I knew I was in love when I desired no one else. Wow. What she said on her GMA interview. What a clear way to to define falling in love.

@janeyallen1510

3 жыл бұрын

Made me cry.....to be loved .....bless me god...im ready

@retiredivamcneary2838

3 жыл бұрын

I agree

@donella2572

3 жыл бұрын

Her response was everything!!

@bikeojomo

3 жыл бұрын

That was a very powerful response.

@VirgoMe357

3 жыл бұрын

Goosebumps...♥️💯

Queen Sugar brought me here. Ralph Angel & Darla's wedding. Beautiful song 🎵❤

@edwardherring9640

3 жыл бұрын

So beautiful indeed.

@whitbit3629

3 жыл бұрын

Same... I caught a chill when I heard it.

@ladonnataylor6893

3 жыл бұрын

Mee too! ❤️

My daughter’s dad was the only person that made me feel this way. We parted, but I knew in my heart we would get re-engage and married for sure. I couldn’t imagine spending my life without a man who was strong, who taught me, who led me. When we started to rekindle our relationship, he died unexpectedly one night. Now all I have is my daughter. And although I desire a love so pure and genuine again, I have a feeling she’ll be enough for me in this lifetime.

@sisisgrowing1279

3 жыл бұрын

@Muffy at Heart I’m so sorry to hear that, your story touched me. Thank God you have a piece of him in your daughter. May God bless you and you’re daughter. I pray you experience love like that again. I pray God handpicks the perfect love for you and he catches you each and every time you fall. May he be, till the end of your days, a soft place to fall.

@carlaword159

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry! Thank you for your transparency. You deserve the love that you desire. Never stop believing that it can happen!

@marissarichards1743

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing ur heart ❤...

@overmattermind22

3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful

@Pursuepeace0715

3 жыл бұрын

so sorry for your lose but you got to experience what so many people spend a life time searching for and some of us never do. So happy that you got to experience that kind of genuine true love.

I just heard this on Queen Sugar as Ralph Angel and Darla got married now I wanna get married off this song. Absolutely the most beautiful song I've heard in a long time

@adriannec.4996

3 жыл бұрын

Same here. Had to Shazam it and I’m hooked!

@chenillegaines6

2 жыл бұрын

Yes me too...this is an amazing song I just cried my eyes out I wish you both more peace and love

@miadubose9339

2 жыл бұрын

YAAAAS! That’s why i’m here. Heard it on Queen Sugar and fell in live with it

I’ve never been loved like this and I Have been widowed twice and divorced my third husband and my age is against me now but I asked God was I born not be loved like this? I cry from even the thought ❤of actually being loved like this! 💕

This really is a beautiful song. Push all your bias thoughts aside. Close your eyes. Then just listen to the lyrics, love, and heart. 👍🏾

@amablackacre1543

2 жыл бұрын

That’s how they get you: by asking you to ignore the truth………….

@barbc.3093

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely right! Love is Love ❤❤❤❤

@donnbarricklow1600

Жыл бұрын

Very well stated.

@patriceclarke

11 ай бұрын

Nothing bias here. The song and the video is simply breathtaking ❤. I loved it. Jessica is gorgeous and very romantic.

@bosslady1188

19 күн бұрын

Agree

This needs to be released in ALL FORMATS! VINYL! & CD! and beyond!!!

@TriciaRP

Жыл бұрын

It is not that great and these people are spiritually dead and Ignorant. Why would a lady sing to another lady asking her to catch me. So America is dead and don't know right from wrong Now?.

Who else was brought here from their gma interview? This song is so beautiful 🥰🎶

@chepkoecheddith

3 жыл бұрын

Me... So beautiful

@MoDavI-sl7iy

3 жыл бұрын

🙋🏾‍♀️

@lisaallen1188

3 жыл бұрын

Me too lol

@baxcovatvbaaxcovatv8634

3 жыл бұрын

Me

@lisabattle-chalmers9199

3 жыл бұрын

🙋‍♀️ and glad I did the song is beautiful

😭😭😭😭. If only we all could experience such a love so pure. BEAUTIFUL.

@lizwatson5363

3 жыл бұрын

True

@jeremiahtray5621

3 жыл бұрын

Fake love

@jeremiahtray5621

3 жыл бұрын

@classyt20f7 Exactly that's like people who have sex outside of marriage.

