Joe Wells on getting an autism diagnosis

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taken from BBCOuch Storytelling Live. I have albums available for download from joewells.bandcamp.com and a mailing list at www.joewells.org.uk

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  • @LeopardprintBet
    @LeopardprintBet3 жыл бұрын

    I’m an autistic health professional who works diagnosing autistic adults - this is going on my recommended watching list 😍

  • @malpha6040

    @malpha6040

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi I'm looking for a private adult autism assessment for myself . Please Beck Lynch would you assess me please I'm based in the UK . Kind regards Miss M A

  • @Paisley2981

    @Paisley2981

    Жыл бұрын

    Same. How can I get in touch with you?

  • @jasonclarke7422

    @jasonclarke7422

    5 ай бұрын

    Why haven’t you left a message to these people that have reached out to you.

  • @dhammaboy1203

    @dhammaboy1203

    Ай бұрын

    I have ASD and I found it helpful!

  • @williamclose783
    @williamclose7833 жыл бұрын

    I am autistic and I have adhd also this makes happy

  • @Beatrice-sf6xr
    @Beatrice-sf6xr3 жыл бұрын

    I'm also autistic and this made my day. Thank you for being so awesome! I'm definitely going to have to watch some more of you! 😍

  • @magnetictheartist1210

    @magnetictheartist1210

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m autistic too

  • @robertpetre9378

    @robertpetre9378

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m autistic but I like the Arctic Monkeys LOL

  • @ewanguitar3666
    @ewanguitar36662 жыл бұрын

    The sign language interpreter must’ve been struggling through this, imagine how difficult it is to do sign language whilst trying to hold the laughter in

  • @fizzycolalizzie
    @fizzycolalizzie3 жыл бұрын

    this is hilarious, extremely relatable as another autistic person, and at times even touching although i know that wasn't the intention. (the points you made about looking back and wondering what would've been different in your life if you'd been diagnosed earlier struck a chord with me is all.) keep it up mate this is brilliant and there should be more examples of autistic people's experiences being made visible like this. 🥰

  • @patriciarobinson7751

    @patriciarobinson7751

    10 ай бұрын

    Try Dan Lamorte - he's even funnier

  • @Gavindorrigan
    @Gavindorrigan3 жыл бұрын

    I'm 26 now and was diagnosed autistic at 25. Eye contact never made sense to me. Still doesn't. I look at people's mouths when they talk. Which makes much more sense to me. Their mouth is talking not their eyes.

  • @kreassiva9138

    @kreassiva9138

    2 жыл бұрын

    Im also autistic yet eyes do say a lot, I just usually ignore them though

  • @williamstarck6863

    @williamstarck6863

    2 жыл бұрын

    I understand why people look into people's eyes, I just think it's really uncomfortable.

  • @TheRealAuroraEmily

    @TheRealAuroraEmily

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @TerraMagnus
    @TerraMagnus4 жыл бұрын

    I'm also autistic and identified with so much of this.

  • @joewellscomic

    @joewellscomic

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks, the story was part of an hour show I took to the edinburgh fringe, should be doing some more uk tour dates and filming the full show once the pandemic is over.

  • @tanner1548

    @tanner1548

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@joewellscomic I suspect I'm autistic and haven't gone for a diagnosis yet (at age 27) and was just texting a friend two days ago about the things in my life that could work out differently if I had known about this sooner. Will keep an eye out for if you're ever gonna come to the States!

  • @HerbairyOracle
    @HerbairyOracle Жыл бұрын

    The fact there was a sighn language interpreter makes me happy :)

  • @jacquelineschumacher8987
    @jacquelineschumacher89873 жыл бұрын

    Fellow late-diagnosis Autistic here; I love your description of the mind-shredding, exhausting effects of audio processing differences! You might be the only person who can explain why a motorcycle enthusiast's value and street cred is not in a positive relationship with how loudly and quickly the engine of their vehicle can "rev up". Here in Calgary, AB the easing of city lockdown restrictions allowed these a-holes their run of the downtown; they made enough noise to catch even the attention and ire of neurotypical people-only then did the police start to enforce noise bylaws. Until that point, however, my noise-cancelling headphones saw heavy use.

