I WILL NOT MARRY ANYONE WHO DISRESPECTS MY SON

Meet Victor Muniafu, a single father who has tried dating severally but the love for his son determines the direction the relationship will take. Despite the many times the relationships have failed, he has not given up on marriage and says he is ready to settle with a mature lady. This is his story • I WILL NOT MARRY ANYON...

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  • @janealala1332
    @janealala13323 жыл бұрын

    Children can be very manipulative. It sounds like Victor's son has subconsciously decided that his dad will not remarry. Loving a child is one thing. You also need to have a life, while still taking care of your son.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love my children and I still have my own independence coz they respect my space.

  • @lucillea-r9568

    @lucillea-r9568

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jane Alala apana maneno ya kupima chalupa is a no!

  • @langatmary2549
    @langatmary25493 жыл бұрын

    I like the way luyia men take their children number 1.

  • @beatriceawuor3077

    @beatriceawuor3077

    3 жыл бұрын

    Not all mine one the father denied her till now she's 16years

  • @langatmary2549

    @langatmary2549

    3 жыл бұрын

    I wish victor can do the blending with me. He has unshakable heart. I will be a mother figure to his children and be a grand ma to his grandchildren. If he love his children, I know he will love my children too

  • @chasingclouds7101

    @chasingclouds7101

    3 жыл бұрын

    Don't generalise. I've raised my 23 year old son by myself. His father isn't bothered

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@langatmary2549 well noted ✅👌

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely 💯

  • @anitahmuli7691
    @anitahmuli76913 жыл бұрын

    Please Joyce try to "untie your hands".. open them up. Psychogically it's not right to listen to someone when your hands are closed up on the chest or pia hands akimbo.

  • @catherinewangari9444

    @catherinewangari9444

    3 жыл бұрын

    She is evading the man she is interviewing maybe there was a story before they came on air check evn her dressing just saying

  • @sarahnyambaka5885

    @sarahnyambaka5885

    3 жыл бұрын

    wajaa

  • @FM-ir2nq

    @FM-ir2nq

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @ruthutherin.4445

    @ruthutherin.4445

    3 жыл бұрын

    I also noticed that since the intro...anyway of body language

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@catherinewangari9444 seriously???

  • @tamaraachieng5892
    @tamaraachieng58923 жыл бұрын

    Dad you're a very wise man and i commend you and your big heart , calm soul and cheerful personality. All great traits I got from you. Wonderful articulation and exquisite interview. I love you! 😘💖💕 . Golden and King love Babu so much too. 👴👶

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks my Princess 👸😘💕💗

  • @madidis9269

    @madidis9269

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Tamara Achieng' your Dad is awesome,,

  • @ivyboyani83

    @ivyboyani83

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hahaaaa ujaluo yawa,can't disappoint me including 1000000 others

  • @janengota3902

    @janengota3902

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are blessed gal 👋

  • @empresssonia8254

    @empresssonia8254

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@victormuniafu382 you're such a gentleman 💙💙💙

  • @leahmwangi5804
    @leahmwangi58043 жыл бұрын

    Chunguza your son pia does he want you to stay single forever wait he start dating ndio utajua atakusahau be careful i dont mean you neglect him but he should respect your wives toi

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    If you watched and listened carefully, I was clear that the problem could be on my side and I'd rather stay single with a happy and comfortable child than be with someone who makes him unhappy. Remember that respect is earned and it's usually from the adult to the child first, not vice versa.

