If These Aren't My Babies...I Want A Divorce! | KARAMO

Kia says every time she and her husband get into it he accuses her of cheating! Her hubby, Elizer, says if their children aren't his biological kids, he wants a divorce. Today, they're asking Karamo for a DNA test. Will Karamo be able to help this family stay intact or is this the end for this couple?
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  • @lurker616
    @lurker6167 ай бұрын

    There’s no excuse for violence against a partner. Period.

  • @poisonivyheart6621

    @poisonivyheart6621

    2 ай бұрын

    Was going to say just that!! Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @rubyjaez
    @rubyjaez7 ай бұрын

    She’s an abuser and I hate that she’s not being called out on it. When Karamo thought he was beating her he had a confrontational attitude but when she admitted to being the aggressor and stabbing him his voice softened. He needs to leave her and get his kids. It’s clear she’s a raging alcoholic and cannot control her emotions.

  • @kareemt4526

    @kareemt4526

    6 ай бұрын

    Dam you one of the only ones who she it as it is, they still gonna make her out as the victim and the man out as a scumbag either way

  • @BuzziePitch

    @BuzziePitch

    5 ай бұрын

    He explained why

  • @thenewsheriffintown5121

    @thenewsheriffintown5121

    5 ай бұрын

    Dang I agree 100% man you hit it right on the head

  • @feliciaharveyfh

    @feliciaharveyfh

    5 ай бұрын

    Exactly! She is clearly the aggressor and needs to stop it right now and her momma needs to cut it out because her daughter is the starter and the finisher. Women need to keep their hands off of other people’s son because some women like me do not teach their son to turn the other cheek. Everybody son is not Martin Luther king.

  • @Avembe

    @Avembe

    5 ай бұрын

    And THAT's my big issue with Karamo and it's because women are his core audience

  • @chinasmith1920
    @chinasmith19207 ай бұрын

    I’m so glad Karamo is a black man because most people would’ve stopped at that black man beats her. But not Karamo he listened to what he was saying and she’s the aggressor he’s simply defending himself. I hope she gets the help she needs for her anger.

  • @robert123461

    @robert123461

    7 ай бұрын

    I agree bc if they was in front of judge Mathis he would’ve been on his head without hearing him out

  • @MsMVP

    @MsMVP

    7 ай бұрын

    💯

  • @goead

    @goead

    7 ай бұрын

    @@robert123461For real. Judge Mathis always sides with the woman when it comes to violence and child support.

  • @miekaxiii

    @miekaxiii

    7 ай бұрын

    I agree but I wish he put more focus on the fact she gets mad when he’s calm. She doesn’t give him space to cool off and it sounds like she does everything to provoke him 😅

  • @nrozie01

    @nrozie01

    7 ай бұрын

    Yea I'm glad he dug deeper into those accusations.

  • @imhereforitall9218
    @imhereforitall92187 ай бұрын

    This lady & gentlemen is gaslighting 101. She physically beats him, he tries to leave until he tires of her beating him & strikes her back. She is not a victim. This couple is doomed.

  • @alethiacampbell1365

    @alethiacampbell1365

    7 ай бұрын

    Righttt

  • @gwen3277

    @gwen3277

    6 ай бұрын

    It seems like it's actually her being the aggressor because he looks like he wants to cry, walks away & smiles of nervousness. All she wanted was a free DNA test & that's truly sad because as we see they need help.

  • @imhereforitall9218

    @imhereforitall9218

    6 ай бұрын

    They are both a hot mess but he is attractive though. Guuuuurrrllll I know those women in that audience is looking at him sideways... Whew.... @@gwen3277

  • @user-zq6fl5kd3h
    @user-zq6fl5kd3h7 ай бұрын

    It’s the fact it’s black women in these comments talking about her hair like it’s not a bigger deal than her hair right now. Not to mention ; this woman is truly beautiful. It’s sickening how much the black community will attack eachother yet we will attck another race for doing it to us. If we gone stick together that’s what it needs to be ; otherwise we are proving them all right; that we can’t. This woman is saying he’d children hear and see her getting abused and y’all care about her wig ? 😭🤦🏾‍♀️ disgusting. Then some of the women commenting about don’t got nothing on her…. Like bffr. It’s the audacity for me. Then this woman isn’t a victim either because she puts her hands on him too ; so we need to be encouraging them to separate and heal for themselves and if it’s gods will come back together healthy. People are focused on the wrong things and it’s crazy.

