Mapenzi can’t be forced.. I am getting angry watching this. God is faithful

@rosewambui8026

3 жыл бұрын

Me too. Love, respect yourself. Man was looking for documents..stay. Lt happens all the times with Nigerians in diaspora, but a fellow Kenyan?? She was more a mother to the narcissistic man

@marykinuthia6067

3 жыл бұрын

True, that story is annoying.

@Kakwasi

9 ай бұрын

Eti God hates divorce mbona lakini watu hawaelewi biblia. Surely???? Uteseke ukufe?????? So God ordained for you. Wacha kutoelewa biblia

Atumia aria marutaga wira wa Ngai nimahuragwo mbaara nene muno ni ngoma agerete athuri ini so. Pole Sana pastor Jane

@Loise100

3 жыл бұрын

True am a victim.

The lesson here for me is: women over 40 need to be okay with being single and ending bad relationships. No shame. It might be painful but it is less pain and trauma than being in an abusive relationship or one where there is no mutual respect. Love and marriage is not by force, let it go...

@zippychege9373

3 жыл бұрын

It's not about age , it's about the man you marry , there any even young ladies in their 20s you through the same thing, but most of them they don't open up

@joicmartin7012

3 жыл бұрын

Very true

@janetngare1003

3 жыл бұрын

Not about age pls pls

@eunicemacharia4692

3 жыл бұрын

Not about age pls

@maureenokon4012

3 жыл бұрын

Coz u think when one turns 40 they are not loveable or they are too old to love and be loved?

Ladies! Ladies please stop staying in a marriage that doesn't work

@kensu7257

3 жыл бұрын

Herina Hellen sometimes you can forcerad by different reasons.

@rehemasimonmsemo3139

3 жыл бұрын

Fact👌

@saisafaith7412

3 жыл бұрын

Say that one more time for the people in the back

@positivevibes7127

3 жыл бұрын

And faking to the world

@positivevibes7127

3 жыл бұрын

@@kensu7257 naah no situation forces you,people make choices

Tuned . A great woman of faith. She is from my home area. May God bless her.

Wow! I'm shocked!! 😲 I've never heard of a man kufagia nyumba, it's always women who do, but I guess there is always a first time🤷🏾‍♀️

I wish that as women we would feel free to leave destructive relationships. May we never feel the urge to pretend and sacrifice ourselves for people who never have (and never will) love us. Very sad. I pray for her complete healing, strength, and restoration in Jesus' Name. 🙏🏽

Thanks for including English subtitles. I wish more of your fellow Kenyan influencers would do the same. God bless.

Just come to learn don't follow the pastor but only the word of God ,is this man truly God servant no judgement waiting for part 2 more popcorn 🍿 please 😂

Women, a marriage starts and ends with honor & respect, love comes through after honor and respect. Hakuna harusi bibi atanjenga peke yake........if a man talks to you narcissistically,has an affair even during your wedding night, abandons you......what exactly are we waiting for? You are stuck with a FOOL who doesn't know himself and he will never change unless Jesus dies again. Girls love yourself, nobody should treat you like a substandard human being unless you let them. Pole mama, glad you made it out.

If you can't encourage her just pita ,everybody condemning her,who has never messed up in love and life?????take heart ❤️ ma'am

oh my!!, this beautiful lady is still in pain..God fix her n let the pain n tears go away

@SusanHopeYoutube

3 жыл бұрын

It's ok to cry dear. I was also reported to police falsely you have all my support WOG. That wound need to heal completely. Call me please 0782732325. Iron sharpens iron

This was a marriage of convenience, the only person who thought otherwise was the woman. There is a lot of men/women who will appear to be what you are looking for and we need to ask God for discernment.

@layman9143

3 жыл бұрын

Discernment !!!? True. However in this case, God didnot speak to her through dreams, a feeling or through other people. He sent physical evidence on the evening of the wedding. The marriage should have been annulled, but she went ahead with it to protect herself, her family, the church. .Almost 2 decades later the Church of God has been drugged through the mud, she is still crying her heart out and I am sure her family is heart broken to see her like this. May God heal her.

Never force yourself in a man who has no heart.

