The feelings of shame determined much of my reactions and behaviour in the world. I took on fear of judgement because I cared too much about other people’s opinions rather than my own. When my hair became thin, people started pointing it out and saying they can see my future etc, that got me obsessing about whether it was true. I took on the beliefs of others and made it my own anxiety for 5 years. The awareness is the first step, I believe, toward change

Brendan, all I can say is WOW!!! You are quite the young man from when I had you in fourth grade and in Jeremy Players. Great job! You exude a confidence in yourself to ask some great thought provoking questions. Questions everyone needs to hear and answer. People should never be ashamed of who they are or who they become and it is not anyone's place to judge others. I am so proud of you and proud of the message you shared. Mr. Demers

Such honesty and courage he holds in his beautiful blessed heart! Bravo, I hope he continues on with spreading the message of acceptance

3:00 I love this part

such an incredible speech, pure words. I'm so delighted to listen to this performance. THANK YOU

Simply wonderful

Powerful, Well DONE!!! Spoken with true inner power

Thank you Brendan, thats a speech we all need to listen to. Very well and powerfully said. Gracias!

Good speech young man, keep up the motivation inspiration and positivity.

Brendan Buchholz, this is very profound.!

amazing young man!

He got me crying. In a good way. All heart Pointing ---> Preach on little brother! Tell em! ❤🔥🔥🔥

Really well said!

So we judge to overcome it

Amazing.

i have always wondered , what do you get from judging people? i can undertstand in the case of criminals and corrupt governments , people will feel inclined to judge them because they are hurting everybody , but judging someone for one mistake that only affects himself , why? .

@Friendly_Neigborhood_Astolfo

Жыл бұрын

Or even stuff that isn't even a big deal in the first place

@vanchi7667

Жыл бұрын

People judge you off the clothes you wear it’s weird

@Friendly_Neigborhood_Astolfo

Жыл бұрын

@@vanchi7667 the judge every move you make like a micromanager because projection

@genericplagiarist5600

7 ай бұрын

Either plain out insensitivity or low self esteem trying to be projected

My judgments about everything, everyone and every concept will not be wrong. My judgments will not be wrong.

I will not want to stop judging everyone. I will not want to stop criticizing everyone. My judgements about everyone and everything will not be wrong. My judgements about life concepts that I need to know will not be wrong. My judgements will not be wrong. My comments will not be wrong.

Holy Molly intelligent!!!!

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He forgot to mention the GangBangers 🤣🤣🤣💀

2:11 I was scared he was going to go all School Shooter Mode )': don't ever speak to me with that much intensity

why do we host commonplace ideas on ted?

This society is weak

@vanchi7667

Жыл бұрын

Very smh

Bullying is a part of life. No ammount of preaching and awareness can stop that. Its also a crutial part of growing up. It teaches you about the world before you're ever in it. It helps mold you into being a stronger person. Pressure makes diamonds.

@AManofBalance

4 жыл бұрын

Good perspective.

@sebastianswan7975

4 жыл бұрын

Bullies lack self confidence, therefore feels the need to bully others to feel better about themselves. They've probably have been once a victim or have a bad upbringing. It is not a matter of whose fault it is, this is just a cycle.

@marshall170

3 жыл бұрын

tell that to the people that committed suicide from bullying

@terrancehudson4604

3 жыл бұрын

I have been jug

@paddleed6176

3 жыл бұрын

It's a myth that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Trauma makes you weaker.

Rehearsed.

Victum mentality....:-(

@PeteS_1994

6 жыл бұрын

Why is it a victim mentality, it is honest.

@SR77736

5 жыл бұрын

'Victim' not whatever you wrote.