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@tobiorola5318

2 жыл бұрын

She'll probably regret what she says

@tobiorola5318

2 жыл бұрын

@Aba & Preach please make this a pin of shame 😁

@Juggtacula

2 жыл бұрын

Bro...thank you guys for posting this whole video. I been trying to find it for like a week now.

@tobiorola5318

2 жыл бұрын

@@Juggtacula 😎

@quietgamer33

2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful stare down 😏

“Sometimes a toxic mother is worse than an absent father.” ~Preach

@kartikayysola

2 жыл бұрын

Preach preaching as usual

@mahad813

2 жыл бұрын

It is💯

@yukicross3917

2 жыл бұрын

Naw the both about the same.

@BlackBeauty2023

2 жыл бұрын

I feel bad for the kids that have to deal with both 🤦🏽. Imagine having to deal with that kinda of trauma.

@TerryBernadinofromReno

2 жыл бұрын

Not sometimes, always.

Mother: *Physically abuses child* Father: *Defuses situation* Mother: "He's a POS"

As I've grown up, I've come to realize that having really solid parents was easily the most impactful privilege I've had. Way too many adults with kids out here not taking it seriously

@noahthenormal

2 жыл бұрын

@@Kate-is5mz Do you mind saying what country you're from?

@PunkMartyr

2 жыл бұрын

Same. Im in a mens group with four guys. I have it good

@fightingblindly

2 жыл бұрын

So many fucked up women and men I meet have no father. It’s just insane. Whether it be the crazy ass women or the nutso incels they tend to have absent or poor fathers. I’m incrediblt lucky to have had PRESENT and GOOD parents.

@agathachris9722

2 жыл бұрын

Really. I'm very privileged in this regard, Thank God. I have two healthy parents who married, stabled themselves, planned for me and hand me and my siblings.

@mega-mind3167

2 жыл бұрын

@@agathachris9722 Same because some of these ppl are ridiculous and embarrassing for parents

Preach's death stare is entirely how i feel when she admitted to dragging her child across a floor and not taking a moment to comfort said child. Where the police and CPS when they are actually needed?

@Catlady-mw4en

2 жыл бұрын

She then said “we’re two women”, like she can’t tell the difference between physically assaulting an 11 year old, and getting into a drunken bar fight with another adult.

@summerrose8110

2 жыл бұрын

@@Catlady-mw4en I got annoyed when she said that. How the fuck is an 11 year kid considered a woman?

@Kaliburrrr

Жыл бұрын

@@Catlady-mw4en I thought it was maybe to suggest they couldn’t hurt each other, but my grandmother used to drag around my mother by the hair, I know that this lady is masking her behaviour and if anything trying to play it down, and it’s still so extreme what she says

In other words: *“I’m a terrible parent because my pride & ego are more important to me than the safety of my child”🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️*

@egobrain6826

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@Rieky22

2 жыл бұрын

Her pride >>> her own child

@atlas4837

2 жыл бұрын

75% single mother households

@atlas4837

2 жыл бұрын

Blame your own culture

@AlexanderSkinnerVids

2 жыл бұрын

Why are they sleeping together in the first place?!?!

I just want to point out: growing up in a stable, 2 parent household is a big predictor for lifetime success. This girlboss "I can do it all on my own" shit is not good for kids.

@janelleg597

2 жыл бұрын

selfishness. narcissism

@suzygirl1843

2 жыл бұрын

It's TRAUMA. Not ego.

@explorer678

2 жыл бұрын

@@suzygirl1843 it's ego

@sl1mreapa398

2 жыл бұрын

@@suzygirl1843 everything isn’t a trauma bruh I’m so tired of hearing people justify ego and fucked up attitude and human beings by saying trauma

@heroine1212

2 жыл бұрын

@@suzygirl1843 it’s ego. Stop calling every shit trauma. My grandparents were traumatized fleeing Germany in WWII and still were good parents. Like real trauma. This shit here is just narcissism

She lost me when she says she knocked her daughter over and dragged her across the floor.

@oncetwice5942

2 жыл бұрын

Same here. It’s very disturbing.

@amarrevolver4452

Жыл бұрын

She lost lost me the moment she opened her nasty mouth

@bbbbbbb51

Жыл бұрын

I can think of a single situation where that could be a just move & even then it's on the extreme side. Like if they're trying to run away or something

The fact that they’re laughing about her physically abusing her child is sickening

@rarrirooster15

2 жыл бұрын

Go along get along crew . Sad shit

@alexxz123

2 жыл бұрын

Admitting to child abuse but it no big deal.

@summerrose8110

2 жыл бұрын

@@alexxz123 I bet you think Seth Mcfarlane romanticizing the Meg abuse is a normal thing.

@mayitakeurhatsir

2 жыл бұрын

@@summerrose8110 tf are you talking about? kick rocks my guy

@yamithagoddess8694

2 жыл бұрын

Literally

Being a single mom has become a badge of honor to the point where chicks would rather lie and deprive their children of a functioning healthy family than be good parents and admit they can’t do it all alone.

@trustme7660

2 жыл бұрын

I just realized they don’t want the father because they want the kid to be raised strong and independent like them they’ll tell the child lies just to create another them wow mind blown

@Flameofblaze7

2 жыл бұрын

Literally saw marriage And still became a “single mother “

@the_gratefulgamer

2 жыл бұрын

It's Generational amongst women. My and my sister's mom did the same bs.

@bdw7254

2 жыл бұрын

@@Flameofblaze7 that’s different because you can’t just Leave a marriage without legal implications.

@Product0fGa

2 жыл бұрын

“proverbial” badge of honor, shit really just a coping mechanism for hurt women to avoid accountability for bad decisions 🥴

She basically said “my child will suffer before I ever ask their father for help”. Putting pride before the health and wellness of your child.

@SailorMoon37

2 жыл бұрын

Nah she said she would rather die than depend on him

@NoLuvRecords

2 жыл бұрын

Child abuse basically

@co-bruh1423

2 жыл бұрын

Someone needs to call DCFS

@chakho8548

2 жыл бұрын

@@SailorMoon37 yes. With no qualifications. So if anyone asked her if there's a threat against her life and her child, she'd answer that she'd rather die than ask him for help. She did not consider what will happen to the child after she got killed. What's important is that she did not depend on the child's father. Don't you see what's wrong with that?

@MelaniaRose

2 жыл бұрын

So true. I don’t understand women who are too proud to ask for help from The father of their child.

I had to take my daughters mom to court bc she's like this. Didn't even let me see her. Heart goes out to other men in the same positions.

