I think I have finally realized that I hate being an INFJ. Life is so hard - and I'm the one making it hard. I can fix others but it's hard fixing myself.

@AndriaMendoza

4 ай бұрын

I'm sorry you're struggling ❤ but if it makes you feel any better, it actually WILL get better… and it will be worth it a trillion fold. I feel as if every INFJ goes through this phase once they realize how complex they are. It's disheartening because we genuinely mean well and work hard but yet we never really fit in and most things have always been harder for us in comparison to others but we never knew WHY. We are authentic and intense about everything and that scares, triggers, those who live by cultural norms and traditions because it's all they have. The INFJ remorse lays in the irony of who we are and how it's affected us for the worst- how open minded & understanding we are of others but yet we are constantly misunderstood and miatreaded, how compassionate we are vs how little compassion others give us, how we value harmony & connectedness vs the existential isolation we’ve grappled with since childhood etc. We each thought we were alone in this experience but it gets better once we realize there are others like us!! I found so much solace and healing in connecting with other INFJ’s online. I usually get the best outcomes when I google search my current thought with the keywords “reddit” and “infj” lol. I hope this ramble helps you somehow. You deserve so much love!

@mysticmardi

3 ай бұрын

It helps me! Just recently I managed to get through a really tough transition and I landed on my feet in spades. I have mixed emotions about it because I’m still alone but it’s a new beginning. If I can settle my heart I know there’s infinite potential. Thank you for the encouraging words dear one. It’s the calm after the storm

@markhenry514

27 күн бұрын

Trying to help peep who don't want your help leads to burnout. You're not alone. What INFJs Think They Want: 🤝 Meaningful Connections: You crave intimacy and understanding in your relationships. 🌟 Idealistic Goals: You're driven by a sense of purpose and want to make a difference. 🏆 Recognition and Validation: You want to feel seen and appreciated for your unique insights. 🛠 Perfection and Order: You seek harmony and detest chaos, desiring a structured environment. 🌿 Solitude for Reflection: You need time alone to recharge and maintain your mental and emotional balance. What INFJs Actually Need: ⚖ Balanced Relationships: You need supportive connections that also allow for space to avoid emotional burnout. 🧭 Practical Steps Towards Goals: You need to ground your aspirations in reality with realistic, achievable plans. 🌈 Internal Validation: You need to cultivate self-acceptance and inner confidence, reducing your reliance on external validation. 🌱 Flexibility and Adaptability: You need to embrace changes and imperfections, as perfectionism can be paralyzing. 🕰 Engaging with the Present: You need to practice mindfulness and presence to fully enjoy your experiences. As an INFJ, understanding the difference between what you think you want and what you actually need can be a powerful step towards personal growth and fulfillment. Remember to balance your ideals with practical self-care and embrace the beauty of the present moment.

@LiamRobot2014

22 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing, the root of struggle for me is often perfectionism. When INFJs have such a powerful insight it feels real, and while this insight isn't yet infront of our eyes it feels like its a matter of time before this insight will be infront of our eyes. With inferior extraverted sensing, we're not in reality so its easier to miss reality which often is more comforting than our incredible insights. This can lead to perfectionism, and I realise even if i reach the top level of something, id still feel like I need to push harder because i'm not at the top level of something else. From one INFJ to another, I think and can almost guarantee that you're doing great in life. I bet if another type knew what we do, they would realise that we're great.

@LiamRobot2014

22 күн бұрын

I think Ni is idealising the future and Se is stopping to see how far we've come

We appreciate all that you do for our community!

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

You are welcome 🙏 Jay

Just repeating a comment I left on another video … Thank you, THANK YOU for giving me an explanation for why I’ve struggled so much in life that isn’t mental illness or autism. Discovering this channel feels like a gift from the universe. I’ve never hit the subscribe button so hard. ❤

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

So glad it’s helping you! Thank you for being a part of the circle. Jay

Thank you, needed to hear this. Its rough being a cheerleader for everyone else. We forget to do it for ourselves. ❤

The greatest gift I give myself is a thank you prayer to the Lord , a quiet morning coffee and the rest of the day "is just what it is"; take them as they come...tomorrow has yet to happen and the past is the greatest teacher. Have a great day all.

