I had the 8 year itch. I wonder how many of these women have children in the marriage. I wanted a divorce!!! He said,”NO! Why?”’ I said but you don’t make me happy anymore and these kids are driving me crazy!!! I’m done! He said, your not happy? It’s not about you but it’s about us. You were not happy when I met you!👀👀🤣🤣🤣🤣 He said no and I prayed and stayed and worked on us not me and now it’s been 26 1/2 years, the kids got grown and love, life, and marriage is soooo good. So happy my husband showed no pride in saying NO! The reward of having someone to love you no matter what is great♥️💯 Now I’m looking forward to grandkids, one day🥰

@cfav16

3 жыл бұрын

You should’ve been on this panel because I’m exactly where you were and we’re 6 years two kids in. I’ve thought about divorce but haven’t brought it up as bluntly 😂 my husband definitely wouldn’t say no because of pride but having kids will definitely try your marriage for sure. I’m hanging in here though because like your hubby said, it ain’t about me it’s about us.

@iamlakesivad4675

3 жыл бұрын

❤️

@19blondie93

3 жыл бұрын

@@cfav16 You know what; that's okay. Marriage is hard. The universe asks two complete strangers (unless you grew up in the same household, you're strangers LOL) to come together and love each other forever. The itch could just be changes that you all are going through. You need to have an honest adult conversation, or two, or three; to work it out. What are your needs?? Are they being addressed?? Are you angry?? Are you depressed?? Are you stifled?? And Vice Versa. Decide together how you want to move forward.

@colinc5531

3 жыл бұрын

@@cfav16 so why did you get married ?...why do you want a divorce now?...

@ifeolarewaju5423

3 жыл бұрын

This comment right here spoke to me because it's about us and not me n yes them kids try your marriage for sure and make u question stuff for sure😭😂...#7yearitchisrealbutweconquer

“I’m not my husband’s parent.” Ooh that was good. I need to soak that up.

@MeraBaid

3 жыл бұрын

I need more on that idea.

@sandraD3971

3 жыл бұрын

Never been married but the thought of parenting a partner🥴nah..not a good look

@soniecenene5613

3 жыл бұрын

Yes this was the one.

@19blondie93

3 жыл бұрын

Being married 27 years; it can happen. It is mothering your man, or checking him like his mom would. Or even his expectation of mothering attributes; "take care of me, feed me, etc." Women can fall into the trap of mothering their men, especially after having children. We are so used to taking care of everyone and everything, that we get lost. Avoid it. Avoid it. Recognize if or when you get into patterns and address it. It happened to me early on in marriage, because I had no clue what I was doing. By year 3, I gathered my immaturity and checked myself. I hope that helped or I answered some of it.

@brigitteleesamaroo

3 жыл бұрын

@@19blondie93 yes you did and I agree with everything you said 💯. That’s exactly the trap I’ve found myself constantly falling into but I’m working on myself.

“Love is choosing to love each other, when we reveal ourselves”

@preciousbrown7962

3 жыл бұрын

Utterly beautiful ☺️

We need more Wives Panels please! Your perspectives are pure Gold, honest & informative. Wives see more above & below the relationship engine.

These are the real conversions about marriage that need to be heard. Thank you, Ladies!

"If that's an itch, then let me scratch" 🤣🤣🤣 hahaha I heard that!

❤️... controlling your thoughts. Letting go, having faith and trusting your judgement to make the best decisions.

Best village ever. You are all inspirational women even to the singles. Thank you all

All of the ladies were informative, but Malanie has the background to really speak with clarity! I enjoy her in these interviews.

I'm a simple woman. I see Melissa, I click

@Haitieats1

3 жыл бұрын

Same Here

@Denise-ob8dk

3 жыл бұрын

yes! Liss in the house!

When you get married it’s your “brand” in a way, you don’t want to mess up your ground bc a couple of days didn’t go your way. Marriage really is a marathon & the first year is the hardest but, it is the beginning of something beautiful, don’t let social media fool you.

