I was love bombed

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Writer: Julie Nolke
Actors: Julie & Mirror
Camera: Sam Larson
Editor: Alec Mckay
Production Assistant: Jill Agopsowicz
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  • @vanosoup
    @vanosoup2 жыл бұрын

    Let's be real, Julie created this video just to show off her whiteboard

  • @julienolke

    @julienolke

    2 жыл бұрын

    lol yup

  • @miguelramos3820

    @miguelramos3820

    2 жыл бұрын

    She needed to prove to her accountant why she put it on business expenses

  • @RS-pk4mp

    @RS-pk4mp

    2 жыл бұрын

    Her Magic Whiteboard! Which creates a sketch, clears it, and has a new one within moments! That is serious magic. Just saying . . . I hope she patents it. (Wait, can a fictional, but realistic mirror-like figure copyright anything? Do you need proof of reality? Wow. Through the looking glass indeed. :)

  • @ShhheilaASMR

    @ShhheilaASMR

    2 жыл бұрын

    knew it! haha

  • @laurenh9678

    @laurenh9678

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well now it’s a tax write off!

  • @kamille286
    @kamille2864 ай бұрын

    Reminds me of a quote I saw, if someone writes you a love poem they love you, if they write you 100 poems they love poems

  • @mrdunnepoetryreallifetvuk1934

    @mrdunnepoetryreallifetvuk1934

    3 ай бұрын

    Lol that's me to a T..

  • @alishabee369
    @alishabee3692 жыл бұрын

    Making others learn about narcissistic love bombing is such a public service. Merit badge for you, Julie.

  • @vandoan8295

    @vandoan8295

    10 ай бұрын

    100% i used to wake up every morning with paragraphs of love messages, flying to islands for vacation, breakfast at different hotels every morning… and then it suddenly stopped and other than the love bombing phase things got progressively worse and worse and they do not chsnge no matter what you tell / ask them to meet your needs once the love bombing phase is over and then after that it’s just pure cognitive stress and confusion (my ex is also a narc and im so relived i found the book abt narcissism ‘Should I stay or should i leave’)

  • @ceilinh6004
    @ceilinh60042 жыл бұрын

    Mirror Julie: A new variant, if you will. Julie: Too soon. Was it though? I laughed.

  • @KMMHealy
    @KMMHealy2 жыл бұрын

    “He sends me good morning texts…” “The bar has gotten very low.” 🤣💀 So true.

  • @HeidiFerren

    @HeidiFerren

    2 жыл бұрын

    I cried at how real that has become.

  • @BTNH_NiNJA

    @BTNH_NiNJA

    2 жыл бұрын

    💯😂

  • @seriesx9508

    @seriesx9508

    Жыл бұрын

    @@BTNH_NiNJA This is so unfair. My GF pushed our relationship in the direction that she always gets compliments and gifts. Daily. I am trying to get out of the relationship since I am being pushed into "simp" cateogory. If I avoid her, she can easily say she was love bombed. Or pull some guilt trip females like doing to guys. I know women like to claim to be victims for not getting everything they want. I gotta get away from this princess. But the moment I do, she will go on claiming she was love bombed. And probably make a KZread video like this

  • @KhanGarth

    @KhanGarth

    Жыл бұрын

    You can easily set that up automatically with iPhones (probably android too). Just setup an automation where it sends a text at a certain time, and you can even have it pull randomly from a list of various differing ones to make it look like you’re really typing it. Then just continue sleeping in and have your phone message your chick automatically

  • @hiimluna2069

    @hiimluna2069

    Жыл бұрын

    @@seriesx9508 did u even watch the video?? it’s a skit of her getting love bombed, realizing then moving on. it’s not about saying all guys that leave relationships are love bombers or something. also this is the first time ive even heard of the term love bombing so no not all FEMaLEs do this lmao.

  • @RhombonianKnight
    @RhombonianKnight2 жыл бұрын

    We all need a friend like Mirror Julie. She's the realest.

  • @anshumanagrawal346

    @anshumanagrawal346

    2 жыл бұрын

    "Realest" 😆

  • @somethingthatexists4797

    @somethingthatexists4797

    2 жыл бұрын

    ooh realest but not real, irony

  • @Voschel

    @Voschel

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@somethingthatexists4797 Well, she is real. Just as real as you and me talking to our wonderful selves in the mirror and that's incredibly healthy. It may of course even be healthier to have a conversation with an actual other human being than yourself, in case of knowing a single person in this world - maybe even having a friend or two. But none of my friends showed off their whiteboards to me yet, so they shall be considered dead to me from now on.

