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8 ай бұрын

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@flyinjakesvarioustopics

4 ай бұрын

I cannot imagine a parent sending their own child away so they could keep their man after the child said that he was touching her. That is so wrong on so many levels. That is what I hate about society. It just kills me.

@conniecarranza1423

4 ай бұрын

GENERATIONAL SIN 😢😢

@lisalevin9600

4 ай бұрын

​@@flyinjakesvarioustopics u never met my mother

@SherrieLovette-ud8xp

9 күн бұрын

To the😢​@@flyinjakesvarioustopics

Adult women who allow a man (monster),to SA their children should be sentenced to life in prison. Just as the molester! This just angers me to no end!!!

@oaklandmade007

Жыл бұрын

I'm so mad right now 😡

@dianaveronicakambanis9690

Жыл бұрын

Unforgetable

@dodiebondwood

Жыл бұрын

100% agree!

@judyjones8876

Жыл бұрын

The more i read the more my bp went up

@lilaworley8935

Жыл бұрын

How about direct your hate at the men that have abused the women? Of course they carry accountability.... But do you think that their mothers weren't also victims of violence and abuse at the hands of their fathers? YES....women.... Protect your children. But let's not forget that it's the MEN creating this culture of violence and control over women.

I love the way the son confronts him and doesn’t back down. The shame belongs with that sick man, not the children he abused.

@fionasteele3642

Жыл бұрын

Thank you WyrdSis. Carrying shame is an enormously heavy burden . Some mothers should have never had children .

@sonyagraske376

9 ай бұрын

It was the grandson that confronted that pos.... and made this documentary, that also played beautiful music on the piano. A brave and respectful young man. ❤

@andreabennington

8 ай бұрын

​@@sonyagraske376 Step-grandson. Melvin Just was a stepdad to his mother

@brittwilliams487

5 ай бұрын

And their mom she knew and allowed it

@mmaria9308

4 ай бұрын

He's not sick. He made everyone around him sick. Simply evil.

The guy is a saint for not rolling the pervert off the dock in his chair.

@iamimperfectionperfected4

11 ай бұрын

These are some kind people. I think he'd have an accident on my watch.

@user-qu4ey5yy3f

6 ай бұрын

Yea, for a moment I thought the grand son was about to injure him.

@philrockh

4 ай бұрын

agreed

@Abby-rx4gx

3 ай бұрын

I'm trying to go fishing with grandpa Melvin, send the addy:)

@HR-uq3ko

3 ай бұрын

Evil coulda slipped to the bottom oF lake..Why are they not in prison?

I can't believe all the girls still treat him like an honorable dad. All that abuse and they still giggle like little girls being so happy to see him. Wow! He did a number on all of them; sick!

@blairthompson6227

11 ай бұрын

I was thinking the.same.thing wtf

@neeneltrashy3454

11 ай бұрын

I came here for this comment. So SICK

@LizJoyDolan

11 ай бұрын

I've seen what a manipulative, molesting dad can get his children convinced of. He can do no wrong because these pedos groom them from small children to think those perverse interactions are love and care. 🤮

@izzymeadows1748

11 ай бұрын

Trauma bonding. Go research it before you judge.

@blairthompson6227

11 ай бұрын

@@izzymeadows1748 I'll still judge don't you worry

I used to be so angry at my grandmother growing up she raised me and I felt like she was so overprotective of myself and my brother by not letting us alone with adults and other older children, now I see how right she was and how grateful I am to her. These poor children were not protected they should have been protected by their mothers who failed them.

@nickiewilson6985

Жыл бұрын

I was warned to lucky I have a sense of foreboding, got out of many situations, that could if been bad, so it's better to warn, there is too many nutbars around.

@samtalkstoomuch8854

Жыл бұрын

My son gets so upset with me because I'm so strict and cautious about who he spends time with. I don't allow sleepovers (even with my best friend and her family, which offended her when I told her), which upsets my son since all of his friends get to. It's hard sometimes but I'd never forgive myself if I gave in and something happened to him.

@BEAUTYnIQ

Жыл бұрын

this is exactly why I am a helicopter parent .. criticize if you want, but like your gma I def would want to err on the side of over-protectiveness than the opposite

@danielleschiazza6172

Жыл бұрын

My kid's used to hate me for it too! I never let them sleep over ANYBODY'S house! Except my mother's house. My 2 oldest girl's are 24 and 22 and they used to say I was so mean or not a "cool" mom. I didn't let them sleep alone in their own room until they were 7, 8 years old, I was/am very protective.

@tross6380

Жыл бұрын

I'm that girl.. and sadly.. my kids aren't even interested in going to other places but guess what.. Their innocence and sanity are in tact.

I remember confronting my abuser. It was a family gathering. His brave beautiful sister came forward with me. It was the best feeling in the world. 2 years later he was caught molesting a girlfriends 4 yr old child. We also testified against him. He got 18 yrs.

@joannequina5958

Жыл бұрын

only 18 years?????? please help expose these evil sociopathic sexual predators for justice for the victims

@unapologeticella4540

Жыл бұрын

18 yrs is not enough these abusers deserve life in prison

@natahliak7691

Жыл бұрын

@@joannequina5958 I couldn't agree more.

@sazonada

Жыл бұрын

You're an amazing courageous person. I hope you're healing.

@daixer3156

Жыл бұрын

@@joannequina5958 that's actually pretty good. For a lot of them get fewer years or even get off the charges

The fact that the sisters started to molest each other had me almost in tears he messed them up soooo bad

@Moonewitch

8 ай бұрын

💔💔💔

@ritadonnelly8820

7 ай бұрын

o god so sad ❤

@CherryColosseum

7 ай бұрын

when did they say they molest each other?

@sonicgandalf

6 ай бұрын

when one sister said she was told to go "experiment" with others and she did with her sister, just doing what she was led to believe was normal for them

@user-qu4ey5yy3f

6 ай бұрын

@@CherryColosseum Sadly it was said, DAMN!

The audacity Melvin has to get mad while being interviewed and yelling that he never did that. He knows what he did!!

@eileendover7896

11 ай бұрын

Absolutely PATHETIC. If you’re going to be this much of a monster and be so big and bold while doing it, at least admit what you did you SICK fk.

@susana9912

3 ай бұрын

That’s why he has to yell, because he knows he’s far from the truth 😞

@VickiNjio_Tarot

Ай бұрын

S😊

Uncle Jim praising his step dad like he’s a heroic mentor - keep an eye on that guy. He’s got more than a screw loose

@alycechaney9634

Жыл бұрын

Well he was fucking around trying to get his half sisters to fuck with him so he’s just as discusting

@TheRealSwampOperator

Жыл бұрын

Yeah he's a weirdo

@lindsaypowell5144

Жыл бұрын

💯

@2ssc370

Жыл бұрын

@Maria Hernandez Because he was also raised in that messed up environment ofc he isn’t gonna be well in head

@katiemary8075

Жыл бұрын

His father turned him into a pervert just like him.

One man that destroyed so many lives. Shame on his wives for failing their children. Hugs to each and everyone one of you.

@blackthornsloe8049

Жыл бұрын

The wives were as guilty .

@asmrcritique6565

Жыл бұрын

Perfectly said.

@welsh.truth.dragon3914

Жыл бұрын

That man , the "mothers" AND Jim have destroyed them womans lives

@lady4vols

Жыл бұрын

Truth!! 😡😡

@jennifermaddy2442

5 ай бұрын

It's disgusting

The fact they discuss this like their having a regular conversation is what's disturbing to me. Like damn, they are so detatched emotionally due to the trauma

@susanh1292

5 ай бұрын

That's what happens to some people that get sexually abused. They numb themselves to the pain and they eventually feel nothing.

@MollyLee9688

Ай бұрын

Jasus the state didn't help. That's their way of getting it OUT 4FS. It's better to laugh than to sit there crying & been victims. 🤫🤐

It looks like his mom was the only one who is living a decent life. Family trauma runs so deep there. That man is a monster

I’ve never heard child sexual abuse spoken about so bluntly and it is SHOCKING. As hard as it is to hear the words “child sex abuse” it really does sanitize the reality of what it really is.

@incredibleedibledez

Жыл бұрын

It’s hard for me to talk, openly, about what happened to me to anyone but my husband. I think about little me and the things they did & then I look at my own daughters & it makes it even more despicable and vile. It’s hard to talk about because somehow that makes it more real in my head. If I don’t talk about it I can pretend it was all a nightmare but I’ll never get better if I don’t talk about it.

