Joe Rogan & Jonathan Haidt - Social Media is Giving Kids Anxiety

Taken from Joe Rogan Experience #1221:
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  • @CandyLandProd
    @CandyLandProd5 жыл бұрын

    Looks like it's time to delete my 1 year old's Tinder account

  • @justbreathe8835

    @justbreathe8835

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lol dam

  • @nwomar

    @nwomar

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's 3am here and I genuinely burst out laughing at this

  • @sandpaper631

    @sandpaper631

    5 жыл бұрын

    Looks like it’s time to create my 1 year old boys grindr account

  • @sathanas420

    @sathanas420

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@nwomar what does the time have to do with anything? does your mom get mad if you laugh at 3 am?

  • @nwomar

    @nwomar

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@sathanas420 No, but yours start shouting in bed if I do

  • @MartinJohnZ
    @MartinJohnZ4 жыл бұрын

    "The creators of this technology do not let their kids have it..." If that's not a red flag then what color is it?

  • @arthurabad2862

    @arthurabad2862

    4 жыл бұрын

    Burgundy

  • @eddiecorado1635

    @eddiecorado1635

    4 жыл бұрын

    Black

  • @BrandonTheGreatest

    @BrandonTheGreatest

    4 жыл бұрын

    For a lot of people red flags are green

  • @MichaelVII_

    @MichaelVII_

    4 жыл бұрын

    orang

  • @matthewjones8798

    @matthewjones8798

    4 жыл бұрын

    Burberry.

  • @HunterFantasizer
    @HunterFantasizer3 жыл бұрын

    Quitting social media is like The Matrix, once you’re out, you see the world for what it really is, and how it’s all just a game

  • @JohnSmith-fs8bu

    @JohnSmith-fs8bu

    3 жыл бұрын

    Once you take the veil off, you have no idea what the fuck to do or what’s going on. That’s the hard part

  • @axziz0094

    @axziz0094

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@JohnSmith-fs8bu what do you mean?

  • @JohnSmith-fs8bu

    @JohnSmith-fs8bu

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@axziz0094 once you stop distracting yourself with social media and other crap and see the world for what it really is, it’s hard to determine how to live life with the blinders off

  • @aidenw9265

    @aidenw9265

    3 жыл бұрын

    @axziz 009 That’s just what happens to people who don’t already have direction and/or drive in their life. Try getting off of social media and you’ll see what he means. Hopefully you have something else to do first though lol... try reading a book and see how hard it is.

  • @axziz0094

    @axziz0094

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@aidenw9265 oh yea that makes sense I will try to quit for a week to see what’s it’s really like

  • @chambo9212
    @chambo92123 жыл бұрын

    One day I woke up, and just deleted all my social media. Didn’t just delete the app, didn’t just deactivate my profile, I permanently deleted every profile I had and my life got instantly better. I was immediately happier.

  • @shaysgxga6919

    @shaysgxga6919

    Жыл бұрын

    My question is what did you do to stay occupied? I’d get bored fast I’ve tried and want to get rid of social media but give in every time.

  • @IPA300

    @IPA300

    Жыл бұрын

    The key is to remember that boredom, no matter how bad it feels, is better for your mental health than social media, no matter how enjoyable.

  • @chambo9212

    @chambo9212

    Жыл бұрын

    @@shaysgxga6919 sorry just seeing this reply. Any time I started to feel stir crazy, I would exercise, read, listen to music, call a friend to shoot the shit, go for a drive or a walk etc. If I’m being totally candid I became more sexually frustrated which actually caused me to be more motivated to pursue women more boldly which improved my sex life. (Sorry if that’s TMI but it’s the truth and just another great reason to do what I did.) sometimes I didn’t feel like doing any of those things and I just had to learn to be bored. Then I realised how much free time I actually had so I picked up a part time side job working for a friend. I have become closer to him as a result and I’m making so much more money, learning new skills, and avoiding idle time which sometimes temps me to fall back into my old ways. Literally my life did a 180.

  • @Gohanitos

    @Gohanitos

    Жыл бұрын

    @@shaysgxga6919 go to the gym or walk a couple of hours listening to music

  • @mirandanavarro7585

    @mirandanavarro7585

    16 күн бұрын

    Same here. I’ve been off social media for 4 years now and it’s the best decision I ever made. Working towards getting rid of KZread next

  • @ethankempthorne3473
    @ethankempthorne34733 жыл бұрын

    ‘Can’t be having teenagers with interrupted sleep schedules’ Me at 3am: Yeah facts

  • @ViCT0RiA6

    @ViCT0RiA6

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @samuelsvrcek4547

    @samuelsvrcek4547

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂cool

  • @sankari6114

    @sankari6114

    3 жыл бұрын

    I read your comment at 3.13am, oh the irony

  • @TheLastMillennials

    @TheLastMillennials

    3 жыл бұрын

    Fortnite kids Zoomers

  • @mikeexits

    @mikeexits

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me going to bed at 5pm after waking up at 3am: Hur hur hurrr

  • @Skrambo92
    @Skrambo923 жыл бұрын

    This guys voice sounds like a doctors office smells

  • @jasonfield7138

    @jasonfield7138

    3 жыл бұрын

    This

  • @haseenabadshah5381

    @haseenabadshah5381

    3 жыл бұрын

    69 likes lmao

  • @TeepPicks

    @TeepPicks

    3 жыл бұрын

    Most underrated comment

  • @CannabisExpress420

    @CannabisExpress420

    3 жыл бұрын

    I got more of a dentist office vibe. Yes, they are different. Lol

  • @jasonfield7138

    @jasonfield7138

    3 жыл бұрын

    Cannabis Express 420 🤣

  • @flochforster6892
    @flochforster68923 жыл бұрын

    Man Joe is insanely lucky. The fact he’s able to bring people in to talk about subjects he’s interested in is fascinating. There’s so many people I’d love to talk to from this show and ask so many questions.

  • @Comicwiz27

    @Comicwiz27

    2 жыл бұрын

    I mean we learn what he learns too 😂😭

  • @isaiahmiller3358

    @isaiahmiller3358

    2 жыл бұрын

    You can do it!

  • @brentgoettsche

    @brentgoettsche

    Жыл бұрын

    He isn't lucky. He worked his ass off, although it was originally meant to just be fun.

  • @Theendisnearasuouknowit

    @Theendisnearasuouknowit

    Жыл бұрын

    @@brentgoettsche He is lucky if he’s rich and successful. Hard work isn’t the only factor to success, your genetics and environment play a key role in that.

  • @brentgoettsche

    @brentgoettsche

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Theendisnearasuouknowit lol nope. Learn his life story. His success is, by far, mostly due to hard work and grind lol

  • @NonceKillaz
    @NonceKillaz3 жыл бұрын

    "Girls make themselves miserable, boys make other people miserable." This line perfectly sums up humanity

  • @lancewalker2595

    @lancewalker2595

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think suicide technically does fall under that category.

  • @guitarzan2979

    @guitarzan2979

    3 жыл бұрын

    And when boys and girls grow up they make each other miserable

  • @Skbrvrisjsbdvetjtrbejudb

    @Skbrvrisjsbdvetjtrbejudb

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@guitarzan2979 where do you live?

  • @guitarzan2979

    @guitarzan2979

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Skbrvrisjsbdvetjtrbejudb I’m not sure why you ask, but Florida.

  • @Skbrvrisjsbdvetjtrbejudb

    @Skbrvrisjsbdvetjtrbejudb

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@guitarzan2979 of course Florida

  • @marciesalkowski8139
    @marciesalkowski81395 жыл бұрын

    Social media is like being in the high school cafeteria

  • @MasterMalrubius

    @MasterMalrubius

    5 жыл бұрын

    Every moment of the day.

  • @jeancarlosartist

    @jeancarlosartist

    5 жыл бұрын

    Eating shit food?

  • @nikrbawker

    @nikrbawker

    4 жыл бұрын

    Old hairy cooks and gov' massive canned goods

  • @TheWaldocrazy

    @TheWaldocrazy

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@jeancarlosartist consuming cheap shit (memes,stupid videos, fake news)

  • @diddlenfiddle7311

    @diddlenfiddle7311

    4 жыл бұрын

    You can't block people irl

  • @codinginflow
    @codinginflow3 жыл бұрын

    As a 90s kid who got bullied in school, when Facebook started to become popular, I thought to myself "holy shit, this would've made my life hell in school"

  • @brainiac.computer

    @brainiac.computer

    3 жыл бұрын

    And it did.