  • @mirunapopescu

    @mirunapopescu

    2 жыл бұрын

    Everyone wants a Mirror Julie until you have her and she tells you what you don't want to hear

  • @ashleysmith7953

    @ashleysmith7953

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mirunapopescu I still want a mirror Julie 🤣 My version lives to far away 😂

  • @MultiverseAsheville
    @MultiverseAsheville2 жыл бұрын

    I like how “you had to be there” implies Mirrror Julie has adventures without Julie. And now that I think about it, Mirror Me 100% has stories I have no recollection of…

  • @CharlieSoze

    @CharlieSoze

    2 жыл бұрын

    This checks out. Drunk Charlie legit hides cigarettes from Sober Charlie because he knows Sober Charlie will throw them out. Fortunately only Drunk Charlie ever knows where they're hidden.

  • @lowandslow3939
    @lowandslow3939 Жыл бұрын

    “Then you have to trudge through this muddy area” had me in stitches!

  • @somedutchguy7582
    @somedutchguy75822 жыл бұрын

    Everything makes perfect sense when Mirror Julie explains things!

  • @dcarter455

    @dcarter455

    2 жыл бұрын

    I mean!!!! Spot on and the analogy made soooo much sense! Like how did I never see it like that before???🤔

  • @backstabingpike

    @backstabingpike

    2 жыл бұрын

    ✊✊✊✊

  • @MartinMuehl

    @MartinMuehl

    2 жыл бұрын

    We need to get Mirror Julie's take on NFT's! That can only be hilarious.

  • @pxrays547

    @pxrays547

    2 жыл бұрын

    I trust Mirror Julie most when she is at her drunkest.

  • @babetravelling

    @babetravelling

    2 жыл бұрын

    I actually wanna borrow Mirror Julie

  • @Theo1505
    @Theo15052 жыл бұрын

    "Too soon." Loved it. Perfect delivery.

  • @virbilaisa8899

    @virbilaisa8899

    2 жыл бұрын

    𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna Anna is a beautiful girl. He's the person I love, he's my light day. The way the music flows and sounds is extravagant and fun. Anna is icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration, a star. I could go on and on, understand this. I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

  • @photoo848

    @photoo848

    2 жыл бұрын

    Kinda sad it wasn't one of the time travelling Julie's barging in and delivering that line

  • @bazilwreckerloughead
    @bazilwreckerloughead2 жыл бұрын

    "You look like roadkill when you wake up." Had me dying...had to re-watch that part 7 or 8 times!

  • @finsanders5851

    @finsanders5851

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been collecting Mirror Julie’s best (worst?) insults of Regular Julie. (Excerpts to follow.) The roadkill comment may be #1.

  • @bazilwreckerloughead

    @bazilwreckerloughead

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@finsanders5851 LOVE IT!

  • @carolyntalbot947
    @carolyntalbot9472 жыл бұрын

    Marco is about to know what it is to want Julie's attention. If you ghost a narcissist in this phase, you throw off the whole formula! Stay strong, Jules.

  • @lejake
    @lejake2 жыл бұрын

    "You got lost in the analogy" :DD So good, a silent assassin of a joke :D

  • @virbilaisa8899

    @virbilaisa8899

    2 жыл бұрын

    𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna Anna is a beautiful girl. He's the person I love, he's my light day. The way the music flows and sounds is extravagant and fun. Anna is icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration, a star. I could go on and on, understand this. I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

  • @jamielondon6436

    @jamielondon6436

    2 жыл бұрын

    And what a class act is Mirror Julie for simply admitting it outright!

  • @flyingscotsman32

    @flyingscotsman32

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes but pretty solid upside down pine tree drawing

  • @bicarbonat1
    @bicarbonat12 жыл бұрын

    "He makes promises that he can't promise" She a little confused, but she got the spirit 💀

  • @400_billion_suns

    @400_billion_suns

    2 жыл бұрын

    His ass is writing checks that his body can't cash

  • @couchpotato6499

    @couchpotato6499

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@400_billion_suns is that a Top Gun reference?

  • @400_billion_suns

    @400_billion_suns

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@couchpotato6499 Nah, but yesterday I flew a cargo plane full of rubber dog s* out of Hong Kong.

  • @Alicia_Tomoko_5x

    @Alicia_Tomoko_5x

    Жыл бұрын

    @Jason Shoots a woman that cared about you would not let you make expensive promises, then punish you for not keeping this. Its called simping which leads to divorce

  • @14sakuya26

    @14sakuya26

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Alicia_Tomoko_5x lol men refusing to take responsibility for their actions as usual

  • @danknfrshtv
    @danknfrshtv2 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes a person just needs a Nolke binge. Today was one of those days for me. Thank you, Julie!