  • @danielvidal46

    @danielvidal46

    7 ай бұрын

    This is the comment!! 🙏🏿

  • @germainm82

    @germainm82

    7 ай бұрын

    #FACTS

  • @kaymac7626

    @kaymac7626

    7 ай бұрын

    I only seen one comment but that’s crazy

  • @triniteemoore43

    @triniteemoore43

    7 ай бұрын

    Hate that for us, tear each other down, then downplay it when called out

  • @msohsosolo

    @msohsosolo

    7 ай бұрын

    Your comment should be written in capitalized letters & pinned above all the other comments. Thank YOU for your courage to tell it like it is!👈🏾🙏🏾⌨️💬

  • @littlelamb3656
    @littlelamb36567 ай бұрын

    They’re not going to separate. This is honestly tragic. The both of them should be ashamed for wanting to harm each other

  • @KeepSmiling447

    @KeepSmiling447

    7 ай бұрын

    For real!!!! She like that mess.😢😢

  • @kiraandfamily3545

    @kiraandfamily3545

    7 ай бұрын

    They are

  • @amiyamartin4229

    @amiyamartin4229

    7 ай бұрын

    the main topic of this episode was to not judge ...ppl come here to try to fix their bad habits and get help....

  • @willthebestbest9667

    @willthebestbest9667

    7 ай бұрын

    The thing is they have both accepted the therapy offered by the host! Both want to change

  • @awhynn8270

    @awhynn8270

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@willthebestbest9667I honestly hope they do

  • @Siren_827
    @Siren_8277 ай бұрын

    I don’t like how Karamo didn’t say anything about her hitting him but was ready to call him a women beater.

  • @darrenbennett9132

    @darrenbennett9132

    4 ай бұрын

    It's already double standards off top but with Karamo It's icing on the cake I wonder why 💅🏽🤔

  • @garymcclain3776

    @garymcclain3776

    14 күн бұрын

    Because he trying to be a woman his self 😊

  • @kyashamoten7130
    @kyashamoten71307 ай бұрын

    I love how Karmo handles these situations so gently with full eye contact and understanding. He is not judging anyone but simply wanting to help and share his knowledge.

  • @bmore8338

    @bmore8338

    7 ай бұрын

    Move on sis

  • @r.hhaywood1555

    @r.hhaywood1555

    6 ай бұрын

    He doesn't hold women accoutable,accountable, always the man's fault. ANYWAYS THE SHOW IF WOMEN.

  • @KD-vg1kh
    @KD-vg1kh7 ай бұрын

    I’m glad he out her bc she was tryna paint him 100% at fault

  • @my3babies1038
    @my3babies10387 ай бұрын

    My kids were 17 and 16 when their father moved in because we was having another baby. All it took was for him to raise his voice at me one time, became disrespectful, and disrupt my kids peace, and he was out! Period! I would never mess with my kids psych just have a man in the house.

  • @MsMVP

    @MsMVP

    7 ай бұрын

    🎯💪🏾

  • @graveyardsnipemoony9621

    @graveyardsnipemoony9621

    Ай бұрын

    That ain't the full story stop capping 🗣

  • @driasdream
    @driasdream7 ай бұрын

    She seems to have so much sense. Unfortunately sometimes toxicity just takes hold of individuals and it’s sad. I wish the best for the both of them even if they’re not together

  • @emg.9246

    @emg.9246

    7 ай бұрын

    If she had sense she wouldn’t have dealt with a baby daddy while being a child free women.

  • @imhereforitall9218

    @imhereforitall9218

    7 ай бұрын

    @@emg.9246That part.

  • @imhereforitall9218

    @imhereforitall9218

    7 ай бұрын

    I’m sure she’ll move on after he puts about 5 more babies in her like my Dad with my Mom & spent most of her years despising him & passed most of that toxicity & pain on to us. R.I.H. The scars our parents leave behind. Smh.

  • @kingdjack6

    @kingdjack6

    7 ай бұрын

    If she had sense she wouldn't put her hands on people.

  • @delly_stat

    @delly_stat

    7 ай бұрын

    ⁠@@emg.9246 she wasn’t child free, she has a 13 year old son by another man. Definitely would be sensible not to abuse your partner though.

  • @butyoucancallmesam
    @butyoucancallmesam7 ай бұрын

    Are y'all listening to the same show? She admitted to also putting her hands on him but most of the comments are addressing her needing to leave him. Just as much as he needs to stop, she does too!

  • @zammymynakersnackstbmoth

    @zammymynakersnackstbmoth

    7 ай бұрын

    Well if she "can't" stop, she needs to leave him tf alone. How are you disagreeing that she needs to go?

  • @msohsosolo

    @msohsosolo

    7 ай бұрын

    Absolutely agree! 💯

  • @butyoucancallmesam

    @butyoucancallmesam

    7 ай бұрын

    @@zammymynakersnackstbmoth girl that I ain't my disagreement. My disagreement is that everyone is addressing him being an abuser when she's also an abuser

  • @dianalogan6185

    @dianalogan6185

    7 ай бұрын

    I have two boys nd two girls nd I tell them dont put ur hands on nobody but dont allowed nobody to put their hands on you !!

