Thank you so damn much for everything recently. YOU are actually awesome man (I know some of you needed that today). Screw liking or subbing, just watch more of my content/share with your friends, so this message reaches more people. The content will only get better, and while waiting, watch this where literally every video is going to help you: kzread.info/head/PLNT30nTRmwDHTWmOeoABpPMFbtiI8n698 Thank you.

@nonefvnfvnjnjnjevjenjvonej3384

Ай бұрын

this is another one of these bullshit youtube templates you guys are following arent you? to make a bunch of nonsensical crap titled in this manner. have some originality. i have seen this from a bunch of youtubers now.

@mansikushwaha4811

Ай бұрын

That was really life-changing...THANK YOU ❤

@Risingofthephoenix

Ай бұрын

Im not a young teen watching this I am a 35 year old lady. and I fear death too and its been on my mind alot too. Thanks for this video hun! You are very insightful you deserve a hug lol and a ofc a lifetime of happiness!

@HelperBot

Ай бұрын

This video legit helped me stop doom scrolling lmao

@atomiumjae

Ай бұрын

Thanks everyone man, glad this helped you. Watch my other videos yea (when ur free)

When you see this comment please like it so I get reminded of this

@Grls..

28 күн бұрын

Liked

@RileyHighBerg

28 күн бұрын

You can save it on your Playlist

@constanzab.centurioncolman1532

27 күн бұрын

Hey😊

@unknownuser-ro5bn

26 күн бұрын

Reminded

@Maxime-fo8iv

23 күн бұрын

Replying so I get reminded with every new reply

"I assume you're a young teen if you're watching this" me, 22: yea...

@fapl2649

Ай бұрын

I'll be 32 this year ~~

@sliter2566

Ай бұрын

and me here with 33? :T

@WendigoLumberjack

Ай бұрын

24 over here lol

@Gimrison

Ай бұрын

me 51 😉

@nuiscorner

Ай бұрын

I'm actually 35 years old :P So I was shocked when he said, "you're 35" xD hehe

we never knew we were making memories right? we were just having fun.

@atomiumjae

Ай бұрын

yep

@josephahn1024

19 күн бұрын

Hey, my friend! I have the most important message to share with you!! Please read EVERYTHING! Bad news: we are all sinners, and as the punishment for all of our sins, we must spend eternity in hell after we die. Good news: God still loves us far beyond measure, and he sent Jesus Christ, his only Son, to take the punishment for all of our sins instead, on our behalf, by dying on the cross. Then, on the third day, Christ rose back from the dead! Jesus paid the debt for all of our sins (past, present, future) on the cross so that we wouldn't have to go to hell but be able to go to heaven! However, God considers that the debt for all of our sins is paid *the moment we truly believe* that Jesus paid the debt for all of our sins on the cross. All we have to do is believe to go to heaven (John 3:16)! Therefore, please do so! Praise and Glory to our God the most high! I want to tell you that God is always there for you with open arms! We are all beautiful sons and daughters of the Most High. Each and one of us are extremely precious to him! God wants to give us the greatest happiness and joy that doesn't compare to what the world provides. God is the only one who can fill the void that we have in our hearts. God loves us far beyond measure! God wants a relationship with us! He wants to be our best friend! We simply have to be open and let him into our lives. "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Psalm 147:3 "So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10 I love you, and God loves you so much more!! Have a wonderful day :)

@nozzle8208

7 күн бұрын

Dude living in the present is so hard, but when you actually do, it's fun. Goddamn fun.

@giaaaacomo

18 сағат бұрын

winnie the pooh quote that always hits

“I do not fear death. I had been dead for billions and billions of years before I was born, and had not suffered the slightest inconvenience from it.” ― Mark Twain

@ch34pwoowoo7

13 күн бұрын

SCOTT PILGRIM PFP

@iloveblackdudes

12 күн бұрын

Real comment, real commenter

“Every man has two lives, and the second starts when he realizes he has just one” - Confucius

@Snaaake_Beater

Ай бұрын

You only have 1 life and thats why my heart is my guiding key. thanks yen sid

@CyrusHan1206

Ай бұрын

now.

@IrraCtical

Ай бұрын

Xdd

@Supersilly_goober

Ай бұрын

I do believe every man has 2 lifes though lol,the second one being way better (I am a Christian)

@user-eu5ol7mx8y

Ай бұрын

That's so true. Reminds me of my mom, it took her well over 50 years of life before she realized this and started living the way she wanted. Better late than ever but it serves as a reminder for the rest of us.

"Days might be long but decades are short "

@atomiumjae

2 ай бұрын

well said

@VeryMauricius

Ай бұрын

what

@ChillAndPeaceful

Ай бұрын

Attachment to anything will make people suffer whether mental or physically health

@darknessispower3296

Ай бұрын

Very true

@caaspirent-xi8rk

Ай бұрын

👍👍

“Why should I fear death? If I am, death is not. If death is, I am not. Why should I fear that which can only exist when I do not?” - Epicurus

@kizmet6472

14 күн бұрын

Needed to hear this. Thank you

@kriger5831

14 күн бұрын

@@kizmet6472 You're Welcome

@floppy_gaming

8 күн бұрын

but the thing is, you will exist. unless you find Jesus you will feel the wrath of God. I understand its one of those stereotypical Christian comments, but I want you to think about it. Suffering in fire forever. Even if to some people theres the slightest chance its true, dont you think thats terrifying? Please think about what I have said and remember we didnt just show up here only to die and not exist anymore.

@kizmet6472

8 күн бұрын

@@floppy_gaming there’s zero chance it’s true, because it’s always been Christian copium to farm money from those dense enough to believe it.

@kriger5831

7 күн бұрын

@@floppy_gaming I honestly don't know and I'm not christian

"Time spent having fun is not time wasted, time spent doing things you love is time well spent." Wise words.

"Ask yourself at every moment, 'Is this necessary?' " - Marcus Aurelius

@atomiumjae

2 ай бұрын

yep

@coolboysgaming307

Ай бұрын

What if you don't know the answer

@unknown-pl5hb

Ай бұрын

​@@coolboysgaming307 then question yourself will this matter in next 5-10 years ?

@Syeda_Fizzah_Azeem

Ай бұрын

plz don't say this while im studying for my physics exam

@fxETA

Ай бұрын

@@Syeda_Fizzah_Azeem It does affect your tomorrow

*TOP 5 REGRETS OF THE DYING.* 1. "I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me." 2. "I wish I hadn't worked so hard." 3. "I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings." 4. "I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends." 5. "I wish that I had let myself be happier."