A very beautiful woman of GOD, wow her heart is Golden, & the way she talks humbly, mhh, that's why GOD has been so gracious to her, mum you will find Love of a man again inthe Name of Jesus,, aki things women go through because of Love, but GOD of those women that kneel down & pray to him will never ever forsake them.

Am loving this great woman of God, all things work together for good for those who love the Lord.

He was Narcissist He had brought you down to his level. Used to get Citizenship.

It's such sad story, but educative. As Christians, we must live according to the word of God, and deny ourselves the comfort to please other. Pole Mum.

Your Testmony is very encouraging.I believe you have helped so many Women who have been going through hell in their marrige.God bless you.

I am so glad you're speaking out. Hehee keep it up my sister. Be strong and keep going....

Thank you Tata for opening up, it is the beginning of the healing process. You are always beautiful like a flower 💕

Pole mom.Kindly, remove that ring he put on ur finger.It might be still trying your developments.Not all are blessed

I hope those stepchildren recognize the great sacrifice she made for them. He used her for UK citizenship for himself and his children. May we never be abused by anyone in Jesus' Name. We single sisters will walk in divine wisdom in all things including marriage. Amen.

@mutembeinyaga3794

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@wanjawanjiku5910

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@Kakwasi

9 ай бұрын

The children love her

Can't wait for pt 2..men men that one just wanted papers.very selfish. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

My sister,you are passing through fire like good gold.when you get out ,you will be pure.God is preparing you for his ministry and he wants you to be strong enough.

You can't become who you were created to be without going through winds and testing.How you respond in these difficult time will determine whether you come out bitter or you you come out better.You may feel like you're sorrounded by opposition,everything has come against you.Don't worry God is sorrounding what's sorrounding you..(A painful story but God fights for the righteous)

@maureennganga7961

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@marymunyao4264

3 жыл бұрын

Very true

Impossible serving God in such a relationship

Yet another narcissistic abusive relationship, The goal of a narcissist is to destroy and eventually kill all your dreams, reduce you to nothing in an effort of trying to control you. Stress you to a point of committing suicide. This kind never change, they only get worse.

@sharonwabarakamusic

3 жыл бұрын

Our people are only beginning to know about narcissistic people. It’s easy to judge wrongly till you understand what someone has gone through. I still believe narcissism is demonic though

@hewamotomoto

3 жыл бұрын

Sharon, I'm with you on that, they are demonic and hiding everywhere especially in churches. I have a page that I shed a light on how to spot a narcissist and the narcissist are working hard to get it closed claiming its a hate group. Here is my link for any one who wants to learn more facebook.com/youarenotlosingit/

@faithkimathi4068

3 жыл бұрын

@@sharonwabarakamusic Thank you Sharon. Naccistisic Personality Disorder (NPD). To me, It's a kinder of sickness. Let continue to read more on this personalities. Let also pray and create awareness to young ladies OR men, to identify NPD traits early in relationships and not to confuse these traits with love.

@sharonwabarakamusic

3 жыл бұрын

@@faithkimathi4068 yes it is a personality disorder but the way it manifests it is like demonic possession, narcissists manipulate even prayers that’s how evil it can be, halafu no one believes the victims.

You Both looking fabulous 💖💘 Thanks for sharing Pastor Jane . God is Faithful ❤️ 4ever

My conclusion,9 years after walking out of an abusive marriage is,most men don't like intelligent,smart women. It rubs their ego the wrong way. Once you see the reds flags,run for cover. Once you catch your man cheating ,run fast run. Women should embrace singlehood. And to ladies who think being 40 is a curse and choose to settle with any man,my friend just got buried for this mistake. A man can have sex with you and still not love you. Somebody said abusive men will always come back to see if you are still stupid🙄

@annannita5067

3 жыл бұрын

Well said.

@janetngare1003

3 жыл бұрын

True

@reginakamanga3586

3 жыл бұрын

Being single is not a crime. But where do you kids from? From another woman?

@annannita5067

3 жыл бұрын

@@reginakamanga3586 it might be out of divorce ,death of a partner or separation

@cirure11

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, if you are still stupid enough to take another dose of crap, he will give it to you

Wah! Such a sad story...Opening up is the beginning of healing process...More grace to you pastor Jane

@danielkaruga7770

3 жыл бұрын

True

Ignoring the red flag just coz you want to see the good in people will cost you someday

Thats why whenever i pray i pray God to take away any spirit of desperation and not feeling i deserve better ....dont judge her its a very personal journey which comes with knowing you are a child of God and in him there is abundance and with patience you will get what you deserve and need in your life.... Hugs mum.