  • @antimatter2376

    @antimatter2376

    2 жыл бұрын

    noise cancelling? over £20 ey

  • @ML0694

    @ML0694

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@antimatter2376 best investment I ever made! They were very expensive, but they prevented me from needing to move. If you can't afford them yourself, I highly recommend having people pitch in to get them for you as a birthday gift.

  • @TheFlenen
    @TheFlenen3 жыл бұрын

    I'm 32, didn't get diagnosed till I was 27. You are LITERALLY the same as me, I'm sooooooooo friggin HAPPY I've found you!

  • @fizzycolalizzie

    @fizzycolalizzie

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Sal DiMarchese every dictionary definition i can find has a 2nd definition that says informally it's commonly used in an exaggerated way, it's used so much it's just as valid as a part of the language. language evolves over time. calm down mate you knew exactly what they meant, what does anyone gain from this level of nitpicking?

  • @btj7ndr33
    @btj7ndr33 Жыл бұрын

    I'm autistic, diagnosed at 36. I'm the weirdo who actually likes eye contact, but when people are speaking I watch their mouths to make sure I can understand what they're saying - especially if there's background noise. Still, that was hilarious to hear eye contact described as sucking each other's jelly balls. 🤣

  • @Jemini4228
    @Jemini42283 жыл бұрын

    Being without headphones on a long journey on one's own...ghastly prospect really...

  • @hdawg7016

    @hdawg7016

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤢 sickening

  • @williamstarck6863

    @williamstarck6863

    2 жыл бұрын

    My headphones charge ran out when I was in the supermarket. That was awful.

  • @_jmeg_3436
    @_jmeg_34363 жыл бұрын

    I wasn’t diagnosed until 24. I’m 29 now. Glad to see that we’re not alone. Hilarious bit, Joe. You did a good job! 👍🏻

  • @theaspieman6126
    @theaspieman61263 жыл бұрын

    I have Asperger's myself and found this really funny, I'm also an aspiring stand up comedian too, so inspiring really to see this, keep up the good work.

  • @Greenback3012
    @Greenback30123 жыл бұрын

    As a fellow Portsmouth chap I love seeing how well you're doing and how the crowds embrace your comedy. You've got a brilliant style that is refreshing and doesn't rely on shock or foul language. Plus you're dead on about the headphones. Invest in decent ones!

  • @GMYSTERYICTNF
    @GMYSTERYICTNF3 жыл бұрын

    My voice always confused me I live in South Africa and for people who don't know South Africans have the best accent in the world and my family talks very posh so it's that sexy South African voices. And then you get me with a voice that doesn't sound like any of there's I later find out it's because I have an Austistic accent but for my whole life before that people thought I sounded American. So what I've gathered from this is People in my country think America's sound Austistic. But also they find it incredibly sexy.

  • @js2010ish

    @js2010ish

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah people think I'm dutch or canadian

  • @btj7ndr33

    @btj7ndr33

    Жыл бұрын

    That's hilarious! At least they think it's sexy!

  • @dennisholt7684
    @dennisholt76846 ай бұрын

    Definitely going to watch more of your stuff, as a autistic man of 2 years you make me feel alright 😂❤

  • @vladislavogir5477
    @vladislavogir54773 жыл бұрын

    So funny, want to see this guy live!

  • @wildthing72
    @wildthing722 жыл бұрын

    Jelly balls had me nearly choke on the granola in my yoghurt. Keep it up sir :-D

  • @Sk8rscoutVlogs
    @Sk8rscoutVlogs29 күн бұрын

    This is so funny!! There’s parts of the show the audience should have been cackling lol it was so good

  • @bustedfender
    @bustedfender3 жыл бұрын

    Nice on Joe 👍 Much love to my friends in The Tribe

  • @robertpetre9378
    @robertpetre93782 жыл бұрын

    Using gangster rap to drown out toxic masculinity is like using a machine gun to stop your neighbours from making noise at night LOL

  • @ThatCoalSoul

    @ThatCoalSoul

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh look ...an American.

  • @js2010ish

    @js2010ish

    Жыл бұрын

    Id gladly fire a few rounds if it made the lawn maintenance stop

  • @poopshitcrapwaste

    @poopshitcrapwaste

    4 ай бұрын

    well, after some short increase in volume the noise would have stopped. so what's wrong with that?