@skippy4905

Ай бұрын

Thanks, Harry Potter

@ceoofselfish

Ай бұрын

yeah because at that moment, their survival skills have failed them and wished like fools to not have bothered with them at all the truth is, hating yourself will build enough character to take the world on

@harrypotter7652

Ай бұрын

@@ceoofselfish huh? im sorry im having a stroke reading this help💀

@harrypotter7652

Ай бұрын

@@skippy4905 _Avada kedavra,_ brother

@cicicave1279

Ай бұрын

@@ceoofselfish This isn't about their survival skills failing them. This is different for every individual especially for those individuals who had very un-supportive parents for their dreams. My mom is a bit more supportive than my dad in terms of me wanting to follow my dreams. And my dad is def. supportive to some level, but an example is that he never once allowed me to pursure the creative arts fields when I went to community college. I *easily* could have pursued various careers within the entertainment industry and nope, he didn't support me taking music courses and things like that-creative course I know for a fact that I *would* have succeeded in. I did succeed in other courses, but not the ones that could have gotten me super far in life. I will never stop loving music let alone singing, but I def. get super shy when it comes to singing. Both parents and friends alike need to learn how to say things that can actually help those they care about. I prob. took this too deeply, but I'll never forget when my dad told me this: "Photography is a really hard industry to get into right now,"-he knows I def. have the skills for that, but that statement alone-what will that do to one's mentality? For some, it makes them take major action and pursue it further, but for others like myself, it's literally just another "dream" that gets shut down tbh. My family might not agree w/my decisions, but the least they can do is at least Trust me and Support me...idk abt the trust part, but I feel like I don't have the support I need in regards to things like that. My original pursuit was going to be something to do w/Science until my dad made me drop a course back in high school-and yes, ik I'm dwelling on the past which can't be changed now since I was totally pushed towards creative arts fields instead & creative arts is expansive.

"Time spent having fun is not time wasted." I 100% agree on this. I think having fun is the most important thing in life and I absolutely hate that other people are trying to say the opposite.

As someone who's nearly 30, I'm speaking from experience here. When I was younger I had similar thoughts. It's when you first realize that life is limited and you start thinking like this. It can last years. But I found as I got older and really looked back at what had passed and how much time I (likely) still have, you start to calm down a bit. Instead of rushing to do everything because I'm scared of missing it before I die, I just slow down, take my time, enjoy the moment I'm in now, and stay in the now. Stay in the now. Don't stress about the far future. Just live in the moment now and appreciate it. I could die tomorrow, and that would suck, but we also don't yet know exactly what happens to the conscience mind when we die, so why worry. It's helped a lot with my mental health to not worry about the future and instead stay in the moment, charish those I'm with now, and do what makes me happy.

"Time spent having fun is not time wasted" thank you for this.

@Snaaake_Beater

Ай бұрын

but sadly just playing games or having fun doesnt give you money

@nemrichu7290

Ай бұрын

@@Snaaake_Beater its not always about the money. memories and experiences will always be much more valuable than money

@Snaaake_Beater

Ай бұрын

@@nemrichu7290 i know but like i said. you have to pay your bills and just having fun is not working

@clouds-rb9xt

Ай бұрын

@@Snaaake_BeaterHow vapid of you

@AndreiIsOkay

Ай бұрын

​@@nemrichu7290so by what you are saying, we need memories and experiences to live and survive in this world? Seems a bit lame for me.

"Life is too important to be taken seriously," - Oscar Wilde.

@ChinCo1

Ай бұрын

Not really, life is not important.

@Hadeth_a_stepa

Ай бұрын

@@ChinCo1 Literally the only thing you've got 🤨

@AdrianMark

Ай бұрын

Ahh I see, depressed for depression's sake. Interesting life strategy.

@xandex69

Ай бұрын

to be taken seriously or to not be taken seriously?

@Hadeth_a_stepa

Ай бұрын

@@8bitglobe You won't know this without life. You would not be able to see the beauty of the universe without light hitting your eyes and soul.

“It’s tempting to linger in this moment, while every possibility still exists. But unless they are collapsed by an observer, they will never be more than possibilities.” - Solanum, Outer Wilds

@OMarc11711

28 күн бұрын

Thank you, this was one of my favourite quotes, and I forgot it without realising it

This. Exactly this is the type of content is what I pay my internet bills for❤ Thankyou for making this video buddy❤

@atomiumjae

17 күн бұрын

np man, watch more of my videos yea

Good advice young man. Keep this in mind, "When I was 20 years old, 40 seemed so far away." I'm now 39. I'd give almost anything to go back to my 20-year-old me.

@atomiumjae

Ай бұрын

yep, thank you bro

@theresponsibleuser90

Ай бұрын

Don't worry, You are still better than someone who is at 79

@codyhanson1344

Ай бұрын

"when I was 20 years old, 40 seemed so far away" as a 26 year old, I actually don't feel the same. 30 feels like it's coming faster than it should, and I know 40 is just another 10 years from that. I am currently taking steps, slowly but surely, to hopefully improve my life significantly within the next few years or so, but nothing is guaranteed. I know I'm still young, but I'd like to be well off enough soon enough to be able to enjoy my life to the maximum degree by my mid to late 30s for peak satisfaction, but idk if I'll get there in time. We'll just have to wait and see I guess. 40 is still a little over 50% of my life away after all.

@theresponsibleuser90

Ай бұрын

@@codyhanson1344 I wish you a better life,work hard for yourself, your family, our society, and humanity and Enjoy the life at present 💝

@GuichoSax

Ай бұрын

@@codyhanson1344 You really don't know that, it's dangerous to give for granted your life percentage when diseases or fatal accidents happen. Haven't you ever heard of somebody randomly dying young? Nothing guarantees that "40 is over 50% of life".

i'm not a young teen, i'm 32 and i just felt like a kid watching a young teen telling me shit i always forget thank you bro

@atomiumjae

Ай бұрын

thank YOU

@NightinGal89

Ай бұрын

Same am 35. I used to think about death a lot as a teen. And even now. But I figured the best way to prepare for death is by living and enjoying as much as possible.

@hansdasnehalata007

Ай бұрын

lllpp​@@NightinGal89

@cozycoffee953

Ай бұрын

​@@NightinGal89 death doesn't have to be the end. atleast we Muslims don't believe so. Maybe try looking into the Quran? you never know maybe the answers you're looking for are there.

@jaycrunchfest22

Ай бұрын

@@cozycoffee953what about the people who belief in reincarnation? (And no I’m not referring to Hinduism where people are reborn as animals). More like starting over into another life with another family. Just the past life memory’s are gone.