@JoDo777

Жыл бұрын

@@incredibleedibledez EMDR therapy can HELP you immensely!!

@Lovepeaceandchickengrease

Жыл бұрын

@@incredibleedibledez I feel the exact same way 😣

@crystal480

Жыл бұрын

@@JoDo777 what's that

@bestoftwoworlds9925

Жыл бұрын

@@incredibleedibledez Thats what I've managed to do for most of my life, but a year ago it caught up to me and wrecked my life. Ive been going to counceling and our goal is EMDR. The problem is that you have to be able to talk about it to do it :( Talking about it makes you re live it in your mind, which in my case causes me to have very realistic nightmares/flashbacks that you can even smell. I encourage anyone to deal with it before it catches up to you. EMDR is bilateral stimulation, its related to REM sleep which is the part of sleep that processes all the stuff we go through each day. Tapping is another form of the same thing.

I wish I could talk too James and his mother Ann and tell them they saved my life with this documentary. I happened too watch it on KZread over a decade ago and seeing how classy, beautiful and brave Ann was after all she had gone through and seeing how brave and honest James was too even make this documentary gave me the courage to go to my Grandmother and Aunt for help and tell them what my stepfather had been doing too me. I remember shaking and being scared that my mother would blame me and hate me while we waited for the cops to come to my grandmother's too talk to me. Thank god my mother believed me immediately, supported me immediately and helped me in all the ways she could and made sure he was punished and couldn't hurt anyone else. I can't imagine if she had acted like these two worthless mothers....they helped him destroy their children. He got 21 years in prison and I hope he dies there and can never hurt anyone again

@proserpine3332

Жыл бұрын

You were really brave to do that, I’m glad this documentary helped you.

@toto1921

Жыл бұрын

@@proserpine3332 As bad example ... Jenny M instead did the right thing ! Brava, no hugging, no forgiving. Im christian, butz im not the christ himself. My heart is way smaller and more excluding as the Lords one ....

@hannahgiddings1723

Жыл бұрын

Well don't you incredibly brave lady. After watching this awfully sad documentary, it warms me to know it gave comfort and strength to someone who needed it. Well done for not staying silent. Sending love from England 🇬🇧 ❤️

@hannahgiddings1723

Жыл бұрын

Sorry meant Well done not don't

@jennym7465

Жыл бұрын

@@hannahgiddings1723 thank you. It's nice to hear sometimes that i did the right thing as telling the truth tore my family apart and I blamed myself for a long, long time until I realized I'm not the one who should be ashamed- HE IS! and I'll never stop fighting until people stop protecting these predators and these predators stop ruining people's lives.

“He paid me a dollar because it went in all the way” that officially broke me. I hadn’t actually cried throughout this, but when Pambi said that, the same thing she said happened when she was a child… I’m in tears. That poor, poor woman… 😢 I’m not a religious woman, but if there is a Hell, I hope he’s burning in the deepest, hottest pit it has to offer!

@simonac2016

11 ай бұрын

Im not religious, Im Christian, Iike many true Christian who know God, and of Him..and study,the Bible....there is Hell, and people who choose their free will to align with satan ti do this....

@TomNoles007

11 ай бұрын

Same, the resignation in her voice was heartbreaking 💔

@donnajeanheim-mcwhite4210

7 ай бұрын

So very sad 😢

This family is so messed up it's disgusting. From generation to generation it's just going to get worse. It's horrible to watch.

@anitakinnear6735

Жыл бұрын

After I had my first baby, I decided I’d devote my life to breaking all the generational pain and problems. My husband always tells me I’ve done exceedingly well. I’ve raised 9 children, 8 bio, 1 through the courts. They’re all successful, independent, educated and pointed in the right direction. We’ve had the best counseling available. However, both sets of grandparents and our siblings have remained estranged from us. It’s sad, and I hate it, but if it’s a choice between my children, and unhealthy family members who won’t discuss and resolve boundary issues, then I chose my children. Hands down.

@eileendover7896

11 ай бұрын

I didn’t think it could get worse until one of them was telling a “joke” about black boys and said the N word. The way they were raised is truly, truly horrifying.

@marguerilla

10 ай бұрын

@@anitakinnear6735good on you-raising 9 children is nothing to sneeze at! your kids are blessed to have a parent with the discernment necessary to break the cycle. without enormous effort, things only ever get worse, all down the family line. the total degradation of so many families that we see today, so many homes where the innocence and hope of childhood is destroyed without batting an eye, i do believe is the result of so many generations with these types of intergenerational pathologies/patterns/demons (so to speak) of different degrees of severity or types of abuse and family dysfunction… it’s like once a screw is loose, if you dont work hard to tighten it up (and sometimes even when you do) it’s only going to get looser and looser with each generation without repair…. until it all falls apart.

@Dilvin782

8 ай бұрын

Yeahh. I really hope clarrisa and Frankie will be okay. There isnt much to do for the grown girls but with children they can be saved

@Misslynndance

7 ай бұрын

@@anitakinnear6735👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤

I just don’t understand how these women can go and visit him and hug him and kiss him and call him daddy. What a monster!

@oliviakilpatrick

Жыл бұрын

Read some child psychology about care taker bonding… it’s grotesque that such a beautifully complex system is used for such abuse.

@laraoneal7284

Жыл бұрын

I don’t understand it either. I believe it’s called trauma bonding. That is denial. If u don’t address this u will also abuse ur children and or marry someone who will. I went no contact from my parents over 25 years ago.

@kazandraschellenger5505

Жыл бұрын

Its called Stockholm Syndrome. This whole world suffers from it.

@JoDo777

Жыл бұрын

Stockholm Syndrome

@eveoakley6270

Жыл бұрын

A good friend of mine had a horrific childhood, her parents were the type that just didn’t deserve children. Some of the stuff she told me what they did to her and her brother was so cruel. When they got older she did everything for them and when they died she was inconsolable. I just couldn’t fathom it 🤷🏻‍♀️

What a brave and talented son, and nephew, this young man is. He told their story in a profound way that needed to be exposed for all the sexually abused children who remain silent and in pain.

@nancydann60

Жыл бұрын

He is so brave!..,,I commend him and so happy the abuse stopped with him. How these people could go to his funeral is beyond me,he was a monster ! He should never have even had a funeral .and the grandmother was just as bad!..,she allowed it to happen and was a terrible person herself . This poor family

@TheresaLyonhart

Жыл бұрын

Those “children” ( the monster’s victims) weren’t exactly silent. Were you watching the same documentary I was?

@hollzie7348

Жыл бұрын

@@TheresaLyonhart I think she meant they had been forced to be silent as kids during the abuse. Now the son is helping with exposing the abuse through this documentary. That's what I gathered from her comment and the truth about this terrible story.

@julieschwartz2135

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Hollzie, My comment was not to be taken so literally, and that is exactly what I was expressing. Some children remain silent out of fear, others tell another family member but are not believed, or the family member turns a blind eye. Unless there is intervention, and the child or children are removed from the sexual abuse their voice is being silenced, period!

@teijaflink2226

Жыл бұрын

Definitely considering everything he and his mother and aunts had been through. It was sad how depressed his mother seemed though, he's clearly trying to be positive and move on.

This showed me to not judge alcoholics or drug addicts because it seems a lot of them are like that because of the horrific childhoods they had. Uncle Jim is a sick fxxk as well and I had anxiety watching him get interviewed with the sound of multiple kids playing in the background.

@HumansAreTheScariestMonsters

7 ай бұрын

I’m a recovering addict and I wasnt abused physically or sexually as a child, but I’m in the literal tiny minority of addicts who weren’t. I’ve sat through the most heartbreaking, painful, disturbing group sessions of my life watching grown men and women cry as they detail what was done to them as children. I mean the sickest things you can think of. I really don’t think people realize how bad it is. It’s usually not just the sexual abuse but there’s a lot of pain and torture that goes with it (choking, cigarette burns, whipping, trading the kids out to be abused by other friends and family members, etc). Abusers destroy these children’s souls. Their innocence is literally stolen before they can even comprehend what that means and many of their adulthoods are spent trying to compensate for what was done to them as children. People think kids just forget the abuse or get over it, but they don’t. Even with a ton of therapy, they may heal, they may even forgive (for their sakes), but they’ll never forget. I mean I guess unless their brain represses it. People get upset when addicts give birth to babies under the influence, and I agree that that’s a terrible thing, but they have no compassion for the addicts that were abused in the most sickening ways when they were just kids, themselves. Had that not happened to them, I highly doubt most of them ever would’ve tried to solve their problems with drugs. Abuse isn’t the story for every addict. I was a multi-sport varsity athlete in high school and went to college on an academic scholarship, but one car accident that broke my back in 3 places changed my life. I couldn’t walk without assistance for 3 months and was plied with opioids for years. I didn’t even know I was mentally addicted (I understood the physical dependence aspect) until I tried to stop. But either way, addicts are people who need help, we already beat ourselves up for what we’ve done in active addiction. No one could say worse things to us than we’ve already said to ourselves.