  • @rhodamwari6692

    @rhodamwari6692

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very true

  • @salomepeter9661

    @salomepeter9661

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@victormuniafu382 you are the strongest father 💪💪💪💪

  • @peacekangye6205
    @peacekangye62053 жыл бұрын

    A great dad indeed my Dad stayed single for more than 20years and we never lack anything esp food n education were first on his list. Dad late now RIP LOVE YOU MORE

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Awesome 👌🆒️

  • @Carol_lucky
    @Carol_lucky3 жыл бұрын

    There’s something special about Victor...,I just get excited looking at him.Regards from Germany 🇩🇪

  • @theresiahwanjiku6251
    @theresiahwanjiku62513 жыл бұрын

    I am 40yrs .I separated 10yrs ago am a single mother of 3 kids hv gone a long struggling .victor your show soo inspiring to many single mother s you have alot of wisdom daddy

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aaawh! Thanks for your kind words of appreciation

  • @marythuo2716
    @marythuo27163 жыл бұрын

    Amazing man..true children comes first l will also choose my child over anything...when the right time God will give u the right person

  • @dadahmary1082
    @dadahmary10823 жыл бұрын

    Huyu atawahi owa juu ya huyo kijaana wake, he's too over protective... nothing please a mother when she's controlling her kids,this kid I think he never listen coz he knew Dad was thr for him...but hapo Kwa food the woman was too selfish,oh my this man is rich.i believe the food was thr and everything... daddy wekaa peke yako, tomorrow you getting old and your son will get a family left alone....pole

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    All that's well planned and my children will take care of me in old age. If they can't do it I'd rather check myself into a nyumba ya wazee where I'll get free nursing services which are way better than mixing love with homecare in old age.

  • @judithifedhia922
    @judithifedhia9223 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou very much for your advice as single ladies, may God bless you

  • @balancedviewpoint7418
    @balancedviewpoint74183 жыл бұрын

    JG you look absolutely stunning. Give yourself an high five pap.

  • @danielamicheal4680

    @danielamicheal4680

    4 ай бұрын

    why dont you look for one who has no kids

  • @elizabethmideva3723
    @elizabethmideva37233 жыл бұрын

    I don't think if all these ladies were bad. There must be one who was good. Victor my advice to you is wait until your son find his own life and give you a space.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    He'll still be a part of my life and he will come to visit me so we're inseparable and whoever comes into my life will still have to contend with my baggage.

  • @janemuraguri1167
    @janemuraguri11673 жыл бұрын

    Hey Mr. Victor. I have been widowed for 11 years with 2 grown kids in their 20s, so I feel you when it comes to protecting your son. You are indeed an exception!. As I was watching your videos I realized you have a passion for the youth. I do too. I have been searching for somebody I can connect with to see how I can support our young people. You seem to be the one.I live in USA and love travelling around the world.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Please let's discuss about the youth empowerment programmes

  • @janemuraguri1167

    @janemuraguri1167

    3 жыл бұрын

    I don't know the best way to communicate with you. Probably email would do. Ama what do you think? Can provide my phone but of course not via this forum

  • @janedee5147
    @janedee51473 жыл бұрын

    Wow! Ths man is wonderful... so lovely. May God meet his heart desires in Jesus name

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @janefferkasimu934
    @janefferkasimu9343 жыл бұрын

    Victor am a single mom of two grownup's if God's plan we can tafutana am in my early 40's.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well noted thanks 😊

  • @jaynewangui3400
    @jaynewangui34003 жыл бұрын

    Your still young Victor the best wife will came from God .keep God first.

  • @thechanantv9074
    @thechanantv90742 жыл бұрын

    Ask victor to pray , What holds people is usually something spiritual and not physical .

  • @joantalam3
    @joantalam33 жыл бұрын

    Victor you did well to stand by your child, it's not easy but God will guide you to the right person, just pray, God's time is the best. JG good job.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely 💯

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much 🙏

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks 😊🙏

  • @brendasiespmamayao7797
    @brendasiespmamayao77973 жыл бұрын

    Victor you are 100% correct.. never give chance to anybody play on your child strive forward God will bring one at his own time

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely

  • @janewambui6608
    @janewambui66083 жыл бұрын

    Very smart JG.Kudos.