@burmessafox3939

2 жыл бұрын

Hope it went well with you

@matthewatwood8641

2 жыл бұрын

Mom &/or stepmom with the narcissistic control obsession.

Son of a single mother here, I resent my mother for certain things she's done to me in my childhood, can't trust her with any of my secrets even if my life depended on it. I heard this saying from on of my life mentor's/father figures in my life, "you can love your parents but you don't have to like them"

Once I realized she was talking about having a knockdown drag out fight, literally dragging her daughter across the room, and the girl is 11…. I dropped the phone. If she’s being honest, talk about potential trauma inducing actions as a parent. Geez

@fokare692

2 жыл бұрын

Right like you’re not a girl boss single mom, you’re an abusive parent scarring your kids for life.

@johntherevelator2020

2 жыл бұрын

What part of the video was that convo?

@johntherevelator2020

2 жыл бұрын

Found it.

@kristinholden4334

2 жыл бұрын

@@johntherevelator2020 at 12:38 in this video

@johntherevelator2020

2 жыл бұрын

@Kristin Holden I found it and wow. I know the saying goes, 'your children are not your friends,' but that doesn't make them your enemies either. She should be ashamed of herself but I think she feels the opposite.

There's a reason pride comes before fall. Pride can be an illusion of independence and competence. We all need support of others.

@augustadaluz9031

2 жыл бұрын

That's right! Humans are not independent. We thrive as a community. we are social beings

@tonybablony2041

2 жыл бұрын

Ong like imagine if a caveman was like “ima murk this mammoth by myself” like ok dude, sure bud😅

@bashengatheblackmanta7003

2 жыл бұрын

Well said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 This should be pin

@ErgoProxy12345

2 жыл бұрын

There is a reason most religions made Pride a sin (or a similar concept)

@c0nc3ntr8d6

2 жыл бұрын

If you ask many successful people, they will tell you they would have never made it without the help of many others.

my mother was very manipulative. she abused us emotional, mentally, and financially. she used to beat the shit out of us when we did something we're not spouse to do . when my mom died almost two months ago , I didn't feel anything. some parents are not parent material.

@noone2706

Жыл бұрын

That's horrible...I hope life has taken a turn for the better

@bbbbbbb51

Жыл бұрын

My own mother is extremely manipulative & all of us kids have a complex relationship with her as a result. Deep down she's a really sweet & caring woman, but that manipulation comes out so easily for her it's detestable. You can call out the manipulation in the moment & she won't even recognize what she just did. It's tough. Our dad is a lot more reasonable & turbulent, which explains why they're still together after all these years. All of us would have a better relationship with him too if she could curb her bad behavior. Frustrating. We still love & see them both though. I'll still cry when she dies for sure. Sometimes I think it's easier to have a parent who's a complete piece of shit cause you can just cut them out & it's easy & understandable.

I was a single mom for awhile. I would call the dad to make decisions and when I needed help parenting, but a lot of the time he just didn't want to help. I gave it my all to make him a part of my son's life and unfortunately he just couldn't make him a priority. I would also never fight with my child like that. There is a difference between parenting/ discipline and throwing fists like a teenager. Sometimes you just have to breath and be the adult of the house. I just disagree with them(the girls) in some ways.

@marsmith1907

2 жыл бұрын

Nope

@syedharis1906

Жыл бұрын

i would like to hear your bd story too....

“That’s the dumbest shit ever.” Correct!

@DadsCigaretteRun

2 жыл бұрын

His face 😂 glorious

@pumelelabanca1442

2 жыл бұрын

Home run right there. You can not let dumb ish slide.

@benjaminnixon5770

2 жыл бұрын

The amount of silence after he said that made me feel fuzzy on the inside .

@91mac_

2 жыл бұрын

and then when he said "we gon let her rock out for a moment" lmfaoooo

@yungsxma5578

2 жыл бұрын

I read correct in planktons voice lol. I need to take a break off the internet 😂

"I'd rather die than ask my baby daddy for help" So you'd rather put your child in extreme danger than ask your baby's father for help?

@Lhoyte1

2 жыл бұрын

He was good enough to have a child with but she draws the line at calling him for help

@theprisonerofthegoldenhead4030

2 жыл бұрын

Not just that, imagine she’s stranded in the middle of nowhere and she would rather die on that road leaving her child than call the father for a ride.

@jayclearmen411

2 жыл бұрын

Facts ignorance at its finest!! smdh an i know you fellas see the other gal co-signing/cheerleading the bullshit. Smh i’m glad dude in the white had a spine an called em out on that BS💯💯

@TheFaro2011

2 жыл бұрын

@@Lhoyte1 you know psychopaths/sociopaths have kids. They don't advertise it. You find out afterwards

@belfanmnoir5503

2 жыл бұрын

She didnt even see anything wrong with violently beating her child. She mocked the little girl. And shes only 11. Wait until she’s 16 and can match her in weight. Its over.

The way she talked about abusing her child so bad that even the dog was crying is so scary and heartbreaking! The dog has more emotion than the well-trained pet I mean man on the show.

@TheFatalcrest

Жыл бұрын

You mean her ego shield. He must protect her ego or else he will not get even a crumb of attention.

Seeing parents brag about situations like that is what made me decide to go another route and leave the violence out when it comes to disciplining and teaching my kids

The fact that they went a platform like this and readily admitted this level of dysfunction, is utterly absurd 😑🤦🏽‍♀️. I’m single mother. It’s not a badge of honor and nothing to brag about. A lot of us have to grow the hell up. It’s not about you it’s about your child.

@ayyylmao101

2 жыл бұрын

Well said. Also, if they're willing to say such things in public, I just... I worry as to what they say inside the home.

@adriennekromah6865

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@dudeadonaiski

2 жыл бұрын

Strength be with you

@mr.duanesharpe

2 жыл бұрын

It’s just some women complaining about being responsible and saying oh I pay my bills etc. 🤦🏿‍♂️. I think we all do at some point. It’s being an adult and if you have kids being a parent.

@biblethumper8088

2 жыл бұрын

How is it not about her when it's her life being wasted raising the child? You make no sense, it's about the mother. She doesn't have to make herself uncomfortable for anyone, not even the child who came out of her womb. If that man wanted to be in that child's life, he would've stayed.

She literally admitted to child abuse yet sat there and laughed about putting hands on a child. This shit is sad as hell man...

@mitsyrage2233

2 жыл бұрын

And that's what tbat was, that was not discipline. It's crazy. I came from a tradition of physical discipline and no one in my family has been dragged or beat down as correction.