@user-qu4ey5yy3f

6 ай бұрын

@@HumansAreTheScariestMonsters Damn! life can spin on a dime! one moment all seems shiny the next off to a hospital,,,. I hope you doing better ,

@flyinjakesvarioustopics

6 ай бұрын

This is a topic that just eviscerates my very soul. There is no forgiveness or anything good for these animals who hurt precious kids. Instead, there is a special place in hell for each and every single one. I must say I was smart as a kid. When I was 11 years old, I was going to school in Paopli, Indiana, and I rode Bus 27 to Marengo, Indiana, quite a way from Paoli. Then, I would transfer to the bus that drove me, my sister, and brother from Marengo to English. On the way home from Paoli one afternoon in early spring of 1989, I was sitting across from a boy named Claud. He was about fifteen or sixteen years old at the time. On this afternoon, he asked if I would sit in his seat beside him, and so I did. We talked a while, and then, the bastard stuck his hand under my backpack and groped me. "Let me see your P***r." he said, and I elbowed him in the ribs before jumping up and running to the front of the moving bus, where I told the bus driver, Chett, what had just happened. To make a long story short, Chett called Claud to the front of the bus and ripped him a new one verbally. What makes this thing so ironic is that it happened on the afternoon of a day during which my friends and I watched an assembly regarding sexual abuse and inappropriate touching. Claud, who was picked up from the high school, which was across the street from Throup Elementary, was a sick SOB. God bless people like old Chett, who has long since passed away from complications from a bee sting. Rest in peace, Chett. We all love and miss you.

@flyinjakesvarioustopics

6 ай бұрын

A correction: It's not Paopli, but Paoli, Indiana. I don't know how that second p got there, LOL.

@leandrafernandez3544

4 ай бұрын

Some people just love alcohol. Some do it to forget about their trauma. I try not to judge too, but some alcoholics are pretty terrible, they treat others pretty terribly.

I have so much respect for the son interviewing Melvin in such a confronting way. He’s being respectful, yet direct, yet poignant. I’m not sure I’d have the strength or restraint. Great, albeit hard watch.

I remember seeing this on HBO in the 90’s- this movie really helped me face and confront my molestation memories from my childhood- I cried so hard watching it and realized why I too had struggled with alcoholism and drugs- I got therapy shortly after watching this! This movie was HUGE for me! Thank you for this channel and sharing- together we are all healing!

@RealWomenRealStories

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Jennifer. We hope you are well now. Much love to you.

@dorkynor

Жыл бұрын

❤

@southfacingwindow51401

Жыл бұрын

((Hugs))

@beautifullife1943

Жыл бұрын

What's the movie called

@zaftigbrooke

Жыл бұрын

Wow that’s great! I had no clue that it was on HBO!!!

Pambi. All their stories are equally horrifying, but Pambi's really struck me hard. Those childhood medical photos demonstrate she has pretty severe Ehler's-Dahnlo's syndrome, yet her mother completely dismisses that she clearly was/is in a lot of physical pain. She couldn't even run away if she tried, her mother completely failed to protect her.

@amandalockhart2454

Жыл бұрын

I want to track her down and hobble her for saying that she "had everyone buffaloed but her mother" after seeing those photos. There isn't a thing in this world that child could have ever asked for from me or of me that she wouldn't have gotten immediately and with so much love. That poor precious baby. My heart breaks for the amount of love she's missed out on by being that disgusting woman's daughter.

@welsh.truth.dragon3914

Жыл бұрын

The way the "mother" said she woukd basically milk her condition for sympathy and he condition wasn't that bad. Yeah right , it's clearly very bad, we seen the pics and see her in this documentary. Those "mothers" are as evil as melvin and Jim needs watching, that guy is a monster aswell

@lelia660

Жыл бұрын

You're so right! How awful!

@nancydenmark4873

Жыл бұрын

Just like allowing her husband to molest the children wasn’t so bad either, that is why she stays by his side! I would be in jail. I’m telling you right now. Because I would have killed him for molesting my children!

@thriftstorepierrotdoll9851

Жыл бұрын

@@welsh.truth.dragon3914 that moment made me realise that mom is probably a huge malignant narcissist. very common for these types to marry and enable pedophiles, actually.

I remember watching this documentary as a young girl, I was being groomed and it helped me realize what was happening to me was messed up

@marguerilla

10 ай бұрын

where was it aired, like on tv? hope you’re doing well today

@brutal_zelduh2581

9 ай бұрын

@marguerilla no my family just gave me unsupervised access to the internet so I saw the documentary there.

@AnaAndYari

6 ай бұрын

@@marguerillait was aired on HBO in the 90s.

It is NOT a normal parental reaction to not protect your kids from predators. This woman's reaction to her children being assaulted is totally nuts. I don't care who it was, I would protect my kids from any predator. There is no other option for me. I couldn't have any other reaction so this is nuts to me.

@anitakinnear6735

Жыл бұрын

I couldn’t agree more. I watched my children so carefully, and I let it be known that I’d report and prosecute anyone who abused them. Anyone. Relative, pastor, neighbor,…. anyone.

@misst5835

9 ай бұрын

Its not right but unfortunately its more common than you think for predators to be insulated by close family and friends. Makes me sick how common it is.

@askajk5895

8 ай бұрын

That’s why they call this shit cycles of trauma. They either grow to do it to others or they allow others to do it to their children!!! Some get out of this trauma only to enact a new type of trauma onto their children. So it just keeps going..Therapy to victims and the death penalty to the predators..

@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807

7 ай бұрын

​@@misst5835they are protected and their victims are silenced and shamed

@flyinjakesvarioustopics

6 ай бұрын

I must be honest. I know someone who didn't protect her own daughter, but instead, threw the girl to the wolves. That poor girl was my cousin, and she was so messed up because of that.

I feel worst for Pamby-she didn't stand a chance when her own mom acted like she was a manipulative little child-

@JesusChristismySavior-Julie

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! Not a serious condition?! Really? Attention seeking?! 😡 There’s a special place for that woman and it’s not Heaven. They, all adults involved, are going to be there!

@thatswhatshesaid6326

Жыл бұрын

It made me physically ill to hear her talk about her own daughter that way! Especially after hearing what that piece of shit did to her!! There is no doubt about it, listening to their stories will stick with me for a very long time.

@schrisdellopoulos9244

Жыл бұрын

Look how silly you sound. Pamby. Smh.

@gailsegal6843

Жыл бұрын

Me too - I feel so bad for her...poor lost soul

@denisebacher5040

Жыл бұрын

My thoughts exactly!

As the mother of a 12yr old daughter I strongly believe the reason why I am single and will probably stay single is because I’m afraid of someone doing something like this to my kid 😒😔

@Brenden083

Жыл бұрын

There are still good men in this world. Most predators look for single mothers, without a masculine protector makes more of a target.

@sugarsmacks250

Жыл бұрын

@@Brenden083 that’s true I’m just terrified 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

@samiak112

Жыл бұрын

You should be. I'm single now with my two and I feel the same way. It often shocks me that I know women who bring any type of men around their children within days of meeting them. A male friend of mines said a chick actually left him with her daughters within weeks of knowing him. Said it freaked him out she was so comfortable leaving her teens in the house with him. I couldn't imagine ever doing that. You're making the right decision sis, the only way they can get to our children is through us.

@dawnatkinson7704

Жыл бұрын

Well I was seeing my partner for about a year before I introduced my young daughter to him. He moved in a short while later and he and I are very much in love and he is a fantastic dad to her. Her own father has seen her for a total of about 1 hour in a year. You just need to take your time, do your homework.

@sugarsmacks250

Жыл бұрын

@@samiak112 thanks for your support sis 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

I'm pissed I sat through this and they never confronted him together. They never said anything. Nobody called him out for what he did to them. He ruined multiple generations. They even called him an awesome man🤮

@cosmicbilly

11 ай бұрын

Dumb women. They will continue the cylce themselves. They were all laughing and even making incest jokes. Disgusting family.

