“I cut their hair” “Don’t give my children haircuts” “I’ll do it again” I support this father

@terrymaloka7153

2 жыл бұрын

Is that a threat🙈

@markbrown2891

Жыл бұрын

Likewise

@BlackDiamond2718

4 ай бұрын

“Ill fucking do it again.”

It’s wild how willing she is to turn her children against their own father just to assert her dominance

@lovely1641

2 жыл бұрын

That's hitting below the belt. No one gets to influence the relationship a kid has with their parent

@boodrowwilson1894

2 жыл бұрын

That's called being a woman, and they shouldn't have the leverage or ability to hold anything over your head , cause they will .

@brandondean5680

2 жыл бұрын

My mom did the same thing to me but it backfired hard on her. She'll get hers one day when the kids get older an find out

@uneducatedisnotstupidlol1504

2 жыл бұрын

Or how she put them behind the car bitch if you want to put yourself behind the car do it but putting your kids there shows where your priorities really are.

@Darius-kl3jk

2 жыл бұрын

@@boodrowwilson1894 i get it, but talking like u r here is harmful...

As a mother I'm repulsed. This father deserves full custody

@cmbsr4851

Жыл бұрын

I agree

@BenjiBoi696

Жыл бұрын

Yessir

@taynitram

Жыл бұрын

had me in the first half 🤣🤣 im relieved

@przvany7213

Жыл бұрын

​@@taynitram the first half? Lol she was on the dad's side from the beginning

@dreamkitty

8 ай бұрын

@@przvany7213he saw “as a woman” and instantly got defensive 💀

The Mom is nuts, that's where the crazy daughter got it from. Insanity runs in that family.

@thegoodoldboys100

Жыл бұрын

Insanity IS that family.

@YouKnowMeDuh

Жыл бұрын

I suppose it's time to add this to the list of things we refer to as generational curses...

@jameswayton2340

Жыл бұрын

Its called generational trauma. It only stops when somebody heals themselves from trauma before they make children. If you don't do that you are likely or often garuanteed to give your problems and shortcoming onto your child. You are unhealthy as a person? you are unhealthy as a parent. You have an unhealthy parent? you become a unhealthy person. Thats how it go's, over and over again, for hundreds of years, one generation to the next, until somebody recognizes they have trauma and fixes it. I can say without any doubt these kids will be traumatized by their childhood. Literally the moment in the video itself is already one trauma.

She goes around telling everyone that he abandoned the children even though he's right there.

@Rey-Nolds

2 жыл бұрын

You can't make this Sh*t Up, until deal with it first hand or witness on video most people don't care about a mans struggle.

@frostnova2144

2 жыл бұрын

He had most likely just spent a day with them 😅

@Rey-Nolds

2 жыл бұрын

@@frostnova2144 Because that out of shape She Devil wants to keep them away...another BW terriorst ruining her children.

@maineman5757

2 жыл бұрын

@@frostnova2144 All the court would allow certain amount of time most likely. Plus he doesn't live with the mother what else is he supposed to do? Pull a Kanye?

@Nephibis

2 жыл бұрын

@@frostnova2144 Do you have evidence to prove this claim, because considering her said he would cut their hair next time if they needed it cut then he doesn't have the type of mentality where he would have only spent one day with them.

The fact she’s throwing around she’s the “custodial parent” as if that means he can’t take care of his own children is insane.

@wolfpack4128

2 жыл бұрын

The same folks that say men need to do better are the first to claim men have zero say in their kids lives the second they don't get their fairy tale ending.

@mustent5713

2 жыл бұрын

Being a custodial parent is not custody. That's a child support determination. Custody is a separate entity.

@SedSays

2 жыл бұрын

@@mustent5713 exactly. I’m a non custodial parent. Parenting time, decision making etc is 50/50. I wish my bm would try to pull some trash shit like this.

@maineman5757

2 жыл бұрын

@Kitty Silverlake Going to the barbershop with my dad as a child is some of the fondest memories I had. Those haircuts look fresh.

@PrincessZaire100

2 жыл бұрын

If it was something like him getting their ears pierced or something permanent, I would be like okay, I can kinda see your point. But my mom never once told my dad that he had to consult with her over my damn hair. Stuff like this is bizarre to me. My parents HATED each other even before they even got divorced, and my mom never did shit like this. If anything she encouraged me to fix my relationship with my dad when we had issues after I graduated high school. People need to GROW UP

"EVER SINCE YOU ABANDONED THEM" We know what she's telling these kids. Having had a mother like this, I know exactly what's happening here.

@BlackZar84

20 күн бұрын

Sad part is the kids are going to take a lot of damage before they figure who their mother really is.

This is the reason he left her. She is a shameless monster. Children aren’t bargaining chips for control or affection.

@marylamb5662

Жыл бұрын

A Go fund me needs to be set up for this dude so he can rescue those kids.

As a child of divorce, there’s nothing more vindictive than a parent who feels wronged. They can get petty as fuck real quick.

@dr.phylisphical9294

2 жыл бұрын

@SOUL SEEKER for real im talking from experience as well its just as toxic.

@anjel130

2 жыл бұрын

Yea my mom felt wronged made my life hell.

@dr.phylisphical9294

2 жыл бұрын

@@anjel130 for real saying your just like your father like if thats an insult LOL.

@anjel130

2 жыл бұрын

@@dr.phylisphical9294 on God. I'd rather be like my father.

@dr.phylisphical9294

2 жыл бұрын

That prepared me for the world though now i see manipulation from a mile away ive seen it from men and women and i see ego and evil in people as well so i stay away and keep myself protected from these emotional manipulators and haters.

I like how when their father tells the boys not to play with their trains on his car, the mother tells them "don't let him take your toys...you can do what you want". She'll continue that attitude throughout their life and when they hit puberty and become monsters, she'll then play victim; expecting their father to step in to discipline them. And this type of "toxicity"/abuse never gets discussed in the mainstream.

@GavriJ

2 жыл бұрын

What goes around... comes around. Sad to see it.

@trustme7660

2 жыл бұрын

They create toxic guys for the next women to deal with they don’t care

@chico9805

2 жыл бұрын

Straight facts right here. Single mothers are a poison to society and it will only continue to worsen

@Renegade2786

2 жыл бұрын

That line "don't let him take your toys... *you can do what you want* " right there is what leads to BM raised by mothers like that to be killed by cops.

@BattleBladeWarrior

2 жыл бұрын

You can tell she hates that man, and is making it a point to put him down. When my parents divorced, the first thing my Mom did the last few weeks in the house was only refer to my Dad as "derb" She'd be all "Hi, DRB! HOW you doin DRB?! Do you know what that stands for? DIRTY ROTTEN BASTARD! Because you're a dirty rotten bastard for leaving us. How does it feel to be a dirty rotten bastard" And after the divorce, when my sis and I still spent time with him, she'd always go "WOW, and you still like spending time with him? You're ok with being abandoned? ok. Must be nice to abandon your family and still have your kids" And stuff like that. So petty and spiteful. We weren't ever allowed to sleep over, even though he always had an apartment with a guest room and a bed. We were grilled everytime we came home from spending time with him. What did we say, what did he say, etc. And the sad thing too was, after the divorce, it was actually the best time my sis and I had with my Dad. Because he was making time for us, taking us to the park, to movies, spending time just talking. And my Mom just pissed all over that everytime. Coming home was so demoralizing. Its sad when parents make it all about themselves, it just ends up punishing the children.