  • @codinginflow

    @codinginflow

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@brainiac.computer well, not mine

  • @fartinggamer4204

    @fartinggamer4204

    3 жыл бұрын

    Should’ve fought back pussy people who get bullied deserve it

  • @codinginflow

    @codinginflow

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@fartinggamer4204 I will certainly teach my kid how to be more assertive than I was

  • @fartinggamer4204

    @fartinggamer4204

    3 жыл бұрын

    Coding in Flow maybe in some parallel universe your a bully 👀👀👀👀👀

  • @addisonfrance
    @addisonfrance3 жыл бұрын

    I deleted social media for 6 months and could count on my fingers how many people still kept in touch with me after I deleted it. I only have about 5 real friends.

  • @shreyasprajapati7388

    @shreyasprajapati7388

    2 жыл бұрын

    the fact that nobody kept in touch with me after i deleted my socials proves how fake it really is

  • @johnpark7972

    @johnpark7972

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well you have 5 real friends and that's very great and valuable.

  • @alicechained210

    @alicechained210

    2 жыл бұрын

    No one stayed in touch with me you are lucky

  • @johnforeman634

    @johnforeman634

    2 жыл бұрын

    I think it’s been proven that it’s almost impossible to maintain actual close, caring friendships with more than 5 people anyways. You’re probably not really missing out on anything anyways.

  • @ez6888

    @ez6888

    Жыл бұрын

    5 is a lot for ‘real friends’. You’re doing great, cherish that group

  • @AJanae.
    @AJanae. Жыл бұрын

    What’s crazy is that we all acknowledge that social media is so destructive to our lives but no one does anything about it. It’s a deep addiction that people don’t want to try to stop

  • @marinecombatvet2669

    @marinecombatvet2669

    Жыл бұрын

    It is truly an addiction in many. But don't discount the many other people who HAVE done something about it, and taken our lives back as our own. It can seem insurmountable to even consider leaving social media, I recognize that. That fear of becoming invisible to the world. But for those of us who have, and those who still will, the recognition exists as a real-world acceptance of us existing. Not as some digital pseudo-individual, but as an actual flesh-and-blood person. Social media cannot quantify that. Non-digital humans break their algorithm. And YOU can too.

  • @21972012145525

    @21972012145525

    Жыл бұрын

    Agreed! Government needs to step up . Either content creators or the algorithm need to have limits

  • @GreatCdn59

    @GreatCdn59

    11 ай бұрын

    @@marinecombatvet2669 love that!

  • @jessekittrell2946

    @jessekittrell2946

    10 ай бұрын

    Wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy to much money involved now. Hell alcohol has been killing people for years.

  • @marinecombatvet2669

    @marinecombatvet2669

    10 ай бұрын

    @@jessekittrell2946 Addictions are addictions, but social media is different. If you are buying a pint of liquor every day to down before bed, you should be able to recognize that there's an issue that might need addressing. We tend to recognize our consumption of substances--we either ignore that excessive consumption, have someone else who'll bring it up, or decide ourselves that we'll make a change for this behavior that is clearly not healthy. Social media is NOT like this. With social media, there's really no warning signal in the typical sense. We don't have to buy it with our cash every day for there to be a serious problem. Who cares if we check it every 15 minutes? It's not like we're taking a shot at the same intervals, right? Right? But we are. When we are obsessively locked into that digital system, our brain doesn't really treat it any different. Whether a shot of alcohol, a hit from some narcotic, or finding that our last post is THIS CLOSE to going viral (if only we could find a way to bump it up)--a bump is a bump. A hit is a hit. Addiction is addiction. Drugs or drink or digital, the effect of that dopamine and brain chemistry doesn't differentiate. A person can become an addict without ever taking any real substance into their body. Addiction does not require a substance, it's clearly defined in the medical field. We humans addict to SO many things, MANY more things than just substances. We seek out that dopamine hit, we seek out the rush or thrill that might come from anything. But it's only an addiction once we become dependent on it. Dependency is what makes something (anything) an addiction. Doesn't actually matter what that *thing* is. Money can addict just as powerfully as any drug can--just as can chasing that 'LIKE' icon. Don't kid yourself. It's never too late to recognize an addiction and choose to make a change that will take you back from it. "It's way too late now" to go back is how an addict will justify their addiction. It's not their fault really, it's the human condition. We just want to feel good. We ALL want to feel good. Nothing wrong with it. But do not kid yourself and tell yourself that it's all ok because we're so entrenched in this new reality of digital and social everything connectedness. It's not always a problem to everyone. But to some, sometimes, it becomes one. And when it does, it's medically no different than any other addiction. Your obsessive facebook checking and constant need for it to validate yourself may very well be harming you. If you cannot walk away from something that's become a habit, there's a good chance it's become elevated to that of an addiction. No matter what IT is.

  • @vaterpolistzg
    @vaterpolistzg5 жыл бұрын

    I think social media gives anxiety to adults aswell

  • @ivanc9231

    @ivanc9231

    5 жыл бұрын

    It can but I think adults have better outlets then kids do , that's why I left SM a long time ago

  • @TheReminisce777

    @TheReminisce777

    5 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely.

  • @Killa91115

    @Killa91115

    5 жыл бұрын

    It actually ruins a lot of marriages 4 out of 5 marriages end up in divorce.

  • @eliminator173

    @eliminator173

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@mayainverse9429 lmao.

  • @Ryder_OMEGA

    @Ryder_OMEGA

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@mayainverse9429 so are you saying that some1 who didn't grow up with SM would get mad ?

  • @Lukemasonmedia
    @Lukemasonmedia3 жыл бұрын

    I hate how weird social media has made people socially. Instead of talking to somebody in public people just look down at their phone to avoid social interaction. You can just see the anxiety everybody has now. We’re literally losing the ability to socialize.

  • @brandonmacky

    @brandonmacky

    2 жыл бұрын

    I know I’m late, but it’s ironic that everyone is losing the ability to socialize from "social" media

  • @thelight8280

    @thelight8280

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@brandonmacky yeah

  • @Andomosity

    @Andomosity

    2 жыл бұрын

    I say this to all of my friends. You go into the tire shop to get new tires and everyone is just staring down at their phones. You go into the barber and everyone waiting is just looking at their phones. You go to the pool or beach and everyone not tanning or swimming is on their phones. Look around you, nobody wants to socialize anymore!

  • @thelight8280

    @thelight8280

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Andomosity Yeah. The government has succeded with their agenda.

  • @brandonmacky

    @brandonmacky

    2 жыл бұрын

    Andrew Taylor It’s sad, being born in the newer generation I kinda wish phones were still used to text and call, but we can’t avoid the future

  • @BANDIT2DAY
    @BANDIT2DAY3 жыл бұрын

    I just watched this podcast again. I’m so glad I was a teenager in the 1980s. Life was so much easier back then and we had the threat of nuclear war with the Soviet union.

  • @freetime4621

    @freetime4621

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Najaf S. You do realize that the soviet union sent orders to send nukes however a soldier stenislav petrov assumed that the orders where false alarms and stopped a nuclear war from occuring you can research it

  • @zroysum

    @zroysum

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Najaf S. that doesn't match with the history the threat was always real and in fact a case can be made that this threat created the military industrial complex. Your point about the f22 is ill informed it's the best air to air fighter on Earth.

  • @sweatyatoms7719

    @sweatyatoms7719

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@zroysum I am a Sovjet Nuclear Missle Silo and I agree that they wanted to use me in 80's to fire a nuclear warhead. I am retired now.

  • @CarterWills1

    @CarterWills1

    Жыл бұрын

    @@freetime4621 Yes, because that obviously happened and the Central Committee just decided not to send orders to launch nukes because they might be mistaken for false orders.

  • @theheeze
    @theheeze4 жыл бұрын

    Dude, it is their parents. I see parents of gen z kids on their phone 90% of the time they're "spending time together". The kids learn from them.

  • @goliathtigerfishes

    @goliathtigerfishes

    4 жыл бұрын

    SimonSays Nearly every time I see a kid with their parent on the metro/subway the kid is always playing a game or watching trash on the parents phone or device. It’s sad.

  • @spiritmama

    @spiritmama

    4 жыл бұрын

    My kid gets mad at me everyday because when we’re out, he can’t be on his phone. He has to look out the window for car rides 😱, has to have conversation w people 😬 and when we get home, he can’t be on it for a long time either. The longer he is off it, the more his uses his imagination to find things to do when he is bored. But it takes consistency. 🤷‍♀️ I dont keep him off it 100% cuz this is the world we live in now, but I do make sure he finds himself bored so he can figure out how else to spend his time. Usually he finds himself in some sort of art project. Its a good give and take. He prefers not to be on social media apps (ie facebook, snapchat, instagram, twitter, etc), but he does like KZread and talks to his friends through Discord.

