What is your take on the INFJ god complex?

@infjmale91

9 күн бұрын

Why do you blink so much?

@infjmale91

9 күн бұрын

Well, okay. I was reading the Bible & the 10 commandments say "Thou Shalt not have Gods beneath me" & "Thou Shalt not have idols". I guess my theory is, why do SOME people think it's okay to be a social influencer especially when it's been proven that people with power & money usually abuse it? Is that why it's 2 of the 10 commandments? It's not everyone. Probably only those with say over 50k subs? Usually start to feel better than others,

@meicaphillips7966

9 күн бұрын

I used to have the god complex really bad. When people would come to me with their frustrations; say level 10. I was able to match it at say level 7 because I understood and here I was able to give my advise, my thoughts and my guidance. I found myself researching things and topics, articles, books; anything I came across and then I would send it to that person thinking this is going to help. This is what they need. What I found is that I gave a lot and didn't receive what I expected which was them to make that change. This was exhausting for me and I wasn't taking care of myself and my needs. What I realize now is that I'm an advocate, I have empathy and want to help. I will do this to a certain extent that keeps me true to who I am but I no longer "go over board" . Because in the end I realize that people are going to make their own decisions regardless and most people are not doers. They're just talkers. I don't sacrifice myself anymore and it feels good mentally and emotionally.

@exhibitjean

9 күн бұрын

Infj's are definitely more aware and mindful than other people, that's why we see problems and the solutions. Just because everyone else has blinders on doesn't mean I have a God complex. But I understand how others can view it that way.

@matthewnottelling4395

9 күн бұрын

​@@infjmale91 She's not a Psychopath

Imagine channelling all that energy you so recklessly put out there into yourself. INFJ, what a beast you are when you show up for yourself.

@Jaanvi.Thakur

5 күн бұрын

Needed to hear this, true thatt!

Your videos have given me the strength to leave a one side, codependent and toxic relationship. I wanted to help him. Six years of draining myself are over, I'm hurting so deeply. But I'm thankful, thank you.

@goontubeassos7076

8 күн бұрын

I can relate, I tried helping her grow and flourish in life. Then she thought she was better than me after I uplifted her, and she left me.

@TurnaboutUOEX

7 күн бұрын

@@goontubeassos7076 She will fall really fast.

Respectfully I think ppl try force us into these roles to control our energy. When we finally wake up to this box we allowed ourselves to be put in, they don’t like when u break free to live for yourself. Setting boundaries. Then it’s we are so mean and arrogant and rude and evil lol. Ppl are a trip. That’s why I stay far away cuz they are addicted to our energy and think they can control it to play second fiddle to them

@Paris-gl1pm

9 күн бұрын

Girl?!!!!! Listen, I agree 💯 %. People call it a god complex when they feel small because you stand in who you are authenticity? 😂. At that point, "I couldn't care less". People try to force you into a well controlled box or something their minds can percieve. Yea, it's a BIG NO for me. I would like to say that, standing in my authenticity, "I don't care what others think". I'm always considerate of others and that cause interal hell fire. Since, I am who I am. They better choose up, kindly and or move around. It's always someone who will cherish the full spectrum of who you are. Maybe not them....then they think we lost? How? How do I loose being true to myself? I'll wait. I think they need to ask themselves, what their internal conflict is with me being me? Cause that's a personal problem. ❤

@Paris-gl1pm

9 күн бұрын

...and with that said, "looks like I'm getting the wrong people away with a quickness!". Mission accomplished ❤

@Myopia2047

9 күн бұрын

Stop gaslightjng being intuitive or kind as God complex we just are empaths and don't have regulated boundaries.

@Paris-gl1pm

9 күн бұрын

@@Myopia2047 facts!