This whole interaction had my blood BOILING. Women like this make ALL of us look bad.

@summerrose8110

2 ай бұрын

Agreed. And yet society demonize and blame men.

i really hope people start being careful who they have kids with one day

@jbktpl1245

Жыл бұрын

Same

@thegoodoldboys100

Жыл бұрын

I have. I had a physically abusive ex. She would physically assault me and almost got us killed on the highway punching me on the side of the head while I was driving. I broke everything off with her at the end of 2010. I shortly dated about 5 women in 2011, and then I just stopped dating. The movie called woman is not worth the price of admission.

Every child deserves a parent, not every parent deserves a child

@christianmbabazi9722

2 жыл бұрын

Say it louder for the people in the back

@misslashaexo

2 жыл бұрын

FACTS!!!

@zuhayerahnafaziz6956

2 жыл бұрын

EVERY CHILD DESERVES A PARENT, NOT EVERY PARENT DESERVES A CHILD!!!

@seaofroses8888

2 жыл бұрын

No one deserves a child. Having children is selfish. I’m not necessarily saying it’s wrong,as a lot of people dream of being parents, however, you are essentially bringing someone to the world because YOU are lonely, YOU want to meet societies expectations, YOU forgot to use birth control, YOU don’t want your partner to leave you. The reasons go on.

@anthonym840

2 жыл бұрын

@@seaofroses8888 ur actually off a bit there. There are people who have children because they wanted to have children as uve stated. There is a such thing as planned childhood. There are families that actively choose to bring the next of kin into this world. So not every human being is selfish just because They want to have kids. Now if ur talking about the selfish ones that use the court system, then yes they are. But that's not everyone. There are People that just want to raise and teach lineage. That's a real thing.

Her: when you abandoned them Him: *I left you* Fr I'm so tired of women like this trying to make it seem as though them and the child are a package deal. Traumatizing their kids just to spite their ex, as if having a father isn't an essential part of a child's life. It's actually heart breaking to watch.

@summerrose8110

2 жыл бұрын

As a woman who doesn't have children I'm embarrassed of that evil witch.🤦‍♀️

@harrisindustries314

2 жыл бұрын

It's an emotional response. That's why children should be raised by both male and female energies to balance that.

@summerrose8110

Жыл бұрын

@@harrisindustries314 I agree. I'm glad I was raised by both.

@gnomie2.0

Жыл бұрын

Totally heart breaking

@ddandymann

Жыл бұрын

There's a decent chance that the dude would have been happy to take custody as well, however most dudes when threatened with being dragged through the courts to fight a losing custody battle will just give in and save themselves the trouble and their kids the trauma.

I feel so bad for those kids, being treated as nothing but pawns in an attempt to hurt your ex.

I’m just over 12 years without seeing my son. I went through two different lawyers and spent over $40,000 fighting for a year before she won. She also won her lawyers fees which was $60,000. My whole argument was she intended to alienate me from him by relocating and then denying access. From the stress and emotional damage I ended up losing my job. Luckily after almost a decade of just avoiding relationship I’ve found someone and have started a family again. It’s been great being home and seeing my kid daily and being a parent helping them grow.

@ostentatiousbeats

29 күн бұрын

I hope you can reconnect with your son and develop something at some point, whenever it is

My mother kidnapped me at 2 years old and didnt tell my dad she fled to the U.S, At 27 I met my father a decent kind wise man and yet even now at 32 years old my mom is so arrogant prideful and vindictive I dont have any communication with her plus I get anxiety and my hands sweat when I talk to her she is very manipulative but anyway yea this type of behaviour is super cringe thank god I came across Stoicism and its helped me a ton to change my perspective on life plus on how to handle difficult people one example being toxic people lol

@rmisionero

2 жыл бұрын

This happened to this one guy I knew when I lived in Mexico. The mom took the kid and went to the US, and at the time, there was no extradition for women who kidnap their kids from their fathers. That kid is now 60 years old, living in Mexico, but does not speak a word of Spanish.

@lamarrboudreaux2082

2 жыл бұрын

Sheeesh. That's unfortunate. sorry to hear that brotha.

@DavidElendu

2 жыл бұрын

You story is tragic but I'm happy that you found a philosophy that is helping you make it through. You're story is an encouragement to many here

@beyondthunderstick1578

2 жыл бұрын

I hope my daughter finds me someday. Was there till 2 years. Went to korea.

@moopersworthninjason42nd81

2 жыл бұрын

Im sorry you went thru that Real talk tho You should DDT her

What a terrible and poor excuse for a mother. I don’t care why she hates him this much. To be putting her kids through this unnecessary trauma is sick.

@q.t.gamingfamily

2 жыл бұрын

Dad knew this was going to be a thing. They have not one but two children together so he knew her for at least 18 months. He's a toxic b@$tard too

@chico9805

2 жыл бұрын

@@q.t.gamingfamily I'd like to see you keep that same energy for all the single mothers with 3 bastards, from the same deadbeat.

@janiemay5892

2 жыл бұрын

Yes it is unnecessary. I feel sorry for those kids

@fusradah3977

2 жыл бұрын

@@q.t.gamingfamily wrong

@Girlgonewise

2 жыл бұрын

@@q.t.gamingfamily Why do you have to find a way to blame the man? I doubt she was behaving like this prior to the divorce. Her behaviour has nothing to do with him. She is a bitter woman that is willing to go to any lengths to hurt her ex, even if it destroys their children in the process.

God bless this man, his level of restraint and patience is commendable. These are the bitter women people should stay away from. I feel so bad for these boys. Unbelievable.

As a man who’s currently going through this I just wanna say to all the dads DONT CRASH AND BURN. I know it feels like you have know other out, but trust me things will get better

I knew the “he’s putting his hands on me” card was going to get played. This is right out of the “butt hurt ex” playbook. My ex tried to have me arrested for taking my kids camping.

@Fuzzybunny-yf2lh

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. And she wonders why he was filming smh. The man has to protect himself

@jshooper7819

2 жыл бұрын

"HELP! HELP!!!" "Are you hurting me?" - she's a complete lunatic. So is her mother.

@BlankoOnTheBeat

2 жыл бұрын

Camping? Holy shit that's insane

@drewhelean1752

2 жыл бұрын

@@BlankoOnTheBeat yeah, she claimed the camp fire put the kids in direct physical danger

@BlankoOnTheBeat

2 жыл бұрын

@@drewhelean1752 that's just mental, sorry you had to go through that bs.

The mother is pure evil and she’s traumatising her children by using them as a weapon against their father. The kids are whining and crying, calling “daddy!”. It’s heartbreaking. She doesn’t care that he cut the little boys’ hair, she’s just using it against the father. The father needs to go to court and get his kids ASAP! I’m grateful this man filmed this to protect himself.

@imsonotnice7669

2 жыл бұрын

At that age the hair grows back in 3 weeks

@shelliejones434

2 жыл бұрын

Yes 🙏 thank you. I can't believe there are women taking up for her and her mom on this!!! This is disgusting behavior

@wallaceluna6241

2 жыл бұрын

@@imsonotnice7669 For real... The hair cut wasn't even an issue. LETS SAY DEVILS ADVOCATE HERE. It was a major issue... Health issue at that.... It'll regrow very soon...

@roberth4395

2 жыл бұрын

The sentences she was using are sentences that are commonly used by people who have narcisstic personality disorder(that is a serious mental illness and about 20-30% of the human population has it). Stay away from people like her.