I was abused from ages 6 to 15. It was a relative who was beloved by the whole family and the caretaker for most is us, including me. I told my father when I was 9, he told me I was just being cold and unaffectionate to the one who provides everything for me. I was and terrible and cruel for not being more grateful for this person. The person was arrested when I was 15 for fraud and forgery and I was forced to live with my father. Who didn’t SA me, but definitely abused me both emotionally and physically. For a year this went on. He would encourage my twin sister to abuse me, when he wanted me to take a beating but was too lazy to do it himself, he’d make my sister do it. He told everyone I was the ‘bad’ twin and that I verbally abused my sister (I did in the beginning when she first started hitting me, but quickly I stopped because if I did that my father’s beating would get worse and more frequent) and my father also isolated me from my older half brother. My brother was the only one there for me and tried to protect me. I moved in with my brother and his gf when I was 16 and it works well for us, I still live with him (I’m 19 now).

@elizabethhart2434

Жыл бұрын

WOW I'm so sorry,I wish I could give u a hug , I'm so thankful you have your angel of a brother ❤ I hope something makes u smile today hun❤

@Lawnchairolympian

2 ай бұрын

I wish I could hug you and tell you how amazing you are. I’m so so sorry these monsters tried to destroy you. You are going to do so much in this life and you will thrive. It’s ok to mourn for what your life could have been but don’t let that take you under. The monsters won’t win. YOU will.

This man was disgusting horrible excuse for a man. I think is amazing how James called him out and made him face what he did

@DanielleFoster.

Жыл бұрын

👏👏👏👏

@YourMomsFavoriteCommenter

Жыл бұрын

This cluster of rotting cells* is a sad excuse for a man. Can't even be called a man. Just a sick predator at his core.

@kellymoxham113

Жыл бұрын

Yes,and amazing self control ! Because a massive part of me hoped he would pushed both Melvin & his wheel chair into the water

@CJ-nz8it

Жыл бұрын

Agree although man is way to kind of a descriptor for this scum

@yvonneoliver1158

Жыл бұрын

Yeah James called him out, but I'm confused as to why the girls were all so happy to see him? Hugging him kissing him, saying I love you!! I don't get it.!!!!

Look at all these people he BROKE! Disgusting! Heartbreaking!

@streetjones7713

Жыл бұрын

Yet they love and honor this evil man... that's why he never suffered... they never wanted him to

@schrisdellopoulos9244

Жыл бұрын

Hillbillies are born broken. It's not just Melvin. It's the stills and hills, hollers and coal mines. Show me someone from Appalachia that is together.

@ebrooks24711

Жыл бұрын

Not just him but their mothers. They are even more disgusting in my opinion.

@genellecampbell5378

Жыл бұрын

@@ebrooks24711 Agreed!They all knew he was a pedophile and still he had access to them!!! I would've stayed in a homeless shelter in another city if it kept my baby out of the hands of a monster like him.

@Ninialiindaaa08

Жыл бұрын

Yea i can’t they were hugging him….. eeww

When they all went to see him at the hospital I was sick to my stomach. This is pure wickedness on his part. Their lives were ruined, psychologically damaged, yet still show him reverence and respect. I would spit on him, slap him until they pulled me off

The guy LOOKS like John Wayne Gacy…and he’s JUST as messed up 😤

Those daughters made me laugh when they said they would pee on his grave and throw dirt on it . Good on them and that stupid preacher saying can someone come and control these ladies. Those ladies deserve to be able to say what they want, their father was a evil critter.

@poppy83.

Жыл бұрын

That preacher needed to take several seats. He had no idea. STFU.

@mauricamcginnis4063

Жыл бұрын

It is typical of the preacher . Thinks they are speaking for God himself .what a ego ..

@terrygrant326

Жыл бұрын

I loved it when that preacher couldn’t control the daughters. Yeah, TELL IT, sisters

@teressavelez

Жыл бұрын

I was wondering when someone was going to want to pee on his grave.

I was sexually molested as a child by the 2 neighborhood girls. I was 5 until I was 8. They family was good friends with my parents. It truly destroyed me. And I’m 53 now and I remember it as it was yesterday. I truly pray they all find peace the best they can.

@pie1o1morris46

11 ай бұрын

I'm sorry that happened to you, I hope you found healing

The nursing home scene messed me up. I mean, it all did, but especially when Pamby went and hugged him - TWO YEARS AFTER HE RAPED HER IN THE WOODS. The literal torture he specifically put her through yet, she can act ok around him. It just goes to show the hold a parent can have on a child - no matter how awful and outright evil and dangerous they are. 😢 I can tell this story is going to haunt me for a good while.

@sheilacampbell2521

10 ай бұрын

I wonder if he's trying that with the ladies that work in the nursing home and they are just saying it's dementia or something.

@scotswumin5502

28 күн бұрын

I guess it's such a complex mindfu@k to the psyche for most of us to understand

With a sad and disgusting story like this and some people in our society are trying to normalize pedophilia. It makes me sick.

@rebeccabrooksguest9833

Жыл бұрын

Yes, these bastards want to change it from pedophilia to "minor attracted person." 🤬🤬🤬

@familybusiness1224

Жыл бұрын

I think that's why this movie was made. They just want to brainwash us and make us think this is something normal.

@KETOInTheKitchenWithJasmine

Жыл бұрын

@@familybusiness1224 yeah well its disgusting and no one is jumping on that band wagon. These people should be prosecuted.

@familybusiness1224

Жыл бұрын

@@KETOInTheKitchenWithJasmine the sad truth is that nobody is going to do nothing about it. And who knows how many sick pedOs are watching this movie and get the courage to do even worse than what they are already doing, because if this guy got away with it for so long, they can do it too. It's really sick.

@jyotikumar1898

Жыл бұрын

Pedophilia will never be normal. Its sick and disgusting. Pedophiles belong in prison for life.

It turned my stomach to watch the women he molested as children hug his neck in the nursing home. And the poor nurse that tried to protect these girls and paid with her life.

@KrystalHarwood-ty7rk

Жыл бұрын

reminds me of joyce meyer whose father molested her. she actually forgave him which sadly you have to do otherwise you bear that burden forever

@blink184

11 ай бұрын

Male, WT privilege

@jennym7465

11 ай бұрын

No, you watched ONE of the women he molested run to him and hug him. The only other one who hugged him was Pambi and she was clearly uncomfortable. The other two daughters were NOT hugging and loving up on him. They're were also very clearly uncomfortable and awkward. It's really crazy to me that people can watch something with their own eyes and STILL say something different happened...not to mention how some people are clearly VERY bad at reading situations and people's emotions and reactions. Like you apparently.

@goodmorningsundaymorning4533

10 ай бұрын

​@@KrystalHarwood-ty7rkForgiveness doesn't mean reconciliation.

@Tech-Corner2023

9 ай бұрын

@@jennym7465 wow wonder what caused in you so much reaction to her comment. No they still were there and still looked okay. Yeah they may have ambiguous feelings but that scene is uncomfortable given all those many things he has done to many including murder too. Their all being there in the way it is shown is extremely frustrating and uncomfortable.

I'm 42 and have a son of 14.When he was around two, we moved and a guy i knew, took my old flat. Afterwards he was always around in our new home and played a lot with my son. Then, one evening : i got a call from a guy i saw only one time - years ago! He told me, that the guy who's hsnging around my home and rented my old apartment : r*ped him, when he was a teen😱 he was crying while telling and begged me to be carefull with my son.I never ever let the other guy in my rooms again, and was very thankful to the other one. Stefan, I know you struggle with addictions - you are stronger than that👍🏻

The second wife that said Pamby used her disability to get attention!!!!HORRIBLE!!...No hip joints ,no knee sockets a club foot,NO PROBLEM!!! ...just WOW!!!!

I’m disgusted at the women that failed to protect her children’ knowing what was being done. They’ll answer to god on their non deeds. Shame on them. Some people don’t deserve to have children

@ansh9236

Жыл бұрын

I agree but look what happened to the nurse who was sent to protect them.

@abullard8409

Жыл бұрын

This man is pure evil. The Biblical verses have nothing to do nor does it Condone this behavior. The free will of fallen mankind is not Gods fault. We make decisions not God. He will be judged and I'm pretty sure there's a special place in HELL with his name on it. My comfort is knowing he suffers forever

@cbear9263

Жыл бұрын

Completely feel like he should've pressed more on the mothers. They were ultimately responsible.