  • @fideliskamiri7687
    @fideliskamiri76873 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations Single Parent! You have protect your son, very well! 👏👏👏🤝🤝🤝👏👏👏 Pray in a Godly Spouse, this time! God bless you & your family! Amen. 🙏🙏🙏🕊🕊🕊🙏🙏🙏

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    🙏

  • @ruthgitau1285
    @ruthgitau12853 жыл бұрын

    Love this guy,he's a real gentle man and full of wisdom.God bless me wth such

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen 🙏

  • @sharinv8864
    @sharinv88643 жыл бұрын

    JG woow siunipeee namba ya victor hahaa😋😋

  • @linetnekesa8019
    @linetnekesa80193 жыл бұрын

    Mtoto wa mluhya n wa Baba na huwez cheza nae na KWa mluhya chakula hakipimwi kama watu wengine 😃😃😃😃😃😃 najifunia kuwa mluhya 👍👍

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ukweli mtupu

  • @mauriceogoma9591
    @mauriceogoma95913 жыл бұрын

    Jg nisamehe but why don't you talk to Victor ? I heard the interview from the beginning to the end , you are mature enough and you are God fearing , this guy has passed a lot, why don't you face him ? Just my opinion please nothing is impossible with God. Thanks , may God see you through. Kama bado uko single, Victor is your match. Anyway forgive me for talking too much

  • @lesliemorgan5431
    @lesliemorgan54313 жыл бұрын

    Hi I just listened to this conversation , I believe the problem is with the man , when I heard that he lived with a woman and still separated , I have dated such man and he was full of lies and fake stories he was from Bukusu ,He had two sons same behaviors . So when I watched this reminds me we dated for five years if not six I regreted but I'm strong than ever

  • @sarahnyambaka5885

    @sarahnyambaka5885

    3 жыл бұрын

    yah.some men .maybe the ladies were also protecting their kids.

  • @lesliemorgan5431

    @lesliemorgan5431

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sarahnyambaka5885 in pretence of protecting his son , he's playing around with women but karma is real he'll get what he's looking for you can't keep saying women are bad , are you an angel

  • @brifysarah5066

    @brifysarah5066

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lesliemorgan5431 ladies should talk on behalf of other ladies.men are looking for sympathy out here .why protect your own and condemn others becoz not your blood

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your insight and opinion. I'm a man of integrity and as much as I may not have control over your feelings, thoughts and emotions, please take your time to research more about my character coz I'm a public figure so there's no secrets or grey areas in my life. Pole about your horrible experience with my fellow tribesmen but we're different humans socially

  • @lesliemorgan5431

    @lesliemorgan5431

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@victormuniafu382 I hear you and all the best in future .

  • @khalnamodi8599
    @khalnamodi85993 жыл бұрын

    Never give up on love....its tough getting a right fit but one day she will come along..All the best.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @mutondozi
    @mutondozi3 жыл бұрын

    Too protective for the son. The son will have a negative attitude towards women.

  • @mildredmunyasia674

    @mildredmunyasia674

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good,i have also noticed that,maybe coz he lost his mum,so he came in to fill the gap but it went overboard.Hata mimi hapa siwezi,its not about foods and restrictions but dealing with a spoilt child or over pampered kid.

  • @j.dmurathime7570
    @j.dmurathime75703 жыл бұрын

    Wow wow nice beta blood than heart I like it Victor ur so protective and humbled 🙏🙏 heri giving children the best even they feel loved ❤️❤️. Thanks jg for bringing Victor big up 👏👏👏👏👏👏💪💪💪

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nashukuru sana

  • @simonkibugi4971
    @simonkibugi49713 жыл бұрын

    JG ukavaa kama mama kanisa, so adodrable and respectiful to mzee victor. Mzee full of wisdom

  • @pmgpmg7717
    @pmgpmg77173 жыл бұрын

    I think Victor also has to study his son very well. It can't be any woman who comes he is the reason he is being mistreated

