Modesty also includes lifestyle, including jewelry, cars, houses, etc.. Goes for all genders.

@claudiamerino6292

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@EsiriE

Жыл бұрын

Hence why she said at the beginning it goes beyond clothing.

@christiecruzxo2841

5 ай бұрын

That’s actually what the Bible verse she quotes was about. It wasn’t about clothes at all if you go and read it.

@RebeccaMills-vj6gr

10 күн бұрын

Yaaay finally your comment isnso true and refreshing too much emphasis on women and too little on the men.

I really resonated with the “taking the attention off of me” part and “putting the attention back on the Lord”. Because whenever I feel like crazy beautiful, sexy hot, it goes to my head a little, I become proud and addicted to the attention. And it reminds me a little of Satan how he was a beautiful angel, and he wanted all the glory to himself. And that just spoke volumes to me. Because pride comes before a fall. And wow! So true. Get the attention on Jesus. Not me. Yes! 🙌

@-lavender-777

Жыл бұрын

Yes!

@-lavender-777

Жыл бұрын

Representing the lord with your actions and clothes is the ideal thing to do

@natalialuckup1082

Жыл бұрын

He didn't fall because he was beautiful though. That's not the real issue. He fall because He took the glory for Himself and the way He was created. If wearing down ( which I suppose judging by Your comment), will make You feel less sexy and hot brings You close to God, then dress down, but in my opinion... That's not where the problem is. Think about it, it's not about what You wear or even how You feel, is about in what reality You are living. If it's in a reality where only God is praised, it doesn't matter what You will wear, or how You will feel, that's why I think we will WALK on a gold streets in heaven and will be surrendered by the most fabulous things. Still... God presents will be bigger then that, so them things will mean nothing. If You in God's presents those things just disappear in my opinion and we don't care about them. Just a thought. I think it's more about God presents nothing else. All else comes next.

@nikolabo4401

Жыл бұрын

Yes I love it

@walkingwiththelord777

Жыл бұрын

Elizabeth, very well said!

Being a Muslim woman who wears the Hijab and observes modesty everyday of her life, this video was so humbling and beautiful. You understand modesty in such a beautiful way that we Muslim women are taught in our religion. Hijab isn’t just what we wear, but how we act, our character and how we deal with others. It all goes back to you and your relationship with God😌You are so beautiful Milena inside and out💕

@michaelaalison1900

Жыл бұрын

I love this

@alliceson6464

Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@fatima-ezzahraoutznit430

Жыл бұрын

Beautify said❤️

@iloveGod1105

Жыл бұрын

oh my goodness! God bless you! Mashallah!

@busrayalavac

Жыл бұрын

Same! I was thinking the same thing…

Such an interesting perspective - I was raised as an Orthodox Christian (but never baptised) and living in warmer climes I was quite used to wearing short, cute, summery outfits. But in my late 20s I started working at an all-Muslim office. Nobody ever told me I needed to change the way I dressed as everyone there was pretty cool and open-minded about stuff like that. But over the months I worked there, something changed in my own perceptions. I distinctly remember one afternoon when a male client walked in and my 2 coworkers were dressed in pretty maxi dresses and there I was in a short skirt and a little too bold of a cleavage. I remember at that moment, I'd never felt more naked (or ridiculous) in my life. I also noticed that contrary to popular belief, these Muslim women weren't shy, bashful or lacking in confidence beneath all the layers of clothes. They exuded quiet confidence and felt secure in their beauty and femininity without feeling the constant need to flaunt parts of their bodies to convince themselves they have worth. I've long changed jobs since then but that shift in mentality stayed with me. I gradually phased out items like mini-skirts or shorts. I occasionally allow myself more revealing tops (I'm not exactly the busty type) so I feel I can get away with it but I'm very aware of how much skin I show.

I don't know why the idea of being modest being more than just clothing, but also being modest in spirit, is so mind blowing to me right now. "A gentle and quiet spirit". Thanks for sharing!

@MilenaCiciotti

Жыл бұрын

it blew my mind when I first realized that too 🤯

@walkingwiththelord777

Жыл бұрын

Christy, love this!

I love that you are being obedient to the Lord and speaking on this topic. Too many people are afraid to speak on this topic in fear of rejection or being cancelled. We need to hear it. So proud of you!!!! 🙏🏽😊❤️

@farrahpace3047

Жыл бұрын

Hello Milena! The Lord has definitely put on my heart to be modest. I still wear jeans but make sure my bottom is always covered. And short story I was at the beach with my family and heard a man who was obviously drinking talking about all the woman on the beach and how skimpy there bathing suites were and what he wanted to do to them and how turned on was even though he was a married man!! It made me realize how men do look at us. The Lord gave me a pure example in front of my eyes how important it is to be modest.❤

@BecomingIrresistible

Жыл бұрын

Amen sis!

@annarosaliina

Жыл бұрын

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Жыл бұрын

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Жыл бұрын

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Milena, I’m neither a Christian nor a mother. But this video spoke to me on a spiritual level that I was not expecting. Self-respect and love is definitely, as a woman, a thing that comes easier with age. I myself have been on a similar journey of clarity in this regard, I love how you vocalise the topic of modesty! I think it’s a wonderful topic for women in general!

