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@catlindogers6658

9 ай бұрын

So is Family or Fiance back or nah?

@courtneefox179

9 ай бұрын

😊😊😊

Well, if Jazmine’s mother would stop talking to Jazmine’s ex-boyfriend she could get to know Reggie better

@mygodisawesome6121

9 ай бұрын

Facts

@mygodisawesome6121

9 ай бұрын

That’s going to be a problem if they get married

@aboutthatlife1646

8 ай бұрын

Her mom is using the ex to manipulate the outcome, she is a master of the game. “ if you feel like I made you feel some kinda way for talking to her ex I’m sorry😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. 😂😂😂😂

@daniellepope1125

8 ай бұрын

Absolutely 💯

@Osa698

8 ай бұрын

​@@aboutthatlife1646 Did you notice how the step-dad was not even moved by the breakdown? That tells you he sees this tactic everyday. Her mom is highly manipulative and toxic. Even the most aloof parent can understand you don't take a call on mother's day from the ex with the current boyfriend and his family at the table.

This is the best episode ive ever seen. no cursing. no fighting. no screaming. no one walking out of the room. Wow! I pray God blesses their union.

Jazmin's mama gets the QUOTE OF THE WEEK "I'm releasing the child and embracing the woman" . That my friends is a mother's love.

@Nicky411

9 ай бұрын

I imagine it's a hard milestone in parenting

@jmckellor

9 ай бұрын

Yes I was here snapping my fingers lol like yesss mom poetry 😂

@artblaque5396

Ай бұрын

Amen!!

Most mature 2 families speaking without ugly fighting ❤

They are a beautiful couple. He is going to be a great husband and father and she a great wife and mother.

Loved that both his dad and her mom took accountability and showed an immediate desire to fix things and not run or deny but do the work! Beautiful episode.

Reggie’s dad can’t give him what he does not have

@NikkiRich174

9 ай бұрын

It's So Important For Hurt To Comprehend That Concept

@TwistedLyfofTV

2 ай бұрын

I have to disagree with that statement. Using myself as an example, I didn't have support, love or protection from my mother. I in turn recognized and acknowledged what I was missing by looking at things I try to justify it make excuses for it dismissed like it didn't matter because it did, and even though I didn't have that, I give my daughter all those things and in some things I overdid it until I learned to balance and currently still correcting my actions in trying to overcompensate with her things I lacked. Reggie's dad didn't make that acknowledgement. He was living in the idea it was good enough for him, even though he knows it wasn't enough, so it'll be good enough for his son. It's easy to give what you don't have when you acknowledge what's missing and make the effort to get it so it can be shared and passed down.

This was hands-down, the BEST Family or Fiancé episode that I’ve watched thus far.. Tears and smiles throughout the whole show❤❤

All that girl wanted to hear was that her mom was proud of her. Got me over here tearing up.

@haizin7321

7 күн бұрын

I agree…just didn’t like the way she shoved those tissues in her hand when she was sobbing 😭

Her mother is an attention seeker at best and a complete narcissist at worst. She acknowledged nothing her daughter said and then made it all about her indirectly. Textbook manipulation. And, that's not evening touching the reason behind her steady talking to her daughters ex. What pay-off does she get from that relationship? To spite her daughter? It's sick.

@Badhigh22

9 ай бұрын

Agreed! Completely made it about her

@s.b.5029

9 ай бұрын

Right. I can see right thru her Mom. Poor child telling her how she feels and the Mom made it about her, then cont. it right into the next day, til she had to be seen about. The Mom is draining and unable to even hear others. Ma’am you really need someone to tell you to show some type of compassion in the presence of your daughters new family & fiancé. Stoppp.

@valerieosei5312

14 күн бұрын

🎯 the brides mom irritated me so much!

That would make me feel a way if my own mother was still talking to an ex of mine and I’m in another relationship. If I broken up with him, then my family should be broken up with him as well.

@MsQueenpoppen

9 ай бұрын

Not true at all if my family member brought someone they love into my life n I began to love them as family and grow a bond with them for years then they brake up I'm not going to just up n stop talking to the person n stop loving them because they no longer n my family that's fake n the love that I had for them would be fake too and I'm definitely not a fake person now I wouldn't have them around to family events or family dinner out of respect for the family n they new relationship but I wouldn't stop talking to them or caring for them ether

@TheMrsSoto

9 ай бұрын

@@MsQueenpoppen but how would the new person feel if you was still talking to your ex though? They would think you was being disrespectful