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well noted

  • @rosekaimuri6284

    @rosekaimuri6284

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nimekwama hapa

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@rosekaimuri6284 🤣🤣🤣

  • @nyakiowababa1505

    @nyakiowababa1505

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey,ningependa kuongea na wewe kwa face book unaniita aje pliz🙏🙏

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nyakiowababa1505 Victor Muniafu

  • @kulundudauglas482
    @kulundudauglas4823 жыл бұрын

    Never create rules around food...luhya proverb

  • @viviancherutoi3241

    @viviancherutoi3241

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why do women hate step children.Thanks victor for protecting your son.Many children really suffer at the mercy of stepmums

  • @mkenyamzalendo254

    @mkenyamzalendo254

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @brifysarah5066

    @brifysarah5066

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@viviancherutoi3241 why if victor was overprotecting this boy .

  • @eunicekibugi2320
    @eunicekibugi23203 жыл бұрын

    Yes !!!!!! Victor you the guy for me .my last one is 15yrs .I love travelling it's our time you and I. What do you think about that?😁.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    One day insha Allah

  • @eunicekibugi2320

    @eunicekibugi2320

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know it only one day I like you even more. You can't know until you try my gut tells me its you.for all this time where have you been hiding😁

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@eunicekibugi2320, I've been around and about. God's timing is always best

  • @catherinemuiruri8650

    @catherinemuiruri8650

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@eunicekibugi2320 😂😂😂Akii huyu hataki jiko kapsaa 😂😂😂wacha nirudi zangu home land .Kesho niko home😂😂😂

  • @winniethuo9736
    @winniethuo97363 жыл бұрын

    We are all called to a common ground which is to seek and implement a change to our state of human consciousness. Without this we continue failing one another, ourselves our world etcetera. The reality of some of us is so distorted it 😢. Some others are so traumatised that when they soul search they lead themselves to doom and to their other, to insanity. If you are looking for a union with another be careful because if it does not work, one is wounded and depending on your make up, recovery is slow and sometimes tedious. If you have a child bring them up first where possible. Make it your vocation. That child is your soulmate if the other parent has passed. Don’t bring another dad/mom in their already painful situation. Even when they are big. Too sensitive. We are not developed enough to live good. Some of us are triggered by loving a child as all they do is take from us. Sad but true. Be confident in life to go it alone so that if someone comes into your life they know the are not coming to complete you but to complement you as you do them.

  • @tk.arapchepkwonyss4460
    @tk.arapchepkwonyss44603 жыл бұрын

    If you are noticing your partner is showing signs of jealousy when the kids are given priority, this is a big red flag. Both you and your partner should prioritize the well being of your children without making them feel as if they are an inconvenience, afterthought, or are contributing to the problems between you and your partner. Signs of jealousy may look like this: 1. Your partner shifting the attention towards themselves in a big or dramatic way when the kids are prioritized 2. Not wanting to discuss kid-related logistics and redirecting the conversation back towards themselves 3. Complaining that you give the kids more attention than you do them

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well stated 👏

  • @rachelmwangi6408
    @rachelmwangi64083 жыл бұрын

    Am here single.

  • @amorrkodiii7191

    @amorrkodiii7191

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mwangi.......? Only men ready for militarized relationship can afford you. . Am not tribal but I wish it was nafula or Akinyi, Kipngetich,

  • @rhinokifaru1699
    @rhinokifaru16993 жыл бұрын

    Weh!! JG kwaaanzaaa umepotelea wapi ??Jibu hiyo. Have missed you mbaya. Haya karibu basi tuendelee.

  • @drusillamutuku3043
    @drusillamutuku30433 жыл бұрын

    Almost same years,am 14 years single ad I respect your stand ad I respect all what you have said.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @chepkoechkiptoo
    @chepkoechkiptoo3 жыл бұрын

    The interview seems to always somehow loop back to food! Looking great Victor. Best wishes

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks dear 😘

  • @jamesmburu869
    @jamesmburu8693 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful interview, no bitterness or regrets, taking lessons along the way. I relate to it very well.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Life is a huge learning curve

  • @NungariwaMuchaiCeo
    @NungariwaMuchaiCeo3 жыл бұрын

    JG looking fabulous....keep up dear

  • @cynthianyaboke6415
    @cynthianyaboke64153 жыл бұрын

    Some of these single dads have a big heart...wako wapi few kama hawa tufanye applications?...

