I think the issue with race preference comes in when you bash another race over the one you prefer.

@smilesallround

2 жыл бұрын

100% 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

@laurenlewis5907

2 жыл бұрын

But what is the reason for the preference is the question? With the exception of a preference for your own race bc of things like similar experiences and likely upbringing, what would cause a person to stray away from their own race entirely? I understand if someone comes along that isn’t your race that u end up liking but specifically avoiding one for the most part seems like a collection of internalized problems you haven’t faced yet.

@LaTigressa13

2 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY

@pattycannon1804

2 жыл бұрын

I agree 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

@MissCraig

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

“Do couples with a age gap think alike?” PLEASE AND THANK YOU

@brielledolina3611

2 жыл бұрын

omg yesssss

@edithputhy4948

2 жыл бұрын

ew no💀

@arnabchatterjee8611

2 жыл бұрын

@@edithputhy4948 How is it gross?

@arnabchatterjee8611

2 жыл бұрын

@Jeli How is it gross lol? Age gap doesn't always mean 20 year gap it can also be an 8 year or a year gap.

@voidxsaint

2 жыл бұрын

yes pls

The guy upfront seems poetic in everything he does. Movement and speech😂

@ztarr

2 жыл бұрын

And attire! lol

@alexanderoda9183

2 жыл бұрын

im honored lol

@WHYOSHO

2 жыл бұрын

He has a black turtle neck with a chain on… I knew he was smart from the beginning lol

@JeromeProductions

2 жыл бұрын

fr!

@Noise_floorxx

2 жыл бұрын

I know like damn i want him lol

I would've liked it if there were older couples as well. Everyone here was in the same age range.

@myjams7180

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@dntskdnttll

2 жыл бұрын

Probably they could only find younger people to participate in a short youtube video that by default, because it’s so short, simplifies issues to bite-size. Young people are used to youtube and the internet in general and what they bring, whereas older people value time to sit and talk these things out, and privacy away from the internet, a little more.

@alliexcx5576

2 жыл бұрын

why should it matter

@myjams7180

2 жыл бұрын

@@alliexcx5576 Different experiences

@alliexcx5576

2 жыл бұрын

@My Jams true

"This isn't Build-A-Bear, this is a human!"

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly 😤🔨🧸🚫

@dreams1569

2 жыл бұрын

😂

@PredatorialHamster

2 жыл бұрын

This ain’t build-a-bitch 🙄🙄🙄😠

@aaaa642

2 жыл бұрын

@@PredatorialHamster lovely pfp

@johngeffrard4970

2 жыл бұрын

A human you basically build

Can we start adding context for the participants in these videos instead of jumping straight in? Stating everyone’s race, how long they’ve been dating, who’s dating whom, etc. would’ve been nice

@BriasRocks

2 жыл бұрын

Nah that's too much They dont even wanna say all that bruh

@BeautyforAshes__

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah I was curious about their racial/ethnic backgrounds

@lauramenendez3212

2 жыл бұрын

@@BriasRocks it can be brief and it makes more insightful...since we don’t get to see all their answers and full opinions

@meltedsnowman9637

2 жыл бұрын

Race would be interesting as something that gets labelled under their name when they speak. But the rest of those sound kind of boring and would make the video too long. Especially because there is already 3 hours of content that they whittle down to just 13 minutes.

@lah7477

2 жыл бұрын

rightt at first i thought keno was blasian so i was like wait why can he say the n word??

*I think you guys should redo this with better questions, making it longer, and not all just young couples ! Would love to see how couples married in the 60s, 70s, 80s, etc have different experiences than newer couples :)*

@cheeseball3173

2 жыл бұрын

true I wanna see that blasian guy's parents talk about this lmao.

@EnclaviousFiraga

7 ай бұрын

The past is passed and outdated. I can guarantee interracial dating was much more taboo and not documented very well

@PeterPantheFearless

6 ай бұрын

Agreed!

As a black woman married to a Latino husband I've never felt like i betrayed my race idc about how they feel😂🤷🏾‍♀️

@glitbow7630

2 жыл бұрын

You did betray your race

@libfuzzy4629

2 жыл бұрын

@@glitbow7630 the only race i know is that human race 🤷🏾‍♀️

@glitbow7630

2 жыл бұрын

@@libfuzzy4629 did that guy in Buffalo only know the human race 🤷🏼‍♂️

@glitbow7630

2 жыл бұрын

@@YaAllahswt get off my 🥜

@Iammikeyrivers

2 жыл бұрын

@@glitbow7630 how you don’t know if he’s Afro Latino or not !!

I would NEVER be with someone soley based on race. If we vibe, are attracted to each other, love each other and respect each others cultures we are fine

@Fuerwahrhalunke

2 жыл бұрын

You don't want your child to look like you? Have a group of friends that are just like him? Be able to relate to one culture that's shared with his/her parents? I mean, sure, you can love and mix with whoever you want, but just imagine what you do to your child.

@Fuerwahrhalunke

2 жыл бұрын

@@amg2723 You might say "we are all humans" and yeah we are, but all of us developed within different cultures that make our traits different. And of course there are factors outside of that, but those are all below the ones I listed, after all you get connect and ultimately get shaped by your surroundings first and foremost.

@robin7048

2 жыл бұрын

@@Fuerwahrhalunke also being able to connect and be exposed to two cultures instead of one is a benefit of being mixed not a downfall

@Fuerwahrhalunke

2 жыл бұрын

@@robin7048 Personally don't think so.

@nydra8119

2 жыл бұрын

Yes exactly! I want to fall in love with the person and it's strengths and flaws not with their appearance

I think Jubilee should release an extended video of these kinds of episodes where we get to hear everyone's answers, maybe on a Jubilee uncut channel

@whalisten

2 жыл бұрын

OMG YES

@loopymomy2532

2 жыл бұрын

Yessss I need it for this episode lol

@lilchristuten7568

2 жыл бұрын

I don't think they will do that since it's likely that they don't like the answers given.

@lailayas

2 жыл бұрын

@@msdaus14 they don't have a patreon :(

@whalisten

2 жыл бұрын

@@lilchristuten7568 this completely sucks! We'd love integral authenticity

I love how a lot of these couples decided to wear similar outfits so we could remember who is dating who: like matching jean jackets, or gray shirts/brown pants. It’s cute. Thanks to all these awesome couples who shared their experiences. Y’all are all beautiful people as individuals and cute couples. Love is love. 💗💗💗

@chaellelemati5289

2 жыл бұрын

I didn’t realise that lol

@magusreborn4684

2 жыл бұрын

They’re literally always in the opposite side of each other

@Kakasakufangirl

Жыл бұрын

Sorry for the late response but, they say that couples tend to dress similarly toward each other and try to compliment each other in style.

This topic is so broad that I feel that their should be an unedited version of this episode to hear what everyone said

It's interesting to me that it was mostly people in the black community that feel like they're betraying their own race, but no one else felt that way.

@bnadira212

2 жыл бұрын

I know. It’s sad

@remainloyaltoyour0wnsoil580

2 жыл бұрын

When u know u a sellout youre an outcast

@thewanderingwolf7116

2 жыл бұрын

@@remainloyaltoyour0wnsoil580 you're a sellout because you love someone despite their skin color? sounds a bit hypocritical

@Senumunu

2 жыл бұрын

no one else was honest about it. thats the only difference.

@thewanderingwolf7116

2 жыл бұрын

@@Senumunu I doubt that. I'm in an interracial relationship myself and I never thought about it as betraying a race.

This episode was weirdly edited. Some people talked basically in every question and some people almost didn’t speak at all. Also it was too short, showing just two anwsers to one question is weird, like we are here to listen to different opinions. Making this video 2-3 minutes longer wouldn’t hurt anyone.

@Happypotato917

2 жыл бұрын

Literally the first girlfriend in the row didn’t even speak

@njux1871

2 жыл бұрын

agreed. especially since it really is a great topic and cool couples.

