It’s weird that Grandma is only worried about one child.

@nikkid4890

25 күн бұрын

Yes!!! Typical narcissist behaviour where they have a golden child. The other children will be ignored or treated as the black sheep. Very sick and very damaging

@deannajohnson6408

25 күн бұрын

SHE IS SICK AND EVIL! She only cares about this child so much because he is his spawn and she knows that if she could get her grandson by any means necessary then he would have watch her dangle his own child in front of him so he could feel so much pain in his heart and soul that it would break him! But in the meantime she is going to latch on to the doting grandma in disguise persona just to remain a splinter in their marriage! They need to see if Dr Phil could set them up with a witness protection program and keep an eye on the family because that woman has her whole family psychotic and Manipulative! THEY JUST NEED TO GET AWAY FROM THEM! 😡

@katsato3118

20 күн бұрын

​@@nikkid4890is that what that is? I've been wondering. My mother is so much like this woman. She's always obsessed over my youngest sister and how beautiful she is to the point of being inappropriate but at the same time jealous. Then latched on to my daughter whom looks like my youngest sister, while ignoring the rest of my kids. It's always been disturbing but I couldn't make the behavior make sense. She only ever worried about whomever she could live the most through.

@nikkid4890

20 күн бұрын

@@katsato3118 Yes! You should read up a little on it. As it seems to be exactly your family the more you learn the more hurt you will feel initially. Hopefully you have someone you can safely vent to?

Wow. What a horrible grandma. I feel horrible for her daughter. You can just see the pain in her eyes.

This ladies family is using the children to interfere with her marriage.

@treeknome2642

25 күн бұрын

All her mom is doing is pushing her daughter away. Pushing her into the arms of the husband, who she doesn’t like.

The brother is annoying.....shut up!!

@queenbee3647

20 күн бұрын

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It's interesting that none of them is saying, "I don't like him." They're saying, "we." It's like they share a single brain. It sounds like bullying to me.

@kawaiionee-chan9557

26 күн бұрын

It’s like a hive mind. They just upset she ain’t apart of it and has her own thinking.

They NEED to go “NO CONTACT “ With this narcissistic grandparent “

Grandma let your daughter in peace!!! Your daughter is a grown woman

I would NEVER forgive my mother for calling CPS!

Scapegoat daughter and narc mom enraged that she's lost control. The siblings are programmed to do whatever it takes to keep mom's vile gaze off of them, including joining in to victimize their sister.

Shame on this grandma. She is the one that's forcing her daughter to choose. And she is only worried about one grandchild?

Get that mother out of it. Disgusting. Shame on her.

The toxic in laws mother brother and sister 😊😅 thank God my husband has balls to stay away from toxic relatives😅😅😅

Terri has that fitting haircut. Leave your daughter and her husband alone woman.

@keeper6458

25 күн бұрын

Agreed!

Grandma leave them alone. They have a family. Your daughter is happy.

Do little kids lie for attention? Is the Grandma just feeding into it? Is she spoiling him whenever she sees him because he says things that get a reaction? Can the Grandma not see this whole situation rationally? Why don't they care about the other son?

Damn grandma picking favorites.

@notwerkinginthishouse8634

25 күн бұрын

Before my grandparents passed away, they never ever picked any favorites, no matter who looks more like them... Also my aunts and uncles would never pick favorites either And i feel bad for amy,her husband and their kids, i hope they can all live happy and healthy, cause no one deserves anything bad to happen to them

4:24 That is a fascinating point- where is the concern for the other child?

Get rid of the in-laws

@Galaxy-ho2pk

25 күн бұрын

Yes please

I see a grand mother interfering and making it worse, not offering to make it better

Another controlling mother that can’t accept the fact that her daughter is grown!

