Jordan Peterson: The Options for a Broken Relationship

Jordan Peterson is a psychology professor at the University of Toronto. In this video he talks about the options for a broken relationship, when to fix it, and when it might be too late. He discusses divorce and parenting.
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  • @bethbluett4211
    @bethbluett42112 жыл бұрын

    Very hard to fix someone who doesn't want to be fixed. So true!

  • @erk44

    @erk44

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ya ive had many a person give up on me

  • @nathaniel_pardue

    @nathaniel_pardue

    2 жыл бұрын

    You can't fix another person period. It's just not possible for us to grow on another person's behalf.

  • @Wahinies

    @Wahinies

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am having such a difficult time accepting this

  • @TheIrishdriven

    @TheIrishdriven

    2 жыл бұрын

    Feminism has persued fixing men from the begining and estrogen with surgery works every day to fix men by eliminating them completely

  • @Niko-lk5bd

    @Niko-lk5bd

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Wahinies same.

  • @ThePossumone
    @ThePossumone2 жыл бұрын

    It's strange - one of the most dangerous and heart breaking and rewarding thing we do in life - get married - does not really get taught to us or how to do it well and do conflict well

  • @marionjones1830
    @marionjones18302 жыл бұрын

    The line I loved was when Jordan said you shouldn’t stand for any nonsense. Wow, I wish I’d done that decades ago. It’s a simple command, but bad behaviour is sometimes difficult to see when you’re in a relationship, especially in the early stages.

  • @sheissaaaaa

    @sheissaaaaa

    Жыл бұрын

    It's not easy to miss, you just ignore the red flags because of the love hormone. People usually tell you who they are right away. "All my exes were crazy." Oh really? "I keep in contact with people I used to hook up with." Oh, you don't say. "Relationships are about power and control." Nice, displaying psychopathic traits. These are just a few red flags I've heard, and ghosted those people because of them. All of these things were said in the first conversation. They won't change, so I had no reason to explain myself to them. Show no mercy, because when it comes to these people cheating/leaving, they will not.

  • @wmcelhannon9074

    @wmcelhannon9074

    2 ай бұрын

    Nonsense is subjectable, a reasonable interpretation of nonsense and an unreasonable interpretation of nonsense oftentimes are completely different.

  • @marionjones1830

    @marionjones1830

    Ай бұрын

    @@wmcelhannon9074 it also depends on what the nonsense is all about. My husband gave me a strict daily timetable to adhere to, down to the last minute and if I failed to comply I was punished. I knew it was nonsense but I put up with it for decades until I eventually came to my senses and left. It was as if I was brain washed.

  • @christineprovo4883
    @christineprovo48832 жыл бұрын

    Had to take a deep breath and pause 40 seconds in. I am 4 years divorced from a person that has committed considerable time to ensuring I don’t succeed. It took me 4 years in therapy to wrap my head around that and start to work out how to move forward in spite of it (thank you Janet 🙏) . 5 months ago our oldest, of four, children stopping coming to my home and talking to me (in violation of court order) bc I can’t afford internet post horrific car accident, and I don’t allow cell phones for my children. She was 12 at the time. Youngest is 7 so 11 more years+ of this hell. Can’t continue my old pattern of dissociating through the difficulties but what a year it has been to work through. Jordan, you have kept me going! I sincerely thank you for offering these lectures online. I am a single mother born from an abusive alcoholic household that grew up with an extreme poverty of money, emotions and love. I want to roll as far away as possible from the tree where I fell. The sky is the limit, thank you for the education that opens up more possibilities.

  • @FarOutKidd

    @FarOutKidd

    2 жыл бұрын

    Your comments are so raw and real... Thank you for your honesty. You're in the right place friend 😉 I hear that you are courageous and motivated for good.. You are headed in the right direction imo

  • @Naan795

    @Naan795

    2 жыл бұрын

    God is with you, rely on him and he will give you the peace you need

  • @tishagonzalez725

    @tishagonzalez725

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow you are awesome my dear, keep going ! . Message me let’s share ideas

  • @itsHappening-ry2ef

    @itsHappening-ry2ef

    2 жыл бұрын

    Unfortunately a lot of men will put up blocks to stop their woman from Success and in the same complain about it!! Very evil and weird behavior‼️ kudos to you that it’s over 💥

  • @acwashpr

    @acwashpr

    2 жыл бұрын

    if this can help, you should read “healing the shame that binds you” from John Bradshaw, help me alot, i can feel your testimony, hope this can help you !

  • @augmenautus
    @augmenautus2 жыл бұрын

    His classes always seem like a lot of fun.

  • @KaneBannanas

    @KaneBannanas

    2 жыл бұрын

    "Two!" ☝️😐

  • @josephrice29
    @josephrice292 жыл бұрын

    Your most important relationship is your spouse, not your kids...... that creates stability....