@-lavender-777

Жыл бұрын

❤

@anaiyaj6994

8 ай бұрын

God loves you 💗

@ChristianAudacityMusic

8 ай бұрын

spread the word

Commenting as a spiritual follower and not a religious follower, I think this transition also comes from a place of womanhood. We learn our own worth and confidence and we mature through catching attention based on dressing a certain way and knowing that our heart and soul and mind is what is attention grabbing. Leaving the parts of our physical attraction to our spouses and not for all to see. Thank you for sharing this video!

@plantsandsauce

Жыл бұрын

For sure! "Everything good comes from God. Every perfect gift is from him. These good gifts come down from the Father who made all the lights in the sky." James 1:17

As a Muslim, our main principle is that we aren't objects for everyones' eyes. Our Lord ordered modesty to save us from so much unnecessary grief. Like you said, our husbands can basically see us looking sexy, but not the whole world. Modesty is something that is inward and outward for us. Covering up for us isn't oppression to us, it's just obeying our Lord. And we do it happily and willingly.

@annjames1837

Жыл бұрын

I'm sure the women in Iran would disagree

@studiomastour

Жыл бұрын

ma shaa Allah well said sis 🤍

@annjames1837

Жыл бұрын

In September, Mahsa Amini, a 22-year-old Iranian woman, died in the custody of the country’s “morality police” after she was arrested for allegedly wearing her hijab “improperly.”

@jasmineal3685

Жыл бұрын

Modesty in Islam is not the same as modesty in Christianity. In Islam it’s about the man in Christianity it’s about our relationship to God.

@uzmaarif1

Жыл бұрын

@@jasmineal3685 that is not true at all. In Islam modesty is practiced as obedience to God.

have been following your journey since you posted your “saving yourself for marriage” video years ago. Thank you for continuing to be bold in Christ and speaking on important topics like these! Much much love Milena ❤️

@MilenaCiciotti

Жыл бұрын

so sweet!! thank you for being here 🤎

my pastor always says "God can still use you while he's working on you". Well done for doing this video Milena, thanks for the courage and sharing this even though it can get backlash. But as christians we are called to do what God says, not the world ;) big love & support over here sister 😘

Love this video!! I am a Muslim woman who wears the hijab (head scarf) and dresses modestly so I can really resonate with everything ur saying. Modesty is a very big part of Islam, and similar to what you said in the video, one of the main reasons we wear the hijab is to be recognized as Muslim women because otherwise we would blend in with everyone else and no one would know we are Muslim by looking at us. May ur modesty journey be an easy & empowering one💓

@iunsiya8825

Жыл бұрын

Love this comment, I’m also a Muslim women and love this video!! 🥺💘

@MNoobsful

Жыл бұрын

Yes!! May Allah guide us to the straight path 🌸

@busrayalavac

Жыл бұрын

Yess

One of the most solid talks on modesty I’ve heard - finally someone talking about it originating from the heart.

@mommasea

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

Modesty also has to do with being humble in how you present yourself to the world. Ex. using discretion when talking about personal wealth and being able to accept constructive criticism.

As someone who only wears skirts, I have been silently watching your modesty journey for months! Its so beautiful to see the Lord working, he will convict us when we are ready 😊

@gissellez_

Жыл бұрын

Beautifully said ❤️🫶🏼

@yeskeslife1483

Жыл бұрын

I also wear skirts and this video spoke to me!🤍

@_.endureandpersevere._

Жыл бұрын

What made you fully commit to only wear skirts? I’ve been wanting to do this but I love my jeans! I’ve had someone ask me about wearing skirts but it was already on my mind and heart

@_.endureandpersevere._

Жыл бұрын

@@yeskeslife1483 What made you fully commit to only wear skirts? I’ve been wanting to do this but I love my jeans! I’ve had someone ask me about wearing skirts but it was already on my mind and heart

@damarisgonzalez9288

Жыл бұрын

@@_.endureandpersevere._ hi elizabeth! I grew up in a church where women wear skirts, and while the bible calls for women to dress as women and men as men, standards have certainly changed since then. I find that skirts are the best way to remain modest, no seeing the shape of legs, butt etc. There are people that say that wearing loose fitting pants or shorts are just as modest, and I agree. But I prefer to wear skirts because thats what I was raised on!