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Application window ikifunguka 🤣🤣🤣

  • @roxysunshine6418

    @roxysunshine6418

    3 жыл бұрын

    Camping here😅

  • @sashly

    @sashly

    3 жыл бұрын

    We gonna write cvs 😂😂

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sashly 🤣🤣🤣

  • @henrietermuthoni9138

    @henrietermuthoni9138

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hahah CV's niwapi😂😂

  • @drusillamutuku3043
    @drusillamutuku30433 жыл бұрын

    Your full of wisdom I love your spirit ad that was great father

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Asante sana

  • @carolinegacici7821
    @carolinegacici78213 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing, even me have been single for over 15 years now,

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's a very good thing sometimes

  • @chasingclouds7101
    @chasingclouds71013 жыл бұрын

    You've changed my perception of Bukusu men. I was married to one who conned me off money,cheated and neglected his son after starting a new family. My boy is now 23 and I'm doing my PhD in the UK. He lives on his own and makes his own money. God is faithful,well done. My humble question to you is: are you raising your son to respect the woman in your life? Respect is two way.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Respect is two way and it's tpo-down,not vice versa. My son respects and appreciates women alot

  • @kamaueunice4534
    @kamaueunice45343 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful

  • @anneokinyi1813
    @anneokinyi18133 жыл бұрын

    Take time before someone moves in with you.some of us mature single ladies too face the same challenges, let's finish up with the children because the youth need a lot of attention and care from us,I trust God will put a good companion for you.Very encouraging testimony

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well noted with thanks. Major lessons learned indeed

  • @ruthotanga2960
    @ruthotanga29603 жыл бұрын

    I'm single mother age 45yrsim ready to meet this guy

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well noted thanks 😊☺🙏

  • @evawandera9478
    @evawandera94783 жыл бұрын

    I am a luhya, maragoli is a no, huyu na kijana wake watakaa single forever. I am a widow with two grown up girls.. Imagine eti niko na huyu na his spoilt son under one roof. Then the boy messes thinking he's a man and my girls don't know man figure.. Si watamgonga! I want a man to have fun though

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Eva, thanks for your feedback. Best wishes for you and your daughters. Life's about choices and I made a choice to raise my son and protect him. Beyond that I leave it to your individual interpretation and I'm glad you've also protected your girls well. 👏👏👏

  • @michellnkatha6842
    @michellnkatha68423 жыл бұрын

    Wow that's great mr vct God will give you the desire of your heart 💕

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen to that

  • @joyjuma125
    @joyjuma1253 жыл бұрын

    Aki JG APA mko sawa fungua roho mblend you are amazing Alaaaa

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @evelynlyimo1557

    @evelynlyimo1557

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hayaa unekuwa match maker. Nimeona huko tuko talks watsee wakiambia Kevin Phillips afungue roho na zippy

  • @kamauwaithira6636

    @kamauwaithira6636

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@victormuniafu382 contact pls

  • @JS-kc4iz

    @JS-kc4iz

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@victormuniafu382 Agree with Joy. I think you and JG are a good match. Great interview BTW.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Tutapanga

  • @share-love
    @share-love3 жыл бұрын

    aaaiiii! his son might not be a saint as he thinks. Achunguzwe pia for he knows that his Dad will definately side with him if things go wrong, he can provoke these women! install a spy camera to find out the truth. Your son makes you chase all the women? at the end he will grow up and move out, lead his own life and the Dad will be left alone and lonely!

