IM DATING MYSELF - solo date, new tattoo & self love

hey my loves! I really hope you enjoyed this video and got the gist of why I wanted to film it. it felt so empowering doing things that I would usually feel uncomfortable doing by myself alone and actually just embracing it. if I can teach you anything its that self love and being confident in yourself is the most importantant part in leading a happy and fulfilling life! love you all so much x
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  • @nikkibott3878
    @nikkibott3878 Жыл бұрын

    As someone who is 37 years old and only just found your channel, you are very mature for your age. I got out of a marriage where my husband cheated and then ended up in two disaster relationships, one which I even moved countries for. 4 years ago I took myself on a solo retreat to Bali with a group of girls I had never met and it changed my life! I’m still really close friends with some of them now. X

  • @tatumtaylor
    @tatumtaylor Жыл бұрын

    My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday... feel like I can hardly do life anymore. This video was a sign. thank you mads.

  • @dayxha

    @dayxha

    Жыл бұрын

    embrace the signs - this was needed for you 💗 wishing you a healing journey and peace

  • @tatumtaylor

    @tatumtaylor

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dayxha You do not understand how happy this made me. Thank you

  • @raenieca1706

    @raenieca1706

    Жыл бұрын

    You can and WILL make it through this

  • @tatumtaylor

    @tatumtaylor

    Жыл бұрын

    @@raenieca1706 I am not too sure.. I am so alone. but thank you so much for your kind words

  • @nnicolalouisee

    @nnicolalouisee

    Жыл бұрын

    everything in life happens for a reason babe!! good and exciting things await you. i know how hard it is and it feels like you won’t survive, but you will and you will feel so free and empowered when you come out of it. let yourself feel, heal and most importantly give yourself time to do the things you love and find what truely makes you happy 🤍 sending you all the love in the world 🫶🥺

  • @megandickson7474
    @megandickson7474 Жыл бұрын

    I did a solo trip after i escaped a very abusive relationship. I went to rome for 5 days and it changed my life. Seeing i was able to do all this stuff on my own, it was to refreshing and healing! I would encourage anyone to do a solo trip and I sincerely hope you manage it x

  • @Guardyourheartaboveallelse
    @Guardyourheartaboveallelse Жыл бұрын

    Girlll I legit move countries on my own all the time lol. Doing life on your own is honestly one of the most enlightening things you could do. Becoming THE person whose got your back, who picks you up when you're down, who you have the most fun with, is life changing. It is the most empowered you could be

  • @jackievhenekai
    @jackievhenekai Жыл бұрын

    LOVE THIS FROM YOU MADS! You’ve made me want to face my social fear and actually take myself out on a date. Been feeling down recently and I feel like this will definitely cheer me up x

  • @OoooneLoooove
    @OoooneLoooove Жыл бұрын

    You are honestly the sweetest while ordering. Always so polite!

  • @itsellie3
    @itsellie3 Жыл бұрын

    I feel like this has given me so much more confidence to do something like this for myself. It's also so nice to hear you being so open about having anxiety around it because I know a lot of us feel the same way

  • @nerd4l937
    @nerd4l937 Жыл бұрын

    ugh you don’t even understand how much your vlogs help me in life… look forward to them every week

  • @avaava4876
    @avaava4876 Жыл бұрын

    This has been up there with one of my favourite videos you’ve ever done!💕It’s so important spending time with yourself, you notice all the beautiful things about yourself when there’s no one else’s input. Keep these inspiring vlogs coming! x

  • @courtneyxalyssa
    @courtneyxalyssa Жыл бұрын

    I feel this so much! Trying to do things solo when you’re used to being with a partner can be so scary but it’s so important! At the end of the day we really do just have ourselves for our entire lifes❤

  • @kiawilson5329
    @kiawilson5329 Жыл бұрын

    coming from a waitress - honestly don’t feel intimidated eating on your own! If anything it makes me want too make friends with you/speak more!☺️ we’re not judging you at all ! X

  • @chelsealouise2232
    @chelsealouise2232 Жыл бұрын

    ugh my fav youtuber!!! love her ENERGY

  • @09williamsr
    @09williamsr Жыл бұрын

    Really finding it hard to meet up with freinds due to their busy schedules, but I’m getting so lonely, so I want to eat out by myself, and travel by myself but I get so anxious just thinking about it, letting alone doing it! But your confidence to do it and enjoy yourself has really inspired me Mads!