I am a young teen watching this, and my dad passed away in 2017. I wish he lived for even just a few more years, because although I know I would still be sad now, I would have more memories with him. The only thing I remember was his last vacation in the summer before he died, I don't remember anything else, even if I try really hard. And he wasn't around for half the trip because he was going to car auctions because he loved cars, he rarely went with us to the amusement park we were there to go to. He spent the last friday that we were there at the amusement park, and all i remember from that trip was walking on the sidewalk with him to a bakery in the morning and going on one of the rides at the amusement park with him. This trip wasn't even a happy trip either, he was drinking a lot (the cause of his passing), but I didn't know that. To have only one memory with your father is very sad. My message to any teenagers out there seeing this comment that are always like "mom, drop me off over here, i don't want them to see"; your life is too short for that, your parents life is too short for that, yes, your parents may be alive today, but you don't know what will happen. You never know how much time you have left with your loved ones. So, please, just let your mom drop you off and don't give a crap who sees. Nobody is ever going to remember that, because it's not important for them to remember it, it's not a problem. If you play video games a lot, set them aside for a bit each day and spend time with your family. The video games will not stop being there, they won't vanish. You may want to stay on the games now, but later on you'll regret not spending more time with your family, and you won't even remember playing those video games, or scrolling through TikTok, so please, go spend some time with your family. I know how it feels to get time cut short with someone. Make the most of the time you have with them, please.

@atomiumjae

Ай бұрын

I’m saving this comment. Thanks bro, and you can message me @atomiumjae on discord for a chat

0:19 Bro, this is the exact same thoughts I have been thinking a lot, especially at night time when I go to sleep. I ve been having panic attacks at night, sometimes i cried until I fall sleep. I dont know what to do, except try not to think about it, Im always using my cellphone to distract myself, sometimes staying awake until 4am when my body just collapses for how tired it is. Never found a video that talks exactly what Ive been thinking until now. It felt nice to know that Im not alone. Im almost 22 (birthday is in july 5) so I don´t know if Im your target audience, but still thank you. Greetings from Peru, Paddington's new adventure (Yay!)

@kofabillion

19 күн бұрын

Happy early birthday! It’s July 3 for me so it’s almost July 5.

@alem2988

5 күн бұрын

Happy birthday for the 5th bro, it's now the 18th (from the UK)!

@joemama3681

2 күн бұрын

Happy belated birthday bro! I hope you get some rest, sleeping is important :) No te preocupes demasiado que vas a estar bien, amigo

When you said that last part, "Remember that on your deathbed, you won't be wishing you played more video games, scrolled more, or pleased the kidsi n your highschool. Many people die wishing they'd chased their dreams, spent time with their loved ones, or fulfilled their purpose," that moved me. Thanks for this amazing video.

@atomiumjae

Ай бұрын

thanks man, just stick around for better content yea (you can watch my old videos too)

@josephahn1024

19 күн бұрын

Hey, my friend! I have the most important message to share with you!! Please read EVERYTHING! Bad news: we are all sinners, and as the punishment for all of our sins, we must spend eternity in hell after we die. Good news: God still loves us far beyond measure, and he sent Jesus Christ, his only Son, to take the punishment for all of our sins instead, on our behalf, by dying on the cross. Then, on the third day, Christ rose back from the dead! Jesus paid the debt for all of our sins (past, present, future) on the cross so that we wouldn't have to go to hell but be able to go to heaven! However, God considers that the debt for all of our sins is paid *the moment we truly believe* that Jesus paid the debt for all of our sins on the cross. All we have to do is believe to go to heaven (John 3:16)! Therefore, please do so! Praise and Glory to our God the most high! I want to tell you that God is always there for you with open arms! We are all beautiful sons and daughters of the Most High. Each and one of us are extremely precious to him! God wants to give us the greatest happiness and joy that doesn't compare to what the world provides. God is the only one who can fill the void that we have in our hearts. God loves us far beyond measure! God wants a relationship with us! He wants to be our best friend! We simply have to be open and let him into our lives. "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Psalm 147:3 "So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10 I love you, and God loves you so much more!! Have a wonderful day :)

@alexlink4623

16 күн бұрын

@@atomiumjae I know this is a little belated, by I feel regrets on the deathbed are probably not all that correlated with the actions one took in their life(after all, there are an infinite number of things to regret), but their propensity for regret, itself. The best way to prevent that is not necessarily to take any particular speculative action, its to prevent regret in the strongest ways one knows how. I think it might just slightly be putting the cart before the horse. The sentiment is still solid; *do what you think matters* ; but don't act solely based on potential regret. This is seemingly backwards

@tdotitan8855

15 күн бұрын

​@@alexlink4623 yeah I feel like people on their deathbed will naturally regret things. At the end of the day If we try to live our lives to not be regretful that in turn may make us more inclined to make bad risks instead of healthy ones and bad things happen. You will regret either doing something or not doing something. I think there is some freedom in accepting we make the best decision with the information we have and thats all we can do... and I think people that accept they did the best they can are able to accept regret. We can't get caught up in the what ifs or possibilities. Life is full of choices and we don't always know the right ones but we can try our best.

"work or play, nothing in between" is the best quote in this I think

@atomiumjae

Ай бұрын

yep, stick around for better content yea

@kingkarp333

27 күн бұрын

I mean after this I’m hooked, keep up the good work ❤

I actually started tearing up for some reason I can’t explain.

"Time spent having fun is not time wasted." Amazing quote there bro. I'm 13 years old as of right now and I'm going to many mental struggles such as psychotic depression, severe paranoia and anxiety, and also constant thinking periods about the concept of life and death which have developed into severe theophobia. Forgive me if my grammar is bad. Thank you so much for this video. You've earned a sub and big fan.

@CastleHassall

18 күн бұрын

hey i found it helps just to think of big and small things you would like to do (even making our space we are in nicer for us, or building up a skill in something we would love to get good at) and to do even small steps to build up doing them.. that takes our mind off the stresses.. also doing things like burpees and getting our heart rate up (if it is safe for you to do that) helps flush out the depressing and stressful feeling biochemicals from our system and be kind to yourself.. and yes it can be depressing, but avoid watching stuff that is heavy, that helps a lot.. our thoughts get affected by the input we get so if you do watch videos it helps to watch fun inspiring ones.. good luck! when i look back on my life i wish I'd just not worried so much and just spent real time with people who liked me.. spend some real time with a friend, just having a laugh about things and cheering each other up, they may feel the same and would be glad to spend some nice time with you and that can build up how you feel too

this would now prompt me to ask myself everytime “is this time well spent?”