@JayR80

2 жыл бұрын

These two broads here is why the courts should not just give women the rights of custodial parent just because she the woman. They are clearly hurt women and every man is like the enemy now the kids become weapons to use against the father clearlllllly a court should step in after this video and reward full custody to the father why shouldn't it? She displays a clear danger to her kids by not being in her right mlnd.

I was literally sick to my stomach watching this. Hearing those precious little boys crying, getting traumatized…breaks my heart.

The "my single mother raised me" is shown more often than single fathers but, often times violence increases by over 60% when the person is from a single mother home. Mother's treat their kids as bullet proof vests often times, in order to get what they want from fathers that are just desperate for the safety of their children. My mother had chosen a wine addiction over my family and my father was the one working a 9-5, sometimes driving over 9 hours just to make sure We could see some football games. This was clearly not about her children, it was about her.

I hope this video would motivate the judge and jury to give the dad custody.

@aguythatsrandom

2 жыл бұрын

It won't. They will be on her side. Talking nonsense. Saying that he didn't ask for permission, and he kept taking the toys away from the kid making them cry. And the way he treated the grandmother. And ask questions about the car seat in the front and all the other stuff. They will do everything in their power to continue soaking the money out of the man's pockets

@SoldierSpiderx

2 жыл бұрын

@@aguythatsrandom I agree 9/10 the judge rule in the mother favorite and that how many kids end up with bad mother and how many kids was killed by the bad mother or their bf cause the judge gave the mother full custody and I remember watch a video of a judge said he don't like send women to prison and would give them less time and it rare find a good equal judge

@fuhk

2 жыл бұрын

@@SoldierSpiderx Exactly how my little cousin was killed. They gave the mother full custody. She ended up killing my little cousin and putting her in the deep freezer for 2 years. Her and one of her brothers (I wasn’t related to him).

@TutorialConspiracy

2 жыл бұрын

@@fuhk 2 YEARS oh fuck how horrible

@aguythatsrandom

2 жыл бұрын

@@fuhk What the actual hell? Is there is news story on this?

The fact that the dad is recording this whole thing and they still feel comfortable not only acting like this but also screaming for help trying to get him arrested. I truly hope he uses this to get full custody.

@BattleBladeWarrior

2 жыл бұрын

Yea, that right there shows how little respect they have for him, and how much they feel the courts will back them.

@lordsinister707

2 жыл бұрын

He should have immediately call his lawyer and presented the video. I mean this whole situation was escalated by the mother and the grandmother.

@francosuarez

2 жыл бұрын

It is unlikely that he or any man get full custody of children. The laws are designed to destroy families and men with the help of women. This woman knows that the police will not hesitate to kill this man on the spot, at her command and in front of her kids to make a point and play the victim. These are empowered women today.

@allopez8563

2 жыл бұрын

I think he did called his lawyer.

@nuni8185

2 жыл бұрын

I hope so to

She learned this from her mother so you can't expect anything more.

@noone2706

Жыл бұрын

That's why guys gotta take a good look at their gfs mom, that's what gf will be in the future

@saddamthebazaarcharlatan1183

Жыл бұрын

Sad to see those little boys have so many odds stacked against them in life

What is additionally frustrating is I remember how exciting it was to get a haircut as a child. They may have loved it, had a wholesome time with him and then returned to these women who disrespect their father and make them feel like they did something wrong in the process. Small detail in the grand scheme, but still they’re the worst.

Shame on any parent that uses their children as leverage. This should be considered child abuse.

@MrSub132

2 жыл бұрын

People like her shouldnt be allowed to have kids in the first place.

@ptolemeeselenion1542

2 жыл бұрын

Hm.

@mauricebolanos4024

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrSub132 I completely fucking agree. You should have to take a test and become certified to be allowed to have kids. We have too many people on this earth anyway and limited resources we don't need more people. GARBAGE people creating more garbage people. WE ARE WASTE

@jeremiahdavis3398

2 жыл бұрын

She just mad that they didn’t work out and just bitter smh 🤦🏾‍♂️ man watch you have these children by cause that sounds like a lifetime of hell on earth 🌍 not just one but 2 of them

@zinknot

2 жыл бұрын

@@mauricebolanos4024 It's scary to give someone the power to decide who can reproduce. But it would be nice if there was an objective standard that couldn't be corrupted by someone with selfish or genocidal intentions.

As a dad that has LITERALLY gone through this and have his kid full time now I make it my business to help any dad win cases for custody no matter haw bad the situation

@cherisewebster1520

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry you have to go through that. It's so sad it make good mothers angry when GIRLS like this act this way. Stay encouraged.

@robertparker6280

2 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏 Keep winning the fight! I'm sorry you had to go through that BS.

@davemonster2

2 жыл бұрын

This is why men end up hating women. Then we get called the crazy ones.

@prodsage2719

2 жыл бұрын

King shit

@TheTwinkiefoot

2 жыл бұрын

God Bless the OP

This is a CRAZY woman!! I hope she looks at this with shame. She's going to make it difficult for him to be their father and she's going to regret it.

A dad taking his boys to get hair cuts is a bonding thing for them. I know it is for my husband and oldest. Imagine being that angry that a man left you that you’ll traumatize your kids. My husband already knows if we get a divorce he’s taking the kids every weekend. I’ll need to break.

Father: "Imma give em a haircut next time" Granny: oH Is ThAt A tHrEaT?? Also Granny 30 seconds later: *IMMA CRACK HIM ON HIS HEAD*

@jshooper7819

2 жыл бұрын

The she runs up on him her fists balled up...and the yells "Behave yourself!!!"

@bleeem

2 жыл бұрын

@@jshooper7819 old people forget that someday they gon meet someone that wont deal with their bs and punch the fuck outta them.

@uk9383

2 жыл бұрын

I was with a copy ot these 2 women as my gf and my to be mother in law. so lucky i got away in time

My daughter's mother was just like that. Did everything possible to alienate me from her. Had everybody, including her family, on our toes holding the kid as a token. Got whatever time I could with the kid and bit my tongue scared that she would do something crazy and end up not seeing my daughter at all. 18 years of tolerating this abuse and last week my daughter ran away from her... because of HER actions towards my baby. Have given the kid all support and love that wanted to give her all this time and found out the bi@tch spent the last 18 years speaking ill of me to the point my daughter thought I didn't wanted to take care of her. Now I'm the one she's talking to and not her mom. We have a stronger bond than ever expected and are helping each other heal the wounds and trauma her mother festered on both of us all of these years. If anyone is going thru the same right now, just keep loving your children, stay close, don't grow cold.... it will come a time when everything is known.

@saddamthebazaarcharlatan1183

2 жыл бұрын

Like another comment stated correctly. Those insane women need to think this through. Your setting yourself up to get alienated by your child and you will die bitter and alone.

@arthurcallahan4735

2 жыл бұрын

This is why im moving to Eastern Europe when all the war is over. Police and society there know a womans tricks. There are better quality women there as well I used to date an amazing Russian girl. Sick of this dying western culture filled with entitled women and beta men.

@JD2jr.

2 жыл бұрын

@@saddamthebazaarcharlatan1183 They don't care. they care about the almost 20 years of money and power.

@F_Dot_

2 жыл бұрын

Respect for sticking it out.... A lot of people would have walked

@austinjames9604

2 жыл бұрын

Same thing happened to me but I was the kid my mom kept me from my dad for 7 years and always bad mouthed him now I resent her and mainly talk to my dad.i don't reach out to her anymore I'm not trying to get guilt tripped for living my life.