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing, gratitude is so important. Sounds like you have a fantastic system there. Jay

Discovering I'm an INFJ was a amazing discovery, watching various vlogs on mbpi types and every on on INFJ s it's as if they were describing me. I've done numerous on online tests and every one confirmed I'm an INFJ, and as I discovery more I feel I'm slowly unlocking the inner me.

Excellent, thanks Jay! Love the mountain and forest scenery too. Been through so much, and still standing-this resonates with me today.

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

You’re welcome! Glad you enjoyed it! Jay

Yesterday I was feeling discouraged, and this video is exactly what I needed to lift my spirits and give me the motivation I needed to keep going. Deep down I know all these things to be true, but it is so good to hear it. Thank you so much for this. Thank you for all that you are doing to make life better for all INFJs. You are truly making a difference in people's lives. Yesterday I read your newsletter and you mentioned getting out for a walk, and It motivated me to do so and It felt great. It feels so good to feel understood and valued. Thank you. Please keep these amazing videos coming.

I AM grateful for these affirmations, when I felt really needed to hear them. I AM my own biggest supporter, and embrace my uniqueness as a guilt-free INFJ me. Thank you so much Jay for posting this. ❤❤❤ From India🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

You are so welcome, and yes, we must often affirm ourselves as INFJ’s. Glad this video helped you. Jay

The images of God’s creation in this are wonderful, Jay. His peace and love infuse me, especially reading my Bible. He gives me wisdom and rest. He made me the unique, compassionate person I am and have been since being an aware little girl. God bless you for being my friend! Jae 🇦🇺🧡✝️

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

Yes it is truly beautiful Jae, thank you for watching! Jay

@charlestiraco8634

4 ай бұрын

Hello. I hope you don't mind me bringing to your attention that while reading the Bible on my own, I've found that it never once says that Jesus is God. If you look for a plain scripture where Jesus says, "I am God," you will not find it. Nor will you find anyone saying "Jesus is God." The vast majority of churches in the world teach that Jesus is God, which according to my recent discoveries, is a doctrine based solely on interpretation. That's very dangerous, especially since God says he will not share his praise and glory with another (Psalm 42:8). Remember, this is Satan's kingdom we're in right now, and I believe this is the enemies booby trap under the church waiting to go off at judgment. Look at 2 Peter 1:1-3... "just as there will be false teachers among you, who will subtly introduce destructive heresies, even denying the Master who bought them... many will follow their shameful ways, and because of them the way of truth will be spoken evil of... they will exploit you with false arguments and twisted doctrine." "Denying the Master," how? As shown above, by taking the glory and praise due to God and placing it upon his Son, and exhalting him as God when he's a man like you and me, who has the same God and Father as you and me (John 4:22, John 17:3). To say again, detracting from the work of who and what Jesus is and did, which is his rightful glory, and putting God's glory as Father and creator on Jesus. This worship is causing the Son to eclipse the Father. Jesus never said "I am God." We shouldn't put words in his mouth.

I feel so much better now knowing I'm not mental but infj... it's hard but we remain positive and change the world ❤

I love this-thank you. I am an unapologetic INFJ!!!

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

You are very welcome! Jay

Its so wierd...this has some nuances of "energy and chakra" vibes, which don't match my personal beleifs. BUT the words themselves hit home so quick that I started tearing up. Thank you for posting this

Omg. First of all I love this! Second, it’s hilarious some of the stuff: “I am capable of revealing myself to others at a slow and steady pace.” It reads like a guide to managing my trauma responses - and I’m guessing all our trauma responses. 😂. Seriously tho I really enjoyed this and wrote almost all of them down.