@mobilenotherwise5000

2 жыл бұрын

Or they could release the 1hour of answers they've cut

@Gabriellaella23

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, one of the girls from another video said they filmed for about 3 hours and there were so many deep conversations that were cut.

@rociocaro2370

2 жыл бұрын

I wished jubliee actually published the whole conversation. I know it is a lot of work editing so much footage. But maybe that could be for a patreon or something like that so it would be beneficial for them as well. I would definitely pay for it

could you do a middle ground episode with pro-interracially dating people and anti-interracially dating people?

@ghoztiell

2 жыл бұрын

you know that video would end badly 😶

@Zenkka

2 жыл бұрын

Damn we bringing ethno-nationalists on the show now? 🤣

@coconuthead8616

2 жыл бұрын

Somebody call Dr Umar

@anag3286

2 жыл бұрын

@@coconuthead8616 lmaooo

@concamon1364

2 жыл бұрын

Honey...you've got a big storm coming

I honestly think it’s so messed up the idea that you’re “betraying your race” by dating someone who’s a different race than you. In my opinion it just completely ties into the idea of segregation that people of different races should be separated. I was shocked to see how many people agreed tbh

@MikeNj

2 жыл бұрын

Well when a certain race has oppressed your people for centuries, with the effects still being felt today, it makes sense to me why a black person would feel like they're betraying their race when dating a white person

@adt4025

2 жыл бұрын

I think it’s because most people date within their race, so if someone dates outside of it, they feel like they are purposefully excluding their own race and feel like they have some sort of self hate. But truthfully, to date one race of person doesn’t = bashing or hating the other.

I kept waiting for Alexander’s partner to share her thoughts! She was the only one who didn’t share an experience, which is fine but I was hoping to hear everyone.

@kadjalaing2569

2 жыл бұрын

Agree

@alexanderoda9183

2 жыл бұрын

It really sucks because she talked during the shoot but i guess they didnt care to include anything she said :(

@Rantsnrambles808

2 жыл бұрын

He shat on her

@carmenloboportilla1808

2 жыл бұрын

@@alexanderoda9183 hey! You are that guy! Cool!

@carmenloboportilla1808

2 жыл бұрын

@@alexanderoda9183 im curious, are you a model? Or an actor?

I think many people do, even without saying it. Online dating is probably where that's most evident

@aristarchos5342

2 жыл бұрын

"Only White big tits blonde hair"

@kenangedik3678

2 жыл бұрын

Definitely. I don’t think people having preferences is a problem though. You can force respect but you can’t force attraction

@s.j.t6006

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah black women and Asian men are the least chosen on dating sites

@azaniajuicethwala5324

2 жыл бұрын

People will naturally gravitate towards people of the same race. What isn’t acceptable is basing attraction on racist stereotypes or fetishization...

@laidbackjack-2680

2 жыл бұрын

@@s.j.t6006 wow i actually didnt know that 😯 thanks for the info.🙂

*many people just have perverted fetishes about certain ‘races’*

And I know exactly why when they asked the question “do you sometimes feel like you betrayed your own race” all the black people agreed.

@shaunstorm9967

2 жыл бұрын

Please share your thoughts

@frolankaestilien8900

2 жыл бұрын

Yes I wasn’t surprised at all bc black ppl are most likely to get judged harshly by their own race when they date outside their race. Just look at the comments under the shade room on Instagram anytime they post an interracial couple. So much hate and name calling from both genders. That’s why I think ppl in interracial relationships are so strong bc they are willing to go against those odds for love.

@blackskyboii

2 жыл бұрын

@@frolankaestilien8900 And thats ok to date anyone from outside of your race but I know these people got something rude to say, I mean Jesus

@youareajackass2005

2 жыл бұрын

at least they are honest. Wish I could say that for other groups.

@sergioramos-vd9zk

2 жыл бұрын

@@frolankaestilien8900 and one of highest divorce rate ??

It's sad seeing so many black people feeling like they are betraying their race by being in an interracial relationship. We need to end that stereotype and let people feel comfortable being who they want to be and loving who they want to love.

@edithputhy4948

2 жыл бұрын

well a lot of people date IR out of deep seated self hatred and insecurities, they put whiteness and Eurocentric features on a pedestal and dislike their own black features

@wrestlinganime4life288

2 жыл бұрын

@@edithputhy4948 yeah pretty much most black rappers in a nutshell.

@OM-wl7qe

2 жыл бұрын

It's nobody's duty to make anyone else feel comfortable with the choices they made freely.

@remainloyaltoyour0wnsoil580

2 жыл бұрын

Naww stop bein sellouts stick to ya color

@iexistsomehow5718

2 жыл бұрын

@JonMwan G they have lighter or ambiguous

I think everyone has their choice! but I find it a bit problematic for those rappers who talk about black women in their songs but only date white women and leave black women for "snack"

@spacenuggetdemonslayer9430

2 жыл бұрын

So basically men can’t have preferences. Got it. 🙄

@CarissaJenkins

2 жыл бұрын

@@spacenuggetdemonslayer9430 i see you’ve read what they said without actually reading it 😐

@inconsistizzy

2 жыл бұрын

@@spacenuggetdemonslayer9430 did they EVER SAY THAT BRO. they said they found this problematic, they didn't out right be SEXIST

@noor-tb8ue

2 жыл бұрын

@@spacenuggetdemonslayer9430 you don't even know what you're talking about.

@cruisycai

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed 💯🙌🏾

I really enjoyed this one, made my eyes a bit watery aha, wish this one was longer, but being a mixed person and being in an interracial relationship is so different, it’s definitely one of the most challenging things but I would never want to change it I love my partner and we have grown so much because we are so different I think it’s in a way it’s a blessing, truely shows you how far someone is willing to go to understand and support you.

Unrelated but I love Alexander’s hair and style 👌🏽

Jubilee, please release the "uncut" version of this for those of us who wouldn't mind a longer video! There was probably so much more stated that we didn't get to see.

@susanaye

2 жыл бұрын

Yeeees, would see it all the way for sure.

It’s so heartbreaking to hear about mixed raced children who don’t feel like they fit in or belong to a certain community. I recommend you guys have your own community. There’s nothing wrong with being both. You don’t have to choose. As a mother of a mixed race child, I encourage her to be proud of both of her heritages and embrace being biracial.

@BlackOpslover2828

2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, biracial doesn't seem like an identity. My family is black. My family is white. My family is not biracial.

@masamiiliffe

2 жыл бұрын

As a mixed race young person myself, I have to say that for me personally being brought up with two different cultures has been amazing. Yes it's not always easy and you can feel isolated sometimes, but overall it has helped me develop a global mindset which I am very grateful for. I've been lucky enough to meet other mixed race people, and a few who are of the same mixed race as I am. I also think that it definitely has helped me connect with other people from different cultures. It has been such a blessing. Of course I understand that not everyone has such a positive experience though. If I have children in the future, I really hope they grow up in a multicultural environment. It's beautiful :)

@juicyblueberry7849

2 жыл бұрын

Your country is fucked up in the race aspect like most latin people are mixed race or at least in my country, i'm mixed race, never in my life I have felt or met someone that felt like they didn't belong anywhere because of that. Like I'm literally confused what is the problem???

@optimusprime4221

2 жыл бұрын

@@juicyblueberry7849A biracial person is not gonna feel like they don’t belong if everyone around them is also biracial. I thought that would be obvious.

@trinat347

2 жыл бұрын

I agree

I agree with Grace so much. Everyone is amazing but when I first met my husband we had conversations about our race and what that would mean for our children and I also felt how she does about it.

I’m in a interracial relationship my girlfriend is black and I’m Mexican she’s the love of my life

I feel like this video had the potential to be better, I was kinda disappointed that some of the answers from the other side weren’t shown or covered as much like for two of the questions they only showed the perspectives of those on the agree side and not those on the disagree side. It would’ve been better to have a balance especially if its like a huge range of responses.