I’ve been following Milena for years now (pre baby Alethea) and for someone who is not religious I think it’s very important to get these different kind of views on life, and Milena really presents her views and religious beliefs in such a gracious way. Through Milena I feel like I have a better understanding of people with religious beliefs and their reasoning behind them. So thank you Milena, even though we come from different belief systems we can all still come together and enjoy your content! ❤️

I've been slowly changing my wardrobe choices, especially having 2 daughters and seeing crop tops and short shorts for them. It kind of just woke me up like they're going to look at me and do what I do. 🙏♥️

@jesusiskingofmyheart

Жыл бұрын

Hi Katelyn! Absolutely. Prior to coming to Christ, all I wore were crop tops and leggings. It makes me cringe to think I used to pickup my daughter from school dressed like that straight out of the gym! But man, God is SO good and He has been so patient with me in every area of my life, especially my modesty journey!! It didn't happen overnight, but over time, with God's grace, I've been able to OBEY the convictions He's placed in my heart and I've changed my entire wardrobe. I got rid of all my crop tops and I never wear just a sports bra to the gym! I've actually been wearing oversized t-shirts to the gym that cover my butt and I've never felt more COMFORTABLE and beautiful. I want to continue to dress for the LORD and not for the world or men's attention. The thought of that actually makes me sick lol. I have a 7 year old daughter who I want to be an example to on how a Godly woman should dress and what pleases/honors God. :) May the Lord continue to work in and through you, sis! God bless you and your beautiful daughters ❤

Love this!! As a Muslim hijabi, for summer, fabric materials make a huge difference in comfort! Also the looser the clothing is, not only makes it more modest, it also allows for more airflow. My husband was concerned about having a daughter because he was worried she would not be able to do activities and sports and still be modest. I told him I would advocate for her to be able to be included and things while modest.

@DianaAlvarez-mg2np

Жыл бұрын

What fabric material do you recommend for humid summer weather?

@walnutelm7365

6 ай бұрын

@@DianaAlvarez-mg2nplinen and muslin. Loose denim actually worked really well, too. Keep your skin covered as much as possible to keep it out of the sun. Contrary to what everyone seems to believe, wearing more natural fabrics that cover you will keep you cooler than wearing a sports bra and spandex shorts

@nevillegabrel5175

5 ай бұрын

​@@DianaAlvarez-mg2npchiffon,satin and silk are perfect materials

Girl, as a Christian, wife and mommy, I am so inspired by this and feel convicted in what I wear also. I struggle to find outfit ideas so I would love a video on modest outfits!

There is a fine line between modesty for personal or spiritual reasons and modesty to attempt to control what others think. Remember it is not your responsibility to change what other people think about you.

@cue_khb

Жыл бұрын

Well, yes. It is a fine line. But mostly, the way we act or dress cannot not provoke emotions in others.

@nicolabanda2231

Жыл бұрын

But one thing is certain, it is biblical to actually consider how people might think after they see you. It is a biblical principal and we will be held accountable. Christianity is more of a selfless pursuit. You lay down your life for others.

@Heyitsbonny

Жыл бұрын

Came here to say this 👏🏻 A lot of males in this era of easily accessible brutal and violent online exploitation of women, have been groomed to see us as objects and have developed addiction and these objectifying lenses. Women have suffered for so long due to taking accountability for others actions and it shouldn’t be that way. It is their responsibility to undo that and see us as humans deserving of respect. I LOVE however that she immediately mentioned that ultimately modesty refers to the heart as well. Because it’s true! However we want our clothing choices to reflect who we are and what we believe in. She made a lot of good points especially about still having the option to meet somewhere in between with fashion and femininity and then also remembering that not being “part” of the world is okay and we should strive for that. How much falls under this or not can be subjective though.

I was so challenged by this! The heart behind dressing modestly shouldn't be shameful, but should take our eyes off ourselves and point others to God by the way we present ourselves.

I’m a Jewish mother and just wanted to say how appreciative I am of this video. Really resonated with me and my values and you spoke so eloquently. Everyone should focus on themselves and sometimes we need to be reminded of that and we’re a work in progress! ❤️

I am not religious at all, but this family is one of the only Christian families I’ve ever seen who are genuinely following the god that I believe he should be. It brings me joy to know there are real good people like this out there❤

After having 2 daughters myself I find myself going down this same path, especially as my oldest gets older (nearly 6). Last summer I found her looking at me different. Not in a bad way in a coming of age way. She really observes and absorbs every pet of me now. I found myself being more conscious of what I wear and how I act and speak. Even when it seems they’re not paying attention, they are. I’ve found God talks to me mostly through my children; like a mirror reflecting Gods view back at me.

Milena, great video 👏🏼 I grew up in the Pentecostal church, where Modesty was implemented on both men & women at a young age. You’re right, it is a heart problem, because our hearts ARE the problem. These days we’re so focused on our own emotions, instead of what the Holy Spirit is trying to convict us on. Sadly, sometimes as Christians we take the topic of modesty, to judge other Christians. The Lord once gave my mom a dream on Modesty. In her dream the Lord had spoke to her and had told her to go pray for someone, and she had replied to the Lord, “I can’t, I’m wearing pants” and He replied to her “did I ask you what you were wearing? I told you to go pray for her” and my mom had awoken from her dream. HOW POWERFUL! Is our God.. He wants us to reflect HIM, His kingdom. But that not only includes what we wear, but how we act and how we reflect HIM. Beautiful words Milena. ❤️

@darafreeman4240

Жыл бұрын

I also grew up in the pentecostal church, and I am still Pentecostal. I totally agree with what you said about judging other Christians, it is so sad and such a bad reflection of God!! That’s so amazing that your mom had that dream how God spoke to her!! Thanks for sharing!!

