It's just sex....whats the big deal?

On this video we share our stories on how sex pretty much changes everything if it's outside the will of God. We hope that these videos encourage you to look into a life of purity and wait for God's best for your life.
We do not encourage sex before Marriage.
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  • @dumilesia9274
    @dumilesia92744 жыл бұрын

    im 29 still a virgin .i dont regret being a virgin at all .im so happy honestly, im not ashamed at all.

  • @nonophat

    @nonophat

    4 жыл бұрын

    👏👏don't ever compromise that for anything or anyone, no matter what! I gave up my virginity two months before I turned 25... worst decision of my life. 4 years later, just before I started dating my mow husband, I became celibate --- best decision I ever made!

  • @nontembisomanyathi8587

    @nontembisomanyathi8587

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for that inspiration! I'm 25 years and still holding. To be honest, some days are better than others. But I think the anxiety of letting it go is bigger than the desire to engage. Thank you so much for sharing that comment, with it and with this video, I'm holding it down until marriage. ❤️❤️

  • @leratopatriciamokoena9274

    @leratopatriciamokoena9274

    4 жыл бұрын

    Im 26 and still a virgin. I'm content and the world will make you think something is wrong with you

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    keep going sis!

  • @kurhulandlovuzulu6758

    @kurhulandlovuzulu6758

    4 жыл бұрын

    Girl don't give it up please. For anything or anyone who isn't sent by God for you! I commend you 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @joytitus766
    @joytitus7664 жыл бұрын

    I'd like to remind whoever is feeling dirty, impure, guilty Listen! God loves you and He's able to cleanse all things through His Word. YOU CAN BE PURE AGAIN❗

  • @kurhulandlovuzulu6758

    @kurhulandlovuzulu6758

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 😭😭😭

  • @zwivhuyafaith8177

    @zwivhuyafaith8177

    4 жыл бұрын

    🙌🙌🙌

  • @mataeliletamo3696

    @mataeliletamo3696

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen🙏

  • @allthingsemploymentwithnok5819

    @allthingsemploymentwithnok5819

    4 жыл бұрын

    You are the best babe

  • @qothoasek5815

    @qothoasek5815

    4 жыл бұрын

    🙏

  • @NNK0312
    @NNK03124 жыл бұрын

    I am a 18 year old teen and i am just so encouraged to wait until marriage.

  • @FadzieM655

    @FadzieM655

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ndapunikwa Kushinga Wait Dear

  • @esethu.M

    @esethu.M

    4 жыл бұрын

    Keep waiting love, and while in waiting let's build our relationship with God 😊

  • @favour979

    @favour979

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes nana, wait, u will not regret it

  • @allthingsemploymentwithnok5819

    @allthingsemploymentwithnok5819

    4 жыл бұрын

    Please babe,its worth it

  • @conslatekoyo475

    @conslatekoyo475

    4 жыл бұрын

    This is the best décision you will have made for your life😊

  • @joytitus766
    @joytitus7664 жыл бұрын

    Also, can we appreciate learning from other people's mistakes? You don't have to touch the fire to know that it burns, if you saw it burn someone, that's a lesson enough to stay away from it. YOU DON'T HAVE TO EXPERIENCE EVERYTHING ❗

  • @chulumancomahanjana5866

    @chulumancomahanjana5866

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oh my word, been saying this. People disregard the lessons that come from other people's mistakes and opt to experience things themselves and end up fetching so much pain, shame and regret. We need to normalize learning from other people's mistakes and forget this YOLO culture that pushes us to experiment with things that often leave us broken and hurt.

  • @MissElla26

    @MissElla26

    4 жыл бұрын

    True!

  • @mpho4164

    @mpho4164

    4 жыл бұрын

    Joy Titus absolutely

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    yes we dont all have to burn!

  • @bongekadube8648

    @bongekadube8648

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am always saying this. People think "ah now that you've had your fun, you want to ruin ours"...and its only because you didn't know better at the time.

  • @Nadiamatlala
    @Nadiamatlala4 жыл бұрын

    Being celibate has been the best decision I ever made 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Almost 10 years

  • @ThandazaMK

    @ThandazaMK

    4 жыл бұрын

    10 years? HA sisi wow....that is really inspiring👏👏👏👏👏👏💛💃💃💃💃💃

  • @Nadiamatlala

    @Nadiamatlala

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mathapelo Moloi thanks boo. Being single most of the time helps 😂😂😂 But creating boundaries and dating like minded people helps. And the break ups are easier. God really does make us new creations in every sense of the word. ❤️ The old has passed away.