  • @nathanphillips6335

    @nathanphillips6335

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tiny Dancer how old is he? I’m 14 and do basically the same: KZread and discord. My parents let me do what ever I want as long as I earn it. I never found value in social media. Two years ago I moved from a SMALL town in Kentucky to Colorado leaving all my friends behind. The only way to communicate with my friends is through social media and similar mediums. I feel inept I don’t understand half the things they are talking about in terms of functionality and memes. I still don’t keep up with social media even though it’s the only way to talk to them. I’m just too busy with college classes and trying to exercise regularly and make friends that live nearby. Sorry I completely forgot what this comment was about and already typed it out so I’m posting it. One thing I’ll add is going outside and playing the way I’m sure you used to is harder unless other parents have the same mindset as you. I could go walk around my neighborhood of hours and not see a single person my age and it’s the same at the parks.

  • @herbertt.viking1449

    @herbertt.viking1449

    4 жыл бұрын

    You sir have perfectly encapsulated what I used to see when I was a lifeguard. Parents glued to their phones while the kids played by themselves in the pool. Absolutely disgraceful.

  • @heyryanisonx3141

    @heyryanisonx3141

    3 жыл бұрын

    When you're talking about the parents themselves, it seems more like Gen Alpha's parents, the millennials. Gen Z's parents are Gen X

  • @glendon6367
    @glendon63675 жыл бұрын

    One of the most important topics of our time.

  • @johnnyblade6088

    @johnnyblade6088

    5 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree. And it's scary that people are not taking this issue seriously.

  • @shockwave68

    @shockwave68

    5 жыл бұрын

    Seriously agree. A very mal-adjusted, toxic generation of kids is getting ready to hit the workplace. Its gonna be rough.

  • @AW-ou5dl

    @AW-ou5dl

    5 жыл бұрын

    Before I got out of education, kids would waste so much time in the bathrooms on their phones taking selfies of themselves before and after class. We had to have bathroom monitors to get them to class on time. It's not only anxiety, but complete narcissism. They couldn't focus in class unless they posted on Instagram before. Their worlds completely revolve around themselves. As soon as they get a whiff the world doesn't work that way, they'd loose it. These kids have to stroke their egos constantly or they're destroyed. Once I had students bringing "anxiety fish" (beta fish they'd carry around in a bowl and stare at when they felt stress, which was all the time) I knew we were in trouble. Even the best students had the narcissistic tendicies. It's only going to get worse if not corrected soon.

  • @beevezeepe6615

    @beevezeepe6615

    5 жыл бұрын

    It already is because social media has evened out generations where people into their thirties and forties are acting just like their teens.

  • @JohnStockton7459

    @JohnStockton7459

    5 жыл бұрын

    Its so much more distructive than we can seee right now, funny how you cant drink alcohol, but 10 year olds can have this virus in their pocket all day, thats litteraly destroying their mental health

  • @BasicallyMindy
    @BasicallyMindy3 жыл бұрын

    This conversation about girls is breaking my heart. 💔

  • @Uddipt-nj8fm
    @Uddipt-nj8fm3 жыл бұрын

    I know its not related, but this guy’s voice is really soothing.

  • @jupiterisaak1004

    @jupiterisaak1004

    3 жыл бұрын

    He needs an ASMR channel ASAP

  • @chrisscott6961

    @chrisscott6961

    3 жыл бұрын

    Except for the fact it sounds like macaroni being stirred

  • @tommyoneill9761

    @tommyoneill9761

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, he could read me a book and I’d fall asleep in about 5 seconds.

  • @rhi6188
    @rhi61883 жыл бұрын

    Instagram made me miserable in school. Deleted when I got to university. Much happier now I'm focusing on enjoying my life and not comparing myself to others.

  • @Zerin666

    @Zerin666

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's what I find myself doing Everytime I go to isntagram.I keep comparing with random strangers online.So I deleted the apps.

  • @akkros707

    @akkros707

    3 жыл бұрын

    The problem with not having social media, despite having regular texting, is when you're friends start not catching up with you when you don't use social media. Some of them may even look at you crazy. Its ridiculous.

  • @maxrobley4200

    @maxrobley4200

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@akkros707 I don’t mean to be blunt, but if your friends stop catching up with you because you don’t have social media, you should’ve dropped them a long time ago. I deleted all my social media because I realized I only cared to know what was going on with a handful of people. Now, I simply text or call them to hang out and catch up. If someone looks at you weird or won’t catch up with you because of your lack of social media presence, they were not a friend to start with, they were an acquaintance.

  • @Millennial_Gardener

    @Millennial_Gardener

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@maxrobley4200 so true

  • @Millennial_Gardener

    @Millennial_Gardener

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s great! It’s very draining

  • @yorkshire3939
    @yorkshire39395 жыл бұрын

    Joe "that chart looks like a BMX bike jump ramp" Rogan

  • @Zwettekop

    @Zwettekop

    4 жыл бұрын

    I thought it was a really good analogy to be honest.

  • @Delton96

    @Delton96

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @Ansemrp

    @Ansemrp

    4 жыл бұрын

    I laughed hard at that as well.

  • @frostychickenprods

    @frostychickenprods

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yorkshire only he would day that lmao

  • @alexanderruiz6479

    @alexanderruiz6479

    4 жыл бұрын

    jump ramp

  • @spottyblanks5199
    @spottyblanks51993 жыл бұрын

    I remember working with this lady who'd have massive breakdowns if nobody like her Facebook post

  • @Melly16yr10

    @Melly16yr10

    3 жыл бұрын

    Seriously?

  • @spottyblanks5199

    @spottyblanks5199

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Melly16yr10 yeah it was sad.

  • @Millennial_Gardener

    @Millennial_Gardener

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@spottyblanks5199 dang... it really does mess with your head. It’s hard

  • @SAMSARALIVEEEEEE

    @SAMSARALIVEEEEEE

    3 жыл бұрын

    Damn that shit is evil. You gotta break free from it or you’ll always be a slave

  • @jay0339

    @jay0339

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @jennifergrove2368
    @jennifergrove23683 жыл бұрын

    Just watched "The Social Dilemma" and he even used that phrase in this.

  • @Josh-nt1zg

    @Josh-nt1zg

    3 жыл бұрын

    Super good movie

  • @TheLastMillennials

    @TheLastMillennials

    3 жыл бұрын

    There you go

  • @waedjradi
    @waedjradi4 жыл бұрын

    It hits you hard when you get a text from someone who asks "Where you been?" after deleting your social media. Goes to show you how people really use social media as a virtual place in their minds. Where I've been?

  • @krisd6811

    @krisd6811

    4 жыл бұрын

    Or nobody asks at all...

  • @deadheadronin1392

    @deadheadronin1392

    4 жыл бұрын

    I feel you

  • @kefada881

    @kefada881

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@krisd6811 Yeah

  • @eksquisite

    @eksquisite

    3 жыл бұрын

    So distanced from real friendships, im disgusted

  • @toluadek

    @toluadek

    3 жыл бұрын

    People ask where I've been just cos I didn't tweet for a month lol

  • @burnbabylonburn78
    @burnbabylonburn785 жыл бұрын

    “I don’t want my kid on social media, I don’t want him to feel left out.” Trust me, you feel even MORE left out when you’re ON social media.

  • @TankGunner84
    @TankGunner842 жыл бұрын

    My son is 12 and I don’t let him have social media, he is a super happy and well rounded out young man. He has never had a problem with depression or anything. That’s even with his mom walking out on us when he was little and I’ve raised him by myself since. It helps knowing what is going on in your kids life! Don’t be their friend, be their parent!!

  • @iskanderwiseman4293

    @iskanderwiseman4293

    Жыл бұрын

    Respect.

  • @TankGunner84

    @TankGunner84

    Жыл бұрын

    @@iskanderwiseman4293 thank you.

  • @LloydChristmas08
    @LloydChristmas083 жыл бұрын

    This has aged incredibly well. In 2020 we found out people can’t handle social media.

  • @Scottiii95
    @Scottiii955 жыл бұрын

    I was born in 95 and have stopped using all social media except KZread; feels good, no more FOMO

  • @Kamzwins

    @Kamzwins

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Odd Fish Fear Of Missing Out

  • @a.a.8918

    @a.a.8918

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same here! No FB, no Twitter, no IG, no Snapchat. Get out of the asylum people!

  • @danersson

    @danersson

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sælur I was born in 84 and fomo is the worst aspect of social media for me. Instagram is the absolute worst -stopped using it a while back.

  • @davidpfeifer9489

    @davidpfeifer9489

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sælur I was born in 90, and never had a Facebook, Twitter, no real online presence besides tinder lol. Friends used to tell me “ bro ur missing out” but I always suspected something was fucked up about it....guess I’m old school

  • @someguy...726

    @someguy...726

    5 жыл бұрын

    i was born in 01 and quit social media all together last year. ive even gotten others to quit with me, and let me tell you my quality of life is so much better now.

  • @repmidwest
    @repmidwest5 жыл бұрын

    This man's voice is like honey in my ears. Somebody get this guy a podcast.