The brother is stirring up both his sister and his mother. If you can get him to disengage it would be resolved quicker. The sister seems to want peace and the mother tries somewhat to calm down but as soon as daugher and her mother starts connecting emotionally the brother gets between and gets his mom agitated and worried again. He tries to keep her agitated and does not want a resolution to the fighting. Troublemaker.

it's called cutting the toxicity outta your life,regardless of the "title" that said person holds in your life...if it's costing you your PEACE,then it's too EXPENSIVE!💯

@NumeroUnoYo

26 күн бұрын

Well said

@lynnw7155

26 күн бұрын

Absolutely. It would be so much more peaceful if these people got out of each others lives. They are a toxic mix.

Can't believe how these families are all so involved in eachother's business. I'd move to another country.🤷‍♀️🙄🦘

@queenbee3647

20 күн бұрын

Southern families are like that. About. Every. Single. Thing.

IMO, the grandparent, aunt and uncle of this family need to mind their own business. Take care of your own issues.

That guy is a creep.

When Dr Phil asked her, “Who are you angry at?” I thought she would say, she was angry at herself, but no! She blames everybody else for her despicable behaviour. I was beaten by both my parents until I was 18 years old. It only stopped when I retaliated. I grew up and left, I never physically abused anyone. I would never do, what my parents did to me, to my husband, child or anyone else. It’s called self control. She is a nasty, selfish abuser. She had anger management classes, but couldn’t be bothered attending. That’s who she is. As for, “premature to divorce” is one of the worst advice Dr Phil has given. She had her entire life to make better decisions. Dr Phil thinks he can change her in 45 days? Terrible! I’m quite sure if it was a man abusing his wife, Dr Phil would have told the woman to run and called the cops on him.

He and the children ARE her family.

I would move far away and don’t tell them your new address. This mum brother and sister are toxic. How dare the mum question the child the mum is the trouble maker and getting the daughter and brother involved as well.

I can't believe that woman is 54! she acts like 14

@jesusisgod4992

24 күн бұрын

When you get older, it is natural to revert /rediscover who you were before you were a teenager and young adult.

@diane4488

20 күн бұрын

​@@jesusisgod4992 She's never grown up. I've known many older people, and none behave like her. You're completely wrong about this situation.

the guy in the audience is a real mummy boy jumping to her defence all the time with every excuse.

This grandma makes me sick to my stomach cause I literally just spent the weekend with a family member who has her exact traits and the lady in my family has to work for CPS and I genuinely feel like she felt good taking peoples children and it makes me sick that I worry she would try to pull her strings as a alcoholic state official to take my son, just like she tried to take my wife from her mother when she was a kid. People are sick. Stay far from these kind of people.

@keeper6458

25 күн бұрын

That is absolutely terrifying

Toxic family.

Get away from this family! This poor woman! What a bunch of narcissist wow! Why doesn't doctor phil say anything? Confirmed these people back it's annoying!

If there is abuse then it’s not petty bickering

Grandma is a narcissist! They got to get out of there

THEY ALL DRAMA!! Just a family of drama!

Mom’s tears are so fake…there were no real tears. The gma helped them but they are so ingrateful they hated on her for sticking up for the baby boy and her daughter.

Butt out Grandma!

Put Me 1st instead.of you'r grandchild? Is she actually serious?

You don’t have the right to touch this little boy!

Listening to her grown siblings caping for their mother is gross.

@queenbee3647

20 күн бұрын

Mom thinks shes Blanche DuBois. All drama.

I don,t know if the 1st family is from North Carolina or South Carolina or Alabama or Kentucky but they have strong southern accents. But they all took Hollywood acting to a whole new level!!!!!!!!

I like how no one is asking what the children’s problems are. No ones asking them which is the root of the problem but then it turns into “mommy wasn’t in my life so now it’s my kids problem!!” It’s also really weird how he puts so much blind faith into CPS, because they are NOT known for doing full and good investigations and really well known for breaking families apart to throw in fosters. So uh-

Dr Phil thank you so much

Parental alienation at its best. Where's grandpa???