@mauricamcginnis4063

Жыл бұрын

I think it was more important to have a husband than worry about if he was a baby rapper .. can't live on welfare ..The stigma would kill these women ..Go figure ...!!!!

@truthhurts2879

Жыл бұрын

@@mauricamcginnis4063 sorry to be that person lol, but it made me chuckle reading your comment about a rapper, as in African American rap music, it's raper with one P for this sick sob who raped those defenceless children.

"He didn't belong in our family and there was nothing us kids could do about it." I hear that.

@twilaegroh3520

Жыл бұрын

How are all the sisters now?

THIS is thE definition of a documentary. Unflinching, brutally honest, so many perspectives. The horror and anguish was intense. I really felt overwhelmed after/while watching this. 💔 Thank u for this. People need to know what it's like and why people end up like they do. Fkn brutal. 😞

That mother is disgusting for allowing it !! And more power to the mother and son with high IQ s she's very elegant raised her son right ... Didn't follow in the lead of the rest of that wacko family !

13 years? For raping (not molesting) multiple children? Gets out in 8yrs? The system is broken. We need to normalizing calling it rape not molesting. If a man did the same to an adult woman it would be called sexual assault or rape.

@PlatinumIrishrose

Жыл бұрын

If it was called rape the guy would get 4 years. It's considered molesting because it includes rape, touching genitals, fondling, exposure or genitalia, and taking pornographic pictures. So, no, it won't ever be "called rape" as you suggested, because it is so much more. Why would we want to "normalize" it?

@teressavelez

Жыл бұрын

Exactley!! That is RAPE NOT molestation!

@labelmelola368

Жыл бұрын

Right and then people that get caught with like a half a joint of weed in their car go to prison for 30+ years it’s crazy

@labelmelola368

Жыл бұрын

Fuck the police fuck the judges fuck the politicians fuck the court system fuck everybody who’s in authority figure for doing wrong by their own kind

@CEO_of_Autism_

Жыл бұрын

@@labelmelola368 yep! And it's because the prison system was established for the sole purpose of profit $$$ and control; not justice. This is why the majority of inmates are in for non-violent drug charges, and face much longer sentences than these monsters. And the monsters are given special privileges and protection from other inmates, while the non-violent inmates are treated like animals.

This is definitely one of the most disturbing stories I’ve ever heard. Great job putting it together.

@LolaBathory

Жыл бұрын

The doc about the little boy Gabriel is way worse :( if you’re curious.

This may sound weird. But I’m glad I watched this. My father was a child molester. He raped me and my 4 siblings one of my siblings being a boy. He used religion and “this is how fathers show their daughters how much they love them” “this is what your husband is going to want from you, so it’s my job as your father to teach you” on top of Bible verses on Bible verses. This was triggering in a good way. I really don’t feel alone. I hate that this happened to them, and they have to live with it. But this story helped at least one person ❤️

@KrystalHarwood-dz2xk

8 ай бұрын

not weird. sometimes confronting your past helps you get through it

@flyinjakesvarioustopics

6 ай бұрын

This is why I turned my back on religion. Don't get me wrong. I didn't turn on God, but religion itself because it is used as a weapon to make others submit. You can scare people into submission and you will have won every single time. Just use God as a double-edge sword to scare people to do what you, not God, wants, and you are the greatest manipulator in the world and many hearts, minds, and bodies will be corrupted all because of one person. It can be either the head of the household or the head of the church. It doesn't make a bit of difference. Once you have made them bow to you, you have broken their defenses and you have over=inflated your ego. That is so perverted, and this is the problem with religion. So many people have been hurt, molested, and even killed in the name of religion. God holds all of them, not their abusers, in his huge and loving heart.

as a survivor myself, this is the most insane thing ive ever watched

I don't understand how the girls could go visit their so called father and hug him. Then go to his funeral too.

@gigiarmany4332

Жыл бұрын

yeah..that didnt sit right with me either...but it's the only form of male affection they knew since day 1 in their lives..

@cherylmarriott2648

Жыл бұрын

They are trapped in a soul tie my mum went to her fathers funeral and I could never understand and she told me she felt sorry for him and i was amazed at her heart i would not be so forgiving

@deborahsanderson697

Жыл бұрын

After watching most of this disturbing disgusting video I'm going to leave as soon as they say they are going to visit him. The victims that call him daddy will be too much for me. God bless them all

@jennym7465

Жыл бұрын

Incest is a completely different beast. You've never heard of children who get abused and still defend their parents? It's NOT uncommon. This is still their father, they still crave a relationship with him. And if you notice only ONE really is all over him and you can tell she's alittle wary but desperately wants to pretend their relationship is normal. Geri stays all the way on the other side of the bed and makes awkward small talk. Pambi is obviously uncomfortable. June is the only one extremely affectionate. She's also a molester- Denise told us that. Don't judge these women so hard. Incest is very complicated to understand.

Wow, just wow. This was one of the most disturbing, horrifying, sad stories I have ever seen. The inherent evil of this man is immeasurable and the devastating effects upon all the victims is incredible. These women are irreparably damaged, but also so incredibly strong survivors

@andreadraper6533

Жыл бұрын

Yeah now multiply that times 10 million. And that's just in the United States. I have been homeless in San Francisco for the past 15 years and I'm here to tell you at least 80% maybe even 90% of the people living in the street we're sexually abused as children. I very very luckily wasn't but almost every single person I have met which is hundreds of people at this point, who also live homeless tell me they were sexually abused as children. And pretty much every single one of their stories is just like these girls it was someone inside their home who had a lot of authority over them who made it into like a game, like with the crayons and the tampons and the 50¢ and the $1 and the dog toy and the Vaseline and all that. The abuser without exception minimizes it, makes it into like a joke game with the children or child either that or they make it into like this romantic thing where they're literally carrying on a romantic relationship with the child like taking them out on dates buying them gifts etc. It seems this guy had a little bit of that and a lot of just authoritatively jokingly coercing. One part of the story that was completely left out which I would have really loved to have seen and also can you please do a little follow-up documentary that revolves around this topic: the question that should have been asked of both of the mothers is "what kind of financial situation were you in when you met him and how much was his professional mechanic skills and ability to earn a middle-class living via those mechanic skills, how much of that factored in to your decision to begin a love sex relationship with him especially to make the decision to marry or and cohabitate? Please ask these people how much of their decision to marry Melvin was based on their financial situation before, during, and after Melvin?

@bellebelle7532

Жыл бұрын

You've articulated what I'm unable to. Appreciate you being a voice for us both. Blessings, Bellè x

@izayahkxchannel4419

Жыл бұрын

@@andreadraper6533 I'm from Alberta Canada and was on the streets from age 12 into my 20's off and on because my brother raped me and his best friend had molested me for 2 yrs befire that ages 7-9.5 and when I finally told a teacher my family said I was lying even though he admitted it (my brother) and within two yrs I was taken away because of MY BEHAVIOR and ended up in a foster home then institutions and hospitals and jail at age 12. I'm now 43 and I'm still not believed. I can tell you you are absolutely correct 90% of homeless have been abused in some way.

@joannequina5958

Жыл бұрын

expose EVIL SOCIOPATHIC PREDATORS for JUSTICE for the victims

@joannequina5958

Жыл бұрын

@@andreadraper6533 expose EVIL SOCIOPATHIC PREDATORS who gaslight their victims! get Justice for the abused! Do you have any solutions /ideas for women to prevent this sexual abuse?????

I cannot believe it is 1 out of 7. That is shocking so disgusting and sick. Kids are so innocent and cannot defend themselves. It infuriates me to my core. I don't know how people can hurt children.

My husband confronted my dad with a note i had wrote to my husband detailing everything. My dad acted like he suddenly couldn't read when my husband offered to letter to him. So instead he literally read it to him. My dad began to act like none of it ever happened.

The bottom line - the mothers were just as responsible for the molestation. They were responsible for keeping their kids safe. They were the adults, they were in charge, they had the authority and ability to do what needed to be done to advocate and effect change in their children's life and keep them safe.

@dinarusso3320

Жыл бұрын

Exactly and I blame the mother for not protecting her children.

@kiwichild7670

Жыл бұрын

@@dinarusso3320 And to Shannon. Grow the FK up. They were the Original Victims. Did they get any help? No

@mr_dunne_author

Жыл бұрын

Exactly..

@HausOfAdonis

Жыл бұрын

And the father?

@shannoninalaska

Жыл бұрын

@@kiwichild7670 maybe not. But they knew what it felt like to be a victim more than anyone. They knew it was wrong. It was still a conscious choice. Anyway, pedophiles are notoriously not able to be rehabilitated. Once you're one, you will always have that defect. Kinda like any addiction.