  • @butyoucancallmesam

    @butyoucancallmesam

    7 ай бұрын

    @@dianalogan6185 accurate! Both are girls and boys need to learn that.

  • @demibutler225
    @demibutler2257 ай бұрын

    I love Karamo, he is so sincere and transparent with helping people.

  • @kennedymaina3591

    @kennedymaina3591

    7 ай бұрын

    Hi demi

  • @darrenbennett9132

    @darrenbennett9132

    4 ай бұрын

    💩

  • @emerson.kateee
    @emerson.kateee7 ай бұрын

    you can literally see her husbands demeanor change as they keep talking. they both genuinely needed help and to tell each other how they felt without it escalating like that in front of those babies.

  • @user-vo5ez9gz7p
    @user-vo5ez9gz7p7 ай бұрын

    You know what I hate hypocritical parents that say they want there children to be in healthy relationship and yet refuse to be a role model for a healthy relationship. If you want to protect a child learn how to protet your well health and wellbeing first so your child knows right from wrong.

  • @chocolatebunnygs
    @chocolatebunnygs6 ай бұрын

    This man really loves her and he's finna cry. Because he don't wanna leave but he know he's risking his life.

  • @Mrkidkid90
    @Mrkidkid907 ай бұрын

    The lack of accountability from this woman is insane. I see her trying to change but she doesn’t want to be judged. This just shows how no matter what gender you are you can be abusive.

  • @Babysuggs-holy
    @Babysuggs-holy7 ай бұрын

    He’s a victim of abuse. I hope he realizes that. That was never said explicitly, and it should’ve been

  • @sharonspence1695
    @sharonspence16957 ай бұрын

    she needs help. She need to talk to someone soon. Praying for this young family

  • @angelamarshall3807
    @angelamarshall38077 ай бұрын

    He knows she not cheating (my opinion though) but the fact they are putting hands on each other is disturbing-the fact of stabbing him with a knife. I’m glad Karamo always try’s to get to the root of the problem. I hope they go to counseling for everyone’s sake. 13, 1 year old, and 7months- they are worth it! ❤

  • @treesnclips5845

    @treesnclips5845

    7 ай бұрын

    She puts her hands on him and he defends himself

  • @MsMVP

    @MsMVP

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@treesnclips5845💯

  • @goead

    @goead

    7 ай бұрын

    How would he know she not cheating? She was in another relationship while he was locked, which is fine, but that makes him question if he’s the dad.

  • @williame.7982

    @williame.7982

    7 ай бұрын

    ...And his 9 year old daughter

  • @anndeecosita3586

    @anndeecosita3586

    7 ай бұрын

    @@goeadIf he questioned being the dad then he should have asked for the test instead of constantly accusing her of cheating or denying the children. I hope the children never overheard him denying being their father. Plus he gets upset if she comes in late but he does it. I don’t know when he went to prison or what for but he should recognize he played a part in creating that situation by leaving her and the children in a financial bind. his children still need to eat while he’s locked up. She needs to go to rehab and learn to keep her hands to herself.

  • @adamraja8695
    @adamraja86957 ай бұрын

    Karamo glossing over her stabbing him is ridiculous. If this was vice versa there wouldnt even be talks about work it out, the conversation would be “get the hell out of there”. The double standards are crazy. And for everyone about to defend her they literally both agreed he hit her back in self defense when she gets physical first. If youre going to be a therapist you Dont allow your own trauma to be the foundation of biased advice.

  • @deenikki9690

    @deenikki9690

    5 ай бұрын

    This. Like what even is the conversation after someone tries to kill you or seriously injury you it’s time to leave. Likewise if you’re so angry and distraught that it makes you violent then get some help and leave that man alone. I don’t agree with how this was handled.

  • @mindmybusiness423

    @mindmybusiness423

    5 ай бұрын

    No he did not. He called her out and said that's not funny. When she gave her excuse he called out the excuse.

  • @mandwandwe73

    @mandwandwe73

    2 ай бұрын

    The advice for them to walk away from the relationship and focus on themselves is addressing the violence matter

  • @charx9149
    @charx91497 ай бұрын

    He knows she's not cheating but he's also knows she's not going anywhere. He just uses her for her energy!

  • @hustleempire6663

    @hustleempire6663

    6 ай бұрын

    Typical woman comment! But u didn't see the part where she is the agressor of domestic violence in thier home and stabbed him with a knife which nearly took his life.