@atomiumjae

2 ай бұрын

yep, go ask yourself that

@BytesizedL

Ай бұрын

you’re pretty @CheasterSeville

@ConeTheBoss559

Ай бұрын

​​@@atomiumjae Easy crippling anxiety to only achieve and never relax unlocked

@trixfox45

Ай бұрын

​@@ConeTheBoss559 already got that unlocked because I know I'm wasting my time but my issues don't help me with changing that in a second :')

@IrraCtical

Ай бұрын

I always ask myself that, yet I always don’t answer it properly (Aka idk’s/this feels like wasting time/I should do something more productive/this feels repetitive)

as a teenage girl who has been reflecting on her past a little too much (although i havent exactly been around that long, lol) and scrolling/ using social media and everything to drown my feelings out, im finally done with it. i've deleted all of the pointless apps on my phone and im going to go study for my math final. thank you for this video, as solemn as it was, our generation needs more of this. EDIT: thank you so much to all of the people wishing me luck on my final, I've seen all the comments and I appreciate it a lot. I didn't do as well as I hoped to, so now I'm studying for next year's classes.

@Sillyman443

Ай бұрын

Hell yeah! I hope you’re doing well and that your final went well! I wish you the absolute best

@mybrokenfingerz

Ай бұрын

@@Sillyman443 aww thanks, thats so sweet. 🥹 i wish u the best too

@arnavmogha9334

Ай бұрын

Good luck

@banana8840

Ай бұрын

hope u do well

@candycat64

Ай бұрын

gl on your final!

Some time ago I also worried a lot about death, but I met Jesus, and I started following the teachings of the Bible, and it changed my life, because I was cured of my social anxiety and I stopped worrying about death, because the Bible says that all those who believe in Jesus and repent of their sins will inherit eternal life, this gave me a lot of hope and allowed me to live much more peacefully, and I was able to improve a lot in this life and I was able to learn to love other persons and not caring too much about material things. I know it sounds a bit cringe, but it really changed my life, and even if in the end there is no eternal life, the change that returning to church made in my life is worth it. One piece of advice I have is that it's worth trying to read the Bible, because it has wonderful teachings and can help you a lot in life.

I was worried this vid would be another "get out there and hustle, achieve more" but it was wholesome and made the point we aren't just about productivity. I always loved the Abraham Lincoln quote, "It's not the years in your life, it's the life in your years."

Dude is a fresh breath of air on internet. Not a follower, not a leader, just a sage with his own ideology and who is the beacon of his own life. I immediately subscribed as this guy hits home

@atomiumjae

Ай бұрын

thank you. i mean i do have "leader" (in quote marks) in my bio haha. Yea everyone lives their own life. and ive stopped tryna control others because in the end thats what will control you. watch my other content it'll help you out (especially the latest video)

@Jesus_Christ_loves_you_alot

Ай бұрын

Hi there! Jesus says to you today: "Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest." -Matthew 11:28 May God bless you! 😊

@clementbarrieu

29 күн бұрын

I also recommend you Jak Piggott. He's also this type of content and he's relaxing to listen to

@atomiumjae

29 күн бұрын

@@clementbarrieu oh yea Jak Piggott himself commented on my uncomfortable exercise video lol

@VegetaPrinceOfSaiyans

20 күн бұрын

Very Buddha-like sentiments from this video, i had similar outlooks when i was in my last two years of high school and felt great until basically being forced to enter the life of a workforce pawn. This was a good reminder of my original plans for myself.

“The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.” - Mark Twain . Everyone dies , but not everyone lives. Live as it's last day. The 5 minutes spent on this video were definitely worth it.

@atomiumjae

Ай бұрын

thank you bro, much better content coming soon

@peaceful__presence

Ай бұрын

@@atomiumjae best wishes for future🌟

@atomiumjae

Ай бұрын

@@peaceful__presence thanks bro, u can msg me @atomiumjae on discord

@peaceful__presence

Ай бұрын

@@atomiumjae 👍

@endlessnameless6494

Ай бұрын

Never drive drunk. Never drive distracted. Thanks, guys. Arrive home alive!

I'm not like others. I don't fear death. When I'm on a holiday I don't rush to do everything that I missed out on on the last day. I sit and take it all in and just be. I'm not scared of "going back"

exactly, I spend years waiting for a moment or feeling sad that I'm wasting time on my hobbies but now I'm just doing what I want and never regret living in the present even if it's just watching tv with my sister or walking or sleeping)

When I was a child and throughout my teenage years I was certain I was going to die by 18. I was living in an abusive home, and I belived I had had some premonition about my death before 18. It wasn't a fear at the time, it was a fact, at least that's how it felt. I had had this feeling from a pretty young age, so I had a long time to come to terms with it. On my 18th birthday I had a severe panic attack, not entirely because I was afraid i was going to die, but because I was still alive and that wasn't right, and I was afraid on a cosmic scale. I wasn't afraid that I would die, just afraid of not knowing how. But I lived, and then the next couple years I felt like I was living on borrowed time. But the years kept going by, and now I'm 26. I'm thankful and happy to be alive, and that's not really something I ever thought I would feel. I don't fear death, it will happen when it does and I made peace with it many years ago; but I am thankful for every day I have on this earth, in this body

@pip5667

Ай бұрын

I had a similar experience and, to an extent, still do. My 18th was my first *happy* birthday in a few years. I'm turning 20 in October, and the idea of a new decade is equally strange to me. I'm still not yet at the point where I can clearly picture myself existing in the future, but I'm closer than I used to be.

@uznik399

Ай бұрын

Your situation is so same to mine, but im only 15. And yes, i do think ill die by 18. I just dont know why and how i will get to the adult life

@ummmuhhh4756

7 күн бұрын

I relate a lot to your sad experience. When I was in middle school I thought I was going to k!ll myself after I graduate, but I didn't do it. When I was in high school, I also thought I was going to k!ll myself after I graduate, but I never had the nerve to do it. Having untreated mental health problems from a very early age, coming from an abusive household and being bullied made me feel like there was nothing good I could experience in life and that death is the only way to stop hurting. But life goes on and as we age, we gain more and more tools in our toolkit that can help us alleviate the pain and cope with life's difficulties. Currently I am 22 and life is so much easier than when I was a teen. I am capable of making my own decisions, I have a job and, most of all, I have a strong friend support network that I can rely on. A lot can change and the best thing we can do is let our hardships be learnt from, let them be turned into a guide telling us how to be kind and help other people with similar problems. This unique experience of being human can be so, so difficult, but also very rewarding and it is essential for us humans to help each other when we have the chance to. All my suffering has shaped me into the self I am today and in a way I am grateful for that. I haven't fully recovered yet, but it is somewhat comforting to read about similar experiences. I found your comment inspiring and I hope I can achieve your mindset one day.

I met this woman on holiday, and she told me “tomorrow isn’t promised to anyone.” After she said that to me i have been going out with friends so much more and going places wouldn’t usually go. I treat everyday like its the best thing thats ever happened to me.