  • @stevelee3144
    @stevelee31442 жыл бұрын

    Very creative! You are extremely smart to pull these videos off time after time. The entertainment value is up there. Thanks for sharing.

  • @karlsangree4679
    @karlsangree46792 жыл бұрын

    Julie: He always says, "I'm lucky to be with you." Mirror Julie: Well that's not true. Way too funny...

  • @willow5235

    @willow5235

    2 жыл бұрын

    I think I word your looking for is not funny but relatable

  • @Jade45224

    @Jade45224

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@willow5235 sorry but what’s wrong w funny ? just seems a bit nit picky

  • @willow5235

    @willow5235

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Jade45224 nothing wrong with funny, it was sarcasm that didn’t translate as well over text lol. I just found it painfully relatable

  • @Jade45224

    @Jade45224

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@willow5235 ohhh ok 😂😂

  • @candacehorgan1057
    @candacehorgan10572 жыл бұрын

    "Hold the phone, shoot the puck." Such a Canadian. Love it.

  • @bryancampbell9622

    @bryancampbell9622

    2 жыл бұрын

    Shut the front door.

  • @slartimus

    @slartimus

    2 жыл бұрын

    Also the lumberjack plaid flask.

  • @chantalfinn6173

    @chantalfinn6173

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@bryancampbell9622 sac en plastique

  • @kimreni

    @kimreni

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh. I heard that as "shoot the pug" and was really confused. Thank you for your comment 😅

  • @BlackHayateTheThird
    @BlackHayateTheThird2 жыл бұрын

    Good job! I remember you asked the community about this, and it's def a difficult topic to cover, and an even more-so to create as a comedic sketch. Relatable, truthful, digestable, and funny, awesome job!

  • @Nikkimommyof4
    @Nikkimommyof42 жыл бұрын

    First time watching this and I really liked it. Your characters seemed really authentic and I was able to truly see two different people even though it was you doing both characters. You are definitely talented. Thanks for sharing. Hope to see more of you soon.

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq2 жыл бұрын

    I love how quickly Mirror Julie draws the elaborate drawings in about five seconds flat! 😂🤣

  • @julienolke

    @julienolke

    2 жыл бұрын

    she's incredibly skilled

  • @qumquat

    @qumquat

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's a suspiciously fast turnaround, Julie...mirror bomber

  • @Dismythed

    @Dismythed

    2 жыл бұрын

    ... until she needs to draw upside down, then a single line takes her 30 seconds. 😄

  • @ramonaflowers5052

    @ramonaflowers5052

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@julienolke It's even more impressive that she has to draw everything reversed so it doesn't look mirror image!

  • @Hugh.Manatee

    @Hugh.Manatee

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ramonaflowers5052 But if you think about it, wouldn't her whole world be mirror imaged, so to her mirror imaged looks normal and we're the mirror image? ... I think I need to go to sleep...

  • @aryanmishra8454
    @aryanmishra84542 жыл бұрын

    "DID YOU SEE THE DIAGRAM " IS A MOOD AND I LOVE IT

  • @julienolke

    @julienolke

    2 жыл бұрын

    hehehe

  • @diegolima2098

    @diegolima2098

    2 жыл бұрын

    I actually replayed this bit a few times HAHAHAHAHA

  • @TheRevolverLady

    @TheRevolverLady

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@diegolima2098 me too ^^

  • @DavidDoncheck
    @DavidDoncheck2 жыл бұрын

    Frickin love it. Smiles all around. Thanks Julie!

  • @ameliaa2302
    @ameliaa23022 жыл бұрын

    Yes!! Need more videos like this. I love learning from Julie and alter Julie’s

  • @tabathaarria9558
    @tabathaarria95582 жыл бұрын

    for me it's not ghosting after the love bombing. it's more like "i'm gonna give you all these grandiose things that you didn't even ask so that i can mention them to guilt trip you in the future to make you do what i want you to" and it's terrifying

  • @andreakotvanova

    @andreakotvanova

    2 жыл бұрын

    Are we dating the same guy ????

  • @abbycloud668

    @abbycloud668

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@andreakotvanova uhhh pls break up w him

  • @zachfeder9415

    @zachfeder9415

    2 жыл бұрын

    Just a quick reminder. If someone gives you something you didnt ask for, regardless of how thoughtful and nice it may be, you have no obligation to ever return the favour. They can never hold it over your head because THEY chose to do it.

  • @Magus_Union

    @Magus_Union

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's called Narcissism. Love bombing is a common tactic used by people who suffer this derangement in order to emotionally trap victims and inflict malicious harm after establishing a connection. It's part of their disguise in order to put up a "perfect partner" front in order to gain 'emotional supply' from the pain they inflict on people. Please get out and away from such people if they are in your life. They will do everything to harm and abuse you, regardless of how grandiose their gestures will be at times.

