Are you also sure, you aren't tapping into your potential yet?

@jessenceq3250

3 жыл бұрын

Yep, I told my INFJ co worker this. She is doing something with her life. I have trouble believing in myself and like you said -- reality is incredibly imperfect and that can feel maddening, discouraging. But so is doing nothing at all. So we choose our hard; which is more meaningful? One of my goals is learning how have realistic yet ambitious expectations and creating a plan/calendar that I can actually stick to, including reward systems for my emotional being. Not creating a goals and calendars to tyrannize myself.

@jessenceq3250

3 жыл бұрын

Leaving my imperfect typos there 😜

@simovtransportmedia1137

3 жыл бұрын

We are very aware of how the others will react but this is also a problem. I simply can't do something because of what others will like, never, but on the other side I insert such a deep motivation in what I'm doing that leads to the other end - I do so much, but other people can't understand how can I be so integrated and passionste into the thing that I,m doing. I constantly want to improve myself, to show and to be more and more that makes the final product so complicated most of the times.

@DearYoungerSelf111

3 жыл бұрын

I have work to do - in the friend - non-familial relationships. I will say - you expanded my mind on how the internet (like our INFJ community here) is also considered a social relationship. I lean into that for sure - where I am active in groups - follow people - that align with my personal interests - and I engage in a real way - This video is 100% - thank you!

I love how deep you go with these subjects. Outer reality reflecting our inner reality, authenticity, Fe and Se etc. It is crystal clear that you have been through all of it yourself. There is no f***g way someone would hit the nail on the head with the infj struggels if they hadn't experienced them themselves. Your way of combining mbti, healing, self growth and kinda spiritual or meta perspectives (in my opinion) is so wholesome. You have helped me realise so much about myself. ❤ Your videos on anger and extraverted sensing were the biggest eye openers for me. I replayed them so many times that it's almost embarrassing 💜 but it changed everything from then on out. Thank you for putting this out there for us for free. I truly appreciate it 🙏

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

So happy I could be of help 😊

You know me more than i know myself 😭❤

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

😊

This is so true!!! The moment I decide to prioritize myself and making time for one thing that I really like every day, it made me feel so much better in my own journey, and I dont wanna let go of that feeling.

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏

I'm trying to, but I really dislike my job. They ignored me for a raise for over a year, and I'm not even on the list for getting a new work truck, and mine is a piece of crap. They don't care about me. So it's hard to want to give any extra effort to make a company more money, when they refuse to do the same for me. Other than that, in my personal life, I am trying to be very consistent in bettering myself. It's helped tremendously over the last 2 years. 👍🏻

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

Why are you staying with this company? Of course if your effort doesn‘t get you further why would you put more effort into it.

@TroyPosey

3 жыл бұрын

@@Wenzes I stayed because one of my life-long best friends worked there for over 11 years, and he got me the job when I really needed one, so I was trying to make sure I didn’t do anything to make him look bad for getting me hired. But he has since quit and works in a different city entirely. And my big boss is really nice, but he’s getting ready to retire, and our department head is a douche that sees us as numbers on a piece of paper, and not as people. Needless to say, we will be screwed once my big boss retires. So, since I really don’t have any loyalties with this company anymore, I’ve been looking for jobs in other places to 1) move somewhere I’ll be happier (new places, new people, new atmosphere), and 2) upgrade my income by working somewhere I’ll be appreciated for what I bring to the table. Right now just still looking for a new job. Just a matter of time. 👍🏼

Thank you for bringing Fe into this, because focusing on Se alone hasn’t been enough for me to keep moving. I think with me I’m more afraid of being ignored than being judged. I want to see the value I bring to others, so when my efforts go unnoticed, I question the point of it all. I feel like I’m operating in a vacuum. And then I convince myself that no one will ever recognize my efforts. Which is inaccurate, of course, but I question myself when I get silence from everyone else.