  • @leratoramz6515

    @leratoramz6515

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m inspired 😭😭👏🏽👏🏽. That’s amazing sis ❤️❤️

  • @thobzatcebekhulu94

    @thobzatcebekhulu94

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thinking of joining you

  • @onenkosisimilemkize3191

    @onenkosisimilemkize3191

    4 жыл бұрын

    It is sooooooo worth it🤞🏾❤️ 3 years in and I have nooo regrets!! It brings you closer to God and allows Him to fully deal with you🙌

  • @mohaumamatela4890
    @mohaumamatela48904 жыл бұрын

    I've been celibate for almost 2 years this year, and I can admit that soul ties are soooo real! I used to have a sexual relationship with someone who was depressed and had no drive in life, and I actually started seeing those traits in me...but prior to that, I didn't really think they existed. I used to feel like if I don't give someone sex then I won't be enough for him and in order for me to be treated well I had to give him sex..basically saw it as a currency. But I'm no longer that person as I've got a renewed and transformed mind in Christ. I am worth it because He says so, I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Sex can really mess you up but it's never too late to come back to God. Thank you Brenden and Mpoomy for this honest talk that nobody's interested in, especially in this day and age. Stay blessed guys!❤

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    love that! its never too late!

  • @kurhulandlovuzulu6758

    @kurhulandlovuzulu6758

    4 жыл бұрын

    I feel you sis 🙏🏾

  • @boitshepokekana2039

    @boitshepokekana2039

    4 жыл бұрын

    Literally going through this right now I just realized it of late. Soul ties are real.

  • @claudiahindongo6524

    @claudiahindongo6524

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much, this really helps me make a choice that pleases God.

  • @mohaumamatela4890

    @mohaumamatela4890

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@claudiahindongo6524 that's really beautiful girl!❤

  • @sinikiwedlamini3004
    @sinikiwedlamini30044 жыл бұрын

    I'm 23 and still a virgin, I'm encouraged to wait till marriage. Thank you💕

  • @awandezwane1500

    @awandezwane1500

    3 жыл бұрын

    Keep it up girl!

  • @mapule2780

    @mapule2780

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wait dear. It's a blessing. I also waited for marriage.

  • @oratile7205

    @oratile7205

    2 жыл бұрын

    Please continue to wait, I pray for more grace.

  • @buhlelusenga8266
    @buhlelusenga82664 жыл бұрын

    I actually used to think that being a virgin is the only way to be seen pure...But now i see that even if you made a mistake God still welcomes you and restores you

  • @russelbanze

    @russelbanze

    4 жыл бұрын

    You figured it out sis. 😊😊😊❤️❤️❤️ That's more of less the whole point.

  • @funiesadiki2220
    @funiesadiki22204 жыл бұрын

    ”God can't use you if you are not completely honest with Him” Amen!

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    amen!

  • @lesegopooe8890
    @lesegopooe88904 жыл бұрын

    Love how Brandon acts like he never knows the topic but gets into it fully prepared!😂 legendary! On a serious note though, This is powerful!

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    lmao hes always clowning

  • @sebaganku8125
    @sebaganku81254 жыл бұрын

    Who else like before watching....🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @thobilemlimi3844

    @thobilemlimi3844

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me💃💃

  • @fillemonhaufiku2091

    @fillemonhaufiku2091

    4 жыл бұрын

    I liked because you said so 😅

  • @sebaganku8125

    @sebaganku8125

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@fillemonhaufiku2091 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sebaganku8125

    @sebaganku8125

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@thobilemlimi3844 👊👊👊

  • @frankboateng4133

    @frankboateng4133

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂💀mee

  • @afoodiesadventure4809
    @afoodiesadventure48094 жыл бұрын

    Argh... Brenden😩😩 that hand reaching to cover Mpumi as she speaks about her experience... Haibo. God bless this union. Mrs mom, we are learning, we are listening, we are trying to be better people. May God continue to use you as a vessel ❤️🙌🏽

  • @nomfundomiya5614

    @nomfundomiya5614

    4 жыл бұрын

    I also noticed that 😭❤️ so beautiful ❤️

  • @nomfundomiya5614

    @nomfundomiya5614

    4 жыл бұрын

    I also noticed that 😭❤️so beautiful 😭❤️

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    thank you so much

  • @CynthiaSerah

    @CynthiaSerah

    4 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @tumimotsatse165

    @tumimotsatse165

    4 жыл бұрын

    A love language ❤️

  • @ndivhuwomachiba5471
    @ndivhuwomachiba54714 жыл бұрын

    I wish someone told me all this when I was a teenager, but it's never too late to learn and God will forgive

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    grace covers us. when we know better we do better

  • @ProphetEdgarkapanga

    @ProphetEdgarkapanga

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @onthatilenatasha365

    @onthatilenatasha365

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here i wish i knew this sometimes i kinda hate or feel bad for breaking my v card without knowing but it wasn't my intention

  • @ProphetEdgarkapanga

    @ProphetEdgarkapanga

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@onthatilenatasha365 as she said, we serve a forgiving God Remember the woman who was about to be stoned for adultery Her accusers had all been disqualified and the one who could chose to forgive You are Forgiven Go in peace

  • @ProphetEdgarkapanga

    @ProphetEdgarkapanga

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@MpoomyLedwaba amen, amazing grace

  • @nqobilesibiya3126
    @nqobilesibiya31264 жыл бұрын

    "You have to ask the Lord to release you from these people...name them one by one"😥

  • @marinkymphahlele3684
    @marinkymphahlele36844 жыл бұрын

    "you can't go too far where God can't find you" 😭😭

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    amen!

