Children living in households without a father are 3x-10x more likely to: 1. be incarcerated 2. become addicted to drugs and alcohol 3. drop out of high school 4. involved with teenage pregnancy 5. runaway from home 6. become depressed 7. be unemployable 8. stay in poverty 9. involved with gangs

This channel is pure gold

@Vscustomprinting

5 ай бұрын

Except for all the toxic religious (cult) bullshit.

@tay4503

4 ай бұрын

@@Vscustomprinting90% of what a man says you could agree with, as for the 10% you dislike will you stop his discourse to curse him for it.

A good father figure that I saw on the Internet was khabib father. What a man he made a lot of men that respects their elders, and everyone wanted to be around him because they knew they'll become better from him

@Shoegazebasedgenre0.

4 ай бұрын

just be genetically lucky to win a UFC belt brah

A christian friend here, you are speaking the truth my friend.

And father absence can come in different ways, like, even when the dad is "physically present". I've fought my whole life trying to rebuild or gain what I was missing, because my dad is "absent", like, psychologically, in his own mind patterns and it's very hard to communicate and have a lucid conversation with him. And guess what, training martial arts and interacting, being a part of a group and experiencing to be "present" in the action of a sparring or drills made huuuuge healing.

@50KaliberBMG

9 ай бұрын

Wow, that’s exactly a copy of my life. It’s so hard. I can only speak for myself, training and martial arts to which I ended up being a professional. It didn’t fill that gap though so I spent a lot of my time working on that relationship I still am. How’d you find it?

The man has a tone in his voice that the kids know.

Al salam Alaykum coach, I think you’ve got some life changing things to say certainly as a Muslim I realized just how much I was lacking it would be great to hear more of your thoughts to help each other in our faith. Allah is number 1. Then the truth of the heart at all times. It’s right in the center. Then you’ll be a man. Don’t learn the hard way as I did. It’s a vicious road.

I really appreciate you. This video hit me to the core. I’d like to say is that your a positive role model to me. You, GSP, Khabib, my BJJ professors, my Jiu Jitsu team mates, Bruce Lee, Miyamoto Musashi, Aristotle, Allan Watts, etc. I am fatherless, but with the help of my positive male role models from real life to heroes of myth, I’ve learned what it is to be a real man. And just like martial arts as a never ending journey of perfection, being a man is a life long learning experience. I know my myself, therefore I know my Father and my Father is the Most High.

I like these videos when Firas gives his opinion, he has a good mindset.

“I learned about this man (Adam 22) . Guy what are we doing here?” 😂😂😂😂😂

“Hell no you didn’t do it alone.” Lol sad but true

Canceling is so stupid, its as if i dont like the restaurant, ll leave bad review and wont go again. Not gonna grab bunch of people to shut it down.

@liammullen2144

9 ай бұрын

It's not stupid It's an extremely effective tool to discredit and silence your political opponents so that the cultural revolution can continue unchallenged. It's not stupid at all, it's pure evil. A lot of people who engage in it are dumb but they are led by darker forces.

It's a good message about masculinity. It takes true strength to be kind, charitable, gentle, and to be able to stand up for yourself. Model yourself from more than one person. It takes a village to raise a child. Also, stay away from the internet when looking for role models. You want to look at actual people in your community, who represent these ideals. The real men, with true masculinity isn't on the internet, screaming they're top G. They're out in society doing what's good and right. You can talk the talk, but can you walk the walk. If you can walk the walk, you don't need to talk.

@just1Commentator

9 ай бұрын

totally agree.

@bez1196

9 ай бұрын

100% true. But you can still learn a lot from thoroughly studying the lives of exemplary figures, reading books, listening to them etc etc. Use whatever means that are as your disposal, but be careful not to fall victim to somebody who is trying to sell you something. Your run of the mill social media guru would fall into that last category.

Just found your channel, i am honestly amazed, you have a great insight and are conscious of what you truly want

Really thank you for these wise words, you have a great hearth and mindset !

