So true but you can never know whether that was your kingdom spouse unless God makes it known to you. Because I divorced and every time I tried to get a new partner I would fast and pray and ask God and He would keep reminding of my ex husband. So I prayed and fasted for reconciliation and 7 years later, yes 7 years we got back together. And my husband is now born again, tongue talking, preaching the word. We were kingdom spouses.

@claudetteallen4995

Ай бұрын

Scripture states if you ( for example) commit adultery, you cannot get married again but the wife can. If you get married again God does not ordain that marriage. It is adultery. We cannot just divorce and remarry as such. That is why we have to make sure when you marry. I had to pray to understand. One love

Thank you for this clarity. I’ve been beating myself hard but now I move on. God bless you Sir🙏

Thank your revelation has made it clear as day what I have been so long wanting clarity on.

Thanks for sharing, its such a balanced and insightful teaching I will say. Well done sir

I rejoice that u have come to this realisation, that u are a human & therefore prone to mistakes. 🙌🙏 I pray that u contunue to seek God on this topic and allow the Holy Spirit (not "schools of thought") to guide ur stance. I, too, had a quite staunch stance on divorce. However, when my former youth pastor (who has never been married, btw) suggested that I begin my study of the topic in the Old Testament, my mind was blown. I studied the original Hebrew roots of "divorce" as referenced in the Old Testament & the revelation was humbling... life changing. Scripture CANNOT be studied out of context. And it is quite dangerous, for those who call themselves teachers, to assert rules & doctrines based on a glance of the Bible, rather than indepth study, coupled with divine insight/ revelation. James 3:1-2 warns us about this. So, before we condemn anyone to hell, let us be mindful that taking that authority/ mantle upon ourselves, prepositions us for the greater judgement.

@DanielKoch-kw6fw

Ай бұрын

Welcome Vicky. Good day 💯 just checking in..... How are you feeling today ?

@vickyl7980

Ай бұрын

@DanielKoch-kw6fw blessed day to you & yours. I am well, thank you. Thank God for your faithful work so far. Blessings 🙏

@DanielKoch-kw6fw

Ай бұрын

@@vickyl7980 hello Vicky 🌹, glad to hear you're blessed same time doing well. You're welcome. The Lord is good.. all the time ❣️.. where are you from ?

Wow. Hallelujah .Thank you, God, for answering my prayer inquiry. 🙏 ❤

Sound teaching ! What God does not join together he can not Bless !🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

AWESOME WORD

Ayo there is no divorce in marriage but God told us that staying together and if not agreeing with each other than better to stay seperate and pursue purity not involving in any lustful sin but to seek him and serve him alone for our soul. No time for eternity who will wast time marring again and again .

@WisdomforDominionOfficial

2 ай бұрын

Well said, thanks. A fleshly culture can't imagine themselves without sex/remarriage but won't focus on getting it right the first time.

@patriciasales-carter5517

2 ай бұрын

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Christ answered the pharisees that they could not divorce for any reason. That is what the question was. Adultery and abuse (the hardness of mans heart- Moses) are grounds for divorce, but that does not mean the first solution is that.

@WisdomforDominionOfficial

2 ай бұрын

Very good thanks, so what do you make of 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 ??? Is there anything from which there's no reconciliation in Christ? Any sin unforgiveable? Marriage reflects Christ + Church after all...

I believe that there are certain conditions God allows for divorce. In Matthew 19:9 clearly states "except in sexual immorality or fornication". The points I want to make are that divorce can be done if the following occur: 1. If God didn't join. 2. I the unbeliever desides to leave. 3. If fornication or unfaithful or sexual immorality happen. More over, the phrase that says "what God has join let no man separates". This really means that no man, (no one) or man law, even no person comes between the marriage couple and cause them to separate.

@WisdomforDominionOfficial

2 ай бұрын

Unless you want to say the Bible contradicts itself then 1Cor 7:39 says till death no divorce at all. In Matt 19:9 the word is fornication - which is something that happens between unmarried people like Joseph & Mary. But if you want to intepret as sexual immorality in general then it will include: masturbation, p0rn, sexting etc... Even just thinking sexually about another person will be grounds for divorce cuz Jesus called that adultery Matt 5:28... If we go by this interpretation 80% of marriages will over by the morning so clearly it's not sexual immorality but fornication.