@mylovelydream8828

Жыл бұрын

Wow this is beautiful! Thank you for sharing!

@Amourbeauty_mua

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much I love this 🙏🏼

I am a Christian of a different faith but also value modesty and appreciate you having the courage to speak on this topic. In high school, I dressed modestly out of obedience but it embarrassed me to stand apart from the majority. Sadly, I didn’t feel as pretty or confident at school dances because my dresses covered me. It’s taken me into my 30’s to understand and appreciate the whys of modesty and it’s something I now am proud of rather than embarrassed about. It’s neat to see that others of various faiths and backgrounds feel similarly!

@Amourbeauty_mua

Жыл бұрын

Modesty sound so 1900s old fashioned

This is the type of content our world needs! So thankful for your obedience and willingness to speak out for the Lord!

The level of spiritual discipline that you have is so refreshing. The peace I get from watching you speak or Clea and raise your kids is amazing. Love all you do!

Omg I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately and now your video came out. This is so nice to hear and start a conversation about and to know someone is going through the same thing. The main stream media is all about taking off your clothes and unfortunately young girls look up to that and it’s easy to be influenced by it that’s why it’s hard to be modest in this time and age. I think modesty is so beautiful and feminine. You’re so young and mature and guiding young girls to a good path. God have really blessed you with knowledge and wisdom. I love the part about it’s a slow process and the gym clothes that’s how it’s going for me. I’m really happy that someone is opening up the conversation 💗

Modesty has been such a journey for me as well !!! The holy spirit has changed my heart on a lot of things 🥰😇. As women we should lift eachother up and lead one another to christ. The verse in Peter about gentle and quiet spirit, God has been putting that on my heart so much lately. ♥️ It reminds me of the verse : Quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to get angry. James 1:19 And yes being slow and careful of the things that come out of our mouth, selective. There is life and death in the tongue!

MILENA!!!!!!! When I tell you Ive been praying for you to feel this!🤯 never from a judge mental standpoint but rather that God has given me this revelation & conviction in modesty and I know it’s the truth according to the word of God. Truly admire you for your sensitivity to the Lord! feel free to reach out to me!! I’ve been dressing modest for as long as I can remember… it definitely is a way to honor and please God! I strongly believe Our outward appearances reflects our inward. And as the Lord says, “Be ye holy for I am Holy” love you and what you’re doing on this platform. Truly it’s powerful.

I’m muslim, I don’t wear the hijab but I always try my best to dress modestly. Even though you are not of my religion, but you believe in God like I do and in those values and morals which I really love♥️ I love listening to this and relating! Thank u

@saraspiano2

Жыл бұрын

I recommend that you search maybe hijabis and what they wear, because many have gotten really good at knowinf what can be worn covered but also not making you sweat and easy for breastfeeding etc! :) Like Leena Asad etc

I love this so much! I just had my first daughter and I feel so different about what I do, how I dress, what I take in vain within myself. Cause she is constantly looking at me and will continue to do so as she gets older and she’s going on 6 mo. Also for my son on what to look for in a SO.

I’m around your same age, wife, mom of 1 and due with my 2nd in May. I really appreciate this. In a world of “only fans” and people doing things for “likes” on social media. We really need more modesty in life❤️

As someone who has followed along on your journey for YEARS, and gone on my own journey of modesty throughout these years, this is so beautiful and refreshing to see! I’m so happy and excited for you, and I pray you continue to have grace for yourself as you learn. Also, I love Joana and her Instagram and it’s so fun to see worlds collide.

I was also raised in the church and dressed immodestly for many years. I started wearing maxi dresses with shawls and things to church and immediately felt relief. I didn’t need to worry about bending over or how I sat because I was fully covered! It can be challenging to not look frumpy, but there are MANY cute outfits to wear that do not show off your body. I have a baby girl and desire to be a living example to her. I loved this video. Truly appreciated this video and your transparency. God bless your journey, sister!

Just an opinion on modesty being difficult to style fashionably. If you look into classic style, the pieces that never go out of fashion, most classic pieces are quite modest and effortlessly beautiful. For me, when I have felt my personal style to be too revealing, it's always when I have tried to follow a trend. Trends are just a momentary flash in the pan, and then they move on. I've found that tailoring my closet to more classic items has made modesty easy, and my shopping as a whole a lot more conscious, and intentional.

@Amourbeauty_mua

Жыл бұрын

Be high value woman that a modest woman

@dolcepescas6153

7 ай бұрын

But like, what does that even mean, and how do we shop and find "classic items"? How do I know what a classic item is?