  • @kahlynn-y1040

    @kahlynn-y1040

    4 жыл бұрын

    The Bible says he gathers you from scattered lands

  • @thobiledlamini6797
    @thobiledlamini67974 жыл бұрын

    "God does not only call the qualified, He qualifies the called" 💕

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    thats the gospel

  • @allthingsemploymentwithnok5819

    @allthingsemploymentwithnok5819

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wakhuluma kwevakala,phela wena wakitsi!!.I'm also a Dlamini

  • @LottyBeingVegan
    @LottyBeingVegan4 жыл бұрын

    I am 19 yrs old, doing my third year in varsity. Am a virgin and sharing that with people especially when u still in varsity it's like I am stupid or not smart enough to actually engage in sex because to majority it's a norm. Most of the time I feel ashamed to confess my virginity to people bcoz of how they will judge me. And it makes me sad that most people never understand how sex for me is more about sharing yourself with someone, a spiritual and emotional connection.

  • @olwethuzuma8004

    @olwethuzuma8004

    4 жыл бұрын

    I can relate love 🤍 keep your purity

  • @njokinjuguna6388

    @njokinjuguna6388

    4 жыл бұрын

    Be determined dont mind what people will say about ...people will always there to judge but just do what u know is right n keep ua purity

  • @blessingphophi9552

    @blessingphophi9552

    4 жыл бұрын

    I feel u ey

  • @mercybanda4142

    @mercybanda4142

    4 жыл бұрын

    Keep it that way sis. It's not stupid. Stupidity is going against God's way . Keep on pleasing God sis and not People.

  • @LottyBeingVegan

    @LottyBeingVegan

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tijan Gift that's the energy. Thank you. ❤️

  • @lebonhlapo2607
    @lebonhlapo26074 жыл бұрын

    As a person who's still dealing with soul-ties, IT IS THE PITS. HELL AT IT'S FINEST!!!!!!!!DON'T ENTERTAIN THE DEVIL NOR DEMONS. However God is faithful and merciful yet I've changed❤ and turned my life over to Christ.

  • @deshonjoseph1292
    @deshonjoseph12922 жыл бұрын

    I’m a 19 year old male virgin going to college face to face in September and I’m hanging on strong to my faith and virginity. It’s hard sometime especially when having sex for a guy is considered to be a sign of masculinity by the world but I will continue to speak boldly about my faith. Keep me in your prayers guys.

  • @melanin7770

    @melanin7770

    Жыл бұрын

    Keep it going bro

  • @user-xg7yw6uq7c

    @user-xg7yw6uq7c

    Жыл бұрын

    Keep going

  • @MpumiMabunda
    @MpumiMabunda4 жыл бұрын

    Yooo you guys🙌🙌 I'm 25 and still saving myself for marriage. This gives me more courage to continue waiting🙏🙏Thanks alot❤❤

  • @rebabaletswe

    @rebabaletswe

    4 жыл бұрын

    I love this ❤❤

  • @lenhlemat

    @lenhlemat

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me and you same boat girl. Same age and all. Keep waiting babe❤

  • @roejo9662

    @roejo9662

    4 жыл бұрын

    AWESOME!!! Beyond commendable!!!

  • @russelbanze

    @russelbanze

    4 жыл бұрын

    😊 Keep it up.

  • @OKUHLEMZINYATHI100

    @OKUHLEMZINYATHI100

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jhoo keep it up guys.

  • @litze8786
    @litze87864 жыл бұрын

    Great subject to talk openly about 😊 I stopped having sex, soul-ties are real, so now I'm waiting for God to prepare me for Marriage 💍

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    amazing!

  • @whywhy3049

    @whywhy3049

    4 жыл бұрын

    😒

  • @litze8786

    @litze8786

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@whywhy3049 ?

  • @nonhlanhlandwandwe3341

    @nonhlanhlandwandwe3341

    4 жыл бұрын

    wise decision

  • @litze8786

    @litze8786

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@nonhlanhlandwandwe3341 it's a daily prayer that I remain in Gods Prescence

  • @joytitus766
    @joytitus7664 жыл бұрын

    Ya'll are doing the most👏 The world has normalized sex like crazy, it's almost like an infectious disease now that is somewhat strangely attractive. At the end of the day, God knows what's best for us and there's wisdom in everything He said we should stay away from. There's no shame in doing things the God-way, after all, we are not of this world

  • @litze8786

    @litze8786

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen, Amen, Amen 👏

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    thank you so much!