@vickyl7980

2 ай бұрын

Your 1st point is the most salient here. Many do not realise that they are FORCING the continued union of people, who were NEVER joined by God in the 1st place. When that revelation comes to light, I think persons have to then go to God to discern HIS will for THEM. No, it's not a contradiction of the Bible. Remember, the fear of God is the beginning of Wisdom. Do we fear Him enough to seek Him earnestly b4 we jump into marriage... or worse yet, AFTER... to see how He will direct us?

I been separated from my since January of this year and there's things i wish unsee what she done to me but in the middle of it im choosing hope please be praying for me if its his will for me continue to be married to her because as of right now she wants to leave

If you don't know (with certainty) that the literal deed of adultery, is "a sin unto death" (1 John 5:16-17 KJV, you know nothing about supporting Matthew 19:9 KJV, as you ought.

so, is remarriage to the unbeliever divorcee who had previous "first" marriage allowed and not considered adultery?

So if we both are saved this counts as in Christ. Or being saved and actually having a desire to honor God on how we live and behave? Some folks are saved but operate religously dont even try to pray or read the word often. So how does one know?

@WisdomforDominionOfficial

2 ай бұрын

Both parties being saved is the pre-requisite... But it's not automatic that EVERYONE saved is fit for marriage or even for you in particular. Divine leading and direction is of the essence.

Seek and I shall find.

l am not sure about this topic, l need to seek God because l am not in agreement with your stance

@WisdomforDominionOfficial

2 ай бұрын

Which stance exactly please? I don't have a stance, I literally read you scripture after scripture. 1. God doesn't join every couple. 2. Unbelievers are not held up to the same standard as believers. 3. If God joins you then your marriage can't fail unless God fails. If you work with Him and fight it can't - 1 Cor 7:11 But will love to see scripture that disagrees with the content please...😃

You are wrong on that last point. It means that the person does not force their spouse to stay with them. But it does not mean that they can remarry. And the verse you brought up for support actually contradicts your assertion. The verse literally says that if a husband DIES, then the wife is permitted to remarry. This is because, MARRIAGE IS UNTIL DEATH.

Read Ezra 9:1-10:44 1While Ezra prayed and made this confession, weeping and lying face down on the ground in front of the Temple of God, a very large crowd of people from Israel-men, women, and children-gathered and wept bitterly with him. 2Then Shecaniah son of Jehiel, a descendant of Elam, said to Ezra, “We have been unfaithful to our God, for we have married these pagan women of the land. But in spite of this there is hope for Israel. 3Let us now make a covenant with our God to divorce our pagan wives and to send them away with their children. We will follow the advice given by you and by the others who respect the commands of our God. Let it be done according to the Law of God. 4Get up, for it is your duty to tell us how to proceed in setting things straight. We are behind you, so be strong and take action.”Ezra 10:1-4

Don't let a Pastor views on another Pastors podcast skew your scriptural doctrine. Why does God hate divorce? Spend your time to study this : you will understand why Divorce is grievous. If God joins together, would it not be understandable, why he hates divorce [a separation of what he has joined]? For the Kingdom marriage and an unbelieving marriage, what you have shared is sound doctrine.

@WisdomforDominionOfficial

2 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing, of course it didn't skew my understanding. It's my concern seeing so many people sharing their "horror" stories from past marriages to justify their divorce that raised the question: "Who sent you into that marriage?" Your flesh or the Lord's direction/conviction. We should be focusing more on that than on divorce. Complaining about a horrible spouse is like putting fruit juice into your gas tank and wondering why your car will bail on you in the middle of nowhere...