This is a good story but the flow is bad.. i got confused many times but i pray for healing upon you Wa muita. Your heart is broken. Let go and let God

@frashiahwangari2177

3 жыл бұрын

No flow at all!!

Woiye Ngai ni munene. This looks like a very good woman

There was a big red flag. He never loved you. He used you. You gave him paper. He was a complete narcissist.

A powerful testimony Pastor Jane,,, proud product of Gitwe Girls.

Pole mum,everything happens with a reason,don't worry glory be to God.

This pastor allowed herself to be used by a conman. It’s shameful and she should erase this man in her memory and seek professional help.

@Kakwasi

9 ай бұрын

Not cry for a conman

I’m the first one today. Talking is therapy for healing. I will call you

@charitywachira7913

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry my sister kanitha urugamagio ni Ngai no ti mundu.hau niho waguaga kigeranio.

@charitywachira7913

3 жыл бұрын

Acokaga gwaku arehererwo ni muka.Dont die 4 the sake of the church.The church belongs to God.

You have a passion for God`s work, be blessed. God sent you a clear signal about this marriage on that same wedding evening, but you went ahead with it. It is my belief that this marriage should not have happened in the first place. It is clear the man`s heart has never been fully into a marriage with you. Let go and may God heal you. I feel for you sister.

@annkezzy8434

3 жыл бұрын

This was not God's plan as a Pastor she should ve consorted God 🙏 first

🤭🤭🤭 ucio muthuri endaga o maratathi ti kihiko.....Time heals all wounds. Pastor Joan, kwihindi ukaria cia kihiko kiu utekurira. May your healing be quickened. Let him go.

So sorry mom. Such lesson teach us to get out of our comfort zones, try new things and see God in a new way. Allow God to give you a new beginning that he awaits to give you.

Pole sana mum. May God's healing grace come over you. May He bring total release to you and total peace. Pole sana.

Hizi marriage za mapastor never knew they were so fake. Hii story Ni Kama ya pastor Joan Wairimu. Finding a good husband is as hard as finding a job in Kenya.

Women persevere a lot. Mwenye kuvaa kiatu ndie ajuaye penye inauma

May the Lord reward you for your patience and the zeal to serve the Lord.

Ooo God! may God remember marriages. She is a strong woman she went through hard times in that marriage bcoz of love.

Pole sana mtumishi, but in this life never show a man like you are desperate..lts will really hurt you deeply....God timing is the best... Utaolewa na mume anakupenda na kukuheshima

Wooi that is very very emotional but God was with you all times because of the good thing you did for the kids

Part 2 chap chap...Aki pole you strong, nlikuwa nmefika mwisho buh you encouraged a soul

Waiting for prt 2

Qatar well represented. Rev Jane you're a God's living testimony. Am inspired

Bishop Gatimu is a role model to many thank you for this story we have learnt a lot.

Waaah hii familia yote naijua ni neiba ya shush pale Ngochi... Kahunira primary am old student there still and Gitwe girls was my favorite school.

Woman of God b strong n courageous for God is on your side n will come thro for you in a mighty way..God od another chance..carry on the good work of God n ministry bringing up those kids in love n ways of God ..thanks for powerful testimony to God b all the glory in the highest heavens!

Such a sad story I can't wait for part 2

She is very beautiful. She is so so strong.

There was no love the guy did not love her even for aminute.more grace to you mum

All those problems because of your ex husband ...bona wazee wengine hawaongei straight forward and you move on ..korwo ninii ingiamutigite okiroko ...

Oh my God, Jane muita my number one fan from u.k I didn't knew you went through all that, nakupenda passie

A lady with a good heart, do good n gd will come back to you. A true Christian by deeds. ❤

Everything one does has a pay. This man will pay at the fulness of time. It might take years. But he will pay. Watch the space

Shiru Stuart hope you are doing well. Tell my sis to be strong uriru ndukoraga nyamu no niithui andu. Mwire a korwo Ena atatu maramwenda akihe umwe. Amen

Ciiru, there stories we need Part two Like this one, and the Girl who was left alone by her whole family.