  • @lynneeshadukes7289

    @lynneeshadukes7289

    5 ай бұрын

    Again....she is an abusive drunk. He needs to leave her!

  • @janthomlaw1407
    @janthomlaw14077 ай бұрын

    I don't know why women come on this show and make it seem like the guy they're with are so abusive. This just proves that she has an issues and she has abusive tendencies. I'm glad Karamo recognized it and is offering them both help. It's all about accountability and it takes two to tangle.

  • @TasteMyRainb0w

    @TasteMyRainb0w

    7 ай бұрын

    What also bothered me is that he said he always walks away. That's what men are told to do, but it doesn't work with women like her. Walking away just makes her more furious and she puts hands on him, instead of letting him walk away.

  • @yallknowabby

    @yallknowabby

    3 ай бұрын

    Literally

  • @lesterwilliamsjr649
    @lesterwilliamsjr6497 ай бұрын

    I will never understand these people who constantly accuse there partner of cheating and yet don't leave. People like this don't want a relationship they only want to drama. If they wanted a relationship, they would done something immediately to find out the truth instead of draggings out.

  • @markydan1232

    @markydan1232

    7 ай бұрын

    I mean if you're willing to kill me I don't think cheating is a huge stretch. Just saying, if my partner tries to murder me I wouldn't feel very secure. But hey that's me 🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @kareemt4526

    @kareemt4526

    6 ай бұрын

    Its not easy when you actual care for or love the person in your life, if they truly are important to you it is hard in most cases to walk away especially if you devoted time to the relationship wheter it a friend family or itimate partner

  • @carlastevens242
    @carlastevens2427 ай бұрын

    Unfortuntely, Ive been there. Provoking or hitting a man thinnking because you're a woman he wont hit you back or he shouldnt. Until I learned to control myself I lived in toxicity. I am praying for them❤

  • @LisaFoose-ni7ll

    @LisaFoose-ni7ll

    2 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂 You control yourself when he knocked the s*** out of you. That's when you realized you learned that day.

  • @allanathomas6977
    @allanathomas69777 ай бұрын

    From what he is saying and she has agreed with everything he said she is the one starting all the violence in their household. Women need to stop thinking it is ok to hit or harm a man and then turn around and act like a victim when he defends himself. They both need to coparent and not be in a relationship with each other...

  • @thegirldaina
    @thegirldaina7 ай бұрын

    He is not the aggressor (it doesn’t dispute the fact that he cheated) but I really think when they argue she goes into defense mode when he gets angry because she is still traumatized from her last relationship (being physically abused). Him being angry triggers her and she thinks he’s going to hit her just like the last man did , even if he didn’t abuse her before he went to prison. She definitely needs more therapy and I think he has a right to defend himself if she puts her hands on him. I don’t think he should necessarily use closed fist but as far as shoving her off of him yes.

  • @MegaSimoneB
    @MegaSimoneB7 ай бұрын

    This one gave me a headache. I hate that some people expose children to this type of mess.

  • @nancyiaj
    @nancyiaj6 ай бұрын

    I think he handled this beautifully.

  • @kwynnmccallumbega4705
    @kwynnmccallumbega47057 ай бұрын

    It's a pattern that needs to be stopped. Hopefully Karamo can help you guys before this destroys the family! Aloha from Hawaii....

  • @simone6803
    @simone68037 ай бұрын

    Is there a bias towards women in this comment section? He’s fowl for putting hands on her. BUT SHE STABBED HIM heading towards his heart and had to go to hospital. What do you mean?! She has a drinking problem and had another abusive man around her babies when he was in prison. The lady needs help and so does he. My goodness I feel for them babies! All of them. What they’ve witnessed in life

  • @williame.7982

    @williame.7982

    7 ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @rakn752
    @rakn7526 ай бұрын

    She stabbed him and is the one who can’t keep her hands to herself! Like SIR! I mean I have been pretty ticked at folks in my past and never thought to hurt them! Maybe get away from them and not hear from them but seriously who stabbing someone you truly love!

  • @dianalogan6185
    @dianalogan61857 ай бұрын

    I have two sons nd two daughters nd I tell them dont put ur hands on nobody nd dont allow nobody to put their hands on you !!

