JULY DIARIES | Reuniting with Jahvis and crying on my birthday?🎂

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insta: @joyishhhh / joyishhhh
This month has already put the biggest smile on my face and hopefully this video can do the same for you. So grateful to have captured so many special memories with the people I love! Sending all my love to all the little places in the world you guys are in!
Jahvis: ‪@JahvisLoveday‬
Hairdresser: / the_skin_circle
Joy xxxx
💌 timestamps:
00:00 - intro
00:35- girls night
01:19 - sunset diner
01:47 - going blonde
02:37 - reuniting with Jahv
05:11 - in the studio
05:49 - sunset in byron
07:15 - getting ingredients
07:59 - making the cake
08:27 - birthdays suck?
13:16 - icing the cake
15:04 - Italian dream
💌 contact me:
insta: @joyishhhh / joyishhhh
email: joybenhur@gmail.com
💌 music:
Epidemic sound
💌 equipment:
canon m50
sigma lens 16mm 1.4
iphone 12
manfrotto tripod
edit on Final Cut Pro X!!

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  • @simarkaur2004
    @simarkaur20043 жыл бұрын

    I think crying on your birthday is like a universal thing now😂

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hahahha I’m glad I’m not alone

  • @amelie7238
    @amelie72383 жыл бұрын

    everyone needs a jahvis in their life

  • @alexaduarte8676

    @alexaduarte8676

    2 жыл бұрын

    I NEED A JAHVIS

  • @sunshinexhaz8648

    @sunshinexhaz8648

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@alexaduarte8676 ME TOOOOO

  • @bea4912
    @bea49123 жыл бұрын

    when you were baking with your friends and talking about birthdays, it felt like such a calming safe environment. you’re so lucky to have a group of genuine friends!

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    🥺🥺🥺

  • @caromaria9090
    @caromaria90903 жыл бұрын

    I MISSED JAHVIS SO MUCH HAHSHASHHHA

  • @ruizfuentebella51
    @ruizfuentebella513 жыл бұрын

    YES, JAVHIS IS BACKKK ATLAST WE MISS HIM

  • @alidallas3450
    @alidallas34503 жыл бұрын

    I have cried on almost every birthday because I had a certain expectation of how it was supposed to be instead of just enjoying it. I am an over thinker by nature and always feel like people don’t really like me and that feeling just gets stronger on my birthday, which I really hate. I enjoy other people’s birthdays more. Thank you for talking about this, I really feel less alone🤍

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    I completely get you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Debbysworld_

    @Debbysworld_

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too 🥺🥺

  • @madelinemay6430
    @madelinemay64303 жыл бұрын

    I’m not the type of person to have FOMO but I think if I had your friends and did the things you did I’d definitely have FOMO! The aesthetics and feel of your diaries are aspirational xx

  • @suhani2259
    @suhani22593 жыл бұрын

    i have a video request joy: i kinda wanna hear you are your friends do more of these dinner parties where y’all are cooking and just talking about each other’s lives and perspective on certain things. it will be so cool.

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love that!! Definitely will try and do something 💕💗

  • @maisorour4354
    @maisorour43542 жыл бұрын

    To be honest I miss Jahvis and I get so happy seeing him in her vlogs.

  • @ryanneliza
    @ryanneliza3 жыл бұрын

    Always so jealous I don’t have friends who throw themed dinner parties (or any dinner parties). What a beautiful month! ❤️

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!! You can be the one to start 😉

  • @viktoriamatt6318
    @viktoriamatt63183 жыл бұрын

    idk why, but the „cause i need the views“ made me laugh so hard

  • @prateecheeprusty2465
    @prateecheeprusty24653 жыл бұрын

    i just recently turned 17....the thing you wrote about fantasizing "enjoying time with friends" is exactly what i do every night just to fall asleep(weird ik hahaha).....cant wait to live all my fantasies just like you do....love you

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s so fun it actually happens like I’m sure it will for you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @beckygolding5529
    @beckygolding55293 жыл бұрын

    I love how candid your vlogs are. I could honestly listen to you chatting with your friends about random stuff all day. Totally relate to your feelings about birthdays as well - getting anxious about whether people will care/becoming less popular (even though that doesn’t matter), stressed about hosting and whether people will have a good time etc 💓

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 💗💗💗 I’m glad I’m not alone xxx

