"The biggest coward of a man is to awaken the love of a woman with no intentions of loving her."---Bob Marley

@ElevateYourWorth

27 күн бұрын

Women ghost as well. It’s not just a man thing.

@lisajoye5721

27 күн бұрын

@huskymomma444 Yes. It can go both ways. Personally, I would be considerate enough to tell the man something..not just completely disappear.

@PaulGreen11

5 күн бұрын

Bob had children with beyond Rita.

The most immature and disrespectful way to reject someone

@Spinnglish

Жыл бұрын

It does traumatise the ghostee

@creatureofstyle

5 ай бұрын

100%

@r0ck3r4ever

3 ай бұрын

well, if done for the wrong reason yes, but some people need to piss off our life

@creatureofstyle

3 ай бұрын

​@@r0ck3r4ever Then tell them to piss off. I didn't need to piss off. I was kind and nice and communicative and he never said one harsh word to me (we never fought once) he just ghosted. It was one of the most traumatic experiences I've ever had. I wouldn't wish it on anyone

@r0ck3r4ever

3 ай бұрын

​@@creatureofstyle If these people are so unbearable you don't even owe them an explanation, they need to piss off and never return. The message is clear and obvious, it's definitive and nothing can change things. It's that simple, if you got ghosted you should get the message and never try to even think about them, it's their life, they want you out of their life and that's it, silence is golden. Yeah, you cannot learn anything from the experience other than that people sometimes get sick with other's presence in one's life and that's fine. The world is huge, there are other opportunities in life and you don't need to be stuck at such an event. In the greater scheme of things this is just a minor event.

Being ghosted is a sign that they are not the right people for you... a person who is truly for you won't ghost you. At first it's a bit disappointing but after a while you realise it was a blessing all along.

@camrencox1182

Жыл бұрын

That wasn’t my experience. Speak for yourself

@Liuvinna36

Жыл бұрын

That’s true i have been ghosting twice 😢😢😢I feel so sad 😞 he chose for 3rd party 😊

@FatimaTehrani

7 ай бұрын

​@@TCArtStudio If that person was toxic it was your mistake to stay in that person's life and make fall in love You have a problem with yourself

One of My Rules of Life is that if someone doesn't value my friendship theirs is worth even less to me.

Ghosting is the most cruel thing a person can do to someone. Was dating a man for 3 years, suddenly no calls and he was totally unreachable. Each day, you keep hoping you will hear from them. I got busy with work and my cats and friends. Thank you Marissa, your voice is so calming and reassuring. Wonderful encouragement

@appleme5438

7 ай бұрын

Can relate 😢 was dating for 3 years and he ghosted me.

@bluebellbeatnik4945

6 ай бұрын

3 years?! I would die. This is what I feared about the guy I was seeing but I only saw him for 3 months. That's such a bad person. He faked intimacy.

@GlobalFreeLiving

2 ай бұрын

My dad was married to my mother for 30 years and he ghosted her... 30 years and 3 kids. So, at least you didn't have children. People who ghost are unhealthy, hurt, and weak. Be grateful they walked away. The good news is my mom met the love of her life a few years later and remarried the right guy. I think ghosting is a blessing... be grateful.

@Marauder-eu9om

Ай бұрын

A guy I have invested so much time and effort on for 4 months has ghosted me 3 weeks ago, he's been consistently texting and calling me for 4 months, told me how much he liked me and I fell for him too but all of a sudden I have no idea why or what happened. The worst thing is he knew I was also going through crisis in my personal life as my grandfather is very ill and I also had a very important exam coming up he knew all of it yet chose to ghost me 2 weeks before my exam and I was totally distraught and couldn't even concentrate on anything I had so much anxiety and stress and still I'm in the same situation. I know what I went through is nothing what you went through , I can't even imagine what you went through. I'm sorry that this happened to you.

I’m currently being ghosted by my 4.5 year partner. He started giving me mixed signals one day and suddenly disappeared, leaving me feeling like sh*t. I’m 49 and this had never EVER happened to me before, I really never imagined people could do this!! It’s so terribly painful and left me feeling terribly inadequate. Thanks Marisa for this video.