@josephahn1024

19 күн бұрын

Hey, my friend! I have the most important message to share with you!! Please read EVERYTHING! Bad news: we are all sinners, and as the punishment for all of our sins, we must spend eternity in hell after we die. Good news: God still loves us far beyond measure, and he sent Jesus Christ, his only Son, to take the punishment for all of our sins instead, on our behalf, by dying on the cross. Then, on the third day, Christ rose back from the dead! Jesus paid the debt for all of our sins (past, present, future) on the cross so that we wouldn't have to go to hell but be able to go to heaven! However, God considers that the debt for all of our sins is paid *the moment we truly believe* that Jesus paid the debt for all of our sins on the cross. All we have to do is believe to go to heaven (John 3:16)! Therefore, please do so! Praise and Glory to our God the most high! I want to tell you that God is always there for you with open arms! We are all beautiful sons and daughters of the Most High. Each and one of us are extremely precious to him! God wants to give us the greatest happiness and joy that doesn't compare to what the world provides. God is the only one who can fill the void that we have in our hearts. God loves us far beyond measure! God wants a relationship with us! He wants to be our best friend! We simply have to be open and let him into our lives. "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Psalm 147:3 "So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10 I love you, and God loves you so much more!! Have a wonderful day :)

When you see this comment like it please so I can come back and watch it again

Thank you so much for words. I really appreciate it. They take my heart beat!! I love the thought, what we should live, like there's no *tomorrow.* It's helped me to understand, what I need is living a full day rn.

28 year old here - this video gives me so much hope for your generation. You are setting an excellent example for what masculinity and mindfulness looks like. These sigma male manosphere types are snake oil salesmen. You have nothing to sell, and are exhibiting wisdom beyond your years. I'm way outside the demographic you predicted but I'm happy to have stumbled upon this video today. Be well my dude, keep spreading your words ✌🏼

@atomiumjae

Ай бұрын

Thank you man. I’m actually surprised how many people here are in their late 20s or even 40s. I even got a 75 year old to comment aswell. I mean I do have a channel membership, and probably will start a patreon soon. But will never sell any bs courses on their own and add an imaginary 20x value. Stick around for better videos to come yea.

@robross5687

Ай бұрын

This is a wholesome comment but out of curiosity why is masculinity an aspect in this?

@Bachiruh

Ай бұрын

​@@robross5687yeah... i think women can do the same? This isn't really masculinity?

As an old guy (53) I can completely agree. Do NOT stay in the hotel. You've got (on average) only 25,550 days here on Earth. Spend each one like it was your last!

What a legend. A lot of people need to hear this (including me). And we all need to encourage others to stop wasting away time on worrying about pointless things, or distracting ourselves from the bad parts of our lives, instead of living the amazing parts. ❤

@atomiumjae

Ай бұрын

Thank you man, you can message me @atomiumjae

Oh my goodness this made me realize how valuable a single moment we are living in right now! Thank you youtube for reminding me of this art

"time spent having fun is not wasted" is so profound, you may have just help me justify years of my young life. thanks for the reminder 😊

@user-oc8jp2bk2y

Ай бұрын

Honestly that's a comforting lie. Having fun is good, but you always want adequate balance in life. Not working for yourself now, cutting on future you. Yep you can die any moment, but there is also a good chance you will live a long live, and more you develop yourself early, better you live afterwards. Having said that you should not really regret having fun instead of grinding early life, that's not totally wasted... but you know, you could probably do better if you overdid that. Youth is objectively the best time to have fun... yet yeah you want balance.

@BlueRiverArt

Ай бұрын

​@user-oc8jp2bk2y I watched the whole video and it was obvious that's not what he was saying.

@IrraCtical

Ай бұрын

@@user-oc8jp2bk2ythank you, I agree with that

"The only memories you have is when you were in the present moment" THIS! this opened my mind Thanks a lot for this video!

@atomiumjae

Ай бұрын

np bro

@dhillaz

Ай бұрын

This one got me too

This is too inspirational, thank you for breaking this loop! Keep up the good work!

Beautiful insights! A German author, Erich Kästner, wrote: "Only those who grow up and remain a child are human." My mom liked to quote that. Now 53, at the top of my list of important things is to do exactly that, or better yet, to stay that way. Living in the moment opens your heart and vice versa. I wish you the best of luck on your journey. No matter how rocky it gets, never forget how to laugh at yourself and your heart will keep its wings.

@atomiumjae

Ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

@onmyway8262

Ай бұрын

@@atomiumjae A pleasure. I wish I would have been half as wise as you at your age.

It actually makes me so sad i cant enjoy anything right now and my future self will think back and be so disappointed in me

@atomiumjae

Ай бұрын

who said you cant? life is about enjoying what youve built for yourself

@aminansar5294

Ай бұрын

Don't be sad. This life is really just not for having fun. Yes that is a part of it but that's not its purpose. The purpose of this life is that God tests us who is righteous and who is not so that He may reward everyone justly. The life that is desired, having never ending fun, is the one after death, in the paradise. If you don't believe in God or hereafter, this might be difficult for you but I assure you when you look into it with open heart you will realize what I am saying

@spiralghosts

Ай бұрын

why would your future self be disappointed? They are you. Your future self can understand with hindsight what you were thinking, why you're acting the way you do. There is no need to feel ashamed. Take on one day at a time to, some day, be your future self. You might not see a lot of progress with small steps, but if you do enough tiny things to make yourself feel better and to work with your own brain, it's gonna add up one day. And sometimes you "just" have to let the bad pass for a bit, as hard as it is.

@beans9288

Ай бұрын

Do the best you can when you can. Understand your own circumstances and know that you tried. Good luck.

@endlessnameless6494

Ай бұрын

Never drive drunk. Never drive distracted. Thanks, guys. Arrive home alive!

The pauses in between are just perfect Thanks brother!! For all❤ The video is Just magic no extra editing only natural things I again highlight i love the pauses you took

39 here….. 😂😂🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ But seriously, remember this - you’re never too old to take advice. To all the younger ones (or older) watching this video, its never too late to take action & get your perspective corrected. I am so inspired by this video bro, life changing & touched me so deep….. I needed this although I was already on the path to self improvement. Thank you again for this 🙏🙏🙏 From your big bro 😅

I'm 38 and this video is something everyone should watch.

@atomiumjae

Ай бұрын

damn I’m legit less than half your age would like to chat with you, do you have a discord? Mine is @atomiumjae

@faa1412

Ай бұрын

When you're 20 yrs. old, 40 seems so far away, now look at us; 1 (me) and 2 yrs (you) away from 40!