I like how you mentioned the father needing to be present, not just physically but also mentally. I can say from first hand experience, without a doubt, that I would give up extra luxury for a mentally present father. Smaller house, less cars, less money for a mentally present father without a doubt. I love my dad, very very hard working guy, but never mentally present, and as the youngest in the family, I see all the issues that it had causes under the surface amongst all members of my family. Providing for the family to me means more than the money, it also means providing myself to my family to spend quality time with them. Thanks for the insight. JAK.

Thank you, keep it up !

About time someone calls them out

As a Muslim you're model should be the prophet mohammed صلى الله عليه وسلم

I just heard a study where the outcome was that the Father was the more important parent not the mother, for a male.

We lost the plot many, many years ago

Salam coach, I think I speak for a lot of people here listening to you. I wish I could spend a lot of time around you and learn about life from you, especially the father figure learnings. You are incredible. May Allah reward you

This ist so true. I have a Background in caretaking and you are Spot in with this analyses

Well said great segment too many dads are missing out of the child's life these days I see it all the time

Love your videos Firas

The opening line was the realest verse ever

You are amazing coach. My dad wqs never a good role model in terms of work ethics and being a mentor to me. But he did provide for the family, he did that.. I really struggled with my masculinity as I've never had my father guide me properly. That is my battle

@monsieurpatate1573

9 ай бұрын

Hang around good men it will help with your growth

@monsieurpatate1573

9 ай бұрын

Or if you know other elders you can take wisdom from them also. the mosque is a great place for that

Never seen this side of your channel g love it brother !!!👍😅

Great topic... god bless you

I think Tate’s actions speak louder than his words. He made his wealth from deceit and taking advantage of people. He engages in material hedonistic pleasures and touts them as proofs of his virtue.

@traplord-mq5dl

9 ай бұрын

I mean yea the game these type of ppl operate in what you think. At first I thought he was actually something serious but he's apart of a greater agenda like the rest of them.

@Zizotron

9 ай бұрын

But he's genuinely helped a lot of people, including me. don't ignore the good he's made, even for Islam

@sagek114

9 ай бұрын

@@traplord-mq5dl that’s before Islam…he doesn’t promote any of that.

@abrahamkim2304

9 ай бұрын

@@Zizotron I'm happy for the people who have improved their lives by listening to Andrew Tate. We should all celebrate each other when we make better decisions. However, I don't think Islam or any religion/organization/groups of people will be made better in any way by affiliating with a man that deals in sex work and organized crime.

@Zizotron

9 ай бұрын

I think you are exaggerating. Don't interpret exploiting weak men for financial gain as sex work. That was a past business, he's a changed man since then, and has since left many of those old businesses and reverted to Islam. Many women show their bodies online as 'Onlyfans' and profit from that, though no one even attacks them like how they attack Tate. While hiring women as Onlyfans models is immoral, it is a legal job and does not count as crime.@@abrahamkim2304

We could have used a father like you Coach, such a wise and well-balanced man.

@Vscustomprinting

9 ай бұрын

His religious connections are a factor i cant abide or accept, otherwise id agree.. Indoctrinating children into arbitrary religions is bad practice (speaking from experience)

@luislorenzo7479

9 ай бұрын

@@Vscustomprinting It may definitely have a bad outcome to instill religion in someone who is innocent yet. Without radicalism it may not be a bad thing to have in someone's life however. as always, everything depends on the context.

@madaxwayne

9 ай бұрын

kids get indoctrinated regardless if not by the parent then by the schools and society they partake in @@Vscustomprinting

@bez1196

9 ай бұрын

​@@VscustomprintingYou need a bit more humility. Projecting your own subjective experience onto objective reality is bad practice as well. Your hate for "religion" (as if all religions or their manifestations are the same), is juvenile and irrational. You have a religion, whether you like it or not. You have guiding principles and sources of meaning that are ultimately rooted in metaphysics even if you're a hard materialist! You cannot escape this as a human being. The only difference is your level of awareness and whether you choose your path consciously or not (I can tell that you haven't judging by the fact that you're just regurgitating a popular talking point against "organized religion"). You can't just reduce profound questions of existence, meaning, purpose to "religions are bad". Also, you cannot take the man without what literally defines him and his character. If Firas is admirable/honorable or simply respectable to you, then maybe his value system and way of life isn't so bad since that's what made him who he is. You can't admire Bruce Lee without having some level of respect for his way of life. I'm not into Taoism/Confucianism but I know that there's a lot of wisdom in that tradition and that it has produced remarkable people. Same for Hinduism, Christianity or any other traditional way of life which has spawned and sustained countless civilizations across centuries or even millennia. I can disagree with their fundamental Truth claims as a Muslim and believe that they have been corrupted from their Divine origins, but I'm not arrogant enough to just dismiss them offhand like you do. Have some humility for goodness sake.