@MsQueenpoppen

9 ай бұрын

@@TheMrsSoto it's not about them or how they feel just as long as I don't have the old person around the new person, feeling won't mean anything my brother was married and he been divorce from his wife for about two years they don't got kids together and I still talk to the ex wife n call her sister and I talk to the new girlfriend and have a relationship with her also and she don't care or mind that I still talk to the ex wife because she not insecure and she knows I wouldn't try to put my brother and his ex together or have them around each other a person can't get mad or feel no kind of way that they boyfriend/ girlfriend family still talk to or have a relationship with a ex that was there before them I wouldn't care n don't care that my mother n law still talks to my husband ex I got him it's not like he talks to her or be around her I can't stop his mom from doing what she won't to she grown they got a bound that was there before me

What the the brides mom fails to realize is really the ex boyfriend uses her to keep the connection to the daughter through her. He probably asks her how she's doing ect. He uses the mom as a possible informant. Meanwhile, because the mom's need for attention is so high, he uses that against her. He figured her out. It's toxic! She needs to quit talking to him and go heal her neediness issues.

Not Joy trying to make it about her🙄. Her response to her daughter lets me know that she definitely pressured her into feeling like she had to be perfect. Shes not crying because she hurt her daughter, shes upset and fake crying because shes not the perfect mom she thought she was.

@priscillamensah1000

9 ай бұрын

💯💯💯

@terricastaples852

2 ай бұрын

Narcissistic Woman

@LoveLyriks

29 күн бұрын

How you get this and she took accountability, apologized, and reassured her daughter??? You either are not a parent and don't understand the pain of letting a child down, or you really really need to heal from your own situation that you just projected all of that on that woman.

@angeliqueanderson1484

20 күн бұрын

I don’t think she was faking at all. As a parent who adopted due to fertility issues, there are fears that plague us everyday of how our children will view us or even to make sure we didn’t make them feel different within the family dynamics since they are not biologically ours. And just being a parent period, you want to make sure your children feel wanted, not abandoned and that you did a good job raising them.

@Moonchild_est1987

20 күн бұрын

@@LoveLyriks lol... ok🙄.

"Going to college was my escape" i relate so much to that statement

THISSSSS IS WHAT MARRIAGE IS!!! Therapy, growth, and healing!! This is sooooo Beautiful!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I wish this couple the MOST BEAUTIFUL union ever!!😊😊

Beautiful. Thank you Ms Mcmillan. For helping all our black families be tetter together.

The god-brother is a breath of fresh air.

The moment between jasmine and her mother was so touching and beautiful🥹🫶🏾

This is the BEST episode I've watched!! The growth is amazing in such a short period of time. I'm happy to see how open-minded and positive their parents are because that's rare. I laughed and cried. Lol.. This was therapeutic. I pray all families heal and communicate with love and positivity just like this family.

Terry is in denial about the harm is incarceration and lifestyle, however former it may be, has caused and is causing. Also, when Joy said, "I'm sorry if you feel that way," I screamed. This episode highlights unchecked trauma on the part of the parents/elders and their refusal to see how their actions, however unintentional those actions may have been, continues to create. WHEW! Keep going beyond your parents' limitations, Jazmine and Reggie. They did the best they could w/ what they had and either they'll admit that their best caused harm and everyone collectively heal, or not.

This was a really good episode. This family will be alright. Especially with them being open to healing.

U can tell Jaz knws her mom is full of it. Her face said a lot whn the lady says she's having a hard time. It gave "she alwys does this"🙄

Mama is giving attention seeking. I wasn’t buying all of the crying.

@keylacmckemp1309

9 ай бұрын

It was too much. She uses tears to deflect and end the conversation.

@gcchair7634

9 ай бұрын

She is a manipulator .

@Moonchild_est1987

9 ай бұрын

girl not a tear in sight!!

@ah4038

9 ай бұрын

she’s human though lol y’all are so harsh

@SakeenaJaggers

9 ай бұрын

Right

The wig is distracting me...sorry y'all 🤦🏾 I'm trying to stay focused on the bigger picture but that's all I see.

@belladejaneiro

6 ай бұрын

Same 😂

@TwistedLyfofTV

2 ай бұрын

That part! Pun intended.

@raya74

Ай бұрын

​@@TwistedLyfofTV 🤣🤣

Joy acting like she doesn’t understand not answering the ex call when around her fiancé is sending me.. Joy doesn’t try to understand how her actions make others feel.. Her crying is weird.. seems manipulative. Terry is another person who doesn’t want to take accountability. Everyone is saying the same thing. Just because his dad may have be more absent doesn’t block out his absence with his son.

Jazmine mom is crying because Jazmine told her about her still being friends with her Ex’s, It’s totally wrong and when Jazmine tried to tell her mom, her feelings about it her mom disregarded her feelings.

