If introverts were honest with their friends...

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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames3 жыл бұрын

    What would you introverts tell people if you were being honest??? 🙃

  • @Amal91

    @Amal91

    3 жыл бұрын

    I would say: Meeting up is a show and I'm not an actor, so I’ll be a viewer watches your stories... at home 🙄

  • @martialhero9544

    @martialhero9544

    3 жыл бұрын

    "I have many life problems"

  • @alikarimi5606

    @alikarimi5606

    3 жыл бұрын

    I would say: stop saying I’m depressed or I don’t have friends!!!

  • @Geven-wi4lp

    @Geven-wi4lp

    3 жыл бұрын

    Could you leave me alone pls?

  • @faridam9907

    @faridam9907

    3 жыл бұрын

    When they ask " WhY r YoU sO QuiEt ?" I so badly want to say "Stop disterbing me I'm thinking, plus talking will get us both killed in this situation. "

  • @kaydee1721
    @kaydee17213 жыл бұрын

    “Oh, no, I can’t hang out on Saturday because I’ve already mentally prepared myself to do nothing all weekend.” Truth.

  • @mercifulwarrior24

    @mercifulwarrior24

    3 жыл бұрын

    Most relatable one for me!

  • @adrianne9675

    @adrianne9675

    3 жыл бұрын

    It hurts me so much when I don’t get the day I mentally prepared for off 😭

  • @SMya-xk3jr

    @SMya-xk3jr

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@adrianne9675 Literally! I'd be moody for the next day.

  • @Kat-zx2je

    @Kat-zx2je

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is so true

  • @MaxPowers2.0

    @MaxPowers2.0

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah that’s totally a thing

  • @von-fj2rc
    @von-fj2rc3 жыл бұрын

    Being happy when you're literally just sitting next to each other without talking or doing anything is true freindship for introverts .

  • @Ishub

    @Ishub

    3 жыл бұрын

    Relatable

  • @louisejoel

    @louisejoel

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sharing a new software shortcut

  • @dimunnpabebet7040

    @dimunnpabebet7040

    3 жыл бұрын

    Perfect

  • @kiwin7119

    @kiwin7119

    3 жыл бұрын

    My sister and I will be on our phones, scrolling through whatever online, but since we do it next to each other on the couch, it's an "introvert hangout" and counts as sister time.

  • @khadija.8624

    @khadija.8624

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @delaraam4187
    @delaraam41873 жыл бұрын

    i love how he's just staring into space and talking without the smallest amount of emotion in his voice yet for most of us this video hits deep

  • @emp9413

    @emp9413

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ha ha the struggle to emote is real

  • @thecorndogconspiracy1668

    @thecorndogconspiracy1668

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Hopeful same. As I kid, I had to force myself to show my overwhelming gratitude every birthday and Christmas. ... I still have to do that...

  • @delaraam4187

    @delaraam4187

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Hopeful damn i feel you

  • @prjdghyt

    @prjdghyt

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hahahahaha.

  • @ellybean7354
    @ellybean73543 жыл бұрын

    "If I whisper something to you, it's not a signal to repeat it really loudly" Why do people think it's ok to do that!?? It's the worst!

  • @erikas.6790

    @erikas.6790

    3 жыл бұрын

    Because they are stupid, there is no other possible reason

  • @smstnitc

    @smstnitc

    3 жыл бұрын

    some people have no tact, and will never understand why you would whisper something in a room with other people

  • @emp9413

    @emp9413

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol the absolute worst

  • @chocolatebar2306

    @chocolatebar2306

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ikr

  • @TwylaPrice

    @TwylaPrice

    3 жыл бұрын

    Extroverts can't process whispers, they have to hear it. I've made this mistake so much, I just tell my introvert friends "don't tell me your secrets"

  • @mikytaly680
    @mikytaly6803 жыл бұрын

    That awkward feeling when you just mentally answer a message and now you have to decide whether it's less embarrassing not to text back at all, text incredibly late with a random excuse, or buy tickets to Mexico and change your identity

  • @juanitacarrollyoung2979

    @juanitacarrollyoung2979

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @rakhinaik1087

    @rakhinaik1087

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @CrunchyCrustacean

    @CrunchyCrustacean

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is how I react to every single message I get except those from my mum (because she will literally turn up at my house if don't answer within seconds). I'm in a permanent state of stress about it.

  • @TheDawnofVanlife

    @TheDawnofVanlife

    3 жыл бұрын

    So real!!

  • @healingandgrowth-infp4677

    @healingandgrowth-infp4677

    3 жыл бұрын

    Messenger is the worse as you want to know what they have said process it and reply back naturally no matter how long that may take. But then they would have saw you have read it.