@monsieurpatate1573

9 ай бұрын

​@@luislorenzo7479if you guys had an open mind you would see that our religion is not what you guys are saying. If you went to the mosque you would meet elders that would teach you masculinity. When i have a question i can either ask my father or 30 other elder at the mosque who are happy to help. When we bring our children to the mosque they play with other children and interact with 100's of people.they learn whats good and bad and get corrected when they overstep. It would greatly benefit any family to go to the mosque but only if you have an open mind

Great video! Matthew 6:24 “24 'No one can be the slave of two masters: he will either hate the first and love the second, or be attached to the first and despise the second. You cannot be the slave both of God and of money."

I’m so thankful to have been raised in an intact two-parent household. Both of my parents had massive libraries too in our house. I totally agree that absentee fathers is the biggest social problem in the west. But given the way welfare and child support works, the legal framework is totally abused. In fact, it’s a legal guarantee. Get knocked up, and get a check in the mail every month. Single motherhood in many communities is actually overtly encouraged

It doesn't have to be abuse, in this day and age it's also neglect.

Yin ☯️ Yang, have one foot one side and one the other. Lean towards one side too much, and it creates chaos.

Sad but true.🙏 makes me think of the purpose for the caves in history. ⏳️🥂

A severe swing back to traditional values is incredibly important, and once that is achieved we can tweak it. There can be no give and take, we are too far gone. Keep it up coach.

repression makes masculinity toxic imo, a lot of toxic masculinity is like compensation or "wannabe" stuff, freedom and power give the masculine the most amount of meaning through expression when we decided to put a cap on it we have this frustration that flares up in form of toxic masculinity, its cringe and insufferable for a reason

God bless fathers.

This is great stuff. Wisdom.

Love firas !!! hes super Pro Red pill, Would be a dream to have him on Fresh and Fit pod.....

Human greed is the biggest problem with humanity.

masculine attributes inthemselves are ammoral and can be good or had e.g fire to cook food vs fire to destroy objects.

Do you not feel that Andrew Tates focus on materialistic things and the messaging he gives about how to treat women as objects is corrosive to young men?

@zoheir1162

9 ай бұрын

That what makes Tate's message relevant at first place, kids nowadays will never listen to a financially average person.

@sagek114

9 ай бұрын

He doesn’t say treat woman as objects, you haven’t listened. He says be a man train work hard make money get a good woman and family …..the reason he talks about money is because that’s what woman care about….when you wanna get married that’s what they ask …..if you feel insecure because you don’t work hard that Los your fault

@satsatdown

9 ай бұрын

@@zoheir1162materially rich, spiritually poor

@satsatdown

9 ай бұрын

@@sagek114pimpin how’s degrees are not the objectification

@zoheir1162

9 ай бұрын

@@satsatdown You said it like a math equation, but that's not math. People of wealth can change their behaviours and improve their spiritual level faster than average person, simply because they don't have to work for money, so they have more time and energy to work on themselves.

U smart AF.

True

Kinda funny i was just thinking of this the other day. No dad nor did i have anyone to have my back or anything. No role models either. Im trying to think of a role model i could take after. Still thinking lol

What do you think about parents being two fathers or two mothers?

agree

Coach knows who Adam22 is, holy shit

Absend Fathers. Society without Fathers!