  • @yonge3953
    @yonge39533 жыл бұрын

    Joy is officially my favorite KZreadr 😭😭❤️❤️❤️

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    💓💓💓💓

  • @lucidlynn4410
    @lucidlynn44102 жыл бұрын

    what we all need is a jahvis in our lives

  • @nyaradhiambo
    @nyaradhiambo3 жыл бұрын

    Oh hello there 👋👋 New hair looks great. Nice video. Happy Birthday! Glad to see Jahvis 😃😃 **more than glad actually, he's such good vibes 😍

  • @kierstenbereska1958
    @kierstenbereska19583 жыл бұрын

    It’s truly such a good feeling when you get together with a group of friends you feel comfortable with and after you hang out you feel energized and happy! That cake looked gorgeous😄😂

  • @soumyapande678
    @soumyapande6782 жыл бұрын

    Wow, I thought I was the only one that cried on my birthday. Glad to know I'm not alone. Your friend explained it so well, the expectation to be happy and the existential crisis on your birthday are so real

  • @janhavisatpute4390
    @janhavisatpute43903 жыл бұрын

    i say it after your every vlog but this is honestly so calming and ssothing to me !!! I love the way you film and put together your vlogs

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Warms my heart every time 🥺❤️🤍

  • @vanillafam9852
    @vanillafam98523 жыл бұрын

    that's okay, sometimes cry just come out of nowhere even in a happy mood, that's mean we're fully human👌😀

  • @esthermansur3818
    @esthermansur38183 жыл бұрын

    aww this is such a sweet little diaries (': happy birthday lovely

  • @sstories7178
    @sstories71783 жыл бұрын

    Joy scaring the crap outta me with these July diaries, thought the month was over already?; 😂

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha sorry eek ☺️

  • @serenity5845
    @serenity58453 жыл бұрын

    I love the Korean R&B/lofi tracklist you used 😍 it perfectly matches the vibe of the video, very chill and aesthetic

  • @caromaria9090
    @caromaria90903 жыл бұрын

    CAN'T WAIT TO SEE THE FILMS

  • @yasmingolan7706
    @yasmingolan77063 жыл бұрын

    Can’t wait for part 2!! Obsessed with those vlogs ❤️

  • @ruralaura
    @ruralaura2 жыл бұрын

    Your friends are so good people, actually all of you together as a group, its so nice, bless you

  • @iuliamariapaval
    @iuliamariapaval3 жыл бұрын

    I loved watching you guys cooking and having a dinner party together. I felt like I was right there with you :) Love your editing in this one Joy 💕

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 💕💖💗

  • @user-px7mm6bu8l
    @user-px7mm6bu8l2 жыл бұрын

    hey Joy !! thank you so so much for your videos once again, i don’t think you realise how much it helps us to go through hard times ! thanks for being you ❤️❤️

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    2 жыл бұрын

    💓💓💓💓

  • @Sannnera
    @Sannnera3 жыл бұрын

    I loved the birthday conversation - I can relate SO much. It made me feel better about my own mixed feelings when it‘s my birthday.

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Glad I’m not alone ❤️❤️

  • @melisfilmt
    @melisfilmt3 жыл бұрын

    Have to say it every time love your videos and your edit so much 🥺

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!!! Means a lot 💓💗

  • @simarkaur2004
    @simarkaur20043 жыл бұрын

    love you sooooo muchhhh... you're such an amazing creator

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @linnstarkid9571
    @linnstarkid95713 жыл бұрын

    This was healing and inspiring wow

  • @ruizfuentebella51
    @ruizfuentebella513 жыл бұрын

    yeyyy another vlog!

  • @Moo2320
    @Moo23203 жыл бұрын

    Ugh I love your videos thank you for you

  • @karoto7906
    @karoto79063 жыл бұрын

    best part of my month 🤩

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @KristinasDigitalDiary
    @KristinasDigitalDiary3 жыл бұрын

    OMG happy late birthday you gorgeous human soul, i'm sorry i missed it 🥺🤎 p.s. this video made my night hehe

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!! It’s actually on the 30th of July so haven’t missed it ❤️❤️❤️

  • @catalinah256
    @catalinah2563 жыл бұрын

    We need a podcast!