  • @nickynick_
    @nickynick_7 ай бұрын

    she gets drunk - they argue - he talks aggressively- that triggers the abuse from the other guy- she fight him- he fights back i understand it now

  • @kareemt4526

    @kareemt4526

    6 ай бұрын

    Or he talks aggressive because she attacks him

  • @ramonabowman7552
    @ramonabowman75525 ай бұрын

    I'm so glad she decided to get the help. The generational curse will be broken. Good job. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @tyteanna5189
    @tyteanna51897 ай бұрын

    If we’re having an argument and it’s escalating beyond a certain point, ima walk away. We can come back when we’re calmer, able to effectively use our words. If I try to leave and you start trying to prevent me from leaving, you damn skippy ima try to ward you off so I can leave. I’m not saying ima just start swinging all sporadically, intentionally trying to cause you harm, but if I wanna leave I should be able to leave. I can honestly understand trying to get someone off of you so that you can leave and deescalate the problem. But abuse is not ok period, from either party

  • @cherililly6378
    @cherililly63787 ай бұрын

    She knew what was toxic before she laid down and had a baby with him 😒

  • @CMichelleWhite

    @CMichelleWhite

    7 ай бұрын

    I guess you don’t listen to the entire video lol. She’s the aggressor 🙄

  • @cherililly6378

    @cherililly6378

    7 ай бұрын

    @@CMichelleWhite I’m not talking about the physical fights 🤣I’m talking about him cheating she knew what type of man he was before she had a baby 💯but thankyou for your input

  • @missantonia14goldsby

    @missantonia14goldsby

    6 ай бұрын

    @@CMichelleWhitebruh they both toxic period .

  • @Obeox
    @Obeox7 ай бұрын

    Some people love toxic relationship !!!

  • @pollyannaprinciple5860
    @pollyannaprinciple58607 ай бұрын

    They both have admitted to putting their hands on each other. Elizer seems like he is dealing with emotional pain and like his pain was overlooked. He just seems like he needs someone to pamper him and make him feel safe and secure so he can let himself be vulnerable and heal from whatever seems to be weighing heavy on his spirit. People always assume that men of color are made of stone. Hope they both get a chance to find peace and happiness in their lives.

  • @pamelamckenzie2685

    @pamelamckenzie2685

    7 ай бұрын

    There is only one race the human race and good and bad in all humans out there.

  • @Same_ol_jee

    @Same_ol_jee

    7 ай бұрын

    I agree

  • @NMinaSh
    @NMinaSh7 ай бұрын

    He knew damn well he’s the father. She needs to divorce his ass and move on he’s a clown

  • @simone6803

    @simone6803

    7 ай бұрын

    I wonder if that’s all you took from this? That he knew he was the father. She should divorce him. And that he’s a clown?

  • @xan8123

    @xan8123

    7 ай бұрын

    @@simone6803ok? your point?

  • @KeepSmiling447

    @KeepSmiling447

    7 ай бұрын

    She’s a damn clown too. They both just want to be on TV!

  • @kingdjack6

    @kingdjack6

    7 ай бұрын

    She a violent drunk nobody going to seriously want her.

  • @simone6803

    @simone6803

    7 ай бұрын

    @@xan8123 Is there a bias towards women in this comment section? He’s fowl for putting hands on her. BUT SHE STABBED HIM heading towards his heart and had to go to hospital. She has a drinking problem and had another abusive man around her babies when he was in prison. The lady needs help and so does he. I feel for them babies! All of them. What they’ve witnessed in life

  • @rodO-bf9hz
    @rodO-bf9hz7 ай бұрын

    12:10. O am DYING at Dude in green a shirt did the road runner neck stick out like wtf when she said "i took him to the hospital tho"

  • @lathessiastevenson8516
    @lathessiastevenson85167 ай бұрын

    She’s so pretty ..I hope they grow up and raise those children together.

  • @JoaddahfromCAMEROON

    @JoaddahfromCAMEROON

    7 ай бұрын

    She is NOT ATTRACTIVE, esp with that AGGRESSIVE ATTITUDE & PARTY CITY WIG😖

  • @tonyaivory772
    @tonyaivory7727 ай бұрын

    I really appreciate how he tries to help both parties. He never is hard on his guest.I respect his views. I pray for his success. Thank you for how you are.Youre helping alot of people.

  • @TootieTootie
    @TootieTootie7 ай бұрын

    This is so sad for their babies. This girl said they “fist fight”, that’s CRAZY. I hate to see young people like this, I hope they get help. They really seem beautiful at their hearts. ♥️

  • @shakeenasmith1193
    @shakeenasmith11937 ай бұрын

    As a mother you don't know what your daughter is doing how do you know wether a woman cheats or not, her mother needs to stay in her place

  • @mar-ei7pz
    @mar-ei7pz6 ай бұрын

    She is the abuser!! He is trying2 get out..but she attacked him.