  • @seantheguy

    @seantheguy

    5 жыл бұрын

    Got damn asmr FREAK!!

  • @seantheguy

    @seantheguy

    5 жыл бұрын

    You right tho

  • @MountainJew69

    @MountainJew69

    5 жыл бұрын

    REP MIDWEST He already has one it’s called the Joe Rogan Experience you can find it on KZread

  • @MikkoB89

    @MikkoB89

    5 жыл бұрын

    He sounds like he’s slapping wet slices of ham together while he talks, super interesting stuff he’s saying though, but annoying to listen to.

  • @SunnyDallasRealtor

    @SunnyDallasRealtor

    5 жыл бұрын

    um no its creeeeepy LOL

  • @pervysage6969
    @pervysage69692 жыл бұрын

    After being free of social media for over 7 years now I can gladly say social media definitely gives you anxiety & doubt. I love the way I am without social media

  • @michaelsaxonson251
    @michaelsaxonson2513 жыл бұрын

    "Your brain is developed" "Sort of" Joe is very self aware

  • @aesthete1618
    @aesthete16184 жыл бұрын

    Honestly feel like 80% of the negative aspects of social media is the comments. People show their true colors behind a screen.

  • @KillerAJ

    @KillerAJ

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jeff Jeffrey or lack there of. It used to frustrate how my posts(usually political arguments or memes) would have 1-3 likes (usually the same people) and nothing else and a friend of mine would put up a picture of his new M3 or a picture of Santorini and it gets a hundred likes.

  • @andresesqueda1424

    @andresesqueda1424

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes. Especially political comment sections.

  • @advisorywarning

    @advisorywarning

    4 жыл бұрын

    Also the impossible beauty/life standards represented on ig it gives people such incredible insecurity

  • @FrediskiwidoesrandomSTUFF

    @FrediskiwidoesrandomSTUFF

    4 жыл бұрын

    Fax sometimes I realise how much of a dick I can be

  • @aurelien5747

    @aurelien5747

    3 жыл бұрын

    Frediskiwi just ask yourself if you’d say that to this persons face

  • @_baller
    @_baller5 жыл бұрын

    When you look at social media you're in a depressive state, you're bored.. and you're looking at ppl in an excited state, and you get filled with envy, jealousy, anger, anxiety etc.. so stop looking, social media is very new and very unnecessary for life

  • @burlong01

    @burlong01

    5 жыл бұрын

    This is kind of a stretch. It's like saying I only watch movies because I'm bored and therefor in a depressive state. I can be bored and enjoy social media responsibly at the same time. I believe it really comes down to having a healthy understanding that what you see on social media isn't always the truth, or something your life is lacking.

  • @colbybierl4721

    @colbybierl4721

    5 жыл бұрын

    25 years in the big picture is nothing@abandoned failer

  • @gettingtoastedatq

    @gettingtoastedatq

    5 жыл бұрын

    Well this is truth to this. We do use social media when bored but many also use it to float their “success” or happiness and they present a life that doesn’t actually exist. They fabricate it to appear a certain way or status. Then a normal person sees this and compares their own life to a made up one and feel a sense of lacking. It takes a strong person to say, “I don’t care what they are doing I am fine with what I have and where I am in life”. Many lack that

  • @insaneone4369

    @insaneone4369

    5 жыл бұрын

    TRUTH

  • @cellardoor199991

    @cellardoor199991

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm happy for friends when they get married or have a celebration. Why would I be jealous. Maybe bored. Jealous, depressed...no.

  • @ginamcmanama2018
    @ginamcmanama20183 жыл бұрын

    as a 17 year old girl, social media is SOOOOO damaging. the ramifications of it on your mental well being weigh even after usage has stopped. I have been off of it for 7 months besides youtube and i feel so much better.

  • @TheLastMillennials

    @TheLastMillennials

    3 жыл бұрын

    You're QuaranTeen

  • @ginamcmanama2018

    @ginamcmanama2018

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheLastMillennials ok i honestly don’t understand but go off

  • @TheLastMillennials

    @TheLastMillennials

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ginamcmanama2018 you're a teen so I call you quaranTEEN

  • @ginamcmanama2018

    @ginamcmanama2018

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheLastMillennials ok i got that part but the quaran it’s not like coronavirus has anything to do with this😂

  • @TheLastMillennials

    @TheLastMillennials

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ginamcmanama2018 quraranTEEN

  • @ilsevalfreeley4169
    @ilsevalfreeley41693 жыл бұрын

    This doctor nailed it! we need him in mainstream media thanks for sharing!

  • @youssefhamidi8152
    @youssefhamidi81525 жыл бұрын

    I deleted FB a few years ago and deleted IG two months ago. I havent missed it for one second.

  • @cosodesign8953

    @cosodesign8953

    5 жыл бұрын

    I just deleted both a couple weeks ago and besides the lack of memes it’s been really great.

  • @AirCanada1J5

    @AirCanada1J5

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@joere-uploader5766 Yeah but nobody takes it seriously and it's all strangers

  • @matthewalexander1910

    @matthewalexander1910

    4 жыл бұрын

    I still have IG & Snapchat, but i i deleted my Facebook. Facebook is evil

  • @joejingojack

    @joejingojack

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too. Probably the best thing I have done so far, lol

  • @tobiasprevoo8114

    @tobiasprevoo8114

    4 жыл бұрын

    I deleted my FB account 4 years ago and I also didnt miss it for one second.

  • @kinggrizzly1916
    @kinggrizzly19165 жыл бұрын

    I’m 16 right now had Instagram and It made me depressed, so I deleted all social media now I’m am way better off and way happier

  • @aaronwilliams589

    @aaronwilliams589

    4 жыл бұрын

    You’ve got a rough time ahead

  • @givingittoyouraw4101

    @givingittoyouraw4101

    4 жыл бұрын

    @jordan summers If you want to quit social media, then just do it. To hell with what people think. If people ask you about it, then tell them matter of factly, but confidently that you used to have an account, but deleted it because you weren't really using it or don't have the time, or something. Mature people, those worthy of being called your "friends," won't think anything of it and won't view you any differently. At most, they may tease you a little, but not to be malicious. Stupid people, on the other hand, whose lives revolve around social media like zombies, may respond negatively or maliciously. If they do, just brush your shoulders off and limit/cut association with them. You find out who your real friends are when you stray from the common herd mentality and have the guts to stand up for what is right.

  • @pandakicker1

    @pandakicker1

    4 жыл бұрын

    KingGrizzly 78 that’s fantastic that you realized this so young! too many young people let it continue in their lives until it’s seriously done horrible damage to their psyches. i’m 24 and just barely had a good enough motivation to get the hell off facebook for good. i feel better but my anxiety is still an issue. bravo!

  • @pandakicker1

    @pandakicker1

    4 жыл бұрын

    jordan summers people will think you’re weird but they already think that about me so whatever. i say just do it. if you don’t do it now, you will keep making excuses for why you should just stay on for another week.

  • @sheilashadiamusic

    @sheilashadiamusic

    4 жыл бұрын

    I quit social media about a year ago, didn't delete my accounts but rarely log on. Also I am an older millennial past 30 so not young however as a former performer it became too much! It's strange, hardly anyone will say anything to your face but the ghouls come out to troll people online, how "brave" 😂

  • @kennethjose7159
    @kennethjose71593 жыл бұрын

    2005 I was 15 when my parents got me my own phone. My requirements were text, call and play music. I was so happy by just getting those

  • @TheLastMillennials

    @TheLastMillennials

    3 жыл бұрын

    2005 was great for me

  • @forman208

    @forman208

    2 жыл бұрын

    Your phone played music in 2005?

  • @kennethjose7159

    @kennethjose7159

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@forman208 yup. It was the Ericsson W800

  • @shanuv12
    @shanuv123 жыл бұрын

    This guy is so calm and collective in his demeanor. I m very impressed.

  • @forgotsomething4995
    @forgotsomething49955 жыл бұрын

    There’s also toxic people glorifying self harm and depression everywhere on social media and it disgust me how easily they get young teenagers to look up to them and imitate their behavior.

  • @adams1458

    @adams1458

    4 жыл бұрын

    Forgot Something lil xan, lol

  • @sunset3250

    @sunset3250

    4 жыл бұрын

    Where does the glorifying come from though? Seems like an outward acceptance of what's already growing inside.

  • @charin951

    @charin951

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sunset especially tumbler somewhat Instagram

  • @charin951

    @charin951

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sunset it should be accepted but depression shouldn’t be normalized. Now it’s seen as relatable and quirky to be depressed

  • @callanc3925

    @callanc3925

    4 жыл бұрын

    ​@@sunset3250 i believe its more common in girls, because admitting your depressed gets you a lot of attention from guys who may be genuinely wanting to help you feel better but also might see it as a chance at someone who doesnt know better

  • @jackrockwell6698
    @jackrockwell66984 жыл бұрын

    I’m 38 and thankful that social media wasn’t around when I was 15.