@jasonwimberly5636

8 күн бұрын

True…

Being generous, without asking for anything back except what the other person will naturally give, is a blessing and a beast. I think I need to start walking away faster instead of trying to get to know someone. Better to help someone who i don't know than someone who can hurt me

It seems to me no one has a single thought to grow thicker skin nowadays or better themselves cuz why even do that since everybody around must walk on eggshells and try their best not to offend. People get offended when I buy them a gift, they take my showing of appreciation and love as flirting. People complain that there's not enough empathy in the world however when you do show up for them and let them feel seen and heard they say: Who do you think you are? Just awesome... I'm in my 30s and as an INFJ I realize that being a lone wolf is the only way for me to be happy.

@selorasoulstice

9 күн бұрын

I've come to realize we're truly rare breed and if that means ending up alone but being authentically us, then so be it. There are good people, but a lot of people suck. Right there with you ❤

@superiorone

9 күн бұрын

Couldn’t agree more!

@julitols2082

9 күн бұрын

@@selorasoulstice Thank you for your message ❤

@ilaly6391

9 күн бұрын

I feel this so much.

@elliottsmith7530

8 күн бұрын

agreed, this is the only way. just turned 35 in May. Been on the lone wolf mode for a few years. break up with a gf of a few as well as a falling out with homie of a decade who is narcissistic has led me to this path. my personal life has increased dramatically in relation when i put myself first (socially healthier, more confidence with ladies, went back and finished school, etc).... people are gonna people lol. often times ppl actions arent malicious, theyre just being a person. cant invest too much energy in what ppl have going when it doesnt overlap with the current path....imagine giving the care you want to give to someone to yourself. truly being YOUR own best friend til further notice lbvs. again, as you said, this is the only way.

It's not a god complex. It's a Dear Abby advice column complex. "Hi, how are you. Ohh, I'm sorry to hear that . I know of something that might help you. .." rinse and repeat...

@suemaz9846

9 күн бұрын

I met with a friend who was going through some overt medical issues that affected her appearance. I care of course but could care less about changes to physicality because I see her heart and intelligence plus I have physical affects so who am I to judge. I had said something similar at some point in our lunch convo of “sorry to hear about that...” and didn’t offer help because I’ve learned better to do so, plus she’s a doctor. lol What took me by surprise was that at our goodbye, she mention that I should display “a little less pity.” Oh my I thought! I would never want to offend. I TRULY had not on ounce of pity for her because to me that would be a bit of a superior stance coming from me and I do not believe that, ever. So I took that lesson that perhaps I was empathetic when she didn’t want it which could be seen as perhaps pity. I’m not sure. And that perhaps it was her misperception that I was pitying. Either way I tried to gain and lesson while still keeping the relationship.

This video is perfect timing. Ive been the "savior" at work my whole life. Always doing, fixing, spelling out, and picking up the slack for everyone. I never get anything in return but resentment and being blamed when someone else screws up. It happened again today and i finally snapped. I called out everyone involved and just generally lost my sh1t lol. Im done holding everyones hands and doing everything for them. It will be painful watching everything i built on my own collapse, but i think this is the only way to save my sanity. Im ready to start filling up my own cup as Wenzes so aptly puts it.

I think because of trauma we hang out in the upper chakras (6th chakraish). This probably contributes to the God complex as we see people as they truly are in turn we are able to truly help them, as well we can be very psychic at times

Totally agree, we tend to think for others and neglected ourself , after a while people take us for granted , nowadays I will reject any meetings which I don’t feel like going because it will make myself more lonely with people talking about things which I don’t enjoy

This was a while ago but it went something like this. "You're human. When you started asking for things and not being what they wanted you to be, that upset them." True true. ❤❤❤

@JackieKay11

9 күн бұрын

I can SO relate 👍

Wow I didn't know there was a word for this. My mom and I are INFJs and I really needed to hear this today. She comforts herself by knowing that she gives me everything. She holds onto me instead of my dad. And my dad just wants to be right and gets incredulous with her constantly. I want us to have a normal relationship. For this word my siblings feel anger from me and I stay up all night from insomnia triggered. And my mom uses me to sort of tone her self-image. And she doesn't know she does that. I'm out of high school and I've been through so much muck I consider myself chronically undeserving and just plain stupid because this issue is so complicated. ❤ (Not too many ❤)