When I first got saved I was instantly convicted of my wardrobe. I ended up getting rid of 90% of my clothes because I was, for lack of a better word, a “hoochie mama” lol. I was in longer t-shirts and loose pants for awhile but I’m a fashionista and missed dressing feminine so I’m currently trying to find my “modest style” if you will. I pulled together some really cute holiday outfits but it’s definitely a journey. I have to say, for someone who has spent most of her life in virtually no clothes, it feels good to keep my body to myself. ❤

@jesusiskingofmyheart

Жыл бұрын

Girl, I'm right there with you! I'm so glad to hear that. God is REAL and He really does change us from the inside out when we put our faith in Jesus and trust in Him! I used to dress provocatively, I was always going out, drinking, having casual sex with men but when I came to know Christ and made Him my Lord & Savior -- He changed ME from the inside out. I no longer drink, I have been celibate for 3 years, and I have changed the way I dress completely.. I no longer dress for men's attention/approval, but I dress to bring glory to God & I choose to dress in a way that honors/pleases Him!! God bless you, sister. May the Lord continue to work in and through you. ❤

@jesusheals3799

Жыл бұрын

I'm also currently at the loose stuff phase. I think I'll stay there until told to move lol.

I found this video so comforting and relatable. Thank you for Joe you approached the topic. Listening to someone speak from their own experience is so much better.

Yes!! God changes our hearts! I dealt with a similar conviction. I used to only wear crop tops & tank tops before Christ. I remember one day after being born again, I wore a sports bra to the gym and the entire time I was there, I felt so convicted. I stopped wearing sports bras to the gym and I got rid of the cropped tops in my closet. No one told me anything, I just felt convicted by the Holy Spirit.. you are right sister, it is worth it! To surrender and to be obedient! Thank you Jesus for changing me from the inside out. ❤🥰

@Amourbeauty_mua

Жыл бұрын

I’m a Christian and I love crop tops there nothing wrong with crops too

I want to thank you for making this video - for multiple reasons. One, because as an expectant mom I truly enjoy your content and look up to you as an example of what a godly wife/mother should be, and being on a modesty journey myself, I really appreciate that you are talking about the difficulty of the journey. And I'm also glad that you brought up the different body types, because I started my modesty journey (and mine consists of only skirts/dresses) at a time when I happened to be gaining a significant amount of weight, and so it's been such a struggle to find modest clothes that fit my changing body type (ESPECIALLY now that I'm pregnant). It's like, they don't make clothes for women that aren't either sexual or frumpy. It's so hard to find an in-between, and it's also hard when you have a particular style that you like but can't find affordable pieces that will fit you in a modest way. I live in NY and the winters can get quite cold here too, so I understand your hesitancy with converting to only skirts/dresses - it's a struggle, sis! What's saved me is wearing fleece tights but I know sometimes that's not enough. To each their own journey. Anyhow, thank you for being brave enough to talk about this topic even though you didn't want to - I look forward to seeing how you grow! Also, if you ever want to do a "modest look-book," I'd totally love that, because I love your fashion sense and would love to get inspiration!

Love this! I came from a very legalistic background where I only wore skirts & now I'm kind of the black sheep because I've added pants to my wardrobe. I've come to learn that modesty, as you said, is so much more about the heart & wanting to cover because of the Lord & like you also said, to let his love shine! ❤️

One of my favorite videos so far. I’ve totally noticed the change in you and it’s so encouraging. When I first found your channel I found a lot of wisdom in the way you rear your kids, but I didn’t agree with all the things you used to wear. It’s just so lovely to see God growing us all. Thank you for sharing this and allowing yourself to grow in modesty, and thank you for helping me to grow in being more lovey with my children. Bless you and your beautiful family

Milena ! I’ve been a follower since before your wedding it’s so crazy to see how you have grown immensely. Not just outwardly I honestly see the most change in you through your heart and words .You are a true testament to being a woman of god ! I have seen over the years how you fully stepped into your role as a wife and mother all while allowing the lord to lead you . And you’re a continuous inspiration to me and I’m sure to plenty of other mothers who are walking through life in similar circumstances Thank you for honoring the lord and being an example for other believers!!

The way you spoke in this video is exactly the modest, gentle voice that God spoke of in the passage you read from the Bible. 🙏🏻 I’m also on my journey to modesty and I so appreciate this conversation from you! Especially because you’ve been on the receiving end of judgement. It reminds me to be more gentle 😊

@Sama-yd4cl

Жыл бұрын

P.S I love your Christmas tree! 🎄

@sarahs9802

Жыл бұрын

Yes that's so true!! The way she spoke in this video was so beautiful and different from the world

the ending has me confused. The part about women being modest takes away feeling threatened by eachother, because at a baseline, isn't jealousy in the first place a sin??? so whether someone isn't being "modest" it's not on THEM, it's on YOU to not feel jealous or "threatened?"

This will without a doubt be one of my favorite series or content from you ❤ thank you!

Beautiful take on modesty!! I love the way you approach modesty in humility and shared your journey, thank you 💖. This video encouraged me on my journey with modesty. May God continue to bless you and use you in this crazy world!

I’ve dressed modestly most of my life now and I have say you are so right about it being a challenge each day. Like I still want to be fashionable but modest so I have to work extra hard in finding items that are stylish. But it’s also such a fun new challenge each day

My sister in law is a dresses and skirts only modest woman and she was raised that way whereas I am new on this journey and I’m still learning and this video was so beautifully put and really helped me see things from a different perspective.

hi Milena, I’ve been waiting and wondering when you were going to speak on this topic. You handled it so well and with so much grace and truth. I love all that you’ve been learning from the Lord about this topic and have also felt very convicted on how I’m choosing to clothe myself. Thank you for being bold and obedient to the Lord, it’s amazing to see how God is using you ♥️

I love you for being you despite what the world is like at this very moment which makes it very difficult to be this pure. I follow you mainly because of your mindset and your beautiful personality! Your looks are just a bonus!