@Rampfitness

2 ай бұрын

God hates the impact it has on the children involved if involved, the pain it adds of fights for materialistic marriage ties, the lawyers etc its like soul death and a feeling that is tearing at the heart... Placing him first and asking him to show you Yes or No when you feel you have found the one. First things first are they Saved, believe Jesus Christ not just God and actually have a warm heart and pursuing a relationship with Christ. This then is accepatable but i say vet, court slowly and ask God first to reveal truth. Wish i could do it over

@onaloco

2 ай бұрын

@@WisdomforDominionOfficial...it may be very unpopular but marriage is honourable, whether it be a believers marriage or not. You know why? The institution of marriage and its author has attached a blessing to it. He who finds a wife [is not referring to believers alone] - it refers to whomsoever implied by HE. If and when you find a wife, you have found a good thing, why? God ordained the wife and husband institution and has obtained favor from the Lord. What you went further to address is the believers marriage and the unbelievers marriage. Furthermore there is godly seed and ungodly seed ie fruits of the believers Union contrasted with that of the unbelieving. You see Arabians and the Gulf will remain a prosperous kindred physically, [because God blessed them in numbers and wealth for they were all in Ishmael. Their blessings though are not covenant blessings, Christ's riches or "True Riches" as Jesus put it. In conclusion marriage is a Physical institution as God ordained it with a Spiritual parallel ie Christ and The Heavenly Jerusalem. It is what God has joined together that man should not sunder and don't assume that God is in the business of only joining believers together. This part is another topic in itself.

@onaloco

2 ай бұрын

@@Rampfitness...wish you could do it over? Implies you know you did not do it rightly at first? Somethings do not work because they were never meant to be or because they were not managed properly. It is yours to find peace with what your side was then you are armed with knowledge to do the needful in the quest for peace.

@WisdomforDominionOfficial

2 ай бұрын

@@onaloco Well if you believe God is in the business of joining unbelievers in marriage then I don't see why He will need them to repent, receive Christ and change their ways if He's already in business with them. That's the same flawed thinking that many use to say EVERYONE is already saved so no need to live righteously, no, God is angry with the sinner everyday the Bible says. That God doesn't join unbelievers doesn't make their marriage less sacred as an institution for a healthy society. It just means as Christ said, they're subject to divorce and separation for any and every reason as was the case in His day and as is the case today! Right there in 1 Cor 7:14 it says God desires righteous seed from the marriage of 'believers' - so marriage between believers and that between unbelievers are clearly NOT the same thing. They are as day and night as the supernatural life of the believer is to the natural life of the unbeliever.

I know people who were first unbelievers both man and the woman and got married and then they both got saved after they got married. So does that make this marriage not blessed by God and that God didn't join them together. Marriage is honorable to ALL (BELIEVERS/UNBELIEVERS) alike And the bed is undefile. Ok so when a man finds a wife he finds a good thing and uptaines favor with the Lord. Also scriptures says that if one is married to a unbeliever the woman can win her unbelieving spouse over with her quite an meekness in other words the saved wife by her life in Christ can win her unbelieving husband over to Christ by the way that she lives her life. This is a very sensitive topic and without true understanding it makes it confusing

@grant2149

2 ай бұрын

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@WisdomforDominionOfficial

2 ай бұрын

If you pay attention to the scripture I read 1 Cor 7:15, it makes it clear that once there's a believer divorce is NOT a go to. If 2 people come to Christ then ALL things become new including their marriage. Surrendering all to Christ includes their marriage. So I think it's self evident in the video what you just emphasized. Thanks

@eyewelderboat7872

2 ай бұрын

Exactly this guy is all over the place well see how he feels tomorrow

Marrying someone out of Christ and His will and whining about your divorce is like jumping into a pool and wondering why you're wet? Today waiting is seen as wasting so people quickly jump on the first thing that comes their way. As you make your bed, so shall you lie in it please!!! Thanks

@vickyl7980

2 ай бұрын

So, is there no forgiveness of sins?

Now add a little heat... How will eternity look for you? Considering exes may be there with you.. How's forgiveness going? "If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all people." It's a command..

@WisdomforDominionOfficial

2 ай бұрын

Exactly, many don't know marriage is dying to self... Reason it's only second to salvation. We want to get married but don't want to stick around when we get our feelings hurt. That's like God saying He'll take the risk create humans with a will but not tolerate/forgive them when they go against His will. Simply can't work!

@DanielKoch-kw6fw

Ай бұрын

Hello jen, how're you doing today ?