  • @janetgonzalez3931
    @janetgonzalez39317 ай бұрын

    Who is addicted to watching karamo show

  • @KTQ333
    @KTQ3337 ай бұрын

    People are usually the products of their environment. I honestly feel bad for the both of them. Her mother modeled to her that abuse is normal. The guy seems to have issues with infidelity but he doesn’t seem to be the abusive type. She seems like the aggressor. Either way I really hope that they get the help that they need. I will say it again and again that Karamo is exactly what the black community needed!🙏🏾

  • @anndeecosita3586
    @anndeecosita35867 ай бұрын

    People act like there is only one type of abuse when there are multiple . Some of them include physical, emotional, financial and verbal. They are both abusers. I think they should separate and seek individual counseling. Maybe after they deal with their personal issues they can make it work together.

  • @kaciousrobinson440
    @kaciousrobinson4407 ай бұрын

    She got used to the other man abusing her… maybe she liked the attention or she feels that if she hit him, he will act right. 😢

  • @ablacksquare
    @ablacksquare7 ай бұрын

    Karamo= no judgement. Love this: it’s because of judgments that folks be afraid to address their issues. No cap: We either have been here or have family members that have. I hope they take you up on that offer they deserve and their kids deserve better out of life. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @missjazzy1985
    @missjazzy19855 ай бұрын

    I love how Karamo keeps it real & keeps both parties accountable for their behavior.

  • @bossibunz8143
    @bossibunz81437 ай бұрын

    As someone who has been in an abusive relationship (on both ends). This one triggered me too. His lack of accountability is ASTOUNDING. They both just need to let it go & coparent. I love how Karamo handles these situations. He’s really a gem.

  • @tatifelton6919

    @tatifelton6919

    7 ай бұрын

    Hell mines was a full-blown narcissist I definitely felt this episode smh

  • @goead

    @goead

    7 ай бұрын

    What?? What did he not be honest about? He admitted what he did, but she wouldn’t even directly say she drinks a lot and starts fights.

  • @phasekasumi4459

    @phasekasumi4459

    7 ай бұрын

    I find it funny how y’all turn a blind eye to domestic abuse against men. She was putting her hands on him like that’s was a fight that she could handle and then he reacted back. Men shouldn’t lay their hands on a woman and the same goes for women to men. I think she need to hold her self accountable putting her hands on a man.

  • @williame.7982

    @williame.7982

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@phasekasumi4459That's my thing... to say he doesn't take accountability, but *completely* ignore him saying she stabbed him by his heart and he almost died. That he only fights back, not beat her for shits and giggles... When he walks away from the arguing, she attacks. And none of it started until she got out of the relationship with the guy that was beating her while he was in jail. They're both toxic for each other and need to separate, but to only find fault in him, is just stupid.

  • @bossibunz8143

    @bossibunz8143

    7 ай бұрын

    @@phasekasumi4459 I didn’t turn a blind eye to anything. He lied at first, Karamo had to drag it out of him. I don’t agree that women should just be able to hit on men but it’s obvious what’s going on whether yall wanna admit it or not.

  • @user-qg3gd2uu5s
    @user-qg3gd2uu5s7 ай бұрын

    Karmo does a great job with situations

  • @JC_le_Canadien
    @JC_le_Canadien7 ай бұрын

    No one outside the relationship can say 100% guarantee you know a person isn't or is cheating. Period! Move away from toxic relationships. Non fighting before prison but fighting after prison. Fighting after the abusive previous relationship. Family & individual therapy/counseling is needed, if not required.

  • @Vence58
    @Vence587 ай бұрын

    She said her two children was 1 years old and 7 months….🧐🧐🧐😒😒

  • @zxcccccc1
    @zxcccccc17 ай бұрын

    This is a two person problem and I'm happy Karamo brought that to the forefront.

  • @reginawilliams5472
    @reginawilliams54727 ай бұрын

    he knew those are his kids we was the one cheating .

  • @QteesWorld
    @QteesWorld7 ай бұрын

    He shoud leave her before things get worse... She seems to be the toxic aggressor that starts fights with him. He tries to avoid confrontation but she can't handle that. The two of the together is a recipe for disaster.

  • @mamoyoT
    @mamoyoT7 ай бұрын

    If I was that slow girl, I would have ended the marriage on stage right after getting those results.

  • @dennislawson8713
    @dennislawson87135 ай бұрын

    This is the perfect example that there is always two sides to the story. Yes the husband is wrong for denying the children were not his. We hear the wife’s side of the story and her mother’s version of the husband being physically abusive only to find out that it’s the wife is who is actually the physical aggressor and apparently an alcoholic. Karamo asked the husband “Why don’t you walk away instead of putting your hands on her?” He responds, “I do walk away. I don’t like to argue. But she comes after me and attacks me! I get tired of being hit and I have to fight back! She even stabbed me!” Her response was, “well I took him to the hospital!” This woman is dillusionable! Her mother thinks it’s ok for her to hit him but he doesn’t have the right to hit back. I don’t advise anyone to stay in an abusive relationship. Yes they both need counseling and anger management. But they don’t need to be together. This woman comes from family of abuse. She’s been in other abusive relationships. And she brings her history with her. She will never be in a safe relationship until she deal with her own demons. And her mother needs to stay in her lane. In the end the husband is the one being abused. This is sad. They both need help.