  • @kurhulandlovuzulu6758

    @kurhulandlovuzulu6758

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @khanyisileruselo9502

    @khanyisileruselo9502

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes I couldn't agree more 💖 sex is a trend now .

  • @mamobabalwa6500

    @mamobabalwa6500

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen 🙏🙏

  • @leely1173
    @leely11734 жыл бұрын

    I don't wanna lie, when i saw the caption I tried to stay away from the video because deep down i know the video would somehow force me to face my own "demons"...but I do agree with everything you guys are saying...very true

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    eyyy girl! face them

  • @elsienomcebo9255

    @elsienomcebo9255

    4 жыл бұрын

    I had to face my demons😢

  • @russelbanze

    @russelbanze

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ms. Komako & Ms. Nomcebo, you ladies got this 😊. It's not about what you've done & have been. It's about where you're going. God will always be on your side to help with the hardest battles. You can't defeat them alone. 😊😊😊

  • @memorybukuru

    @memorybukuru

    4 жыл бұрын

    Russell Kenyangwa thank you! I needed to hear this. It’s about where im going🙏🏾 God has a plan for me

  • @dcc-randomstorieswithmel7424

    @dcc-randomstorieswithmel7424

    3 жыл бұрын

    😄😄😄this cracked me up,we got each other in this walk with God sis,pls do not compromise,Christian relationship is so amazing

  • @phililemkhize5946
    @phililemkhize59464 жыл бұрын

    I am a 20 years old young woman, turning 21 years this year. I have decided at a young age that I should save myself for marriage. I am a virgin and I decided to save myself because I believe that having sex with someone is a sign of marriage. I think that is why God said we have to do it when we are married.

  • @tlalythabo7021
    @tlalythabo70214 жыл бұрын

    Nothing but the truth!👐🏾 Sex is certainly not just sex and, done wrong, it does hinder intimacy with God!

  • @ashleydludlu4407
    @ashleydludlu44074 жыл бұрын

    " you cant go too far where God can't fetch you" I felt that

  • @Miss_Greatness
    @Miss_Greatness4 жыл бұрын

    Soul ties are real😢I am still struggling to get over my ex, he was toxic to me but I couldn’t let go. I even stopped going on dates because I just think of him and wish he was the one I went out with. I wouldn’t advice anyone to have sex before marriage, it hurts you in the long run

  • @nuseruiters1214

    @nuseruiters1214

    4 жыл бұрын

    Going through the same thing and it hurts soo bad.Let us hang in there,God is able.

  • @wanderingcucamber7082

    @wanderingcucamber7082

    4 жыл бұрын

    Love and light standwa. ❤🥺 I know this all too well.

  • @sarahletsoalo9668

    @sarahletsoalo9668

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nombuyiselo Nyembezi take it upon yourself now, to seek God and cut the ties through prayer. God is not unjust, pray through the name of Jesus and mann your life will be transformed and changed

  • @ndivhuworamadwa

    @ndivhuworamadwa

    4 жыл бұрын

    My current reality

  • @delchetty6126

    @delchetty6126

    4 жыл бұрын

    totally get you girl!!!!!!1 stay strong.

  • @yvonnengema5325
    @yvonnengema53254 жыл бұрын

    Who? Mpoomy and Brandon? Fixing the country those ones🥺You people are everything❤️We love you so much🥰

  • @kgothatso_N
    @kgothatso_N4 жыл бұрын

    "It takes you far from God and when you realize that you're far from God, you become scared of God and you don't have a relationship with God"- Brenden I felt that🙌🙌💯💯

  • @SuperGospelfavorites
    @SuperGospelfavorites4 жыл бұрын

    I found Mpoomy when I was doing research on natural hairstyles. But I have been pleasantly surprised at how God used that video to introduce me to your videos about your Christian walk! All of your videos have been such a blessing to me and so encouraging. Keep doing what you're doing. People are listening and being ministered to. :) Praise the Lord!

  • @kamogelomithi5738
    @kamogelomithi57384 жыл бұрын

    I have named them one by one and cut those ties in Jesus name...believe you me I instantly felt a relief. Thank you Jesus that I am free 😭😭🙏🏻 all the glory to him 🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    amen you are free!

  • @ropachinhoyi
    @ropachinhoyi4 жыл бұрын

    You guys are basically my parents. My parents never talk to me like this. Thank you♥♥♥

  • @empireempire-rf5hd

    @empireempire-rf5hd

    3 жыл бұрын

    Delivered!