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hehe☺️❤️

  • @defoggerggggf2156
    @defoggerggggf21563 жыл бұрын

    you always make me feel at peace , love you joy 💗💗

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love you 🥺🤍💕

  • @vanilivv2929
    @vanilivv29293 жыл бұрын

    I feel like giving your videos a thumb up is not enough. They are SO great they need something bigger ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🥺💓❤️

  • @samruddhikulkarni7523
    @samruddhikulkarni75233 жыл бұрын

    i love jahvis ❤❤❤

  • @f.b.7164
    @f.b.71643 жыл бұрын

    Hi! This year I have cried on my birthday for the first time and was sad for a little while because someone who was important to me forgot about my birthday but i felt kind of like i was not supposed to cry on my birthday. It made me feel a bit guilty or like i wasn't grateful enough - because i had already gotten such sweet things from my parents and other friends. So, yes, i felt a bit bad about feeling bad for a few hours on my birthday and it kind of relieved me to see that other people don't feel only 100% happy all the time on their birthday either. I suppose it's actually SO okay and normal to have negative or sad moments, EVEN on our birthdays and even though we are appreciative at the same time:) xx

  • @xumamabunda6442
    @xumamabunda64422 жыл бұрын

    I love the narrating idea in this video 😻🤌🏾🤌🏾

  • @asthagokhale9355
    @asthagokhale93552 жыл бұрын

    You guys should start a podcast yall are so relatable ❤️

  • @polkadots041
    @polkadots0413 жыл бұрын

    Crying on your birthday is definitely ✨Leo energy✨ hahaha another lovely video Joy❤️ P.s have you ever thought about doing a video on your journey going vegan? I’d love to hear more about it!

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!! I’ll definitely keep that in mind 💗💓💖

  • @amaraarinze
    @amaraarinze3 жыл бұрын

    I love your videos!

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤍🤍

  • @ariadnemahadeo725
    @ariadnemahadeo7252 жыл бұрын

    I loved this video

  • @glenndarragh
    @glenndarragh Жыл бұрын

    I love you too. My birthday is July 11, so I can totally relate to how you’re feeling. Seems like an unlucky day!

  • @brookekleem1959
    @brookekleem19592 жыл бұрын

    We have the same birthdayyy, never heard of someone else with 30th of July hope you have a beautiful day in advance🙏💚💚

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    2 жыл бұрын

    It’s a rare day! Happy birthday for the end of the month twin !❤️❤️

  • @aylaerencan497
    @aylaerencan4973 жыл бұрын

    i love this video its so cute

  • @malina9190
    @malina91903 жыл бұрын

    I love your videos

  • @Alans_Archive
    @Alans_Archive3 жыл бұрын

    1:20 as a landlocked surfer I gotta say those waves locked pretty amazing ☺️🌊 your videos are just so peaceful 🐚

  • @liaaberle9715
    @liaaberle97152 жыл бұрын

    thanks for the birthday-talk you invited us to listen to. you make me think about my friends, how i interact with them. i'm currently in France, so i can't see them at the moment, but your videos make me even more excited to come back and make fun memories with them! how is the combination of straight best friend/ boyfriend for you? that's something I'm currently struggling with. i love your videos soo much! and your self-reflected, loving, smart personality :) just a little feedback: the text that slowly appears on the video footage really stresses me, i always need to pause at the right moment in order to read it. I would prefer if it would appear all at once. but I'm also really not multi-tasking haha sending so much love! Lia

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much ❤️ appreciate it! The guy best friend and boyfriend doesn’t really affect any of my relationships gratefully but i hope it sorts out for you ! I don’t necessarily expect everyone to read all the Writing. It’s more for myself cause i see these videos as my visual diary xxx

  • @kev501
    @kev5013 жыл бұрын

    it 5:am in nyc but here i am no sleep

  • @Lea-ov8vq
    @Lea-ov8vq3 жыл бұрын

    OMG we have the same birthday 🧡

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Twins!!

  • @caromaria9090
    @caromaria90903 жыл бұрын

    plsssss this is the friend group i want to have

  • @jasontillett
    @jasontillett3 жыл бұрын

    Not me thinking it was the end of July already and you just posted your June diaries late 💀

  • @lalalalololo6560
    @lalalalololo65603 жыл бұрын

    What I would give to have such close friends like you do

  • @sassybdassi6686
    @sassybdassi66862 жыл бұрын

    I had the exact same experience as Jahvis before my 18th birthday

  • @felixcat9320
    @felixcat93203 жыл бұрын

    JAHVIS LOOKS LIKE HE COULD BE A BROTHER OF VICTOR FROM LOVE VICTOR!!!!!!!!