U.K YOTE KUJENI HAPA!!! HOW COULD YOU NEGLECT YOUR OWN?? PASTOR JANE HAMIA USA. POLE SANA MUM.😥

@janewairimu2923

3 жыл бұрын

mum pliz fear God only forget about people what thy going to say love your self arume ni nyamu God will fight for his work you can't fight for God wachana na kuolewa kabisha tumikiya mungu

Hi may God bless you my sister I was in your wedding did not eat anything yes food runs out but you said it well the money for food from pre wedding went in Kenya because we give you alot money but I had questions with that Man and his friends . Sorry mum hope you will heal and don't cry mum this save your life they could have done worse .

Can't wait part two

Team shiru stuart mambos🙋🙋🙋🙋,,, watching

Ngai wa atumia ario giti ini athuri magatuonia uhoro mi nlishindwa kuvumilia mundu noakue okahora ni dipression ikifika place we have to let it go and let God sorry for everything oundu wi gitumi wi mwega kana wi muru micii ni miritu .

The pain people go through in name of happy marriage n church

The guy must have found you very desperate. Please usipende mwingine hivyo.

@katenjoroge2088

3 жыл бұрын

How do I get part two of this interview?

@Kakwasi

3 жыл бұрын

Jibakishie

@Kakwasi

3 жыл бұрын

Kuwa mjanja

Am soo sorry for what you went through🙏glad you made it out. Some of us our mother's are still struggling in the stupid marriages because they're serving in church. The advice given by Christians to pray for their abusive spouses its painful💔kids hurt alot. More power to you

I hope there's a continuation please Shiru...

Labda huyo wa kenya alimfanyia kitu, pole sana mum.

@lucywachira2694

3 жыл бұрын

My thots too...Ile siku hizo juju zitaisha nguvu hataamini...

WOG it is well! No one will stand the way of your destiny and the purpose of God for you!

Am so sorry mum 😞😅 hii story ni so sad,so hurting but l Thank Mighty of Grace..amekuwa na ww hio safari yote Mungu asimame na ww mom.Aki ladies are going through hard and bitter times

Sorry mama.i remember we met and you gave me your number but I didn't know all this.You are such a strong woman

Hii stori haiflow vizuri but may God heal her. She's still hurting.

Pastor you are good minus anybody else embrace your self love those l who trust in God renew their strength you are not guilty of any offence set him free in your mind and be happy again

I am sorry but you said you wanted to protect a church? Religion is the down fall of African women and men. You let a man use you? Where is human dignity? Self worth? Respect? I would liked this woman to talk about LOVE. I think she got obssesed about him. Sorry i am a psychologist not a religious person. I was brought up in very strict Christian family but i left all those fanatism ....all young people use common sense, LOVE, diginity, self respect and put boundaries on your live .... religion will put in hell. She still in love with him and she refused to move on .... what a pity???? Jesus they said he died on Cross dont let anyone crucify you ooooohhhh i beg

@trizawambui5284

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you.

@joycengendo294

3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you I don't even pity her she's too good to be true

@blessedmama5367

3 жыл бұрын

Uhn! If there is hell means that there is paradise.

@sammyndekeindekei6581

3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you about the religion and the African women and though I like the high respect mum accorded her ex husband the extent of living with him again even after he moved on with another woman is quite a big risk especially of stds and having married another wife Disqualified the man to be a church leader or elder according to Paul in his letter to Titus. The man took advantage of her accomodative nature to abuse her but all that happens on this earth will be paid back right here on earth :the tears for children and an oppressed woman reaches to the throne of God while still wet and still hot

@blessedmama5367

3 жыл бұрын

Sammy Ndekei ndekei some times people uses religion in a different way as in her case . She was too obsessed in love n married thing and uses too much "sake of the church " that's her weakness not religion.I am a single mother in a church where single people leave alone divorcee like me get no position in the church but that doesn't qualify me to force myself for marriage in order to fit the small society .

Beautiful mummy, take heart.the beginning of your healing. May God process it fast and furious.