@summerrose8110

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with the guy who called them out on their bullshit. "That's the dumbest shit I've ever heard." God bless that guy.

@warriyu4878

2 жыл бұрын

@@summerrose8110 and then dude said "let her rock out" like tf u on? naaah u got to call people out on their bullshit man

@Usernamesdontmatter1

2 жыл бұрын

@@mitsyrage2233 yeah. Hitting a child to correct their behavior when it's severe isn't abuse. Dragging them and beating them while they are on the ground is abuse.

@kathiaserrano7740

2 жыл бұрын

@@warriyu4878 I think he was letting her expose herself. At least that's what I gather.

The fact that she talks about how she treats her daughter when on camera? Imagine how she must treat her that she doesn’t say.

7:11 that’s child abuse

When she said it's generational, she didnt realize she is part of that generation. She should realize working together as a family is the best thing to do for your kids.

@Hirohito_iLoveYou

2 жыл бұрын

✨Ignorance is bliss ✨

@Vinn_Tree

2 жыл бұрын

that sounds too much like right. cause you know she on the fifth layer.

@akuiper2654

2 жыл бұрын

How do you break a generational curse? Do it differently!

@Kuhmodo

2 жыл бұрын

She could've broke the generational issues instead she went harder lol.

@Hirohito_iLoveYou

2 жыл бұрын

@@Kuhmodo lmao she doubled down hard

This is why we have broken families in every community. Pride. As I get older I'm so much more drawn to families and communities that stay together and act like they actually care about more than their egos.

@denzelstephen266

2 жыл бұрын

It may be present in every community, but the black community has a single motherhood rate of like 70%. We should focus efforts on that

@ashlielove6513

2 жыл бұрын

@@denzelstephen266 Well I've had to learn the hard way since I'm not a member of that community I have to keep my mouth shut about issues that affect them. Sad considering so many people I've loved are a part of it but alas...

@chydi10

2 жыл бұрын

Dude… fuck pride. It’s just plain stupidity. This has nothing to do with pride cuz it’s clear she’s a dumbass and I don’t see anything to be proud of. This is why I don’t even bother myself with black chics no more. Ain’t got shit, but wanna be a boss chic. SMH

@suzygirl1843

2 жыл бұрын

TRAUMA. Not ego. There's a little bit of pride there. But its generational trauma

@denzelstephen266

2 жыл бұрын

@@ashlielove6513 if you have a brain, can do the research, and can make informed decisions, you can speak on anything. Another issue with my community is the reaction to criticism, cant take it a lot of the time and blame is reassigned. The solution is to talk about it more, not shut up because you think its not your place

I was raised by a single mum , my dad beat the shit outta her and cheated on her for 10 years and hate his guts But if my mum let herself starve and let me be in a bad way because she refused to call my dad I'd resent her for the rest of my life They are basically saying "I'd leave my child motherless just to prove a point to my baby daddy"

Now hopefully you guys are still on KZread 20 years later when her daughter ends up on a podcast telling us how shitty her mom was most of her life and how she wished she didn't see her dad as a villain lmao That reaction video is gonna be wild.

@burmessafox3939

2 жыл бұрын

20 years? Maybe around 7 years when she's 18 and try to move out. Though, seeing how abusive the mom is, I wouldn't be surprised is she kicks her out at 16+

Is it just me or the one who dragged her kid across the counter or floor, she said both, said she would rather die on the side of the road than call her baby daddy and yet called him because she couldn't handle her kid in that situation. Sounds like you can't handle it and you didn't die so seems you are completely full of shit. What an amazing mother. Unbelievable this woman.

@BattleBladeWarrior

2 жыл бұрын

Lol, exactly. That said, i think what she meant was "I will never ask my baby daddy for help, financially" cuz shes an "independent woman", but, as the "Baby Daddy" she'll call him upto discipline the kids or talk them down. Its still helping her though, obviously, but I don't' think she sees it that way, she seems to see them as two seperate things.

@cookiesnow6726

2 жыл бұрын

My thing is, how old is her daughter?? And like how does fighting her child like that acceptable????

@MrLEYoSAN

2 жыл бұрын

@@cookiesnow6726 the daughter is 10 yrs old I think because she goes I had my child for 11yrs because I carried her for 1yr, something along those lines.

@jayclearmen411

2 жыл бұрын

i’m glad i wasn’t the only one who peeped that she said that garbage..an i know you seen her goofy ass gf cheerleading an co-signing that foolishness. And did anyone else seen the way that she cruelly laughed at/trivialize her daughters pain..mocking her like that…please tell me if a guy had done the same he wouldn’t be called all types of “abusers” etc

@BG-mh6pc

2 жыл бұрын

And her kid is only 11… like wtf

So she'd rather sacrifice her kid rather than her ego.. cool.

@samuraitadpole5459

2 жыл бұрын

And the next generation of kids will hate their mother Because this mindset is common from previous single moms

@jayclearmen411

2 жыл бұрын

dude in the white shirt was the realest one in the whole equation i’m glad he called out the bullshit…i swear he was the only one in that room speaking sense.

@ziyamalik1666

2 жыл бұрын

@cablecow15 hate women for being dependent and asking for help , hate them for not doing so.

@Polyrage2

2 жыл бұрын

Or the kid is the result of the ego : "Of course I can do it alone, I'm capable of everything, I'm on top of the WOOOOOOOORLD!!!! "

@aton-ramasculin3sunworship353

2 жыл бұрын

This is why the community can never get out of the whole they’re in

I agree. My mother owned up to some things that have happened through the years. We have always been really close, but the men she chose to be in her life have caused some trauma for me through my life, along with some outburst through out the years. She has apologized for it all, and seeing her grow into the women she is now makes me proud to call her my mother. My 2 step parents and my father on the other hand have never apologized for the trauma they caused me, and yes, I respect them less for it. Both my step parents have never even acknowledged the pain they caused me ever. It’s hard to respect someone who didn’t respect you when you were at your most innocent.

Fairly new to to the channel but they have become a favorite. Always on point, intelligent, thoughtful commentary laced with lots of humor. Look forward to digging deeper into their content. Entertaining and thought-provoking topics.

I remember how PROUD my mom declared how she raised us by herself. I had to remind her how messed up we are because of that.

@samuraitadpole5459

2 жыл бұрын

Same shit with my mom

@davidwilliams7382

2 жыл бұрын

I can't speak on your other sibling but you my friend are far from messed up because you recognize functional behavior and it can grow as a result of it . I really suggest that you read a book called breaking the curse of Willie Lynch by Alvin Morrow it's not a long read and it will definitely change your life in terms of giving you a better understanding of the way Black folks behave.