@farahhossain9413

2 жыл бұрын

Agree!

@erictheguapo

2 жыл бұрын

Also an unedited version. I think people who are interested in these topics would watch a long form video of it. I know I would.

@sonderexpeditions

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. It was weak. Needed to be longer.

@youseebiggirl9694

2 жыл бұрын

💯

@justaperson6593

2 жыл бұрын

Agree!! The video was too short; they should have included more of the responses

I'm obviously white lol and my lady is black. We share a beautiful daughter together and we teach her to embrace both sides, not just one.

@estrella6333

2 жыл бұрын

@@freckleheckler6311 wtf?? as someone who is half asian and half black i’ve never had a problem with embracing both sides & as a matter of fact even though both cultures are very different they’re actually so much more alike then most ppl would think

@i_likemen5614

2 жыл бұрын

@@freckleheckler6311 thats racist

@lifeiskillingbella

2 жыл бұрын

@@freckleheckler6311 So mixed children don’t belong in any culture?

@enelmartodoesfelicidad

2 жыл бұрын

Only people in USA have that much problem with idendity and being mixed race ...

@user-ui5lo4ye3h

2 жыл бұрын

@@enelmartodoesfelicidad Not true.

Chris didnt seem to care much about Grace and her feelings as well. If he isnt proud to be with her then let her be with someone who is proud to be with her. It brings a lot of pain and insecurities on her if she has to deal with trying to live up to what he wants

@lilchristuten7568

2 жыл бұрын

The thing is, she chooses to stay with him, so she chooses those insecurities. It's unlikely that even if he "let her go" that she would get with someone who treats her better because she can only choose men who she considers herself to be worthy of, and she chose him.

@Rantsnrambles808

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe that’s why her family isn’t super cool to Chris lol...dudes a complete dick and a joke.

@riah5455

2 жыл бұрын

I’m going to assume your white because you clearly don’t seem to understand how it’s like for black people to date outside our race. He’s not trying to make her insecure he’s just being honest and speaking on his experience. Hes not saying he isn’t proud to be with her. It’s just hard in the black community to date outside our race because we care too much about what others say.

@respecttimeCUBE

2 жыл бұрын

@@riah5455 nah he was racist af and that girl needs to do better lol

@Rantsnrambles808

2 жыл бұрын

@@riah5455 Every question he was a dick. And nobody wants to hear excuses about why black people are always justifiable in their bigotry

I love this episode! They touched on so many rlly important things and I liked listening to what they were saying and why. ❤️

The question that should be asked is what causes that preference? It’s usually some unconscious stereotype or life circumstance you apply to that type of person that may or may not be true.

@spacenuggetdemonslayer9430

2 жыл бұрын

You win comment of the day. Most of the other comments are emotional outcries.

@dorkability

2 жыл бұрын

It’s normal to want to date someone who shares similar culture, values, language, religion, etc. In that case, preferences include race.

@qwertyuiopqwertyuiop-bb4mi

2 жыл бұрын

@ash M To say that racial preferences exist just because “certain people are naturally attracted to certain skin tones” is extremely naive. Dating apps have shown that these preferences are a widespread issue, not an individual matter. When it becomes a pattern, it starts to paint a picture about the subconscious biases that society has taught us even if we don’t realize them ourselves. For example, studies have shown that black women and Asian men get the least matches on dating apps, and even black men tend to swipe left on black women more than any other race.

@laurenlewis5907

2 жыл бұрын

@@spacenuggetdemonslayer9430 fr

@laurenlewis5907

2 жыл бұрын

@@SmallLegacy but that doesn’t make sense 💀 seeing a race as uglier than another is racist considering it’s the color of their skin that is what you are visually opposed to. There are attractive ppl in every race but if the color of it is what strays u then…

My problem is when the "preference " comes from a place of self hatred

@IzzyChopChop

2 жыл бұрын

Yep, very typical of Asian women who only date white men...they're all so insecure about being Asian except when it benefits them

@MannyBiship

2 жыл бұрын

i think this is common within the black community

@anzai5552

2 жыл бұрын

@@IzzyChopChop true

@kdog1703

2 жыл бұрын

@Lyon Blade everyone has self hate they just don't talk about it .

@pwetty4r4

2 жыл бұрын

@@dickgrayson4325 I think that's exactly what I said, it's my problem. I have a a problem with it

We're getting nothing from these discussions if they're edited this much.

Yes it is okay to have preferences of race, it's okay to have preferences of looks color height body shape personality education level and anything, what is not okay is to treat others any less or discriminate them or bully them or take away their rights because of race but getting attracted to someone is a total different thing and people should stop talking everything personally, I can prefer a race or have a type it doesn't make me racist or bad person but treating a person differently only for their race does.

@erictopp7988

2 жыл бұрын

Since late elementary school I was consistently bombarded with the "Asian girls have the tightest pussies" adage, which (along with liking anime) made me fetishize them and think I would prefer them because of their race. That's the unhealthy side of it. Especially since most views that stem from the same mindset aren't usually about something you might "like" from a particular race. I think the easiest way to reflect on whether or not your preferences are healthy/natural is to imagine a friend is telling you about someone, and recognize whether or not you have an expectation that you will or won't find them attractive if all your friend says about them is their race.

@bluebellcrushedvelvet

2 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 well said jhs!! I so 100000000% agree with you!! Hallelujah!!

@wanderer3561

Жыл бұрын

Finally someone said this . I mean people have preferences, you can’t force yourself to change your preference just like your orientation

This convo should've been 30 minutes longer. I want to hear all of their perspectives.

@CactusJack252

Жыл бұрын

^^^^this

@Galidorquest

Жыл бұрын

Vice is better than Jubilee when it comes to race & politics. They talk about real issues and give Republicans more time to speak.

@ManyaManic

11 ай бұрын

Fact on fact

It’s okay to have a preference towards your own race, it’s not racist if it isn’t based on racial attitudes towards other races. But I think it’s very easy to fetishize other races and base a preference off of that.

@lbz6412

2 жыл бұрын

@@n9ne If u read their comment, they said it’s okay to have a preference towards your own race. Not that it’s okay to exclude a specific race, for example black people, and not date them just because they’re black.

@ccmitch85

2 жыл бұрын

@@n9ne some people are attracted to tan skin, some people are attracted to pale skin, black skin. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I’d you find someone unattractive to “date” that doesn’t make you a racist. Also culture plays a huge factor and dating people with a similar culture and background plays a big part. Like mostly attracts like

@youreinthematrix87

2 жыл бұрын

As long as the person isn’t ghetto or crazy that’s a huge turn off for me.

@jonasgrant

2 жыл бұрын

@@n9ne Well, my personal standards of beauty fall more towards the traits commonly found in black and asian girls, but I'm not racist towards white girls, they just rarely have traits that I find attractive, it would be dishonest for me to pretend I am attracted to someone just to fulfil some racial dating quota, right?

@gyrozeppeli5445

2 жыл бұрын

The thing is i dont have a preference on my own race. If you dont live in India, the general beauty standards here are on fow fair your skin is which is especially true for women. I dont like that idea at all but maybe i internalized it myself and i am kinda sad now

"Being a white person, I'm inherently ignorant" - Cringe af. That's not true.

@yolotsinxochitl9645

2 жыл бұрын

Yes it is. Because you can´t live the experience, you can try to imagine, you can be empathetic but you will always be ignorant about the real experience. Like a light skin latina I´m ignorant about the experience of my indiginous friend that grow up only learning spanish, and she is ignorant about the experience of her mom that actually grow up in an indiginous comunity. Also, latinos that live in USA and barely know any spanish are ignorant about how is life for a latina living in latinoamerica and I will get angry when they try to talk over me.