This is problematic for INFJ's that have suffered trauma

"No one you can save who can't be saved" ...'all you need is love' the Beatles

I am more concerned about my own growth, I don't have the time or energy to fix someone else. Not to mention I am having enough trouble staying in my own lane❤

Yay! first. As an INFJ ı feel ilke an INFJ

@SECRETPURPOSE

9 күн бұрын

As a Turk ı feel like an INFJ

It's easy to identify with what you share on this video. My personal angle on it came from hearing over and over (when I was younger) about how self-centered I was, and how I needed to be out there "helping people." So I dutifully decided it was time to help people (you know, "We-musnt'-think-only-of ourselves !" ). I didn't start helping at first with the idea of being like a "Savior" to people I was helping, although I did see that it was a good thing to do -except when it wasn't . I also found out that a lot of people's attitude toward being "helped" wasn't always a grateful one. In fact, some of the meanest things that some people said to me in those days were right in the middle of my trying to help them! This was also part of my pre Myers-Briggs and pre-internet days. So I hear what you're saying about the "God complex," and perhaps these negative experiences help me get over it quicker. In listening to you, it confirmed some hunches that I had even back then. When it comes to how we help people and how we can be of service to others, it's good to hear our intuition and feelings. I found this video confirming and very helpful. Good work.

100%. this video will help any infj that hasn’t come to this realization yet . Wish I saw this video 10 years ago , might have stopped me from trying to kill myself. I’m lucky I survived. Love how all your videos are bringing infj’s into the light . We deserve more than what we were brought up to think. We deserve to be treated equally , don’t martyr yourself .

*"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." - Jiddu Krishnamurti* Society's guage/measurement of what is good, bad, godly, or ungodly is already twisted & ever-changing. For this reason, l believe it is folly to let said society define or label you... Doing so is like expecting an unbalanced scale to give you your correct weight. Once society(the scale) becomes godly(balanced), only then will l trust its assessment of INFJs having a God complex. Until then, l take such criticisms as more likely to be projective identification than statements of fact.

Omg 😭 The timing couldn't be any more perfect. 🙌😍 Since yesterday I decided that I, an INFJ, need to have an important conversation with my ESTP husband (don't ask how it happened we've been together for 20+ yrs 😅). I can feel that determined 'God complex' in my mind saying "yeah, we can fix this. I'LL help HIM through it. 💪" 😅 But after listening to your video I can totally see how that would only backfire. My intuition kept calmly saying, "it's not your place to help him make decisions" or "hold his hand." It's that INFJ anxiety that comes from wanting harmony that says "but if I just..." that kept wanting to convince me this was my issue to get involved in. It's so much harder to back off with the one's you love or that are closest to you. 🥹 Love YOUR life and stay strong, fellow INFJs. 💪❤️

@jahayrac8636

6 күн бұрын

Update: FWIW, this conversation went INCREDIBLY well. 🥹🥰 I just stayed true to my own feelings and experiences and the objective facts. He expressed his piece as well and chose to hold himself accountable where needed and what changes need to be made going forward. Which we've both agreed upon. Phew. ☺️ Thanks for the timely video! 🫶

INFJs from age of 23-25 year old, you must focus help groups of peoples more than individuals. If you give 200% for one person it is because that person will change our society or groups of peoples. You can help individuals but it isn't what you're made for. The help of casual individuals live it to INFP,INTP and ISTP. YOUR JOB IS HEP GROUPS AND MASSES. It is actual the real reason the INFJ are worshipped because we are made to change the sociality.