This father should use this video to get full custody from this insane woman.

I grew up being a child watching this kind of BS with my half-sister’s mom and my dad. Parents who let their ego be more important than their child shouldn’t have been parents. These altercations between the parents stick with the kids and it messes with them for life. It’s heartbreaking.

This Father has iron patience . I was really surprise at how calm he stayed and tried to even parent the kids while dealing with volleys of venom being spat at him by these horrible people. He did lose it at the end a bit, but it wasn't even that bad. That old bag earned those roasts. Actually think of the damn kids when you has kids!

@thealldrk5747

2 жыл бұрын

Diamond patience bro bro. That was wild.

@DC...

2 жыл бұрын

He's raising 3 kids. Tolerating two more is no big deal.

@thealldrk5747

2 жыл бұрын

@@DC... 😂😂. Dem some f@$^@^ up kids🤣🤦🏿‍♂️

@dialac1

2 жыл бұрын

He’s really calm. When the mother in law was walking over to him, I don’t know how he didn’t smack the shit out of her

@MrNybios

2 жыл бұрын

That wasn't the first time something like that happened to him with these women

"I wish I I did, I wouldn't have married her ass" This man has many regrets, but the way he handled it was pretty solid and not emotional. Most people wouldn't be thay calm

@mst-pierrem5729

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah great restraint !! My that dude is made of steal!!

@poopyjoe7435

2 жыл бұрын

even while in a serious situation he still has a sense of comedy

@bzleo2003

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. I was like dang this guy is patient. I'd give him custody in a minute.

@versatileduplicity9313

Жыл бұрын

Nigga shut up. I would've made her ugly for life and got locked up. I swear.

I haven't talked to my mom in a decade casie she was like this. I don't regret it. I've had my dad back in my life for about 9 years now. Couldn't be happier to have this time with him.

Sadly this is becoming the norm with separated couples. My children mother is on this level and it has done nothing but cause drama and issues for my children. She cares more about her image and whatever situations she can manufacture to tell her friends than what’s best for the children. And because I try to be the bigger person and refuse to badmouth her in front of my children I am constantly having to defuse situations she creates by whatever lies and manipulation she puts on them while they are with her. I have a pretty good custody schedule for a man and it took three years of fighting in court to get there and about $60,000 in lawyers and I’m still not done. Our system is beyond flawed and a bitter woman can make a man go through hell if he wants to be a part of his children’s life. Sad times indeed

This is why some men don't even try to get their kids and just give up because the government backs up jaded women like this.

@trustme7660

2 жыл бұрын

And they continue to preach men are privileged I’m glad social media gets to expose them

@Cree_Money

2 жыл бұрын

The man is jaded. The women are insane.

@UnitedPacci

2 жыл бұрын

They don't listen. Or men who go MGTOW. Women will never care about men's struggle that is a fact. He records this because he has to go to hell for the system to recognize a woman being wrong. And even after this video probably it's still hard.

@trustme7660

2 жыл бұрын

@@UnitedPacci she’ll get the benefit of the doubt

@michaelfagains8249

2 жыл бұрын

@@UnitedPacci The video is not for the courts.... we know they don't give AF about men's issues. It's for his sons when they get older...

When a man chooses to walk away from this type of BS he’s called a dead beat. The only reason she can do what she does is because he cares. The reason more men aren’t in their kids lives is because it would include dealing with a woman like this.

@Kevin-qj7fp

2 жыл бұрын

if this ever happened to me id go unemotional and cold and explain that im not a dead beat or abandonment or giving up on the children but the problem is the women that i have to deal with is why i gave up they are too much to handle and too tedious to take care for again if this ever happened to me its because the mother is this toxic its because the mother is using the child as a wall its because the mother is using the child in court as the reason to get me arrested thus i do not ever want to deal with her annoying voice trying to break me down psychologically and emotionally im cold hard emotionless because of these women and the more these women continue is the reason why i grow cold hard and emotionless again its because of them i become COLD and unreasonable and unforgiving to these vindictive mothers

@r.walker7986

2 жыл бұрын

We don't know if she was always this way or if she is this way because of something he did...

@GhostlyGhille

2 жыл бұрын

@@r.walker7986 FOH theres 0 excusing her behaving like a disgruntled child. She's unfit.

@jusdre313

2 жыл бұрын

@@r.walker7986 SHE has control over HER actions REGARDLESS of what was done to her. nothing but excuses. she is accountable for HER actions. no ONE can make YOU act like anything. YOU CHOOSE how you ACT everyday ALL DAY

@anonymousfreedom1253

2 жыл бұрын

@@r.walker7986 LOL would you tell this if a man doing this or would you call him hurt and out of line without giving him this kind of heartwarming support for his toxicity?!

I work in public safety and baaaaaby the custody issues, wheeew VERY deep! I don't have children yet and I'm constantly reminded to so carefully, intentionally, choose my partner. I really pity anyone who is going through these issues because the court is NOT set up to care! To anyone going through this please, please, make your police reports, document everything, stay cool, and stay the course! The kids will know the difference in the future!

My first wife was like this and to make things worse she remarried the son of a local judge. It was an absolute nightmare and our son has issues to this day from years of bs. This is so sad.

This is such a trigger for me. I was raised in a place where my dad was always in and out of the picture, but my mother NEVER STOOD IN THE MIDDLE OF MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY DAD. Instead she fought hard for my dad to be a part of my life and for us to always have a good relationship. She’s always told me “what ever happens between adults is only between the adults, never involve the children.” Seeing this abusive behavior is so disgusting and hurtful. These kids don’t deserve to witness nor to be apart of any of this.

@shoca3427

2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly my situation! I only found out all of the bad things about my father in adulthood and I deeply appreciate my mother for letting me see those things on my own and to this day I have a better relationship that's with dad than I would otherwise even though I see thw flaws and bad

@APD089191

2 жыл бұрын

My mom tried the same thing however my father didn’t care about anything else but himself. I cut that thing out of my life as soon as I could. Sometimes I just ask myself, she could have picked anyone to have a child with and not only she picked the worse out of the worse she also pushed hard for us to have a relationship resulting in me being fucked up by the man.

@carmay3600

2 жыл бұрын

My mother got a really good job after college in a neighboring state but my dad didn’t want to move away from his family so they never got married. My mother NEVER said a bad word about me and my twin sister’s dad. She would drive for hours to take us to see him and she never took him to court. I grew up knowing that my dad is a very kind and patient person because our mom made sure of it.

@TheNerdistheWord

2 жыл бұрын

So glad she did that. What’s with woman now not wanting the kids fathers to be apart of the kids lives??

@shoca3427

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheNerdistheWord It's because some use them as a token to hold over the father, some are scared about or focused on them being a bad partner that they think they'll be a bad father and think that means they should lose their parental rights and some actually know the fathers are toxic and are trying to protect their kids but knowing the situation is important before judging the mom

This is LITERALLY happening everyday everywhere around the world. Poor kids, so very hard to watch this 😢

@razmatazzsi2293

2 жыл бұрын

Animal species fighting over carbon/melanated earth babies. The takeover of any species begins with trauma. Every tear they cry is currency. See how the Father has conditioned himself to not get emotional. This protects him but it gives the instigator a signal to continue with the foolishness to attempt to harvest more energy or forge a relationship. They create the issue to force an interaction and then use their deception and manipulation as a pseudo solution. She said she was going to call the police on him for cutting the children's hair?