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

lol. Us INFJs know each other well! Thanks for watching, hopefully it will help you! Jay

@AndriaMendoza

4 ай бұрын

I squealed at that exact part hahah ahhh the trauma responses are so real! The lifelong abuse and consistent gaslighting really disoriented my idea of what “normal” conversations are like… the fear of the other person misunderstanding and mistreating me made me do weird things ahhg. It compelled me to overexplaina if my life depended on it (because that's what my body felt like) which always led to me awkwardly oversharing my lore to every person I spoke with. I thought I was talking about my life just like others do lol I quickly realized most people don't relate and therefore I was actually trauma dumping lololol. We live and we learn ❤

*I AM Stayin' Subscribed, & I'm an INFJ To the Max*

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

Great, thanks for watching! Jay

❤ beautiful Jay. I am an INFJ. I must not rescue. I am formidable. I am intimidating. I am a master at synthesis and integration. I must understand. As I grow into maturity, I stand in my own sovereignty. I unnerve people who then 'report me' for dropping their mask. But one thing I do know. The Universe works with me. I am born under a lucky star. I have hawk eyes. I brilliant memory. I see the snakes hidden in the grass. I can pull the world to me and it follows. I must learn not to seek validation, it is my weakness as it comes from those who cannot understand me. I am an INFJ and I am 1 in 100. Listen and you will hear the weaving of poetry, emotion and deep contemplation never heard by you before. I am in fact, way ahead of you, simply waiting for you to catch up. Wise and loving people know this and know how special you are. Trust yourself. Let it out and shock the world. Your purpose in life is to destroy the status quo.😊😊

Wow this was incredible! Thank you so very much for this. I will indeed practice this INFJ mantra everyday. This video has come at a critical time in my life. And I don’t believe it was by chance. I appreciate and respect you sir. Thank you. 😊🙏🏻

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

So glad it helped you! Thank you for watching! Jay

I am going through a really rough patch dealing with grief. This video made me cry so hard. Thank you.

Your voice, visual, an message 🤗 #ThankYou JAY🎉🎉🎉 🔥🔥🔥 ❤*JSS

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

You are welcome! Jay

Thanku so much for this wonderful video ❤❤

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

My pleasure 😊 Jay

Thank you 🙏

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

You’re welcome 😊

You are such a beautiful man, in all the ways. Thank you for this wonderful video. I feel So understood

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

Thanks so much, I appreciate that. Glad you enjoyed it! Jay

As an INFJ from the desert land. I salute you and I deeply appreciate the effort you do and share with us ❤

Beautiful ❤️

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

Thank you! 😊 Jay

The way each affirmation simultaneously empowers me and evokes every emotion I've ever experienced 😂❤ crying because each point was once a journal entry, a serious struggle in my life…. the tears are both happy and sad because those lessons were bruising and arduous but so profound and meaningful. Thank you for creating this video ❤

Beautiful! Thank you ❤️🙏🏼💖

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

You are very welcome!🙏 Jay

This was an answer to prayer. Thank you 🌸

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

You are welcome, I’m glad it helped you! Jay

Thank you : )

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

Welcome! Jay

This is awesome💕💕

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

Thank you! Jay

Love it, Jay!

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

Thanks my friend! Jay

Another great video, thanks! This was a nice way to start the day

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

Thank you, glad you liked it! Jay

Thank you for the encouragement 🙏

I just love this. How unique ❤ - fellow INFJ

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

Thank you, glad you enjoyed it! Jay

I’m feeling all of this and love it ❤!

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

Awesome, thanks for watching! Jay

Thank you! Love from Serbia❤

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

You are welcome! Jay

Thank you for this beautiful, relaxing video full of insights. I appreciate your work so much, thanks for sharing the wisdom you have gained throughout the years with all of us. Be blessed, dear Jay!!! 😇☺💛

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

You are so welcome 🙏 thank you for the comment and for watching! Jay

Somehow.. I cried twice after watching your channel. I feel, I am being understand by someone else.. which I never felt before. Thank you. another me.

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

I’m glad the channel is helping you! Thanks for watching and welcome to the circle! Jay

This helped a lot recenter me today I was feeling anxiety and this helped me undo that anxiety.

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

So glad it helped you! Thanks for watching! Jay

I am Monad ❤😊

Hallelujah praise God thank you Jesus Hallelujah

Thank you for this positive affirmations!