  • @StephanieJeanne
    @StephanieJeanne3 жыл бұрын

    My favorite: "If you show up at my house again uninvited I will murder you." I never feel so trapped, as when the doorbell rings unexpectedly. 😬All were relatable.😂👍

  • @Amal91

    @Amal91

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same 🙃💔

  • @lovepantalone_kaeya

    @lovepantalone_kaeya

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why is your comment 10 hrs ago.

  • @StephanieJeanne

    @StephanieJeanne

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lovepantalone_kaeya Perk for Ko-fi "buy Frank a coffee." Check description.😊

  • @lovepantalone_kaeya

    @lovepantalone_kaeya

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@StephanieJeanne OH THX

  • @myeramimclerie7869

    @myeramimclerie7869

    3 жыл бұрын

    immediately turn down any loud volume, hope they didn't hear it in the first place, keep quiet and try to spy on the door to see if it's not the postman bringing an unexpected package 😬

  • @jesusivansegundofaustino8118
    @jesusivansegundofaustino81183 жыл бұрын

    "It's perfectly ok for me if our friendship consists on sending memes to each other every once in a while and replying ha ha" I really felt that 🤧

  • @CyraNoavek

    @CyraNoavek

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes, me too. I feel seen.

  • @jesusivansegundofaustino8118

    @jesusivansegundofaustino8118

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Ciel Phantomhive don't feel guilty. If they really were your friends, they'd have told you so, it's not your fault for not talking frequently with them But..... it's also possible that they didn't told you so you didn't get worried ☺️ Don't torture yourself, just keep doing good ;)

  • @sarahs.9678

    @sarahs.9678

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me and my brother most of the time lol. We’re 30 and 29. 😆

  • @katien3022

    @katien3022

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s for the friends you like but you are okay not knowing deeply or investing much time into 😅 definitely relatable

  • @rada288

    @rada288

    2 жыл бұрын

    ha ha ha !

  • @fakesmile90
    @fakesmile903 жыл бұрын

    "I know we haven't seen each other since 2019, but we've had conversations in my head almost daily so it doesn't even feel that long ago, really."

  • @marianahernandez6198

    @marianahernandez6198

    3 жыл бұрын

    SO TRUE

  • @donjoel6754

    @donjoel6754

    3 жыл бұрын

    Truth

  • @zannatulatia2466

    @zannatulatia2466

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@marianahernandez6198 OML!! TRUE!!!

  • @ynnl74

    @ynnl74

    2 жыл бұрын

    I thought I was the onlyyy oneeeee😭

  • @zannatulatia2466

    @zannatulatia2466

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ynnl74 same xD,

  • @Svenny21
    @Svenny213 жыл бұрын

    "I know it looks like I'm staring into space wishing I was dead..but I'm having fun." This one is so true

  • @neveragain8904

    @neveragain8904

    3 жыл бұрын

    My favorite line.

  • @julieanneherrick7919
    @julieanneherrick79193 жыл бұрын

    Not gonna lie, I've enjoyed spending the past year in my house. Such a relief not to have daily social interaction. Sing it, Frank.

  • @isolated.wallflower

    @isolated.wallflower

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too But I Would love more if it will happen for always but Yaa Without hurting anyone 😅

  • @Kate98755

    @Kate98755

    3 жыл бұрын

    i've worked from home for 7 years...probably added years to my life

  • @zahararay5611

    @zahararay5611

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too! I’m in Ontario Canada, and every time they extended the stay at home order/ lockdown I do my happy dance! 😂

  • @julieomalley9442

    @julieomalley9442

    3 жыл бұрын

    So jealous of you!

  • @pararaeraven5777

    @pararaeraven5777

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me tooooo...am I an asshole for wishing this quarantine to continue longer? Lol

  • @slayre1408
    @slayre14083 жыл бұрын

    Us introverts are just trying to survive out there man. It’s tough living in a world with so many people.

  • @lemonseverything8797

    @lemonseverything8797

    3 жыл бұрын

    I feel you😢

  • @rasheedgregory3459

    @rasheedgregory3459

    3 жыл бұрын

    Maybe it's an introvert who wants to depopulate the earth 🤔

  • @aniao1211

    @aniao1211

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same :(

  • @evimin5326

    @evimin5326

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right

  • @AlexBlank
    @AlexBlank3 жыл бұрын

    If introverts were honest with their friends, would they even have friends?

  • @PlatinumSpirit

    @PlatinumSpirit

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nope

  • @louisejoel

    @louisejoel

    3 жыл бұрын

    I don't have any friends

  • @ChristinaChrisR

    @ChristinaChrisR

    3 жыл бұрын

    Questionable. Edit: one of my partners would love me even more. For the rest of the vanilla/extrovert people, highly questionable.

  • @jessicapierce3027

    @jessicapierce3027

    3 жыл бұрын

    And I'm here asking myself "What's a friend?"