@lighting4001

Ай бұрын

​@@atomiumjae are you 19?

@razersedge2k974

Ай бұрын

Absolutely agree. I'm 38, and i spent most of my life in survival mode from trauma, too scared to try things, always telling myself i'd do it tomorrow (endlessly) so it never actually got done. I've wasted probably a good 20 years of my life. I'm married with kids now, bought my own home (which is exactly the goal i wanted for myself) but part of me still feels empty and unfulfilled. Not because of my family, they are amazing and bring joy to my world every single day. It's the impending thought that death comes for all of us, and I wasted so much time and only got maybe to 15% of my full potential. The silver lining is that I still have time, and that's the only thing that keeps me sane, but there's something that weighs heavy about knowing you could have been so much better, had you actually applied yourself rather than escaping life playing video games, partying, or scrolling KZread mindlessly. If you are young and reading this, please heed my warning... pushing things to the next day is always going to leave you unhappy. In some scenarios it might even leave you with immense guilt. My dad and I's relationship wasn't too good, and on one particular day I thought I should call him, but the procrastinator in me was playing some video games, and I told myself i'd finish my game and call him after. I never did call him that night, and the next morning my sister called me saying he passed away. This absolutely crushed me, but there's some good to this. I know make it a MUST every single day to let my wife know how much i love and appreciate her. She receives it very well and me being forced to come to face with my past failures made me learn to never ever mess up like that again. I now show gratefulness and appreciation for the things I do have, and am still working on fixing my mindset of not thinking about the past in the sense of "things I shoulda had, had i tried harder" as that's a road that just brings misery.

@CoolScratcher

Ай бұрын

@@lighting4001 he's 16, it says so in his bio

I'm 54 years old and if it means anything to anyone, in my experience this is good advice and the holiday analogy is a good one. One thing i will add that never meant anything to me when i was young but i see it now... as well as having fun, at some point in your life try and build something that's important to YOU, so when you look back at the roller-coaster ride that will be your life, there is something there that you can be proud of and say "I built that, just me". Oh and don't get hung up on age/timeframes, it doesn't matter WHEN you do anything (despite what society will have you believe) as long as you fit it in at some point.

@atomiumjae

Ай бұрын

Thank you man. This video is reaching an older demographic man, I’m getting people who’s like 30+

@indiasupportsthereturnofth1475

17 күн бұрын

@@atomiumjae yep 34 here and felt old until I saw the 50+ years imao.

I love this video so much! We faced nearly impossible odds to be born, all life is in absolutely perfect condition for us to live, nobody's fingerprint is the same, and you have billions of microscopic organisms that only care about you. I promise everybody that there is something out there, there is no reason to fear death, just live the life that you were blessed with and go through it with no regrets!❤

I was expecting a kid saying obvious advice for the views, but actually your message and delivery is good. I even shed a tear. I'm 35yo and know there is no coming back. I have like 25 good years left and then I'll be old with wrinkles, probably health problems and less mobility. There is only now to live life, every second passed we can never get it back.

as a 16 y/o girl, I've veen very plagued by thr thought of my life having no meaning. I'm preparing for an engineering entrance exam ( jee ) and that has consumed my life to the point that I haven't listened to music for months now. there us no way to stop, I know that, but I feel very lost at the thought that all this might have no meaning someday. I never made friends, never did anything except study and now, I regret not living my life when I could afford to. I know this is very overdramatic and I'm the only one who can solve this, but your video gave a this boost. thank you so much and please continue to do what you do. I hope you, and anyone who might be reading this, have a good day.

@atomiumjae

2 ай бұрын

thank you, I’m so glad to see my videos are actually helping people. As the f*cking academic weapon I can easily be if I actually study like a few hours, you need to take breaks bro. Studying for so long actually gets counterproductive. If you want, message me @atomiumjae on discord

@maruthimacha1847

2 ай бұрын

not listening to music is actually guud dont exhaust urself ever, study as much as u can, and u know what things are a waste of time and unproductive, so live mindfully and regretless all the best for ur exam

@Zappkinwastaken

2 ай бұрын

I feel you, im preparing for JEE too.. Its really overwhelming sometimes

@Idkatthispoint794

2 ай бұрын

😭 this. I’m preparing for NEET

@callme_jadenoodle

Ай бұрын

I don’t think you’re being over dramatic at all, I’m in a similar situation like you fighting for my entrance exam, I do get lost and drown in the cycle of studying and it’s exhausting Just so you know, even if I’m just a stranger passing by, I hear you. There’s a lot of people fighting like you including me, you’re not the only one feeling this, it’s probably not going to be easy but I have my best wishes on you, you got this.

Let me share my experience. I’m 32 and I’ve heard the same“seize the day” type of advice many times and tried to practice. What I learned from this is, this mindset can easily burn you out. I tried to maximize my productivity, set my goals clearly and go like an unstoppable train. I started churning out what my emotions want to do to achieve what rationality tells me. No doom scrolling, yes to practice and act effectively. It looks so right, but I constantly suppressed inner conflict between emotion and rationality. Mental war rages in me everyday, everywhere. Often I “win” and it gives some satisfaction, but I was never able to stop the fight. Eventually I got so tired that I felt like my dreams are no more fascinating and therefore useless. I lost passion and became numb. The habit of doom scrolling came back gradually. After some time, I realized I can’t keep negating my unproductive emotions anymore. No matter how stupid it is, what I want is uncontrollable. Shame on me, but this is the reality I face. So I let it go. But it was the time I started to recover. The more time I spent unproductively, the more I can feel right. My brain started working again. Also I regained the interest for my dreams. I still do scrolling mindlessly (so I find this video haha), yet I feel like I lead my life naturally. TL;DR: don’t neglect your emotion to stop wasting your time. It will hurt you.

@gappuma7883

7 күн бұрын

True you can't be on top 100% of the time

I'm 20 and this videos is genuinely suitable for everyone....

you don’t understand how much I needed this…thank you so very much…i could only hope u get everything u wish for in ur life cause ure awesome for doing this. Seriously…thank you from the bottom of my heart. leaving this comment here so pls like when u see this so I get reminded to live in the present.

watched this on 1.5x so I'll get 5 years and 100 seconds of my life back.

@arcticpengwinz3908

20 күн бұрын

lol

@willgloryo216

13 күн бұрын

"THE MATH AIN'T MATHING"- angry overwatch guy

I envy that you're still young when you realized this. I'm about to be 33 next week but I'm still trying to navigate through the edges.