@gerdavandersan2018

2 жыл бұрын

This is soo SAD it's not about the Dad cutting His Kidss hair,but it's about hurt,I just can't believe she would expose her Children to this. And the Children crying during this whole trauma is just heartbreaking,and you could tell the Children Love their Dad. It's All about hurt.Its should be about the Children's well-being 😢

@akeemguy7331

2 жыл бұрын

This comment deserves way more likes.

@thegoodoldboys100

Жыл бұрын

@@gerdavandersan2018 It's not about hurt. It's about control. She wants all the control.

Damn this was sad as hell. The damage this will do to the kids is immense. This behavior disgusts me I hate when one parents uses the kids as a means to argue with the other parent.

Saddest thing is that it seems that the dad is the best possible parents, not the mother. During the situation that they are harassing him for taking care of their kids it was clear that the father was more concerned with his children and trying to stay calm and de-escalate the situation.

Interrogating another person's child without the parent is definitely out of line. That's a big No-No!

@cmbsr4851

Жыл бұрын

Yeah that drove me to the edge, even if it's his new woman's kid, WHO CARES they shoulda left that baby alone fckn weirdos

My tip to dad's in custody disputes is to get to know your kid's teacher, especially if they're still in grade school. Admittedly, I've rarely been called for testimony but courts do take our opinion very seriously. If your kid has good attendance, looks well kept and has her homework done during your custody time, that helps you fight accusations of child neglect a lot.

@benja303

2 жыл бұрын

Damn this really sounds like a gem

@soppybottomboys1195

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the massive tip

@jicalzad

2 жыл бұрын

This should be done regardless of separation/divorce, but I hear ya, this is especially important in custody battles

@bookmice5323

2 жыл бұрын

That's great advice.

@Zwill35

2 жыл бұрын

Valid , I never thought about that !! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

As a dad it pisses me off the trauma that these women are putting on those kids for no reason. If this man ain't got custody we need to set up a go fund me so he can fight for full custody.

Been divorced twice and one thing I never argued about was my kids. They didn’t do anything and they need BOTH parents. This woman is CRAZY - she’s bitter and she doesn’t care about her babies. Good luck to this man dealing with this psycho

The best line: "She says: Ever since you abandoned us. He says: I thought I just left you." That is what is wrong with some women. They think just because you leave them you are also leaving the kids. No b**ch. It is you I hate. I love the kids. It is the damn courts that don't have the side of the father so it is hard as fuck for the father to keep their kids so he has to deal with dumb b**ches like this.

@oxx-fit

2 жыл бұрын

100

This woman's behavior is very embarrassing to me as a woman. These are the kind of women who make us look stupid, manipulative, and crazy. Thanks a lot! 🙄🙄🙄

@MegaSlimgoody1

2 жыл бұрын

How does another woman represent you and or other black women? She doesn't represent me, that is her behavior not mine.

@jeannettesneed

2 жыл бұрын

@@MegaSlimgoody1 I get what u saying but c'mon u know what she meant 😂

@bryptoTips

2 жыл бұрын

@@jeannettesneed ppl love to argue even when they are in agreement lol

@thomasmitchell4128

2 жыл бұрын

@Ruffled Feathers You're the type of woman she talking about hahahaha nice

@MegaSlimgoody1

2 жыл бұрын

@@jeannettesneed I don't assume, her words were clear.

It really infuriates me when parents basically try to alienate the kids from the other when they want to be in their kids lives cause my dad was "too embarrassed" to see me or my sister after his and my mom's devoice

Reminds me of growing up, me and my brother. Horrible shit. Disgusting parents. Our parents didn't even want to be parents either. We were nothing more than pawns in their petty emotional squabbles. And now we're grown and damaged. All we can do is try to do better. I tried to shield my brother from a lot of what happened growing up. He luckily doesn't remember too much of it.

When I saw this a few years back I was so frustrated and hurt for him and his boys. But, what stood out the most was when he said, "I thought I left you!" because she's going to try to manipulate them into hating their father. Her mother showed EXACTLY where she learned this from.

@llawliet6262

2 жыл бұрын

Ok, so my 21-year-old coworker is dating a 38-year-old woman. I’ve been working there for a week. I found out he was dating her because I overheard him talking on the phone about it. My 19-year-old sister is dating a 21-year-old. Her boyfriend is emotionally, verbally, and physically abusive and I have seen him punch her for spending time with her female friends. I am going to help her but I have to help my co-worker first because his age gap is creepy. I went up to him to talk to him about it and he said: “I’m fine”. After that, I went to talk to my sister and she asked me for help because she wanted to leave her abusive boyfriend but he threatened to kill her. I will help her after I help my co-worker because he takes top priority. I tried to talk to him again but he still said that he was fine and that his friends and family already know about the relationship. I have been following him around and I saw him and his girlfriend on a date and they were having fun and seemed happy. This is weird because when he’s around her he seems comfortable and happy but when my sister is around her boyfriend she is scared shitless. My sister called me saying that her boyfriend beat her up pretty badly and broke her leg and then stabbed her because he caught her trying to leave. Our parents don’t know because she asked me not to. She is begging me for help. I need to help my co-worker first and then my sister. What should I do about my co-worker?

@monarchhenchman2835

2 жыл бұрын

@@llawliet6262 is this a troll account? You co worker can date anyone he wants, no matter how old they are. Consenting adults can do anything they want. Help your gut stabbed sister is what i say you should do first and only. Your co worker is fine and not your business.

@KJ.85

2 жыл бұрын

@@llawliet6262 What's your point?! You've posted this under multiple comments. But, you can't help someone who doesn't want help or think they need it. At the end of the day, they're grown and knows what's good and bad for them. When it comes to domestic violence more often than not no matter how much you try to help, it won't work until they realize it for themselves. Their world has been warped over time, little by little until the abuser has full control and they've become a shell of the person they used to be.

@llawliet6262

2 жыл бұрын

@@KJ.85 What would you do if your 20-21-year-old son or daughter told you they wanted to date older people?

@KJ.85

2 жыл бұрын

@@llawliet6262 The key point in your question is '20-21 yr. old', meaning they're grown. Who am I to choose who my adult child should be with and the age limit?! The more you give your opinion, the closer you'll push them to that person.

That grandmother is complicit in evil. She will be held eternally accountable to the division she put forth in that family.

@kush7138

2 жыл бұрын

These blk women don't care what they do to us blk men. They have been set to a standard to think that most of us ain't shït

@mordecaiexume347

2 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@PunkMartyr

Жыл бұрын

Yep

@BlackDiamond2718

4 ай бұрын

And he praises God for not being a part of that crazy permanently

Thank you guys we really need to highlight this I’m a dad and been thought this situation so thanks guy 🙏🏿🇬🇧🖤👊🏿

I feel for this man for real. This is happening more often than not. The mother in law is a monster and the daughter in law is her minion deviled egg. I feel so sorry for men who have to deal with this. I see this too much. Unbelievable. 2 miserable demon women.

I just got out of a 4 year relationship with a woman like this with an enabling mother just like these two and I will say I am beyond happy that we didn’t reach the point of kids and marriage 🤣🤣 I dodged a missile for sure

@Trelitty11

2 жыл бұрын

@BALZY DEALZ In facts and logic bruh you have no idea , I didn’t make it through without a scratch . The woman screaming you hit me evoked ptsd like a mf

@sibusiso2841

2 жыл бұрын

@BALZY DEALZ In facts and logic ended that kill streak real quick

@4xzx4

2 жыл бұрын

Missile? Sounds like you dodged Meteor.