This group didn’t really have concerns about the couple and their relationship, it seemed like it was really parent-child relationship concerns…

The unsaid elephant is that that is not her biological mother so the connection between them missing. You can teach the child your ways but that is not her child so the personality and characteristics between them are different. They need to get to know each other better, understand there differences. Speaking with her ex is very disrespectful. To not consider his feelings also not consider your daughters feelings. The ex is not apart of this family anymore and they both need to understand that.

@raya74

Ай бұрын

💯

Her mom is a DRAMA QUEEN

@suezettemills5336

8 ай бұрын

Yessss, im so glad you said something!! Lol

@ashleyskitchen7186

5 ай бұрын

🤣

These episodes always make me cry. 😢 I love it when the family work through some of the hardest moments of their lives. I pray they continue to grow and support each other

The mama was like , please don't say the wrong thing 😅

The first time I’ve seen a couple that I can say ,”they will live happily ever after”.No problems at all with the couple an amazing couple. 🥰💯

This was a good one, minimal drama...though whoever cooked the sausages🔥🤣never mind..and the cameraman didn't hesitate to focus, he needs a raise for that 🤣🤣

This is my most liked episode! 1. I love Mr. TERRY, I felt so bad he was oblivious to the lack of bonding him and his son has, and he was willing to work on it! Yay for Reggie and Mr Terry! 2. I call BS on Jaz's Mom Joy! Shes a grand manipulator and I hope JAZ calls her on her BS every time! I hope they get better with time. I honestly pray for this union and wish nothing but happiness and beautiful union for this couple!

This was one of the best ones. I love how this family accepted their issues and didn’t get defensive but took the constructive criticism and worked it out. ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

The mom was so intentional about learning how to move forward and do better. I admire her asking and opening up and allowing herself to feel her pain but not making it all about her and wallowing in that hurt.

Shoot, they have my blessing ❣️❣️ The first and only other episode of this show that I have seen, that couple had definite red flags 🚩 all up through it 😮, and I’m not entirely sure that the woman wasn’t being abused but this couple, you can definitely tell that there is love ❤️ there. Good for them!

This episode has me sobbing. I think I finally understand why I put so much pressure on myself in all areas of my life. I love this show 🥹🥹🥹🥹❤ I cannot stop crying y'all

This episode was refreshing, it is so important to seek mates who are thoroughly vetted by God ❤ Beautiful break through

I love Tenisha’s wisdom 🎉

@Powermoves1080

5 күн бұрын

And she’s beautiful 😍

“I’m releasing the little girl and embracing the woman.” Powerful statement. Enjoyed this segment.

I would start calling your mom ex and hanging out with him so she can get it. She is acting like a child.

my own personal vacation…yep that sums it up.

The grooms brother is having a golden heart

The groom mother sound like Maya Angelo 😊😂

I have a relationship with my son's ex but also she is like a daughter to me. I would not talk with her in a close setting, like at the dinner table.

Her mother is a problem. She needs to cut off the ex.

The Dad messed me up at the end when he got emotional!!

@diamonmagic

9 ай бұрын

Same!!! So beautiful that she showed his son how much he truly cares!

This show is so healing ❤

What type of mother could possible think its ok to talk to her daughters ex all the time AND in front of her daughter's new man. Absolutely NOT! I'll tell you WHY the mother does it. Because talking to a younger man feels the "VOID" that her husband isn't giving her in their marriage. 1. It's totally disrespectful 2. Yiur daughter's ex is HER EX. That means if her daughter cuts him off- YOU have to cut him off. 3. If the mother doesn't think it's a problem then maybe her husband should talk to his exes and we will see how quickly she can undersrand WHY it's disrespectful

Why does daddy Terry look like Floyd Mayweather’s daddy lol 😂 😅

@SesameChickenCombo

9 ай бұрын

I kept thinking the same thing, I even said in my mind “Terry Mayweather?” 🥴

What a good therapist. Everytime I hear her BREAK IT DOWN I'm like YASSSSSSS 👍 ❤💯 GREAT SHOW 🔥 GO ON OPRAH keep bringing the 🔥

Ms joy please understand that you can say one thing with your mouth but act towards jasmine a whole other way

Her mom is openly disrespectful to her daughter with this ex relationship. She didn’t date them, her daughter did. His dad is simply in denial and keeps a distance between them

This was a really good episode! Definitely had me in tears a couple of times. My relationship with my mother is definitely not the best and I don't know if it will ever be. But this does give me hope. If only I could get this woman to go to therapy smh lol

@shayy4280

4 ай бұрын

I’m glad you still have hope. I know I’ll never speak to my mother again. It took a long time and a lot of ish for me to get there. And talking to God. I wish you the best in your journey cause it’s not easy.