This made me cry and smile and nod a lot! So beautiful and true. I'm 33 and I really needed this message right now, thank you! ❤️

Death comes for us all one day and that terrifies me, honestly scares me so much, the idea that everything I do in my life I will do for the last time, the things I love, even the things I hate, it will all happen for the last time one day. One day I will talk to my parents for the last time, hold my wife's hand for the last time, sleep in my bed for the last time, even the most mundane things like brushing my teeth or styling my hair, it will all be done for the last time one day. I love earnestly in the present moment because of this, I regret nothing in my life, yet try as I might I still fear death. Thank you for this video and fuck you for reminding me how scary death is.

I used to spend the majority of my time pondering over how I wish I could go back to the past. I spent days crying in my room telling myself “Things will never be the same as before.” But I realized that’s what makes life.. life. Change is going to happen whether anyone likes it or not. I’ve been living more in the moment, thanks to this video for helping me notice that. To add on some other thoughts; I really do feel scared for my dad. I hate to even think and say this, but I know he’s nearing the end of his life. I’m just starting my adulthood, I actually graduated HS a few days ago. I did it to make my dad proud, because I know he probably won’t live to see my little brother graduate in 5 years from now. My dad’s the strongest person I know, I hope he enjoyed his life. Even though he’s still primarily healthy for an 80 year old, anything can happen anytime. Tell your friends and family you love them.

@cozycoffee953

Ай бұрын

you didnt ask, but i just feel like you're a nice person and wanted to say; maybe try reading the Quran? Muslims don't believe that this life is the end, we believe that the hereafter is our actual home and destination. it's also extremely comforting to know that this life isnt the end. I request you to look into it (the Quran).

im 29 years old watching this and i still feel like im 12 inside hahaha. life still blows my mind. "keep on going despite there being nowhere to arrive. there's no finish line, just an endless softening into love and equanimity." i believe theres an afterlife though, at least i really hope thats the case so i can see my cat again

@Cuteemogirl94

Ай бұрын

Same

@PhDincriminilogy

Ай бұрын

Same and i am 27.

@isiii4793

Ай бұрын

I really hope you’ll see your cat again someday, you both deserve to :)

@yamaracuya

Ай бұрын

I am literally crying

@brybrybry995

17 күн бұрын

I really do think there is an afterlife BUT that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t live life as best we can on earth, enjoying our time, doing the best we can to help others, and be present in the world with others.

Thank you so much for sharing this. I'm 35 and this hit me so hard. I really needed to hear all this today. It unlocked something within me and I'm sitting here balling and releasing built up stress and anxiety. Thank you

This hit me, thank you. Ive recently started working out and getting healthy. Ive struggled with mental health for years and years and although there is a odd comfort in it, its not healthy and its time to change. Thank you. "Life is just a glimpse, a small star in the sky. You are here one day and gone the next. So everyday learn to shine brighter than the last"

"Time spent having fun is not time wasted" I always thought of that phrase of one of the best ways to see life, and I'm glad to finally find someone who agrees with that. Amazing video, thanks for sharing such valuable advice!

@cof...

Ай бұрын

cool person pfp

Today, on my way to work, I just witnessed a road motor accident and someone died. Your vid makes me appreciate life even more! We only have a very limited time and truly we have to make the most out of it and worry less! Thank you for this! Keep it up!

@atomiumjae

2 ай бұрын

damn holy shit. You never know when times up man. And thank you, I will try my best okay. New vid out this saturday

this hits hard, i get anxious and afraid everytime i reminisce about the past (this happened back then, i rarely experience it now) because at the end of my thoughts, the thought of death had always came. It was at a point where it haunts me everyday until i felt restless sometimes. Its not specifically about fearing that death may come, but how the area, place, family members, relatives, friends, or pets and others might be gone forever or they might change at any time soon in the future. Not only that, the time you spent with them back in the past will just turn into a memory of yours and some others memory in the future when they’re gone.. Its painful to hear talks of them saying they might die soon. It just, sucks, when seeing others go first before you or when you’re being reminded how time past by so quickly without you realizing it. No one knows what could happen, and absolutely ANYTHING could happen right now, later, or someday. Thats why its better to live your life to the fullest. This is a first to hear that ‘time spent having fun is not time wasted’ and i definitely needed it. Thanks for the video

U are underatted asf my man,these 5 minutes were worth it,thx!

“Time spent having fun is not time wasted.” Gosh, I wish that thought would imprint in my head more since the early era adults just conditioned me the opposite mindset. You know, the “you are wasting time by having fun” kind of mindset.

0:07 yes, being immortal is the greatest torture in fiction (non technically).

thank you so much for this video. ive been struggling feeling depressed and hopeless and this video really helped me out. keep up the content

you are genuinely a beacon of light in a void of darkness, thanks a lot.

This video is SO DEEP! I'm 20 years now and I have this feeling that I've already lived too long without truly enjoying life. As you age, you might become less energized and more responsabilities steal your life time like it's nothing. Also your perception of time becomes less accurate because of repetition and routine and now 1 day might feel like 1 hour when you was a child. Therefore, a 40 year old is not half way, but more than half way to death. So if you're 20 years like me, PLEASE enjoy your damn life once for all before it vanishes from existence!

@youwilllneverrrknowww

Ай бұрын

Real

@Soulis98

Ай бұрын

Same

@FurokkuFurokku

Ай бұрын

28 here. This is so effing true. I thought my mentality would stay young forever and I always wondered when and how one turns into an adult mentally because at 24 I thought I should already have turned into an adult... And then at some point the inner child gets quiet and a preform of death begins.

"the only memories you have is when you were in the present moment" - damn... this is so true if I think about it... thanks

"Time spent well is time well spent" you really safed me with this one, fucked myself up recently for having fun instead of working on something "usefull". Please continue what you do. You should also livestream, i think it would be cool to have a conversation with you

Listen to your heart. Do what you want, do what makes you happy. We all die. Tbh today is the funeral for an uncle i've known all my life. He simply came home from work and went to sleep never to getup again. Idk the cause of his death but he just went like that. Life is too precious to please others, please yourself. Always make sure you're happy and contempt with what you do.

what my mom told me once that really stuck to me (even if im not good at all at executing it)(also this is my interpertation of her saying) "Appreciate those important to you like you're going to die tomorrow, but work through challenges and struggles like you're going to live forever" If you want to know what her original saying was, its smth along the lines of this translated from indonesian and also from memory (Its also religious just as a warning ig) "pray like you're going to die tomorrow, but live life like you're going to live forever" edit: shit i wrote this while in the middle of watching the video and 4:35 he basically said what i mean ten times better than me BAHAHAH

3:28 "Time spent well is time well spent." -atomiumjae

And here I am and a lot of other people who either actively think about wanting not to exist or wouldn't mind dying. It feels comforting in a sense, but it also sucks so many of us are in a dark place. I also take glee in knowing that also the evil and powerful people will die someday :D love nature, it rules us all

@_-drowsy-_

Ай бұрын

Wow, I feel ya there bud

3:35 when he said how time is well spent it actually made me happy, cause I’m really not wasting my time making videos

@PHALSEKZW

26 күн бұрын

Making videos is definitely not a time waster, even outside of what he said. You could even make money from it in the future if you wanted.

