if you're avoiding yourself | on the art of being alone

i've got a couple days to myself in tokyo - let's chat about learning to like your own company.
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  • @Yu10395
    @Yu10395Ай бұрын

    Nowadays, many of people are tired of work and feel stressful. They don't even have time to relax or explore something around themselves. Being alone doesn't mean " I like being alone", whereas it means I wanna leave spare time (me time) for myself.

  • @missthys
    @missthysАй бұрын

    WOOOOO!!! An upload, an update!! ❤️🥳

  • @user-ux4ff7tv6i
    @user-ux4ff7tv6iАй бұрын

    Japan is really a mysterious place. After my trip there, I feel more introverted 😮 when I’m doing my stuffs and errands in my life and study. A lot my friends always feared that solo trip would be unsafe and lonely. Every time I’ll respond like “Japan is the most suitable place in the world for solo trip” 😂😂😂

  • @impuredeath2
    @impuredeath2Ай бұрын

    I am happy to see the way you are living your life, you are blessed that life has given you enough power to make your own choices, happy to see someone has more freedom to do what they want in life, in my life I want more solitude but its not so possible but I always try to get as solitude as possible whenever I get chance that means sometimes during my lunch break I go to our building straicase and sit there with myself alone and slient, feel so good, in HK you can hear noise everywhere you cannot escape people and noise, staircase is a best place for my solitude.

  • @rand1008
    @rand1008Ай бұрын

    I love being alone most of the time 🥰

  • @ellachen1999
    @ellachen199914 күн бұрын

    More people need to see this

  • @Masa-yi9pw
    @Masa-yi9pwАй бұрын

    Tokyo has lots of museums. Especially Western arts of the national museum is my recommendation.

  • @jackchen8367
    @jackchen8367Ай бұрын

    Night had already fallen when I emerged from the airport. A night like this in Tokyo, at this moment, only saw sleepy lit streets, completely opposite to the boiling congestion in Shanghai. Tonight, as it should be, was tranquil, very much unlike the daytime here. Two days after my arrival, I headed to Hakone with a friend of mine being my guide. The trip from Tokyo to Yokohama, part of this journey, left almost no impression on me. Other than the clear road, what remained in my mind were sprawling ruins, women in rags and sad folks. As we were getting closer to our destination, many more trees arose, their leaves slightly glowing in the sunset, a road in between winding afar. When we hit a sharp bend of the road, our jaw dropped at the sight of the raw beauty of Mount Fuji towering over crimson clouds.

  • @pompompom328
    @pompompom328Ай бұрын

    As a Japanese, I enjoy solo trip too. In some countries, it takes a bit of courage to go into a restaurant alone, but in Tokyo it's normal.

  • @2428cool
    @2428coolАй бұрын

    i aslo had a solo trip during Febuary this year to Japan, i felt so calm and peacefull.

  • @Enmol123

    @Enmol123

    Ай бұрын

    What’s ur insta

  • @nhyyyy2843
    @nhyyyy2843Ай бұрын

    Thank you for this valuable and informative video I indeed really need this right now due to my current circumstance. Never have I known that solitude is such an art like that after watching this. I def revisit this video few more times later to put real though into it. Wish you all the best and can't never wait to watch your next products

  • @user-pv9zf2hz8z
    @user-pv9zf2hz8zАй бұрын

    Really comforting video, thank you for sharing such wisdom.

  • @lazyhusband
    @lazyhusbandАй бұрын

    The best thing to do alone in Tokyo is…eat ramen!

  • @RS-ff1cv
    @RS-ff1cvАй бұрын

    have you moved to Toyko?

  • @Enmol123

    @Enmol123

    Ай бұрын

    No