confirmation of God’s Glory. Congratulations 🎉

  • @LoverofJesus80

    @LoverofJesus80

    3 жыл бұрын

    Kasheena! 🥰

  • @sammyntungwa5497
    @sammyntungwa54973 жыл бұрын

    We like ... We comment before we even watch. What are we??? #NotificationGangGangGang 😅🤷🏽‍♀️♥️

  • @KamogeloB

    @KamogeloB

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yithi labo 😂🤣😁

  • @siviwemapekula1689

    @siviwemapekula1689

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yaaaasss💃💃

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    We LOVE to see it fam ❤️🙏🏾

  • @wanda_za

    @wanda_za

    3 жыл бұрын

    Phakathi inside 🤣

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    The real ones!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @tintswalochabalala4672
    @tintswalochabalala46723 жыл бұрын

    I just bumped into your channel but I'm head over heels lona. You guys look amazing hleng. I can't wait to watch some of your videos. God bless you you ♥️

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aaaaah❤️❤️❤️. Re a leboha hle! Thank you so much for finding us🤗🤗🤗

  • @relebogiledichabe8027
    @relebogiledichabe80273 жыл бұрын

    It's 4am I'm happy I found you two.

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh wow! We are so glad that you found us❤️❤️

  • @cbaby6572

    @cbaby6572

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s a funny thing I wake up at 5am it was on my phone wow

  • @ingavika9383
    @ingavika93833 жыл бұрын

    Oh my goodness! Number 1! Nibahle & niyafanelana! 2. This is the content we have been waiting for!!!! 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aaaaah Inga! Siyabonga!!Kakhulu❤️❤️🤗🤗

  • @abettermen
    @abettermen3 жыл бұрын

    There is so much of God's grace that is upon you 2 and your relationship. I actually watch this to the end. Beautiful guys. There is so much more greatness you guys will enter into. Blessings. I was bless watching and listening to your beautiful God woven story.

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

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    This message🥺🥺. Thank you so much for your kind words. We receive❤️🙏🏾