  • @xaviierm9332

    @xaviierm9332

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jack Rockwell i wish, feel like things were more enjoyable, in the moment

  • @warshrag1903

    @warshrag1903

    4 жыл бұрын

    i’m 18 and am now realizing the effects using social media when i was 12 had on. Really wish i could’ve noticed the signs when i was younger

  • @YogawithAliBeale

    @YogawithAliBeale

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm 41 social media would have killed me in high school. I'm so thankful even now it's brutal I'm so much happier when I don't use it.

  • @MaximTendu

    @MaximTendu

    4 жыл бұрын

    37 here, got a one-year fling with My Space some twelve years ago, got bored and decided to say no to Facebook and smartphones. I miss the Brave Old World.

  • @MRBlack01234

    @MRBlack01234

    4 жыл бұрын

    I have no social media accounts. Take a look at Twitter. There is too much hate.

  • @heatheralin3649
    @heatheralin3649 Жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love this conversation and it really has opened my 19 year old eyes after dealing with this bs as a teenager thank you Joe for being firm in your normal beliefs and taking the knowledge from this being

  • @rosie5848
    @rosie58483 жыл бұрын

    I’m a female who was born in 1999 and I can confirm, he’s pretty much spot on and I’ve been having so many regrets lately & have felt like I’ve missed out on so much and am past my prime...I’m 21. I also had mental health issues (anxiety/depression) since elementary school. Was also nonstop bullied in school and on social media when I went home.

  • @rosie5848

    @rosie5848

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@McBike770 Dude, do you know how to talk to people? Or are you only rude because you're a coward, behind the comfort of a keyboard? I know your prime in until your mid-late 30s. That's why I said "...I'm 21", to show how I'm young but still feeling like I don't have much time left to be young. Smh, the arrogance of your pure ignorance.

  • @HooyahPeacock

    @HooyahPeacock

    3 жыл бұрын

    He isn't ignorant... you're way of thinking is. If you're 21 feeling like that you need to make a change.

  • @1lawnmowerfan362

    @1lawnmowerfan362

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey how are you doing now? I hope your world is a little better :)

  • @ZT_Performance

    @ZT_Performance

    Жыл бұрын

    18-25 is your prime it's not over yet

  • @jessekittrell2946

    @jessekittrell2946

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@ZT Performance eh 20-28ish

  • @oscars4608
    @oscars46084 жыл бұрын

    Simple solution: teach every kid MMA so they can land a sweet Joe Rogan spinning side kick on the bullies

  • @ImortalZeus13

    @ImortalZeus13

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oscar S How the flying fuck does a spinning sidekick work?

  • @josephalford7197

    @josephalford7197

    4 жыл бұрын

    DigitalZ look it up

  • @electronicraisin5956

    @electronicraisin5956

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@josephalford7197 you mean pull that up

  • @MRBlack01234

    @MRBlack01234

    4 жыл бұрын

    How you gonna give a spinning kick on social media.

  • @mxkhxi

    @mxkhxi

    4 жыл бұрын

    MR. BLACK well, you could always tell them to pull up irl. if they don't, you make a fool out of them. if they do, you make a fool out of them.

  • @Jake-im2lv
    @Jake-im2lv4 жыл бұрын

    I can agree with Johns assessment that coddling kids negatively effects their social skills and anxiety levels. As a kid I was never pushed to get out of my comfort zone socially, was never pushed to go up to the counter at the store and purchase things, or to go and catch a bus on my own or a train. I believe it, alongside the usual high school bullying made me quite socially anxious. I'm 27 now and have worked hard to get out of my comfort zone and for the most part many of my anxieties are under control, but it took a long time whilst my peers didn't have these issues and got on with life a lot better than I have so far.

  • @loreaver3882

    @loreaver3882

    4 жыл бұрын

    True, kids have to practice being independent

  • @GuadalupePicasso

    @GuadalupePicasso

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jake2 God bless you for growing and healing such as you have, man. Keep up the good work!

  • @JonnyBeoulve

    @JonnyBeoulve

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same. My parents fucked up. Made my 20s a nightmare. Still a moderate problem for me in my 30s. I try though.

  • @luthienzirael6741

    @luthienzirael6741

    4 жыл бұрын

    I have experienced this as well but with work. When I was in high school I was asking my parents to find a part-time job ( i was very carefree then and not at all anxious) and they didn't agree with it cause they wanted me to have time to play and focus on school and while I understand they did it because they cared etc it was actually bad for me. I'm 22 now and I get very anxious and stressed thinking about getting a job because I never got familiar with it when I should have.

  • @XXXXBossXXXX

    @XXXXBossXXXX

    4 жыл бұрын

    same thing dude. im in my 20's and i have bad anxiety bc i was always pampered my whole life along with some negative mechanisms from cultural parenting.... as long as we grow and dont give up. it'll be more than okay..

  • @austinshackelford1036
    @austinshackelford10362 жыл бұрын

    I think this is one of the most important clips to ever come out of this show. As a person who grew up smack dab in the middle of the social media in middle school wave( born in 98) this video is spot on and this should be commonplace showing to parents of young children.

  • @izzybelisle3550
    @izzybelisle35503 жыл бұрын

    I wasn’t allowed social media but I also wasn’t allowed going outside and having friends. I feel that if I at least had one of them I would be in a better mental space

  • @peppy9082
    @peppy90824 жыл бұрын

    Jon: "Your brain is fully developed" Joe: "Well sort of...its sketchy" lmao

  • @colincopland3665

    @colincopland3665

    4 жыл бұрын

    Not so much sketchy but hazy... 🍁🍄🚬 🤣🤣😂

  • @ishzsbxux

    @ishzsbxux

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Pringles The Movie L M A O

  • @scaryhours2220
    @scaryhours22205 жыл бұрын

    This dude is the ASMR king for sure.

  • @geetee2392

    @geetee2392

    5 жыл бұрын

    Too much moist tongue sounds.

  • @scaryhours2220

    @scaryhours2220

    5 жыл бұрын

    @MorbidManMusic lol geez

  • @katie6666

    @katie6666

    5 жыл бұрын

    Nothing can defeat Bob ross

  • @GuadalupePicasso

    @GuadalupePicasso

    4 жыл бұрын

    Scary Hours he sounds kinda like that Casey Casum guy (+Memory eternal) who used to do that Sunday radio countdown.

  • @jamiehusky8062

    @jamiehusky8062

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol...hes definitely got that voice.

  • @sole__doubt
    @sole__doubt3 жыл бұрын

    One of the best and one of them most informative episodes ever. I suggest everyone go to Spotify and make an account and listen to this a few times. A real wealth of information.

  • @david90mm33
    @david90mm333 жыл бұрын

    This is so true.. I used to scrolls through my instagram feed daily, and once i stopped and only used explore for fun videos/images to look at while im in a waiting room or something like that, i never felt better about myself and my life in general. Its weird since i never really cared so much to compare myself to others but it does fuck with you. There is something addicting about it too, Im sure many people have friends that delete their facebook/instagram and you see them as overreacting, but its the best way to stop yourself from using it and realise how much better you are without it.

  • @Lost_Frequency
    @Lost_Frequency4 жыл бұрын

    Instagram gets famous in 2012, graph skyrockets.

  • @pingu3984

    @pingu3984

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's an unpopular opinion but I really think Instagram has ruined a generation of people.

  • @wakwak7511

    @wakwak7511

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jennifer Carter I wouldnt say its unpopular

  • @chaseclarkemusic

    @chaseclarkemusic

    3 жыл бұрын

    Instagram has been horrible for my mental health don't go on it as much anymore and I. Feel a lot better

  • @joenotexotic4872

    @joenotexotic4872

    3 жыл бұрын

    More like after 2014

  • @TheLastMillennials

    @TheLastMillennials

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah

  • @antonsaysyee
    @antonsaysyee4 жыл бұрын

    "It's like a virus came out of nowhere" Us in 2020: ...

  • @teslimiyetnet

    @teslimiyetnet

    3 жыл бұрын

    The pyshical had always been a representation of the spiritual.

  • @dmshowerthoughts5034

    @dmshowerthoughts5034

    3 жыл бұрын

    I audibly said "Oof" when I heard this

  • @mikeexits

    @mikeexits

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@teslimiyetnet Ultimately they are one and the same

  • @seearyari

    @seearyari

    3 жыл бұрын

    It was already coming, US just didn’t care till it was already in every state

  • @fuckmedude8167

    @fuckmedude8167

    3 жыл бұрын

    You mean the world

  • @GaiaNeh1013
    @GaiaNeh10132 жыл бұрын

    I live everything he's saying, especially the end about not trusting neighbors and as a result not letting your kids out. It is SO psychology damaging. And children aside, we've grown so isolated from one another, our sense of community, all of that. If you don't know the people on your own street and what goes about, you'll believe anything the news says about your own neighborhood. It makes our society weak and vulnerable. It's terrible.