@syedanargis616

5 күн бұрын

Hey We are here ti change the society. Being a infj, I have decided to join civil service of my country. Now I am thinking what path should I take. Should I be diplomat or administrator ? Administrator can work for group of people BUT the problem with it is that it will not give me enough free time which I need But yeah I cam work for many people. Would you please suggest? Bz by reading your comment I wanted to know your perspective in this matter. Thanks

Needed to hear this ❤❤❤ Dearest Wenzes, thank you for not giving up on us

Thank you, I needed to hear this

As an INFJ, I am beginning to recognize relationships where the members (including myself) want to evaluate and help the other. At my current point, I find myself distancing myself from such people before I'm tempted to give too much and get rejected. I currently call this co-dependency. Thank you for this video!

Loved it

do i have God complex or does other ppl have devil complex ^.^?

@roman_kofyno

8 күн бұрын

*ba dam tss*

Wenzes, you are simply awesome and once again you are just so bang on. 👍

Thank you Wenzes.

This video is right on time! With everything I've come to conclusion of lately. Talk about alignment🥰 Thank you so much ❤

This was in my consciousness today and now there’s a video to help me figure it out! ❤

This goes for INFP as well. I was also pushed into saving people around me.

THANK YOU.

I'm an atheist & I definitely believe I'm 'my own god', so to speak. I have learned not to give very much advice, never to have expectations, not to make any assumptions. In short, I can fully allow others to suffer. It's the only way people ever learn.

After more than 40 years, I'm going to a badminton club again for two months. So I tried to behave. You know, drinking something after showering. NOT saying something heavy. I tried just to nod. But I need an indicator in the side of my eye. Green is o.k., but when it becomes orange or even red I must stop!

Huh? I wonder when the INFJ Downplaying Complex video is coming out. 🤔

Thank you so much young woman,i ve been find you since 3 week-end and watch many vids,and again ,you tell me something important about me to help me in my relationships with my behavior and thinking and understanding of my particular personnalitie.you sûre speak about me no doubt about it lol .thks

I have recognized this trait. Though I take it to a much, much higher level. Hanging in there in case it's true. I put on Stabbing Westard's Save Yourself for background music.

That’s why you only choose the ones….that want to be saved….and you have to see some kind of improvement I only save…good people..,that strayed

The door slam happens….because we have given enough….and anymore energy used…would be wasted

This video touched me nbs I was thinking about my whole entire life with this video its suck how we have such a genuine heart and we're always portrayed as the bad guy on what we did right or wrong its like we can never take a break but through this complex we're such strong people and peers wonder how the tf do we still be able to stand we're just tough mfs what else can we say but the people that we love, adore also the ones where we tell somebody about someone we help and tell them to see the big picture but like Wenzes said its only to other people whether want to see or not and as a follower of God we gotta have grace for them no matter how sucky it is especially to those love us but coo with people who don't smh we see everything lol 😆

Calling me out like it's a walk in the park

God complex? Me? no way, I'm fine, it's the rest of the world that's all messed up!

@roman_kofyno

8 күн бұрын

Exactly 😀

@sigmainfjbulgaria4478

8 күн бұрын

There's no way for us to be messed up. We have the almighty introverted intuition. 😅

This video brings up memories of the Heyoka personality where they use indirect/detached input upon others rather than direct involvement.

This video was gold, really needed to hear this! Thank you so much for this video!

Yep, I'm a true INFJ 😂

Yes, I agree. But sometimes, we can't help but feel empathy for those close to us who are severely depressed, even to the point of suicide; sometimes it feels like we want to help them to alleviate their suffering. Sometimes we have no choice. Sometimes we are just someone's emergency option. And that emergency option is only needed in cases of necessity. ... Maybe sometimes we should also respect other people's choices, even if it will kill them.

Looking for INFJ friends🥰 Hey guysss✨️

@NameFirst-jv9gj

8 күн бұрын

Definitely looking for INFJ friends 😊! Hello 👋!