I just unsubscribed from this confusion

@WisdomforDominionOfficial

2 ай бұрын

That's sad, pray you get understanding!!!🙏🏽

@daughteroftheking9753

2 ай бұрын

@@WisdomforDominionOfficial I pray the same for u my dear. May the spirit of confusion and error be far from us all.

I understand your context but your analogy is wrong. Paul is saying that if an u believer leaves the marriage, you should let them go in the sense that you can't force them to stay. But just because they have left doesn't mean you should immediately jump into marriage. You will only be free to remarry IF that unbeliever goes on to remarry someone else of starts sleeping around. Remember Paul says as long as a woman's husband is alive, that woman is still tied to her husband till he dies. That means if an unbeliever separated from you, he is still your spouse even though he or she is separated. But if they start sleeping around, you can divorce on the grounds of unfaithfulness. But in the case where he or she leaves and you just rush into another marriage even where there are no grounds, it's wrong. So I'll suggest you rexamine your stand again. Secondly, you said if a believer marries an unbeliever, it means God has not joined them together. This is wrong. A marriage is a union between two people in the presence of witnesses. So even if it's an unbeliever and a believer, it's still considered a marriage. Apart from the gay one which of course God doesn't recognise that.

@jend5272

2 ай бұрын

Is it marriage in God's eyes or man's? Even if it's marriage in God's eyes, is it in agreement with His will? As a believer married to an unbeliever (saved after marriage) I agree. If we separate or even divorce, I'd remain single, serving the Lord.

@WisdomforDominionOfficial

2 ай бұрын

@e.5391 Where in those scriptures is sleeping around or unfaithfulness mentioned? You're reading what you want to see into the scripture. What do you mean by "immediately jump into another marriage"??? Does that mean if the person waits a little then it's okay? how long is a little? Confusion is guarnanteed when we read our emotions into plain scripture. There are 2 principles: 1. No divorce allowed for believers, they may separate but must work out their differences. (1 Cor 7:10-11/39) ... 2. If an unbeliever leaves a believer after because they came to Christ, they're not bound to remain single because they can't pick marriage (with the unbeliever) over their salvation. (1Cor 7:12-15) ... For anything you say please provide a scripture thanks! You confuse yourself by quoting scripture without context... In 1 Cor 7 Paul addresses the singles, the believers, unbelievers and the widow(er)s. Each categories instruction is unique. Try to read each passage with context and not just mix things up. Do that then watch the video again everything will be clearer. Thank you!

You are wrong and deceived.Hebrews 13:4 All marriages are to be honourable. You need to go back to the drawing board.There is No divorce and remarriage.

@WisdomforDominionOfficial

2 ай бұрын

I'm sorry but I'm not sure you watched the video. Cuz you literally reiterating what's in the video as though you're disagreeing.

@grant2149

2 ай бұрын

@@milly7994 Seperation is Allowed Please give Scripture where Abuse is biblical divorce and remarriave i will be waiting go look for any Scripture even in context about it a reason. Seperation call cops. I will be waiting. Your OPINION IS BASED ON EMOTION NOT SCRIPTURE.

@grant2149

2 ай бұрын

@@WisdomforDominionOfficial i did You clearly say God does Not join all marriages. Any Male and Femald become 1 flesh. There is No exveption.

@WisdomforDominionOfficial

2 ай бұрын

Let's avoid emotional responses when discussing scripture. The constant need to pull up the "worst" case scenario in discussions of divorce and *abortion to justify them is simply strawman argumentation. The scripture gave enough context as seen below. 1 Cor 7:11 tells you a partner CAN depart (not divorce) from their spouse for certain reasons and I believe physical abuse is one of such but clearly the instruction is to remain unmarried and be RECONCILED. Is there anything unreconcillable/unforgiveable in Christ? Marriage is the depiction of unconditional love, redemption and restoration as Christ + Church. PS: Physical abuse is not even among the top 5 reasons people divorce, just for the record...

@grant2149

2 ай бұрын

@@WisdomforDominionOfficial Agree today 1 of the biggest reasons is No fault divorce and it is an abomination.