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

You are welcome! Jay

Lovely! Thank you! ❤

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

You are welcome! Jay

Thank you so much for this! 🍀

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

You are so welcome! Jay

Luv this! I’ll listen to this often.

Love this ❤

I love this so much.

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

Awesome, glad it helped you! Jay

Thank you so much for this!

One of the best affirmations I have ever heard, and there have been many of them :) THX

I am

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

Yes, you are! Jay

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This is excellent. Love the specificity and how relatable it all is❤

Thanks ❤

Thanks!

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

Thanks so much! I appreciate the donation my friend. Means a lot. 🙏 Jay

Am I the only INFJ slipping into nihilism? How do you keep yourself hopeful as you look out at the world today?

Bedankt

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for the donation! means a lot 🙏 Jay

❤

Thanks a lot✨ I would like your opinion, I met a woman that I really like and I would like to try to go further but there is a problem. Obviously I have no problem with everyone's beliefs but my love of betterment and improvement but above all of the strength of wanting something and going in the direction of obtaining it means that I am in conflict with its passivity in its potential. Indeed, like each of us, I deeply believe that everyone can improve as much as they want. But she thinks that God will bring the perfect man directly to her. I asked her what if she had to improve for a man, what would she do and she says he will have to love her the way she is otherwise it just won't be the right one. And obviously this answer does not suit me, this fate cannot follow me in my projects and everything. So I would like to ask you, according to you and your experience. Should I try again to discuss it with her or should I give up and move on with my life? Thanks✨

@artistocracy

4 ай бұрын

Hint: she does not have to improve for a man. She is correct in saying that the Lord will bring to her the man who’ll love her for who she is. From the bible: But with God all things are possible~Matthew 19:26

@shiroyami13j19

4 ай бұрын

Well it's correct in this perception of things. If God brings her that man then YES, all will be okay. And she is probably correct. Only problem is that I think in this life, we must move as strong as we want to get what we want and I trust God has always give to us what we need. All is already a gift so go get or stay still. That's my opinion no grief. Thanks for your answer mate✨@@artistocracy

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❤🍑’s

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

:) Jay

Of all your videos, I think this one is a bit exaggerated and maybe even ridiculous. I mean, the INFJ personality is not that amazing. It has many flaws, and I don't think the personality comes close to any kind of perfection, as most people think, but the interest in it is mostly there because it's rare.

@mithrinwow

4 ай бұрын

I think you're misunderstanding the video? This is supposed to be a self help guide for INFJs, because we're so used to supporting to others, but refuse to keep any positive affirmations for ourselves. Accepting ourselves for who we are isn't easy IMO. I'm still in therapy for it.

Note to myself- What INFJs Think They Want: 🤝 Meaningful Connections: You crave intimacy and understanding in your relationships. 🌟 Idealistic Goals: You're driven by a sense of purpose and want to make a difference. 🏆 Recognition and Validation: You want to feel seen and appreciated for your unique insights. 🛠 Perfection and Order: You seek harmony and detest chaos, desiring a structured environment. 🌿 Solitude for Reflection: You need time alone to recharge and maintain your mental and emotional balance. What INFJs Actually Need: ⚖ Balanced Relationships: You require supportive connections that also allow for space to avoid emotional burnout. 🧭 Practical Steps Towards Goals: You need to ground your aspirations in reality with realistic, achievable plans. 🌈 Internal Validation: You need to cultivate self-acceptance and inner confidence, reducing your reliance on external validation. 🌱 Flexibility and Adaptability: You need to embrace changes and imperfections, as perfectionism can be paralyzing. 🕰 Engaging with the Present: You need to practice mindfulness and presence to fully enjoy your experiences. As an INFJ, understanding the difference between what you think you want and what you actually require can be a powerful step towards personal growth and fulfillment. Remember to balance your ideals with practical self-care and embrace the beauty of the present moment.

I AM so satisfied with this video, thanks! 🪄

@INFJcircle

4 ай бұрын

Awesome! Thank you! Jay