  • @ellastarbuck-hall7998
    @ellastarbuck-hall7998 Жыл бұрын

    I have been loving your content so much recently - so empowering💗

  • @JenellSparks
    @JenellSparks Жыл бұрын

    Completely agree with what you’re saying about Rachel. I’ve always thought that about her❤️

  • @jessicatracey4962
    @jessicatracey4962 Жыл бұрын

    Recently me and partner broke up, solo dates and self care are huge part of my healing. Can’t wait to book a solo vacation, amazing idea! Self growth is so important thank you mads for inspiring me, watching u grow as a person has encouraged me to grow too 💕💕

  • @Allieischill
    @Allieischill Жыл бұрын

    Literally going through the exact same thing. Living with my boyfriend and having my girls move out of state is a HUGE adjustment. Taking a page out of your book and going to try this myself!!!! LOVE these vlogs.

  • @phpsi720
    @phpsi720 Жыл бұрын

    I needed this video! I used to enjoy do this alone and lately after 2020 I just can't enjoy my presence I want to be around people all the time and this motivated me to doll up, take myself to dinner and go to the movies by myself! Thank u

  • @Sedonashea
    @Sedonashea Жыл бұрын

    I loved this video so much!! ❤️✨ solo dates are the best but I have been scared to book the solo trip. Thank you for giving me the push to start planning. XO

  • @MsJAM123456789
    @MsJAM123456789 Жыл бұрын

    i feel like i’m too dependent on my boyfriend to be able to go out and enjoy myself, and neither of us have a friend group so we limit ourselves sometimes as well. i dont think im in the phase of taking myself out yet but I do want to rebel against the system of waking up, going to work and doing boring things especially when i compare myself to my peers who are living their best life. I’m going on my first solo business trip next month and I can’t wait!!

  • @lilystroud1094
    @lilystroud1094 Жыл бұрын

    LOVE LOVE LOVEEEEEEEEE THIS!!! I go for meals, walks, outings on my own all the time i have done for years. I totally agree with feeling empowered by it sis 🤍

  • @ninanegedu
    @ninanegedu Жыл бұрын

    New vlog from Madison just brightens up my Sundays🥰

  • @rachelmcdonnell4827
    @rachelmcdonnell4827 Жыл бұрын

    I loved this video so much mads ❤❤ you're such an inspiration and this has motivated me so much to get out there and enjoy me time 💕

  • @faatima3
    @faatima3 Жыл бұрын

    Doing things on your own feels amazing, so happy that you're taking this step, Mads. ❤️

  • @kerrynstevenson
    @kerrynstevenson Жыл бұрын

    i love this video mads!! i always go on solo shopping trips and do a lot of things by myself, but theres places ive wanted to go even just for a day’s shopping and im like oh im not good with trains or cant do that, but im going to book that trip now ive watched this video. I just know i’ll have the best time and be thankful i’ll have done it🥰🥰

  • @emierehema5593
    @emierehema5593 Жыл бұрын

    This is an amazing idea. When I'm off work I'm going to pick a day and go shopping or the cinema myself and enjoy it

  • @Me-lw4oy
    @Me-lw4oy Жыл бұрын

    I’m on holiday rn, today I sat on the beach in my coverup not eating or drinking all day because I cared too much about other peoples opinions. This video is the sign I needed!!!

  • @lauraloops...
    @lauraloops... Жыл бұрын

    Yes Mads! Embrace it! I love taking myself out every once in a while...It's empowering, love ya xx

  • @lisag870
    @lisag870 Жыл бұрын

    I’m so proud of you Mads! I’ve watched you for a long time and every single time you post you just get more beautiful inside and out! You’re so kind and amazing and you also have a beautiful soul! Keep glowing babygirl ❤️

  • @johnneladderley2474
    @johnneladderley2474 Жыл бұрын

    Hi Sunshine, I like that you chose Patience as your tattoo. I think everybody needs to practice patience, it truly is a virtue...and your outfit is very cool, very 90's. Lovely vlog darling❤️. Thank you as always for sharing, take care and God bless 🤗🙏🏾💙.

  • @abimuirhead6115
    @abimuirhead6115 Жыл бұрын

    Love this! I’ve just turned 24 and currently on my first ever solo trip to Lanzarote! Honestly coming away from this trip feeling so empowered and full of self love and confidence. If you’re thinking about doing a solo trip, please do it!!

  • @easynow7801
    @easynow7801 Жыл бұрын

    I feel you. Took a solo trip to Barcelona once and didn’t even want to be in anyone else’s company. ‘Twas one of my most memorable trips.