@ashley9776

2 жыл бұрын

Stay strong 💪 I was ghosted by someone I dated only a month just few weeks ago..can’t imagine the hurt you’re feeling 😔 hugs to you. Like my mom says Get Better not Bitter 💕

@alisonl5127

2 жыл бұрын

@@ashley9776 💛🙏

@anitaheart

2 жыл бұрын

@@ashley9776 thank you Ashley, God bless! ❤️

@MsPeppersmom

2 жыл бұрын

My partner of 13 years bought a home and announced he was moving on. He was a narcissist. I was shocked but not surprised. Been healing 2 years now.

@anitaheart

2 жыл бұрын

@@MsPeppersmomhe certainly didn’t deserve you! Showering your healing journey with love and blessings. You are not alone. ❤️

"When you dont heal your wounds, you bleed on people that never cut you" 😢😢😢😢 Woooooooooo

I was ghosted repeatedly by a guy, he kept coming back. Last time he returned I told him to go away and never contact me again. Took my power back. He is a mess of a human being and I deserve better than that which is what I told him. It doesn’t reflect on me, it’s him. So much happier since I dispensed with him.

@dominiquecadet5976

4 ай бұрын

Do you mind sharing what were his reasons for ghosting?

@peaceofmindofpeace1650

2 ай бұрын

Well done. It takes strength.

@rocio7499

Ай бұрын

did he ever come back ? and how long did it take him to come back the the times he ghosted you? was it after a couple weeks, months?

I was Ghosted after 8 years!!! He is obviously avoidant, however that's no excuse for this extremely painful act. How can you disappear after 8 yrs and have completely NO respect for me or the yrs we spent together. This has been the most painful experience of my life. Ironically they called 2 months later demanding their things back and took no responsibility for the pain they caused. He even had the nerve to try and convince me to have sex with them, disgusting!!!! Praying for everyone 🙏🙏🙏

@lbar9720

Ай бұрын

I hope you are better now; but God will remove the wrong one, so that the right one can find you.

@10:03 "Remember, when you don't heal your wounds, you bleed on people that never cut you!"

@worldofwarcraftphoto4282

Жыл бұрын

The most profound statement in this video that applies to healing from any type of experience/trauma

@user-ig4vf8wv7y

2 ай бұрын

Been dating for 2 months and he ghosted me after sleeping with me last week I thought he was the one I felt so alone and sick to my stomach I did text him back saying have i done something wrong it's so awful I try to get my self back together again x

@peaceofmindofpeace1650

2 ай бұрын

​Very painful ppl who behave that way are not healthy and that's not your fault. I'm hurting atm, different situation but i will try to distract myself and keep it moving and in between I cry. It's draining but it will fade day by day they will fade from our system. Hurts to say this bc I care about him but it's true. Best wishes for you ❤

@teal1010

2 ай бұрын

@@user-ig4vf8wv7y You absolutely will get your self together! You’re sincere and ready for a committed relationship! ✅ His loss!

It’s hard not to take it personally when I see she’s remained friends with other people, just not me.

I have been ghosted after a nine YEAR relationship. It feels horrible! Yes, there were red flags over the years.

@HKAMILAH

Жыл бұрын

How have you been getting through it?

Thank you 😊 I was ghosted literally a year ago and I’ve just been healing and loving on myself.♥️

@alisonl5127

2 жыл бұрын

Hurts badly. Happened to me in January, and I think I’m still in shock. Good luck to you💛🙏

@carolehcheng1

Жыл бұрын

Sherry you are not alone. It happened to me last year and i moved on with a man way way better for me. I will never find out why I got ghosted knowing his last message was about how much I meant to him and how important I was to him. Maybe he was sincere, maybe he was lying; doesn't matter now. He is weak and he is a coward. Thanks to him, I got the chance to find someone better.