  • @sherrybishop5130
    @sherrybishop51305 ай бұрын

    Karamo Love the lapels you were on your suits and really appreciate your insight you have on situations and most of all the love you show your guess

  • @danielleg2616
    @danielleg26165 ай бұрын

    Karamo truly cares about helping people and doesn't hold back

  • @raraevans9689
    @raraevans96897 ай бұрын

    I hope they can work it out!

  • @aries4901
    @aries49016 ай бұрын

    SHE beats him! And they fight! That is not a man simply abusing a woman. She lied!!

  • @MindYours-bh7zl
    @MindYours-bh7zl7 ай бұрын

    The husband back there smiling is disturbing 🥴

  • @lakeeshastricklin5353
    @lakeeshastricklin53535 ай бұрын

    Mama said a mouth full🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @Jai.3k
    @Jai.3k7 ай бұрын

    One think I like about him he never picks sides of either person he hears them both out and talks to them with the same respect

  • @nathanielbillings8

    @nathanielbillings8

    7 ай бұрын

    That guy is very good at his job I'm pretty sure he has other clients outside of who gets invited to the show.

  • @JoaddahfromCAMEROON

    @JoaddahfromCAMEROON

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@nathanielbillings8I somewhat agree BUT I have seen some bias; he tends to take the side of adult children AGAINST their parents, no matter the situation nor how DISRESPECTFUL OR HOSTILE the kids are...

  • @Lynette_Shine
    @Lynette_ShineАй бұрын

    No judgement here Sis, I appreciate you so much for coming on the show that takes a lot o guts so thank you Sis, you helping so many people - to #healourcommunity. Peace and blessings Family. Thank you Karamo!

  • @blackforestprincess6896
    @blackforestprincess68967 ай бұрын

    MY SISTER FROM ANOTHER MOTHER, YOU JUST HEARD WHAT MUM SAID.... COME ON WALK WALK.... YOU ARE IN THAT RELATIONSHIP ALONE SIS. MOVE ON DARLING ❤

  • @ynotchristian1366
    @ynotchristian13666 ай бұрын

    I love Karamo! There is nothing like Black pain; being understood by other Black people from similar backgrounds! Thank you Karamo! ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @chaneldior9090
    @chaneldior90907 ай бұрын

    He kinda zesty idk 😂

  • @butyoucancallmesam

    @butyoucancallmesam

    7 ай бұрын

    Ok I thought it was just me.

  • @ceeceeceecee5515

    @ceeceeceecee5515

    7 ай бұрын

    factz!

  • @RoseTarot1

    @RoseTarot1

    7 ай бұрын

    What is zesty

  • @cauliflowerpower41

    @cauliflowerpower41

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@RoseTarot1Gay

  • @RoseTarot1

    @RoseTarot1

    7 ай бұрын

    @@cauliflowerpower41 he is not gay

  • @missocean4572
    @missocean45727 ай бұрын

    I find all the smiling immature, especially in this situation & let’s hope the smile stays in 60/70years when he’s by himself in the care home

  • @wildfiregirl1556
    @wildfiregirl15567 ай бұрын

    I believe they can work it out but they got to keep the hands to themselves period. Blessings.

  • @big1ne
    @big1ne5 ай бұрын

    I loved how Karamo addressed this. I love this man's content. So realistic and he tries his all to solve the issue. It's not just about entertainment. She needs serious help,

  • @UriyahMommy
    @UriyahMommy7 ай бұрын

    They are both toxic to each other. Divorce is necessary. Therapy is needed

  • @MsLuverofmusic57
    @MsLuverofmusic577 ай бұрын

    These type of relationships make me not want one. Seems like so many couples are so toxic nowadays and the drama is so not necessary. If you're that unhappy, just leave. My son learned an ex was cheating and immediately left her that same day he found out...no looking back, no physical fights. So yea, just leave and let it go. So many people make too many excuses not to🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @Queensofafrica8
    @Queensofafrica87 ай бұрын

    They don’t understand, Karamo is a mandated reporter…. If they don’t agree to make a change, he is legally obliged to report this…. They need to CHANGE

  • @ItsTasia21
    @ItsTasia217 ай бұрын

    Karmo definitely reading the comments ❤️ he changed his approach to men abuse and I love it

  • @t.ronnyyy3376

    @t.ronnyyy3376

    7 ай бұрын

    Bout time

  • @DejGarrett

    @DejGarrett

    5 ай бұрын

    He's been placing blame on both don't do that

  • @ItsTasia21

    @ItsTasia21

    5 ай бұрын

    @@DejGarrett normally he’ll bypass what the women do and only focus on the man's side

  • @goodncrazynews5691
    @goodncrazynews56917 ай бұрын

    9:09 FASTEST REVELA EVER!!!!!! LOL🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

  • @thealanford4780
    @thealanford47807 ай бұрын

    Yes prison changes a person but does not give him the right to put hands on her!!!!