  • @tesslynam8124

    @tesslynam8124

    2 жыл бұрын

    U can still have a good relationship with your spouse while still putting your kids first. Put your kids first man

  • @Osman-mj5rf

    @Osman-mj5rf

    2 жыл бұрын

    I wish she would thought that way with me.

  • @freedomofthepress4675

    @freedomofthepress4675

    2 жыл бұрын

    I use to agree with you but I will say kids are now. A spouse can come and go but you kid is ALWAYS your kid

  • @youngchili1543

    @youngchili1543

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s the most important to maintain. Not the worst to lose

  • @MMA-CLIPS2

    @MMA-CLIPS2

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have a feeling Joe doesn't wear the pants in his relationship. Simp talk

  • @karek4635
    @karek46352 жыл бұрын

    Family is the backbone of a free society. "Solve the problems as they arise."

  • @hillanderson6503

    @hillanderson6503

    2 жыл бұрын

    Right? Don't see it anywhere in pop culture, don't have a class in school about it, hardly talk about it with other families cause you want to keep the veneer. Nothing in society today supports or informs a healthy path to strong healthy marriages.

  • @Triggz-co2qv

    @Triggz-co2qv

    2 жыл бұрын

    r/couplestherapy

  • @hillanderson6503

    @hillanderson6503

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Triggz-co2qv true, but why call it therapy? How about more proactive prevention then post damage repair?

  • @familyreconcile6108

    @familyreconcile6108

    2 жыл бұрын

    We prefer and use “Relationship Mentoring” it’s a proactive 6 month mentoring model that starts with you as an individual, then branches to your family relationships and then to your relationship with society. The model is simple, but sophisticated. Has nothing to do with “where” a person might be in there relationships, if they’re good, then the model only strengthens that resolve and actually elevates it, (which might be considered preventative by definition) if they’re in a strained state then the model transforms the difficulty and again elevates and strengthens the relationship through application. Even if the relationship is “estranged” in a state of “no-contact” the mentoring model can transcend this element, (this is the reconciliation aspect) we do not succeed in every case to transcend the estrangement, but that is the lesser goal, because it’s ultimately the proper framing and transformation for us as the individual to achieve what we want in life, in our relationships with others, family or otherwise, (which includes the most important relationship that needs to be healthy, that being the relationship with ourselves) as with many things in life, we need someone to not only show us “how” to do this, but the part that we see left off is we also need someone to do it “with” us, not just explain or show, but also “do” with us, this is how we best transcend / transform. If interested in further discussion on this model please visit familyreconcile.com

  • @We_are_the_light
    @We_are_the_light2 жыл бұрын

    I love my children with all my heart. Haven't spoken to them in 7 years.. thanks to their Mom and her love of my demise but I'm alive and at peace

  • @evaphillips2102

    @evaphillips2102

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thumbs down for that woman :(

  • @serengetilion

    @serengetilion

    2 жыл бұрын

    I so feel your pain as its been 6 years since I've seen my only son, his face, him. But I'm not at peace, I'm broken.

  • @showmethescience2514

    @showmethescience2514

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wait for them to come around.

  • @mcy99a

    @mcy99a

    4 ай бұрын

    God is good. You will eventually get your justice

  • @jamillarose5294
    @jamillarose52942 жыл бұрын

    Wish I heard this ten years ago, young people listening are blessed

  • @faithleap98

    @faithleap98

    2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely

  • @benjaminthome8488
    @benjaminthome8488 Жыл бұрын

    Trying not to delude yourself Tell the person the truth, and try to figure out what the truth is for you. Don't tolerate any nonsense, and stand up for yourself. Aim towards the good.

  • @ChrisPyle
    @ChrisPyle2 жыл бұрын

    As I sit here drinking a beer, I’m resentful and probably have an alcohol problem lol Nailed it Dr. Peterson

  • @montycantsin8861

    @montycantsin8861

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well, acnowledging a problem solves it by half. Just figure out the other half, now. Btw, if you really are an alcoholic, like nightsweats, morning "panic" or jitters, etc., and you're not ready to go cold turkey, at least switch to red wine. Way healthier than cheap beer and liquor, and it'll get you part way to the strength to go cold turkey. I've known too many alcoholics... lol.

  • @ChrisPyle

    @ChrisPyle

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@montycantsin8861 Good advice! Lol I’ll try that

  • @Dimitrije_Miljus

    @Dimitrije_Miljus

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm literally doing the same thing 😂

  • @teoteo3522

    @teoteo3522

    2 жыл бұрын

    Destroy the world

  • @benjaminsweazy8890

    @benjaminsweazy8890

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey, at least it's not meth!!