@houseofhas9355

2 жыл бұрын

Should've said. Glad your proud but you failed me, and you see my pain and struggle as a young man withOUT a father to guide him as an accomplishment.

@day-vid

2 жыл бұрын

@@davidwilliams7382 yes, I recognize it, but the consequence was I had to go through trial and unnecessary errors to even be brave enough to correct. I tell my nieces and nephews that you can still LOVE your elders, but if they boast "perfection" and can't seem to at least admit mistakes, they are not being genuine. Telling our children when we messed up can be a more powerful tool than focusing on how we're always right.

@blackblursliver

2 жыл бұрын

🙏

As a wise man once said: "There should be licenses implemented for being a parent. A lot of y'all aren't cut out to be parents."

@katieghoul0092

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree with that. Also, people need to take more personal responsibility: if you're (a person) dumb enough to not have protected s3x, knowing that you can't afford a baby, that's on you (the hypothetical person). We have to take more responsibility.

@jackcameroon8423

2 жыл бұрын

@@katieghoul0092 I think she knew from the get go what she'll be entitled to if she gets a baby. I mean look at the family court system in the US, Canada, mother gets custody and father gets to write cheques. Plus the government has subsidized it to promote this further. It's like I have a job, I earn money, I pay my taxes, and my taxes are being used to raise a child that I never had. The Frook!

@litchtheshinigami8936

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed it needs to be a test like a drivers license. Right now there are too many babies growing up in shitty situations.. i don’t want kids myself because i know i don’t have the patience or the mental resources to take care of a child.. thanks to my Autism i already struggle caring for myself let alone a child. And if that license was a thing i wouldn’t even try getting it cuz i know i’m not cut out for it.

@goreysins

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@ivanasolomon6622

2 жыл бұрын

The only problem is who decides what a good parent is... You'd be getting licenses from the state or government which has also proved to be a terrible parent ... So be careful what you wish for.... They can't even take care of kids in the system, what makes you think they can determine a good parent??? Half the things the government is doing is trying to constantly push back on our God given rights.... The government will take your children already if they see you as an unfit parent.... This happens to plenty of good parents.... Then their children are put in a way worse position. The government is actually the reason the mother thinks this way..... This lifestyle is appraised... She is doing what she is programmed to do as well as many other women... The government and state systems supported fathers being out of the home.... They would create benefits for people and incentivise (props not a word) people to break up their family's. Don't get it twisted. Licenses and involving the state more than we already have would cause more problems.... Not help or keep kids safe... They are the root of this social crisis and standard of living (broken families)

Can we talk about how she pride about "dragging her over a table" and then call herself a good mom?

2:10 WE DON’T KNOW… we don’t know 😂😂😂

I wrote this many years ago. (Single mother of a 12yo boy, with sole custody.) My thoughts as a single mother, I see pictures on social media a lot saying, 'Proud Single Mom!' This really bothers me. I am not PROUD to be a single mother. I do not take PRIDE in the fact that my child has no relationship with his father or daily positive male role model. I am not PROUD of picking the wrong person to make a child with. Here are the things I AM proud of; I am proud that my beautiful son calls ME, mommy. I am proud that my God entrusted me with such a wonderful gift to honor, cherish, protect and above all, love. I am proud that I am able to take care of my son on my own and proud of myself for working hard and instilling good values, manners, morals and kindness into my child's every day life. I take pride in the fact that my son trusts me and my judgement. I am proud that he wants ME to kiss his boo-boo's, read him books, teach him things, etc. THOSE are some of the things I am proud of. One thing I am NOT proud of is being a single mother, because the one who hurts the most because of it is the one person I would do anything for, to avoid him feeling any pain. My son. I can teach him a lot of things but I cannot teach him how to be a man.

@houseofhas9355

2 жыл бұрын

Say it louder for all the bitter b**ches in the back currently denying fathers access to their children.

@chaitea4717

2 жыл бұрын

Beautifully said ❤️

@HALOSnHORNS

2 жыл бұрын

This

@StarSpliter

2 жыл бұрын

I think there are things you can teach him to be a man but I definitely agree having my dad around would have *significantly* helped me and would likely be less timid, etc. Also having someone to relate to with social things, gender specific problems is massive.

@ghariiscool

2 жыл бұрын

believe me when I tell you we appreciate your being rational

Preach: “press play”…..”okay so we just going to stand here?” Aba: “yeah” Preach: “that’s ego” 😂 their interactions together are top notch

Going through a patch rn with my dad, the things you guys were saying at the end really hit home.

I get this to some degree. My son has a relationship with his father but I no longer do. I would NEVER ask him for anything because of what he did to me and my daughters. BUT.. I have an extensive family network that will help me if needed so I would never be dying on the side of the road.

@layton6202

2 жыл бұрын

Put your ego aside and leave that in the past ask him for help

@O.Ez8

2 жыл бұрын

@@layton6202 maybe the dad actually did something very wrong and doesn't involve her ego

@layton6202

2 жыл бұрын

@@O.Ez8 it doesn't matter he's still the dad at the end of the day

@mangastar234

2 жыл бұрын

@@layton6202 And if the kids want to ask him for help they can. As she said she has family members she can ask for help so she doesn’t have to go to him.

@layton6202

2 жыл бұрын

@@mangastar234 when it comes to the kids she has to

Naw homie came with the right energy and said what everyone was thinking. That is the dumbest sh*t I've heard. Unfortunately many mothers think this way.

@sirennoir258

2 жыл бұрын

And they are destroying us as a people. These ghetto ass I don't need a man bitter Bertha battle axes are raising the next generation of shiftless losers who will have kids out of wedlock with their same bullshit attitude.

@CrummyVCR

2 жыл бұрын

most*

You’re both spot on. Way too much pride and ego, and they’re just swimming in toxic dysfunction.

@ronin4303

2 жыл бұрын

And people in their own circle will praise them like they did something brave or smart. And of course they are black too like this shit doesn’t help us at all just passes on the dysfunction generation after generation like I’m so done

@darrellgainer6966

2 жыл бұрын

@@ronin4303 that just mean we have to raise are children different , the black community is getting better less dysfunctional less crime it just gonna take more. Doesn’t happen instantly it happens one child at a time. 💪🏿

i was raised dysfunctional but when i decided to have my daughter i started therapy and parenting classes because i didnt want to be that parent or woman for my daughter ...her dad is still with us and if we were to separate i would still call him because even if i got it together or not he is still her father and he has a say in decision making and to voice his opinion because he is the other parent ...women be wilding not to call a dad for help or help in parenting yall have too much pride

Man... I'm still trying to heal from the toxicity from my childhood and yes... resentment towards that person was on a level I thought I could never forgive or come back from. I chose to wait on children because I'll be damned if I ever treat MINE as I was treated.