@lilzim9559

Жыл бұрын

@@yolotsinxochitl9645 every race is ignorant when it comes to other races struggles so yes it is cringe,im hispanic myself and i get ur point we all have different experiences and views due to where we come from but that's out of our hands,u can still educated urself and be an understanding person,ur not to blame for some that happen 100 years ago when u weren't even around

@rodintremboy6459

Жыл бұрын

i reflexively facepalmed when she said that. this is learned low self-confidence and self-deprecation.

@jessi-tp9fr

Жыл бұрын

it is true and the fact that u dont see that makes u part of the problem

@lilzim9559

Жыл бұрын

@@jessi-tp9fr no is not ignorance has nothing to do with race and more with the way u were raised my parents taught me ur race and wealth has nothing to do with the way u treat others.go to the local asian store in the hood and u gon see how these people treat the asian workers does that make every black person racist no those individuals it says alot about their character not their race

I’m Latina with VERY fair skin and my boyfriend is black. The amount of stares we get at school or people asking if we’re serious w each other or even the daily “why didn’t u date a mexicano boy or a black girl” comes off as extremely disrespectful. My ex (who is white) and I together never got stared at or questioned and it really disappoints me how people my age view interracial couples

@El_Pimpin_Shizz

2 жыл бұрын

If your from california thats prolly why

@blueberrypancakes1771

2 жыл бұрын

@@El_Pimpin_Shizz ya lmaoo I’m from California

@El_Pimpin_Shizz

2 жыл бұрын

@@blueberrypancakes1771 the mexicans snd blcks got tension in certain parts

@blueberrypancakes1771

2 жыл бұрын

@@El_Pimpin_Shizz that explains it, I never thought of that

@El_Pimpin_Shizz

2 жыл бұрын

@@blueberrypancakes1771 just be proud of who you are love who you wanna love.

I see they avoided questions about preference.

@tchrisou812

2 жыл бұрын

What is your preference?

@hannastar

2 жыл бұрын

Omg yeah

@cheerfulsatanist

2 жыл бұрын

Actually I've seen footage of these guys on their own separate social media platforms or they talk about stuff like that, so I think they actually did speak about it It's just this video in jubilee videos in general are very weirdly edited in terms of what they cut out and what they need in. Like most of the topics are the sort that involved demographic differences and yet they don't even tell us which demographic each one is from which is kind of defeats the purpose of the debate and the discussion in the first place.... So I think they probably didn't answer them at least most of them did it's just jubilous freaking weird when it comes to what they cut in with the keep in.... Think we could have made you stuff like that that we have plenty of weird b-roll looking at folding chairs in the warehouse which has not changed since the channel started, but for some reason they think they still have time to show that but not the stuff we actually want to know about lol.

@lenoron4453

2 жыл бұрын

Preference doesn’t matter when you’re universally ugly Ms. Rikkllover17

@mayfl0wers

2 жыл бұрын

Like people dont wanna admit that its weird to PREFER one race over another. Like its one thing to be out and about, have no strong preference to one race, just dating who is available, but then intentionally not dating a whole race is weird af.

Omg they should’ve asked “I’m afraid for possible social stigma my future mixed child could endure” that would’ve been interesting. Like asking about long term situations

@leorowse3612

2 жыл бұрын

In the USA yes

@kexi_

2 жыл бұрын

That would've been an amazing question! Especially since I feel some don't think much further than the struggles of the relationship. Imagine being a mixed kid growing up with racist white family members if it's hard for the parents, it's going to be even harder on the kid since they'll be blood related and they're wondering why grandma and grandpa don't like them or their cousins treat them differently. (This isn't a given and some people have amazing experiences with both sides of the family, but it happens far too often). As a mixed person myself, I wish people would consider the long term implications of starting a family and having mixed race kids. That's not to discourage people from having kids, but to make sure they're prepared to help the kids navigate that experience and all the emotional and political challenges that are likely to come with it.

@mimosasseat9860

2 жыл бұрын

Who said their having a child lol

@brittanysmith3716

2 жыл бұрын

That was def a fear my mother had. Being asian with a half black half asian baby. She would always worry about racism and the struggles I’d endure. And when I did share my experience of racism to her, she would always have this look like her biggest-fear-come-true look. I always wondered if she blamed my struggles on her marrying outside her race

@youngboss2368

2 жыл бұрын

@@brittanysmith3716 but even if you weren’t mixed Asians still go through racism so that doesn’t make any sense

I've never seen a spectrum episode with so much laughter 😃. It's great! 🙏

This was underwhelming, we didn't get to hear everyone's 2 cents on each subject...

Being mixed is really hard because I feel like I can’t completely relate to my black culture, especially being raised by my white mom and white step dad I really don’t know how to fit in

@Jupiter-ry6ll

2 жыл бұрын

Sameee

@dgakid

2 жыл бұрын

Same y’all

@damasterme

2 жыл бұрын

same but with my own country where i was born, i don't feel like i belong here. want to go home so bad

@laurenlewis5907

2 жыл бұрын

Do you feel that your separation from your black side is either of your parents faults? This isn’t meant to come off as offensive I’m genuinely curious on your thoughts on it.

@litgirlablaze3432

2 жыл бұрын

Story of my life!

I just feel like there was so much more that everyone said and I know it would have been a long episode, but I would have loved to hear it all. This is such a diverse group of interracial couples and all of their experiences are so different and I just wanted to hear more. This is a great episode tho!

@annieangel97

2 жыл бұрын

agree

@jtran2931

2 жыл бұрын

@@annieangel97 yes! This felt too short.

@bekahchapman1646

2 жыл бұрын

Agree, it felt like they cut off so much conversation for times sake. Would love to have heard more for each question

@CreativelyKia

2 жыл бұрын

Literally!! Like wth? There is a big group of people in this spectrum and they let 1-2 people talk per prompt… like really???? There was so much more to be said, and more perspectives to hear!! . Jubilee made this video way underwhelming than it should have been.

@enelmartodoesfelicidad

2 жыл бұрын

Yes yes a felt that too

As a mixed person with 2 mixed parents and 3 mixed grandparents it would be super duper interesting to get my family to play this but also really weird. I really wish my great grandparents were still alive to get their hot takes on being mixed or in an interracial relationship as that would have been so different 80+ years ago

This is very interesting to hear everyone’s side. I’m not use to hearing these topics bc I’ve grown up in a community where everyone is mixed. But Thankyou for the education 👍🏽

@ijustneedmyself

2 жыл бұрын

What community is that?

taylar mocking her bf mocking his asian mom is hilarious *AHHHH*

@whitneyallman8365

2 жыл бұрын

Husband :)

@Yng619

2 жыл бұрын

Really isn't tho it's still racist and stereotyping

@sirrparker47

2 жыл бұрын

@@Yng619 That's their business tho

@ore.kaykay1698

2 жыл бұрын

@cool 123 he’s mixed duhhhhh

@Yng619

2 жыл бұрын

@@sirrparker47 could literally say that about any racist

I think people need to understand the difference between having a preference and fetishing

@re-gal7949

2 жыл бұрын

exactlyyyy

@spongebobcirclepants3843

2 жыл бұрын

I honestly think there is a thinner than tissue paper line between fetish and preference. For example preference is what you prefer and fetish is also what you prefer. If you're like I prefer dudes with tattoos and thats what you are dating how is it not a fetish. If someone fetishises glasses but their partner doesn't wear glasses then how is that not a preference.

@shhd2105

2 жыл бұрын

Where is the line between perference and fetishism outside your race? The lines doesn't seem to be there. How can you possibly explain without sounding that way? It usually rooted in stereotypes and covert racism.