  • @DARKKnight_4419

    @DARKKnight_4419

    3 жыл бұрын

    Not at all

  • @ry8880
    @ry88803 жыл бұрын

    "Wow, we haven't seen each other in months. And that's perfectly all right with me" It's so true, I don't need to go out and it feels great. No talking, no small talk and no people around. Talking for hours with people around is like a nightmare 😬😬

  • @angelsmile538

    @angelsmile538

    3 жыл бұрын

    After all, he can sleep eleven hours 🤛🤣🤣🤣

  • @gaylepeeples9749

    @gaylepeeples9749

    3 жыл бұрын

    No, the nightmare is 'lets go around the room and introduce ourselves.'

  • @ry8880

    @ry8880

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gaylepeeples9749 it's more than a nightmare, It's suicide lol 🤣

  • @angelsmile538

    @angelsmile538

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gaylepeeples9749 I think the nightmare is to know him 🙄

  • @digitallocations1423

    @digitallocations1423

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@angelsmile538 Same here.

  • @SeanWainwright24
    @SeanWainwright243 жыл бұрын

    The social shield is exceptionally accurate. I have a really good extrovert friend that used to drag me to parties. I did pretty well just allowing him to talk and enjoying the back and forth; one of the guys noticed I wasn't talking and took that as a cue that I should be engaged. Within seconds of him introducing himself and attempting small talk, I grabbed my friend by the shoulder, turned him toward the guy, introduced him, and they proceeded to talk for the next 30 minutes. Successful disengage, redirect, and extraction from an uncomfortable bro conversation.

  • @kiwin7119

    @kiwin7119

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm impressed by your finesse.

  • @SeanWainwright24

    @SeanWainwright24

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@kiwin7119 Necessity prompts amazing physical and mental abilities. Awkwardly trying to maintain an introductory conversation with a regular person is one thing...having to do so with a person that’s been drinking is a completely different animal.

  • @spgtio

    @spgtio

    3 жыл бұрын

    brilliantly executed

  • @thetiredworm2100

    @thetiredworm2100

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂🤣✨👌

  • @istari1392
    @istari13923 жыл бұрын

    "I have to go meet up with some other friends. Namely my couch, Netflix, and a bottle of merlot" That was gold 😂😂😂

  • @kiwin7119

    @kiwin7119

    3 жыл бұрын

    My sister basically told me this one evening when i called her to chat. It's a serious need sometimes.

  • @christinetimpson5374

    @christinetimpson5374

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can identify with this 😂 only make it Shiraz 😚

  • @bohemianwriter1

    @bohemianwriter1

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'd trade out the bottle of merlot with a bong, and ready rolled joints.

  • @minjugatto6950
    @minjugatto69503 жыл бұрын

    "If I whisper something to you, that's not a signal to you to repeat what I said very loudly." SOMETIMES IT TAKES EVERYTHING NOT TO STRANGLE THE PERSON WHEN THIS HAPPENS

  • @sanalll2875
    @sanalll28753 жыл бұрын

    “I have a lot of things that I think but never say which is a really good thing for our friendship.” This is so relatable as an INFJ.

  • @saralouback6988

    @saralouback6988

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh yeah, this is so true!

  • @cinnamon.squirrel

    @cinnamon.squirrel

    3 жыл бұрын

    My friend is an INFJ... Should I be scared? 😬

  • @sanalll2875

    @sanalll2875

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@cinnamon.squirrel we are really worst when it comes to tell about things that make us uncomfortable but if it gets really bad you can understand from the behaviors. We start to distance ourselves and even though it is not so obvious you can feel the coldness. If it is not like that you are probably safe 😅

  • @Trident_Gaming03
    @Trident_Gaming033 жыл бұрын

    I didn't know it was a trend between introverts to require over 10 hours of sleep to feel refreshed, I feel slightly less odd now.

  • @DayZGirl101
    @DayZGirl1013 жыл бұрын

    “I’m only here hanging out with you all because I forgot to cancel in time.” *me lol*

  • @josephscottadams39

    @josephscottadams39

    2 жыл бұрын

    Classic!

  • @frankiecarvana4835
    @frankiecarvana48353 жыл бұрын

    Video idea: 16 Personalities as super villains.

  • @sethkreinbrook2092

    @sethkreinbrook2092

    3 жыл бұрын

    Definitely should happen. Do your magic, FJ

  • @rasheedgregory3459

    @rasheedgregory3459

    3 жыл бұрын

    Introverts would be like ninjas/batman if batman was a villain 😐

  • @manchannel7003

    @manchannel7003

    3 жыл бұрын

    Intj then.

  • @zahararay5611

    @zahararay5611

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s a great idea! I really want to see that!!!

  • @eliserw8008

    @eliserw8008

    3 жыл бұрын

    YES😈😂

  • @leech1355
    @leech13553 жыл бұрын

    I only go to parties if I’ve established a social shield pact with another introvert 😂

  • @Kate98755

    @Kate98755

    3 жыл бұрын

    my friend made me stick next to her at our reunion, at the time i didn't know i was an introvert, now i know she is too. have i emailed her...nope, that's what Christmas card time is for

  • @julieomalley9442

    @julieomalley9442

    3 жыл бұрын

    I consider myself a social introvert. I always find the other introverts at the party!