@jeremiahtray5621

3 жыл бұрын

@linkclicker Maybe you should read a Bible before commenting lost delusional one.

@latoyabrown9324

3 жыл бұрын

@classyt20f7 Amen🙏🏽❤

Finally a great song to walk down the aisle to.

@lizwatson5363

3 жыл бұрын

Yes it is beautiful🙌

@AGENT-dl2lu

3 жыл бұрын

Yesssss

@Zoning_Out

3 жыл бұрын

Yes it is...

@annawoo409

3 жыл бұрын

YES IT IS SO BEAUTIFUL 🥰🥰🥰🥰 TO WALK ON YES ONE DAY, ONE YEAR, IT'S FA US ALL SUMONE WILL CATCH US🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️♥️♥️💙💙🖤🖤 BLK LOVE🖤🖤🖤🖤

@MzCrystal-7

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

I'm sitting here in the CCU with my husband and just happened to find this beautiful song. Yesterday through his pain, he reached his hand out and I asked him what did he need. He didn't say anything, he just took my hand as if that was all he wanted. And to answer the question in the song, yes,I will catch him no matter what.

@ashleighgeorge7598

Жыл бұрын

🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

@shariffbrown04

8 ай бұрын

🙏 ❤❤❤

It's Niecy tearing up in the beginning for me. I was in tears too 😢

Holy crap, home-girl can SANG!!!!!!!!! She’s so handsome 💜

@sweetdarness78

3 жыл бұрын

Hell yasss!!! Jess can sing. I started following her years ago on Liveme.com I'm happy that she found REAL, TRUE love. Blissful happiness

@noquestion2012

3 жыл бұрын

Stop it! With the handsome part

@aadyae

3 жыл бұрын

Very handsome. I love this person's soul. Well said!!!!

@vikeyshamurray7553

3 жыл бұрын

@@noquestion2012 okay

@angelpaschall4378

3 жыл бұрын

JJ Blade right

I been playing this for 2 days and crying ....most beautiful thing ive heard in a long time....

@teresapetties5815

9 ай бұрын

I know how u feel I just be glad when that man can come in my life and make me feel this way and bring me everlasting joy until God comes for me.I love u niecy and I pray God showers u with eternal love.❤❤

Im 40 and I've never felt this way about any1 man nor women but I can spend a lifetime with my daughter she bring my spirit joy being her mom its the only thing I'm good at.

@christinamills1170

3 жыл бұрын

Wow! I felt that in my spirit. You put into words a feeling that I’ve had since I had my daughter 30 years ago. Thank you

@vendorlistsource603

3 жыл бұрын

Wow! I can relate

@vendorlistsource603

3 жыл бұрын

@@christinamills1170 me also

@lcest3253

3 жыл бұрын

Sista 40 is magical... 5 years ago I met and married my husband 6 months after we met (people called me crazy / family too) 💕 the only love that I truly knew up until then was my 2 children...when he sleeps at night it still amazes me how he “caught me” when I least expected... keep loving that baby girl... too many little brown girls miss getting what she has which a beautiful queen that loves her like u do 💕💕💕💕 Praying you get “caught too”

@alyciacooper2

3 жыл бұрын

Your true intimate love is on the way. I found mine after 40.

This is one of the prettiest songs I ever heard

I started crying at the first note after watching the GMA interview......wow just wow.

I knew I was in love when I desired no one else. That response on GMA was powerful. I had to come here to hear the full lyrics of the song.

Thanks to your wife’s instagram post, I found this song last night! I have listened to this song at least 50 times already. It resonates with my entire being! Thank you for sharing your gift with the world!

I think we all just want someone to sing to us like this... beautiful . I love this song and I love them .

I heard a glimpse of your song on GMA and I had to come to KZread.... I am in AWE of the true beauty of the words and I am such a fan of N.N. This is phenomenal.. truly an union of two souls.. blessings to your marriage, your song, and your success!

@jennifermartinez2834

3 жыл бұрын

Me too 🤗😊

@stacyfrederick4357

3 жыл бұрын

Me too! All the best!