  • @LWNmusic
    @LWNmusic2 жыл бұрын

    That painted door and cinder block wall triggered memories I didn't even know I had

  • @srcacho2486

    @srcacho2486

    2 жыл бұрын

    Memories of jail?

  • @jao8411
    @jao84112 жыл бұрын

    Needed to hear this a long time ago better late than never.

  • @jarrodhill9149
    @jarrodhill91492 жыл бұрын

    Oh darn... where were you with this advice 15 years ago when i needed it dr Paterson. 🤜😵

  • @visualblacksmith2100
    @visualblacksmith21002 жыл бұрын

    I would really like to see Dr. Peterson’s "Couples Matrix”

  • @wakinyjantabart8622
    @wakinyjantabart86222 жыл бұрын

    brilliant! as a parent of five and wife of 30 years, all true !

  • @reecegeorgens1755
    @reecegeorgens17552 жыл бұрын

    I’m 20 years old, and my first real relationship is with a bisexual polyamorous woman who has husband. I don’t know what to do, I fell in love. It hurts me every time I see her texting other people, and now she’s pregnant. It’s not mine, and I knew from the beginning she was polyamorous and was trying, and she knew I wasn’t ready for a child. She’s made it clear to me I don’t have to be a father, but I don’t want to be apart of raising a child in a polygamous household, as I think it can only be harmful to their development and socialization. I’ve absolutely deluded myself, but I can’t bring myself to walk away, even if it would be better for both of us. We got into a huge argument last night, because I tried to communicate to her that our decreasing sexual intimacy is really bothering me. She told me that she felt uncomfortable with me sitting over her, that it was coercion, which to her is akin the r-word. We’ve been dating for almost 6 months. She goes to therapy but I don’t know how it could help her if she still lets the trauma of her past affect our relationship. I don’t want to end up having the relationship she has with her husband, which is a mostly sexless marriage except for when she’s ovulating. I understand where her desires come from. It’s pathological, born from her trauma in the past with men, her father and step fathers. I can’t accept that a woman can truly love and respect a man and still desire other men. She doesn’t want to have to come to terms with that, because it questions the validity of her marriage and her relationship and love for me, so it started the fight because she doesn’t understand how I could feel that way given all that she does for me. So take Jordans advice, don’t get yourself into these situations, don’t delude yourself. I ignored my feelings about her being polyamorous, and I should have called it off once it was clear we have different life goals. Just because there’s love doesn’t mean the relationship must continue. I wish the best to anyone reading this. Figure out your life and make good decisions so you don’t mess things up. Even knowing all the things about evolutionary psychology and behavior I still fell for the comfort of loving a woman and not being alone. I still fell for the emotional manipulation woman hold over men, be careful.

  • @ravenvision222

    @ravenvision222

    2 жыл бұрын

    You made a mistake that 20 year olds make… it’s all good brother! But trust me, that woman isn’t the woman for you! Don’t you want a woman that loves you and you only? She doesn’t. Lol. Walk away. It’ll be hard. But if there is no struggle, there is no progress.

  • @ravenvision222

    @ravenvision222

    2 жыл бұрын

    P.s. she’s probably a NARC lol, they’re the best at subtle manipulation. Sounds like she’s manipulating everyone in her life.. LEAVE! FAST! Haha

  • @C0WABUNGAITIS

    @C0WABUNGAITIS

    2 жыл бұрын

    Walking away will be hard, but you seriously don't want to know how hard it will be not walking away, you will live hell, and at the end of that you will end up walking away anyway.

  • @anmelden4723

    @anmelden4723

    2 жыл бұрын

    Time is a relative concept. See, you're 20 years old. So imagine that you want to have a stable relationship with kids, love and trust when you're 30. So this next 10 years could be a extremely long period of time - but also a extremely short one. Both at the same time. It will be extremely long, when you now walk away, become aware of what you want, face your demons, better yourself, get to know more women, select, learn, live and find what you're searching for. 10 years is more than enough for that, if you set you goals and priorities straight, and act them out. But: At the same time, this next ten years will be a extremely short period of time when you stay. You know that nothing of the things you really want could you get out of this current relationship. And at one night you will wake up - and youre 30. And done none of the things you wished for, and knew, from the start, that you wanted them. And then, you will regret. Because you can accomplish so many things, but you can not get your time back. PS: There is a short video of Jordan on YT which I definitely recommend you watch, just search for 'how to help someone who's lost' - and acknowledge the consequences of what he says.