I’m merely 22 minutes in and I’m sobbing. For all you kids and for my inner child. My abuse started at roughly 6. May be earlier, but my father ( not one my abusers) remembered the first time I told him what going on I was 6. It was my eldest brother, who was 13. I told after the 3rd attack because I was very sore down there. My mother took my brother’s side. Said, by telling, I was “tearing the family apart” and that I “just refuse to be a good girl”. After her punishing me, I never again told my dad. And I tried to keep it from my mom because I didn’t want her to know I was being a “bad girl”. Soon my brother brought in the second oldest brother. They would even sexually assault me in the family car, in a parking lot with people walking by. One time an adult male came up and took his junk out and was stroking watching what was going on. Not kidding. When I was 9 I went to spend the weekend with my aunt and my two cousins. The elder of the two cousins brought me to meet some of his friends. He sold me to them for $25. He swore if I fought the boys he’d tell my mom I was “bad again”. When I turned 12 my parents divorced and my mom had to get a job ( up to that point she had my father working 2 full time jobs). Well she didn’t like that so she hooked up with someone she KNEW was a pedophile ( she worked with his teen stepdaughter who had confided he was abusing her) and pretty much gave me to him if he’d work to support her and us kids. The abuse from my brothers was still ongoing, so at 12 years old I was coming to avoid going home if I could. But I had a younger sister and I could tell the pedo was interested in her, so I stayed and kept the abuse on me. For just over 6 more years. By the time I was 18 my stepdad did make his move on my sister and when I found out I told my mom I was going to cops. But soon I was talked out of that by my mom. Assured that it would never happen again. And she was right. It didn’t. For my sister. As a family we went to Knotts Berry Farm and my stepdad was sexually molesting me every chance he got. And at 19 I moved out and got my own place. Oh throughout all that time all my brothers ( I actually have 3 but the one closest to me in age never sexually touched me) were allowed to choke me, smash my head into walls, and any other physical abuse they wanted. If I complained or cried out my mom would say “Denise leave your brothers alone.” I’ve attempted suicide twice. I don’t drink or use drugs because I don’t like the feeling of losing my faculties. Makes me feel vulnerable. Plus I’m sure I could easily become an alcoholic or drug addict because of wanting to drown these memories. And in adulthood I’ve been raped twice. So, yes, I so can relate to your family’s story. Oh, I finally told my dad about the abuse continuing well past 6yo. It devastated him. Any time he spoke to me after that he’d apologize that he didn’t save me. I wish I had never told him. I lost him when I was 31 years old. And with his death there went the only family member that gave a crap about me. My sister says that because I let it go on so long I must have been enjoying it. That was truly the biggest betrayal.

@carohigh505

Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry. The ending really got me when you saved your sister from further abuse, just for her to stab you in the back. If you had let him continue molesting her instead of you, she wouldn't have that callus opinion 💔😢 How disgusting of her to say to you after you've already suffered from so much

@auggies1able

Жыл бұрын

omg. please keep finding ways to cope, manage and stay strong. your story is truly horrific and heartbreaking 💔

@thenewyorkcitizen

Жыл бұрын

You didn't deserve any of the abuse you have experienced. I hope you have continued to heal and found caring people to be around.

@Noodlemonkey7

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry.

@mccartyzoe

Жыл бұрын

My heart is broken for you. I’m so sorry. It could have been any of us and it was you and I’m so sorry. …. I wish I could take it from you and make u whole.

Familiar story....my family was homeless several times. Living with uncle's, grandma or on the streets. My Mother was an amazing Mom. She never knew her brother's molested me. I told when I was 37 years old. As I grew up I tried to tell myself that I would be okay that these things that happened to me did not define me. But of course they did. I was never able to have a safe and secure intimate relationship with a man. Even though I did marry and have a son, I just couldn't connect with people. I never told anyone any of this before, beyond telling my mom and my dad. Well I told my fiance when I was in my late 30s He told me it wasn't my fault I was a child that I should never blame myself. Those few words really changed my life and enabled me to tell my parents what happened. Anyway it's a very long story... And this documentary brought all this to mind. I pray for those people involved and that somehow they have healed enough to carry on in this world.

My aunt used to say that suicide is your last selfish act. When Ann’s son was angry at her and she said she didn’t mean to do it to him, it brought my aunt’s words to mind.

@rachelf8813

Жыл бұрын

It's so so hard. All of it.

This man didn't deserve a memorial upon his death. He was undeserving of any honors. His wives covered up, turned a blind eye & enabled him on his evil deeds. Each of these women deserved so much better, deserved to be children, and to feel safe. They were failed in every single way they could be failed. I hope each of the family members are now living in peace and living their best life.

@nashvillebass8358

Жыл бұрын

Very well said... This was Such a sad story these children and adults had to indure with this man

@annacostello5181

Жыл бұрын

Oh but the funeral at the end was EMPOWERING. The truth came out. It wasn’t a memorial it was a roast

I'm particularly heart broken and absolutely disgusted when one of the daughters said their mother would go out to get a bottle for the baby, remove her diaper and bring her to him.

@davidfaxon3336

Жыл бұрын

I would have loved to off that mother

@amberbest6942

Жыл бұрын

Should be in jail too.

@weetbixkid2051

Жыл бұрын

That made me sick to my stomach.

@Louise-xr3mf

Жыл бұрын

🤢😭😭

@kaz2910

Жыл бұрын

That was literally the most horrifying thing out of all of it

Wow, I'm at a loss for words. How this man only got 8 years after all the damage he did is beyond me. The mothers disgust me more than anything because they knew what that man was doing & just let it happen!! What's even more sad is the 1st wife saying the 2nd wife asked her for help because she couldn't handle him & the 1st wife says well you wanted him with a smirk on her face. How sick & twisted of her to not say anything knowing more innocent girls would get hurt?... Okay, I'm done. Lol, Think this is the longest comment I've left on YT! 😂

@pinoyboysandme7251

7 ай бұрын

These ladies were desperate for a man. They got the bottom of the barrel for sure 😡🤢

@user-qu4ey5yy3f

6 ай бұрын

He got out early for good behavior. I'm sure he had multiple personalities and could charm his way through things.

@rrodriguez4747

6 ай бұрын

Oh, wow. He had it too easy.. smh

@flyinjakesvarioustopics

6 ай бұрын

Why he got only eight years is because: 1. The judge must have been high or he was a pedo himself and sympathized with the loser. 2. Our justice system is broken big-time. 3. You can do what you want to kids and nobody gives a damn as long as it is real abuse; however, discipline your kid by spanking him or her or let there be an accidental injury, and CPS will treat you like a damn criminal.

@brittwilliams487

5 ай бұрын

Yes they need to be locked up as well my aunt mother caught her husband in the basement with her hemmed up on the washing machine and he claimed he was just getting on to her about something and she told her mom that he was touching her and she sent my aunt away so she can keep her man

This was fantastic! Big props to the son who made this film. To hear about their experiences and later see the sisters visit their father in the hospital as he was dying and later burying him was very touching. Sexual abuse leads to depression, alcoholism, and drug addiction. That’s why we can’t be doing this to innocent children

That picture they show after the daughter talks about him never being clean, gave me the chills, take a look of a real monster on earth, he destroyed every single one of their lives, and both of those women, not mom's, are even WORSE for not protecting the gifts that God granted them!!! Children are gifts from God

@Mary.Q.Contrary1968

Жыл бұрын

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@somebody9369

Жыл бұрын

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@robertahill929

Жыл бұрын

Oh I was like ew what a pig, 🐷Shoot the mother f*****

@staceywooddell3181

Жыл бұрын

Can ya 🅱️ELiEVE THAT 2ND WiFE TOOK THE GRAN🅱️🅰️🅱️Y 🅱️💙Y AROUN THAT👹'Z 👺DEM🤡N

@patriciacook3981

Жыл бұрын

Time stamp 35:06 this daughter from 2nd marriage talks about him never being clean and then the picture

This makes me sick Sad and disappointed in our society. People know and don’t do shit to protect children

@pinkpugginz

Жыл бұрын

the fucking county failed when they sent that nurse out there alone with no backup. she knew and had the proof and melvin fuck face could have been put away forever.

@beatrixjones2982

Жыл бұрын

Trust and believe if I was aware of this going on, that monster would disappear.