They look phenomenal #stagekrew

@stillirise4401

3 жыл бұрын

🎬👻in the building!

@theTruthSeekerishere

3 жыл бұрын

🎬🎬🎬🎬

"I am not my Husband's Parent!." That's Good!!!🔥🔥

Thank y’all for keeping it real. I’m single and lookin at this thing from the outside. I ask every married person, “ Do you still like them” ? Forget love

@lisacox3750

3 жыл бұрын

That's a big one! "Do you still like them?" Wow! That's a great question for married couples.

@user-kx2vw8xe5h

3 жыл бұрын

@@lisacox3750 I only know a few married folks who like their spouse. Or if I ask, knowing everything you know now, would you still marry them again ? They just 👀

@maryluvsmusic9298

3 жыл бұрын

Chanel5...great question!!!! I’ve been married 21 years & let me tell u, there are times when I don’t like his behavior or some things he does but I overall like him (luckily 😊). But I know a lot of couples in which one spouse doesn’t like the other & it becomes a challenging situation overall. Liking a person who u spend most of your time with & make major decisions with is definitely important!!

@user-kx2vw8xe5h

3 жыл бұрын

@@maryluvsmusic9298 yeah I understand you won’t like them from moment to moment. But do you enjoy their company overall. My sister told me told me the romance will ebb and flow, but if you like them as a best friend, you’ll be good to go

@sherrylynn3304

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-kx2vw8xe5h girl I was shocked at how many married sisters told me no they would not have married him and further more if something happened to him they would never remarry. I was like whoa!

This was soooooooo needed! Amazing ladies! Your saving marriages all over the world!

Absolutely love the perspective of knowing you’re not stuck, and knowing that when you’re at your final straw you’ll feel it

This is pure Gold. Melanie is dropping so many gems... Taking notes!

I recently discovered this channel when I meet my current boyfriend and since then i have learn so much on marriage love and basically what it is to be a partner and make mistakes and i can fully say with everything in me that the man I am with by God's grace is the one for me💯💯💯👌👌👌❤❤❤ believe this channel was sent to me cause i meet my match

All of this is way too relatable right now. Thank you for sharing this. I really needed to hear this

Great conversation! Having a tribe or support system like this is so important for both the man and the woman because there will always be challenges in marriage. Having a “it’s not just about me and what I think and how I operate and how I want to do things” mentality will help soothe some of the things that might cause the negative itch.

I liked that I'm not his parent. I am not his mama. I love watching these segments by the way. I'm single but these nuggets are so enlightening

@jayc.7135

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Same

@UrUrbanRockstar

3 жыл бұрын

Agree!

@kingofgames4054

2 жыл бұрын

And the man isn’t their father

Love it. Keep this coming. Married 11years but still learning and growing. 💜

That was sooooo good! I love hearing black women speak truthfully and embracing their femininity, so beautiful ❤️

Okay Mrs. Melanie Clark leaving a full treasure chest of wisdom ❤️

This is good! Bring them back on! 🎬

I love seeing MrsKevOnStage during her thang on her own💜🦋🎬

This was so good!!!

Les was like, watcha taking bout Willis 😂😂😂. I agree if you choose the right partner, the 7 year itch is not a big deal. Having a good marriage village is wonderful and beneficial to have. No one should try to rearrange or parent their partner. You choose them, deal with it or get out. I agree with that. More Wives' panel please 💯💯

🥰 This is RIGHT ON TIME! 🥰 #StageKrew 🎬 ❤️❤️💚✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽✊🏼

God is preparing me well to become a wife😌

@Eaststoriestv

3 жыл бұрын

You are a wife from home before you even step out the door,The bible said let the older women train the young ones. Home training prepares you for marriage and God over see’s that no one touches your soul but the rest is up to you.