The couldn’t have come at a better time. This whole week I’ve had a tugging at the heart for clothing , dressing more for the stage of life I’m in and wearing things that are practical, yet stylish, and also in a way that my daughter can see me and emulate in a way that is modest and appropriate. Keep inspiring. We’re always learning and growing!

👏🏻Here 👏🏻 for 👏🏻 this! This is such a beautiful, vulnerable and honest video of your “in-progress” journey of modesty. Thank you for sharing with us!

love that you’re speaking on this. much needed!

I am just obsessed with this video. Thank you for being vulnerable for your followers. I dress pretty modestly, but this really has opened my mindset on it ALL. Thank you for obeying the Lord!

I am so proud of you!!! I am a 29 year old mom to 4 boys between the ages of 9-2! The Lord has been dealing with me for almost a year now about modesty and my boys have complimented me more when I dress modestly than when I’ve worn more in modest things. I’ve seen how their perception of beauty has changed and it is truly amazing! I’m so great full that God is changing my heart, mind and wardrobe! And I am so glad that you spoke on this topic because it is hard! Especially when you want to please the Lord as well as keep your husband’s eye. Please continue to share!❤

@jesusiskingofmyheart

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Wow, I love that so much. I was saved last year and I've definitely been convicted of the way I used to dress and I've changed my entire wardrobe! I also have a 7 year old daughter and it's been so beautiful to show my daughter by EXAMPLE how a godly woman should dress, apart from the world's standards and ways. God bless you and family! May the Lord continue to grant you patience, grace, wisdom, and discernment in all areas of your life, especially motherhood.

I just wanted to comment and let you know the other day, when my four year old daughter and I were watching one of your recent vlogs, I see her watching you talk (normally she’s kind of in her own world and only pay attention when the kids are on, lol.) but she was watching you and says, “Wow. She’s really happy.”. And it just brought tears to my eyes that she noticed the joy that God has given you. Then later on she says “Her house looks really happy, too.” And she noticed how you are with the kids and how joyful the kids are. Again, brought tears to my eyes. That’s how I want to be and that’s how I want our home to be. Joyful in the Lord. Anyway, just wanted to let you know.

This video has brought me back to your channel - this is such a beautiful message that has been laid on your heart. I love this!

THANK YOU for this video!!! Back in May I joined a young adult woman’s group and when I met some of these ladies it was life changing. They holiness they live is truly something special. After a couple of get-togethers the Lord started to show me my reality. My reality of making others see ME and not the Lord. I immediately cleaned out my closet and started to change the way I dressed. (I still find myself here and there taking a piece or two out, which I love bc its showing my growth). To make the long story short, my family members started to admire the changes they started to see. Anyways, its been a beautiful journey so far and I know I still have sooooooo much to work on. It was so nice to see this video, again, thank you. You’ll be in my prayer sister🤍✨

Your obedience to God speaks volumes on how you've matured as a person! Thank you for speaking the truth!! It is tough to see who is set a part these days and appreciate you calling out not just what you wear, but your words and actions. It all stems from the heart!

I’m so, so, so happy you made a video about this because it just confirms every conversation I’ve had with the Lord in private. I want to cry tears of joy because I thought I was making things up in my head because no one talks about this and everyone looks the same and I’m like where do I start?

love the topic!! it encourages me to see and hear that it is a heart thing *so many people dont speak of this* thank you for speaking on this milena, im there with you as well its a journey xoxo

Loved this💜 I think it’s so sweet and edifying to talk about convictions in this way

This video put a smile on my face! I’ve also changed how I present myself to the world. I ran competitively in college. Our uniforms and practice clothes attracted attention to our bodies, but it was normal and I didn’t think anything of it. After college, I realized how detrimental my clothes could be in my walk with Christ. I wear skirts/dresses at least to the knee (even found cute workout ones that are great for loungewear!), and God also deals with me in regard to hair, jewelry, and makeup. There’s so much in His Word if we just look for it and pray on it, just as you said!

@Amourbeauty_mua

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Same

I love the whole part about not judging people and not pushing them too hard. My mother always emphasized modesty so much and her standards were so high that I never felt I fit her standard and just gave up trying to be as modest as she would have liked and that led me to be less and less modest. Everyone is on their own journey with it and we should be each other's guides, not judges.

Thank you for this video, this has been heavy on my mind this year. It's been hard but everyday gets better❤️

Take the attention off me and put it on my face showing the joy the Lord has given me 🙌🏼🙌🏼 absolutely love how you worded that. Thank you for speaking on this hard topic! ♥️

I am all for the modesty. As I became a mom I noticed that less and less my focus was on being "seen" and more on being comfortable and adapting to my role as a mom. "Does this show my butt if I'm picking up my kids" "will someone completely see down my shift if I have to bend over". To dress that way was no longer practical but it was also no longer comfortable. I felt I was constantly trying to cover myself up and not expose too much yet I'd wear these things 🤦‍♀️ duhh wear clothes that cover more and make me feel comfortable in my own skin.