  • @smartandmarried9373
    @smartandmarried93734 жыл бұрын

    This MINISTRY entails of transparency and authenticity, thank You for being obedient. You guys are spirit led yoh🥺🤞🏿. Siyabonga

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    yes transparency is the key!

  • @berverlymbedzi5317
    @berverlymbedzi53174 жыл бұрын

    The way he rubbed her shoulder when she got emotional😢

  • @ritaappiah8578

    @ritaappiah8578

    4 жыл бұрын

    That got me smiling...

  • @lesegomakone6612
    @lesegomakone66124 жыл бұрын

    i'm 29 going on 30 still a virgin and i'm glad i watched this cz it gave me more depth on understanding of my journey and also the sympathy that you spoke of for those who have treat the path i haven't, THANK YOU GUYS SO MUCH FOR THIS.

  • @hayongwonderlik5417
    @hayongwonderlik54174 жыл бұрын

    I really needed this. Ever since I gave up my virginity I haven't been the same. It's been almost 3 years. The hardest thing for me was drifting away from God and my spirituality becoming weak. I've been struggling to reconnect with God, it's just been really hard. From the beginning of this year I made a decision to to being sexually active. I'm working of fixing my relationship with God because that was a huge aspect in my life. I'm now staying cilabit until marriage. Thank you so much for this video.... you are touching many lives.

  • @russelbanze

    @russelbanze

    4 жыл бұрын

    Keep it up ❤️❤️❤️😊😊😊

  • @khanyisileruselo9502

    @khanyisileruselo9502

    4 жыл бұрын

    I feel you sis ❤ keep on pushing what's more important is the relationship with self and with the higher power .

  • @Ebenesia_noabes
    @Ebenesia_noabes4 жыл бұрын

    Now this is how such topics ought to be addressed now church, homes and schools who agrees with me🙅‍♂️🔥🔥🔥# dankie so much mpoomy and brenden really needed to hear this,this was honestly sound I appreciate your transparency means a lot x.

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    thank you so much

  • @Ebenesia_noabes

    @Ebenesia_noabes

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@MpoomyLedwaba ❤❤

  • @TheZuluSamurai1
    @TheZuluSamurai14 жыл бұрын

    Nuri is blessed to have you both as parents.. Onwards and Upwards!

  • @kgomotsohlaka7755
    @kgomotsohlaka77554 жыл бұрын

    This is amazing🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 26 and never regreted not losing my virginity till now... And to those who aren't virgins anymore and wanna be celibate, remember that it's not necessarily about keeping yourself for your husband, but for the sake of purity and being obedient to God. A few of us are contemplating being eunuchs for the kingdom of God, so we might die virgins, but what I'm stressing is that though virginity and purity are two different things, may the decision be made because of your love and obedience to God and not for someone else primarily... Tha K you for the amazing, godly content. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @delchetty6126

    @delchetty6126

    4 жыл бұрын

    amen obedience to God

  • @Ntombizanele_Tshali
    @Ntombizanele_Tshali4 жыл бұрын

    Powerful video and as a single young Christian who is trying to mend her relationship with God, this is perfect for me. Thank you 🙏

  • @nolubabalomcengwa6935

    @nolubabalomcengwa6935

    4 жыл бұрын

    Keep on. Seek Him and you will find Him.

  • @shifab7029
    @shifab70294 жыл бұрын

    I’m Muslim and a lot of what you say resonates with us. Reminded of this that all those what would be in heaven will be sinners BUT sinners who repented. it’s beautiful the relationship we have with god all he wishes is protection and goodness for us and he knows best❤️

  • @thebtalk4391
    @thebtalk43914 жыл бұрын

    Relationship Goals - Ps. Michael Todd. This was open and honest. God Bless your marriage and carry on with the work that you are doing.

  • @pinkimanong2704
    @pinkimanong27044 жыл бұрын

    Mpoomy reminds me so much of myself 🤦🤦🤦girl I was born and raised in stounch Christian home, Pastor's kid vibes but yoo my mistakes 🙆🙆🙆. We thank Jesus for Grace now I'm older and now better. 🤗🤗🤗Keep up the good work guys ♥️

  • @vickymor3963

    @vickymor3963

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol same same story for me too

  • @Munzhe
    @Munzhe4 жыл бұрын

    "The more you love God the more you want to live for Him" ❤️

  • @norahmodika5460
    @norahmodika54604 жыл бұрын

    John 1: 9- "But if we confess our sins to God, he will keep his promise and do what is right: he will forgive us our sins and purify us from all our wrongdoing". Your Videos inspires many & makes one to evaluate their lives. Thank you 🤗😢

  • @thembekamabaso9001
    @thembekamabaso90014 жыл бұрын

    "The Gospel is for those who are sick and needy." Oh Lord! God bless you and your family.

