Are you ever concerned your life is boring?

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

the best thing to do is to start with gratitude for what you DO have. It's about small upgrades that don't overwhelm you. It doesn't have to start with expensive courses. And if you like to buy them then set up a plan on how you are going to make that money. Get a job that is going to improve your life just one step at a time. Start with your living situation, make plans and take it step by step. The point is not to wait but to get active even if you think the step is too small...no step is to small and with every new step you will have more energy for the next one.

@agentcovfefe6983

3 жыл бұрын

Jackie Kittie - Thank you fellow Canadian. I am not looking at adversity as a bad thing. I know it has made me a strong, independent individual. Poverty does limit one's choices though, in every way. 🤷‍♀️ That's life. It can only get better. 😊 Thanks!

@agentcovfefe6983

3 жыл бұрын

Wenzes - Yes, thank you. In any event, in your situation, you obviously had the money and freedom to change careers and still managed to pay your bills, which is fabulous. That's freedom! My point was that not everyone has that freedom, no matter what the reason is. Small things I can do and will. Thank you for your advice and videos 💕

@steinarlarsson9887

Жыл бұрын

Everyday, at the start I am down and blue. Its like feeling like an old lokomotiv, screeching and barely moving at first. Until I have a focus, or reading/ studying something, thats the only time I get into the zone, or flow if you like. Be well, SL

@Wythaneye

25 күн бұрын

Daily. Life is uninteresting and stupid. I do the same stupid things every day and I don't even know why.

There is NO off switch button for the INFJ-T. Anxiety is what makes us different from others, we actually use our anxiety to create new opportunities.

We Enjoy our comfort zone because... it’s comforting. I think we’re afraid to actually follow through because we know it means leaving that comfort space

I am always concerned that my life is boring, or that I am boring. That there is always something stopping me from being me. I imagine what life could be so much, but it's so difficult to make things happen when you have anxiety and you're a perfectionist. But you're right, we must make things visible and stop just thinking about making it happen, and just do it. Even if it's scary or not perfect (because it will never be). Just jump and see what happens, see if it makes you happy, and just live in that even if it's a little uncertain. Thank you for this, and for reminding me to just make my visions into something real, I really needed this

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

👍😊 you got this. Take a small step today! There is no reason to wait until tomorrow

“Every time you do an externally observable action you are filled with new information that you cannot get through understanding another person better” AMAZING !

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

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I relate to this so hard that it's absurd.

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

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These videos call me out on my bullshit so often lol. Which sheds light on so much. Thankful for this channel! Keep up the great work.

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

Glad they are helpful 👍😊

I'm so sad right now, no one knows cause no one cares...

But what happens when you don't have any vision because you are full of fear and you don't even know what you want anymore?

@cynax7757

10 ай бұрын

That's my question exactly.

Thankyou so much Wenzes!

Who you been talkin to. Are you watching me. 👀 wtf yo. 😂😂 great vid. 👍👍 even though it was just about me. I appreciate it. 😅

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

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This is exactly what I needed right now. I’m really grateful that this channel exists , thank you 🙏

Thank you so much for this video, you really depicted the problems I have and made me realise them. I feel like this changed my attitude and my life. I'm motivated to actually write that book now! Thank you so much, please keep on making videos! ✨

thank you very much!!

Love it!!! I really need this! I will try it, and see how it works for me. Thanks again for everything Wenzes💓.

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you like it 😊

Can you make a video on infj's suicidal thoughts.

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Bob, this is an important topic but I don‘t feel equipped enough to talk on that subject

@bobevans5282

3 жыл бұрын

@@Wenzes it's okay maybe in future.

I feel like she just described my whole damn life cycle

Am I ever concerned my life is boring ? From time to time. Not all the time though. I look at it this way. I have plenty of time to recharge and my battery is full to be ready for when it is not boring.

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

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not sure about my type but I guess you have hit the target by stating that a lot of us are too deeply immersed in our own thoughts trying to analyze the idea over and over until it has reached that level of perfection only to be hit by the reality that not everything you envision will exactly turn out that way every time. Have been meaning starting to start my small business but been stuck in this constant loop of overthinking, over analyzing, that nothing seems perfect to me to the level that I feel happy about it, however others appreciate the end result but to me it is mostly like oh it didn't turn out the way i wanted it to be. sometimes people I guess get too blinded by idealism and perfectionism that they lose touch with the reality

Wenzes, from your perspective and knowledge... You think it is possible change from a personality to another? Like past from being an INFJ to be an ENFJ, for example. I hope you can answer this question!

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

MBTI is a tool box for me nothing else. The way I interpret is that we can lean more into FE and therefore resemble more of an ENFJ but that we always stay an INFJ. Or we have always been an ENFJ and have leaned heavily into our introverted functions. What we have learned once we cannot unlearn. So if you NI is really strong - if you lean into FE - it still isn't going to erase your NI. The best way to distinguish is always through the weaker functions/blindspots. What is weaker for you? SI or TE? If it is SI - that is ENJF, if it is TE, that's INFJ

@Alexa-ge5jw

3 жыл бұрын

@@Wenzes thank you! That was very explanatory!! Love your channel!❤️💜

But if you are an infj and you don't and can't have a vision ?

You give great insight and info but the edit/cuts on your videos are extremely annoying. I listen o your videos but don’t watch them for this reason. Thanks for the great content.

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

What would you suggest? What edit would be more pleasing?

@wendysmith9682

3 жыл бұрын

Wenzes thanks for your reply. I don’t know anything about filming. I’m just a viewer who’s watch lots of KZread. yours are the only videos I’ve seen that have intentionally been spliced every few seconds, and it’s every video. I’d imagine there’s some sort of marketing strategy behind it since it’s so constant. This is honest feedback and isn’t intended to criticize. I do not watch your videos for this reason but the content is excellent.