@queengfoods

8 күн бұрын

@@NameFirst-jv9gj Here I ammm✨️

@queengfoods

8 күн бұрын

Any socials you would like me to contact you on?🥰

I have problem differentiating terms like this, and limerence and martyrdom etc. etc what is it differ if I have (quiet type) BPD, and I'm doing this because of fear of abandonment

I hit 444 winner 🏆.

This has brought me so much misery 😢

People don’t want to be saved, so why bother When i learned what i need to learn, problem gone

Sigma INFJ: I was hoping for a battle of the Witt's but, most appear completely unarmed. Sigma, parts of the sum equals 3, = 4. Sigma 5 an object equals it's mass times it's acceleration, quantities indicated standard inherent friction. Deviations of male population probabilities and it's distribution individually that follows a pattern that comes from delta. A classification that belongs to a trine element T3 for men who are considered above and outside the hierarchical diffusion. Indicating Summation of the numbers or quantities of sigma electrons. Indicates a product of values, items with their corresponding frequencies and dimensions all squared deviations from the mean of men and it's dogma. That indicates such a change in it's psychological variables, increments of the population, a mean sum of all scores present in population. It's a logical conjunction which is equivalent to the operational elements in statement. A set of the sum techniques of character and archetype INFJ. The strongest covalent chemical are sigma electrons, atomic orbitals, sigma a constant in Hammett's equation. Rough draft, whatcha think 🤔, hows that sound for a God complex..?

please stop calling me out lol this truth is painful to hear but thank you for the reminder

It's noticeable 😊😊😊 but I don't use that because I have my own unique role as I myself wants 😊😊😊😊 I won't tell them what they have not unless they asks 😊😊😊😊 I will just open up their eyes but they will choose what they want to decide and that's all 😊😊😊

what if two infjs in their god complext lived vicuriously through the other trying to get the other lesser enteties to step into their god comlexes thus removing the god complex problem and the infiority complex issues?

@Judgetheheretic

9 күн бұрын

basically had to leave the church because i pointed out how jesus refferenced psalms 82:6 where god calls us gods. i think you are supposed to feel like a goddess because i beleive you are. if the rest want to be humans shouldnt we not save them from that? lol

I have decided to join civil service of my country. Now I am thinking what path should I take. Should I be diplomat or administrator ? Administrator can work for group of people BUT the problem with it is that it will not give me enough free time which I need But yeah I can work for many people. Please suggest. fellow infj

Huh 😳

People don’t want help

Truth be Told : via God's Chosen Sigma INFJ It's not something, but in the moment of war : 🇺🇦🇮🇱 Creativity is making a difference.🤔