  • @amyking3999
    @amyking3999 Жыл бұрын

    i just loved this so much!!! giving me confidence to go out by myself x

  • @aishahussain1439
    @aishahussain1439 Жыл бұрын

    i think it would be amazing if you booked yourself a solo trip! i do think you should be cautious on sharing the location of your trip until you’ve come back. just because there are strange people out there xx can’t wait to see a solo trip vlog🥺💕

  • @aishahussain1439

    @aishahussain1439

    Жыл бұрын

    p.s i know exactly which tiktok you were talking about! she was so right💕

  • @latii5263
    @latii5263 Жыл бұрын

    I didn't realised that eating by yourself is a big thing until you mentioned it, most of the time I go to restaurants and cafes by myself and I actually enjoy it way more than going with someone hhh. maybe because I don't like to talk while I'm eating ..

  • @dianaayonn
    @dianaayonn Жыл бұрын

    i don’t mean to b dramatic but I’m actually crying bc how do we have matching tattoos 🥺 my angel number is 333 and my patience tattoo is also red but it’s on my hand 😭 I also have a tattoo under my boobie that says “i choose happiness” and also the placement behind my arm and that one says “love yourself” I also have a bunch more but our placements and the tattoo itself are matching and that’s so cute to me bc i love you! beyond just being beautiful ur mindset is so inspiring and I love that u have a platform and use it in this way 🤍🤍 sorry I’m rambling but I’m geeking hehe anyways I’m obsessed w you and will forever continue wishing you nothing but the absolute best

  • @kailaaaf
    @kailaaaf Жыл бұрын

    Mads so amazing that you did that for you! You’re amazing 🤩 xx

  • @MissDee4275
    @MissDee4275 Жыл бұрын

    This was such a calm relaxing video & vibes were so positive 😍😍

  • @olivialaidlaw9553
    @olivialaidlaw9553 Жыл бұрын

    Love your videos so much. They make me feel so much better. Lots of love 🫶🏼❤️

  • @Tanya_Trowers
    @Tanya_Trowers Жыл бұрын

    I have plans to solo travel next year at least once a month just for a few days , im just creating a list and making it budget frendly - im moving out of london and even though im in a relationship i really need to be comfortable with being myself, im really lucky with my job to have a week off every month and i be using the opportunity. you inspire me so much!! keep doing you!

  • @Cait.flaherty
    @Cait.flaherty Жыл бұрын

    Love this video ! Love your energy!! And your so gorgeous!!

  • @j_x1443
    @j_x1443 Жыл бұрын

    The way you put that outfit together🤯😍

  • @lubomiramitseva5442
    @lubomiramitseva5442 Жыл бұрын

    You had such a lovely day!! Really enjoyed the video and the idea behind it 🥰

  • @abbie8415
    @abbie8415 Жыл бұрын

    This has inspired me sooo much! Just booked my first solo cinema trip 😊🙈

  • @gempete85
    @gempete85 Жыл бұрын

    I love this! I am finding as I get older I am enjoying my own company more and more!! It's so empowering just to go and have some lunch, a glass of wine etc on your own! We are bad bitches and I am here for it! 💖

  • @itstia552
    @itstia552 Жыл бұрын

    Love this! It’s given me the confidence to try this for my self! Thanks Mads… Love Tia xxx

  • @sumaymutanser
    @sumaymutanser Жыл бұрын

    I really loved this video. On my lunch break at work I always feel so awkward eating by myself in town.. thanks for this video 🤍

  • @meganford7032
    @meganford7032 Жыл бұрын

    Love this as a single gal I really appreciate this! Thank you! You’re amazing 🥰🫶🏼

  • @rhi5945
    @rhi5945 Жыл бұрын

    Yes 🙌 eat pray love changes my life differently every time I watch it which has been quite a few. It is the most beautiful, magical movie... the book is even better!

  • @rebecca.fox96
    @rebecca.fox96 Жыл бұрын

    I love when you did your little cat walk like "she's cool" 😂 love the energy!

  • @mainllyjasmine
    @mainllyjasmine Жыл бұрын

    I loved this video so much!!🤍

  • @jasminelxuise
    @jasminelxuise Жыл бұрын

    Loved this video! Now I feel like I need a self care day, please can you do more of these?❤️

  • @rabz6951
    @rabz6951 Жыл бұрын

    Wow this is sooo inspiring I want to do things on my own but have really motivated me thank you keep doing what you doing you are amazing girl ❤️

  • @Jazzyesco101
    @Jazzyesco101 Жыл бұрын

    I loved this video and all your videos!!! Your super motivating and inspiring to young girls and all women ❤️ keep doing what your doing 😌

  • @et7854
    @et7854 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve just come back from a solo trip and it was the best time ever, do it!!!