@ritaree123

3 жыл бұрын

Yes ma’am

@ColdDiva

3 жыл бұрын

@@ritaree123 🙌🏾

@goodnessofgod4307

3 жыл бұрын

💪🏼

Definitely a 7 year itch. Used to be 5😏 I appreciate the panel. I agree with the picking of the partner. We (my husband & I) are SO different in our personalities (I’m social, he is absolutely NOT). The battle really started peaking at 7. Now in year 10, it is a work in progress. AMEN to the ‘working around’ the differences!

this show is amazing. Im not black but im so glad i stumbled upon this. such wise perspectives

I haven't been fortunate enough to meet my future mate and wife as of yet...but yeah, this is still a good convo to learn from and about.

@afua2602

3 жыл бұрын

U hv be fortunate enough to learn something as important as this befor you meet her....you are blessed....lol

@JM-qg9bo

3 жыл бұрын

She's coming, but just be transparent and ask God to help you become the best you so that you're ready to receive her into your life!

@UrUrbanRockstar

3 жыл бұрын

She'll be grateful you're doing the work on yourself in the meantime to be the best version of yourself. God will bring her across your path in due season.

@jayc.7135

3 жыл бұрын

@@UrUrbanRockstar Lol. Yall really cracking me up with this though. 😂🤣 I actually think I'm a pretty good catch and stuff who I am right now. But you never stop learning with anything. That's how I feel. You always gotta be the best version of yourself and Always growing. It doesnt stop. IJS. But I hear yall though

@UrUrbanRockstar

3 жыл бұрын

@@jayc.7135 True! We all have room to grow and evolve. We all want the best for you lol.

I love this content!!! It’s so great to observe authentic conversations amongst the village! 🎬👻

The last speaker who shared on thoughts....that's me speaking! She said jus what I also believe in so much. I check my thoughts a lot n ensure I don't stress mclf unnecessarily!

Ohhhh am learning a lot. God bless u all

Good shit Mel! Love this show!

GREAT conversation 💕

Great video! 💖

I believe there should be a mental space, where both husband & wife remember that they're partners, but 1 whole unit. Keeping in the conscious mind the fact that they're side by side, and not to necessarily be in control, could change the dynamic of some of the issues. Acceptance was mentioned (which is good), but the husbands also have to recognize when they do things, which do not serve the wives any good.

@TrasieHemingway

2 жыл бұрын

Well said!!!!

Codie Elaine, however Black Love evolves please make sure that Melanie and her Husband are involved to give perspective and insight. They are amazing❣️

Love seeing my sisters being love

These shows are such a great conversation starter. I would love it if they did a few more episodes on before getting married and the key things to ask. I can tell you that there are at least 1, 128 questions you have to ask prior to getting monogamous and then getting married!! LOL #27years

yes that was amazing thank you for that - I do agree once you start parenting it may be hard to get off that train

Please get Noemi and Keir on this black love ❤️ thing !

So good💪🏾

When I hear “back up” plan I know what to do , it makes me nervous it sounds like these women can’t wait for the man to slip up to get a divorce

Whewwww that was good!

The woman in the black jacket has portrayed "woman/mother" in the most powerful, enviable and I-look-foward-to-this way

I love them 😌

I love this. I do think that this question could be re-served to a diff group or women who have had the 7 year each or some disgruntlement/kinks to be ironed out/ adjustments to be made to discuss how they readjusted thru that. These current guests are on the alpha plane of relationship health thus 7 year itch was not a thing for them. However, locating some more women were the 7 year itch was real would be beneficial to the audience. This video also affirms my desire to live in a tiny home & have a separate office on my property is the right choice. I want to live together in a smaller space from day 1

@omphilemoerane2569

3 жыл бұрын

I think some of them are lying. They just hear the others say they're still enjoying their marriage the same 15 and 25 years later so they say it's the same for them.

@19blondie93

3 жыл бұрын

I think it's different for everyone. Mine was an initial itch, like i felt like I made the wrong decision. 8 Years, because I was changing and he wanted mothering. We both grew up and learned how to communicate; but there is always an honest reassessment if we hit a wall.