  • @genesisansbro4936

    @genesisansbro4936

    2 жыл бұрын

    Seems like that ship has sailed…

  • @Fin4L6are
    @Fin4L6are2 жыл бұрын

    Jordan Peterson breaking it down

  • @Wahinies
    @Wahinies2 жыл бұрын

    Throw in a spouse's cocaine problem and I'm in that last scenario there with the bratty kids and unhappy common law. I am one of the poor folks unmarried you spoke of and yep feels like pneumonia. Funny thing about that pneumonia I just read an article about relational stress negatively impacting the immune system and I think this is what contributed to my case of covid developing further into pneumonia and abscess lung in November. Very nearly died but still have the unhappy relationship. I am so sentimental I hate to give up but I can't carry it myself. My logical brain says leave but why is it so difficult?

  • @RobertJones-gq3jq
    @RobertJones-gq3jq2 жыл бұрын

    @1:49 - spot on

  • @glennduke5853
    @glennduke58532 жыл бұрын

    Oh Dr Peterson, you are so smart!

  • @noahgarrett8283
    @noahgarrett82832 жыл бұрын

    So interesting to think similar of him without any training or conscious thought... But he communicates at such a level I strive for!!! Ahhh

  • @ravensroses4995
    @ravensroses49952 жыл бұрын

    He didn't show himself until after we married and moved away from everyone. Sometimes....it's not bc you chose someone that you knew was a narc and then Sometimes it's hard to leave bc they have everything under their name and you have children.

  • @Yetipfote
    @Yetipfote5 ай бұрын

    JP has the most serious humor I ever witnessed.

  • @molassescricket6663
    @molassescricket66632 жыл бұрын

    Doctor Peterson covers quite a bit of ground here hitting the nail on each head! I can tell you this from my own personal experience of each situation he hits on. I don’t have a background in ¥ (psychology) or sociology for that matter, but 20+ years of marriage will teach you these things if you are awake at all.

  • @MidnightRockstar
    @MidnightRockstar2 жыл бұрын

    Can agree on retail

  • @motivationeyes2852
    @motivationeyes28522 жыл бұрын

    This🎆🎆 man has done more to change people's lives than almost anyone else in the last decade. What do you think? 🎇🎇........

  • @wakinyjantabart8622
    @wakinyjantabart86222 жыл бұрын

    love example of running a kitchen - after being married for 30 years sick of my husband still standing in may way and not moving when I am moving through the kitchen space!

  • @marayoung
    @marayoung2 жыл бұрын

    Be careful who you marry. Marriage is the best, marriage gives you prosperity and if you marry the right person, despite the problems, it will be fine, but there’s always a risk. I strongly believe that you must believe when someone shows you who they are, those are the signs you can’t miss, then your life will turn into hell

  • @Naan795

    @Naan795

    2 жыл бұрын

    Know the real person behind what they show they are. Ask deep on situations, be vulnerable and uncover sins from both sides. So much to probe before going all in.

  • @MMA-CLIPS2
    @MMA-CLIPS22 жыл бұрын

    Best advice is to move on and find something (not someone) that makes you happy. Don't look to a woman for companionship, get a dog or some good friends if you're lonely. Women, for the most part these days, are broken. They can't put their phones down for 5 minutes, they put their best years into becoming career women while playing the field/devaluing themselves for future high value men and in my experience expect way too much from a man while not bringing much to the table. I chased relationships for a long time and it made me unhappy. If you can find happiness on your own, then you don't really need a relationship, and you can do as you please until someone good for you comes along and gives you a reason to invite them into your life. Men are so unappreciated in this day and age, so much hate and disrespect from women who look down on the average good guy, then complain once their looks have diminished and all the good guys who have had enough of the BS won't accept them as they've past their prime. Such a mess, men are partly to blame for putting any girl who can make themselves look pretty on Instagram on a pedestal.

  • @Wahinies

    @Wahinies

    2 жыл бұрын

    Indeed the lack of self care is the worst characteristic of toxic one way relationships. I recently finished a book titled Codependent No More as I have this problem and one of the constant themes throughout is self care because we cannot change anybody and indeed we should not let them have the power to make us feel bad. I am now reading a book titled No More Mr Nice Guy and I feel like its along the lines of what Peterson teaches. Highly recommended reading even for those without these specific conditions.

  • @lpakagaming9652
    @lpakagaming96522 жыл бұрын

    I choose me, I have been out of practice for a long time now. But today I have found myself being content with looking after me and me alone. Who knows what the future looks like.

  • @DylanHousego
    @DylanHousego2 жыл бұрын

    It’s like working on a ghost car while the real ones in the shop with the engine sitting out of it.

  • @paulp3369
    @paulp33692 жыл бұрын

    It always bothers me how many people come late or leave early in his classes.

  • @paulp3369

    @paulp3369

    2 жыл бұрын

    He's handing out GOLD, take it!

  • @cedpete7434

    @cedpete7434

    2 жыл бұрын

    They can always catch up by watching the lecture on youtube

  • @rejectionisprotection4448

    @rejectionisprotection4448

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's University lectures for you. Attendance isn't compulsory; it's not like school.