  • @ricardo950535
    @ricardo9505352 жыл бұрын

    Great conversation. I actually attended two parent meetings in my kids middle school 3 times that addressed the social media issue. And taught mental health. NY state.

  • @Only2GendersCommonSense
    @Only2GendersCommonSense4 жыл бұрын

    "Social media is the DEVIL!" -Bobby Bouche's mom

  • @Ishid9duu288u

    @Ishid9duu288u

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂👍

  • @Skateandcreate9
    @Skateandcreate95 жыл бұрын

    As a millennial male I have to say social media has affected me overwhelmingly negatively to the point that I had to cut it out almost entirely.

  • @geetee2392

    @geetee2392

    5 жыл бұрын

    I think it's positive that you recognized and mitigated the damage.

  • @firepatriot42

    @firepatriot42

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here, I us FB 2-3 times a week, sometimes going for weeks without it. Got rid of my smartphone last year because it was to addicting.

  • @Nightowl333

    @Nightowl333

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same, I’m 33 and it caused a huge amount of anxiety in my life. I would randomly deactivate for short periods over the years. Now I’m on my longest streak 6 months off Facebook and I’ve never felt better or more content. The subconscious constant life comparing is horrible.

  • @thenoseyskeptic

    @thenoseyskeptic

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm in the same boat with you. Had to delete Facebook and Instagram because it is an overwhelming disease

  • @callanc3925

    @callanc3925

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@joere-uploader5766 wow its almost like not everything in the same category is as beneficial/harmful as everything else in that category, who wouldve thought.

  • @wesoracle
    @wesoracle3 жыл бұрын

    Sitting here in 2020 where 90% of all interaction happens on social media because of covid... this seems like a chaotic bad storm waiting to break

  • @uris728
    @uris7283 жыл бұрын

    I think this is one of the most important subject that been touched on this podcast.. thank you joe!

  • @kshepard2947
    @kshepard29474 жыл бұрын

    Social media hasn’t been cool since 2009. Once family got on there I was out.

  • @OneThousandEyes

    @OneThousandEyes

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's mostly true for Facebook only. Kids are on Instagram, Snapchat and TikTok.

  • @unblindmymind4737

    @unblindmymind4737

    4 жыл бұрын

    Not since MySpace.

  • @erichomsy

    @erichomsy

    4 жыл бұрын

    facts

  • @krisd6811

    @krisd6811

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha right

  • @MRBlack01234

    @MRBlack01234

    4 жыл бұрын

    I have no social media accounts. No Facebook, No Instagram, No tik tok.

  • @Manucj7
    @Manucj75 жыл бұрын

    I'm listening to this guy, feeling sad at how easily people get addicted. Yet I'm addicted to KZread watching this video... Scary.

  • @michaelknight4099

    @michaelknight4099

    5 жыл бұрын

    At least we are learning something here.

  • @robertrossi9364

    @robertrossi9364

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm 'addicted' to so much and I feel fine!! Enjoy at your own pace

  • @tupd

    @tupd

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@michaelknight4099 i mean...how many vids do you REALLY remember the info from that youve watched, later in the day much less the next day?

  • @tupd

    @tupd

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@robertrossi9364 thats what all addicts say bruh...

  • @michaelknight4099

    @michaelknight4099

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@tupd I'm more of a bookworm. The most retainable knowledge I find is within text. With that being said, I remember the majority of anything I put my attention to, whether that be reading or viewing.

  • @2.0_brittt
    @2.0_brittt3 жыл бұрын

    It’s cool how little joe talked because he was so fascinated by this

  • @magicwithin6873
    @magicwithin68733 жыл бұрын

    Have this man on more. He is amazing. More please!

  • @Aiphiae
    @Aiphiae5 жыл бұрын

    As a teacher I've been saying this for *years.* Everyone (who wasn't a teacher) told me I was out of my mind... yet here we are.

  • @adrianaguilar7017

    @adrianaguilar7017

    4 жыл бұрын

    Aiphiae fight the man

  • @MostafaElSakari

    @MostafaElSakari

    4 жыл бұрын

    Abel Leever I’m in the educational system and I have to agree.

  • @LeSyd1984

    @LeSyd1984

    4 жыл бұрын

    @jordan summers The best part about quitting social media is you can't find out what those fokers on social media think about you quitting social media anyhow. lol

  • @rharris8429
    @rharris84295 жыл бұрын

    This guy would be the best Christmas book reader.

  • @yeshalloween

    @yeshalloween

    4 жыл бұрын

    ryan harris he WOULD!!

  • @jillianocken2385

    @jillianocken2385

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@yeshalloween lowkey ASMR

  • @mariuszdeptulski4644

    @mariuszdeptulski4644

    3 жыл бұрын

    The problem with the world is ppl like you.

  • @rharris8429

    @rharris8429

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mariuszdeptulski4644 awwwww.... thanks man.

  • @thewolf5459
    @thewolf54592 жыл бұрын

    Just finished Haidt's book after being introduced to him by this podcast. Thanks Joe Rogan for providing a platform for so many different people. His book is GREAT!

  • @bobterrwillinger4502
    @bobterrwillinger45023 жыл бұрын

    Your kid is 5 in the back seat, crying their little faces off.. The only way for them to shut the fuck up is to give them an ipad or device with their favorite cartoon or game on it... That was your first mistake parents. Now 10 years later, they're insanely addicted to their devices, cannot communicate with the world cause the only thing they know for yearrrs is their phones.. You take it away, they get depressed and crazy.. Giving your child a device is essentially starting them on heroin.. Happening to my nephew right now.. Dude is so socially awkward that as soon as he feels the slightest bit weird, he's face down in his iphone, you can scream his name and he will not even recognize you're there.. Just turned 14...

  • @betzabesuazo9784

    @betzabesuazo9784

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is currently happening with my 8 year old niece. She is an only child. Every since she got her first tablet at 3 years of age, she has been spoiled and socially awkward. When she went to her first sleepover with other girls her age, she was already wanting to give up socializing with them and wanted her iPad. I saw this happen as I was a chaperone for the girls. Even now in the pandemic, my niece is struggling with online school because all she wants to do is be on her iPad!

  • @ryanm7263
    @ryanm72635 жыл бұрын

    The day I abandoned all my social media accounts, my mental health started to improve dramatically.

  • @mommasboy34

    @mommasboy34

    5 жыл бұрын

    What about KZread?

  • @gideonMorrison

    @gideonMorrison

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@mommasboy34 not social media

  • @mommasboy34

    @mommasboy34

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@gideonMorrison Well we are being social and watching media so..

  • @gideonMorrison

    @gideonMorrison

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@mommasboy34 learn your definitions kid

  • @mommasboy34

    @mommasboy34

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@gideonMorrison if you think to KZread isn't social media then you're deluded

  • @veggiesaremurder
    @veggiesaremurder4 жыл бұрын

    Every time I've deleted my social media accounts, I've felt immediately better. Why did I ever get back on? Pressure from family and friends, and also, the feeling of missing out. I was born in 1988 and have had depression and anxiety for years, but ever since social media, my depression has skyrocketed. This just reinforces my belief that social media is doing nothing good for our social lives.

  • @pingu3984

    @pingu3984

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah this is 1000% true. I deleted everything except email and it's made such a noticeable difference. They know what your email and phone number are... People who want to contact you will make the effort to.

  • @CarpeDiem431

    @CarpeDiem431

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jennifer Carter same! I love it. I guess I’m lucky in that the people I care about accept it and don’t encourage me to use social media.

  • @JG-ce6op

    @JG-ce6op

    4 жыл бұрын

    Its social life poison. I got rid of snapchat and I'm so much better off. It was becoming a distraction.

  • @mikehunt5134

    @mikehunt5134

    4 жыл бұрын

    I hope you're okay, ur very smart for doing that! we're all loved

  • @lionelhutz5137

    @lionelhutz5137

    4 жыл бұрын

    It also makes us (normal people) more aware of our flaws and imperfections and it really sucks lol. We're constantly exposed to people and celebrities (and our friends as well) that are better than us in every way (looks, money, overall quality of life etc.) and we're comparing ourselves to them. For me, personally, I've never let other people (other than authorities, employers, teachers etc.) set the standards for me, I'm far from perfect and I know it so if I don't jibe with you then that's cool..just move on. Life is way too short to constantly give fucks about what others think of you, the sooner you accept this the better.