@Maxcat22

Жыл бұрын

@@beatrixjones2982 same

@joannequina5958

Жыл бұрын

evil!!!!!

@finebetty7446

Жыл бұрын

It is going on somewhere near you, in your family, your neighbours, at school, and everyone is ignoring it and doing nothing right now.

'He paid me a dollar because it went in all the way... but it did hurt 😔 ' One of the saddest things I have ever heard

This documentary was so disturbing. Sad. Horrific. 😢 As a survivor myself I know what generational abuse is like. So much could have been done to prevent this abuse and nothing was done. It makes me so angry. This is one of the most powerful documentaries revealing abuse in the family.

Seeing June run to Melvin shouting "Daddy! That's my daddy!" Truly broke my heart 😔 She's still searching for her father's approval and wanting him to love her in the appropriate way a father/parent should. And June's sister Denise stood in the hallway looking so sad, angry and frightened. She was there to support her sister's at her own emotional expense. And don't get me started on the mother's. Saying that he's evil and they hate Melvin. News flash. You're both just as guilty as him.

@teknoaija1762

Жыл бұрын

it s part of the deal.i dated a beautiful young woman whose father was sexually and romantically in love with her and they had a sick co-dependant relationship and mother was approving of it having been molested with her sister by their father who died of alcoholism aged 50 and they all worshipped that monster.it reminds the stockholm syndrome.she told me how she was scared stiff of her father coming upstairs to rape her when she was 14-15.the father wanted to wrestle her when she was 18 and grab her by the pussy(trump style) as they"wrestled".a friend of mine told she was out walking the dog with a older man holding hands and that man was acting very sexually towards her.he was so jealous of me when he realized how in love she was with me.both parents ganged up on me abusing her to the point she tried to leave but it failed miserably.after 6 yrs of hell she finally threatened to kill herself if she wasn t allowed to live with me and they gave in.

@bradenharris8718

Жыл бұрын

That was June, just so you know. Jeri Joy is the the brunette.

@kcallaghan7839

Жыл бұрын

Women in those days didn't have a way to support their family. Although times where changing, men's income was still the main support of the family. The whole family was a victim of this man. The woman in the bed is feeling sorrowful. She didn't look like she could do much about what he did to her, let alone his behavior else where. This man did these things to his family. Why do people blame the victim like it's their fault. I'm sure they have their own faults for not being able to stand up to this man, but they didn't do the dirty deed.

@lqboren47

Жыл бұрын

@@kcallaghan7839 don't make excuses for evil. There has ALWAYS been help. Thise women chose to Sacrifice their daughters for their own comfort.

@leslijones4443

Жыл бұрын

This Melvin and Jess were disgusting, criminal pigs. They caused a lifetime of damage to all the kids, and the women too. (They are not as guilty as the men. The brainwashing on everyone is still evident. ) they all seem terribly affected. So sorry. This is shameful.

I was a victim of molestation. My father was and still is a sick man . Dad's are supposed to protect there children. Not rape and beat them. There are other men that were in my life who were supposed to protect and didn't. I hope all the men who hurt children get there well deserved punishment..

@billwilson5341

Жыл бұрын

Ultimately all men *and women* who hurt children WILL get their well deserved punishment.

@Tsubahi

Жыл бұрын

Be sure to get the RIGHT man to protect the children, not some pedophile off the street.

@flyinjakesvarioustopics

6 ай бұрын

I can't imagine what it would feel like to be molested by my own parent. That is so disgusting to me. I feel sorry for all those whose parents molested. It must be the hardest thing ever to deal with in your lives. God bless you all.

Thank you. All of you. For your honesty and sharing this

Wow!! These poor kids. The fact your mother is so put together shows how strong she is. Fantastic Documentary!!!

Sounds like my dad and little brother. Completely supporting and enabling each others addiction to alcohol and drugs. My dad always partied, even after having kids, and would let us drink. He would buy us wine coolers when I was 8. He would party when we were there on the weekends, with people who were strangers to us. Grown men, who he wouldn't care would sleep in our beds, cause he was too drunk to notice, or didn't even care. Luckily I didn't live with him full time, but my brother did, all through his teens, while in high school. My dad would let his friends come over to party. So my dad was instrumental in causing my brother's addiction, enabling him, and never held him accountable to face consequences. Now my dad is older, and disabled, my brother keeps him in the booze and pills, and he gets to take complete advantage of my dad financially. I call it KARMA. My dad used my grandpa financially all his life, and counted the days until he would die, and be able to have all my Gramps worked hard for, and saved his whole life. And he did. My Gramps left me $20,000, and he stole it, without giving it a thought. And I had just had his grandson, and he stole his own grandson's future....disgusting. Sold Gramps house right away, and never gave me a penny of my inheritance. I swear, families can be so freaking toxic and manipulative. I had to cut them out of my life 10+ yrs ago, for peace in my life, and for my mental health. Best decision I ever made.

@pinkpugginz

Жыл бұрын

family means nothing. its a group of strangers youre born into that is out of your control. my great aunt stole all her sister (my grandmas) inheritance and cheated all the grandkids out of a future as well. I'm glad you're not part of that toxic system.

This was a tough watch. The funeral scene sums up how devastating molestation is for decades to come whether it is done once or repeatedly. This monster with the help from BOTH his wives robbed these kids of their childhood and a decent adulthood. He deserved to rot away in prison but unfortunately that did not happen. I'm hoping this family was able to begin healing. Would love an update.

@terrell6439

Жыл бұрын

Right he destroy them children's Lives mentally physically but not spiritually. I would Like an update to . How are they doing now in 2022 .

@christinescreationsespinos8062

Жыл бұрын

Most are on drugs and in and outta jail sad how ppl ruin ppl

@prissypants2336

Жыл бұрын

How could they hug that monster

@amandaconner7563

Жыл бұрын

The funeral had my jaw on the floor!!! It's why I ran to comments

@kathieoray2990

6 ай бұрын

Having not been SA'd as a child, my opinion holds little value. Having said that, I just can't get past this all encompassing hold this despicable excuse of a man continued to hold over these women. He is beneath contempth. His many horrific crimes are simply inexcusable. That the justice system compounds this by handing out such a laughable sentence just adds to the outrage. It it true that there is a statute of limitations on crimes such as SA against a child? I had heard this and quite frankly this serves only the abuser/paedophile as it limits the time the victim has to come forward and seek justice. Does anyone know? 😦

This is the second time I've watched this desolating portrayal of such unmitigated horror. James, you are extremely talented. I don't know how you managed to come out of that so highly functioning, but whatever you are doing, please continue. Please don't feel bad about wanting to shove Melvin off the peer. We all do. I'm glad you didn't give him a chance to forget about the hell he inflicted on those whom he tortured. I hope his last thoughts were of your voice, reminding him of his sins. I wish your family healing and peace. Especially June, who is clearly in denial.

despite how terrible this is, I love the way it's been put together with so little narration. Just the people themselves talking.

The young man’s answer to being molested by his uncle… “I did it, it wasn’t sexual to me”. Exactly the way I felt when molested. But now I know those traumatizing events never leave you.

@deborahsanderson697

Жыл бұрын

Sad and true 🙏🙏🙏

@aneasham273

Жыл бұрын

They should bring the death sentence to these beasts because they ruin kids life for ever one never gets over it

@KrystalHarwood-ty7rk

Жыл бұрын

sister lost her virginity so young? wow

@Nodeal757

Жыл бұрын

​@@KrystalHarwood-ty7rk it disturbed me that he said she lost her virginity then, she was raped its not like she was willing. Just sad that they think like that 😪

@thriftstorepierrotdoll9851

Жыл бұрын

@@Nodeal757 i don’t think he’s unconscious of the fact that the phrase “lost her virginity” normalises it; he’s most likely employing it specifically because it was “normal” for her (and others in the family). he’s clearly very intelligent. your comment on how “they think” comes off as condescending and dehumanising.

I hate the wives even more than him. Allowing your child to be destroyed for your convenience 🤢

@jessicamann2401

Жыл бұрын

If I had the smallest gut feeling or saw something odd that should not happen or my kids telling me, he would be underground. I cannot understand how the so called mothers let this happen. The only solution is one final chemical injection.

@TheMaiah13

Жыл бұрын

I know. No sympathy for that old frail woman who made the despicable choice of such a man.

@garciagarcia309

Жыл бұрын

@@TheMaiah13 she definitely seemed like a POS parent on her own on top of the abuse she allowed and according to what they're saying encouraged to happen. Imo she didn't deserve to have any help or comfort at the end.