@19blondie93

3 жыл бұрын

@@omphilemoerane2569 I don't think so; I think if you are very honest, you will enjoy your marriage a lot more. Having honest conversations about your actual needs, wants and desires; lets your partner know exactly where you stand. I wish I understood that when I first go married. I think having healthy examples help too. It's a lot; but some folk get it.

Deborah is so beautiful 😍

The quarantine itch!!😂

This is good.

What Iv learnt today is..I'm not my husbands parent" .....God help me to remember that when I get married

@tawannasteele4534

3 жыл бұрын

Plz&TY. Oookay.

@tabithao.abiola7540

3 жыл бұрын

I believe that the statement means that 'your' husband is NOT your child! that you should have to instruct at each and every step till the right thing is done. Unfortunately, such approaches do not work; he will resent you, you will end up wearing the pants but most importantly, 'you' as a woman will be stopping him from growing into what God has called a man to do!

Joy is so gorgeous

😂 I’m t Ellington Kev Melissa! Quarantine Itch my behind 😂 jk love this discussion. The actress from green leaf is beautiful ☺️

My hubs and I have been together 16 years, Married for 8.. we skated past year 7 happy in LOVE. I didn't think it was possible to Love him any more. Every year of our marriage so far, it happens. Loving every ounce of our Black Love🥰

I love Wise Women.

Feeling appreciated is the best.... We get married so we can take care of each other

Girrrrrrl listen 🤣🤣🤣🤣 so sweet

Great content but volume was so in and out

How can the rest of the world watch the full episodes of black love docu series the fan base is beyond American viewership.

I've been engaged a week and we're nervous wrecks working multiple jobs and planning a pandemic wedding in two months. Add to that family pressure and "you should do this", "you should do that"... And us two who never fought have been snapping at each other. Is there an engagement itch?

@ayanomar1408

3 жыл бұрын

as someone who decided to skip the wedding and have a small party with only both families, I would urge you: you and your man to sit together and really spill it how you feel, you will most likely find that he is also feeling the same and you two can reach an agreement on what you Two want to do. not what everyone else is trying to live through you, been married for 6 years with two cute buns and I dont regret skipping on having a wedding. I have severe anexity and planing a wedding that I dont want to star in would have wrecked me

@19blondie93

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with Ayan. You need to have an HONEST and open conversation with your partner. There are 100 questions to ask and get answers to prior to being married. It is not about a stupid wedding, it is about your marriage, your life. You will have extended family, but you are not marrying them. I loved my parents, but they were not marrying my husband. Please, do what you feel is right for you. Be clear. Good luck and God bless you both.

@ClaireHaire

3 жыл бұрын

I had it something fierce bc, so many ppl kept asking us are you ready? I’m like that was $5000 dollars ago lol . However, we got a mutual friend to plan everything so our families could tell at her. There’s a lot of egos involved from both sides, we fought daily until we woke up & realized what this day is about :)

💜💜💜

Boredom is real. You gotta put work into learning yourself and your partner. We all grow through growth phases, we want different things, and ultimately we need to stay interested. Its only by checking in and communicating do you stay connected to commitment and RE-NEWING it over and over so love stays steady and deep. P.s lady in white sneakers is grown grown. Her wisdom is full of real tested gems. Eg she is not her husbands mama. More women could really learn from that, the art of detaching and checking in with yourself constantly. Her husband does it too. They realise its a conscious choice of choosing each other daily, monthly, yearly etc and stay in love by "choice" not because they have to. Refreshing to see!

Queens all looking like meals chile... Keep Queening Queens... Beautiful,royal,regal... Bossing all day...

What do you sleek your hair back with?

I love these perspectives, but I want some women that been through some things🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂# Married 10 years

My 8 year anniversary is in a few days and I’m ready to go. Sigh*

@kwhite71376

3 жыл бұрын

I feel you girl!! I chose a bad one too . We are not compatible

@19blondie93

3 жыл бұрын

@@kwhite71376 Is he bad or do you feel like you made the wrong decision?? Sometimes, we know before we get married that our partner is not the one. I only ask, because me and my husband are complete opposites, and it works. I hope you are okay.