To say I feel bad for these women is an understatement can't believe that innocent child is gonna grow up with that mindset when her dad is clearly a good person

@retrozip

2 жыл бұрын

Basically shes gonna grow up just like her mother

@kirsten9277

2 жыл бұрын

And the cycle will continue into their kids.

@mychelenskinner790

2 жыл бұрын

More angry toxic black women in training smh... hide your sons ladies lol

@user-em9su3dd9y

2 жыл бұрын

The dad isn't there, who knows why, but the advice was good.

@alskarmode

2 жыл бұрын

Why would you feel bad for these women

My mom thought this way..... really she was just bitter.... it killed her, and now I be with with our dad making up for loss time(side eyeing my mom's past choices). People don't think about the consequences of their actions. ✌🏾

@AxxLAfriku

2 жыл бұрын

HELP MY!!! My muscles are too big! I am a big tall man and my muscles are even BIGGER! I use them to get views but they HURT so much!!! Because they are heavy. Do you have any advice, dear tif

@Muddyowns

2 жыл бұрын

Yup. Learning about the things a parent lied to you about really messes with you.

@dantechadmasteroftheblooda7404

2 жыл бұрын

I agree my granny went out that way and my mom is following suit

@CallMeMrStopmotion

2 жыл бұрын

I'm kinda curious... exactly how did it kill her, if you don't mind me asking?

@Ceeboyforlife

2 жыл бұрын

i hope more kids are like you

Amen, it's ok to not know everything. All because your the parent doesn't mean your right. My mother absolutely refuses to look on the inside to see why our relationship fell apart. You guys hit the nail on the head 💯

Dude while i was watching this I genuinely thought "I'm going to show this to my therapist" and not even 10 secs later Aba said this is why people see therapist 🤣 YES! Thankfully, it helped my parents get to that place your mom got to. Excellent breakdown 🎯 👏👏👏

"That's the dumbest shit ever" -Him "Say it again" -Her like she is going to do something about it. Then she proceeded to talk over him when he is trying to ask her a question. She knows he will call her BS.

"I'd rather die on the side of the road than call the kids dad for help". A few minute's she says after assaulting her kid, the father had to mediate the situation. The host said the obvious... she shaped a story that painting her as a "strong mother" and the father as absent while her sister blindly agrees and regurgitates this false narrative. She's one of these mother's that only want credit for good outcomes and anything negative, she'll blame on the father. She excused her bad moment while basically giving no value to the father's contribution. Trash. Also, I hate the podcasts where there's no control of who speaks and when.

@Gchildwarrior

2 жыл бұрын

I fully agree. She painted him as trash UNTIL she needed help from him. I also hate when multiple people talk at once because the main conversation goes out the window when it happens I even hate that outside of podcasts

@HALOSnHORNS

2 жыл бұрын

Mute buttons will be the new currency

@shiro2400

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed. She painted a horrible picture of the dad by saying she would rather die than call him for help. Do they not see how it painted a false image of the dad? We all basically started assuming the dad was a PoS. But she makes the kid call her dad when they argue? Hella ego. ‘I will never call him but I’ll make his daughter call him’. Crazy shit

@bgrego88

2 жыл бұрын

@@Gchildwarrior it's her fall back blame cop out, she basically told us why she's a single mom. When things go wrong she doesn't take accountability or responsibility. She needs someone to blame for her shortcomings and failings. That lack of self awareness and empathy is why he left. The father will be blamed for any struggles she has or any shortcomings with herself or her child. She needs to grow up. You trash the father saying your a single mother minimizing his contribution then proceed to tell a story of the man mediating your situation and being fatherly

Yeooo bless Aba yo mom a real one what I’ll give to hear my parents apologize for anything or even acknowledging something! Because you’re right though it’s not much i still hold some type of resentment towards em

Love y’all always keeping it real my baby father is non existent if it’s between my child being on the streets and me calling him I going to call him even if I know he can’t do nothing for us I would still ask or tell him the situation maybe his mother or someone in his side can help I would never let my pride get in the way of me living or my child being on the streets

She's simply campaigning for her daughter to grow up and be indebted to her when she becomes an adult. She will guilt trip her & manipulate her into being her 'back-up plan' and never let her start her own life. She brags about being a great mom, but the trips, clothes & lifestyle will definitely be brought up later when the daughter tries to break away.

@user-dp5go8hr6w

2 жыл бұрын

Oh man I was looking for this comment and I agree with you all the way That guilt trip is coming for that daughter

I dont have a baby daddy (married) but if god forbid we divorced and my daughter was starving best believe I would call him for help, there is nothing I wouldnt do for my daughter to be okay, I’ll deal with my ego later

@digfitness7598

2 жыл бұрын

You are an excellent women. Thank youfor checking your ego and Pride at the door for the Betterment of your child.

@kc8724

2 жыл бұрын

@@digfitness7598 I mean it’s the bare minimum

@CuckMommy

2 жыл бұрын

You speaking before going through it I’m not excusing there choices and mind frame but not having a two parent household is a fucked up feeling and it takes a LOT of therapy and counseling to heal and not be bitter (just food for thought)

@LoneStoneMaalik

2 жыл бұрын

@@houseofhas9355 She said she DOESN’T have a baby daddy. She’s married to the father of her child.

@houseofhas9355

2 жыл бұрын

@@LoneStoneMaalik oh I must of misread that. I will abort my comment lol.

It's like no matter how bad of a person I feel like I may have been there's always someone worse with no self-realization.

A lot of young parents can STILL learn from this!!

Being humble doesn’t exist anymore. This new age of people needs help so much. The future is looking B L E A K

@BigBlack81

2 жыл бұрын

Bleak and barren, spots of shining hope notwithstanding. This shit is a new low that I wasn't sure we'd hit this soon.

@Kate-is5mz

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Like, this right here. HUMILITY is one of the greatest virtues we can have as humans and it legit has healing powers on our souls, but these days people are so far away from that...

@eesafredericks2122

2 жыл бұрын

People of the past were any better? Bruh what are you on?

@ptolemeeselenion1542

2 жыл бұрын

Lol.