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

I also get silence, for example when I post something on private page...people will only care if it benefits them...so do things that are just for you where you don‘t care about silence and also share your gift in a way that brings value to others...we are not an island...so helping others (through expression, art, work...whatever) will help you see the bigger picture...it is not about recognition, it‘s about saying...this is my world and I want to make it better 👍 you got this

Every time I watch your videos it’s always about something I was really struggling with on that day. It’s like you’re psychic!

This video is a great reminder. Thanks for always helping me refocus Wenzes!! 😊

Another amazing pep talk. Thank you! 💕

Just finished my automotive tech course at 19 and i'm planning to go into radiologic tecnologist lol thank god i'm still young

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

👍😊...young or old it is never too late

I can truly feel your words and relate. Thank u very much.

I love you Wenzes xx thanks for sharing xx

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

❤️😊❤️

I did Landmark Education ~20 to 25 years ago, intro, intermediate and advanced. Landmark was the same educational program that inspired Tony Robbins. Landmark helped me to be more assertive (Fe and Se in my stack) and not my usual passive self (Ni and Ti loop), who just went along with everyone else. I did have a good sense of myself before I tried Landmark, and the training did help me, but I had issues with the Landmark push to extroversion. They awoke parts of myself that I buried or that felt uncomfortable. I will always be an INFJ. Finding the balance in our stack can be a daily challenge. We are only most comfortable and the most open to those who we have allowed in our tight and inner circle. An enigma to most, and at times, just as confusing to ourselves.

🥺😭 I'm going to watch ALL the videos.

slow and steady wins the race

I think we need to be comfortable taking baby steps. That is how we build up resistsnce to our Fe

Am I also sure, I'm not tapping into my potential yet ? I'm sure. I actually have gotten some more study material to get further certified in the automotive career field ( ASE ). I just haven't begun the organized study and testing process as of yet. Some other things have taken some priority over it lately, yet, I'm glad I have what I need to get started.

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

👍😊 you got this

there's a Saying... *My Way or the Highway* ... *ur Way* sometime Needs a Break...Go on the *Highway* on Cruse-Control when ur Way is not Effective No more...Meaning take the Highway to Go Back Home n Rest to Recuperate... Cheers!!!..........*****👈🎃👉*****..........RAL.....

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

👍😊

Could you please make a video about Ikigai and INFJ? How INFJ personality can use its powers once he finds his Ikigai?

Wow!! This spoke to me so much. Thanks. I've been in therapy for a year and this is a struggle of mine. In my last session I talked about lack of motivation for things I desire to do. She pointed out its Bc im a perfectionist. She suggested that I ask myself who my audience is? Who am I performing for? That I need to start and do a little of why I like to do each day and it'll be good enough. What you say resonates with me so much. So basically that I am my own audience and I do and want to do certain things/hobbies for me because I like them! Not for anyone else... ugh. Really thanks for this video

I m very new to this infj things maybe a two or three month. When I try to tapping into my potential my past life just flash right into my mind and make me feel like miserable and I always trying to refocus my attention to not think about my past and let go but it always comes at me again and again and by doing this I waste so much time and I afraid if I m not gonna do that I will become like my past version of my self and due to this some time lose my belief on my self why this happens to me?

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

Recognize what you have missed out on...don't run away from the main, accept it and accept you not having been able to "do better" so far...love yourself knowing that you are imperfectly perfect and then set out to take small steps that will improve your life in the future!

@bobevans5282

3 жыл бұрын

@@Wenzes but what about fear that I will be the same person as before?

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

@@bobevans5282 Why would you? Once there is no more fear attached it because you have accepted that you take full responsibility for everything...you can rationally make new choices. The fear of admitting old mistakes is keeping you from making new choices, nothing else.

A lot of great words, i just can't connect with wanting to express extrovertion, maybe i can't see it rn. Maybe I'm confused.

Being aware of it is the worst part , isn't it?

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

it's painful, that is for sure

@markhenry514

24 күн бұрын

Blessing to do something about it. Reframe it

haha... yeah , you are kinda thinking and explaining things like I would do, suprise suprise

It's loo late for me.