😮😮😮 That's messed up

Her family need to be blocked and not allowed anywhere near those kids!! If that little boy is being hit everyday thats a issue too!! 9:50 If mom is allowing him or anyone tontorment or abuse her kids then shes a monstor too.

You don’t have to like him just be civil then the family can see the kids. Mom gets to be grandma brother gets to be uncle sister gets be aunt. Why all the fighting for no reason be adults make up apologize and move on.

I kicked my mom out of my house once she came to visit. She was overstepping her boundaries and even told me that I needed to take care of my daughter better! This lady reminds me of my mother

@keeper6458

25 күн бұрын

Good for you!

Brittany looks nothing like the rest of the family.

Who's the guy in the audience, pipe down

People in general do not respect boundaries because they are convinced they know ‘who you are’ by the way you look and what their granny told them to believe.

She has a history of picking bad men. He has admitted to what the granma said realistically. Idk. I would be very careful with this situation.

@fabmissb

26 күн бұрын

Yeah, but his explanations also make sense.

@MamiRicaaaa

22 күн бұрын

@@fabmissb yes I get that. But he did spank the child. There was a diaper incident whether the boy wore it or not. And the mom had men in her life that was tryna beat her up and the child so no. I don't trust her decision making skills.

@queenbee3647

20 күн бұрын

Ok Karen.

@Dr Phil looking very handsome here

Jerry Springer show.

The daughter's husband is controlling and creepy.

I would take a break from the grandma, sister and brother. They are not the boss of how you run your family. Grandma has had her children and raised them now it’s time JUST to be grandma! But I would leave them be for a while and I think grandma is the main instigator in all this. So take a break from them, for your children’s sake. And it would be interesting if they ask after the adults at all.

I would tell my mom to GET LOST, These are my kids . If I have to move I would Just to get away from you.

No tears

You know, I would love it if at the end of these videos, there would be some sort of update. I definitely would watch every single video

Bad vibes here with this man…lady open your eyes and protect your children!!!

@personalcheeses8073

20 күн бұрын

Bad vibes about you

One of the many good things with Dr Phil is that he gets to the root cause of problems. If he thought for a second those precious babies were in danger, he would make the adults heads spin. Hhmm childish adults. Grandma, and the rest of you, back off. Let this couple and their children live their lives. Most of us don’t like our in-laws. Even though, put up boundaries. Have respect in some form. Bickering solves nothing. Don’t even go there! Behave yourselves for the little children, for heavens sake 😮😳 Let peace ☮️ fall on your family.

Kids with parents in new relationships can do things out of character, like lying, because they're testing their limits and trying to get attention. All you can do is try to address any concerns among the ADULTS, & let them handle the situation. It seems like grandma is traumatized from her own past relationships & projects her own insecurities onto her daughter's family. She needs to stop trying to interfere and rescue her grown daughter and grandchildren out of her own fears. Give her daughter's family a chance to survive on its own, & just be there in a supportive role, whether things go well or not for them. The newly married daughter herself needs to calm down & not react so severely to her family's little behaviors, like going & snatching up your child & calling the police because your mom & sister are simply whispering. She's insecure as well, & stepdad needs to stop trying to control everything & everybody. If there is a real danger to your family, then you protect them. You don't get physical with the in-laws over whispering. The whole family sounds like this is just such a fresh relationship, like everyone is still so new to each other, they're all unfamiliar & sensitive & afraid. Everyone needs to chill & stop reacting to every little thing out of fear.

Since when is it OK for a step parent to whoop the butt of their partners child. NEVER too many women out there put their children second when a new ‘man’ comes in the picture. Makes me furious.

@lyngruen8607

26 күн бұрын

Don't marry a man if you don't want him to represent the FATHER FIGURE....all children need one but few get one.

@user-bo1bw7jw4o

26 күн бұрын

Yep! 💯 I'm the unpopular one that's going to say I would never trust a non bio man to live with my kids.

@tamra9867

25 күн бұрын

Agreed!!!