  • @Miss_Greatness
    @Miss_Greatness4 жыл бұрын

    The Ledwabas make me wanna get married tomorrow😍

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    hahah embrace every season

  • @thobzatcebekhulu94

    @thobzatcebekhulu94

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lool nami yazi 😂😂😂

  • @sanelyfchannel3745

    @sanelyfchannel3745

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hmmmm all the best❤️❤️

  • @tabitanomancwabeneti4174

    @tabitanomancwabeneti4174

    4 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣OMG I thought I was crazy🤣🤣

  • @thembisamakhoba7219

    @thembisamakhoba7219

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here 😂

  • @leahk.chanda4946
    @leahk.chanda49464 жыл бұрын

    Am 28 and still a virgin by God's grace , it's not easy but God is faithful. I still choose to wait till am married.

  • @ndivhuwomachiba5471
    @ndivhuwomachiba54714 жыл бұрын

    Mpumi I wish you know how much changes you have done in my life. I thank God for sending you to open my eyes. Each and every video you post shift something in my life. 😭😭😭

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    ahhhhh im so happy!

  • @nanampunganyi4058
    @nanampunganyi40584 жыл бұрын

    "There are certain things I feel like you can do without" yaaaaassss 🔥💯

  • @thanandlovu5107
    @thanandlovu51073 жыл бұрын

    How he comforts her when she tells her story 🥺

  • @Khumo_fit
    @Khumo_fit3 жыл бұрын

    I felt it when u said "your purpose is delayed " 😭that's soo true

  • @nolubabalomcengwa6935
    @nolubabalomcengwa69354 жыл бұрын

    "We are nobody's but we know someone who is amazing and who can change lives"-Brenden. That was so deep! Could even be a song.

  • @amparanyameyie5719

    @amparanyameyie5719

    3 жыл бұрын

    There is a song like that by Casting Crowns. "I am just a nobody"

  • @odwanxokwana8694

    @odwanxokwana8694

    2 жыл бұрын

    I genuinely felt that!

  • @talentlnsouthafrica7376
    @talentlnsouthafrica73764 жыл бұрын

    I feel like God is really talking to me, I've been celibate and was thinking of quiting but I feel like through this convos, He's telling me I should continue and I still have a long way to go, I still need to break a soul tie I have I still need to be devoted to the word and understand really what sex is or what marriage is, why women have to sacrifices this much, and I feel like as much I feel like it's a huge sacrifice women are making, so the fact that He made me a woman for a reason

  • @jemimaoduwaiye

    @jemimaoduwaiye

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hope95Hope Hope95Hope bless you🙏🏾

  • @litze8786

    @litze8786

    4 жыл бұрын

    Pray the Lord will help you through this journey 👍 I've been celibate few months now, I've surrendered it all to God I've removed myself from places of temptation don't see guys anymore keep as far away as possible just working on producing a better version of myself so when the Lord blesses me with a husband ill be ready. God Bless you always

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    im so glad you have decided to stand by your decision. it will be worth it.

  • @kurhulandlovuzulu6758

    @kurhulandlovuzulu6758

    4 жыл бұрын

    I feel you 😔 and please don't give up celibacy

  • @mbalenhlehlatshwayo7761

    @mbalenhlehlatshwayo7761

    4 жыл бұрын

    Don't stop... I was celibate and decided to just stop. Biggest mistake I ever made in life, not only did I just feel like my life was falling apart piece by piece I felt stagnant... During that period I learned that the guy I was dating was a devil worshiper! It's not worth, trying to get back to the life I was living before has been really tough... N also to touch abit on what Mpumi said about soul ties the guy I slept with was a smoker n for a few months I found myself enjoying cigarettes from nowhere, prior to that I cudnt stand cigarettes... But God has been good to me, I'm well on my way back to being my normal self.

  • @ncebakazitshangela1032
    @ncebakazitshangela10324 жыл бұрын

    Can we pause and applaud Mrs Mom for keep giving us these videos. I always look forward to hearing from you madam. Thank you. Now let's watch😉

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    ahhhh thank you

  • @dcc-randomstorieswithmel7424

    @dcc-randomstorieswithmel7424

    3 жыл бұрын

    😄😄😄this is funny,we love them too

  • @khutso_mbokane
    @khutso_mbokane4 жыл бұрын

    "A marriage without a ceremony... " yoh! I felt that. God bless you guys. I will share your video and pray it reaches not only peoples eyes but penetrates into their spiritual minds. This is the wisdom young people lack. Also I commend you as a couple for opening up as much as you have... to help others. Stay blessed.

  • @kay_mabs
    @kay_mabs4 жыл бұрын

    I watch Mike Todd all the time😍❤️I recommend the relationship goals series for everyone. The channel is Transformation Church ☺️

  • @patiencek9357

    @patiencek9357

    4 жыл бұрын

    I saw this comment I was like yess everyone needs that series !! Now there is Relationship goals reloaded!