  • @charitykawira9625
    @charitykawira96253 жыл бұрын

    Mimi nko na good heart

  • @violetkibs6831
    @violetkibs68312 жыл бұрын

    I know the family very well 'im from Nambami village pole victor may God remember you. Your father was a good person.

  • @starlightfromthegalaxy2032
    @starlightfromthegalaxy20323 жыл бұрын

    This is the real farther keep it up dad 👍

  • @estherwamaitha7020
    @estherwamaitha70203 жыл бұрын

    Such blessed dad keep praying good wife come from God b patient daddy

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks 😊🙏

  • @krystynaha2455
    @krystynaha24553 жыл бұрын

    Ata mimi sitaolewa sai , let me take care of my daughters, I'll get married after 9 year nikifika 35yrs to a single father , I don't want a man who doesn't has children .

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Take your time

  • @emmahwairimuwachira84
    @emmahwairimuwachira843 жыл бұрын

    I love your protection over your son. Am sure he will be forever grateful.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen 🙏

  • @catherinemuiruri8650

    @catherinemuiruri8650

    3 жыл бұрын

    how does she laugh without letting the hsnds go😂😂😂huhuhu smth is not adding up

  • @sereaatieno178
    @sereaatieno1783 жыл бұрын

    Am single without blended family the rest is history come beb come we make this thing.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol!

  • @joykenya4805

    @joykenya4805

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣 🤣 🤣

  • @ivyboyani83

    @ivyboyani83

    3 жыл бұрын

    Pesaaa

  • @lucywangari4766

    @lucywangari4766

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @veronicahbagiti143

    @veronicahbagiti143

    3 жыл бұрын

    😛

  • @juliaondom2231
    @juliaondom22313 жыл бұрын

    A true symbol of a loving father.

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya3 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations Victor you are an amazing dad! There's always that fear in blended families😊Welcome JG😀you look gorgeous nindirathethukite

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks 😊🙏

  • @marjoriewanjiku7338
    @marjoriewanjiku73383 жыл бұрын

    Very Rare Kinda Man. May God Grant you the desires of your heart in finding the right partner; in the meantime, enjoy quality time with your kids and grandkids. Barikiweni

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Asante sana mrembo

  • @wanzamulwa7002
    @wanzamulwa70023 жыл бұрын

    This man in a hero. My son is also a single parent. Thank you victer

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Asante sana. Please encourage him

  • @editholoo6180
    @editholoo61802 жыл бұрын

    Kala Kala.. Pole sana

  • @nyongesalucy1027
    @nyongesalucy10273 жыл бұрын

    A wish you the best Victor

  • @leahmwangi5804
    @leahmwangi58043 жыл бұрын

    Anakupikia mpaka lini will he grow old with you he is leaving you soon atapata bibi utashangaa

  • @brendamatilani817
    @brendamatilani8173 жыл бұрын

    You have talked truth take your time

  • @rosewamboi3235
    @rosewamboi32353 жыл бұрын

    The bond of Victor and the son is amazing, Mungu mwaminifu atampa ubavu kwa wakati wake.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nashukuru sana

  • @cynthiamolla1188
    @cynthiamolla11883 жыл бұрын

    Hi..... looking for this kind of a heart,ua special...just I admire u so much

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤗🤗🤗

  • @rhodamulumba8189
    @rhodamulumba81893 жыл бұрын

    We still have good women out here who can relate with your son very well without bias..keep triyng Sir . Maybe you could come to me though no kids yet!

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks dear

  • @Alvin247
    @Alvin2473 жыл бұрын

    What an experience. Been single for 4 years now and i can relate to Victor's story but I realise the journey is long.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's quite a long journey but I won't give up

  • @stellamarisnthenya2169
    @stellamarisnthenya21693 жыл бұрын

    What a good Dad most of men side with the Ladies your is still watching am also in a such situation and am the one who pays for my daughters bills.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Pole sana mrembo. It shall be well

  • @lizznjeri9231
    @lizznjeri92312 жыл бұрын

    Wow I don't know how I came across this interview 7 months after it was aired congrats for defending your boy and chose to lose out on your relationship s but be there for your son.