@neattea3452

2 жыл бұрын

@@shhd2105 that’s a major point like ppl should ask themselves why do they prefer the races they prefer. They really need to think about that and then see how that is playing into the hands of covert racism or preconceived notions and prejudices about the particular race. Now as for your own race, I could see why you would prefer it for obvious basic reasons, but for other races, no I don’t see how I can vouch for that reasoning

@Ethan-nl2wg

2 жыл бұрын

@@shhd2105 nah dude most people that have a preference it is purely about being physically attractive to a specific race, obviously there are some people out there that have that mindset about being attracted to stereotypes but it’s definitely the minority

It’s no coincidence that all the black people were on the side saying that they feel like they disgrace their own race. It’s sad that we can’t just love each other for who we are love is love right

@L.M788

2 жыл бұрын

I definitely feel the other side of that. My in laws aren’t Black but they are Hmong and they aren’t happy with their son’s or nephew’s or grandson’s choice of bride. They just don’t the idea of him being with me. There’s only about 91,000 Hmong people California and my husband often describes his culture as a “dying language” so unfortunately he does believe his family sometimes but it hasn’t stopped him from loving me nevertheless.

ive been in many interracial relationships with black, latin, and asian. there has definitely been some tension with their family accepting me as a white guy in the black and asian cases. in the latin cases i was overwhelmingly accepted even when language was an issue. i don't think my personal experiences necessarily mean anything across the board. i was a little confused about the fetishizing and still loving thing like are we considering preferences a fetish or that is only in regards to sex? i guess at the end of the day a physical attraction preference has sexual implication. i guess i would explain it personally as the same if you like a bigger girl or skinnier girl or whatever physical characteristic you value , if they have that but also suck in other areas then it wont last. to the people in the video personally id say to grace and her partner to keep trying with family. the only way for both of you yourself and your families to evolve is through interaction. that is the way to defeat the ignorant beliefs. also to the girl that said we are inherently ignorant due to being white, screw you for that. i hope you learn not to judge people on their color. i think the question about 'did you ever accidently be racist to your partner' shows that we are all just human and make mistakes here and there, we learn and grow.

@shaunstorm9967

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with your sentiments and as a Black South African I respect your opinion on interaction as one of the “Kryptonites” of separation. In the same breathe I urge you to try and look at what that white chick was meaning by you dudes being inherently ignorant because of your skin colour, Granted I’m not quite sure she sees the topic from where I do but with all due respect she is right …there are some inabilities that are intrinsic to character, the same limitations that hinder our complete sympathies with the woas that come with being a female is the same limitations that could potentially (and truly more often than not ) hinder a true understanding of African human beings . The acceptance of such a truth helps push true understanding or atleast the pursuit of it , and I truly hope you are such a person , even thou you can’t rid that lack of knowing a 100% you can pursue it . And that’s what is usually most ideal and really all you are required of .

@jackyex

2 жыл бұрын

Honestly most Latin Americans don't really care about others people skin color as our own skins colors are very different from each other, so inter racial relations ships to a Latin American point of view is quite normal, and we love foreigners so yeah, of course there's a odd ball who dislike people of other races of those who don't speak their language, but mostly I think it's chill, I never understood this American hesitancy to mixed race relationships and mixed race individuals overall, down here its just the norm, I guess that's what cultural differences are all about.

@ritam4926

2 жыл бұрын

O we know what she meant. She automatically called all whites ignorant just because they're white. It's getting annoying that some whites have audacity to say whites are prejudice when in reality every and each of us regardless the skin color could be bias. If that girl feels she has those qualities then she should only speak for herself.. Just cause she's white doesn't give her right to call the whole race racist.

@redofspades

2 жыл бұрын

@@jackyex You don't anything about Latin America then.

@xander_k_

2 жыл бұрын

That’s because Hispanics are white worshippers. Asians have a strong sense of tradition that they want upheld, and blacks have a chip on their shoulder against white people, especially older generations because they went through intense discrimination (and still do)

There’s definitely a difference between having a race preference and straight up dissing people of the race that you don’t prefer or saying “I would NEVER date someone of this particular race”. A lot of people do that and then call it a ‘preference’ when they’re just being disrespectful

@esmeralda9712

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@erictheguapo

2 жыл бұрын

I agree that there is a difference but at the end of the day... who cares? I am not going to trip over someone not wanting to date me because of my race. I will just move onto the next one.

@g.hmusicc

2 жыл бұрын

@@erictheguapo other people care, you’re not the only person on this planet. again someone might not care, but not wanting to date someone solely because of their race is just weird and disrespectful

@-Secret

2 жыл бұрын

@@erictheguapo even though you dont care that someone is trying to disrespect your race does not mean others wont. You have many people who actually face negative repercussions based on the disgusting things people say about that race. It's not okay to many people because it actually does end up having a negative affect on them.

@erictheguapo

2 жыл бұрын

@@g.hmusicc Again...who cares... You can not change people's preferences so why dwell on it? Spend your time finding someone who actually wants to be with you.

When it came to betraying race I find it interesting how every black person whet to the agreeable side.

@Skylakota

2 жыл бұрын

Me too. That stereotype needs to go. It’s sad that some people still think it’s betrayal to date outside of your own race

@NiMissNi

2 жыл бұрын

I knew all the black people would go to the agree side. I'm a black person in an IR and you get those disappoving looks, and social media keeps getting on black men and women who divest from the community.

@deborah7309

2 жыл бұрын

I knew that was going to happen as soon as they said it

@i.i1215

2 жыл бұрын

It is if you’re dating a white woman

@emmafrostnr.1fan662

2 жыл бұрын

I was about to comment this

HEY!! JUBILEEE!!! WE DONT MIND LONG EPISODES!! If you guys feel like there’s more relevant answers that should be in it, make it 20+ min if you have to! We’ll still watch 💛

if you feel like you're losing respect from your community for dating outside your race, what does that say about your community?

@wendi2500

2 жыл бұрын

That they are sheltered and afraid probably due to years of trauma 🤷🏾‍♀️

@roselaqueen3105

2 жыл бұрын

@@wendi2500 or just racism and hatred

@hobisdishwater9792

2 жыл бұрын

@@roselaqueen3105 or just years of trauma

@JeromeProductions

2 жыл бұрын

@@ale.6195 very sad to hear

@ale.6195

2 жыл бұрын

@@JeromeProductions Yeah, it is. And sorry if it was hard to follow and if you got the wrong impression. I believe I made it easier to understand. I'm not fluent in English yet so I often make mistakes.

I’m mixed race (Chinese and Haitian) and my boyfriend is Puerto Rican. I’ve learned and progressed so much by just hearing another view point on life and we get excited talking about how we will raise our future little ones. Loved this episode!

@offtheMarcKate

2 жыл бұрын

Agree! We are Filipino/American, and it definitely has helped to see other cultural perspectives and do our best to keep the strengths of both, and think about what we want to pass on to our kids. You can definitely learn a lot

@anonymousbo0318

2 жыл бұрын

Haitians are Hispanics though

@1pngnswillrul

2 жыл бұрын

@@anonymousbo0318 I’ve never met a Haitian that identified as Hispanic but could be wrong. Maybe a few that may say latino as it’s apart of the Latin America’s but Haiti doesn’t speak Spanish as the people are of African descent and the first black free republic from the French ruling. The term Hispanic also refers to being related to Spain.

@1pngnswillrul

2 жыл бұрын

@@offtheMarcKate completely agree!!!

@marcello7781

2 жыл бұрын

That's great! As a mixed guy from Latin America and Europe the best thing you could do is introduce your future kids to your cultures and languages at the same time. I wish you both the best.

I’d like to to see this topic done with older couples

@hifood3581

2 жыл бұрын

@Tyler B #2 go back to twitter

@bunnywavyxx9524

2 жыл бұрын

that'd be super interesting.

@janestone1849

2 жыл бұрын

There aren't too many older interracial couples so that could be difficult. lol

I HATE when black dudes say that they dont like black girls bc theyre “too ghetto” i translate that into him not liking his own mama. I understand maybe you havent found someone in that race that you like, but you dont have to stereotype black women like that. Ive heard/seen this too many times its honest appaling😬 When i tell you in my school EVERY mixed person i see, theyre parents are BMWW ( not saying anything wrong with that)

@ba.8084

2 жыл бұрын

@Cardio 123 seriously.