Such a shame. Started off very strong, unbelievable chemistry but after time to reflect he's not for me, I don't play games when I like someone so to leave me unanswered for 8 days, just unacceptable. I refuse to chase or be his back up plan. Working on myself and my fitness, it's time for 'Me' season 🌻🌸🌿🍃

Wow, thank you for making this video. This doesn’t just happen with first time dates. I’m 29 years old and I am going through this as we speak. We were together for almost 9 years and I got ghosted, no conversation at all, just simply ghosted. This has been extremely painful , a roller coaster of emotions , unanswered questions, self blame, self sabotage, etc. but I am really pushing myself to keep go;ng for ME🙏🏼✨ I just keep reminding myself everyday that there is a purpose in this pain I’m facing today😪

@drishtik6355

2 жыл бұрын

God bless you girl.. ❤

@ashley9776

2 жыл бұрын

Stay strong 🙏🏻

@tarasteward3271

2 жыл бұрын

Get out there date.and when he comes back be extremely cold and say -i thought you died. Then he will know how it feels

@kekkic

Жыл бұрын

Same thing happened to me 😢

@socol76

Жыл бұрын

I’m so very sorry you’re going through this especially after such a long relationship. You are deserving of better. Go out there and find better 😉!

the best revenge is to become successful

I’ve ghosted my toxic siblings. And they don’t care and that shows me that’s why I had to ghost them.

I feel like ghosting is not just when you can't reach or find them at all. It's when you can but they won't respond or respond just with "ok" or "whatever" and similar words that show you that they don't want to talk to you or text you. Or even when they are kinder in a way but never available somehow and never call or text you first.

Being ghosted is terribly painful and the feeling of Ben g ghosted is why I let people know when I’m not interested politely. They still get mad, but I did my part.

@peaceofmindofpeace1650

2 ай бұрын

Exactly. Communicating is best.

I admit I have done this myself before to people who I have spoken to on dating apps and texted for a while. You're 100% right, it's not about them, it's my own insecurities unfortunately. It's the fear of things starting to get more real, maybe getting close to meeting up, and the idea of being rejected by them has lead me to withdraw. I've also been on the received end of the ghost - not a nice feeling at all.

@anatitan5546

Жыл бұрын

I wished you had a anonmynous 1-800 number🌊🏵️🙏💌😶‍🌫️

@rose7777

3 ай бұрын

Appreciate your honesty. ❤thnk u. I was ghosted for saying the truth.

Got ghosted after a 3 yr situationship. I got the courage to tell him to the truth about my feelings for him, and let him know I wanted more.. it’s been two weeks without contact 😔. the deep hurt comes in waves. I really thought we had a real bond/ love for eachother.. it sucks. I will heal though and I will be better for it 💕

@MarisaPeer

11 ай бұрын

You are so wonderful darling I hope you feel better soon

@Inmyownlane808

6 ай бұрын

Same thing happened, after 7 years

@LasBlackUnicrn

6 ай бұрын

@@Inmyownlane808 hope you are doing okay 💕 it’s been 6 months for me. He texted me almost 1 month to the day of the ghosting. I told him it was unnecessary and not to reach out to me again. I still think of him often. But I am doing fine on my own

Oh, “they have done me a favour”!!! Oh!! I didn’t think about it that way, this time!!!

Being ghosted by someone is very hurtful and painful ghosters are a wasted of time

Hard to believe your words. Ghosting is a terrifying xperience. All secrets about him. Ghosting wounded me.

Thank you, Marissa! I was just ghosted by a man I really cared for, right when we had made plans to meet up, and healing from it has been so hard! This really helped put things in perspective for me, and brought about the healing and closure I've needed! Thank you! ❤️

He was secretly in a relationship, hiding it from me. Letting me send him love messages, of making myself a fool, feeling so ashamed having believed someone I trusted, and perhaps even loved.

Only because men are able to shut down better doesnt mean they should do it. We should not excuse them. If they are harming others, they are bad people.

@rose7777

3 ай бұрын

Well said

@peaceofmindofpeace1650

2 ай бұрын

Amen and not all men are like this..i guess de they are in the manipulative spectrum. I have to not beat mysekf up falling for his words. I tell myself I'm sweet, kind and reliable and pretty. I don't feel like it always but in between pain this flow came up to build myself up. Then it hits me again...he is probably gone. Perspective looking for wars to meet and 4 months he consistently told me we will surely meet and build from there ( he is abroad atm, lives near my city ) so it hurts extra bc I thooght it could be finally genuine connection towards love. Meanwhile I'm still hopijg to see his message. It takes time to getting used to the silence and forget.

@peaceofmindofpeace1650

2 ай бұрын

Edit sorry for the typo's in my comment. I'm having a keyboard issue and when I correct them yt is not saving them for some reason.