  • @familyreconcile6108
    @familyreconcile61082 жыл бұрын

    We prefer and use “Relationship Mentoring” it’s a proactive 6 month mentoring model that starts with you as an individual, then branches to your family relationships and then to your relationship with society. The model is simple, but sophisticated. Has nothing to do with “where” a person might be in there relationships, if they’re good, then the model only strengthens that resolve and actually elevates it, (which might be considered preventative by definition) if they’re in a strained state then the model transforms the difficulty and again elevates and strengthens the relationship through application. Even if the relationship is “estranged” in a state of “no-contact” the mentoring model can transcend this element, (this is the reconciliation aspect) we do not succeed in every case to transcend the estrangement, but that is the lesser goal, because it’s ultimately the proper framing and transformation for us as the individual to achieve what we want in life, in our relationships with others, family or otherwise, (which includes the most important relationship that needs to be healthy, that being the relationship with ourselves) as with many things in life, we need someone to not only show us “how” to do this, but the part that we see left off is we also need someone to do it “with” us, not just explain or show, but also “do” with us, this is how we best transcend / transform. If interested in further discussion on this model please visit familyreconcile.com

  • @waltermelon8467
    @waltermelon84672 жыл бұрын

    Hello everyone!!! Eyes open, no fear!!!

  • @user-oi9iz9jr8y
    @user-oi9iz9jr8y2 жыл бұрын

    Classic Jordan

  • @helenbostock2350
    @helenbostock23502 жыл бұрын

    Love is all. All one

  • @frankrodriguez5202
    @frankrodriguez52022 жыл бұрын

    Damnnnn....The truth hurts...lol He is soooo accurate and it seems it's a vicious cycle.

  • @drjasonhughes
    @drjasonhughes2 жыл бұрын

    “You think your kind, but your not… your basically Hitler” I really appreciate how JBP always slaps you upside the head with shadow integration.

  • @MillerLivestockCanada
    @MillerLivestockCanada2 жыл бұрын

    A genius of common sense

  • @goodmandawn
    @goodmandawn2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this info with the public. I divorced my first spouse for all the reasons you described. He alienated my children against me while working under the table to dodge paying the child support arrears he owed me until Child Support Enforcement deducted it from his Social Security check.

  • @shamar8068

    @shamar8068

    2 жыл бұрын

    Two sides to every story

  • @adamcurtis83

    @adamcurtis83

    2 жыл бұрын

    You should have been a better wife, then it wouldn't have gotten to that point.

  • @WGHpanic

    @WGHpanic

    2 жыл бұрын

    You divorced him, then expect him to pay for it. You're just as culpable.

  • @e13kid

    @e13kid

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ignore the bitter NPCs, they just hate women.

  • @warrenthegreat

    @warrenthegreat

    Жыл бұрын

    Marriage is the only contract you can break and get paid.

  • @growingweedisfordummies4190
    @growingweedisfordummies41902 жыл бұрын

    they way he casually shits on the class of rich white kids after the 7 min mark makes this man my hero

  • @DesignerFromMars
    @DesignerFromMars2 жыл бұрын

    Says “Holding children hostage” girl instantly escapes room.

  • @billrichardson5386
    @billrichardson53862 жыл бұрын

    All I know is I was financially well off, got divorced because she didn't want to be married any more, although she made outlandish claims that I had to prove false. I was bankrupt within a 2 years and still haven't recovered financially.

  • @tishagonzalez725

    @tishagonzalez725

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hang in there my friend you doing fine. If you wanna talk message me let’s talk

  • @LarryPanozzo
    @LarryPanozzo2 жыл бұрын

    First 2:30 are powerful

  • @LarryPanozzo

    @LarryPanozzo

    2 жыл бұрын

    First 5:04 are powerful. Okay, the whole video is powerful.

  • @Gt3ch
    @Gt3ch2 жыл бұрын

    Wow the clip ended with such a vivid snapshot of the typical American household…

  • @manuelernestogilsuarez8769
    @manuelernestogilsuarez8769 Жыл бұрын

    1:46

  • @stephaniefindlay120
    @stephaniefindlay1202 жыл бұрын

    The other main issue is equality, of money, of leisure and of opportunity, of perceived value. Nothing creates resentment quicker than inequality.

  • @Beginningtopeak

    @Beginningtopeak

    2 жыл бұрын

    And the inequality doesn’t even have to exist, it just has to be perceived

  • @DesignerFromMars

    @DesignerFromMars

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m all for equality BUT society would have to drop the notion of “Women & children first”.

  • @barakasanzone5413
    @barakasanzone54132 жыл бұрын

    His daughter needs to watch this one

  • @BenoitMassicotte
    @BenoitMassicotte2 жыл бұрын

    Who does want the best for their tyrannical oppressor. The absolute evil in your previous partner is sometimes met with great force... Be smart and more crafty if you can. Play the game innocuously and without mercy.