@legm5298

2 жыл бұрын

Next gen grandmas are about to be something special 💀

"It's a large percentage of women who have to take on that whole package" Most custody courts start off giving the father minimal to almost no custody. Don't complain about the situation when you fought to have it that way. I fought tooth and nail for over a year getting dragged through the mud. I had to PROVE my innocence from blatantly false allegations. When the allegations were shown to be felony level perjury what happened to the other person? She got to walk away because she was assumed innocent when I was assumed guilty. She F right off with that BS she's on

@samuraitadpole5459

2 жыл бұрын

Not only that but unless rape is involved she chose the man

@rainygamedays5873

2 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU and I'm sorry you had to go through this as well. They get no consequences for lying through their fucking teeth but when we finally prove after years of being lied about we don't even get an apology

@kristianawilson9038

2 жыл бұрын

​@@rainygamedays5873 Did you ever see that women tell the family and her three daughters that their father raped them, later on she admitted it was complete lies, the daughters were traumatised and couldn't believe it. The guy was in tears and she had no f**king light behind her eyes as she looked at him "why didn't you fight for em harder if you knew you didnt do it" is what she said to his face

@jasonmillstalks

2 жыл бұрын

@@rainygamedays5873 I'm glad for it. We work great now, we share custody week on/off, and we have family events where her mom and my new gf have a great time with no issues. Trust me, it humbled me and, given the chance to burn her, I chose to work together for our kid. Paid off and I never have to explain to our kid why she got less time with mom than with me

@JoeL91939

2 жыл бұрын

Dude should bring the original video to the judge.

Life makes sense now. Didn't have my dad around till I was 19. I'm still in therapy with life stories 5 years later after understanding what I went through with my siblings growing up.

i love Aba finding videos that will fire up Preach

Why did nobody address the fact that she said she dragged her daughter across the floor?!? Why is that ok on any level? CPS should be at her house right after this aired.

@mareek2007

2 жыл бұрын

She needs to cut that out.If her daughter becomes resentful and gets to a certain size and the mum physically attacks her again,it’s not going to end well.Her pride and ego will get bruised and it’ll affect their relationship.

@lincolnward85

2 жыл бұрын

@@mareek2007 it's already affecting their relationship. She just doesn't realize it yet. That little girl will be willing to fight more than she should be because of how her mother is raising her.

@AmoebaInk

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, that's not a good mom. It is good she realized she had gone too far and asked for help. But the fact she was mocking her daughter's tears indicates she hasn't really processed how bad that was. She needs intervention.

@rachethippyproductions

2 жыл бұрын

your an idiot cps traffic's children.

@nxrth9463

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah I was like yo wtf at that part. Parents like her, if you can even call her that, really need to stop abusing their kids it's not healthy and will have dire effects on them as they grow up.

SMH, I hope my son never runs into these women's offspring. They are dooming our community with this asinine rhetoric. 🤦🏾‍♀️

@lilikaramirez1848

2 жыл бұрын

just dumb bitches...i dont see women.

@dataodokpa5431

2 жыл бұрын

Me too

@jaebee7739

2 жыл бұрын

Pray for them sis. That’s all we can do.

@sadebraimah5962

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like there’s definitely two sides to this problem within the community. You have mothers like this, but you also have fathers who are absent and literally go around making babies everywhere. I feel like both men and women are to blame for this mess tbh 🤦🏾‍♀️.

@michellerichardson3090

2 жыл бұрын

@@sadebraimah5962 my children's father has 3 daughters and all of them want nothing to do with him. I told him "you were the first man in their lives and all they've seen is their mothers try to force you to be involved so they're dont feeling unwanted"

It’s always Preach for me. He had me in tears the whole time 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yo I love your videos man. Well y’all preach y’all really preach no pun intended

Some say “pride is the deadliest sin.” These women make a clear case as to why that could be true.

@tonyonaperky2128

2 жыл бұрын

"Make a baby mama make shit harder than it gotta be" J cole

@Ipromiseimnotabot

2 жыл бұрын

And isn’t it crazy how we have a whole month in the states dedicated to it?

@tonyonaperky2128

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ipromiseimnotabot its even more ridiculous how on Men's Day, we are thanked by being an ally to women

@daloncortez

2 жыл бұрын

As a card caring member of that community I can assure you it’s no longer about what the original message was for. Originally, we just wanted to exist and feel accepted. Not infringe or control.

@kurayamaking6425

2 жыл бұрын

Vanity man

“It’s a generational thing” and you are contributing to it. I like how they notice the problem and then become a part of it because they can use the excuse.

@SirN8speare

2 жыл бұрын

I honestly think they created the “generation thing.” Imagine how long this has been going on with how most women are terrible pickers especially when it comes to fathers of the upcoming generation(s)

@BoomSkwad47

2 жыл бұрын

Talking out of both side of one's mouth is an axiom when dealing with women

@rationalcynic8416

2 жыл бұрын

It's a Millennial thing they learned from their divorced, toxic, and entitled Boomer parents. Boomers were the ones that popularized divorce and splitting up as soon as things start to get tough.

Lmaooooooo this part had me dying 3:33

Even when the father is living in the home you still have to be mom and dad when the man feels his job is to only pay bill when he never participate in the home work pta meeting dental appointment or teach or spend no time with the kids but can dress up every weekend to to hang out with friends I can relate because I am talking from experience

The part I'm stuck on is her admitting to "knocking her child over" (possibly slapping her down) and then dragging her across the floor. That speaks volumes about her parenting skills.

@dreadcthulhu5

2 жыл бұрын

That's called abuse and she should lose her parental rights for it. The father sounds more rational.

@Lovelyswan101

2 жыл бұрын

RIGHT, I was like UHM wtf, what did the child do to deserve that!? My mom works with some insane children but she never did that to US or THEM. It's sad man.

@thepubknight6144

2 жыл бұрын

@@Lovelyswan101 did she mock her daughter for crying after she abused her? She's such a piece of shit

@specialk5340

2 жыл бұрын

Fam I’m more scared at the fact that she openly said it like it was no big deal, but this kind of shows that even women believe and know that they can get away with just about anything.

@layton6202

2 жыл бұрын

@@specialk5340 you privileged folks act like other cultures don't beat their childrens ass maybe thats why you don't see them wildn like these white kids these days with identity politics and shooting up schools

I had to learn the hard way THERE'S NO VALOR IN UNNECESSARY SUFFERING... meaning being a single mom BY CHOICE, playing both mom AND dad is nothing to be proud of! Bc it's not about you and your ego, it's about what's best for the child. When u don't want to share the credit and responsibility with someone else just bc u carried majority of the load raising the child doesn't make u a hero. I was a teen mom and unfortunately I USED to think naively like this. It was a coping mechanism after I tried to get him to be in our son's life and got rejected. So I defaulted to "I don't need a man" etc. Bc I didn't have a man and I knew he wasn't interested in being involved anyway. So my ego was hurt AND I didn't want to accept the reality that I had chosen a bad man as my son's father. Thankfully I've moved on from that mindset and found a great man to raise to my son and our other children together. I got very lucky!