@19blondie93

3 жыл бұрын

i'm sorry you feel that way. Marriage is hard and crazy.

@kwhite71376

3 жыл бұрын

@@19blondie93He’s a good guy but our personalities are so different. Plus he’s a judgmental conservative while I lean more to the left. He’s condescending, doesn’t like to go anywhere or do anything. He’s also extremely unhelpful around the house.

@19blondie93

3 жыл бұрын

@@kwhite71376 Oh, no! I am so sorry. Damn. Some things can be fixed but condescending?? My husband has done that, but quickly unlearned that mess. My husband was at least open to the possibility that he was wrong. He would rather lose the attitude than lose me. You know?? If its okay, I will pray for you and I really hope your future is brighter. Again, I am so sorry you are going through that nonsense.

Awww damn....I just realized I'm my husband's mother. I literally do everything, and I am TIRED!!!!

@19blondie93

3 жыл бұрын

stop. simply, stop. You will kill yourself emotionally, mentally, by mothering him. I speak from experience. I did it for about a year in my marriage. I just felt lost. I snapped out of it when he called me weak after crying about something. After that day, it was on. He could ride or die, for all I cared, but I was getting ME back. How are you doing???

@ClaireHaire

3 жыл бұрын

I remember pre-marital counseling I brought up that sometimes he wouldn’t take the initiative. I remember our counselor told me you have to stop being Captain Save a Husband , let bad things happen & once he sees the consequences he will stop. Problem solved :)

@19blondie93

3 жыл бұрын

@@ClaireHaire Captain save a husband!!?? I love it!! I am so glad that worked out for you!!

👏👏😂😂👏

Love my lawn

I’m 11yrs married and for 9yrs in is when I started to manage my husband🤦🏾‍♀️ HOWEVA, bout 2wks now, I have relinquish control and been seeing a therapist 😂 BC I’m ready to rule again🍷 #trusttheprocess🙏🏾

Great point of views but...... where are the mask ladies.Stay safe everyone!

@toomuchinformation

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe it was filmed before lockdown?

wow im not his mother i have to remind myself of this often because he will figure it out. she's right you will get upset because you start feeling like why I'm i the only one taking care of everything from his issues to his decision making.

What do you do when after 7 years the conditions don’t improve? Example your spouse takes off on weekends and doesn’t come home... doesn’t give sign of life, and sometimes comes back to share he was with such and such friends or slept in the car while listening to a book... You’ve indicated this is uncomfortable for me in terms of trust but it’s only met with apologies and not improvements...

@chouchoutackie5992

3 жыл бұрын

Basically communication still not improving...

@stan020265

2 жыл бұрын

That is a lack of disrespect and no grown man is sleeping in no car all night. I refuse to accept that lie. He us cheating and you know it

Anen. I am not parenting my spouse

IS THAT YHE LADY FROM GREENLEAF

@LoveAlways1002

3 жыл бұрын

Yep💕💯

7 years now is 3year itch

yes, its real. women get bored very, very easily

@colinc5531

3 жыл бұрын

If that is so then why should men even consider marriage?🤔

@tapiwakay

3 жыл бұрын

Which is why 60% of married women confess to cheating according to Women's Magazine.

@etf42

3 жыл бұрын

@@tapiwakay yep, thats that the ones who actually confess. most women take their infidelity to their grave

25 itch is real.

Alright I’m about to be judged. Yes the 7 year itch exists. Maybe not for everyone so I won’t speak for everyone. It doesn’t necessarily show itself as boredom in the relationship. The relationship can be great, sex still great (contrary to beliefs the more you learn each other, the better the sex will be) but it will never be the mystery and intrigue you feel with someone who’s courting you. It will never be the first touch and first kiss. Those may be the things that can trigger the “7 ur itch”. Now if you choose to act on that is your business. I’d advise you not to. There’s just something amazing that happens when 2 people continuously give themselves to each other exclusively. So in my opinion yes, it exists but resist the urge if you have a good partner!