  • @mrkebz

    @mrkebz

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@yolandamzizi4138 Hey! Can you kindly share the book with me. Here's my email: kebzmonthe@gmail.com

  • @nchedi

    @nchedi

    4 жыл бұрын

    @yolanda mzizi, please share the book with me, Dipuojulia@gmail.com

  • @kholo-naturalhair6844

    @kholo-naturalhair6844

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mike Todd changed my life, I'm afraid of sex even now

  • @bontlemaps7551

    @bontlemaps7551

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@yolandamzizi4138 can you email me the book? At bontlemontle@gmail.com

  • @tncgambu
    @tncgambu4 жыл бұрын

    "God can't heal what you don't show Him." Thank you so much. I needed this❤️💕

  • @misshopemakgabutlane9703
    @misshopemakgabutlane97034 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I needed this! ❤️

  • @amandabeta6257
    @amandabeta62574 жыл бұрын

    I was also watching Pastor Mike Todd yesterday evening, its so funny that just recently these videos are being recommended to me...God is speaking🙌...Thank you guys God bless u

  • @betswe.ratlhogo
    @betswe.ratlhogo4 жыл бұрын

    My personality really did change after breaking my virginity and I’ve decided to become celibate. I totally relate to Mpoomy

  • @leratoramz6515
    @leratoramz65154 жыл бұрын

    I genuinely love how honest you guys are 😭❤️❤️.

  • @mabotsechoshane
    @mabotsechoshane4 жыл бұрын

    You guys are filled with God’s wisdom ❤️ A rare thing for our generation. Thank you for encouraging biblical wisdom 🙏🏽

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    thank you so much

  • @ntsakomavunda54

    @ntsakomavunda54

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well said Mabotse, truely beautiful to have the Ledwabas in their space of influence to really talk about such topic from a pure Godly/biblical stand point. We are cheering u guys and praying for you to stand until Christ comes ..im soo sharing this!

  • @beulah_nkosi
    @beulah_nkosi4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story ❤️

  • @siphe6335
    @siphe63354 жыл бұрын

    What a sermon, strange enough a friend of mine spoke about this to me izolo reminding me of how powerful I used to be when we were saved and varsity changed me. Thanks guys, I will practice this. Its actually my first time watching your channel, I believe God was confirming what my friend was saying and this morning I took Uber, the Nigerian Uber driver just started talking about this topic and how it has been delaying me from being great. Its strange!! But I believe God is really talking to me now

  • @theresanamonje
    @theresanamonje4 жыл бұрын

    This was everything,thank you

  • @nomfundomabaso3163
    @nomfundomabaso31634 жыл бұрын

    I needed to hear this. Thank you...

  • @tumimotsatse165
    @tumimotsatse1654 жыл бұрын

    Soooo much wisdom 😍thank you so much for this 💕

  • @chisae_
    @chisae_4 жыл бұрын

    14:10. The devil definitely uses shame, secrecy and guilt to destroy you. Thank you so much for this video. You are really helping young girls by sharing information and advice that we don't necessarily hear at home from our parents. God Bless you.

  • @Pha2fit
    @Pha2fit4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this! Wow!

  • @vhuhwavhomasindi8770
    @vhuhwavhomasindi87704 жыл бұрын

    Guys thank you!!! This is so helpful!!

  • @arianetela_
    @arianetela_4 жыл бұрын

    Came across this channel today. I’m 19 and I must say this has really been a great mind shift. Thank you for this and God bless xx

  • @tshepisomodupe2824
    @tshepisomodupe28244 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful, I've learned a lot. I'm looking forward to more videos 👌❤️

  • @mantsietsokepanyane3241
    @mantsietsokepanyane32414 жыл бұрын

    😭This is the content we signed up for. I love yalls honesty💓

  • @christine3061
    @christine30614 жыл бұрын

    Word! Thank you precious couple! Deep Word!

  • @walkinginthelight1931
    @walkinginthelight19314 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for blessing us😢🙌

  • @_Lolo00
    @_Lolo004 жыл бұрын

    Praying for the release from soul ties. Wow this hit home & I fully agree cause if we pray about everything else, one can pray about this too.

  • @snenhlanhlaprecious9311
    @snenhlanhlaprecious93114 жыл бұрын

    Yoh im releasing my soul ties today 😭😭😭

  • @prettyblack2261
    @prettyblack22614 жыл бұрын

    I wish I heard all these during my early teenage years, but thank you guys for the teaching ❤️ truly inspired. Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @YonelaMsoki
    @YonelaMsoki4 жыл бұрын

    I’m here for this 🙌🏾😭❤️

  • @everydaywithtebogo7515
    @everydaywithtebogo75154 жыл бұрын

    This is amazing. Been sharing on our youth group.