@alaura.444

2 жыл бұрын

Black people are not all “ghetto”.. not only black people are “ghetto” either

I definitely would like to see a part two or a longer episode there was way more that could’ve been said

I think it's normal to be attracted to a race but I don't think it's normal to have a preference of race you don't like, does it makes sense?

@aabahdjfisosososos

2 жыл бұрын

The whole point of this video, is the preference to which race you are attracted to

@gbmnbm4154

2 жыл бұрын

Some Person I'm talking about the subject itself

@deryckareid9558

2 жыл бұрын

@@aabahdjfisosososos did we watch the same video?

@meantobwy

2 жыл бұрын

pls elaborate

@gbmnbm4154

2 жыл бұрын

julia I understand when someone is attracted to a race but I don't think it's right when someone use this to say "I wouldn't date this race"

the problem is when people use their preferences to exclude people. like i prefer older guys but i’m not gonna turn down every guy that’s younger than me.

@Jasminesim18

2 жыл бұрын

bingo.

@smilesallround

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 This. 💯

@thabokgwele5268

2 жыл бұрын

Would it really be a problem if you rejected everyone younger than you though?

@momsagainstjuuls7659

2 жыл бұрын

@@SmallLegacy liking something over something else doesn’t necessarily include exclusion but thank you for knowing how to use a dictionary. i prefer chocolate ice cream but i’m still going to eat other flavors

@momsagainstjuuls7659

2 жыл бұрын

@@thabokgwele5268 1. it was just an example and 2. some people would find it problematic. as long as someone isn’t bashing people for not being their type, then i don’t care

I feel like race preference is ok, as long as 1. It’s not a fetish 2. You dont limit yourself to just that race.

There was a facebook survey done in Indonesia. The participants were asked the race of their preferred mate. The survey was divided between city and rural area. A whooping 76% of a Indonesian women in the city preferred White men if they can get it, most of them specify from either UK or Australia, while 53% from rural area also preferred White men. For Indonesia men, 83% preferred to marry Indonesian women, with Arab women came second. In rural area, all 100% participants preferred Indonesian Women.

@ellatulipe

2 жыл бұрын

Wahhh menarik nih, iya sih aku notice banyak cewe Indonesia yg suka bule (esp white men). Ini kalo boleh tau surveynya kapan ya?

@fadlya.rahman4113

2 жыл бұрын

@@ellatulipe It was in 2012.

@bunnywavyxx9524

2 жыл бұрын

wow so it's true in asia too

@sukarsalam1982

2 жыл бұрын

Damn🤣 But white are not muslim. Are they okay with that? 🤪

@fadlya.rahman4113

2 жыл бұрын

@@sukarsalam1982 Inter-religious marriage is quite common in Indonesia. Just look at Anggun. Indonesia is like Turkey in that despite Muslim majority, is a pure secular country.

It reminds me of the trend when some Arabs on social media shamed Arab women for their skin color, saying that it's better to date white women rather than the "ugly" Arab women. And some men/ women insult the opposite gender from their same race. so preferences are fine as long as it's not out of self-hatred or sexism.

@Yng619

2 жыл бұрын

Wtf bruh i just replied to a comment above yours saying i think that Indian and Middle eastern aka Arab women are the best looking because of their skin color it's like a mix of every race.

@2933vera

2 жыл бұрын

@@Yng619 You must follow Arab trends, especially Egyptians and how they mock Egyptian women for literally everything

@mari-tm1ew

2 жыл бұрын

As an Egyptian women myself, yes yes yes and yes. Arab men tend to bash Arab woman for their darker skin complexion and claim its a “preference”. Actually, Arab men seem to bash Arab women for EVERYTHING. It’s all rooted in misogyny and corrupted social beauty standards. I actually remember asking my mother for bleaching skincare at such a young age because of the amount of insults I would get from family members and friends.

@2933vera

2 жыл бұрын

@@mari-tm1ew So sorry for you actually for all of us as Arab women. Wish you a happy life🥺♥️

@julesoxana3630

2 жыл бұрын

@@2933vera yall are beautiful❤

Dang, 13 minutes was not enough. I could have listened to their opinions and stories for hours! 🥰

@jamesprice4252

2 жыл бұрын

Probably because they didn't ask about preferences

@whatsupeveryone

2 жыл бұрын

some of their opinions were wack though

@frieza2235

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@mc_st0ner792

2 жыл бұрын

These people are beyond saving, so are you.

@alexanderoda9183

2 жыл бұрын

That’s what I’m saying

I felt the asian guy, I want to see how I look being mixed with every race of female. only honest person, everyone else was cappin. jubilee just brings cappers because of clicks

@tonyarmstrong5527

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@supfella5115

2 жыл бұрын

Same.. :DD

@davidecolin

2 жыл бұрын

Look at Adriana Lima to satisfy your interest haha! She's predominantly caucasian but she's mixed with every race common in the Americas.

@HelenOzark

2 жыл бұрын

ME TOO

@sitdownstandup91

2 жыл бұрын

'race of female' lmao

Have they done a video on international/intercultural relationships yet? As someone who's been in one, I'd really love to see that!

"Interracial relationships can be a fetish, and that's okay if it's love too." At the end of the day, if both parties consent to being fetishized, it's their business and I would be happy for them. Personally as an Asian person, I am just so tired. I am so tired of being stereotyped and fetishized as a "submissive Asian bottom" or just as a Korean. I am more than my race or ethnicity. If the first thing they notice is my race and they make a big deal about how much they love "kpop" and "kbbq", they have already imbued me with their preconceived ideas about Koreans. Just like, piss off.

@milkhomie4582

2 жыл бұрын

It’s not ok to be fetishized

@AnymMusic

2 жыл бұрын

@@milkhomie4582 not to you, to Ethan it is

@milkhomie4582

2 жыл бұрын

@@AnymMusic I don’t care

@erikybarra3898

2 жыл бұрын

Well Ethan how do you think other young minority men feel like young black men in America get stereotyped because of all Hip-Hop culture and media portrays every young black men out to be?!

@BJo-jj2uk

2 жыл бұрын

@@erikybarra3898 what does that have to do with what he said? He is talking about experiences with his community, not ours 😐

Thank you Jubilee for having Ivan & I! It was so amazing and insightful to hear everyone’s different experiences, and to share our journeys with one another on a platform like this, is such a blessing. I learned so much during our conversation and I can’t wait to learn even more! Thanks for watching everybody♥️ Love, Kédo Rebelle

@nesab2671

2 жыл бұрын

Loved you two in this video! ❤️

@pamelagrant3747

2 жыл бұрын

Yes I liked your vibe

@rafft.2857

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experiences! ❤️

A thing that I've learned growing up. Don't feel uncomfortable if someone has a different view then even if it comes to something political or something more extreme. Become uncomfortable when they dismiss your perspective and listens to tell you that you are wrong. There is big difference from the two.

I think it's perfectly fine to have a preference. I'm mixed-race and my preference has always been white men since I could remember. But, I don't hate other races of men; I respect them; value them.

@madylines6364

4 ай бұрын

Most mixed race from white and black tend to date white so it's not a suprise

I feel like I’m betraying my race by dating outside my race sometimes too (white bf), especially because of certain looks we might get from poc. But, that will never change my feelings towards my boyfriend. I’d date any race regardless of how my race may feel about it. If I’m being treated well and if I am happy, that’s all that matters!

@unionunicorn6776

2 жыл бұрын

I’m happy you’re happy and at the end of the day that should be all that matters. Love is love. 💗💗💗

@ceceruben6113

2 жыл бұрын

Ummm back in slavery the masters were busting down the slaves lets be serious. Remind any lightskin black person of their lineage if they try to make you feel bad.