  • @SolidSiren
    @SolidSiren2 жыл бұрын

    Holding children hostage is the most pathetic, narcissistic thing a person can do. I will never understand those people. They operate as if their children are objects, assets, extensions of themselves rather than autonomous human beings that are being abused by their repulsuve self centered behavior

  • @amandadavis8508

    @amandadavis8508

    Жыл бұрын

    Going through this now… it is hell on earth. False (with evidence to prove) allegations to dfs to police, now that dfs has caught on a bit he is keeping children against the court ordered custody/parenting plan…. He takes the kids phones when they would text me and start texting me horrible abusive things so now kids don’t want to text bc they don’t want him to do that… beyond frustrating and just feeling stuck

  • @sebastiangray4002
    @sebastiangray40022 жыл бұрын

    Divorce is a symptom of a deeper problem, solve that problem solve Divorce

  • @radicalhonesty3628
    @radicalhonesty36282 жыл бұрын

    as I watch this video what arises in me is how fucking unhappy I am! I truly loathe my life. loathe it. despise it. I hate it. I WISH TO DIE. TRULY I WISH FOR NOTHING ELSE. I've lived pretty much my entire life with debilitating crippling paralyzing: suicidal depression. the only moments of happiness in my life come to me in fleeting windows of relief, that never ever last long enough... my life is agony. I am full of: - loneliness - rage - regret - remorse - hopelessness - guilt - terror - anxiety - aloneness - grief - suffering - pain - stress - powerlessness - despair - anguish MY SOUL IS TORTURED AND RAPED.

  • @bioshock5629

    @bioshock5629

    2 жыл бұрын

    Let the Lord Jesus Christ come into your heart read the gospel of John in the new testament start there 🙏 I'll pray for you brother

  • @jessicali8594
    @jessicali85942 жыл бұрын

    7:39 Indeed another reason why the recent influenza wasn't a pandemic. Had it been, it'd've wiped out the homeless in every city.

  • @everythingdibs344

    @everythingdibs344

    2 жыл бұрын

    There was an influenza recently?

  • @jessicali8594

    @jessicali8594

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@everythingdibs344 One avoids the Yt algorithm as best one can.

  • @jessicali8594

    @jessicali8594

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@everythingdibs344 The regular 'flu was cured by the recent 'flu, in that all mention of it ceased in the Lügenpresse.

  • @everythingdibs344

    @everythingdibs344

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jessicali8594 are you referring to the coronavirus, because that is not the same as an influenza virus.

  • @jessicali8594

    @jessicali8594

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@everythingdibs344 No such virus has been purified and isolated and thus proven to exist. The 3rd edition of Virus Mania published in June, '21 has yet to be contradicted. Most of the book is its references. Available in audiobook format narrated by one of the four authors.

  • @andrewwabik5125
    @andrewwabik51252 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been stuck on the first step to recovery for years.

  • @StarEssences
    @StarEssences2 жыл бұрын

    I divorced for these valid reasons, adultery, physical and verbal abuse, and his being irresponsible. I never remarried again after this Born Again Christian who yet, USED his past drug problems in why he was the way he was. This person got remarried, I had a brief phone conversation with Him back in 2009; he has children from his second wife and he was even at that time talking divorce from her simply because there was nothing left to say to one another; the conversation between them dried up????? Marriage in this country is de-sanctified! It is not sacred anymore; Divorce rates began to increase ever since the 80's. My parents did not like me as being my own human and my father let me know that from time to time in which he denies.( he directly said a lot of mean derogatory commentaries toward me as a person when I on my journey in becoming an adult). I now am under the thumb of my sister (who is more understanding and kinder) and her husband...another nightmare and derogatory man toward my existence. I hope he gets found out about his own ugliness. I was my father's caregiver; Cooked, cleaned the place, did his laundry, paid the bills, blah, blah, blah, as an old man, his only responsibility was washing the dishes. All that I did for him, he did nothing, but complained about my cooking, cleaning, how I did things and this was a man who did not ever participate in doing what my mother (when she was alive) and myself have done for many years in the making of a HOME. My father was and still is an awful, ungrateful, and unappreciative human being. I pray for more women in the hopes that they will not end up with the kind of man my own Father has represented himself to be as a man, husband to my mother, and a Father to his siblings.

  • @lubnag.blasco7352
    @lubnag.blasco7352 Жыл бұрын

    And what to do if someone changed after years of trying with them but they changed only when I left but how can I trust that he will not be the same horrible person who he once was ????????????????????!!??!!!!????????

  • @MrEdybriones
    @MrEdybriones2 жыл бұрын

    Man, those are some lucky students.