Hi Wenzes, To me, it looks like you make interpretation errors! I had to think about what you were saying a lot here, because it did not sound logic and full of fallacies! But actually there is one fallacy, every time at the end of a logical sentence about our behavior! The behavior, what we used to do, is correct IMHO. I am doing what you say I we are doing as an INFJ. But then the conclusion is twisted around in the opposite direction! It is like; I see a homeless person, I give him or her 20 euros to get some food and pay for the shelter at night and then I walk away feeling better about myself because I made somebody else feel better and knowing I helped that person. And that is it for me, because I am thinking;"If I was that person, I would have liked people give me money for food and shelter! That is it! But then your conclusion is; "No! It is bad, because you do it because you feel better, because you feel like you are above them and that is why they need you and that is why I, In all my goodness for the God that I am, have decided to help them, so they can admire me!" How??? How can you make that stupid twist??? And during the time I was thinking about what you said here I suddenly remembered a psychiater made that same leap once! When I told her I liked to help people and that it made me feel fulfilled and satisfied, she told me I was only doing it for that and thus am selfish and thus it was a bad thing!!! To me, it is a to bizar twist that only bad people can make up because that is what they would think when doing something good for others! They only think in the tit for tat principle! I give you something but then want something equal or better in return! And yes, lots of people (most) do that! But I am definitely not in it for that!!! It is a big offense to me!!! Making people happy and feeling fulfillment is not just to make myself happy and their happiness is a collateral positivity! No! I help others even I get a disadvantage! Not because I think am God! I do not think in that way and these kind of remarks are extremely poisonous in an already poisonous world!!! People are already have other selfish fallacies enough! Like; "If I don't take care of myself, then nobody will!" "I am the main character in my own life and thus I am the most important and have to put myself first before others!" "First I have to be happy in order to be able to make others happy!" All seem to be reasonable statements to live by, but are taken in a way that only taking care for yourself is the only correct way and that that helping others is a weakness, stupid or now even selfish in it own right!!! We live in "Upside down world" these days! Good is bad and bad is good!!! WAKE UP!!! These are all fallacies out of selfishness and self-centered feelings! And yes, they are wrong as hell and the world is living by these rules since the woke has taken over! Everybody has already become a one-man-fascist-group! Don't contribute by making one of the last group that is empathic and non-self-centered join that hideous club of a-social morons and save us from that, not throw us in the same pit with them!!! And I had just the right way of showing how wrong you are at the point were you turning good into bad, but I struggled to make my point perfect again! But see it and know it! Most of us just hasn't got a God-complex! I am humble and when doing better then others, I get frustrated about the others not doing well instead of seeing myself as better and padding myself on the back! Yes, I am proud at myself for living a live in which I try as best as I can to be as I want everybody to be! A good person! And I strive! I am not succeeding to the fullest, because also I am human and have my weaknesses! But to just try as hard as possible is the only thing you can do! And when I lie down on my deathbed and look back I can truly tell myself, I was worth living! And that is my goal and has nothing to do with me feeling better then others and that was what I wanted all along! NO!NO!NO! What you say about others, the accusations, that is right! They do accuse me of the same things! But their feelings about why you doing it are pertinent wrong! That is their wrong interpretation because they are not like us and thus do not understand the intentions of a true INFJ! And thus good is bad, because when they would do that, they would have those wrong intentions!!! It is about intentions! (That is what i wanted to say!) Intentions! The intentions are twisted upside down! My intentions are good and focussed on the helping others part! Not on the "me feeling good about helping others"- part, and thus am better then they are BS! The intention is good and so my behavior is good! No matter what somebody else makes of it! GET THAT! Correct yourself! Yes, I am furious about this, although I do understand the mistake, it doesn't make it right, because it undoubtedly hurt a lot of us by saying such things!!!

But we are all God incarnate! Its no delusion!😆 problem is the other types forgot

Why don't you speak in simple terms, when a bad guy advices his friends it's 😂ok but the infjs is not allowed to advice while you yourself is advising, infjs vision is the one that the world should adapt and not the opposite way 😅 seems like you are saying there are many different ways people can choose and all are true and all are good😂

No one deserves abuse and abusers rarely change. Not trying to change anyone but me.

Sorry W. but in this video you are a bit of full of yourself. I’m INFJ and I don’t feel that I’m that special and unique. Your wisdom in this video makes you that you rather hero in your own mind. If you get absorbed by your own uniqueness, you will become utterly unpleasant and self absorbed individual, be careful of that!

Not trying to save anyone…just living my life. Not anyone’s punching bag. I hear this not judging… it’s cool not to judge.. however you need to classify people and if they are coming at you in disrespectful way you let know and they don’t change.. walk away. Live and let live. Anyone can do whatever they want, not my job to save anyone. Look to Jesus for that! Haven’t even talked to that person in 7 years… if control the dialog you can manipulate how ever you want. I told them to leave my life alone many years ago. Period. You are talking on a dead topic! You don’t hear me speaking or encouraging anything on that forum!

Totally makes sense and there's a lot of space for growth... Thank you for sharing! 🙏🪄💪

Grow your hair a lil longer 🎉

Personnaly i believe in god and god is above us 🫶🏾 im not responsible how people perceive me is the result of their own projection on me. And social media don’t help