@TheFaro2011

2 жыл бұрын

Don't mix it up. There's a difference between parent alienation, separating a parent from someone who wants to be present and someone who is hurt because it's ended. These women are doing what they have to do, they've carried the burden of Parenthood, but don't mix it up with parents who only dip in when it suits their narrative.

@itsyaaveragegirl

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheFaro2011 What women are you talking about? if you're talking about the woman in the white she clearly said it's about her ego that she doesn't ask for help not that the dad is a bad father and the woman in purple is literally projecting. I agree there is a difference between a man leaving on his own accord and not wanting to be in his child's life and a woman alienating the father from their children. But if you fight for full custody of your children and only reduce his visitation to weekends don't be surprised that he only has them for the weekends when you wanted them full time. Women can literally choose what kind of visitation the father gets.

@qman313

2 жыл бұрын

God bless☺

@lightkira4119

2 жыл бұрын

@@itsyaaveragegirl there is another video on this channel about how a woman wanted to have a child and raise them alone. She wanted a man's seed only, she claimed that she wants to be a single mother. Wanting to be a single mother and becoming one is different. I believe she even went as far as saying she wouldn't accept help from her family members to be father figures. She was dead set on being a single mother.

@itsyaaveragegirl

2 жыл бұрын

@@lightkira4119 I watched that video too. I think sometimes as black people, well black women especially we champion struggle when there is no need. To be honest, if people stopped having children before marriage and took time to decern who is a good partner then being a single mother wouldn't be something so common. Accountability is on both sides, men should be wrapping it up, and as a woman, you should be more careful who you allow in your womb. Now women will come out of the woodwork talking about men change when you have a baby when the truth is he had red flags the whole time and they chose to ignore it. So if the father is in the child's life but not with you, you are not a single mother you are co-parenting. A single mother is literally a woman who is raising her children without the father at all, and this isn't the case for the women in white here.

Aba just showing preach these vids for his reactions lmao and im all here for it keep preaching preach!

Why do people now a days say they're capable and don't need any help? We're social animals, we absolutely NEED one another. Whenever someone gives me a hand, whether it's emotional or physical, I appreciate it greatly. It's nice knowing that there are people out there who care about me enough to help me. And I love helping others who truly appreciate it.

Preach dropped a HUGE gem "Sometimes the dysfunction is their normal". Sadly, that is often the case is so many situations. You don't recognize it as dysfunction because it is your normal, the way it's always been. I've had to grow past that myself, not in the same way these women do. I have never been a single mother, but I had my own serious issues that I had to work on, and things to relearn. So Preach, that's so spot-on in more situations than just this one.

@lovely1641

2 жыл бұрын

Omg yes, I've had people sit down and say the most dysfunctional things as if they were normal to say

@MannieKu

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for bringing that up. I grew up with divorce and so did my husband. But we vowed to make our marriage and living the best ever so our children will never have to experience that. We are and will set up the standard to break any generational curses or dysfunctional ways. We refuse to even go by some traditional ways just cause our mothers/fathers did it. They weren’t always right

I'm divorced and my kids dad lives two blocks away and we still do holidays at my parents together so the kids can have happy memories in their childhood. We still get along and both of us see the kids almost every day we give each other breaks on a regular basis. It's best for kids to have parents that are cooperative not combative.

@SuperTruthful

2 жыл бұрын

You function like that because you're mature and have the best interest of your children in the forefront of your lives.

@erind2261

2 жыл бұрын

That's super cool. During visitation, my parents had to meet at the police station & swap us like eBay packages.

@Discrete1998

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. My ex and I have family nights and outings so our son can be around us both at the same time. His dad and I each have him whenever we aren’t working, and we’re very fortunate that my mom loves to care for him while we are.

@kieleleron85768

2 жыл бұрын

@@Discrete1998 that's awesome! It's great for kids to have grandparents. It is really important I think especially for kids of divorce to see functional relationship models. Platonic relationships can and do exist and can work just as well as romantic ones for raising children.

@kieleleron85768

2 жыл бұрын

@@erind2261 oof that must have been really tough on you! My parents divorced and I only saw my dad two weeks a year after that. It sucked

Love the way he baits em then subtly slowly falls back while that grin and horns slowly start to grow 😈 🤣 you guys are great

Thanks guys! I just ordered my scent bird 🐦 thanks for the discount!

Some people are so dumb they strut their anti-logic. I hope her kid is okay in life and gets lots of therapy.

@houseofhas9355

2 жыл бұрын

But that kid is a fire sign so the universe will give him or her a discount all that lifelong therapy.

@kiquemarmolejo6305

2 жыл бұрын

Her kid will more than likely not be okay 😔

@blackblursliver

2 жыл бұрын

Her kid will be like her, but if she's stay in touch with her dad she has as a chance.

@shanemcmahon6364

2 жыл бұрын

Her kid is juss gonna add to the next generation of the same cycle..like beating a dead horse with these women and topic

@DC...

2 жыл бұрын

@@shanemcmahon6364 Maybe the kid will get lucky. CPS and the courts could review this admission if the father submits it.

"That's the dumbest shit ever" my man was preachin before Preach started talking. Also the look Preach gave to Aba when he said "Let's hear why" he knew it was a set up😂😂

Oh my god the mum knows best hit home a whole lot. I dont have contact anymore with them because of the crap they do and say and then act like i'm to blame for being defensive. 100% agree. I do think there is a "trend" train though which negates from those who actually suffer at the hands of narcissism

Aba loves when preach gets pissed off 😂

@urklentertainment

2 жыл бұрын

For real!

@summerrose8110

2 жыл бұрын

That's why they're not friends.

@OKAYOKAY420

2 жыл бұрын

@@summerrose8110 they're not friends because it's just business.

@ItachiUchiha-ut6xj

2 жыл бұрын

@@summerrose8110 Haha that is how me and my friends interact all the time. We try to piss each other off constantly and it's hilarious.

I'm totally feelin' Preach's vibe. The looks you're giving the camera today are priceless. And I feel you.

@imemberberry

2 жыл бұрын

Preach is a trip. He knows how to sell it. It's always over the top or nothing at all. Which is funny.