@carolannpacificadam1944

Жыл бұрын

Hating her or being angry doesn't help anything believe it I know I quit hating my mom for letting my sibling hurt me it was work and hard to do my mom unaware to us really was mentally ill. For myself it made all of the past become clearer I suggest therapy

@oaklandmade007

Жыл бұрын

Yeah 😒😒😒 I'm so mad right now 😡 if I caught my dad or my husband or any other bastard in bed with my baby, his life would end at that moment 💯 I'd rather die fighting ...

Those poor excuses of a mother and evil man will rot for what they have done. The immeasurable damage inflicted on these children will be with them until their very last breath. My heart breaks hearing their story and infuriates me to no end that such diabolical despicable people exist in this world.

Thank you for this beautifully made, so painful brutally honest film.

33:13 omfg how can she say her daughter was feigning attention and preying on ppl about her disability? that’s not faking being born without hip and knee sockets and a club foot is absolutely terrible and not able to be faked

@feleciaburrous6821

Жыл бұрын

That really shows the heart of that woman, really something else.

@chrisperez3446

Жыл бұрын

So so true

@eddieblair9751

Жыл бұрын

Because she knew. Back in the 70s in our neighborhood my sisters best friend we all knew the father was mean and molested the kids even his teenage boys. The friend wasn’t allowed to go anywhere but for two hours then had to be at home, and nobody was allowed one foot on their property. Years later we moved away we were all in high school and my mom received a phone call that he and the mom committed suicide,eventually the rest of the kids one by one did the same. I often think why the adults in our lives didn’t report the father? They all knew, because they all talked about him.. maybe if they did that whole family would be alive now.

@DenebGuzman333

Жыл бұрын

I know I hated that part as well.

@jabariempress

Жыл бұрын

Mom is just as guilty.

It is Reprehensible the way parents have raised their children. I detest the saying RESPECT UR ELDERS. Only respect someone who has EARNED THAT RESPECT.

@joannequina5958

Жыл бұрын

makes me wonder why certain leaders preached respect your parents when this was going on.....were they sexual predators? It's so confusing to children to be told to respect what doesn't deserve respect.....it deserves EXPOSURE of sociopathic sexual predators for JUSTICE for the victims!!!!!!

The ripple effect of the abuse is absolutely mad! That poor family.

This is a phenomenal documentary!!! Heartfelt, purposeful and honest! God Bless for giving a voice to the voiceless ones of the past. Better late than never. ❣️

Rip to Josephine Spegel. She seems like the only one who wanted to help these kids and melvin murdered her.

@YouTubeUzername

Жыл бұрын

Yes! This entire story boils my blood!

@Treemeadow

Жыл бұрын

This is why you can't blame the mothers

These women are extremely damaged but survived the best they could. Hope some found a way to heal.

@joannequina5958

Жыл бұрын

please help expose these sociopathic sexual predators for justice for the victims

@eveventura7750

Жыл бұрын

A very slow, very painful castration wouldn't even be close to what he deserves.

You are a brave, strong, courageous young man to bring this story to the light. Thank you. ❤️

This man makes my blood boil! Eating away joyfully and denying all the cruel child abuse and murder accusations against him!

My mom was molested from the time she was 5 to 13 years old. Growing up we never stayed at friend's houses, never left alone we're only allowed to play in our front yard. She was very overprotective. Thank God she was my mom. And I gave the same protection to my children.

I feel the most vulnerable child is the one who lacks the protection of their mother.

@lisamariealaniz7538

Жыл бұрын

Sad but true

@AntoinetteGenesis

Жыл бұрын

Amen!!!!!

@cherokeegypsymama

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely! My mother was very neglectful and chose the worst, evil men to marry and date. If she would have protected me, I wouldn't have half of the mental issues I struggle with.

@lisamariealaniz7538

Жыл бұрын

@@cherokeegypsymama im sorry to hear that i wish she would have protected u i am sending u love , hugs , healing and light

@soniabains5386

Жыл бұрын

@sbenton8 That must be really hard for you to process and heal, I am sorry you went through that. Stay strong ❤️

I am so proud of your family. I am a survivor of my own "Hell Story". It takes grit to come forth in front of the whole world. You all deserve peace. You're all my heroes in loving and hating him and I pray your journey's in life will all be finally blessed.

My mother unfortunately suffered severe sexual abuse around 3. She won't talk about it. He ended passing away in 2012 ironically my ex fiance dad was a cop in the area of my grandfather and found him dead a picture of me on his mirror. My mom or uncle would never tell me any details but my uncle hated him with all his being. They lived closest and both met to clean it out since they were next onf kin. His sister came to pick up ashes ans that was it. My cousin gave me a briefing of what was found in his apartment. It was July so 90 degree days, he turned his heat up to 90 and had been dead for 3 days. It was disgusting. They found a lot or things eluding to cross dressing as well. BUT I am proud of these women being open and honest. My mother would only tell me her first memory was 3 thru her teen when she ran away. People knew. He was into drugs. And its like wow. Everyone failed her. My father was a drunk and always beat us and he'd tell her she liked what happened to her and etc. So I had that feeling and one day I was 8 or 9 and she just blurted it out in an argument. And I was stunned. She never got proper true therapy

Children identify as an actual part of their parents. Doesn’t matter how bad the abuse is, children will love their parents most of the time. It’s impossible to understand how they could still have love and compassion for him after all he did if you haven’t been there.

@angelbelieves7496

Жыл бұрын

So true

@freefree1664

Жыл бұрын

yes as the saying goes children don't stop loving their abusers, they stop loving themselves

At the end when they are hugging him and talking with him turned my stomach because he got away with it on so many different levels.

@butterflymustfly_1232

Жыл бұрын

Cognitive Dissonance. Trauma bonded. :(

@KrystalHarwood-ty7rk

Жыл бұрын

no matter how ugly it seems he was still their dad

@flyinjakesvarioustopics

6 ай бұрын

I am glad I am blind, because if I could have seen them hugging that creep, I would have vomited all over the place.

Only served 8yrs!! What an outrage!! Should have gotten life better yet should have gotten done to him what he did to those poor innocent children!!!

This is so sad. Horrific. You are so strong for making him face his crimes.

The guy making this documentary is a real hero to bringing these kind of secrets to public veiw especially in the 90's when things like this were still kept very secret, it just amazes me how the next generation didnt learn and keep there children from this man, watching these poor people be destroyed by this monster is sickening how he got access to so many children, i know child molesters are very cunning but it seems like this man wasnt hiding anything and yet still was given access to more children and the sickest part this man if u a can call him that was only given 8 years for distroying countless lives, i cant wait until this man meets Jesus i pray this family can recover .

@glam2gobeauty811

Жыл бұрын

There was a story about another man who did this same thing to generations and he was just arrested in March of this year. It finally ended with his great granddaughter

@cynthiastanley35

Жыл бұрын

@@glam2gobeauty811 😭

@1888.cfc.

Жыл бұрын

The world is ran by pd0z and fr33masons. They look after their own. Rob a bank... 30yrs Smoke a joint... 30yrs. Rape molest and terrorise children... slap on the wrist. It's not rocket science why these predators are never locked away forever. Majority get off Scot free. Why do you think that is? From the white house to the Vatican to the royals Hollywood Music industry judiciary msm government. They are all sadistic fr33masons and pdos and devil worshippers. They look after their own.

Props to the guy who made this and just put everything out there. He spoke out for them all. It takes so much courage for everyone to speak especially on film. Everyone should be very aware of anyone around children. Especially the extra nice ones.

So many kids try to tell someone about the abuse they're suffering only to be not believed and victim blamed. Also these kids literally witnessed him killing and raping a nurse, the cops in this area are garbage

38:59 this lady speaks so bluntly. Really made me sick. They're all so messed up, stunted in so many ways. And they still hang with eachother after molesting eachother also 😮. Uncle Jim needs to go somewhere.

When a predator preys on his own family, the damage they do is ridiculous. It's such a confusing and painful existence when someone who is suppose to love you is hurting you. And it's only compounded when the person you turn to for help turns their back on you. I hope this family found some healing and peace in his passing

@joannequina5958

Жыл бұрын

evil

I can’t believe that he got away with murder despite 3 girls having seen/heard the whole thing. Also, excellent documentary! That was the most insane and amazing funeral I’ve ever seen!

Thank you for sharing 😢

Stories like this remind me to always try to be a better daughter, because sometimes I forget that a loving family, what is considered ''normal'', what a family always should be, sadly, is not granted to everyone.