Bro if the WOKE hear you They will say you toxic masculinity There is no such thing as toxic masculinity It’s just toxic people We need to get rid of this phrase toxic masculinity

My role model is jocko willink

They are going to abuse all the labels for you regardless if they think it can benefit them, might as well embrace it. Become more toxic kings

Dude who asked the question doesn't know stats. DC is actually the worse in violence and Louisiana come right after. IL comes in a step or two after. Not only that IL violence is contained within two specific areas so outside of them, IL is very safe. Dude knew how to lie with stats. Glad you touched in not just being the child's life but also what kind of father to be, because there are dead beats, abusers, and alcoholic fathers and having those around sure isn't good for the child.

Based

Just look around. We need more masculinity in this world.

I can only imagine what the generation of kids born in 2000s are like 😬

Any man that doesn’t spend time with his family isn’t a man - Vito Corleone

Mashallah

Coach Zahabi, please look into some of the allegations with Andrew Tate, definitely not a man to use as part of that prism.

@CoachZahabi

9 ай бұрын

I don't know the details but look forward to seeing what evidence they have.

@somekindaguy2184

9 ай бұрын

@@CoachZahabi agree

As Muslims we have a healthy balance of humility and masculinity if followed correctly, even within Islam MMA is the tipping on the most extreme physical activity allowed.

Nah, guys like Tate are explosively filling a void. There’s a norm or a baseline that is in discussions like these.

Many Sahaba didn’t have fathers but the community they lived in provided faker figures

As Dr. Jordan Peterson said, there are feminine men and women are more masculine, doesnt mean you have to change anything. Masculinity and feminity arent toxic, being bad person is toxic.

Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create pregnant men, and pregnant men create hard times.

Damn, it is a blessed day when Master Zahabi Speaks on the cuckery of Adam22 haha.

100% it's child abuse. Real men don't abandon children.

Need internet role model? One word: Jocko

Absolutely Tate is too much, brings good points and broke the status quo in discussion but not a good role model at all.

@migueljuarez6788

9 ай бұрын

He doesn't have good points, he just lies.

@hu6284

9 ай бұрын

?? you're a liar@@migueljuarez6788

It used to be very shameful to be a single parent not very long ago, let's bring this back

You implied that your dad either raised his voice or hit you for not obeying him. I have two children. I'm not going to hit my kids and I'm not going to raise my voice at them. I've decided to try my best to explain things to them, even if it takes time. Right now, my 3 year old doesn't always obey me. And that's fine. Because what he does as a 3 yo isn't harmful or that serious. As he gets older, I will be firmer with my instructions, and the more serious the consequences to his actions are, the less lenient I will be - but I still won't hit him. Unless he does something crazy. What do you think of this?

FIRASOPHY

Agree 100% to be a good man you have to be a balanced man, strong physically, mentally, intellectually and emotionally. Martial Arts and the martial way help me a ton with that, even tho I have the chance to have an amazing father, with some flaws sure, but who leads by example, always provides for those around him, always makes sure nobody is lacking. I also have other strong role models, than i think anyone can look up to, such as GSP, Lex Fridman, Naruto Uzumuaki (even if it's fiction) Matthew McConaughey.. Now I'm 23 years old and I think I found the mother of my children and future wife. It's really important to have had healthy masculine and feminine models to prevent us to pass generational trauma to our children.

Be careful talking about this. They will attempt to shut ur channel down

man its all about the individual ...look i know u would say he was prophet ,but the prophet didn't grow up with a father nor a mother .so

i cant watch or listen to either of these two.i dont know why people are so infatuated with andrew tate. and that adam dude is a tool too. he is basically a pornstar with a podcast. tate used to be a pimp or at least had control over women who done webcam shows(i seen him speak about it years back on a podcast with james english,i turned it off after ten mins and have never listened to him since) society seems to be going backwards and i think we are slowly being dumbed down. youngsters/teens nowadays seem to have no patience and its probaly to do with social media.everything is short ten second clips.

The prophet Mohamed was sent by the Creator as an example in everything.

@444TripleH

9 ай бұрын

The best example for us to follow. Allahumma salli wa salim ala Muhammad

@Shoegazebasedgenre0.

9 ай бұрын

ok *married a 10 year old*

@queenbeequeen3143

8 ай бұрын

​@@Shoegazebasedgenre0.When was marry pregnant?