@xaviergeorge3359

2 жыл бұрын

You spent 4 years with someone like this? Do you have no self respect?

@ibezag0

2 жыл бұрын

4 years?! That says a lot about the type of men who endure that!!!!

I remember watching a TikTok video of a mother cutting off her daughters braids because the dad got it done by another woman without asking her. The little girl looked about 4 years old and she was sobbing . It broke my heart

@pt7726

2 жыл бұрын

Wtf

@nolimit4484

2 жыл бұрын

I seen that. She’s just another bitter baby momma. I get he should’ve asked. But her hair was nice and she should’ve left it the way it was. Be mad all you want but why do that to your daughter

@Moonlight-gs7ti

2 жыл бұрын

@@nolimit4484 exactly

@jayslayerkingofkings3759

2 жыл бұрын

I seen that she lost custody

@mikealaniz7236

2 жыл бұрын

@@nolimit4484 because they care about their own feelings and getting revenge on the father more than their child’s feelings.

Love listening to these guys man! Very intelligent look on things.

This is so sad. I am so glad that me and my ex wife had a talk about how we were going to raise and act around each other with our child, so we could avoid these things. And thank the Lord her mother loves me and is not like this.

I’m glad he documented this so he can show it to a judge. This is insane. Get your custody king. And I’m a woman saying this

@fabrice8940

2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately over 90-95% of custody, child welfare, and alimony go to the woman from the man. The laws are designed to favor women from a time where they were solely/ financially dependent on men over 60 years ago not 2022. He would need serious child neglect evidence, drug abuse, child protective services involved to get a chance at getting full or majority custody.

@user-rd5nc1nb9f

2 жыл бұрын

hahahah you are so naive to think that the judge gives a damn about this shi lmao the family court system is built to destroy families and destroy the role of the father with the intention of replacing the father with the governement

@dynastyfamily00

2 жыл бұрын

The judge won't do a damn thing! Dont be shouldnt be surprised if he is made to pay a penalty for showing how inept the court is at actually protecting children!

@snapeinvader6208

2 жыл бұрын

I'm just shocked at how willing she was to get the father of her kids shot in front of them. She threatens him with the cops, then fakes some bullshit to scare him with some white knight coming over to save her sorry ass.

@oxx-fit

2 жыл бұрын

Those boys may grow up to resent her bc of how she acts

I haven't seen my son since he was a year old, he's six years old now. He's a beautiful little boy, and I don't get to have a role in his upbringing. It is by far the worst pain I've ever felt in my life. Hearing y'all talk about living through pics on social media had me in tears. I have two other children that I'm directly raising, so I have a lot of love in my life. But there's always a hole there. I could never imagine doing to his mother what she's done to me.

@solaris2340

2 жыл бұрын

Take her trifflin butt to court-your child too...

@PeachFlavoredKaiju

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry luther

@MissV301

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry 😔

@jelegget

2 жыл бұрын

That's rough man. I feel for you

@MCMKids-hw2mi

2 жыл бұрын

Did you tell her you wanted to speak to him?

“Oh I abandoned them? I thought I just left YOU” 🔥🔥🔥

She knows that if she doesnt have the kids blocking the car then she would get run over

“Are you hitting me?”, while he’s recording them. Reminds me of that Central Park woman with the dog, telling the cops, “there’s a black man attacking me”, while he’s recording her.

Women need to start doing time for this stuff. The mother-in-law threaten him and then went up to him, the wife letting the kids scratch up the car, and especially when the mother started yelling help when the man didn't actually do anything to her. If we want equality and justice in the court system then we need to start holding women accountable as much as society hold us men accountable.

@DVX755

2 жыл бұрын

I agree, these false allegations and goading men to do something to them so they can call the Police. Sinful of them.

@sg5720

2 жыл бұрын

As a mother I’m disgusted by her behavior. She is soooooo selfish, she mad cause he don’t want her. She cares more for herself than her children. She is disgusting. Glad he left her. Poor man having to deal with this woman. SMDH.

@MrDerekm77

2 жыл бұрын

@@biblethumper8088 youre dumb if you think that, hes their father, if the kids need a haircut he can give them a haircut, he didnt cause anything, shes starting everything, and its not even about the haircut, shes crazy because shes mad at him, all this is outta spite

@Dreadkid08

2 жыл бұрын

@@biblethumper8088 That's not what this is about. I actually agree, I think its bad form to not at least give the parent that has custody a heads up and be like, "hey I'm going to go get a haircut for the kids." But if she would have just said: "Hey, next time you get the kids' hair cut could you consult with me first or let me know?" No one would have had an issue. That request is perfectly reasonable. She escalated a situation and made a mountain out of a molehill. She created a fight where there absolutely did not need to be one and she wouldn't let the issue go. Thats what people have an issue with. Her handling of this is uncalled for and this isn't about the haircut, its about her anger and hatred toward him. She is not acting in the best interest of her children, she is being selfish and thats what people are taking issue with.

@biblethumper8088

2 жыл бұрын

@@Dreadkid08 o.k let's look at how this could've been deescalated. So we agree he should've discussed this with her before hand. Now replay the video and count how many times she asked him to tell her where he got the kids haircut at. So why didn't he just answer the question? He can obviously see that this is upsetting her, so why not calm things down by just answering her question? It's bc he wanted to trigger her, hence him recording to use this as justification for bm's lie of bw being combative and difficult. Now let's flip this and see how you would react if this happened to you. You go to pick your kid up from their mother and you see your child in a cast. You ask the mother repeatedly what happened? She refuses to tell you. The child is too young to explain. So you're telling me as a parent, you don't have the right to be upset about what happened to your child and the mother refuses to tell you?. So again, he caused this thing to be escalated bc 1. He didn't consult the mother on something that affects the child. 2. He refused to answer her legitimate question regarding the child. So who is really the one escalating things? Who is the one showing hatred by not answering a simple question? Who is the one being bitter and spiteful here? I'll tell you, him.......

This is sooo sad. An pety sir you are a real gentlemen for keeping calm an respecting you sons kudos to you

Bless your heart earl! I see where the mama gets it from

That poor kid has to have these women in his life. Then they wonder why “toxic masculinity” is even possible.

@tonybablony2041

2 жыл бұрын

Fr, likes its women’s fault, that’s a meme right but it’s facts sometimes 🤣

@dr.phylisphical9294

2 жыл бұрын

Yup its because of that new thang called toxic femininity.

@tonybablony2041

2 жыл бұрын

@@dr.phylisphical9294 oh they not gonna like this, they finna call u a misogynist

@dr.phylisphical9294

2 жыл бұрын

@@tonybablony2041 i dont care what they gonna do talk about me on the internet LOL.