@anneball4288

3 жыл бұрын

I saw it same as described and the music and the story is beautiful ! I love how you both described your love and relationship.... makes sooooo much sense! God wants us all to love one another! I sure will be looking for many more meaningful songs as your love blooms and you put it to more beautiful words and music! Congratulations!

@YapizGal

3 жыл бұрын

SAME HERE. Straight from GMA haha

@jeannetteclark7161

Жыл бұрын

The words penatrate the heart

Don't know why but this video reminds me of Whitney Houston and how I wish she was able to be her authentic self. Proud of both you Jessica and Neicy. Beautiful song and I wish you the best life has to offer

@f-luva-luva

3 жыл бұрын

Your comment about Whitney is powerful. I've often wondered would she still be here if she felt comfortable enough to live in her truth...

@reneedean1532

3 жыл бұрын

@@f-luva-luva I think she would still be here. I feel as if the drugs were a coping meganism and choosing Bobby Brown as a husband was rebellion. Not saying anything bad about him but he was the opposite of what her parents wanted for her. He happened to be there at the right moment. I guess I explained that ok🤣🤣

@f-luva-luva

3 жыл бұрын

@@reneedean1532 You did sista! 😊

@mariajones9102

3 жыл бұрын

@@f-luva-luva Being raised in the church, dealing with Bobby and Cissy, that period of Whitney’s life must have been traumatizing. I’ve thought about her possibly being able to live her truth, but Whitney would have caught pure hell from all sides.

@wTrevorh

3 жыл бұрын

Nothing or no one stood in Whitney’s way to an “authentic.” Whitney made her OWN decisions.

Such a beautiful voice and a beautiful song she definitely has a strong and beautiful voice so happy for these two 😍

Oooo you can just feel ALL of the raw emotions when they're speaking to each other. Got me over here tearing up 😅😅. Love this!!!

With everything that is going on in the world today, and my fiancee recovering from co-vid... This song bought tears to my eyes the first time I heard it!! Powerful!!

@louellarobertson8074

3 жыл бұрын

Praying for a full recovery for your fiance...God Bless you both

@fatimahjeanbatard1942

3 жыл бұрын

I'm listening to it now and I'm in 😢 tears.

@MzKitteen32

3 жыл бұрын

Sending you and your fiance prayers 🙏!

@charondaclayton6365

3 жыл бұрын

I'm listening to the song n I'm crying I am so happy for them.

@jeannetteclark7161

Жыл бұрын

Yes

absolutely the best love song of our times!!!! Thank you, Jessica and Niecy for sharing your love with us this morning on GMA! Shout out to Robin Roberts for conducting an excellent interview!

You are magical. The most beautiful voice and a song that makes me cry..Thank you Jessica Betts…you are a glorious talent🙏🏽

Absolutely a beautiful song. Thank you god for love. I'm still waiting on my true love ❤❤❤

Ok ok ok, let's go!!!! I fell in love with this song the first time I heard it. Loving real deep love music 💖💖♥️

@PureRomance412

3 жыл бұрын

This video is sooooo soulful and full of love! Congrats!!!

@cakelady834

3 жыл бұрын

@@PureRomance412 agreed!! It's a beautiful song, deep and soulful, made with real feelings. 💖♥️

This song will blow your mind!!! Excellent in everyway. Hopefully I will hear more from Jessica Betts.

Her voice is just amazing Love is kind, love doesn’t hurt, love is magical I wish them the best!!!!

@jeannetteclark7161

Жыл бұрын

Yes

Beautiful beautiful song I completely feel her with this song 💖 way to go Jessica. May God continue to bless you and yours 🙏🙏 my sista

the vows said before n after the song were a perfect touch. The song, the couple, the luv...is just Awesome!!

This is going to be my second and last wedding song. I just met a man who caught me and wants me to be his wife. This is so beautiful. Blessings to your marriage. Thank you soon much.

@seasoned.sunflowers381

3 жыл бұрын

NIGHTINGALE AWW CONGRATS 🥰

@CC-kp7wp

3 жыл бұрын

Mine too🤣🌈💜

@notbroku9528

3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations 🥳🙏

This is what love, happiness and peace is supposed to look like. I cried and smiled watching this amazing love story. Catch Me and Pour into Me! God bless you both. Beautiful love story. Jessica your voice is Angelic!!!!!

