I left my abuser after 19 years. He abused me and my children. Oh, and he abused his 1st wife as she left him after she filed a restraining order on him. I am now going to go back to school to get my masters degree in social work so I can become a counselor to help future domestic violence VICTIMS!

@lollove9974

4 ай бұрын

I’m proud of you but also kinda hate for just letting your own kids insure abuse. Like when your kids is getting abuse, you should leave asap

@sexygabby30

4 ай бұрын

@@lollove9974yea and women need to stop messing with those past married men it’s literally always something wrong with them. Most wives just won’t let a man go if he’s good… most of the time my observations from life and psychological studies are the next woman is gonna get it worse each time. He may seem humble he may seem sweet nah… but women think oh he was in a long marriage ect. It just grew apart it didn’t work because of that, yada yada yada. NOOO! You are about to get a curse from another woman throwing it away. Pray for all women to stop being so gullible I’m tired of women getting hurt and crying all of the time because oh I want someone and they’re nice crap men are salesmen for women to buy their shii! Simple

@LeaveYourAbuser

3 ай бұрын

@@lollove9974 Thank you for your comment. I’ve been thinking about it for awhile now. I agree with you I should have left…….

I'm proud of you that you had the courage to leave that toxic marriage and now you're an entrepreneur 👍😊

I feel so glad for you you healed. I know by expierience how hard that is.

Love and my admiration to you young lady, dear soul.

So glad that you were able to overcome 🙌🏿❤️

Her father just giving up on her like that , knowing how combative her stepfather was…what a shame, someone who is supposed to be a protector just left his daughter to suffer in that household

Thanks for sharing your journey

As soon as you speak up they want to take your kids away from you. No one would believe me. He is so clever with his abuse I really feel like I am losing my mind completely. I am so alone and trying to survive each day until I can find a way out

You have a GREAT sense of humor, even everything you've been through!

So happy for your triumph over some serious adversity, beautiful!🩵

These stories resonate with me

Thank you for being a light for others to shine the way to freedom. It took me 3 times, by the grace of God.

@LeaveYourAbuser

4 ай бұрын

It took me 19 times before I left!

God Bless You🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

2 things. 1. I hope her children have broken the cycle. And 2. It’s sad to me that at no point did she acknowledge or maybe she hasn’t realized this was all her mother’s fault. I wonder if her mother is still with her “evil husband?” Her mother repeatedly put people in her life that were a danger to her. Her mother let her husband push her REAL FATHER away. Her mother taught her it was normal for her to be abused by letting that man abuse her and talk crazy to her father. I do not blame her father at all for saying im not gonna deal with this. Contact me when you’re 18. The way the Family courts work men have NO RIGHTS. So for your father to endure being threatened by this dude and your mom won’t stop it and the courts don’t care.. it’s just awful. But back to your mother. That woman caused all of this. Allowing these men around you and then pushing your father away she left you vulnerable and believing this abuse is normal. And the worst part is you continued that cycle and now your babies have seen you be abused. I hope they break the cycle and do not allow that to be their stories as well. Shame on your mother.

I am so proud of you for coming forward and telling your story keep on striving Queen and know that wasn't your fault ❤❤❤❤

Respectfully , why do u think so many women , after being exposed to these type of men at an early age , seem to continue to meet these same kinds of men throughout their lives even tho they recognize the signs to avoid ? I’ve known several women throughout my life that these sorts of situations seem to “follow” all their lives , and several times these women use the word “cursed” to describe their situation

@Armelleee

4 ай бұрын

Because 80% of males are like this duh.

@msbamabasketball4436

4 ай бұрын

I think sometimes with all due respect that some people can see the brokenness in you and they take advantage plus some women actually tell men about their past and either get it thrown in their faces or that new man will do the exact same thing. It's like not all but most men are hunters and they prey on women and that's not a bad thing necessarily. Because sometimes they prey on women that compliment them and some prey on women they can abuse.

@brunoglorvis1710

4 ай бұрын

@@msbamabasketball4436 see that was my same line of thinking because these woman I’m referring to are very well educated , very smart when it comes to things like school or jobs or administration but keep somehow “finding” these same men And it’s very unfortunate because these are talented and smart women whom I see in these situations time after time that they themselves say are “cursed” to keep repeating this cycle

@brunoglorvis1710

4 ай бұрын

@@Armelleee see but then at the same time I know other women who have not experienced these men from an early age that never meet these kinds of men , or if they do leave the situation immediately and don’t go thru the same thing twice

@msbamabasketball4436

4 ай бұрын

I know it sounds crazy but honestly I didn't talk about my ex to my current. I also have never had a man put hands on me or anything like that either. But I have never put hands on a guy. Now I have come across some so called nice guys that it was something that wasn't quite right and we ended things early on but later on I would find out they jumped on their woman. I dated this guy he was a totally gentleman but he got really fresh the end of the date with me. I didn't like it because he was on some I owe him. It was a blind date situation that mutual friend connected us. That was my first and last date and my mutual friend which was a guy was like, I fumbled him because he was such a nice guy. Fast forward that mutual friend really didn't talk to me much afterwards, he calls me one day like a year and some change later and he done linked the good guy with his sister, well he tried to r!pe his sister. See I drove my truck to that date even though he kept trying to pick me up but I didn't feel comfortable him having my address. So we met at the place. Well his sister got picked up and when it was time to drop her off he came in and tried to force himself on her and he told me why I said what I said and I was telling him your friend look like a catch to you all but he is a creep. He was like I should have told him. Like I told him you didn't listen you told me I fumbled a good guy and it wasn't anything else for me to say. I chalked it up but I know my instincts wasn't wrong considering my parents taught me about what to do on first dates and always have money to pay for your food and tip. I think these women probably over share when they just meeting a guy and some will take it and guard it and some will use it as a tool to manipulate and take advantage of you. You never know which one you will get TBH.

Wow! Why in the world would anyone allow a man on drugs to stay home with their young children. I’m so happy that you were able to overcome everything, wishing you the best.

@angelaholmes8888

4 ай бұрын

Yeah me neither unfortunately my mother did this one time she allowed my father to live with us knowing full well that he was still doing drugs it was horrible a few months later he stole things from the house and was verbally abusive towards me and my brother because of this my relationship with my mother is damaged

@PettyIsMyMiddleName

4 ай бұрын

@@angelaholmes8888 It breaks my heart the amount of people that do not protect their children. They can’t control everything, but some situations can be prevented. ❤️ to you

This woman is truly courageous to find the strength to leave her abusive relationship and managed to heal and build a life for herself and her kids and help others

First person in the world that I've heard pronounce their name like mine (Daneishia)

💜

Wow what a scary story. I reached out to these people to share my story and they didn’t even call me back. They said my life story is to dangerous sounding. But that’s exactly why it needs to be shared, to protect myself and my children. My channel is being controlled so my story won’t get out. Keeping me under 50 so can’t go live.

🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌

Love your name your so beautiful thank god u are healed