Christ, these people are all awful. So much self-aggrandising and theatrics from everyone except the son-in-law, and you can bet they all learned it from the mother.

Wife Daughter and husband

that grandma use to deliver my newspaper..hag broken my window..found out she was trying to steal my child

Terry and Greg and

The fact that he lied originally about putting his fist to his sister in law and then admitted it...that alone is a red flag. disappointed that dr. Phil didn't bring it up. the husband gives bad vibes and the family is trying to help the wife but they are going about it the wrong way.

I was abused by my stepfather who used to beat me with belts and anything he could get his hands on. He beat me so badly at times id stay home from school because the bruises and split lips were so dang bad they knew theyd get called on if anyone saw it. One time they kept me inside during summertime for an entire month because he dragged me through broken glass and i had cuts everywhere that had to heal before any others could see. So i get the whole abusive stepfather trope but this does not feel that way to me, It seems to me like the family pushes that little boy to turn on stepdad because they dont like her husband. Grandma is manipulating everything and for the sister to say she doesnt care about whos done what just proves that nothing that bad couldve happened if shes willing to shove it all aside like that.

@user-mz7ov3pz7j

25 күн бұрын

Your childhood was something out of a horror movie! 😮 You should’ve been protected! Where was your mum? That S.O.B. Should’ve went to jail for this horrific abuse. I’m so sorry that you’ve suffered like this. I hope you’re doing okay now. 😢❤

@Leah-izSic

25 күн бұрын

@@user-mz7ov3pz7j it was hard to deal with. My mom sadly helped him theyd play it like a game a certain amount of hits per each parent and theyd switch. She also knew about the other abuse and did nothing. She claimed he abused her as well but i never saw it, then one day he chased me up the stairs and broke the door to the bathroom and just started hitting me nonstop she ran behind him telling him to stop and she claims he almost shoved her down the stairs but he only bumped into her as he stormed down the stairs. Once they were divorced we fled to another state where at 15 she kicked me out onto the streets. It took years for me to forgive her and those memories haunt me sometimes but i worked on myself and accepted everything i went through because at the end of the day it made me a better parent. I watch out for my babies and my foster daughter like she shouldve watched out for me. Im doing a lot better i dont self harm anymore i havent for almost 10 years, i dont drink or do drugs other than a little bud for the pain im always in due to the abuse. I appreciate your comment, i share my experiences for all of those who have been in my position so that they know it can get better if you can look within and find forgiveness not for them but for yourself, i couldnt carry that burden of hatred anymore it made me a better person letting it go. 🖤💜🖤

This is a dr Phil ‘drive thru’ production. Lame. Move on and watch another.

@somenygaard

26 күн бұрын

What are you saying?

He’s a wrong un. Mark my words

Get merry weddings for time

Had

I see 1000 red flags about the husband. He will show himself more and more. Grandma is protective for a reason. He has a look of hate. He's not open but closed. I think there is a dark side of him. She will eventually regret being with him.

@lydiaawuor5170

25 күн бұрын

You're judging a book by it's cover.

I respect the grandmother in this situation for advocating for her grandson at the expense of other relationships. Many abusive parents are super skilled at concealing their deeds from the authorities and other people. I definitely think the father in this situation is abusive and I am glad that he is being called out.

@toosense

26 күн бұрын

I wouldn’t doubt that he put the child in a diaper to humiliate him. Not saying that he did it maliciously, perhaps he was just trying to teach a lesson, either way it wasn’t right and I don’t doubt that the child went to Grandma for support.

@karenglenn6707

26 күн бұрын

Grandmother is a controlling and nasty woman. Unless the children (she conveniently only speaks about one child) is showing signs of abuse, then she needs to gtfo of their lives so much, or she will end up not seeing the child/ren at all. I would not have her in my house but fortunately I do not have a toxic interfering mother.

Parents whooped butt kids

Maybe it’s just me but im on grandma side . Her husband has no business hitting on his step children . But grandma can’t intervene as bad as it hurts .

Get a life grandma!!!