@jeremiahtray5621

3 жыл бұрын

Which God?

@aadyae

3 жыл бұрын

@@jeremiahtray5621 Jeremiah can you explain your question please

@jeremiahtray5621

3 жыл бұрын

@@aadyae Can you read?

@aadyae

3 жыл бұрын

@@jeremiahtray5621 oh wow. We're done. You are "that" angry man. Disrespect was not needed

@jeremiahtray5621

3 жыл бұрын

@@aadyae So what your point of telling me you're angry. Truth will do that to you. Get over it.

I pray my two children get this lucky in love loving differently.. they deserve it... congratulations you two and song is beautiful 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞your video touches my soul 💕💕💕💕💕💕

The love between you two is evident....thank you for sharing and blessings for a lifetime of love!

Saw you guys this morning on good morning America and couldn’t wait to hear the full version of this song. It’s just beautiful. Congratulations guys! Wishing you all the love ❤️ & happiness. That was just beautiful.

🤲🏾 When you stop looking at appearance and look at the heart, love the spirit of a human being...

@TriciaRP

2 жыл бұрын

Some have wicked evil spirits and this is one. God HAS NOT GIVEN US A SPIRIT OF FEAR BUT OF LOVE POWER and a SOUND, SOUND MIND......this is NOT A SOUND MIND. It is totally against God and nature.

This song is amazingly beautiful, you have to listen to the words, gives me chills! ♥️ amazing congratulations Jessica and Niecy♥️💯 pure love god bless both of you!

@jeannetteclark7161

Жыл бұрын

Wow

I can’t believe I’m just finding out today (I apparently live under a rock) that you have found your soulmate! I’m so happy for you both! I knew from the day I came across you on a silly ⭐️ live app that you were bound for great things. I’ve loved this song from its release and now the lyrics come to fruition with this latest news. I wish you all the happiness in the world.

@jeannetteclark7161

Жыл бұрын

So happy

I'm here for it all..

I'm speechless!!!!!!! Will you catch me..... #loveislove congratulations Neicy and Jessica

What a beautiful song for a beautiful setting...oh my goodness

It was truly a good morning America, after watching Jessica & Niecy's appearance on GMA, and Jessica this song embodies my thirty years of Love for my wife, and I know s she feels the same way for me. Beautiful song, as the two of you are together.

@madeinmichiganinthe60s59

3 жыл бұрын

That is so sweet Aaron!! May you and your wife be blessed with 30 more.....

@erikahargis141

2 жыл бұрын

Not

@jeannetteclark7161

Жыл бұрын

Yes

This is such a pure expression of love. Amazing

This is such a beautiful song! Heard it over a year ago and it’s now one of my all time favorites! The guitar is so haunting in some places! Tugs at the heart strings!

@jeannetteclark7161

Жыл бұрын

Awesome

Beautiful song. Love is love. I love JB & Niecy's love for one another. I wish them a lifetime of happiness ❤

Beautiful story and video!! Love is LOVE. 🌈🌈💖♥️. Keep each other close and love each other. Life is short. Happy you both found your happy ending.🌈💖♥️

Oh my!! Was watching Good morning America and had to hear the entire song!! Beautiful Song!! Blessing upon your journey together!!

@dnyce6989

3 жыл бұрын

Ha! Me too!!

Really lovely song!!!! Great wedding song!

Wow this was classically beautiful. The music industry doesn't push this kind of music anymore. I almost forgot what it sounded like and how wonder it can make you feel. I bursted into tears, once I saw the pure joy and light in Niecy's eyes and smile 3:07. If anyone is more deserving of happiness, it's Niecy B.

I'm waiting! Jessica has such a unique voice that's full of soul and authenticity. I love her music. She deserves to be known all over. Much better than these artists in the media today 💗Such a beautiful person.......

@marlo1977w

3 жыл бұрын

Love looks so amazing on you two😍😍😍

@LeshaB

3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree

@Mrs-kk9dm

3 жыл бұрын

Just made me fall more in Love in myself ❤️ and my Marriage to my husband. ❤️🥰

@veronicawatson2525

3 жыл бұрын

I agree

@mek2173

3 жыл бұрын

Say Word

Congrats to the both of you. Jessica your voice is smooth as butter.I love every song on your page.I sent the link to my daughter right away when I heard the clip on GMA. And she loved it to. She said it was beautiful.