  • @Posijax
    @Posijax2 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant discussion... Keep em coming Mr. Rogan 👌

  • @joes2133
    @joes21333 жыл бұрын

    As someone who is 18 and grew up during all of this, My parents tried to keep me off social media until high school, I hated that rule back in middle school but now I respect my parents greatly for it. I do have to say though it is very hard being the only one not on those sites during middle school, people gave me so much shit for it lol, but looking back I can definitely see how harmful it is for kids at that age.

  • @Pocko213
    @Pocko2134 жыл бұрын

    This is pure gold. I was overly protected by my mum when I was a teenager. I became depressed and sad, I suffered from social anxiety and had no friends. To give you an example she made my bed until I was 19 years old... It wasnt until i started doing things for myself and creating goals that i started to become confident, make friends and enjoy life more. Now me and my mum are much closer and she is happier now thay she isnt worrying about me all the time.

  • @iliveinsideyourhouse3943

    @iliveinsideyourhouse3943

    3 жыл бұрын

    I had to do a lots of things by myself as a teenager (cook, wash my own clothes, clean the house,etc) but one thing I never properly do is socializing and it's gives me social anxiety.

  • @tangerinetech5300

    @tangerinetech5300

    3 жыл бұрын

    this fuck is really complaining that he had someone make his bed for 19 straight years. adults call that free maid service.

  • @RwandaBob
    @RwandaBob5 жыл бұрын

    im gen z and i totally agree with this. i wont make the same mistake my parents did by letting me have social media at a young age

  • @seantheguy

    @seantheguy

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, power to ya!!! ima beat the fuck outta my kids.

  • @omgeoh

    @omgeoh

    5 жыл бұрын

    To be fair, I doubt they're aware of this. I doubt many ppl are aware of any of this information.

  • @omgeoh

    @omgeoh

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sean Bogen agreed, puppies > kids.

  • @DannyGadish

    @DannyGadish

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@omgeoh yup. german shepherds are fucking angels

  • @SirAuronthehonorable

    @SirAuronthehonorable

    5 жыл бұрын

    “Letting you” I think you mean: I’ll make my sure my kids won’t go behind my back like I did to my parents.

  • @mikecox973
    @mikecox973 Жыл бұрын

    I was an extremely sheltered child and my parents were very overprotective. For example, I wasn’t allowed to touch an oven or stove until I was 15 and whenever I wanted to go out with friends or even walk to the nearby store, it was always a big deal. My parents always tried to monitor me wherever I went and now I never feel confident in doing everyday things that my peers can do with ease. Such as starting a conversation (I was isolated most of my life), driving, cooking, and shopping. It is important to allow your kid to experience things on their own so they can build confidence in their own abilities and be less prone to anxiety. Monitoring is ok when they’re young but should be decreased as they get older and become more independent.

  • @SAMOANSTALLION1
    @SAMOANSTALLION12 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this info Much appreciated

  • @loni1932
    @loni19324 жыл бұрын

    School and social media gave me anxiety, depression, and body dysmorphia.

  • @BR-re7oz

    @BR-re7oz

    4 жыл бұрын

    Shut up you fat ugly bitch.

  • @greyscaleb1537

    @greyscaleb1537

    4 жыл бұрын

    Walter

  • @jxx7242

    @jxx7242

    4 жыл бұрын

    No it was you who gave yourself anxiety and depression and body dysmorphia

  • @loni1932

    @loni1932

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@BR-re7oz i just looked at the comment section and im laughing my ass off thanx doode 😭

  • @robertovaldez1730

    @robertovaldez1730

    4 жыл бұрын

    Fuckin pussy ass stop being a BITCH!!

  • @herbertt.viking1449
    @herbertt.viking14494 жыл бұрын

    I miss the days when it was just the DS that made you cool EDIT: I love how even months after making this comment people are still keeping it alive and reminiscing together lol

  • @adamgillespie3393

    @adamgillespie3393

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm just old enough to remember a time where some of us had phones at 10 but the cooler kids had a DS. It was nice

  • @2quick614

    @2quick614

    3 жыл бұрын

    Or owning a PSP in 04-09 was cool, also the PSP Go was nice. Always wanted a PSP Go, just had a PSP-2000 though

  • @schechter01

    @schechter01

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hell, I miss the days when phones had cords & you had to go somewhere that had a phone in order to use one....sometimes you had to pay for it, too.

  • @mikeexits

    @mikeexits

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@adamgillespie3393 Oh man, and when the DSi first came out, I felt like I was on the cutting edge of technology and gaming in my summer camp, lol.

  • @jesuslovesyou7130

    @jesuslovesyou7130

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me toon😢

  • @anthologyofinterest1
    @anthologyofinterest13 жыл бұрын

    Leaving social media in my mid 20s devastated my personal life - making new friends/dating became infinitely more difficult. Even now in my mid 30s there's still pressure to just get on instagram and be normal but it's nice to see stuff like this clip and the social dilemma. hopefully now people are coming around to how rotten the concept has gotten.

  • @OwlOfNivica
    @OwlOfNivica Жыл бұрын

    Clear, concise, and brought tons of data. One of the best guests I’ve ever heard on JRE.

  • @lexstacks6944
    @lexstacks69445 жыл бұрын

    You'll be a better person by getting rid of your social media..

  • @Runny117

    @Runny117

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@joere-uploader5766 not when I come on here anonymously to watch music videos and podcasts, etc. not the same thing even in the slightest.

  • @Runny117

    @Runny117

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@joere-uploader5766 This is different brah. I dont have my social identity on here. You don't know me. I dont know you. Oh yes I do, i wait in your damned lines all the time DMV. everyone hates you, DMV

  • @Runny117

    @Runny117

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@joere-uploader5766 never said I didn't broham.

  • @angelaz6287

    @angelaz6287

    4 жыл бұрын

    I really didn’t want to get rid of Instagram bc I find cool and fun things but was just super tired of looking at posts from ppl that I knew. So I just es deleted and started following celebrities and memes and not really people that I know. Now it’s fun for me. And for fb I only clean it out by removing ppl I find annoying or don’t know. I mean fb is one of my main sources of news and entertainment. So, so far so good ☺️

  • @callanc3925

    @callanc3925

    4 жыл бұрын

    @jordan summers I'd say anyone that judges your decision to not be on social media, isnt someone whos opinion should ever matter to you.

  • @janelle9652
    @janelle96524 жыл бұрын

    as a 16 year old girl, high beauty standards on social media is a hugggeee part of it, its usually not cyber bullying at all anymore

  • @TonyNaber

    @TonyNaber

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Ricky Madrigal Yes, and add to that the excess boast of wealth and sexual activity. I scroll past the garbage these days, but I can see the damage it did to me when I was a teen

  • @justanothernguyen2334

    @justanothernguyen2334

    3 жыл бұрын

    The fuck you watching joe rogan, kid? Go out hiking or something.

  • @Matty94

    @Matty94

    3 жыл бұрын

    Girls without make-up and all the other bs is much more valuable in my eyes.

  • @Matty94

    @Matty94

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@norman6898 Yea it is scary how young men do this, whilst ignoring the long term damage

  • @4o8.am.85

    @4o8.am.85

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@justanothernguyen2334 dumbest shit I’ve ever heard😹

  • @re_i_gn
    @re_i_gn3 жыл бұрын

    I'm a guy and I could clearly trace back the very start of my bouts of depression to around 2015, when social pressure from highschool friends (mainly on social media) led to the worsening of my social anxiety. I ultimately decided to ghost them and abandoned all interactions in my social media accounts apart from KZread, but the depression never fully left and I still suffer from suicidal thoughts to this day.

  • @russelljconquerslifehawkey
    @russelljconquerslifehawkey2 жыл бұрын

    3 years later nothing has got better

  • @cantina2425
    @cantina24254 жыл бұрын

    deleted all my social media months ago for many reasons and i’m living the best life

  • @goliathtigerfishes

    @goliathtigerfishes

    4 жыл бұрын

    How has it been going? Any significant lifestyle change? I am considering getting rid of certain social media’s for my minds sake.

  • @shrug8690

    @shrug8690

    4 жыл бұрын

    Anonymous Sinner do it. It’s like trying to stop smoking, but it’s doable. And the health benefits outweigh the... connection/scrolling dopamine’s. So far it’s just Facebook and a tad bit of Instagram for business purposes to get through the day. Everything else is up to me, and frankly, it’s been pretty amazing. It’s lonesome, but it’s better than scrolling for hours and wasting energy that will better your life.

  • @ediz5306

    @ediz5306

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bruh you on KZread

  • @shane2064

    @shane2064

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ediz5306 this is true, and its still addictive, but I would think its better then others because its harder to communicate.

  • @nickd2296

    @nickd2296

    3 жыл бұрын

    I just deleted twitter. I barely use snap, insta, and facebook.