  • @lydiakemunto2783
    @lydiakemunto27833 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Victor for protecting your son. I am a single Mum too of 2 and I always give my kids the first chance. If a man doesn't respect my kids let him stay away. Better be single than being in a relationship which has no peace.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Way to go

  • @sharinv8864
    @sharinv88643 жыл бұрын

    Its now about 15 yrs when i am asingle mother na kila wakati wa mungu mm hujiona nimefika mwisho kumbe siyo hivo i know one day nitapata someone . congratulations to victor.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks.

  • @mildredmunyasia674
    @mildredmunyasia6743 жыл бұрын

    Take your time my brother,take that boy to a level of being independent,and living away from you,then get a mature woman for companionship,avoid drama queens,put a boundary btw your kids and your woman..wish you well.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely 💯

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks 😊

  • @RoseMary-fe2pu
    @RoseMary-fe2pu3 жыл бұрын

    Blended family so tricky needs alot of sacrifices.am single lady but am over sensitivity when its comes about the kids...victor you're so careful ladies we are born the same but different in characters,take time first and put everything in prayers you will get the right person...may the lord answers your heart desires..

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hear you dear 😘

  • @hellacredis5555
    @hellacredis55553 жыл бұрын

    Joyce looks more beautiful ,God will give you a good man miss JG,

  • @sinterk71
    @sinterk713 жыл бұрын

    I am sure God shall raise that 1 she who will truly support you and care for your son...🙏.our kinds needs love too.🙏

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely 💯

  • @florencemawanda6374
    @florencemawanda63743 жыл бұрын

    No rules around food, I like that

  • @global_gossip.2011
    @global_gossip.20113 жыл бұрын

    Good to see victor he was my customer in Tusker house many years ago.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Asante sana

  • @jackiemish4082

    @jackiemish4082

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too iwish him the All best 🙏🙏🙏

  • @hannahmanu8642

    @hannahmanu8642

    3 жыл бұрын

    Njeri nitumie ur Email

  • @franciscamuvengi8969

    @franciscamuvengi8969

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@victormuniafu382 hey

  • @franciscamuvengi8969

    @franciscamuvengi8969

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@victormuniafu382 utapata soon ata mimi nasubiri najua God atatenda

  • @dorcasikala6398
    @dorcasikala63983 жыл бұрын

    🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️,your son could be the problem sir,Its good to protect him but ??

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Even if he's the problem, he's a part of me and we're inseparable so whoever comes into my life must simply accept me with my baggage or forget about me altogether. I have absolutely no apologies for my position and actions.

  • @everlynewere7473
    @everlynewere74733 жыл бұрын

    Why is everything about food. First woman 4 o'clock tea, 2nd woman fish. Did the child respect your women.We as parents should also look at our children's character. Get information too from school to understand behaviour of your child. What did you do as a father to ensure respect from his story he also failed as a dad.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Whoever comes into our space must first respect the status quo and I have absolutely no apologies for my actions. There nothing to negotiate about when it comes to my son's freedoms

  • @emilymumo389

    @emilymumo389

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are a visitor and you bring your rules to other people's houses, gain trust first abi, win the children slowly. Victor did well,healing is a process even for the son

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@emilymumo389, well spoken 👏👌

  • @karajagraca113
    @karajagraca1133 жыл бұрын

    Ohhh my my.... don't tell me single we're all desperate.. Oky am single for 7yrs bt by choice... Cheers

  • @suzanrita2734
    @suzanrita27343 жыл бұрын

    @Victor Muniafu, your voice is absolutely great❤ you are also good looking

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @christinembugua4771
    @christinembugua47713 жыл бұрын

    Victor is a great dad indeed 👏🏻

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @joymwangiofficial8253
    @joymwangiofficial82533 жыл бұрын