I’ve been seeing a big change in you, and love to see it! Just me being honest I felt like you were swaying away from the word and more the world trying to be liked and relatable but this year I see a change in you and love seeing this Godly woman. I mentioned before how I didn’t like all the gym clothes and bra tops and crop tops you were wearing and since I was watching with my daughter I wasn’t watching you as much - but I definitely see a change in you ❤

thank you for sharing this!! it is not talked about enough and you talked about it with so much grace and truth! I have been wrestling through this topic the past few months and this helped so much!

Thank you soooo much for making this video. It touched me personally ❤

I love that you brought the topic of modesty up. Our bodies are temples and are sacred. The world teaches differently, that we should show it off and I know that is not of the Lord and what pleases Him. You are definitely being guided by Him to share this. Thank you .

Milena! The Lord needed me to watch this today! i've been married for 1 year now and literally about 3 months in the Lord really started opening my eyes in this way. I've also struggled alot with being a kind of lukewarm believer, constantly battling new age beliefs. I have been feeling the conviction towards modesty so much because for me, I really want to be seen differently, seen as a believer and when the He put that word modesty on my heart WHEWW CHILE! I thank him so much for putting it on my heart and honestly you sharing this is just more confirmation for me. Go Queen! xx

This video is exactly what I’ve been needing, I’ve been feeling the exact same way! Love seeing you talk about this!

This was a breathe of fresh air!! I loved and was able to receive this❤️‍🔥 I have seen your maturity in the Lord throughout the years and I can’t wait to see the ways He will continue to use you. You inspire me a lot! God bless you sis ❤

Wow. I really felt this. I have decided not to long ago, to start dressing more “modestly”. I made the comment out loud to my husband, and our oldest daughter who is 12 asked me what that meant. I of course was stumbling on my words to say, and didn’t know exactly how to put it besides having more respect for myself, what I’m showing of my body and to whom… but this, this video has made some more valid points and I think I will have sit down and show her some of these scriptures now and talk more into depth with it. As her becoming a young lady, I believe it’s very important for her to hear this and have a better understanding. Then as her two younger sisters get older, they will know as well. I try to instill it always, for them all to learn, but I must set the example in my household. Thank you ❤ God knew exactly what I needed to hear.

I just wanted to say how much I appreciate your grace + gentleness in this video. I've also been burned by hurtful comments regarding modesty and a general attitude of shame around the conversation which in my experience is never helpful and always hurtful. this was humble and honest and vulnerable and I so so appreciate that

I love this! I started a small Christian clothing business a couple years ago, and made this verse our main verse for the business and as a reminder for me as a business owner during moments of “trendy showy items” . It’s definitely been hard sometimes but it’s been awesome seeing our little community love the items too! Thanks for sharing and for the reminder 🤎

IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS VIDEO!!!! So proud of you and your obedience 😊👏🏾👏🏾

I love this entire message! ❤The obedience, the vulnerability, how relatable your walk is and the grace you are showing to others and imploring on others to have with eachother❤️

I am a Muslim but really relate to so many of the things you say and feel! Loved this video. 💕 Definitely not an easy topic to talk about!

thank you so much for being so vulnerable. I completely get where you're coming from saying that you're not proud of the way you may have dressed in the past, but I think having so many people be exposed to pictures of maybe what you may not wear now reveals the process of change and conviction and its beauty in God. thank you for sharing; this was incredibly valuable ♥

@ashlierosario5523

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Yea a LOT of vulnerability 🙌🏽💯

Such a good video Milena! Your heart on this topic totally shined through, with no judgement on everyone watching. I can tell such a difference in your spiritual videos now from old videos, you are speaking from such a place of humility and experience ❤ thanks for opening up to us about this!

Jeans being immodest has me mind blown 🤯 I don’t dress bad, but I think if men can wear jeans, we can too! We both have butts 🤷🏻‍♀️

@busrayalavac

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Honestly, men shouldnt be wearing jeans the way they do!! Especially the skinny jeans!! Not modest at all

@-lavender-777

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Tight jeans are basically leggings showing all the crevices of your ass cheeks and legs. Men dont wear it tight.

@Erinnestatic

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Agreed and what’s interesting is lots of men find skirts or dresses MORE appealing than jeans anyway. So it doesn’t make a difference really😬

@tynasiafraser2958

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Men and women jeans are not the same women jeans are made to draw attention to your butt. Men jeans today are a little too tight. I think jeans that don't draw so much attention to your butt is more appropriate but if you are a woman with a large behind and it's unavoidable then I get it.

@TheKaty739

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Totally agree. Women need to be able to wear slacks to work or jeans out on the town and not be called immodest.