  • @shivangichoudhary6670
    @shivangichoudhary66703 жыл бұрын

    Surprisingly I didn’t cry this year on my birthday,,lol. Cancer season yayayay:))

  • @fanil5792
    @fanil57923 жыл бұрын

    Red is your colour😍

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    🥰❤️

  • @vanillafam9852
    @vanillafam98523 жыл бұрын

    what's song that u played on a girls day part? haha love it😍

  • @Garglicious
    @Garglicious3 жыл бұрын

    Its my birthday today and i was crying too 😂😂😂

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Naw Bub🤍 happy birthday!!

  • @iam.midorii
    @iam.midorii2 жыл бұрын

    she listens to kpop yall im in love:)

  • @vanessaerika4140
    @vanessaerika41402 жыл бұрын

    oh korean soooongg

  • @kassidyrose9138
    @kassidyrose91383 жыл бұрын

    What font do you use on the little notes throughout the video? I love it!

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s my own handwriting xx

  • @bhavanahuliyar2138
    @bhavanahuliyar21383 жыл бұрын

    What is the song at the beginning??

  • @joanamari7354
    @joanamari73543 жыл бұрын

    i always enjoy watching your vlogs, btw what's the title of the korean song you used?

  • @gatoms

    @gatoms

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Joana Mari I was wondering the same thing! I found two of the songs they’re both by I’MIN - Your Paradise and Balloons

  • @joanamari7354

    @joanamari7354

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gatoms oh thanks!

  • @nyaradhiambo
    @nyaradhiambo3 жыл бұрын

    Also, TMI... I don't like celebrating birthdays because I've somehow convinced myself that it might be bad luck... Like it's challenging life... See how long I've lived!... It's because someone close to me who never celebrated his birthday once did and then got sick afterwards and died... They are not related and I know it's irrational so...

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sending love, that must feel horrible ❤️❤️

  • @marion8252

    @marion8252

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm very sorry for your loss and wish you all the best❤️

  • @reneebathie6378
    @reneebathie63783 жыл бұрын

    Where is that red top from? You look gorgeous in it 😍😍

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s my friends and i believe she thrifted it xxx

  • @KK-wc5yo
    @KK-wc5yo3 жыл бұрын

    Did any of you guys noticed the hair clip ?

  • @mija1570
    @mija15703 жыл бұрын

    i wish i had friends

  • @roxieallensmith8889
    @roxieallensmith88893 жыл бұрын

    My birthday is July 12th, and I cried too Mainly because of toxic situations and then losing the euro cup really tipped it over the edge. :(

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aw I’m sorry :(( happy birthday and hopefully next year will be better💕💕

  • @TansleyVlogs
    @TansleyVlogs3 жыл бұрын

    the alcohol is zambucca by the way

  • @TansleyVlogs

    @TansleyVlogs

    3 жыл бұрын

    oh damn sad i only just saw that you got the alcohol :(

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hahahah

  • @Katie-hf5my
    @Katie-hf5my3 жыл бұрын

    Bestie we have the same birthday

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    🥳🎉❤️

  • @JahvisLoveday
    @JahvisLoveday3 жыл бұрын

    I cry every other day other than my birthday

  • @Joyish

    @Joyish

    3 жыл бұрын

    Opposites xx

  • @viclevis
    @viclevis2 жыл бұрын

    Is Ethan your boyfriend? Because your connection with Jahvis seems so deep.

  • @norinawalder622
    @norinawalder6223 жыл бұрын

    i cried on mine...

  • @aprilp649
    @aprilp6492 жыл бұрын

    Why does she say she has a different birth date in every vlog??? haha

  • @KristaWasHere86
    @KristaWasHere862 жыл бұрын

    Getting the attention on my birthday makes me cringe and anxious. Like people posting on my social media and stuff makes me uncomfortable esp when i know that these people and i dont really talk and the only way we engage is every bdays or holidays. Weird.

  • @tehilla5661
    @tehilla56613 жыл бұрын

    Why aren't you and J together lol?

  • @jessicawolf5669

    @jessicawolf5669

    3 жыл бұрын

    No she has a boyfriend

  • @tehilla5661

    @tehilla5661

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sorry for asking maybe its too much of a personal qwestion. Anyways happy birthday ! Was glad to see you and your friends. :) Thank you for posting

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