  • @harrijones9246
    @harrijones9246 Жыл бұрын

    Great video, loved watching! Have to tell you also my 12 year old always says when I’m watching your videos “mum she’s so cool!” 💕 she loves your skirt in this vid xx

  • @danniidreamer4270
    @danniidreamer4270 Жыл бұрын

    In February I went to Poland by myself. I did 3 nights and went and seen all the things I wanted to do! It was the best thing I’ve ever done! I have two children and a partner of nearly 11 years so it was nice to have a break. I was anxious as hell but it’s made me want to do it again! You’ll be fine I promise ♥️

  • @carolsomerhalder7
    @carolsomerhalder7 Жыл бұрын

    Always coming thru when I’m going through it so thank you

  • @tobi-yy9xv
    @tobi-yy9xv Жыл бұрын

    Been wanting to go out by myself e.g. go to the cinema then eat but have so much anxiety over it. You’ve given me a bit confidence. Maybe I’ll do it now😅😂. Proud of you and much love ❤️

  • @elahakaryzada5146
    @elahakaryzada5146 Жыл бұрын

    I went to Italy a month ago with a friend who bailed after 2 days 😒 long story short I was forced to either enjoy the trip by myself or sulk alone let me tell u it was the most empowering thing to walk around eat alone & just do it all & might I add time saving when ur not waiting on others u will enjoy it have that trip & as a woman just always watch ur back but go & conquer the 🌎 women are so much smarter then men lol u will be fine ✌🏻

  • @angharadrees856
    @angharadrees856 Жыл бұрын

    Loved this! Everyone needs some me time here and there. You look so nice ☺️ me and my friend watched the Lizzie maguire movie recently, you just have to scream at the tv ‘ Hey now hey now, this is what dreams are made of’ hahah. Brings back childhood memories ☺️

  • @catherineriordan4590
    @catherineriordan4590 Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely loved this vlog! You are a real inspiration. Power to you my love! Xxx

  • @edenfitzpatrick_
    @edenfitzpatrick_ Жыл бұрын

    My favourite , love uu mads

  • @lauramcmanus5600
    @lauramcmanus5600 Жыл бұрын

    You are so inspiring! Love love love your videos ❤️ Making me want to do better every single day. Please can I ask where your gorgeous gold chain necklace is from in the first part of the video? Thank you so much 🥰

  • @tiataylor3514
    @tiataylor3514 Жыл бұрын

    Love this!!!! You’re just THE vibe! Where is the denim skirt from please xxxx

  • @amadeodgiorgio2
    @amadeodgiorgio27 ай бұрын

    That's so awesome you stopped caring about people's opinions! You're beautiful inside out, keep being you sweetie 💕

  • @brenbren1130
    @brenbren1130 Жыл бұрын

    I loved watching this video! Where did you get those shades from? They looked so good on you!

  • @lynnlampreau2089
    @lynnlampreau2089 Жыл бұрын

    I loveee carrot cake especially when its moist and baked right

  • @sarlizabeth
    @sarlizabeth Жыл бұрын

    Did you sue your hair back black? I love it. I agree, solo trips can be extremely intimidating but once you do it and you feel comfortable it’s so self rewarding and you gain so much confidence

  • @georgiefern7464
    @georgiefern7464 Жыл бұрын

    I loved this video Mads thank you for sharing your solo trip ❤️ but girl we need to know where those green sunglasses are from wow 😍

  • @888agatha
    @888agatha Жыл бұрын

    what a inspiring video, love this

  • @aznsweety
    @aznsweety Жыл бұрын

    Hi, I'm new to your channel, and I love your personality. You have such a positive and healthy mindset. Thank you for encouraging people to love themselves! We often treat others better than we treat ourselves. Why not dress up and take ourselves out on a date? As someone with anxiety, I never imagined I could watch a movie alone. I'm proud that I did, and it was a scary movie too! I'm sorry that girl made a rude comment about your shoes. An ugly person on the inside. Also, your relationship with your family is so cute! I hope you have safe and amazing solo trip!