So beautiful as always. 👰🏽👰🏽👰🏽

The lyrics to this song are so deep. When you almost lost hope in love and giving your heart to another, someone special comes along and makes you desire to love again. He or she makes you feel safe to love. One day this will be me. Love me some Betts❤️

I've loved her since her "why me" song on Road to Stardom

@kiap44

3 жыл бұрын

Real fans know!!!

@shadowboifire

3 жыл бұрын

I'm with u on this one

@mek2173

3 жыл бұрын

That part

@dy2439

3 жыл бұрын

Yep. This song is a few years old but yet so beautiful.....timeless

@taylorsara1237

3 жыл бұрын

Me too!! I fell in love with her voice!!! Love ot

I don’t recall the last time I watched a music video that made me feel so peaceful 🥰☮️. Congratulations Queens💕

LOVE!!! Sweet,pure,unconditional!!!!💞💞💞💞💞💞

Beautiful! Congratulations to you both! 🥰🥰🥰

When love hits the center of your soul, this is what it sounds like. Thank the almighty that you both caught one another. It's a beautiful thing. Blessings always! Jessica, your voice is amazing.

@jeremiahtray5621

3 жыл бұрын

What blessing

@TriciaRP

2 жыл бұрын

@@jeremiahtray5621 IKR........people are serving another Almighty and GOD LORD CATCH THEM BLACK balloons %/!

I have never heard of this individual until. Niece nash. WTF. SHE HAS ME IN TEARS , I'M SOLD . HER MUSIC SPEAKS TO EVERY PART , OF A BROKEN, INDIVIDUAL, AND FEEDS YOU A SMILE AT THE SAME TIME , LETTING YOU KNOW ITS NOT OVER UNTIL GOD SAYS IT IS .. NIECEY, THANK YOU..

God Bless you Jess I am so excited and happy for be you and Niecy... I was taken back with great joy when I saw you on TV announcing Your newly beautiful wed love. Congratulations to you both!!! Sending you guys much love and blessings💯💃🏾💋.

So beautiful. Congratulations again y'all. 🥂🥳🥳🥳🥳🖤🖤

Omg this song is so beautiful and heart felt. I told my boyfriend that this has to be on our wedding playlist. Congratulations Neicy and Jessica!!! You two make a beautiful couple!!

When something so beautiful and pure brings you to tears. It's magic. You guys deserve the world and more. Here's to many years to come!!

This is simply beautiful!!! The words.......

I'm partial and I'm jealous🙃no, really, this is fabulous. We must all face and then live our truth. It is wonderful to be authentic and free. Laughing and Singing.(and not or) Go head! Congratulations🎊🎉

This song made me cry 😢 just beautiful ❤️

Queen Sugar brought me here ❤

@blanchecollins8914

3 жыл бұрын

Me too! So beautiful!

I'd never heard of Jessica until I saw their wedding pictures! What a fantastic gift Jessica's voice is-- beautiful! Niecy looks so happy-- and it has gotta be love to do the beach in your wedding gown❤❤❤ Happiness!!

Love, Love, Love the video. It brought chills all over me. Just beautiful.

That's one of the MOST BEAUTIFUL songs I've ever heard

This is🔥. Y'all giving me life. I'm a 60 yr old Black Queen and never in all my years have I seen a more beautiful tribute to LOVE❤. I'm for klemp. I'm clutching my pearls. I love true love. Jess you take care of my girl Niecey (hope I spelled that right. Feel free to correct me...lol). God bless both of you. And God bless your union.

@lorrainemanning-turner1038

3 жыл бұрын

And may God bless you too😊

@TriciaRP

2 жыл бұрын

God don't bless and abomination. I don't KNOW what God you talking about but satan is behind this mess. Always God.....where is Satan? Right in this.. Don't blame THE ONE TRUE GOD FOR THIS......NO ma'am

This brought me to tears... I absolutely LOVED it!

I just watched QUEEN SUGAR and this song was playing at their wedding and I had to look it up to see who sing it. BEAUTIFUL SONG!!!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰

Beautiful strong voice. Amazing voice control. Love the little tremble at the end of her lines.