  • @serinas4465

    @serinas4465

    3 жыл бұрын

    I, as an extrovert, am absolutely okay with being a social shield for a friend. I just have to know or I might disappear into some heated discussion about cake.

  • @Kate98755

    @Kate98755

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@serinas4465 be my friend ? 😊

  • @dctdude3342
    @dctdude33423 жыл бұрын

    As an introvert, its p a t h e t I c that I don't want anyone to be in my life and I complain of my loneliness mostly at the same time.. It sucks.. Truly

  • @lwallin3217

    @lwallin3217

    3 жыл бұрын

    How true. Ditto!

  • @dctdude3342

    @dctdude3342

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lwallin3217 🙂

  • @sushih3302

    @sushih3302

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah that’s the thing I’m confused about with introverts. Like, you don’t want me to hang out with you and don’t want to talk, yet complain about being lonely???

  • @dctdude3342

    @dctdude3342

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sushih3302 thats sad.. But truth.. We want to invited but still we wont come.

  • @rockyripvon3279

    @rockyripvon3279

    2 жыл бұрын

    Plot twist: introverts are covert narcissists

  • @RosheenQuynh
    @RosheenQuynh3 жыл бұрын

    If I want to even so much as acknowledge your existence first thing in the morning, as an introvert, that means you're damn special to me.

  • @DARKKnight_4419
    @DARKKnight_44193 жыл бұрын

    "I like hanging out with you, 30 minutes at a time" I felt this- I love talking with my friends but to be honest I like those moments where they go silent and I can just do my own thing.

  • @bohemianwriter1

    @bohemianwriter1

    3 жыл бұрын

    Two introverts and drinking brothers having a beer bender on a Saturday;: Hoarded up with beer, each our own PC, with earplugs..... Only speak when more need of beer, or a musical tune both would appreciate

  • @carumeruchan
    @carumeruchan3 жыл бұрын

    "I can't hang out on Saturday because I've already mentally prepared myself to do nothing all weekend." Veeeeery relatable 😅

  • @GrayStrider
    @GrayStrider3 жыл бұрын

    Mentally preparing for the rest is amazing and some people just can’t understand why don’t I agree to hang out with just no plans for the weekends. Yes, I don’t have plans for the weekends, but most importantly - I don’t even want to have any

  • @inesz.3500
    @inesz.35003 жыл бұрын

    If my friend group was a car, I'd be the trunk cause I just carry/watch over other people's stuff while they go do things and have fun

  • @maggieboyd6858
    @maggieboyd68583 жыл бұрын

    0:51 An alternative would be: I’m only hanging out with you because I couldn’t think of a good excuse to not hang out with you in time

  • @fleurierosa3284
    @fleurierosa32843 жыл бұрын

    “I have a lot of things that I think but never say which is a really good thing for our friendship” Yeah, and it kills me sometimes 😑😑😑

  • @Carol_65
    @Carol_653 жыл бұрын

    “If you didn’t call so much, I wouldn’t let you go to voice mail so much.” I can really relate to this. The message light on my phone says 24 calls. I don’t even want to listen to them. Introvert or not, if I was being honest: Especially while in the car, “You know, you really CAN‘T sing.” “Yes, that outfit does make you look (fill in the blank).” In college (ashamedly), “I’m crushing on your boyfriend.”

  • @StephanieJeanne

    @StephanieJeanne

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love all your "things you would say to people." The first one! How many times I've wanted to say that!😂😂👍

  • @puppilull7830
    @puppilull78303 жыл бұрын

    I'd say "If you see me hiding from you, don't take it personally. It's just you." Though I have to say sitting silently next to my equally introvert friend, arms slightly touching as we searched for various clips to show each other at 2 am in Berlin (not going out despite it being, you know, Berlin) is true bliss. I never fell calmer.

  • @laketoya44
    @laketoya443 жыл бұрын

    "I'm really tired, I only got 11 hours of sleep" Me everyday

  • @katmgorska
    @katmgorska3 жыл бұрын

    you know how vampires cannot physically enter the house when not invited first? 😅 imagine introverts has the power over their house, that people can't show up uninvited, um... "ha ha"

  • @seemagarg5960

    @seemagarg5960

    3 жыл бұрын

    I smell Vampire Diaries 👀

  • @StephanieJeanne

    @StephanieJeanne

    3 жыл бұрын

    Would be great!!👍😉

  • @thatrandomcrit5823

    @thatrandomcrit5823

    3 жыл бұрын

    What are you talking about?