@TheTwinkiefoot

2 жыл бұрын

These women are batshit crazy BUT WE as men have to do better at not indulging these types in any capacity. That level of crazy just didn't happen. The breadcrumbs of it was always there

I made it 2 minutes in and couldn't watch any more cause it reminds me to much of my ex wife. My two boys are 17 and 14 and I have full custody now because her new husband can't stand having them around so she abandoned them on me. Now I get the child support. 👍

@noone2706

Жыл бұрын

Your ex sounds like a real piece of work

That’s my situation right now. I haven’t seen my son since nov 5th 2021 which is also my sons birthday when he turned 3 and that’s the last time I seen him in person and hurts me everyday that I can see my first born son. My sons mother does exactly what they said at around 12min mark but no more I can’t wait to go to court and get my son back. Power to all the Kings out there fighting for there kids back ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽

The thing is, even if your parents are together- One thing that can still fuck a kid up is like this- Imagine you have parents, and they're together, and they take decent care of you, but they have their arguments, and whenever they go through those rough patches, while still together, and still looking after you, they may slip in a comment like "You're just like your father" or "You're just like your mother", and in your mind, you have no problem being "compared" to your parents- Under normal circumstances, but it's different, they only say it when they perceive you as having hints of each of their bad traits, because they're so emotionally charged, that they can't see each other objectively anymore, and for brief moments, that bleeds into you. I can only imagine how much worse that could be in a broken family, where no matter which house you're in, you could constantly get compared to "the other side". People will disown, isolate and destroy their children before they'll actually consider working their shit out. We talk a lot about unrealistic expectations in all sorts of relationships, but in a way, I think the most distorted expectations people have are often towards their own children, because in my experience from what I've seen from my friends and family- They'll either have no expectations, and be somewhat healthy, positive expectations, which puts immense pressure on the kid, or negative expectations where they can try and treat their child like their enemy. And you can have a mix of all kinds with just one parent directed at one child.

This woman needs a life. I can't imagine any person that has something better to do wouldn't waste time trying to pull a custody switch by lying and using their own kids as fodder to smite the dad. Some ladies are truly and utterly miserable

@KoinzellGaming

2 жыл бұрын

People like that woman in the video are evil, not just "miserable". Trying to spread their anger and hate in the world is fully evil and they pull everyone around them into that hole. Tho the dude selecting her makes me wonder what sort of red flags he ignored from his side..

@katieb6961

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. There's enough problems that naturally occur in life and here she is causing unnecessary major problems, about to call the cops and have her mother assault someone over a damn haircut 🤦.

@Alejandr0varsay

2 жыл бұрын

You don't get it, what this woman deserves, can't be said in the YT comment seccion.

@Trattato68

2 жыл бұрын

@@KoinzellGaming The same red flags that women ignore when the man is the asshole. Hormones screw up rational thinking

@BIGBABYHAIR

2 жыл бұрын

@@Trattato68 My brother's ex wife accused him of molestation for giving him a bath every weekend he visited

A father's love is invaluable. I lost my dad 3 years ago at the age of 22. And I still feel that void everyday. Just because he didn't carry me for 9 months doesn't discount the sacrifice, the love, wisdom and work ethic he instilled me. To this woman and every other woman who agrees with her actions: Men aren't second class citizen parents.🖕🏾 Women like this do more damage to their own kids than they'll ever realize.

@graffittitagger65

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@peachywe4310

2 жыл бұрын

Seriously, fatherly love is undervalued

@saddamthebazaarcharlatan1183

2 жыл бұрын

As some comment pointed out: Women need to think this through. Your kids won't want to have anything to do with you when they get older and you will die bitter and alone.

@uk9383

2 жыл бұрын

I think that more women should realize this. Because guess what? the kids that are getting damaged are girls too

@LoopyLemon775

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

I am in this exact situation. I havent seen my daughter in yrs. My child is 13yrs old and I've been on child support the entire time. Im not going into detail but our system is very broken. My daughter and I were very close. I had to move out of state to maintain my financial responsibility. The mother used that as if I was leaving my daughter. Shit is wrong.

One min in and I'm sooooooooo damn irritated with her. She's so sick in her head it's so sad. I don't care what happened while they were together and what made them break up but it has NOTHING to do with the kids this is unacceptable PERIOD she's a mess smh

Her calm demeanor in the beginning, throughout, didn't have me fooled for a second. She was manipulative!!!! The way these kids were being torn right in front of us...OMG!!!! You know, I was that age once and I remember things from that age that have stained me. My parents fighting was one. This brings back those feeling of confusion, humiliation and fear. I'm reliving through these kids. They may not forget this. Kids pay more attention than others may think.

@bobepilepapa4359

2 жыл бұрын

I feel ya on that, I got memories of my parents fighting when I was young and it was traumatizing to a degree, but I just take it as a good example of a bad example ya know

@jrr7031

2 жыл бұрын

That, is a perfect example of gaslighting.

@stacybyrd7128

2 жыл бұрын

This saddens me so much because I'm going through this exact thing right now. My boys are 10 and 5.

@llawliet6262

2 жыл бұрын

Ok, so my 21-year-old coworker is dating a 38-year-old woman. I’ve been working there for a week. I found out he was dating her because I overheard him talking on the phone about it. My 19-year-old sister is dating a 21-year-old. Her boyfriend is emotionally, verbally, and physically abusive and I have seen him punch her for spending time with her female friends. I am going to help her but I have to help my co-worker first because his age gap is creepy. I went up to him to talk to him about it and he said: “I’m fine”. After that, I went to talk to my sister and she asked me for help because she wanted to leave her abusive boyfriend but he threatened to kill her. I will help her after I help my co-worker because he takes top priority. I tried to talk to him again but he still said that he was fine and that his friends and family already know about the relationship. I have been following him around and I saw him and his girlfriend on a date and they were having fun and seemed happy. This is weird because when he’s around her he seems comfortable and happy but when my sister is around her boyfriend she is scared shitless. My sister called me saying that her boyfriend beat her up pretty badly and broke her leg and then stabbed her because he caught her trying to leave. Our parents don’t know because she asked me not to. She is begging me for help. I need to help my co-worker first and then my sister. What should I do about my co-worker?

@bobepilepapa4359

2 жыл бұрын

@@llawliet6262 this is a joke right???

"Did you just hit me?" Honestly, when moments like these are caught on camera and display a clear embellishment, or just flat-out blatant lie, it should prove for a case of the willingness to weaponize a False Accusation and hold women like that accountable then and there for the potential, and deliberate intent, to play so irredeemably foul. Just a clear and cut case of playing themselves and demonstrating just a glimpse of their instability and psychological damage to their kids.

@dlt5241

2 жыл бұрын

It should….BUT DONT SHIT HAPPEN TO WOMEN WHO LIE AND ITS ON CAMERA…THEY HAVE NO CONSEQUENCE

@phoenixblackcomedy

2 жыл бұрын

Believe all women my ass

@duatchol7710

2 жыл бұрын

Facts, it’s not a crime for women to act like this unfortunately, just protection against yourself for accusations

@deadarmd

2 жыл бұрын

False accusations for women being held accountable? Who are you kidding. That will NEVER happen

@berwick1851

2 жыл бұрын

An unfortunate case I am all too aware of. This God-forsaken skewed timeline we horrendously veered off into.

This one hurt a bit to watch. I grew up for most of my childhood in this kind of situation and similarly my pops wanted to be more involved in my life, and my mom would go off almost everytime i wanted to spend more time with my dad. She'd talk bad about my father and it fucked my head up trying to pick sides and deal with the shit. The mom there is clearly hurt and can't even recognize how the toxic environment and relationship she's creating is gone hurt both the man, her kids, and in the long run herself. Shit is sad.

This whole interaction hurts my heart. Those poor kids

A toxic mother is more dangerous than an absent father... One piece of advice, PULL OUT to avoid this possible drama...

@new777new3

2 жыл бұрын

100% facts

@michellerichardson3090

2 жыл бұрын

More like dont put it in at all lol

@paulsam6537

2 жыл бұрын

@@michellerichardson3090 no accountability at all.

@humble.pie.