  • @Chinagalaxina
    @Chinagalaxina7 ай бұрын

    They both need to walk away honestly, once violence gets involved? It’s time to let go because it usually never ends well - They are so adjusted to putting their hands on one another to the point they almost normalize it when they argue which explains their nonchalant demeanors when karamo brought it up, I pray for their kids because it will only lead to generational curses and then finding themselves in similar circumstances - they both seem to have a good bit of trauma, especially since she mentioned after jail he changed and became aggressive.

  • @iambibi616
    @iambibi6164 ай бұрын

    She’s wrong and i’m so mad seeing his pain being overlooked ! He’s suffering

  • @blackforestprincess6896
    @blackforestprincess68967 ай бұрын

    I Kinda feel sorry for him. She needs help😢

  • @naenae5670
    @naenae56705 ай бұрын

    12:10 “i took him to the hospital”😂😂😂😂

  • @courtnee1060
    @courtnee10603 ай бұрын

    I like that Karamo kept listening to figure out who the agressor was. He didn't judge or joke with either of them and was genuinely serious about them fixing or abandoning that behavior for themselves and for their kids. Love Karamo

  • @espiritualme2048
    @espiritualme20487 ай бұрын

    He looks like those yard Jamaicans gangsters from Kingston....😂😂😂😂

  • @moonbeam7151
    @moonbeam71517 ай бұрын

    The education/communication level is beyond me! Have mercy

  • @ri-cee2100
    @ri-cee21007 ай бұрын

    Those poor children, please separate and get help for your kids.

  • @jackwalter5970
    @jackwalter59704 ай бұрын

    He wasn't smiling. That was a smirk.

  • @user-yo6ji6mt6t
    @user-yo6ji6mt6t6 ай бұрын

    His eyes so pretty

  • @johnelmunn6033
    @johnelmunn60337 ай бұрын

    I love their accents 😂

  • @phasekasumi4459
    @phasekasumi44597 ай бұрын

    When the crowd clapped for her talking about “you a man” I’m sitting here like 🤨 if he’s a man don’t put your hands on him… I’ma firm believer of if you put your hands on somebody regardless of the gender be ready to fight.

  • @crazymusicgrlcheesecake

    @crazymusicgrlcheesecake

    7 ай бұрын

    No. Especially not your woman. You don't use your full strength, or you'll see which side the law takes real fast.

  • @phasekasumi4459

    @phasekasumi4459

    7 ай бұрын

    @@crazymusicgrlcheesecake That’s domestic abuse against a man… probably women should feel like that they can challenge a man. He literally said that he could’ve lost his life to her.

  • @blackalphmusicvevo
    @blackalphmusicvevo7 ай бұрын

    The only time we see karamo civil is only when them ladies are on the wicked side

  • @melaniemiller7013
    @melaniemiller70137 ай бұрын

    For the sake of children, you guys clearly don't need to be together.

  • @SharonStar62
    @SharonStar627 ай бұрын

    Now she need to take her children and move on from him her point has been proven..she need to listen to her beautiful MaMa!!! Let him go honey find peace for yourself and your children go b happy let real love respect come your way in due time..💖💖💖😇😇😇

  • @andreabrantley6951
    @andreabrantley69517 ай бұрын

    💭 A lot of those men are on some, I will accuse you to keep the heat off me... That's manipulative gas-lighting and It's selfish and hurtful. Girl move on! (That's not love.)

  • @_beautifullyflawed144
    @_beautifullyflawed1447 ай бұрын

    Sorry mom, but she is not leaving anytime soon. She's busy trying to prove to her cheating husband, that keeps threatening her with divorce, that she is faithful and that the kids are his, so that she can remain in her abusive marriage.

  • @maureenbell8355
    @maureenbell83557 ай бұрын

    I truly believe they should do background, IQ and morality test on couples in order to have children there are some people should not have children or pets this is ridiculous 🤬

  • @Tee-oj9vj
    @Tee-oj9vj6 ай бұрын

    She needs help and does not want it. Karamo offered and she hesitated and said No. She admit stabbing him and took him to the hospital! Dude WTH just bounce. 7 years don't matter. Just be a good dad to your kids.