  • @trashmike7642
    @trashmike76425 жыл бұрын

    *Shows Joe a graph* "It looks like a bmx ramp"

  • @MichaellaSapphire
    @MichaellaSapphire2 жыл бұрын

    Within my own extended family, I see how my young cousins whom I've known since they were babies (they were born in 2008-2010s), become reclusive & withdrawn not long after their parents give them their phones. And at this day and age of online learning, almost every kid from 7 years of age onwards has their own phone. Just last Christmas, I observed that it takes them at least 2 hours to finally get off their phone, look up, loosen up and laugh & socialise with their peers like normal kids. It's so sad. The spark of life and joy that kids naturally have is dimmed by social media..

  • @your-username-here2308

    @your-username-here2308

    Жыл бұрын

    Or maybe because they dont have to like everyone of there peers, and rather want to socilise with someone else. Or to directly assume that ""Spark and Joy"" are removed. ""I want that everyone has the same Childhood as me.""

  • @petrri323
    @petrri3232 жыл бұрын

    "We can't have teenagers with interrupted sleep." I'm pretty sure school itself does a good enough job of that on its own.

  • @suchastrangegirl36

    @suchastrangegirl36

    2 жыл бұрын

    Furreal, especially if you have an EARLY arrival time man

  • @ANDROMEDA-xq9yc
    @ANDROMEDA-xq9yc4 жыл бұрын

    I think "Girls make themselves miserable and boys make other people miserable" is now my favorite quote from this podcast

  • @destroyermaker

    @destroyermaker

    3 жыл бұрын

    Meh, everyone makes everyone miserable

  • @platinumbrick6

    @platinumbrick6

    3 жыл бұрын

    destroyermaker nah it sounds like you make everyone miserable

  • @destroyermaker

    @destroyermaker

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@platinumbrick6 Nah

  • @ANDROMEDA-xq9yc

    @ANDROMEDA-xq9yc

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@destroyermaker nah

  • @platinumbrick6

    @platinumbrick6

    3 жыл бұрын

    destroyermaker yeah definitely 😂 get a haircut buddy

  • @OneWhoDreamsAwake
    @OneWhoDreamsAwake5 жыл бұрын

    I was born in 1993 so I watched this happen. Additionally, I’m a teacher, so I see it everyday. Kids are in trouble right now. I don’t know if we can reverse the damage but I’m so glad people are talking about solutions.

  • @ramusdoyle5899

    @ramusdoyle5899

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same 1993. I'm so fucking confused on everything

  • @Em-ss4lg

    @Em-ss4lg

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm a 93'er and a teacher as well and I completely agree...it's very sad seeing kids like this these days.

  • @johnnymichael1804

    @johnnymichael1804

    4 жыл бұрын

    Get the Marxists out of the goddamn schools and stop subsidizing psychotic teachings. They are ruining the entire Western World under the guise of progress.

  • @watermelonboi5829

    @watermelonboi5829

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m reporting you for voicing your opinion on social media hope you can find a new job lol

  • @jimdandy8996

    @jimdandy8996

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nature vs, nurture - since its unlikely genetic then its likely a wave of mass crappy parenting.

  • @ryanfoster2869
    @ryanfoster2869 Жыл бұрын

    He's right about the bullying fizzing out in highschool. When I graduated to highschool it was so comforting to just disappear into the student body and not be noticed.

  • @jordanowens6253
    @jordanowens62533 жыл бұрын

    That bit towards the end when Joe calls out homeboy 👍

  • @pink-qx9ye
    @pink-qx9ye5 жыл бұрын

    That Joe guy should start his own podcast

  • @johnny3625

    @johnny3625

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m almost sure he has one

  • @suboopc640

    @suboopc640

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@johnny3625 r/whooosh

  • @ChandlerTingle

    @ChandlerTingle

    4 жыл бұрын

    Johnn y rwooooosh

  • @trento9891

    @trento9891

    4 жыл бұрын

    Who's joe

  • @gibsondanny

    @gibsondanny

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@trento9891 Dunno, But it sounds like someone who might like DMT

  • @finlayansell-jones2013
    @finlayansell-jones20135 жыл бұрын

    Joe "my kids stick forks into power outlets" Rogan

  • @AxxLAfriku

    @AxxLAfriku

    5 жыл бұрын

    Let me get this straight: You comment something that is unrelated to the fact that I have two DANGEROUSLY beautiful girlfriends? Considering that I am the unprettiest KZreadr ever, having two hot girlfriends is really incredible. Yet you did not mention that at all. I am quite disappointed, dear FAJ

  • @Mc-Derpulous

    @Mc-Derpulous

    5 жыл бұрын

    Fa "i make dumb ass fucking posts everyone else does" j

  • @JohnStockton7459

    @JohnStockton7459

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yea that was headasa comment he made, who the fuck has outletts in 2019?? I litteraly have wireless extension cords

  • @HL-iw1du

    @HL-iw1du

    5 жыл бұрын

    Custom Fire lots of people still have outlets

  • @MysterySchool33

    @MysterySchool33

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@AxxLAfriku My super hot girlfriend and my wife are best friends, True story

  • @avzeolla3960
    @avzeolla3960 Жыл бұрын

    This guy is spot on. I have 2 teenage girls and any time they had issues with the their friends was over social media.

  • @richardkellberg9181
    @richardkellberg91813 жыл бұрын

    I was born in 1987, we used to ride our bikes to the park and play baseball and basketball and just hang out with all our classmates and friends, it was great, I'm thankful for that. The only thing that mattered to me and the kids around the neighborhood was having fun. Without the phones the only thing to do when we were together was hang out with all the people who were there at the time. It sounds like a fairy tale now but it was really like that in the 90s, great memories. Now its like the image a person projects and the actual person are two different things, its been almost one year since I've been on social media except youtube and my life is seriously better. Except all my friends are bitter I don't acknowledge on Facebook when they have kids and get married and get new jobs and have birthdays lol, but I've been slowly getting it in to their heads I'm off social media

  • @TenThumbsProductions
    @TenThumbsProductions5 жыл бұрын

    This dude! Dropping good stuff.

  • @safir2241

    @safir2241

    5 жыл бұрын

    Oh shit you’re here!

  • @therealdanieldavis
    @therealdanieldavis4 жыл бұрын

    I'm 22 years old and I see my 50 year old aunts with anxiety cuz of it.

  • @halalguts6331
    @halalguts63313 жыл бұрын

    I was having lunch and my aunt sitting next to my mother on the other side of me on the table, called my older sister the "youngest sibling". She had a quick look and corrected herself, and then validated my existence by correcting herself. I was so consumed and distracted by social media that once I deleted the apps, only then I realised how anti-social I was. But even before that, I wasn't using social media that much... And I don't want to point the finger and blame her for not remembering me, but damn, it keeps hitting harder when my dad calls me by my older brother's name all the time (partly because he's getting older, but trust me it happens more than that..). Social media just socially isolates you from others whilst giving you the illusion that you're close to others.

  • @andystearman4741
    @andystearman47412 жыл бұрын

    I think being born in the range of 1990 to 1994 or so was the absolute sweet spot for growing up and learning technology while avoiding many of the downfalls of social media. Being born in 1992 I remember getting dial up Internet, I got a cell phone as a junior in high school, I got a Facebook account as a senior in high school (Instagram didn't even come out until after I graduated) and I didn't get a smart phone until junior year of college. This wasn't that even that long ago. It's amazing and sad that social media was able to poison the next generation so quickly.

  • @MrDrPrfsrSir

    @MrDrPrfsrSir

    Жыл бұрын

    I've thought this as well, I was born in 1998 and basically since the 2010s I've been some what addicted to gaming. I still get outside and work and have some what of a social life, I feel like if I were the same person just born 10 years earlier I'd be doing much better off for myself

  • @evanvincent9356
    @evanvincent93563 жыл бұрын

    This is incredibly eye opening, I’m a teenager and I never wanted social media because I’m on my phone too much already and that shit is super addictive. The data shown in this video is just crazy, makes me want to have social media even less now

  • @hosamfikry2924

    @hosamfikry2924

    Жыл бұрын

    You're on the right track brother

  • @marinecombatvet2669

    @marinecombatvet2669

    Жыл бұрын

    You're already past the first step young man. You give me inspiration for your generation. The next step is harder though, but you can do it. Test yourself, challenge yourself. Go without it all for one month. Just ONE month. Afterwards, you can decide what you feel you've been missing and go back, but you won't. You'll realize the actual value you have, even without the fake digital validation of people you probably have never even met. You'll have yourself, your true self--FOR yourself. The ones that matter won't vanish. YOU will not vanish. You are on the very right track, and just reading your comment gives me hope for the future. That doesn't happen much these days, so thank you young Sir. YOU are our future.