  • @erikajonaha7012

    @erikajonaha7012

    3 жыл бұрын

    I see someone was watching Vampire Diaries 👀😏

  • @ChristinaChrisR

    @ChristinaChrisR

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yesssssss I NEED that to be reality

  • @rae.mashaba
    @rae.mashaba3 жыл бұрын

    Everyone I know needs to watch this, they'd understand my whole existence 🙂

  • @rebekahbertram30
    @rebekahbertram303 жыл бұрын

    “I suddenly lost interest in this conversation and need to go home....like now”

  • @pollackmorgan3149

    @pollackmorgan3149

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hello how are you doing 😊😊

  • @Guitar987
    @Guitar9873 жыл бұрын

    "If I whisper something to you, that's not a signal for you not to repeat what i said really loudly" And that is why I also whisper "do NOT say it out loud"

  • @Sparkda
    @Sparkda3 жыл бұрын

    Something I found interesting: I am an introvert, and I have an extrovert friend I played video games with a lot. There's frequently like 1-3 minute breaks in talking between games and I never thought anything of it. But then he brought up to me that the silence is so awkward for him and I was just shocked when I heard that because it seemed so normal to not say anything when nothing is happening like on a loading screen or when nothing is happening. But to this guy he needs constant conversation about anything but i don't know what to talk about ever.

  • @trishasmith2303
    @trishasmith23033 жыл бұрын

    Can we rewind to the showing up uninvited and add “don’t bring anyone with you and not say anything?” You know I’m only expecting you to be standing at my door, so why is a person I DONT EVEN KNOW, following you into my home?!

  • @bluomiz6857
    @bluomiz68573 жыл бұрын

    _I'm gonna use you as a social shield so, I don't have to talk to strangers_ This is what I always think about when my friends and I are in a public place

  • @ejune12
    @ejune123 жыл бұрын

    i wish i had another introvert friend... my only friend is a total social butterfly and she always drags me along to different social events 😭

  • @Svenny21

    @Svenny21

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can relate, unfortunately. My friend is nice but very social too

  • @sweetpeach3293

    @sweetpeach3293

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have friends that claim to be introverts so they think they get it, but they don't understand that I'm on the extreme side of introversion so I can go weeks without talking to them verses they seem to think one week is a long time.

  • @jaavee551
    @jaavee5513 жыл бұрын

    Usually I don't tell my friends all my opinions, because I think it's wise. Lately, I've been speaking up more, because it's sometimes necessary, and I'm tired of being pushed around, so I'm pushing back 🤷 I might be introvert/extrovert, but I always enjoyed my alone time, and enjoyed being social as well. I seem more introvert now, because I've become choosy about who I want to spend time with, and it's narrowed down to 0. My favorite line is, " I'm still social distancing." and " I didn't get the vaccine yet (which I may never do)"

  • @pollackmorgan3149

    @pollackmorgan3149

    3 жыл бұрын

    How are you doing 😊😊😊☺️

  • @InimitaPaul
    @InimitaPaul3 жыл бұрын

    Friend: Why didn’t you reply to my text? Me: Did it need a reply? Friend: Not really but it’s polite. Me: Am I polite 99% of the time? Friend: Yes. Me:...

  • @burntdumpling2646
    @burntdumpling26463 жыл бұрын

    that 'forgot to cancel in time' is hella real

  • @trackee2024
    @trackee20243 жыл бұрын

    “And let me tell you, these breaks are shot.” 😂 💀

  • @graceimagined4587
    @graceimagined45873 жыл бұрын

    "At this party we're going to I'm gonna use you as a social shield so I don't have to talk to strangers." Amen.

  • @Dr_Nutrition

    @Dr_Nutrition

    3 жыл бұрын

    The main role of my boyfriend in my life

  • @MsMatilda24
    @MsMatilda243 жыл бұрын

    I feel you on the "if you don't call me too often, i wouldn't let you go on voicemail". Coz that's my reason for not answering people back too. Just when i have the courage to call back, the same person keeps calling me back and i end up just leaving it as miscalls and hope whoever's calling, doesn't call again. Same goes with msging.

  • @CherylMotherofSeven
    @CherylMotherofSeven3 жыл бұрын

    My extrovert son walks in to see me and says: "How can you stand living such a boring life" I say: "I thought I was having fun." True story

  • @ti9erlilly
    @ti9erlilly3 жыл бұрын

    As an introverted ambivert, most of these were spot on. I cope pretty well with social interaction, but I only really respond to or hang with a very select group of people. 😅

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle3 жыл бұрын

    i honestly wish people would stop calling!!! If someone calls me, I usually let it ring and then reply back with a text "whats up" hahahahah But I honestly just despise being on the phone so so much

  • @halgallagher4560

    @halgallagher4560

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dude literally soo true, it’s like just text me. Calls make me so uncomfortable 😩😑. Sometimes I even turn off my phone so that it might say “the number you are trying to reach is not available right now” .... am I a terrible person 😂