  • @BoBo-pe3kv
    @BoBo-pe3kv2 жыл бұрын

    Dah haa! A Ghost of a chance!) Just the odds I am about (: Carry onward Tolly Ho

  • @steveng8727
    @steveng872724 күн бұрын

    Extensive research shows it's better to stay in an 'unhappy' marriage for the sake of the kids! Imagine you, spouse and child arrive on an uninhabited planet But you and spouse turn on each other, imagine what the child feels! Exception is abuse of course.

  • @Shayster918
    @Shayster9182 жыл бұрын

    You could take the best option of all…. Stay Single and Productive Until You Know You are Ready for Commitment💯🤙🏾

  • @victorg.lopeziii5983
    @victorg.lopeziii59832 жыл бұрын

    💎💎🧡💎💎

  • @allmightybeaver
    @allmightybeaver2 жыл бұрын

    I’m a 39 year old female, and a single mother of two. After my partner and I split, I took a risk and went into male dominated industries in order to provide a good life for them. I had to sacrifice a few months at a time, sometimes 84 hour weeks, sometimes in 1200 man camps in remote areas, but due to my income - the same income the men get - I got to spend 40 weeks a year at home with my kids I now have two Canadian Red Seals, I’m now both a Welder and a Boilermaker. Unfortunately, I did not have the support of my ex, he held a lot of resentment for me, and my youngest child and my mental health have suffered severely for it. When she was 10, he held her hostage. I left him because I was sick of taking care of him, he would not work. I ended up taking care of him anyway, with $700 in child support per month. He lives with his mom for free, and she watches my daughter. Life gets really dark at times, but I keep pushing through.

  • @odoylerules360
    @odoylerules3602 жыл бұрын

    Before he lost weight, he looked like Jim Jeffries brother.

  • @johnforeman634
    @johnforeman6342 жыл бұрын

    Haha, he really lays it out no bull shit here, doesn’t he?

  • @alizabet.s
    @alizabet.s2 жыл бұрын

    "You're basically Hitler", ngl that cracked me

  • @NPC8474
    @NPC84742 жыл бұрын

    Student checks out at 0:38 Epic FAIL

  • @jeffreyswing8174
    @jeffreyswing81742 жыл бұрын

    The mistake that most, me for instance, make is that we don't leave............

  • @TheMrJoltz
    @TheMrJoltz2 жыл бұрын

    That laptop… how old is this gem?

  • @L_C01

    @L_C01

    2 жыл бұрын

    Early 2000s possibly?

  • @srcacho2486

    @srcacho2486

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @klingonianjmeker333
    @klingonianjmeker3332 жыл бұрын

    the main reason of divorce is marriage ;)

  • @michelleosborne1431
    @michelleosborne14312 жыл бұрын

    So, I'm hearing poor people die first and get sick worse 🤔 My 95 year old grandmother has lived in poverty her whole life and in what we call unsanitary conditions. She currently lives alone & not near relatives. She can't remember the last time she had actual teeth & she has always eaten with just her gums. She have never had any health issues that requires prescription or hospitalization. She had 7 kids & no miscarriages. Last year of school was 8th grade when she had to leave to pick cotton. She has never had any vaccinations in all her years. Her poverty has made her tough and since she could never afford fast food, her pinto beans & God sustains her well. Poverty hasn't caused her health problems or death yet.

  • @franklinwhitsell2987

    @franklinwhitsell2987

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is either a very poor argument or a disingenuous one. First, he's talking about general population and not one specific individual. Second, data is very clear that without access to affordable healthcare the poor population with same illnesses typically end up with worse outcomes (death can be included but it doesn't have to be that extreme). Typically, on average poor people live shorter lives than people who have enough money for decent healthcare too as life saving medications are expensive. Pandemics always hit the poorest areas the hardest assuming there is sufficient population density. Religion doesn't protect people from illness, plenty of people who attended church died of Cvoid and every other pandemic of the past as well. Eating healthy diet, exercise can mitigate a lot, but in poor areas these two things are less common as well due to financial constraints. Anyone can look up those statistics through world health organizations, and they are universal across the world, not just localized to a specific country or culture.

  • @JesusisKing1414
    @JesusisKing14142 жыл бұрын

    3 or 4 acts of infidelity? how about just 1 hahahaha

  • @stevenclouds
    @stevenclouds2 жыл бұрын

    Down with Marriage. Until the Alimony, Divorce, and Family laws are changed its is a horrible deal for Men. Who the hell gonna want to sign a contract where the other party can break it at anytime and 100% guarantee to leave with half your crap and your Kids. A horrible system design to destroy the Family Unit and the Government wins.

  • @michaelhulcy6680
    @michaelhulcy66802 жыл бұрын

    "You uppity liberals." Paraphrase, but daaammmmnnnnn lol. Putting his students on the burner.