@kajiuce

26 күн бұрын

@@PHALSEKZWye, but I’m probably not gonna reach monetization cus I need 4000 watch hours on just videos

You had me completely when you asked about the last two videos/reels that I had watched😭 !! That sudden realisation hit me bro 😭

Just finished middle school yesterday, and… I have no idea of how I should be feeling. Im still young, but every year feels shorter, and shorter, and I already feel like, perhaps, I’ve already lived through a quarter of my life just because I’m finally realizing how quick life goes by. I feel like a lot of people are afraid of death, personally, I am not, but I am afraid of dying feeling my life was completely worthless. I work hard everyday to achieve the dream I have, and I’m not gonna stop anytime soon Thank you ❤

I read Marcus Aurelius meditations, and it focused a lot on the topic of death. Its actually surreal to think that there will be a last time for everything; a last time to argue, a last time to forgive, and a last time to hug... I have recently been appreciating life gifts more, and Im glad for all the things I have. Life is just a mere flux of time... a visit in a strange land.

Enjoy your youth my friend. Don't worry about death, don't worry about the future. The future is an illusion, it will never come. The past is gone. Don't waste time with it. Before you know it, you'll look in the mirror and see an old person looking back at you. So be happy, enjoy your life, all you need is already within you. It is not in external things. You have much to learn but it is already in you. You are already complete my friend. Be still and listen to your inner self, it knows. Your mind will chatter shit at you. But be still and listen to your inner self and follow that. Have a great life. You are already great!

Thank you for sharing this! Im in that 30's age group who wishes they could go back, like you said😅 But your video showed up in my feed thankfully. I just want to say I'm proud of you for voicing your wisdom even at such a young age, I wanted to do much the same thing at your age, but wouldn't have thought to use youtube as a platform for that, and probably would have been too afraid of other peoples opinions even if i had. Stay strong, stay wise, be well.

You’ve made a serious difference to my worldview. Thank you for this.

I love how raw and natural this is. It makes the message even more clear and straightforward. Thank you friend!❤

@atomiumjae

Ай бұрын

np bro, just stick around for better videos yea. U can watch those on my channel already too

"I don't want that to be you" your last line did a lot to me, thanks for giving this realisation:)

I actually have been thinking about this, not every day but once in a while but each time I just have to calm myself down. Whenever I asked my parents about it they just said “It's not that bad once it comes you'll want to die" which I feel like I already understood but it wasn't enough. After watching this video and the exercise proving scrolling isn't time well spent I want to try and make a goal to lower my screen time. I know it's a difficult goal but maybe with the help of someone I can do it.

Thanks so much for this video! I will try to keep this in mind throughout this year and beyond. I'm going to log off my computer as soon as I'm done here.

Nice video! I remember I was 22 when I thought I was gonna die that one night in June, and I was like so this is it? My body was paralyzed, my head aches as my vision kept spinning, and I was struggling to breathe. Memories flashed through my mind in an instant, and all of it was how I take life too seriously. I realized I hadn't enjoyed my time in elementary, high school, and college because I was too focused on grades and achievements to make my parents proud. In college, I experienced depression, and after graduation, I faced burnout which is why I choose a menial job despite graduating with honors. I missed out on enjoying my youth because I was so afraid of the future and worried about falling behind others. I'm a woman and everyone is pressuring me to work hard as much as I can so I would have a good family. But that night I can't even control my body, I was crying and my mom is yelling at me to stop while massaging me. I felt alone and I told God that giving me a few more years will be a gift and I'll try to enjoy life. Right now I'm less anxious compared before 😂 Know to differentiate doing your best vs pushing yourself so hard

If you watch until the end, I promise your viewpoint on life WILL change. Screw liking or subscribing, just share this video so more people get this message. Thank you. (also you can msg me @atomiumjae on discord, as of right now my friend links are open)

@Juno725

2 ай бұрын

Reverse psychology?

@atomiumjae

2 ай бұрын

@@Juno725 no, if I wanted likes and subscribers I would be making way more shorts

@user-ox1fr6wc4o

Ай бұрын

I invite you to read concept of death in the light of Quran

@kizryuver

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​​​​​@@Juno725 if you're trying to find an ulterior motive behind every nice KZread video, it may be a sign that you're watching too either too many negative critique/expose videos/you're watching too many youtubers that do so and being around negativity isn't good as it warps the world view unless you balance it with videos like these. - not that it's wrong to want likes/subscribers Because that just spreads message without sharing too + you can afford to make videos = it's smart & not an issue given that you're not after just money & pretty sure people that want views also want it so they can afford to keep doing what they do. -If people look at things as black & white without nuances that can mean low attention span causing them to be lazy with deep thinking & wanting to make faster & easy decisions.

@milkdromeda5549

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​@@kizryuver yep

Honestly one of the best "take control of your life" videos I've come across. Not only is it really down to Earth and genuine, but also, your message of "either work or play, nothing in between" is gold. And no, I'm not a young teenager lol. 25 year old checking in.

Thank you, bro.🦄💕 I really needed this wisdom today.

I like the rawness of the video man. Everything authentically said.

I completely agree living the present is the best thing and chasing my dreams!!! Thank you for the advice and goodluck chasing your dreams!

@atomiumjae

2 ай бұрын

thank you bro

that was so powerful and much needed, thank you so much

So I am 47 and you are right. And you phrase it so beautifully. The only thing I can add to this from my much older perspective is that living in the present and spending my time well has mean my life hasn't been boring and I feel it's going to be worth living for the rest of it. Also real life does happen off screen and it is worth investing some time in that. ❤❤

"You didn't know you were making memories, you were just having fun." I've had this quote in the back of my mind for some time now. I'm not a person who thinks about death, as I've understood that it's just a natural thing that's not worth thinking about. Life is meant to be lived, not to be thought out in your head. Enjoy life, go about your day, have fun. Start that project, or continue that project, talk and hang out with your friends and family. Do things even if they might be scary at first. That's what life is about: to be explored, have fun, and be unique to you and your experiences. I truly believe there's not more to it than that, and I'm thankful for that. Because it means I can choose for the most part on how to live it. Do what makes you happy, and if you can't, then strive to get there someday in a way that's meaningful to you.

Just spend around 1-2 hours watching some random shorts and you just snapped me back to reality. Thanks man. Amazing video