  • @SamElle

    @SamElle

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@halgallagher4560 you’re not a terrible person!!! I put my phone on do not disturb so all my calls automatically go to voicemail HAHHAHA

  • @TheHermitTeller

    @TheHermitTeller

    3 жыл бұрын

    I've set up a boundary with my friends that they have to text me first to see if I'm available if they wish to chat on the phone. Still doesn't take away the despair of avoiding phone calls but it's a start 😅 semi gives me more control over when it's okay to have them 😅

  • @SamElle

    @SamElle

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheHermitTeller oooo that’s a great boundary!!! I should tell that to my friends too so I just don’t get unexpected calls that rattle me

  • @TheHermitTeller

    @TheHermitTeller

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SamElle 100%. It's okay to NOT be available to our friends all the time at any given moment. If I could, I would go a step further and go back to writing letters to everyone like they did back in the day 🤣🤣

  • @dewdew2460
    @dewdew24603 жыл бұрын

    I'm that Lucky person, who have friends that understand my introversion, and i was already honest by saying all of what you mentioned. And i still have those friends. God bless them.

  • @itiswhatitis922
    @itiswhatitis9223 жыл бұрын

    This hit really hard, but it was also reassuring knowing that other people feel this way.

  • @ahhh4626
    @ahhh46263 жыл бұрын

    Who is spreading rumors that I have friends? 😂

  • @biniamdaniel5815
    @biniamdaniel58153 жыл бұрын

    We should give this guy a name that describes every personality trait

  • @SNinjaQK

    @SNinjaQK

    3 жыл бұрын

    his name is intj

  • @brigitte9999

    @brigitte9999

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SNinjaQK Really I thought he was, INFJ. What a fraud!

  • @biniamdaniel5815

    @biniamdaniel5815

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SNinjaQK No I mean like a name for someone who describes every personality trait. Even Intj.

  • @SNinjaQK

    @SNinjaQK

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@biniamdaniel5815 ok, his name is tank

  • @biniamdaniel5815

    @biniamdaniel5815

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SNinjaQK lol ok sounds catchy

  • @evakatrinaa
    @evakatrinaa3 жыл бұрын

    Having mentally prepared yourself for a weekend of doing nothing is an actual thing and that beautiful space of time must be protected at all costs

  • @pollackmorgan3149

    @pollackmorgan3149

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hello how are you doing 😊😊😊

  • @sypwer
    @sypwer3 жыл бұрын

    I love it, as an ENFP i'd love being someone's social shield. Finding those silent introverts in social occasions and getting to know their mystery. I love adopting introverts and helping them do the social things they want to do but never have the enegry to. I am also terrible at messaging so its totally fine, I like the way we have one month gaps between our meet-ups because this way there's a lot to talk about. I absolutely love my INFPs INTPs INFJs etc.. You guys are my shy cute kittens!

  • @aspannas

    @aspannas

    3 жыл бұрын

    As an INFJ I really appreciate people like this, one of my closest friends who's an extrovert (probably ENFP) is always my "shield" at parties etc. Though when I'm drunk, I can more easily socialize with strangers lol. Most of my friends are extroverts so they are all kind of my "shields" at social occasions.

  • @llllimytizhnria-smlll7456
    @llllimytizhnria-smlll7456 Жыл бұрын

    I should send this video to my friends & my parents so they could finally understand, without me having to tell them in person, why I don't hang out that often with them & why I prefer text messages over calling each other. 😂😅☺️ I relate so much to '' oh, no, I can't hang out on Saturday because I've already mentally prepared myself to do nothing all weekend'' so true!!

  • @CommanderSteelTrap
    @CommanderSteelTrap3 жыл бұрын

    Its really creepy that I looked at my clock at the same time he said “it’s 7:30” and it was 7:30.

  • @sarahmaranhao6483
    @sarahmaranhao64833 жыл бұрын

    " I have a lot of things that I think, abd never say, and that's good for our friendship" that was very thoughtful

  • @pollackmorgan3149

    @pollackmorgan3149

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hello how are you doing 😊😊

  • @evelyynae
    @evelyynae3 жыл бұрын

    I feel lonely with people, but when its just me I don't feel lonely I feel calm and happy.

  • @littlenightmares7910
    @littlenightmares79103 жыл бұрын

    Introverts doesnt like talking but theyre powerful when it comes on texting skills 😌✨

  • @-vida.
    @-vida.3 жыл бұрын

    I love this channel, I don't feel so alone when I see other fellow introverts existing alongside me through the comment section agreeing with everything this man says. Lol

  • @alephnull4044
    @alephnull40443 жыл бұрын

    "I have a lot of things which I think but never say which is a really good thing for our friendship" I relate so hard to this

  • @garbo215
    @garbo2153 жыл бұрын

    Every single one hit the nail on the head. Do any other introverts even shy away from checking voicemails? Just me?