With respect, the dear pastor's story is neither flowing nor making sense entirely cos it's all over the place (almost incoherent). One struggles to understand the account or keep up with her. When one is not comfortable with sharing her journey by leaving out key details, all that's left is a half-baked story full of holes. Rather than educating/encouraging the viewers, it leaves them totally confused. Shiru kindly encourage ur guests prior interview to open up or give themselves time to heal, till such a time that they're comfortable sharing their journey fully. It's a rushed testimony that leaves more questions than answers.

@ritatruphena413

3 жыл бұрын

ni mushenee unapenda, after you know everything then what? You seem to know more than what she is telling.

@frashiahwangari2177

3 жыл бұрын

@@ritatruphena413 Wacha stress, kunywa maji.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂

@wanjirungari5781

3 жыл бұрын

I guess u r the wife who destroyed her marriage ....mia hau

@frashiahwangari2177

3 жыл бұрын

@@wanjirungari5781 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Wadada mtatuonyesha mambos.

@wanjirungari5781

3 жыл бұрын

@@frashiahwangari2177 sio mambo nivile umecomment kabla kuskiza part zote mbili

What you went through mum is similar to what I've gone through as I've been trying even to divorce but it has never worked. I also believe there is a force behind that.

Hi, Wamuita you were my mums best friend back then in Nairobi, Kayole

kindly host Maureen wanjaro wife to late legend mwalimu George wanjaro usikie maajabu ya musa

@moureenthera960

3 жыл бұрын

Please tell us abit kionjo where can I find her testimony

@francwandee5184

3 жыл бұрын

At reke ciume na ene show just watch part 1 n 2

@kngich1218

3 жыл бұрын

I second you let her host her

@tabithanjambi9117

3 жыл бұрын

@@moureenthera960 you can also look her facebook. Maureen wanjaro

@estheralbrechtsen8999

3 жыл бұрын

Very sad l couldnot hold my 😭😭😭😭

That so called pastor only needed papers to stay in UK. but Glory to God YOU are strong and still serving God.

@ruthmurimi

3 жыл бұрын

True

Waiting for part two

Vitu zingine nooo.i always believe church is my heart not building

Wapi like za number two 🙋

First that man didn't love you even a second then you have live in denial for so long third upto now you have not let it go.

@positivevibes7127

3 жыл бұрын

True anafaa to let go,how does she say with a lot of love for her husband trash

Some people just wants to be married to show people they have a 💍

@alicewambugu5934

3 жыл бұрын

Ukweli why go through this ati muthuri no ndi muite biu this lady is annoying

Thanks for translation... Love the show!

Ooh I know pastor wamuita she’s a gem, happy soul. She’s mistaken by how she talks, I know the man who’s she’s talking about and is now married to another lady, Pastor wamuita Uko sawa mama 💕❤️ love mingi!

@danielkaruga7770

3 жыл бұрын

He's from where in Kinangop?

@annkezzy8434

3 жыл бұрын

What happened to the first wife did she die or divorced

@kensu7257

3 жыл бұрын

@@annkezzy8434 if you hear her she say that she was want to stand with kids for what they are going through, and also she say about that woman was marride was ni relation even when mother od kids was life so it means she was dead first wife of tha man.

@Kakwasi

9 ай бұрын

Huyo mzae ako wapi. Alitesa huyu mama kweli

Uuui mum pole sana indeed you've suffered in the name of marriage Ngai niakuhe itumi nyingi cia gukeneruruka

Thanx 4 translation 4 us,its a nyc show

Never Never force love.Learn how to.let go.It was very clear that this relationship we going no.whete

Your beautful never give up

Shiru start a Kenyan dating site in UK. Anyway good job u doing keep it up

I have realised when you are desperate for a man there are superficial reasons to remain with a man who treats you badly and the real reasons. Her superficial reasons were church and her child but the real reasons was fear, fear of being alone, fear than no one can love you 😍, fear that it’s too late

@focusonchrist77

Жыл бұрын

Fear comes from condemnation. I am not enough by myself. I need a man to love me, choose me, want me and favor me. Christians and church has made marriage an idol that can give you the life of God. And we have been so disappointed. Let’s come to our first love

@Kakwasi

9 ай бұрын

We need to find our identity in Jehovah God. Not in a marriage. Ikishindikana imeshindikana. Wachana nayo