The denominations that only wear skirts and dresses are so incredibly toxic in my experience. I grew up in that church, and I can’t express how ridiculous it was. One time I went to a church camp when I was 5, and I got pulled aside and told to go change bc my dress was just above the knee. I was 5. I did not even understand why. Why were they sexualizing that? I was 5! That stuck with me because it was so confusing. Not until I was older did I understand what happened. I love modesty in every aspect you described, as long as it’s not coming from a place of oppression from other people.

@MrPandabee

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I agree. This reminds me of dress codes at school, sexualising children’s knees and shoulders. It keeps kids from learning and represents a form of punishment in the summer for their wardrobe and bodies. This whole topic is not addressed at all like that outside of the US. European schools don’t have a ‘school dress code’ unless it is a private school with certain extra rules for uniforms or school attire. Girls are not made to feel ‘wrong’ and distracting.

Yesss! Thank you for talking about this, I felt so alone as I grow with the Lord and grow as a woman in general, also as a mom of three. People close to me tell me I dress like a grandma but I just feel so weird if I show too much skin! It feels wrong. Im happy to hear someone else talking about it and being honest that it can be a struggle when you’re still growing and learning!

I love this! I love your honesty and grace☺️

This will bless so many people ❤️ This is exactly the type of video I was searching for when I first felt convicted about my own modesty! It’s a scary topic so many Christian influencers avoid but you handled it with genuine love & grace for whoever watches this ☺️

I love this! As a young mom/woman in society today, we are constantly seeing what beautiful “is” on social media and it has affected me so much. I struggle with finding my own style and sense of self because I feel like if I don’t look or dress like the girls on social media, I’m not beautiful. Thank you for speaking on this and I pray for all women in their journey to find confidence in their own selves💕

@Amourbeauty_mua

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Yes because I see so much Christian girls dress modesty but it look too frumpy I want to still dress like how I was dressing I like the way I dress I love FashionNova PrettyLittleThing etc

I love this video ❤ I’ve never had thoughts of you being/dressing immodestly, but I’m so inspired by your convictions and obedience!

This is so beautiful and delivered in such humility. Thank you ❤

This is a cool video and shows a real journey and growth from your previous video on modesty and how you describe it then vs. now. Looking forward to watching this journey continue.

Honestly, modesty is a touchy topic with me as well. I feel like for so long it's been drilled in females heads that we need to be modest for the sake of the "male gaze" and it was always so off putting to me. But I love how you touched on how 1)men can be immodest 2) modesty is far beyond what you wear and 3) taking into account body shapes and how certain women are shamed for the body that God gave them! It's a personal journey with that person and the Lord. Great job with this video :)

@vivaeuropa

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Mia we have to be honest here if we walk in the average church you already have around 9 out of 10 men dressing modest. It's a lot more common for women to dress inmodest so that's why the focus is on them mostly. Both need to be modest but it's simply just more of a women's issue. Out of curiosity what's touchy about it to you? With scripture saying don't be a stumblingblock Luke 17:1-4, Paul in 1 Corinthians 8:13 said even though he can eat meat he won't if it causes a weaker brother to stumble and much more. It's pretty straightforward in scripture and the biggest struggle I think is people just not wanting to lay down their own desires and selflessly serve like we're called to do.

this is such an encouraging video 🥺 I’ve been feeling the same way about not being truly convicted anymore about certains styles and pieces and you really encouraged me to pray about it! ❤️‍🩹 i feel like for sure this video is God talking to me about my process so thank you for being so open, honest and vulnerable 🫂

Praise God for your willingness to talk about modesty! I remember (probably over a year ago) you mentioned on Instagram that you weren't ready to talk about this yet, but I am so thankful you are now. You did a beautiful job explaining how external modesty is a reflection of what's inside your heart. When I was convicted of modesty, I went through the same steps you're going through and I'm still working through my thoughts on certain types of clothes. Also, thank you for the reminder that modesty is dressing and acting in a way that glorifies God and not myself! I think I've been lacking in that lately.

I get it but on the other hand I think women shouldn't 'hide' just because men can't keep their thoughts together. I don't think you should dress too revealingly - of course not. don't understand me wrong but when a guy passes by with huge muscles and a tight shirt I could have 'dirty' thoughts too but I CHOOSE NOT TO. men should learn that too... see us as a woman (as a human being) and not as a s** object...

@MilenaCiciotti

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I agree with this!! this topic is definitely not one-sided-- I was just sharing my personal experience as a wife and mama ☺️

@kacieschafer5226

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I think this is my issue too. It had me thinking about women only wearing dresses and being so oppressive when I can see a man’s butt in a pair of pants as well? I 100% get what she is saying about modesty in general.

Through my walk with the Lord in the last few years, I have felt a huge conviction to be modest as well. When I would wear my shorts and crop tops from college, I started to feel very uncomfortable and found myself tugging at them to cover myself up. I knew the Holy Spirit was telling me it was time for a change. Dressing more modestly makes me feel more confident and sophisticated! It's definitely been a slow process of elimination, so I completely understand your journey!

I’ve been watching your videos for a while now. This is one of your best videos yet! ❤️

Thank you for sharing! I love everything you said and it’s so inspiring to me! Keep posting more!!❤