@ericsmith5826

3 жыл бұрын

you described boredom tho lmao that "mystery and intrigue" feeling is the thrill of the chase. Once you lose the thrill then all you have left is boring or a "stuck in a rut" sort of feeling.

@ericsmith5826

3 жыл бұрын

But I do agree with what you're saying

@tinishaturner1849

3 жыл бұрын

I disagree. Losing mystery doesn’t create boredom. Becoming disconnected from your partner emotionally will create boredom. I have been with the same person for over 14 years. There is 0 mystery. I know every part of him as a person. That has never caused boredom. The times we weren’t emotionally connect is when it felt less than amazing. We knew all the right things to do with each other and how we liked to spend our time together. Because of where we were emotionally it felt like we were just going through the motions. We had to see each other again and reconnect. That changed how we felt with each other again. It felt fresh and vibrant again. I was excited to just sit on the couch with him again. It’s not about a routine or about not choosing the right partner. It’s what you both put into it.

@ericsmith5826

3 жыл бұрын

@@tinishaturner1849 I was speaking from the experience around me. Granted the couples I spoke with didn't have 14 years under the belt. Speaking on that emotionally disconnected thing, That does happen and it usually ends up with resentment on one end when both parties aren't putting in the same effort. So I will agree with you on it's not about a routine but picking the right partner does matter cause you're gonna want someone who will put in that work together with you if you choose to go that route.

@tinishaturner1849

3 жыл бұрын

Eric, you are correct when you say you need to pick a partner who will give the same effort. Let me clear up what I meant with that statement. I’ve shared some of the pitfalls that have occurred in my relationship on a relationship podcast and was told I didn’t choose the right partner. I feel comments like that send the wrong message to people. Every relationship will have its issues. It will not be a fairytale at all times. My purpose for sharing was to encourage other couples to continue to work through it if it’s a healthy relationship and you feel there is still hope. I do not agree with someone giving couples the impression that if you are having problems you weren’t meant to be together. Again, you are completely correct that if your partner will not work with you on your relationship they are not the right one!

Can we tag their ig ❤

Married 25 being together for 3 years? Can someone explain what that means.

@dianamichael2130

3 жыл бұрын

They dated for 3 years before getting married

@dianamichael2130

3 жыл бұрын

So In total 28 years.

I wonder if a man says "i am not my wife's father!!" how the world will react

@ericsmith5826

3 жыл бұрын

I mean with most you will have to fulfill that role in some sort of form lol but the reaction would be mixed imo

@BearingMySeoul

3 жыл бұрын

I don't get what was so offensive? TONS of women talk down to their husbands as if they were children. She said she tells herself that she's not his mother, assumedly so she won't talk down to him. As for the men, maybe they ShOULD say, "I'm not my wife's father," so that they won't be tempted to talk down to the women in their lives. It goes both ways!

@LoveCompassionPurity

3 жыл бұрын

Well..it's true. You act as if there is some double standard. Spouses aren't parents, period.

@nthomengmajara8575

2 жыл бұрын

Just fine. My hubby is not my dad. Our relationship has been better since we both came to that realisation.

You could get divorced but will you be better off.... most likely not

Is that the lady from Greanleaf? Lol

@jayc.7135

3 жыл бұрын

@Chanel Wafuana 😎

@KayJay79

3 жыл бұрын

Yup! Tis Charity Greenleaf in the flesh! 😉

@jayc.7135

3 жыл бұрын

@@KayJay79 Yeah, I couldn't stand her character. LMAO!!! 😂😂🤣

👻💪🏿🖤✊🏿👻

Y’all had me til “divorce is an option”. While you are 100% correct is feeling that you can do it and shouldn’t feel trapped. It’s easy for women to feel feel that way because there’s an incentive at the end of it if they do. Men have to try and make it work because if it doesn’t, he’ll be paying half upfront and for the rest of his life or close to it. I wish men could feel as comfortable with that choice and not have to suffer financially from it.