4:30 i fking hate when people cut me off and won't let me speak. it's like in my head my inner self talk to me STFU B or ill make you. maybe im violent inside but just control it.

I just laugh soo much at this show, how long it been on? Theseguys so good together, chemistry best I have seen. Thanks for laughs from Australia

'When you're raised by dysfunction, it becomes your normal' - Preach

@layton6202

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the quote

“That’s the dumbest shit ever!” Facts. That’s not him not taking care of his kid, that’s you choosing not to co-parent. Your kid loses. She has not said that he doesn’t want to be involved. I’m still waiting… They’re a mess.

@samuraitadpole5459

2 жыл бұрын

The insult to injury is her saying he's involved to a degree, bitch you are that degree

@TSH425

2 жыл бұрын

No she contradicts herself by saying she hadda call the nigga to fix the problem at the end

I've lived both lives and I can honestly tell you and my experience now looking back a husband and wife doesn't necessarily mean a good child and a single parent doesn't make a bad child love care attention and consistency as what is most important.

I have to give you lads some serious props for your editing it really helps with the humor, just adds to the ridiculousness of these people

I hope child services is taking heed of this “woman”….

@EightFrancs

2 жыл бұрын

The vast majority of women who work in child services are exactly the same as these women.

I very recently discovered, or rather, recognized about myself that I've had a certain belief since I was pretty young; that it's shameful to ask people for what you want, or for help; I've no idea where that notion came from. I remember being in my early 20's and deciding that I didn't want help from ANYBODY.... and took pride in not asking. To me, now, that screams dysfunction. I'm 50 now and realizing that, although self sufficiency is good to some extent, no man is an island. I've slowly started accepting help. There's a kind of 'defensiveness' in the way this girl expresses herself. She's probably afraid to appear vulnerable; but isn't she a human being?

@deltaflux2381

2 жыл бұрын

Women are turning into men. They don't want to appear vulnerable either, because modern day feminism teaches the world that women are strong and independent and don't need no help, especially not from men

This line of thinking is a crystal clear example of how mothers don’t really love their kids as much as they claim. Plus, the constant repetition n listing of “things done” is projection of insecurity & an attempt to gaslight kids. Greatly put , y’all were spot on with this one!

Thank you!!! It comes down to the individual. Stop blaming everything and everyone around you and have some accountability. People love blaming the system but they’re the same ignorant mf’s that keep falling for it… pride and ego is a hell of thing.

they made a follow-up talking about how you can't take 35secs outta context lol.

@NoLuvRecords

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@bigman52100

2 жыл бұрын

No wayyy😂😂😂

@boo1488

2 жыл бұрын

You actually watch this?

@Protezee

2 жыл бұрын

@@boo1488 No. But it's obvious something would be said since this picked up traction. I was just curious to see whether or not they’d double down.

@lungelo9023

2 жыл бұрын

You know they bout to double down for those clicks😂

You guys are on point. That ego is a gross mistake.😊

You guys have great energy! Watched a few vids and I’m hooked! *New Subscriber.

My mother did not have the choice that these women have. I was disowned by my father to my face as a child, so seeing people say things like that is frustrating. There is no better alternative to having both parents.

@DTreatz

2 жыл бұрын

your mother must have some poor decision making skills in men. shame.

@galaxyquest8519

2 жыл бұрын

even though I’m a daddy’s girl i have no relationship with my biological father because he didn’t want to be a father and was abusive to my mom but I love my step dad ( my father) to my core because he really taught me how a man is supposed to take care of his family and how lead life through love that’s why I don’t hold on to animosity or grudges

@layton6202

2 жыл бұрын

That PFP makes sense now

@Que772

Жыл бұрын

Just because a father claims a child doesn't mean he's in that child's life.

Single motherhood is no joke. My mother did a great job raising us and I turned out great- but I don’t know how to be a wife. I’m engaged and absolutely terrified of not being good enough wife because I never got to see that side of my mom. It’s sad

@Lrxxx321

2 жыл бұрын

Atleast youre mature enough to realize that many people acts like this is. Not a thing Good luck with you marriage 🙏

@zachmcmahan8481

2 жыл бұрын

I can tell you’re going to be a great wife because you care enough to stress about it. No one is perfect and we all make mistakes, but if you care about your partner and have some self reflection, you learn from those mistakes and grow as a person and a partner. That’s all I could ever ask from a wife. You don’t have to know how to handle every situation. You just have to be willing to put in the effort and show me you care. As long as you do those two things for me I would be happy lol. I feel like the majority of marriages fail because of complacency and lack of effort from both individuals. It’s all about team work and sacrifice. Good luck and god bless.

@ABC3-2

2 жыл бұрын

John Delony podcast. Poor man's podcast. Pink pill podcast. Lots of books on the topic as well. Online communication training with Dan O'Connor learn communication above all and do more introspection about what your flaws are and give ready and willing to work on them

@blackgirldiary2363

2 жыл бұрын

@@zachmcmahan8481 Thank you for the encouragement! Will be adding your pointers in my journal😄

@blackgirldiary2363

2 жыл бұрын

@@ABC3-2 Thank you so much for these suggestions! I’m subscribed to Pink Book Lessons and listen to her. Will look into the other channels you suggested, thank you!

I have three adult children, 19, 22 and 28, and the one thing I am the most proudest of is that I admit to them when I'm wrong and I genuinely say I'm sorry & why I'm sorry (as do they). I receive a lot of grief from my family because I prioritise my children and am told 'they are grown, you should have your own life now' but they did not ask to be born. I had these children for my own selfish reasons so why would I want to simply give up now because they are over 18? They all have jobs and live out of home but I drop everything when they need me and in turn they never abuse that either. I had my children young (I'm now 46) so I could still remember what it was like to be a child and be able to relate to them. I've never understood hitting a child, what are you trying to prove? That violence is what you should use when someone does wrong by you? They will be fighting people for the rest of their lives based on that logic. Strict & untrusting parents create sneaky children.

I love Aba's hoodie kept looking at it the whole time

When its all about you, there is no room for anyone else. I feel sorry for the child, because she could care less.

@WhatIsItToBurn

2 жыл бұрын

I disagree, I definitely think she couldn't care less.

@SirN8speare

2 жыл бұрын

@@WhatIsItToBurn both of you are correct as sad and contradictory as it is

@coltonsmith3724

2 жыл бұрын

@@SirN8speare no, not both. The phrase “could care less” is incorrect

@SirN8speare

2 жыл бұрын

@@coltonsmith3724 dude go away