2 жыл бұрын

True

@LM-ix7pk

2 жыл бұрын

Better yet, don’t put your hands anywhere near these types of women. Children or not, these women WILL ruin your life. What’s the point in having them around just as a side piece when most of them are hellbent in making you miserable?

And this is the side that we don't see. We always the tales of all the deadbeats but we never see when women use their children as weapons to spite the father. Some withhold the children. Some poison them against their fathers. And this is absolutely despicable. Children are not pawns. And this only hurts the children. "You're none-custodial with visitation - you have no rights." I thought he was a parent. He has the responsibility of providing for the children but can't even take his children to get a haircut? This is ridiculous.

@trustme7660

2 жыл бұрын

It’s a topic women refuse to address but what usually happens it’s told it’s the mans fault she hates the father to the degree not even her kids matter just her being right makes me glad I don’t have kids

@hakumenx1

2 жыл бұрын

We do see it. America just ignores it in favor of blaming men. Why? It makes more money.

@frikabg

2 жыл бұрын

@@trustme7660 this isn't a topic that women refuse to address... this is a topic that EVERYONE refuses to address

@butterflymage5623

2 жыл бұрын

@@frikabg nah men talk about it all the time.

@anonymousfreedom1253

2 жыл бұрын

@@frikabg What we doing right now?

that North Carolina stung 😂, "i won't even answer that". No answer needed

This is legit infuriating... I hope this man gets custody of his children! I've dealt with women like this growing up.

Big ups to Earl, he has shown me a lvl of patience I didn't know existed.

@TheAgentmigs

2 жыл бұрын

It's like he's dealing with an irrational cop..but its his fucking ex-wife.

@TruthxAR

2 жыл бұрын

Big facts. Woulda had to choke slam both of them haux

@noregertsyamsayin8011

2 жыл бұрын

He should have immediately called the cops, showed them the video and get a report done, then immediately call his lawyer. Never put his self in a position to not have her recorded at the very least audio, preferably video again

This hits so hard for me, my brother and I went through this with our parents divorce I know exactly how those babies are feeling. My mother messed us up for a long time and used us. She didn't want us she just wanted child support by having us and she didn't want my father but she wanted to make him suffer. She talked so horribly about him to us, played victim to us for sympathy and told us adult things we had no business even knowing. It messes a kid up. Freaking narcissists.

@Zarolea

2 жыл бұрын

My boyfriend's baby mama is the same way. We had his daughter last weekend. She said to me that she feels scared all the time, and that she doesn't know why or what she's scare of. She just always feels scared. She's 5. She's brought it up before, cause she constantly asks to sleep in the same room as my boyfriend and I, but I just dismissed it as typical children's fear of the dark or something. This time was different though because it was during the day, and she said when I was just trying to encourage her to color inside the lines of her coloring book.

@Gointothelight

2 жыл бұрын

leave your sons alone, get up and move to another state, or another country. best advice this young man will ever get. it will change his life for the better.

@nik-at-nite

2 жыл бұрын

@@Gointothelight Huh? Are you suggesting the dad abandon his son?

@ssjwes

2 жыл бұрын

@@Zarolea Start taking notes because what you're describing could be a call for help from the little girl. Something bad might be happening to her outside of yalls time with her. Don't freak out because it might not be as bad as I'm saying but I would start paying more attention to this.

@ssjwes

2 жыл бұрын

@@Zarolea Just to add be careful if you probe her about this because you don't want to put ideas where they were not needed or not realised.

This is the highest level of ignorance from woman. The judge really needs to remove these kids from her

Some time down the line those boys are going to realize what monster their mom is

I'm just gonna leave this here: A judge, a person who spent almost a decade educating themselves in matters of law, saw this woman and thought "This person seems like a normal parent who will take care of the children."!

@latinhero1818

2 жыл бұрын

Here's what it means: The judge was the perfect stooge/activist for the job. The family court system is designed in such a way that it selects for these people to carry out the agenda of political and social activists. These people are indoctrinated in the universities and law schools by marxists and feminists. By the time they get out into the real world, they cause all sort of damage to families. The judges break up the families and destroy men/patriarchy, marriage counselors and psychiatrists exacerbate the damage by manipulating the feelings of the women, the lawyers encourage false accusations of abuse in order to facilitate gorging themselves on the money and estate of the divorced family, and the state gets a stronger hold on the kids while popular culture indoctrinates them and weakens them with ideological and physical poison. All of this is connected.

@meowmeow9326

2 жыл бұрын

sometimes people know how to act as if theyre a good person when the situation requires it or bust. the sad part about this, besides the obvious, is that this also means, that they know when theyre acting out of line and do it anyway. these people refuse to look at themselves introspectively and blame everyone/thing around them for their own faults. terrible humans

@barbarella.artist

2 жыл бұрын

Um … did we watch the same video?? She is clearly a narcissist. Narcissists are extremely charming, manipulative and convincing when they need to beee 😅 Or you think a judge needs to follow this women 24 / 7 so that they know how they act behind the scenes….. ????? That’s why video evidence is so important. A few of these videos he can show a judge .. watch how quickly the tables turn Just leaving this here …

@Chualland

2 жыл бұрын

@@barbarella.artist I believe he is saying, AT FIRST I saw her and Thought ....

@SedSays

2 жыл бұрын

There’s a family law judge in texas who’s doing this exact thing to her ex husband. Literal JUDGE

This hits way to fucking close to home for me, growing up every Christmas, thanksgiving, and birthday ended with my parents fighting. Not arguing but actual fights, half of the time the police would show up to end things 'calmly'. As the oldest out of my siblings those fights eventually numb me to the situation to the point where it was background noises to me. Honestly at this point I don't care if I rich or poor, all I care about is not repeating my parents mistakes and being good husband and father myself. If I do that then I finally be content with myself

@kyizinmaung8289

2 жыл бұрын

Hope this gets the pin of agreement Edit: This didn’t age well

@deadmanperipherals

2 жыл бұрын

facts

@Ajay-uj1ui

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@ptolemeeselenion1542

2 жыл бұрын

Hm.

@ifSephirothwasemo

2 жыл бұрын

Preach

I hope this man got custody of his kids.

This is slowly breaking my heart, I hate to see child in this situation… it’s making hateful.. and I hate that.

As a single 30 year old man, this is one of the best birth control videos I’ve ever seen! 😂💯

@MGTOW_GHOST

2 жыл бұрын

Fathers need to show this and videos like it too their sons. A full compilation will do.😆

@tranceworld4057

2 жыл бұрын

LMAO

@THX5000

2 жыл бұрын

Totally. Don't stick your unit in crazy. And 99% of them are crazy.

@nathanscipio6148

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@farazon8472

2 жыл бұрын

As the saying goes: Don't put your dick in crazy!

Hearing the mom and how she talked to him answered all the questions. She’s probably the reason they are not together.

@wonnone6010

2 жыл бұрын

She is undoubtedly!

@mommyharris1111

2 жыл бұрын

Lack of personal boundaries.

@juicy_apple_x4046

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@rustyhowe3907

2 жыл бұрын

Yup, people like these sorts always travel in packs.

@IzzyBizzyBooBoo

2 жыл бұрын

He is broke and doesn't take care of his kids-likely underemployed. Meanwhile, she has her shit together and she is having to pick up his financial slack, he feels emasculated so he does trifling little things like getting the kid's haircuts when for all he knows the mom was trying to grow their hair out.

God please look out for these poor boys. I hope he took this video to court.