  • @esmerose7691
    @esmerose7691 Жыл бұрын

    Your outfit to get a tattoo reminds me of an outfit I used to put on my bratz doll 😍

  • @ina4849
    @ina4849 Жыл бұрын

    Loved this video! I’m also learning to do things on my own. I was thinking of going to the movies on my own 😊

  • @jeanweston986
    @jeanweston986 Жыл бұрын

    You are so stunning and humble!!!! I love your vlogs!!!💕

  • @MadisonSarah

    @MadisonSarah

    Жыл бұрын

    thank you so much🥺❤️

  • @kerrymercer6720
    @kerrymercer6720 Жыл бұрын

    Gurrll we are living the same life! I saw that video too and now I'm living my hottest life also!! You're killing it!💛

  • @jessicacamacho8822
    @jessicacamacho8822 Жыл бұрын

    I’m moving to a foreign country, that I’ve never been to before, by myself next month. I’m excited to go on solo dates and your video just made me even more excited. Ly

  • @leximiss2372
    @leximiss2372 Жыл бұрын

    I needed to see the tattoo!!

  • @samanthaorourme8426
    @samanthaorourme8426 Жыл бұрын

    Your child like voice when you ask people for things is proper funny 😆

  • @janinel1866
    @janinel1866 Жыл бұрын

    Well done you xx you have given all the girls a “you can” moment go girls 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @katieliepelt6825
    @katieliepelt6825 Жыл бұрын

    LOVED this video!! Please do more like this

  • @TheSumz13
    @TheSumz13 Жыл бұрын

    you should've shown the full makeup tutorial!!! It looks amazing XXXX

  • @jessicalangley2404
    @jessicalangley2404 Жыл бұрын

    Where is your gold chain necklace from please mads? Love the video 🥰

  • @OfficiallyAmy
    @OfficiallyAmy Жыл бұрын

    Omg you look so cute!!! What did you use to draw your freckles on? 💕

  • @shannonturner2461
    @shannonturner2461 Жыл бұрын

    Hi girl I went on my first solo trip to Bulgaria when I was 16 and had the time of my life. I have just come out a relationship and I went on a solo trip to Edinburgh! They really do heal you girl

  • @jessiekydd6524
    @jessiekydd6524 Жыл бұрын

    Loved this video ❤️ your amazing

  • @jobenson7836
    @jobenson7836 Жыл бұрын

    Mads you are a queen xx💜💜

  • @SusieSue242
    @SusieSue242Ай бұрын

    You look so gorgeous before the makeup, you truly don’t need anything. You have perfect skin

  • @xCLWx1890
    @xCLWx1890 Жыл бұрын

    😍 u did great!! can't wait 2 c more 😘👌 oohh yaa and if the hate pours from haters..ur doing something right dear 🔥🔥🔥

  • @charlottem2582
    @charlottem2582 Жыл бұрын

    my favourite video of yours for sure x

  • @jaskamalkaur4817
    @jaskamalkaur4817 Жыл бұрын

    I love this, so wholesome

  • @aubreysuazo3613
    @aubreysuazo3613 Жыл бұрын

    Can you do a holiday prep video?? I love those videos ❤️

  • @DarcyBubz
    @DarcyBubz Жыл бұрын

    I’m on my first solo trip right now and it is honestly the best thing I’ve ever done!! If any of you are thinking about it, do it!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @user-pe6mk5zz8u
    @user-pe6mk5zz8u Жыл бұрын

    Love LOVE LOVE your sunglasses! Where are they from please? xxx

  • @rochelle1199
    @rochelle1199 Жыл бұрын

    I've not been to a fancy restaurant by myself either. I do a lot of things on my own but more casual things like Mcdonalds, Cinema, shopping, coffee shops etc. This made me want to do it and get proper dressed up to eat alone

  • @charlottecariaga1548
    @charlottecariaga1548 Жыл бұрын

    Pls do a video on this makeup!!!

  • @mbalitwala848
    @mbalitwala848 Жыл бұрын

    Love your vlogs so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @rageena_b
    @rageena_b Жыл бұрын

    Love taking myself out on solo dates!

  • @Jessicawatt521
    @Jessicawatt521 Жыл бұрын

    I feel like we get caught up in believing people are judging us but the reality is by nature we're selfish thinkers and we're not thinking about others because we're so busy thinking about how we're being perceived.

  • @celinabonddatingcoach
    @celinabonddatingcoach Жыл бұрын

    This is a beautiful thing to experience in a relationship (and while single). So many feel something is missing as they ‘settle down’…that ‘something missing’ is exploration of the self. Of nature. Of cultural company. Of your own evolution in your own company. High recommend 🙌🏽🙏🏼

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