Queen Sugar brought me here! Darla and Ralph Angel make my heart happy! But also, I'm so happy for Nicey Nash! She deserves this love!!! Everyone does!

YOU BETTA SAAAAAAANNG JESSICA!!!! This video is SOOOOO beautiful! Congratulations you two!

This is now my walk down the aisle song!! Made me cry! So beautiful!

First, I would like to congratulate you both on your journey together! May God continue to bless you both! And I would like to congratulate you Jessica on your very "Beautiful" Song! It "Caught me"! And with the blessing of God. Maybe, One day I will find someone to "Catch Me"!

@lizwatson5363

3 жыл бұрын

Soooo true .me to

@constancereynolds3110

3 жыл бұрын

Jesus Christ is NOT apart of same sex marriage. Yes He loves the person BUT NOT THE SIN.

@kathykb8123

3 жыл бұрын

@@constancereynolds3110 Blah blah.

@TriciaRP

2 жыл бұрын

@@kathykb8123 when you stand before Him.......on judgment day make SURE YOU say blah blah. Ok?

@kathykb8123

2 жыл бұрын

@@TriciaRP I'll tell him you said hi & sorry you couldn't be here, but you're too busy judging everybody.

Oh the water's so calming

Beautiful song!🙏🏾🥰💖

Omg..this song is so beautiful..I felt this in my ❤ congrat Jessica 🌹

Just saw performance on Tamron Hall show. A beautiful song!

This is such a beautiful song. I can feel the love pouring into it. Wow

@jeannetteclark7161

Жыл бұрын

Yes

Beautiful voice....awww I don't even have words! Just beautiful 😍

I am so happy for the both of you ....we are all choosing to reconnect with that soul that has loved us through many lifetimes 🥰☘️🌈💜

This song is so beautiful. We both deserve an abundance of love more than your heart can hold. This song has me in tears. I've had it on repeat. Sending love and light to the both of you. God bless you both

@jeremiahtray5621

3 жыл бұрын

NO OFFENSE BUT I DON'T THINK GOD IS GONNA BLESS THIS.

I as well saw the GMA interview Lovely song about Love

This is my first time hearing this song. I didn't even know Jessica could sang like that. I'm so in love with this song. It brought back some good memories.

Wow..i only heard this song today and trust me I'm amazed by your voice.

This is perfection, utterly and entirely.

awww, i almost cried. the cutest couple i’ve seen this year. i’ve never been this excited for anyone being married .. not even my own family 😭💕

@user-ez3mb1qm3o

3 жыл бұрын

That’s sick. You need to get your life together

@bj77755

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-ez3mb1qm3o WHY is it sick? You feel the way you feel. Don't judge. Love is love.

@itslailamichelle

3 жыл бұрын

B if you don’t like it, move on. your wasting your time and energy to talk about something you obviously don’t care for. & please don’t reply to my stuff! love is love & i’ll support whoever finds love!

@constancereynolds3110

3 жыл бұрын

This couple won't last Niecy has tooo many issues. Marriages didn't work out with a man won't be any different with a woman.

Absolutely beautiful song…. I love them together ❤

@JessicaBettss ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰THIS SONG &. VIDEO WAS BEAUTIFUL AND OMG MRS NIECY DRESS WAS GORGEOUS I WISH BOTH OF YOU QUEEN'S MANY YEARS OF JOY. & HAPPINESS GOD BLESS YOU

Congratulations to the both of you. I just want to say this song was fire 🔥. You actually found the words to say that a lot of women are looking for but don't know how to say the right words. Thank you so much.

@jeannetteclark7161

Жыл бұрын

Love song

I feel real black love and thank God I found it again a real man in my life. I want to say congratulations to you two it's beautiful your love. Nicey is so beautiful in her gown I love this real love. Got me tearing up because somebody else who I once love thought he was going to be my husband but God sent the right man thank you for this so much guys love you two beautiful couple. Black Love🥂

@jeremiahtray5621

3 жыл бұрын

Which God?

Beautiful song and beautiful union. I love this .

Thank you, Neicy and Jessica, for being yourself it is beautiful, and it is helping me come at peace with myself