  • @julieomalley9442

    @julieomalley9442

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love voicemail. I don't have to answer the phone. If the voicemail is something important I can call back when I'm ready.

  • @athena03000
    @athena030003 жыл бұрын

    Or “I’ve typed & deleted several responses to your invite, but now I’m mentally exhausted, unable to decide on the best excuse to back out. Going to pretend I never got the invite.”

  • @calatheaflamestar4924
    @calatheaflamestar49243 жыл бұрын

    "I know it looks like I'm staring into space and wishing I was dead, but I swear: *I'm having fun!* " Hahahah this was too funny and *I swear:* As an introvert *I'm having fun* laughing at this statement!!

  • @smstnitc

    @smstnitc

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hate it when I'm in at a party and someone thinks they need to try to talk to me because I look like I'm not having a good time. Well guess what, buddy? You just made it worse.

  • @earthstudent1
    @earthstudent13 жыл бұрын

    “I’ve already prepared myself to do nothing all weekend “. 😂😂😂🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @pollackmorgan3149

    @pollackmorgan3149

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hello how are you doing 😊😊😊

  • @JLFamilySong
    @JLFamilySong2 жыл бұрын

    "I'm pretty tired, I only got 11 hours of sleep last night. " A T-shirt quote if ever I heard one.

  • @millennialsmusicmix
    @millennialsmusicmix3 жыл бұрын

    Honestly? Sorry, I just don't want to.. 😅

  • @gayathrisahana4842
    @gayathrisahana48423 жыл бұрын

    Only after watching your videos did I find out that I'm an introvert lol 😅😂

  • @Lunaluss
    @Lunaluss3 жыл бұрын

    I relate to all of these. And it's even a bit scary sometimes how I can detach myself so easily from people. And yes I'm really having fun while staring into space.. even if I seem as if I wish I were dead.

  • @zaidzahid6409
    @zaidzahid64093 жыл бұрын

    "I am tired. I only got 11 hours of sleep." Relatable 💯.

  • @arnavchelani
    @arnavchelani3 жыл бұрын

    This is so relatable…your my best friend FJ, I never have to talk to you either 😅🤪

  • @Nina21_
    @Nina21_3 жыл бұрын

    Again *100% accurate* 😂I'm gonna show this to all my friends so they start knowig how i really feel 😂

  • @HappilyAnonymousGirl
    @HappilyAnonymousGirl2 жыл бұрын

    Idk why but that part about only getting 11 hours of sleep got me laughing so hard right now

  • @bulldogsnbunniesUK
    @bulldogsnbunniesUK3 жыл бұрын

    💯 You get me! 🙌🏼 We would be such good friends! Wait...

  • @shreyasingh481
    @shreyasingh4813 жыл бұрын

    video idea: if extroverts were honest with their introvert friends. 😂

  • @jennas5809

    @jennas5809

    3 жыл бұрын

    That would be like: "I really wish you would get out of your comfort zone more." Then the introvert friend would be like: "Easier said than done." 😭

  • @shreyasingh481

    @shreyasingh481

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jennas5809 lol true

  • @ellybean7354
    @ellybean73543 жыл бұрын

    Gosh I love this channel

  • @ginathecookie
    @ginathecookie3 жыл бұрын

    "Me needing time to recharge or disappearing has nothing to do with you and everything to de with me needing time alone to recover myself and my energy. Taking it personally, taking it out on me, exploding at me or being passive aggressive about me trying to be myself just makes me less likely to open up to you in the future." kinda goes for anything but this is what I wish I could say to people. Luckily I got some cool people who get it. Who especially get that i may not be stable enough to deal with people or just may need recharging. Unfortunately, not everyone is cool with it, even with a heads up or breadcrumbs.

  • @geshcu
    @geshcu2 жыл бұрын

    “I know it looks like I’m looking into space and wishing I was dead, but I swear I’m having fun.” relatable

  • @nickyvideladorna1135
    @nickyvideladorna11353 жыл бұрын

    I have a very intense friend who says she wants to kidnap me and that she loves me and misses me, and I just stand there and smile like I was sitting on a cactus. Sometimes I smile at her voice messages like I was sitting on a cactus. I once told her "thank you".

  • @faridam9907
    @faridam99073 жыл бұрын

    I love your videos ! You nice keep going

  • @narjaracosta2428
    @narjaracosta24283 жыл бұрын

    I know my friends are extrovert when in all conversations I need to repeat: “let me finish my sentence” 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @fishnewt1331
    @fishnewt13313 жыл бұрын

    0:00-0:03 Ironically, this is a compliment, since those who aren’t friends would tire an introvert the second they lay eyes on said introvert.

  • @jacksonlevy5464
    @jacksonlevy54643 жыл бұрын

    I feel called out by this...