@evacope1718

2 жыл бұрын

@@ceceruben6113 yeah let's just shame people based on what people of their race did in the 19th century lol. Most white peoples ancestors were laborers and farmers.

@rulerofkripsy9143

2 жыл бұрын

@Queen queen that isn’t a thing

@luckavfx

2 жыл бұрын

@V King no one cares

I am proud of being mixed race I don’t have a racial preference either I will date Any race religion ethnicity gender etc just as long as the person is nice

@elini9218

2 жыл бұрын

@@SomeCrusader no we don’t

@pffilms2522

2 жыл бұрын

@@elini9218 you totally misunderstood what that person said lmaoo

@elini9218

2 жыл бұрын

@@pffilms2522 we don’t tho

@iremainunimpressed1589

2 жыл бұрын

dnt be mad ima mutt too

@priyakadian9258

2 жыл бұрын

❤️ E

We need an uncut version or a longer one

omg! alexander was in my summer college course, well spoken! great video w some interesting questions/points

I feel like these videos could be twice as long and we’d all happily watch

@cupcakkerares

2 жыл бұрын

Same. They should have an extended cut video for those interested to hear more about the people to better understand their background

@missthanng4891

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@jtran2931

2 жыл бұрын

@@cupcakkerares I was just gonna say this!! great idea.

The preference part is tricky. Often we as humans like to act as though our preferences aren’t shaped by so many external factors and are wholly our own, when often they are not. Sure, “nature” plays a role, i.e. what we are naturally curious about or attracted to individually, but I would argue “nurture” is often much more persuasive, as (in my opinion) this is how we shape about 90% of our sense of self, identity and personhood. Meaning - the cultural, religious, societal and communal norms that we’re all subject to based on where we’re born and what kind of society we’re born into, are very big factors into how your personality, tastes and dislikes are formed, and those factors all look very different depending on the person. For example, I know a guy who is mixed half White Irish and half Puerto Rican, and his Puerto Rican grandma always discouraged him from dating Latina women (specifically Dominican, idk why though) and he is now married to a half white, half Latina but she isn’t Dominican. Who can truly say if it’s because of his grandma’s influence or his own desires? Especially because there’s no way of knowing if that discouragement bred more of an interest in the group she encouraged him to stay away from (to rebel against what she aimed to repel him from) or if he was positively affected by her influence and that’s why he just subconsciously never let himself develop an interest in Dominican women. Knowing he ended up not marrying a Dominican woman, I’d say the latter is likely, but I can’t speak for him nor do I know his subconscious thoughts - heck, he may not even know them!

@jenn1545

2 жыл бұрын

I agree, we're the beings with the most free will but that consciousness ironically comes with a huge denial of tiny, repeated subconscious factors that shape us daily, whether it's from our close peers, the media or the general zeitgeist. That does make it even harder to dissociate our natural preferences (if there is such a thing) from our cultural preferences (as you said we're born into them! very hard to let them go or even recognize them). I'm just repeating what you said but I very much agree with your point! it's super relevant nowadays as interracial couples will likely be the norm in many parts of the world.

@diorteez8405

2 жыл бұрын

i agree and i get what you mean and all but latin is not a race nor an ethnicity!! also nationalities like puerto rican or dominican, you can be those nationalities and be white

@mariomario4068

2 жыл бұрын

Uh no it isnt. It's just a preference on who you are attracted to just like nose shape or body shape or gender. That entire paragraph was not necessary

@birielavender9373

2 жыл бұрын

@@mariomario4068 Have you ever heard of phycology my dude?

@jinjunliu2401

2 жыл бұрын

@@mariomario4068 If you're saying it's mostly nature even when mentioning body shape that's not true. Back during the renaissance in Europe, plus size women were the most desired because of the cultural values and associations back then and now it's certainly the opposite

Someone tell Alex he’s not black. He’s biracial

@leggs4113

2 жыл бұрын

True but a lot of biracial people tend to pick a side that they identify most with.

@madylines6364

4 ай бұрын

​@leggs4113 they never pick their white side though 🤷🏾‍♀️

This actually made me so sad! Relationships are complicated enough, something as insignificant as skin pigment shouldn’t make it more complicated. I swear humans really suck with this whole racism thing.

@fiftyzanes

2 жыл бұрын

fr

@phakepail8722

2 жыл бұрын

Wait what, are you those “don’t see color” folks cus it’s not just skin pigment that makes it complicated, it’s the decades of trauma a specific race (which isn’t just based on pigment) had to go through and sometimes at the hands of their partner’s grandparents...

@willisstillhere8846

Жыл бұрын

@@phakepail8722 so you're telling me that a black person can't be with a white person because of what happened decades and centuries before they were born and even formed a brain? Funny enough this logic mirrors when white people opposed their white girls being with black men. Remember what that was called? Racism lmao

@phakepail8722

Жыл бұрын

@@willisstillhere8846 Never said that if you actually read and comprehended my reply. Of course black people can be with non-black people (since people of races other than white can still be racist), but the color of one's skin/their race will always be a factor within a relationship... If a black person prefers not to date a white person so what? BTW racism is still very much alive and well in today's time...

@sivanabanana889

Жыл бұрын

Americans are weird fr

Preferences are perfectly fine, but when you diminish and talk down on your own race, it becomes an issue. Preferences are often rooted in stereotypes and you perpetuate those stereotypes when you constantly devalue the people within your own race.

@eprahs1

2 жыл бұрын

They black guy saying saying he wanted black children, but knew he couldn't find a mate to have them with told the exact reason why he was with a yt woman.

@yudarren7

2 жыл бұрын

asian women be doing that

@eprahs1

2 жыл бұрын

@@yudarren7 You have to look at the reasons for why people do what they do, not just blame.

I don’t understand why it seems that they don’t take racism towards Asians seriously. They all just start laughing like it’s no big deal.

@-Datboijj-

2 жыл бұрын

Because asian women love white men no matter what so it will always seem like a joke when asians protest and 70% of their women go home to white men

@hunnitbaehunnitbae8804

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, that bothered me too. I mean I get that Johnny would mock his mom's accent, but I couldn't understand how it would still be funny if that guy's non-Asian partner made fun of his mom's accent as well (even she meant to mock him and not his mom). Also, the guy *did* say that he thought Taylar should've been on the Agree line with him, so it didn't sit right with me that she made an excuse 'cause she didn't think it was racist.

@babysherl493

2 жыл бұрын

@@-Datboijj- Um… not all. I prefer another Asian guy to a white guy for marriage. A fluent in english Asian guy. I like dark hair and features more, I don’t like blonde hair blue eyed guys all that much for dating. I prefer Asian, mexican, black etc 🤷🏻‍♀️

@Solidude4

2 жыл бұрын

I'm pretty sure they laughed cause she was called out, not because they thought what she did was funny or not serious.

@abbygriffin9105

2 жыл бұрын

@@-Datboijj- That's not true. Asian women have the highest likelihood of *dating* outside of their race. However, it is conveniently left out that asians, like every other race, has the highest likelihood of marrying inside of their race. If not, somebody should tell China because they are far the most populated country. Fun fact, did you know that asians make up roughly around 5.6% of America yet make up that vast majority of the human population just from China and India, alone?

She said "because I'm white I'm inherently ignorant" WTF😔

It was Interesting that all of the black and half black partners feel like they betrayed their own race and all the black partners also felt like an outsider with their partners family!! 😕

Lots of black tops/turtlenecks with gold necklaces

@erictheguapo

2 жыл бұрын

Its a nice look. They look classy. I noticed a lot younger people are bringing back the style from 90s.

@serenity3034

2 жыл бұрын

@@erictheguapo History repeats itself for sure.