One of my best friends over a year ghosted me. Not a romantic relationship, but the nonetheless ghosted. No fight. No fallout. Just ghost. So oh well I guess lol

@gotdsinginbug

4 күн бұрын

@zacharystony I ashamedly did this to my childhood best friend in my early twenties. I deeply regret it. The truth was if I had just communicated and had an honest conversation about my insecurity when new friends appeared, it would have been better. Note that it was me and my problem and my sensitivity that led to my action. Roll on years later, I have been ghosted by someone I was dating. The pain was so gut wrenchingly unbearable, it's not as bad now .... but it's left me questioning my self worth, confidence etc etc. Karma came back around over a decade later. I realise now the type of pain I inflicted by ghosting my friend. She did reach out years later and we re-connected but it wasn't the same and even then she never asked why and I avoided talking to her about it. I really wish I had explained to her the reason why ☹️

“Ghosting” might be considered a trauma response. It’s characterized by varying degrees of dissociation. Something in relationship triggers it and, poof, they disconnect and disappear. Negative judgement of the behavior is also a trauma response. The most healing response in return is compassion.

@roxasventus2624

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you ❤️ I love my sp still I don’t understand what caused him to but I forgive him and wish to help him heal I don’t know if it was my subconscious or his that caused it but like you said compassion :)

@msmilano7091

2 жыл бұрын

I used to think that. I gave my “ex@ the benefit of the doubt time after time because I could tell he had been let down by people in the past. It was obvious…. No matter what I did, he carried on disappearing and coming back over and over until I had no self confidence left. I felt like his whipping girl. A grown person knows what they are doing. They have enough self awareness to deal with whatever issues they are facing before getting involved in a relationship. If you are in a place in your life where know you have the potential to hurt someone, leave them alone in the first place.

@Spinnglish

Жыл бұрын

@@msmilano7091 true. It happened to me. Got ghosted. I acted with compassion and at same time i stopped contacting him because i had to protect my self too. I went through the hurt alone and did not seek his attention

Pfff…I was ghosted by a former friend. She keeps on appearing and disappearing on social media but she always blocks me on all social media, always searching my name and blocking me obsessively. I want nothing to do with her, she won’t even get my pity. Thank you for explaining this topic Marisa 💖

@MarisaPeer

2 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome ❤️

Thank you for this video. ,too late for me at 83. I am running out of years - unable to handle any more disappointments and gaslighting.

@MarisaPeer

11 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that

My bff of 10 years did this. I was gutted.

Such good timing. This is physically painful to listen to. I don't think I have or will ever be hurt this much by someone. It wasn't a week it was after many years and many lies. Thankyou!

I’ve watched this video 2 times and it’s saved myself both times. I was in a 9 month long relationship. He said he was coming over and never showed up. I thought he was in an accident but then I realized that he was fine and just blocked/ghosted me.

@user-vb9bq7uj7l

7 ай бұрын

Omg that's despicable! I'm so very sorry u had to go through that!

This was the best ever . Thank you For posting this Marissa 🙏🏼

She is right - I’m older and I get it - if you’re young - listen - don’t wait for them to hurt you to move forward. This is a good video

What is meant for me will come to me. I do not need to chase after things as they may not be for me if I'm having to do so much work. Thank you 💖🙏

First, let me begin with saying I love your work. Aside from having my own private therapist I have been following you Marissa for a really long time

Thank You Marrissa. Great Explanation. Helps stop Self Blame !

Just what i needed to hear today. Thanks Marisa💓

Hi Marisa thanks for sharing another prospective on ghosting. I truly enjoyed this video. Much love Marisa. ❤🤗

This advice really helped. Thank you! 💜

Always calming to listen to you Marisa Thank you very very much 😍❤️

I spent 5years with a person who disappear constantly and I accepted that I deeply understand now why I stood in the unhealthy of both our behaviors I didn't love myself enough nor thought I was worthy out of all that ghosting I learn and recognize what is healthy now thank you it's taken me a long time to forgive myself because I had allow my first marriage to pressure me with intimacy then I thought I found happiness with someone outside of myself which now I know happiness is within so the process on forgiving myself for allowing this in my life receiving and giving back as well out of being hurt made things worst for both individuals so forgiveness is a process that I now know can take as long as I need it and ready

But anyway, really loved this video, Marisa!! I’m really thankful to you for having shared it with us. I have the sensation that you red a comment I could wrote (I don’t remember if I did, actually), under your video I’ve tryied to watch today. Yes, red flags, all over!! A secretive person. Two phones, yes.