  • @UMBR.
    @UMBR.5 ай бұрын

    I wasn't sure about the jelly balls thing at first but as he built it up, my laughter built up and culiminated in uproarious belly laughter. Genius. I love it when comedians can frame mundane thinngs in ridiculous artistic ways. Bravo. "I don't mind my own voice because whenever I know my own voice is coming I just speak over it". Beautifully sureal and hilarious!!

  • @ToddBradley404
    @ToddBradley4043 жыл бұрын

    That is an amazingly funny set. Well done, and thank you.

  • @ThatCoalSoul
    @ThatCoalSoul Жыл бұрын

    You're ability to land a great callback is top notch ...good luck in Faversham.

  • @OrlandoHarrison
    @OrlandoHarrison3 жыл бұрын

    Great comedy timing! Awesome set.

  • @BRobMorris
    @BRobMorris4 жыл бұрын

    Great stuff. Such a gem, needs more opportunities like this

  • @tafua_a
    @tafua_a2 жыл бұрын

    I think next time somebody tells me "look in my eyes", I will reply "only if you kiss me full on the mouth"

  • @btj7ndr33

    @btj7ndr33

    Жыл бұрын

    That could backfire awkwardly...

  • @StevenWilliams66
    @StevenWilliams663 жыл бұрын

    Great set!!!

  • @taylorwesterlind4793
    @taylorwesterlind4793 Жыл бұрын

    This was amazing!!

  • @Yourismouter
    @Yourismouter4 жыл бұрын

    this and the other atand up/storytelling were brilliant and funny i'm a man that has to agree with joe regarding a distaste for our fellow men lol

  • @CyndiCraven
    @CyndiCraven Жыл бұрын

    Okay, eyes are now jelly balls from now on.

  • @thephoenixsystem6765
    @thephoenixsystem67659 ай бұрын

    I wish I'd heard of you 3 years ago. I could've saved 120 pounds by now.

  • @malpha6040
    @malpha6040 Жыл бұрын

    Hi Joe so proud of you . You truly are an inspiration to the autistic community and you are creating awareness for autism also you have addressed a serious issue wherby instead of being diagnosed as children diagnosis for autism is made in adulthood. All the best please let me know if your ever doing standup in Oxfordshire would love to hear your standup comedy live please kind sir. 🙂🙃

  • @joewellscomic

    @joewellscomic

    Жыл бұрын

    ah sorry I've just seen this, I did a tour show in Banbury earlier this month. hopefully will be back in oxfordshire soon. Had a blast in Banbury so hopefully they'll have me back next year too.

  • @LemonChieff
    @LemonChieff Жыл бұрын

    9:25 "The thing that would've made a difference […] on." I laughed so fucking hard.

  • @cookiecatification
    @cookiecatification Жыл бұрын

    I was born in Portsmouth- struggled for 27 years female autistic. Still undiagnosed. Thank you Joe ❤

  • @cookiecatification

    @cookiecatification

    Жыл бұрын

    Mens voices for me too perfect description 😂

  • @cookiecatification

    @cookiecatification

    Жыл бұрын

    Literally explained all my trauma for me haha- my family is clearly all in denial about their autism and my dad was the typical shouty portsmouth bloke!!

  • @minimew5681

    @minimew5681

    6 ай бұрын

    Im from portsmouth too and im a autistic girl 27

  • @RealRealming
    @RealRealming2 жыл бұрын

    fucking brilliant

  • @sammylpt9076
    @sammylpt9076 Жыл бұрын

    Tough crowd at the start I felt, I think he’s great. Brilliant with story telling too. I also find it weird to maintain eye contact with people. I find looking at people’s eyes a bit weird, I tend to focus on the nose and mouth. I thought perhaps I was autistic but I’m rubbish with music, maths and art, so I guess unfortunately I’m not.

  • @RetiredRhetoricalWarhorse
    @RetiredRhetoricalWarhorse4 ай бұрын

    Now that's exactly how I would imagine your average sign language interpreter.

