After embracing my natural hair years ago, I realized that our hair is more versatile and you can create really beautiful styles that straighter hair cannot.

@ifshesopleases

Жыл бұрын

True! It's very versatile

Your channel was promoted on my channel and I was inspired by the title of your video 😊 Many black women do not love their hair, which is shown by their habits of buying wigs that don't resemble their natural hair at all, but that's the hair they _wished_ they would have. I also was like that for many years, not liking my natural hair, because I thought natural hair can't be long unless you're lucky. I realised in 2013 that that is a lie. I love my hair completely and it's growing longer and longer. Thanks for sharing this video and your honesty! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

I agree so much. How can we push our hair ( or any natural part of ourselves) into its opposite then be surprised when it withers and betrays us? When i changed my idea about -The ingredients that were better -the styles that were healthier and more becoming - the unique regimen i needed my hair grew so much better. On top of that, my self esteem skyrocketed as i searched and cultivated the " tools" that served me well. The idea of everything perfectly contoured to my needs seeped out into other areas of my life. So amazing!💗✨ Thank you for being a platform of true haircare! -

@ifshesopleases

Жыл бұрын

Aww thank-you so much for this wonderful comment!

Yes, I also love Japanese and Korean culture, but not to the detriment of my own. I've always thought their language, food, and architecture were amazing. However, I never expected or wanted my hair to be like theirs. I grew up among women with natural hair so I loved and appreciated my hair for all its kinks and coils and the wonderful things that it could do. Since there are all different textures of natural hair in my family I also learned that they are all beautiful in their own way and each one for the most part is taken care of in a similar manner. Basically, all hair needs to be shampooed, conditioned, detangled, and styled appropriately based on its texture.

@ifshesopleases

Жыл бұрын

Hi Love

@1GoldenBreeze

Жыл бұрын

@@ifshesopleases I was just lucky. So many of us came up getting relaxers very young and not getting a chance to learn and love our hair. It is wonderful that it's changing.

This is why we need to stop speaking in generalities when it comes to natural hair. Everyone doesn’t have the same experience, even within similar hair types. All you can give are your own experiences with your own approach and people can take it or leave it-nothing becomes a ‘rule’ until you subscribe to it.

@ifshesopleases

Жыл бұрын

True

I'm currently learning Japanese and I love their culture but its never above mine.

@denyshadials5702

Жыл бұрын

Same and agreed.

@ifshesopleases

Жыл бұрын

That is great! I was very young when I started to learn, and got swept away in the wrong direction

Thank you for always sharing your wisdom with us 💕💕

@ifshesopleases

Жыл бұрын

Thank-you for your lovely comment, Michelle

Your hair is stunning ❤️❤️❤️❤️ xxx

@ifshesopleases

Жыл бұрын

Thank-you!

aww I missed the premier.💕

@ifshesopleases

Жыл бұрын

Thank-you for watching, anyway

Excellent video 🎉

@ifshesopleases

Жыл бұрын

Thank-you!

Yes, I struggle with this.

@ifshesopleases

Жыл бұрын

Hope this video helped!

Not having knowledge of you hair is what really stunts it

@ifshesopleases

Жыл бұрын

Facts!

How often do you trim

@ifshesopleases

Жыл бұрын

1-2 x per year

@friedchicken892

Жыл бұрын

@@ifshesopleases Thankyou

Japanese horror is the reason why i fell in love with horror movies and actually inspired me to want to be a movie director. But I changed my mind hahaha.

@ifshesopleases

Жыл бұрын

Oh wow! I can't believe you can get through them! I haven't been able to finish a Japanese horror. Way too scary for me 😭😂

@amberrichardson6517

Жыл бұрын

@If She So Pleases I also love anime! So maybe we could in the middle there haha 🤭🤣