@thabokgwele5268

2 жыл бұрын

@@serenity3034 oh I didn't know it was a look from the past

@Mel-qs8wx

2 жыл бұрын

It reminds me of Taylor Swift 1989 era outfits

@ariahg

2 жыл бұрын

@@thabokgwele5268 almost all clothes now are really looks from the past! nothing is new, we are definitely going backwards fashion wise

I think this discussion was healthy and covered a lot of topics in a shallow sense. However, I would've liked to hear more about experiences with families not approving or being ignorant towards the partner. Just because that's what I have experienced multiple times.

@temeria1986

2 жыл бұрын

Healthy? The first argument is "im white thus inherently racist" lmao

@jamieblake7050

Жыл бұрын

@danieltoll346 This comment 👍🏾. This was too PC. Fact is the world is very anti-black, and experiencing problems while dating intetracially is the norm not the exeption.

The more you watch this age group of people (It's mine so I feel like I can talk about it) You honestly start to see just how uncomfortable they are with people who do not share the same views as them. They try everything to "be part of their group". If you are black you got to act black, white you got to act white, and etc. It really feels like they really aren't themselves but more or less conforming to their social stereotypes. You honestly can see how some of these people hesitate on their words because of it. Its kinda sad.

@particleguy2066

2 жыл бұрын

👏Great point.

@temeria1986

2 жыл бұрын

I gave up at "im white thus inherently racist" wtf.

@QverSoul

2 жыл бұрын

@@temeria1986 gotta love how they think that it makes logical senses.

@temeria1986

2 жыл бұрын

@@QverSoul She's putting herself down, and for what? People still having these ideas is why racism is still alive.

@QverSoul

2 жыл бұрын

@@temeria1986 agreed

This was very telling. I’m interested. I need more!

Chris was like never on Grace’s side idk how that’s gonna work in the future

@TheExtremeCube

2 жыл бұрын

Grace isn't on her own side either

@truh_von_tay

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheExtremeCube 😂😂😂 Riiight. Look at her appearance. Only white girl up there and had on something you see….only black people in. Or the white girls that wanna be with black men or the culture.

@Kgang.

2 жыл бұрын

He speaks alot about being out of alignment with his values or his values not being met because of the relationship, I really think he should just leave

@truh_von_tay

2 жыл бұрын

@@Kgang. time will either help or hurt them.

@chumbue6537

2 жыл бұрын

@@truh_von_tay Do you mean the tight clothes?

everyone has a preference regardless of if they’re racist or not. We as humans tend to favor types of people that we’ve been familiar since we were younger, so environment, exposure to different types of people, and societal expectations can play a big role in shaping preferences (hence why we see so many couples of the same race in comparison to biracial couples)

@celaya-s4e151

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! And that's why it's so wrong to call it racist. It's literally human nature and something we can't control.

2 жыл бұрын

Well said!!

@tierk4328

2 жыл бұрын

@@celaya-s4e151 It really depends though. If your “preferences” are off of racial stereotypes thats pretty racist. Like saying you won’t date black people cause their ghetto or don’t like asian men cause their too feminine, etc. I feel like preferences when it comes to race should be based off that individual and not harmful rhetoric made towards the race.

@celaya-s4e151

2 жыл бұрын

@@tierk4328 I totally get that, I was more speaking about it when it comes to what u are attracted to physically. I agree with you with what you said because every person have their own personality despite their race

@mimosasseat9860

2 жыл бұрын

Bro you can grow up around mostly black people and still prefer another race L COMMENT

"As a white person, I'm just inherently ignorant." No, that's not how that works lol.

@xGodWontSaveUx

2 жыл бұрын

its called white guilt its very common.

@seokjinssample6956

2 жыл бұрын

Are you white

@rodintremboy6459

Жыл бұрын

its pathetic.

Race preference is ok.

@supercharger5727

Жыл бұрын

As long as your not putting down other races then yes that is mostly true

@Not-Ap

9 ай бұрын

Yes and mixed race people pay the price for this preference one way or another.

The guy that said, “I wanted to have a kid from every race.” Yup. I was like that too. Lol.

@uyagraph

2 жыл бұрын

Same lol. I used to go on this "your future baby" site as a teenager and morph my face with celebrities of different races just to find out 🤣

@sonderexpeditions

2 жыл бұрын

Lollll he was honest 🤷🏾‍♀️

@MsDudette21

2 жыл бұрын

@@uyagraph hahah i used to do that! and i used to want a kid of every race too. I wanted to adopt. but now i dont even want kids

@prestonmatthews725

2 жыл бұрын

@@sonderexpeditions I said I wanted to be like Father Abraham

There should be an extended version of these videos where we can see more people answer the questions!

What I love about this channel is that they don't pull punches. Those were some hard hitting questions and some very personal intimate answers.

The girl who said that her being white made her inherently ignorant is being really harsh on herself, especially considering that her boyfriend said that she had never said anything that concerned him.

@WTKB82

2 жыл бұрын

What she means is that she isn’t fully aware of how things affect people of other races because, as a white person, she is not on the receiving end of those things. A lot of white people do and say things they don’t realize are actually prejudice or bias or hurtful. I think she just means that she understands she doesn’t see things the same way as people of color.

@epicdjyoshi648

2 жыл бұрын

@@WTKB82 I can understand that it's maybe naive of her to assume that she's never said anything ignorant to her partner by accident as she's likely never faced racism herself, however when her partner said that she's never done anything racist I would have moved back to disagree.

@epicdjyoshi648

2 жыл бұрын

@Shadow Banned Living in the US as the majority it is likely given how she spoke about her background, however, had she spoken of her experiences in countries where white people are in the minority, it would've been a different story imo.

@epicdjyoshi648

2 жыл бұрын

@Shadow Banned I never said that background and race were the same thing. E.g. A white person growing up in a country like Japan, where the population is 98% East Asian on average, compared to growing up in a rural area in the USA, where the population is probably the same percentage white. While some places in the US have white minorities, that's irrelevant as she described her upbringing as rural/midwest, hence my point.

Where am I going to find a person who is my skin colour, relationship works out and she's the perfect wife? Me: 😳😳🙄 I would have rather he said I wanted that but felt in love with this. Because that was just rude and stereotypical and a very silly thing to say.

@spacenuggetdemonslayer9430

2 жыл бұрын

Why does the WAY a stranger says something affect you?

@_chade

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so guilty of judging this panel. I'm getting questionable vibes from them, and honestly, it could just be the internalized hurt that comes from dating interracially in America.

@qwertyuiopqwertyuiop-bb4mi

2 жыл бұрын

@Space Nugget Demon Slayer Because if I was his girlfriend I would have dumped his ass for that alone lmao

@spottinglyd

2 жыл бұрын

This, I was like damn does he even want her???😮

@spyderman4206

2 жыл бұрын

@@spacenuggetdemonslayer9430 because a person with such a narrow and overidealized vision of reality won't find many girls attracted to him and then, instead of changing mentality and stop being so superficial, he will probably blame society for his frustrations, then he will start believing in weird conspiracies against him and his race and then he will end up in some racist group with criminal tendencies that will affect other people.

Maybe because I'm the son of a mixed couple (Italian-Peruvian), maybe because I was raised in a very multicultural city of Italy, but it would never be a problem to me dating people of different "races". If I have a preference then it would be more based on cultural background, although I like to discover any culture different than mine ones.

@TheExtremeCube

2 жыл бұрын

One of the healthiest comments on this topic is unsurprisingly from outside of America

@LadyGagasToeNail

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheExtremeCube their history with race is way different than in America. We have a fucked up history and unsurprisingly it’s still I’ll fucked up.

@remainloyaltoyour0wnsoil580

2 жыл бұрын

Ain’t u still white either way

As a white British Christian very happily married to a British Pakistani Muslim, I can honestly say that race isn't an issue but religiosity in our various cultural environments has been a bit of a challenge! A mixed religious couple episode would be soooo interesting...

Let’s be CLEAR: The editing of these segments has, by far, the most SIGNIFICANT contribution! The editorial staff/person needs to conjugate with unbiased cut and paste skillset.