  • @Capzmystic
    @Capzmystic4 жыл бұрын

    Jelly balls😂😂😂haa haaa yessssssss😆😆😁

  • @HelenShanahanFilms
    @HelenShanahanFilms3 жыл бұрын

    Love Joe Wells but caution, long gross graphic bit about vomit :(

  • @emeliaelizabeth5745

    @emeliaelizabeth5745

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this

  • @osocardenas
    @osocardenas Жыл бұрын

  • @s-nooze
    @s-nooze11 ай бұрын

    Really funny

  • @uncrownedoak7777
    @uncrownedoak7777 Жыл бұрын

    What city/region is his accent from?

  • @jasonclarke7422
    @jasonclarke74225 ай бұрын

    A fellow autistic here from Southampton, don’t hate me too much.

  • @mattewalsh967
    @mattewalsh9676 ай бұрын

    This is the most uncomfortable I have ever been listening to this described 😂😂😂 but so accurate

  • @analicesouza6655
    @analicesouza66552 жыл бұрын

    WHAT KIND PF BIOLOGY TEACHER ARE YOU?????

  • @CF-bg3jd
    @CF-bg3jd2 жыл бұрын

    As an autistic germaphobe I would lose my shit if someone puked on me.

  • @LeahMouseVlog
    @LeahMouseVlog Жыл бұрын

    Interesting... I'm a female autistic, and female voices are on my top three things I hate. To me, (most) female voices are like nails on a chalkboard, so I can really only be acquainted with females with huskier voices (like myself). But for real... the eye contact thing. Yeah. I know I'm supposed to, so I can turn my head toward the person, but for some reason, no matter how hard I try, my jelly balls will not cooperate with following the motion of my head.

  • @theWinterWalker
    @theWinterWalker11 ай бұрын

    auHD he's, the paradox life😂😂

  • @christianecarson4321
    @christianecarson4321 Жыл бұрын

    😁😆😀 Such exclusively British humour...quietly dry, witty, understated and self-deprecating (In other words 'ironic'!!!) No wonder that most other countries just don't get us, especially a certain big pompous, raucous, potty-mouthed country to the west of us that shall remain nameless.... (USA)!!!!! Thank you Joe!!!😅😂🤣🤩xxx

  • @btj7ndr33

    @btj7ndr33

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey, I'm American and I get British humor just fine! I will admit to occasionally being loudmouthed, though. 😅

  • @alexj136
    @alexj1363 жыл бұрын

    Slaughterhouse five fan?

  • @joewellscomic

    @joewellscomic

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes! I've also got a Mother Night quote on the inside of my wedding ring too.

  • @alexj136

    @alexj136

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@joewellscomic Love it :D

  • @epicendergamer8535

    @epicendergamer8535

    3 жыл бұрын

    I just read that book. Where did he reference the book?

  • @alexj136

    @alexj136

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@epicendergamer8535 he has a tatoo on his arm that says "So it goes."

  • @bodiesands4654
    @bodiesands46542 жыл бұрын

    This just sounds like trauma to me. Abusive father, angry voice, triggered now by same.

  • @Capzmystic
    @Capzmystic4 жыл бұрын

    Misophonia 🙉

  • @fugglestick
    @fugglestick3 жыл бұрын

    Couldnt get past 1.56.......oh dear...

  • @benjaminlumsden

    @benjaminlumsden

    3 жыл бұрын

    So you didn't like it then?

  • @rosaliebolling2546

    @rosaliebolling2546

    3 жыл бұрын

    You missed out!

  • @RetiredRhetoricalWarhorse
    @RetiredRhetoricalWarhorse4 ай бұрын

    I am at a loss to understand this... you don't like men's voices because they're too raspy and scratchy... but gangsta rap is what you use to drown that out..? That just does not compute.

  • @joewellscomic

    @joewellscomic

    3 ай бұрын

    I think it's the build up of lots of voices in public. The sudden changes in volume, big groups laughing all of a sudden etc it's more that mens voices are generally louder than the raspy/scratchyness. music (even gangsta rap) I know whats coming and it tends to be only one voice at a time.

  • @susanlivingston3075

    @susanlivingston3075

    5 күн бұрын

    Auditory perception in autistics can be very different from neurotypical people.

  • @ThatAutisticBlackMan
    @ThatAutisticBlackMan2 ай бұрын

    hilarious

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