Wow if a Martial Arts Coach is giving advices on life, you all should skip the video.

Why are you blaming women for child abuse when the fathers aren't present? Your assumption that these women are sleeping around without knowing the fathers is merely slut shaming. Most women know who the father is, but the man doesn't want to take responsibility for the child he didn't want. The true irony in that is the same men who want nothing to do with their children are the same crowd of men who are anti-abortion. They're forcing these women to raise children on their own simply out of their own lack of responsibility and commitment to someone. Also the mere concept that a man existing in a household brings order and stability is a fallacy. Good men raise good children, and to be a good man is to have empathy. It is easy to hate, it takes strength to be gentle and kind. Also I know you're a very busy coach so you're not going to know the details about every person you know, but Andrew Tate is a rapist and sex trafficker. You can say that that is an alleged claim, but it's an alleged claim from multiple women, all with very credible stories. Andrew Tate is a garbage human being who has gotten whatever he's wanted at the expense of people in his life who he's abused. I'm sure you have an automatic level of respect for him because he was a fighter, but if you listened to the claims you should feel sickened by the things this man has done to women.

Want the best masculine role model? Look at the last Prophet of God Mohammed peace be upon him. The perfect example in all realms of human endaviour.

I was ok with this whole spiel until you said you like a sex trafficker.

Coach Firas have always been a great guy who actually knows what he is teaching when it comes to martial arts. But i really have to call him out on this one because how much misleading and dangerous his ideology was. Sure it is essential for men being a provider. But if being the provider was the one and sole thing of a man's identity. It is misleading as hell to teach this to young kids. You actually teach them to be greedy and profit-oriented dickheads who have no real sense of humanity and disregarding any important factors in social life. You actually teach men to be a beta provider that will be used up by the wrong kinds of women instead of attracting the good ones. And in reality, not all women really cares if you are rich or capable of being the "provider" there are many broke guys out there who easily slays women and even had them being superbly loyal despite having a financial issues. Teaching guys to be the "provider" actually makes them more anxious because they will always insecure for being broke and having a low wage job. Ironically, Firas pushing the "provider idea" are the most bluepilling shit that only dehumanizes men as an ATM and a cog in the machine and encouraging wage slaving and corporate slavery.

Andrew Tate is not even close to the extreme. His views are adopted by most people raised in the Middle East/ eastern societies. He is nowhere near the extreme. I personally think he softens and rounds, the edges even in the old days before the ban.

@vietnamsemonky4082

9 ай бұрын

Yeah he just promotes deceiving women into relationships and use them for sex work! That’s what all Muslims promote!

@migueljuarez6788

9 ай бұрын

Andrew Tate has said multiple times on video that women are stupid. Also said women are property.

You’re just another influencer/poet/preacher who makes money from “speaking the truth” but real messengers never deliver a message and ask for a payment

Those guys all need to be canceled quick, fast in a hurry. They're all of what's wrong with today's world absent foggers is part of it but I don't think that is the complete root of everything. Just because you have a father in your life does not mean you're going to turn into a productive, wholesome person

@AlexanderCollis

9 ай бұрын

No one should be cancelled don’t be ridiculous cos that’s a slippery slope. If people want to view their shit they can do … it’s a societal issue not a individual content creators issue.

@ba10mob69

9 ай бұрын

It's ironic that some individuals who advocate for freedom of speech are also often the ones inclined to want to cancel someone simply because they express opinions they disagree with.

@CoachZahabi

9 ай бұрын

I was referring to the statistical norm. I agree with you in that it is not a given that if one is raised without a father that he will be underprivileged. There are many variables, however the parenting you receive seems like a major influence statistically speaking. I don’t think we need to cancel one another but rather simply we need more dialogue. Please feel free to share any statistics or evidence for your position.

@flyguy7825

9 ай бұрын

​@@AlexanderCollisNaw it's poison and poison needs to be wiped away seriously?

@flyguy7825

9 ай бұрын

​@@ba10mob69 Freedom is speech ain't the same as poison peoples minds