Thank you for posting this

I like the phrase: The Ghoster doesn’t tell you something about you, it tell you just about themselves.

It is a pain beyond words to have have been ghosted by more than one person close to me. The pain remains in our core.

Thank you, Marisa!!! 🥰💕💕💕 Today I was just watching why nice people finish to have been rejected and I couldn’t watch and listen for more than two minutes because it hurted too much. Yes, I know I deserve better.

@MarisaPeer

2 жыл бұрын

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This actually really helped. Thank you.

I'm being ghosted by my wife of 20+years. We have 2 kids that are now in college. We weren't even arguing. She just texted me while I was at work that she was not happy with her life and just disappeared. Won't even answer my emails. Very earth shattering!

I am healing from it all and yes it was very painful aside from me trying to forgive myself and others thank you your brilliant and I want to do similar empowering work as yourself because your tactic hands on approach with your amazing examples of how we human operate globally

I was ghosted from my ex. Ni closure no explanation. We lived together for 18 months. We connected a little after though was always met with silence. 2.5 years later I am still wounded and hurt and confused and feel ashamed. I want to understand what happened. I think my inner little girl keeps holding on and waiting for him to reach out. He has reached out indirectly. Though no contact for 2 years now. Most painful thing I have ever experienced.

This happen to me nearly a year ago to a person I loved so much, we dated for five years, however during that time , they would ghost me on and off and each time I would accept them back, which made me weak, because I did not appreciate myself enough. Thank you so much for this video. Everything you said was spot on.

@jhonarivero1747

9 ай бұрын

How did you overcome them?

Thank you and I felt ghosted many times from an ex. She did share explanations but they were on blaming me. Which made me feel like I was damaged as a woman but I realize it had much to do with them thank you and I continue to work on myself and take full accountability for my part in both relationships I had which is teaching me to do better as a human being in this earth of ours

I knew a woman from Brazil that was ghosted by a rock star. He was in an alternative band and he's somewhat famous, especially in foreign countries. Anyway, he was in Peru with his band and he took this Brazilian girl out. She had come to a concert there just to see the band. Anyway, she met him after the show and they went out for a little while. It was like a world wind romance thing. He told her he loved her and wanted to marry her. He was in the process of a divorce and he was about 18 years older than her. She was quite taken with him. Anyway, she was so hurt because he started ghosting her with another girl. And she was so hurt by it that she tried to commit suicide. She was saved, thankfully. But it was incredibly difficult and painful for her. Anyway, she is trying to move on now and she's started modeling. She's so gorgeous I can see why. I spoke to her a couple of times and she really appeared to be a genuinely good person too. She's only on Instagram. No other platforms. But she's an amazing person and I really hope she'll be okay. Hopefully, she'll find the right person and be able to live the life she deserves. Btw, no I am not the person that I'm writing about. I know some people do that but I don't see the reason why? If it happened to me I'd just say so.🤷‍♀️

@zainabrose96

2 ай бұрын

it's so sad.

Thank you for this video. It means so much to me right now. I just got ghosted and it felt so painful.

Having wasted years, not knowing he did not give a hoot for me. But the lack of honesty is hurtful and humiliating. Broken trust……I have no Family or girl friends to share of having been a fool, yes, he has been very secretive, but did monitor my telephone and stalked me.

Thank you for everything

This is what i needed most. Thank you

@MarisaPeer

10 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching and leaving a comment. Regards, Team Marisa

Just watching u my eyes 😢 is tearing exactly what happened to me I have no idea we didn’t had argued😢😢😢

Thank you Marisa! Wish I've seen this when my ex ghosted me after TWO YEARS! (I wish I was kidding - but I am not) Sadly, I let him back in - but NEVER do that to a person who ghosted you. They should not be trusted again. LEAVE - and never look back. Advise from some one who wasted two years on a coward.