@tiyamika.yawawa1205

3 жыл бұрын

Hmm okey

@jessicaterry2594

3 жыл бұрын

Men leave their wives all the time.. lol.

@lisacox3750

3 жыл бұрын

@@jessicaterry2594 They sure do.

@lisacox3750

3 жыл бұрын

The number of women who want to get married is about equal to the number of men that want to get married at this point. Let's focus on that. This is a fact and not an opinion. We aren't talking about 1950 anymore. People have options. Both men and women have options...no one is tying anyone down and forcing them to marry (not likely unless you come from a very strict religious background). So, this idea that only women stick it out while keeping in mind "divorce is an option" and men don't is false. The reality is that less and less people are getting married in general now. This is a fact. This conclusion tells us that people are not affected by societal pressures to get married like back in the day. So I have a hard time believing there is a big number of men complaining. They knew their options before they got married. They know their options now...and they are sticking out because they want to.

@Double-R

3 жыл бұрын

@@eaglementality1204 prenups get thrown out all the time so that's not some protective blanket.

No on defined the 7 year itch

@19blondie93

3 жыл бұрын

It depends. The itch could be itching to leave or itching to experience more. traditionally folk felt like 7 years was the time when most folks felt like their marriage was on the downswing.

The lady in the middle seems not to feel that great about her husband anymore. This isn't the first video where she has expressed her distaste for him or made it look like she isn't happy with him. Yes, she can feel how she does but maybe she should reconsider going on shows, it's starting to seem like a bashing press run that ends in divorce.

@ericsmith5826

3 жыл бұрын

Kev's wife? yeah I might have to agree with you on this one lol

@19blondie93

3 жыл бұрын

@Chanel Wafuana Nooooo. Remember, they admitted that their marriage has been ever evolving for the past few years as Melissa has stopped being a doormat. She never questioned or "checked" Kevin on issues in the marriage. She only recently started explaining and exploring her own wants and desires. So, she is really learning how to voice that. It's crazy, but after watching them on the love hour; I get it.

This dont sound Happy. Dang...

@RDCFemmes

3 жыл бұрын

depends on what happy is for you. If happy is about you always having your way then you better off doing life alone because in all relationships we have to make compromised and accept that you will never win every battle and some inconvenience we just have to live with and concentrate on what really matter and feed your happiness from it. Even alone you are not happy all the times so why expect that from other people as much as you have the right to live in your truth, they also have that right. also it important to remember that the perfect person don't exist.....

@tamirricks9683

3 жыл бұрын

@@RDCFemmes Who to told her she could sing!? kzread.info/dash/bejne/haJ7k6uuiKWoepM.html

@jayc.7135

3 жыл бұрын

@@RDCFemmes Exactly

Let's say you are married for 15 to 20 yrs do you think you can get out of the marriage without paying the price ? You are no longer 25 now you are 45 don't kid yourself, you are not that jazzy fine lady that you were 20 yrs ago. To say nothing about what you did to yourself Spiritually.

@19blondie93

3 жыл бұрын

What price?? If you are both unhappy is there a reason to stay?? You don't have to be fine, as you say, to want to have peace.

@lexxie225

2 жыл бұрын

If you want a 20-30 jazzy litte lady instead of a woman closer to your age go get her, but don't down talk older woman they've earned their stars it's a complete blessing to age no matter what your gender. Most men ain't such fine wine themselves at that age so who are they to speak, if you're still so shallow about appearances past age 30 it's a true shame, attraction matters but if you want that youthful beauty remember she will age too..unless you expect to die before you dare see her skin begin to sag and wrinkle. There's plenty of beautiful older woman with beautiful souls ready to give and receive an abundance of love. If many men were brave enough to overlook theri ego they'd realize this and be able to experience real love. And come on man, beauty aint everything it wont stop death, it wont stop suffering, it'll barely keep you happy for longer then whatever your attention spand is unless there's some sort of substance

Can women be honest?