  • @chillz739
    @chillz7393 жыл бұрын

    Title:if introverts were honest with their friends... Introverts:what friends

  • @jaavee551

    @jaavee551

    3 жыл бұрын

    🙋hi but you don't have to answer back 💜

  • @skeletor_118
    @skeletor_1183 жыл бұрын

    "If you didn't call me so much, I wouldnt let you go to voicemail so much" is 100% me to my friend. Especially when he ALWAYS calls when I'm trying to sleep

  • @dmr210
    @dmr2103 жыл бұрын

    that "I mentally prepared myself to do nothing on weekends" is just. so. accurate.

  • @SmittenKitten.
    @SmittenKitten.3 жыл бұрын

    I'm one of those introverts (INFJ) who puts on a good show pretending like I'm extroverted when FORCED to interact, which makes people think I don't like them when I inevitably ghost them later via text. I hate it so much.

  • @ChristinaChrisR

    @ChristinaChrisR

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too. Me too. Sighs

  • @SmittenKitten.

    @SmittenKitten.

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ChristinaChrisR It's awful... :(

  • @sufyb6432

    @sufyb6432

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here! I hate it.

  • @deletodraw1944

    @deletodraw1944

    Жыл бұрын

    if i dont have the pressure to perform, im getting the hell out of there

  • @thegreatsalad
    @thegreatsalad3 жыл бұрын

    These sketches are making me consider that I might be an extrovert 😦

  • @pocolocajuanita

    @pocolocajuanita

    3 жыл бұрын

    maybe these are true for the highly introverted peps, - cause i can relate only few of the mentioned things too but think i'm like a medium level introvert.. - you might be an ambivert?:-)

  • @isolated.wallflower

    @isolated.wallflower

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pocolocajuanita I Can Connect Most Of Them It Means I Am Pure High Level Introvert 😁

  • @Blue-re5gz

    @Blue-re5gz

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pocolocajuanita I agree with you. I was also doubting myself and then I realized, ok I might be an ambivert then. Anyway, the videos are fun to watch, and they help me understand super introverted peps better 😄

  • @Noname-qe5ug
    @Noname-qe5ug3 жыл бұрын

    That’s so good! “I can’t hang out on Saturday because I’ve already mentally prepared myself to do nothing all weekend.” That’s me for almost every weekend👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻why can’t people just understand and accept it so that I don’t have to make up so many excuses. Making up excuses is also very tiring too!

  • @juanitacarrollyoung2979
    @juanitacarrollyoung29793 жыл бұрын

    Oh, hahaha. And, ouch! Two dear old friends are beating down a (digital) pathway to my doorstep (voicemail and texts and emails). And I feel panicked like a deer in the headlights 😂🤔

  • @youarebeautiful9876
    @youarebeautiful98763 жыл бұрын

    0:14 my face when I have to socialize

  • @FruitySwift
    @FruitySwift3 жыл бұрын

    Me: * Clicks on Frank's Video * Mom: *Stares at me* Me: *Stares back* Mom: * takes my phone slowly so I don't notice * Also mom: *walks away with my phone watching Frank James* *Me Realising she took my phone to watch too and is now in her bedroom where I can't reach it* 😭😂

  • @dimunnpabebet7040

    @dimunnpabebet7040

    3 жыл бұрын

    But...why can't she use her own phone?

  • @isolated.wallflower

    @isolated.wallflower

    3 жыл бұрын

    Is She too introvert?

  • @runsprints4life767

    @runsprints4life767

    3 жыл бұрын

    So then how'd u leave this comment?

  • @FruitySwift

    @FruitySwift

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@dimunnpabebet7040 I guess she doesn't want to just go get her phone and search it up to start watching. Taking mine is more efficient in her head I guess xp

  • @FruitySwift

    @FruitySwift

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@isolated.wallflower Yes she is infp and I'm infj and we both love watching his videos and mostly togeather ^^

  • @edolaelektra
    @edolaelektra3 жыл бұрын

    "Well, it's been fun, but it's 7:30 and I have to go meet up with some friends. Namely my couch, Netflix, and a bottle of merlot" I felt this so much. Like, those things are better than people

  • @dragonair2013
    @dragonair20133 жыл бұрын

    The man saw in the vote that we wanted this video the most and saved it for last, what a mad lad.

  • @NAthe1st
    @NAthe1st3 жыл бұрын

    I really liked the video

  • @manager-nim2623
    @manager-nim26233 жыл бұрын

    Last time I was this early I didn't have anxiety

  • @IzzyKawaiichi
    @IzzyKawaiichi3 жыл бұрын

    I love that all of my friends are other introverts or low-energy consuming (energy efficient?) extraverts. We get together two, maybe three times a year for several hours at a time, and then we don't talk to each other again unless some emergency happens.

  • @Mastermint
    @Mastermint3 жыл бұрын

    "I'm only here because I forgot to cancel in time" - I feel personaly attacked right now