@carlah1111

9 ай бұрын

Just going through this after 2 years and blended our 3 kids each (6 kids!) and moved in together and was in pre marital therapy ready to get married! He just moved out out no nowhere abandoned and ghosted me!

I've had to ghost my ex partner who was a narcissist for my own sanity and to heal,first time in my life i've done this but my life and well being is more important.

Ghosting with years of pre silent treatment!

Yes, “even more than once”, is continuously like this. Yes, I’ve continuously been in this situation of “been ghosted”. Yes that’s it!!

Favorite video , thank you thank you ❤️

I also learn some great things from this person who often ghost me and I actually implemented those positive qualities I admire from this past person there were some beautiful amazing memories we created at the beginning of the relationship I learn so much positive and negatives aspect within the relationship

I love you, my beautiful Marissa! ❤️

Was in a relationship for 9 months and one day he said he was going to call me and approcated and loved me so much. Then gone.

@MarisaPeer

9 ай бұрын

Release any negative beliefs that may be holding you back here bit.ly/3ZRKry0 Regards, Team Marisa

OH oh oh I love what you have to say. Thank you soooooooooo much!!! Such validation! A friend of 2 years who I was chatting to daily and sharing so much stuff with daily, just stopped! Out of the blue! When I confronted him about his silence, he said he was being reflective and meditative. I said - then tell me. I will get it. Silence is punishing. My narcissistic mother and ex husband punished me for years with silence - and this friend knew all about that!!!! He said he didn't know! BS!! I have discarded the relationship completely. I am done. Don't mess with me. If I can go no contact with a narc mother and a narc ex husband - together with five former friends - I can do it with another. Done! And as you say - it is not about me - it is about him. Too bad.

Now I know it really was not about me ABSOLUTELY I have to continue working on those negative PARTS I struggled with I also recognize this person was working on themselves but in the process of the relationship was harsh with me and the harshenss just got worst I still send positive mediations to this person life everyone deserve happiness and love

Brilliant thank you ❤️

This is why its hard to be optimistic with online dating. Not sure why people want to contribute to the downfall of what should be a promising experience for vulnerable people.

The explanations were harsh cold hurtful and the actions towards nevertheless, I am focusing on my own behaviors in both relationships and my contributions to the relationship not to repeat those poor habits I am loving myself and being kind to myself a lot more I do positive content on social media but recognize I needed to take a break from such media to focus more on my inner work thank you Marisa I love your soothing calming tone and all your insight ❤

Thank you Marrisa for this video. Love from India

Thankyou,Marisa. I was ghosted 3 weeks ago,and I feel shocked that I chose to ignore the red flags. After a year of online connection,he pulled out twice when we were going to meet up IRL. Now he's completely disappeared from my life. No warning,just 2 or 3 rude and toxic messages before disappearing. I feel gutted, and gullible, for falling for the charm and flattery😢

@MarisaPeer

2 жыл бұрын

Sending you lots of love 💖 Marisa Peer Team

Thank You! Been ghosted over and over, spooked, gaslighted, it is terrifying, some do it just to enjoyanother person suffering g the fear of them.

This is the work I want to do with young women because I am sure there are many women like myself doing this and believe that someone outside of themselves is their whole world

thank you

Guys, if you feel you need to Ghost, Ghost! Your reasons for abandoning that situation are just as valid as theirs. If someone acts like you're an annoyance and then becomes publicly condescending... they should have NO ISSUE with you wanting to GTF away from them.

Can affect my confidence!!! Hope not to but I’m gonna click the link below, for your ultimate confidence meditation!! Thank’s a lot, Marisa!!!

@MarisaPeer

2 жыл бұрын

That's wonderful ❤️ We hope you enjoy this powerful meditation! Marisa Peer Team

@postaelettronica1909

2 жыл бұрын

@@MarisaPeer A few hours later, the person that has ghosted me, called me up and asked me to go to him. I prepaired my bags and switched on my car’s engine, then called this person and told him that I wouldn’t go!!! Explaining him that I can’t respond to his own desires and that he asked me to date, the day before and then missed the date to appear all of a sudden, four and a half hours later!! That’s not how it goes!!!