Awesome episode. Nothing but great human beings clearing things up to pave a grand clear path.

Congratulations ❤ And this was heartfelt that both families had a healthy dialogue and resolved their concerns. Blessings 🙏🏽💕🙌🏽

This mother crying so much is annoying. It's just too much in one episode, It feels like emotional manipulation.

Beautiful Family!! All of them and them taking the time to work through issues will definitely keep them strong! This was great!

If she was adopted why the mom and daughter look so much alike

@voycooper7379

9 ай бұрын

They say if you feed a child long enough they will start looking like you 😊

@MsQueenpoppen

9 ай бұрын

Could be in the family I adopted my cuznt daughter n people say we look alike not knowing she not my child it's n the blood

Great episode! I wish these families the absolute best!

Great episode and such a great family 👏🏼

Love to see mature people working things out and being vulnerable and open to healing 🙌🏾

"When I first met Reggie, I didn't know him, he didn't know me"....🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ whew, this gon be a long one. But I know the ending will be good.

My favorite episode so far.... loved the growth and love from these two families. I would love an update.❤

I’m sorry.. but the mom crying is giving manipulative

@keylacmckemp1309

15 күн бұрын

Like where did she whip the blue cloth from when they were on the court outside.

I loved this episode when it aired. They are a beautiful couple with beautiful families.

I think knowing that her faults were going to be televised and judged by people that may have a different picture of her. Makes the mom scared. We all know alot of people of god live in the shawdows. Passing judgement on others in a glass house.

@lindaawuor9158

9 ай бұрын

Your last statement..wow

This episode got me crying my eyes out!! Being adopted I really understand 😢😢 best episode!!!

This was a beautiful episode. I saw the healings. Blessings to the groom's father🙌🏾

* I’m releasing the child, and embracing the woman‼️ Good stuff‼️

God bless this family! With Christ at the center they can’t fail💕

The most successful episode I've watched thus far. A beautiful ending to a new beginning

I feel like the ex also needs to cut it off. I also had the same. My ex his mom still wanted us to be in contact and visiting her. she really liked me she was the one told me he was cheating and not sleeping home 😂 (he was mad at her for snitching) But I stopped it as I told her I can’t do this any longer out of respect for everyone including the new girlfriend and my new partner.

One of the Best episodes. I love the mending of relationships with the parents. Blessings to this family!!

My fav episode thus far. Very healthy. I pray God will continue to uplift and strengthen both sides of the family. God bless y’all ❤

y’all tore me up on this episode 😢😢😢😢😢

@kandisyoung9776

9 ай бұрын

Man! OWN knows how to get the tears flowing 😢

This was an AWESOME episode! One question on every episode why the fam don't sit in the last row in the truck?

These two families are going to succeed together!

That was beautiful. God Bless Y’all 💐👑🫶🏾💎

This is one of my favorite episodes. They are such a beautiful couple.

Great episode, when you involve God you excel.

Divorce is not an option 😅😅😅..mame that’s why it’s called divorce…so that makes it an option …this old mindset ..u can stay in bs ..not everyone can put up with it

I like the honesty and the bonding and new beginnings things can be fixed 😅

That so beautiful and sentimental. God bless them. I think we’ve all learnt that not having someone remind us that we are doing well and they’re proud of us Through our childhood has made us our own worst self-critic. I pray one day my family can emulate the same energy like the one in the episode. Ameen. God bless us all to grow towards healing progress like we have all just witnesses. Ameen

Before I had children, i felt the same way as Jasmine, but after i, because of a mother, i was more understanding of my mother

Best episode I’ve watched!

They really talked it out 😊

They might be my favorite couple.

This was a great episode!

This is beautiful!

This was amazing.

Amazing episode 👏

This is the best episode ever

This episode seems fake. No one has any real concerns. This couple has been together for 7yrs not months.

@letitb8963

9 ай бұрын

On/off ; maintained contact. Only recently reconnected 😊

@millie9627

9 ай бұрын

I dont know about the fakeness but I agree that there were no real issues of concern between the couple but just the 'normal' relationship issues in families.

This was powerful 👌🏽🔥❤

Them grits looked stiff af 😬

@K_boogie1003

9 ай бұрын

Sis focus on the show 😂

@delsgurl4133

9 ай бұрын

@@K_boogie1003 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

@valenciawilliams9215

8 ай бұрын

Lol

Off and on relationship. And planning to get marry. 😮

This was the realest one I’ve seen by far.