    Wow what a loving dad

  • @ethiopiamuguku6570
    @ethiopiamuguku65703 жыл бұрын

    Great look after your own , have done it to my 3children, 2 out 1 left to go then am single and free to mingle. Weldone Mniafu

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Asante sana

  • @christinekinyanyui6475
    @christinekinyanyui64753 жыл бұрын

    Victor good job.. No one comes between you ad your son especially after loosing his mom the he did. I also lost my man 10yrs and hv not been able to allow any man cz I am also so protective of my 3 college kids ad no apologies or regrets. If its Gods' will one day I shall get a good person and companion...kudos Victor

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks dear

  • @rosekoboge9766
    @rosekoboge97663 жыл бұрын

    Victor, you deserve the father of the year award. You have done well with your son, putting him above everything else even your comfort. May God reward you with a deserving wife 🙏🙏🙏

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much! I'm quite humbled 🙏🙂

  • @sarahswanja7016

    @sarahswanja7016

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think your son is a spoilt kid. He has seen you divorce numerous women for his sake. I tend to think that he has grown to disrespect women. This might affect his marriage life in future.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sarahswanja7016, well noted thanks. He's a very respectful and disciplined gentleman but even if he's spoilt, he's still my son and I'm proud of him cos I've taught him to stand up for himself. Whoever comes into his space should accept, understand and respect the fact that it's his true character.

  • @anneokinyi1813
    @anneokinyi18133 жыл бұрын

    I like the fact that we can't ignore the children .I pray that God help us to find understanding partners.My advice is the this son and dad needs love and understanding ,and a big heart and a little guided freedom not forceful corrections......

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sure thing 👍

  • @sallynkish9718
    @sallynkish9718 Жыл бұрын

    A symbol of my late dad....💪

  • @mrondieki9514
    @mrondieki95143 жыл бұрын

    Big bro, may God help u and get ua soul mate in Jesus Name..ur a HERO..big up💪..JG, u can really make perfect match wt Victor 🤣, go ahead and plan for wedo plz🙏

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @mm-hr1ep
    @mm-hr1ep3 жыл бұрын

    nice platform Victor I'm single with two i need a seriously relationship that may work.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    God willing we shall meet someday

  • @mm-hr1ep

    @mm-hr1ep

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@victormuniafu382 wow iwish the best to come out.

  • @wafulaalice5180
    @wafulaalice51803 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the show,,,JG,,we people from western we are humble But victor the tyme have reached to look for someone to take carer of you brother

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Orio muno wandayase

  • @wafulaalice5180

    @wafulaalice5180

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@victormuniafu382 Asanti koo yaya nabone bakhasi bakhumilila kamare Ikukha kumoyo

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@wafulaalice5180 lekhana nenabo

  • @1on1withjune81
    @1on1withjune813 жыл бұрын

    Aki Joyce I think this gentleman could be your match. You are in the same industry both single parents give it ago girl!

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @lydiahngunjiri1701
    @lydiahngunjiri17013 жыл бұрын

    Blended families needs a lot of thought n counseling for both families. I should come first then children. As long as there is respect, harmony exists! Huyu hataki kuoa anataka tuishi masingles

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Blended families are for the sake of providing the kids with a chance to grow in a family home. As for the co-parenting, it's about being a father or mother figure or at worst, a good friend. Without those kids there's absolutely nothing between the two people. That's why I was clear about a Blended family requiring lots of maturity, sacrifice, commitment, etc which are veeery rare virtues not found in many people.

  • @alfredmbuvi1266
    @alfredmbuvi12663 жыл бұрын

    Am mary ndunge fom machakos l love this man hakona roho poa sana aliwai kuniadika

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nashukuru sana

  • @evevalentine6764
    @evevalentine67643 жыл бұрын

    I understand victor. It is good to wait for the children to grow for you to remarry.

  • @victormuniafu382

    @victormuniafu382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely 💯

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