I stop chasing because the person showed me their resistance and I now know I will never chase anyone I never chase anyone in the way I chase this person subconsciously I was afraid I had never been alone it was my first time ever being on my own so I now see it clear why I chase this person so much

Dear Marisa for the wisdom but I am still struggling with the concept of telling anyone why I am no longer in contact. I assume they know about that the reason was we are not friends or we are not compatible but it's horrible when there is no apparent reason for a person to disappear from your life! Thank you for reaching out and educating the world☆☆☆☆☆

Thank you Marisa

@MarisaPeer

2 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome ❤️

Marissa please speak about closing cycles or closing circles

Yes, it’s never about me, it’s always anout them. No, I don’t think what’s wrong with me for being ghosted by that people, but what should I do to find loving and cherishing people around me. I totally realize that every time, I meet new wrong people, such as false friends, men who don’t love me and so on with workmates and people who really don’t love me.

People who ghost are very sick. Forgive them in your heart and have no further contact with them.

You are like the mother I never had . Thank you

@MarisaPeer

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Thank you for sharing darling it warms my heart

Thank you.Just something I needWonder how you knew.😀

Thank you

@MarisaPeer

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You're so welcome

Thanks

After four months…. He asked me to move in with him two weeks ago and got a key cut for me. We went to bed on Saturday and I woke up at 5am… he was gone… vanished 🤣 I was in shock after having my texts ignored…… Now I just think ‘byeeeeeee!!!!! thank you for the nice bits and thanks for not dragging it out and wasting my precious time’ ♥️

I was ghosted :( I feel better after I watched this.

What of those who ghost you after a 13 year friendship?

@MarisaPeer

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Be strong and grow your personal development. You will get worthy friendships for sure. 💖 Marisa Peer Team

Have realistic parameters about this relationship. Some people don't really want the relationship and do not know what and or who they really want anyway. They may not even think of a few dates or lovemaking sessions as anything serious...they are off to the next challenge or fun time, not wanting any complications. Or they cut and run to avoid a deep conversation... just immaturity and insecurity allow them to put a wall in place. Pick up your pieces and appreciate that your honest heart is stronger and worthy of more.

I so appreciate your words. Two & 1/2 year relationship, &, POOF. He’s disappeared. It’s been 6 months since I heard from him; how long till my heart stops aching? 😑

30 years together and ghosted. So heartbroken! And sad!!

@MarisaPeer

8 ай бұрын

❤️ It's important to surround yourself with positivity and people who appreciate and support you for who you are. Remember, your worth is not defined by anyone else. Keep shining and embracing your journey to recovery and self-love! 🌟❤️💕

Much people did this to me, even today, it happened.

That’s so funny about having 2 phones! My ex had 2 cell phones 😮 since I didn’t know he was in a relationship with another woman for years. I actually saw her a few times but I had no idea they were living together before he started dating me. He owned a condo and he let her live there after they broke up. He rented a room in a house with other people. It was really awkward staying with him since he didn’t have his own place because he owned a condo that he let his ex live in while we were in a room he rented with other people. I of course lived in my own rented house. It’s crazy all the red flags in our relationship I was clueless about. He ended up ghosting me after he moved to another state with his “boss” and she brought them a house. I am so grateful to be done with this madness. Onward and upward! Chalk this up to a lesson learned.

I almost died back in 2022, was in an ICU and I’ve had ongoing health issues ever since. Almost ended up back in A&E again last year. I’m a strong person and I’ve been slowly working up my physical strength, trying to overcome my PTSD, hold down a full time job but one of my best friends since childhood has ghosted me since this happened. Someone who I thought was one of my forever friends and I’m utterly heartbroken. I’ve accepted she wants nothing more to do with me but we’re talking about a friendship of over 30 years just gone. It’s been hard to accept and I never expected this from her of all people. I’ve stopped trying to make contact now with this friend because she’s made it clear she wants nothing more to do with me. It’s difficult to accept and let go. She’s made me feel worthless. I’m still in the early stages of grieving the loss of this friendship that was so important to me. I’m trying to focus on the great friends that have been there for me, supportive and concerned about my well being. But it’s still heartbreaking for me at this stage to understand and accept how brutally she has ignored me and cut me out of her life. One thing I’ve learned about when you get really sick and are recovering you soon find out who your real friends are and warning, it’s the friends you least expect that will cut you off.