  • @mrchrisadams43
    @mrchrisadams432 жыл бұрын

    Classic clip. He was just talking shit to some mediocre students and had no idea the madness that lay ahead of him

  • @PhilJonesIII

    @PhilJonesIII

    2 жыл бұрын

    The University of Toronto? That is a world-class university. They were hardly 'mediocre' students. Do any of us know of the madness that may lay ahead of us? "I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all." I'm pretty sure you know where that came from. And things didn't turn out too well for Solomon, despite his apparent wisdom.

  • @TheSkatersk8terskate

    @TheSkatersk8terskate

    2 жыл бұрын

    True. He’s such a hypocrite

  • @mrchrisadams43

    @mrchrisadams43

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@TheSkatersk8terskate Original sin.

  • @TheSkatersk8terskate

    @TheSkatersk8terskate

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mrchrisadams43 I don’t think he’s pure evil, or a racist or whatever. I do think he’s a shady snake oils salesmen and I mean, his whole shtick is “get your bloody life together and face it head in” all whilst he’s pounding Xanax, so afraid of the withdrawals he goes to Russia so they can put him into a medical coma so he can avoid them. I’m so happy to see others waking up to him. I don’t hate him, and wish him well but yea he grinds my gears. Also said removing gay conversion therapy was bad and moral grandstanding which pisses me off.

  • @michaelalan6459

    @michaelalan6459

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@TheSkatersk8terskate the fact that he angers you and others like you pleases me greatly. I could not be more honest right now.

  • @ChucksterOLove
    @ChucksterOLove2 жыл бұрын

    Dr Satan has turned to REHAB to save his relationships! 😄🤘😈

  • @ChucksterOLove
    @ChucksterOLove2 жыл бұрын

    Jesus is indeed Lucifer the Morning Star, which is why Isaiah 14:12 lists Lucifer as the Morning Star and then Jesus calls himself the Morning Star in Rev 22:16. The reason Christards fail to see the obvious is because they are brainwashed by their churches into reading the Bible BACKWARDS and reading the New Testament BEFORE the Old Testament. We read books from FRONT TO BACK for a reason, and that is because you can't possibly understand the end of a book that you don't understand the beginning of. And it is not even possible to fully understand a book from reading the LAST QUARTER of it. With that being said...----> Adam and Eve were NOT first, and the 2 stories of Creation in Genesis are NOT about the same Creation as the Christian church teaches. GOD makes people on the 6th day of Creation in Genesis 1:26. Then in Genesis chapter 2 God rests, God sanctifies the 7th day, and then the LORD God of Israel creates Adam and Eve on the 7th day of Creation. To work on the 7th day that God has blessed and sanctified is BLASPHEMY, which is what makes the LORD God SATAN the LORD of this world. That also makes clear that Adam and Eve were NOT FIRST, they were made second. Doesn't the 6th day of Creation come BEFORE the 7th day of Creation?----> The family lineage that begins with Adam and ends with Jesus is the family lineage made by SATAN the LORD God, not God. That's why Isaiah 14:12 lists Lucifer as the Morning Star, and then Jesus calls himself the Morning Star in Rev 22:16. Jesus was Lucifer in the flesh, not God in the flesh. Jesus is Lucifer the Morning Star! Go to my channel for more details... That NEW WORLD Order that Alex Jones and other GOP Christards pretend to fight is really the goal of Christianity otherwise known as the NEW EARTH (Isaiah 65:17, Isaiah 66:22, 2 Peter 3:13, Rev 21:1) to be ruled by the New Jerusalem. The New Earth is where the nations are destroyed and massed together for a world government that will be on the shoulders of Jesus. Well, isn't the New World Order a world government as well? And gee, New Earth even sounds exactly like New World, doesn't it? That is not a coincidence, the New Earth is indeed the New World Order. It's all right there in your NEW WORLD Translation Bible if you actually bothered to read it...

  • @luisarce6234

    @luisarce6234

    2 жыл бұрын

    Much to parce thru here ..thanks

  • @jeetkuneluke

    @jeetkuneluke

    2 жыл бұрын

    I don't side with the mainstream narrative, but this is still one of the most hilarious comments I've ever read. I can't tell if you're trolling or you really think that 2017 hasn't happened yet. It's brilliant.

  • @ChucksterOLove

    @ChucksterOLove

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jeetkuneluke It's almost brilliant people who can't open the Bible to page ONE and COUNT TO SEVEN... 🤪🤘😈

  • @piotrkot4137

    @piotrkot4137

    2 жыл бұрын

    Drugs are bad.

  • @ChucksterOLove

    @ChucksterOLove

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@piotrkot4137 Weed is good, it is your friend. Take it by the hand... 🖐🌳