  • @kathorusparliament
    @kathorusparliament4 жыл бұрын

    God is real and good!!! Mpoomy is pretty with brains and kind ...beautiful fam, good husband, they both sing well and love God and all *claps once*

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    lol thank you

  • @mpho_khorombi
    @mpho_khorombi4 жыл бұрын

    This is a word in season, thank you guys!

  • @nakoseretse1569
    @nakoseretse15694 жыл бұрын

    PREACH!!!🙌🏼

  • @leratoramz6515
    @leratoramz65154 жыл бұрын

    Soul ties are a real thing ! Omg 😭

  • @kathorusparliament

    @kathorusparliament

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lerato Ramz please help a gal out sis... Is it biblical?

  • @kathorusparliament

    @kathorusparliament

    4 жыл бұрын

    Is it in the Bible?

  • @leratoramz6515

    @leratoramz6515

    4 жыл бұрын

    New Name Loading girrrrl , I’m actually about to do my research on it. But I think what Mpoomy was saying is that we can just pray about it in order to be released from those ties!!

  • @olefilesesane6447

    @olefilesesane6447

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hello New Name Loading yes there is a biblical reference for soul ties it's 1 Corinthians 6:15-18.

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    4 жыл бұрын

    yes they are

  • @charitymothapothechef4791
    @charitymothapothechef47914 жыл бұрын

    You guys are such a blessing. Honestly ministering to me💕

  • @vuyomtshali
    @vuyomtshali4 жыл бұрын

    You guys are doing the most, this reminds me of a sermon by Juanita Bynum "no more sheets" 😢😢🙏🙏🙏

  • @nolwazimthethwa7296
    @nolwazimthethwa72964 жыл бұрын

    I love you guys, and I love the message that you are preaching🙏🏾

  • @joannjoroge503
    @joannjoroge5034 жыл бұрын

    I thank God for you guys may he continue using you 🙏 I like how brandan "never knows" the topics 😂😂

  • @ntokozomalaza5865
    @ntokozomalaza58654 жыл бұрын

    This video filled my eyes with tears 😭 😭 😭 thinking about everything wow we honestly need to run to God 🙌 🙌 🙌

  • @kobamorankgomo
    @kobamorankgomo4 жыл бұрын

    Love you so much Mpoomy - I love your content!!

  • @nkhensaniblessing9211
    @nkhensaniblessing92114 жыл бұрын

    Thank you guys, this is really helpful.

  • @christellekalala
    @christellekalala4 жыл бұрын

    This is so powerful, I'm in awe of the way God communicates to us, this timing is too perfect.😢🙌❤

  • @palesapisces6206
    @palesapisces62064 жыл бұрын

    The truth nobody wants to talk about. Thank you for this. Love your content ❤️

  • @gabrieldaking5138
    @gabrieldaking51384 жыл бұрын

    I needed to hear this at this time.

  • @andilendaba2260
    @andilendaba22604 жыл бұрын

    You authenticity 🌞❤️ appreciate it so much

  • @its._tlholo1858
    @its._tlholo18583 жыл бұрын

    The Holy Spirit brought me here as I was confused as to what now happens to my relationship as I’ve changed my lifestyle, thank you for this revelation ❤️

  • @nompumeleloskosana9427
    @nompumeleloskosana94274 жыл бұрын

    24 still a virgin however I have no desire to get married but also not planning to die a virgin .As a young christian woman is quite tricky.

  • @dr_shamie

    @dr_shamie

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nompumelelo, if you don't mind me asking, why is it you don't desire marriage?

  • @EveyMo

    @EveyMo

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think the important message is being cautious about who you sleep with. Personally I don't believe the marriage institution is what legitimatizes a relationship, contrary to popular belief. It's really up to the individuals in the relationship. So married or not, it is still important to take care of yourself and be mindful of who you share your body with because at the end of the day, sex is still an exhange between individuals and I think that's how it got reserved for marriage. But remember even married people can still sleep around. Do not let people guilt trip you into marriage for the sake of having sex "in holy matrimony". Human beings are sexual beings - it is okay to want to have sex, it is okay to have sex. Just don't be wreckless about it and take care of yourself. All the best.

  • @lenhlemat

    @lenhlemat

    4 жыл бұрын

    ... Marriage is the sex container. Like water, Sex tends to be messy and sometimes destructive outside the container. I also am curious as to why you're not looking into getting married?

  • @nompumeleloskosana9427

    @nompumeleloskosana9427

    4 жыл бұрын

    Because I dont think marriage is not for everyone however I am not against the institution it is a blessing from God.However not everyone is built for it and at times I feel like am one of those

  • @thokoziletshabalala6480
    @thokoziletshabalala64804 жыл бұрын

    Loved listening to you guys.😭 Thank you so much for this video.

  • @nomfundomiya5614
    @nomfundomiya56144 жыл бұрын

    So relatable 🙏 thank you Mrs mom