  • @DeathnoteBB

    @DeathnoteBB

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Magus_Union Please don’t misuse medical terms and armchair diagnose people

  • @cam4894
    @cam48942 жыл бұрын

    Mirror Julie on the wall, who's the Julie-est of them all? She's definitely one of my faves!

  • @chaddblaylock7857
    @chaddblaylock78572 жыл бұрын

    The beginning of Narcissistic relationships usually starts with love bombing for 3 months. Julie you once again blend comedy and life skills so well!

  • @williamjenkins4913

    @williamjenkins4913

    2 жыл бұрын

    You just wish it ended in them ghosting you.

  • @LanielDevy

    @LanielDevy

    2 жыл бұрын

    Accusations of narcissism get tossed around far too casually these days...

  • @ankyfire

    @ankyfire

    Жыл бұрын

    @@LanielDevy no, there are actually really many narcissists out there

  • @LanielDevy

    @LanielDevy

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ankyfire - That doesn't preclude the over- abundance of accusations to that effect. Tends to be women insisting that every guy they've ever dated was a narcissist. If that's true, they should look to themselves to understand why they are attracted to narcissists. I suspect that many of those men were, in fact, simply daring enough to have their own desires and opinions. As I say, it just seems far too common that we hear accusations of narcissism... as if narcissists make up half the population.

  • @ankyfire

    @ankyfire

    Жыл бұрын

    @@LanielDevy have you thought that maybe indeed most of women HAVE dated a narcissist? Why think they're lying instead of trusting the victim? Yes the women should look at themselves... Do you know whom narcissists target? Highly emotional, empathetic individuals, usually in a more difficult part in their lives. That makes like 90% of women ever.

  • @heidiwood3142
    @heidiwood31422 жыл бұрын

    Omg I just can’t get enough of this beautiful woman’s smart, funny, relatable and relevant material!!! What a gem she is, I hope to see her on bigger and bigger platforms so the world can enjoy this beautiful genius as much as I do!!!

  • @LarryLatouf
    @LarryLatouf2 жыл бұрын

    The mirror-Julie videos are my favorites …. “…ballistic missile of attention…”. love it

  • @lyndon4010
    @lyndon40102 жыл бұрын

    the motto of this story: Ditch the love-bomber, keep the playlist

  • @PeterSedesse

    @PeterSedesse

    2 жыл бұрын

    plot twist... use the playlist to love bomb a different guy....

  • @ZSchrink
    @ZSchrink2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely amazing video! And congrats on the 1M sub milestone! Here's to many more!!

  • @crggddns1
    @crggddns1 Жыл бұрын

    Julie your work is great on so many levels it is breathtaking! Thank you!

  • @michaelday6987
    @michaelday69872 жыл бұрын

    Mirror Julie: "Your breath makes me want to vomit" My immediate reaction: "You sure it's not the hangover?" Love this channel.

  • @virbilaisa8899

    @virbilaisa8899

    2 жыл бұрын

    𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna Anna is a beautiful girl. He's the person I love, he's my light day. The way the music flows and sounds is extravagant and fun. Anna is icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration, a star. I could go on and on, understand this. I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

  • @bemasaberwyn55

    @bemasaberwyn55

    2 жыл бұрын

    Goddamn dude

  • @RealRomplayer

    @RealRomplayer

    2 жыл бұрын

    My thought was: How can you smell that? You're on the other side of the mirror!

  • @joelleweetjewel9948
    @joelleweetjewel99482 жыл бұрын

    I feel like the term 'love bombing' is being somewhat diluted though. It's usually used to refer to tactics abusers use in order to make their victim feel dependent and obligated to them, so that when they become abusive and controlling later in the relationship, it's harder to leave. It's a common behavior in narcissists, although the term was originally coined by cult leaders who used love bombing in order to recruit new members. Either way, the goal of love bombing is usually _making sure people won't leave_ which is kind of the opposite of what West Elm Caleb does.

  • @neartalways5185

    @neartalways5185

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for writing this. You've described what love bombing is really well. It's horrible behaviour and causes much hurt and emotional damage.

  • @mary-anneellis2105

    @mary-anneellis2105

    2 жыл бұрын

    You've articulated this so well, thank you. Still recovering from mine, or rather I think I'm fine, then suddenly I'm not. I remember Julie put up a community post a week or so ago, asking for peoples definitions and/or experiences of love bombing, so I can only assume she hasn't been through it personally. This was such a censored version of what actually happens that I just took it as simply that. If she were to make something similar, I'd like to see her film with a professional.

  • @ilinzrh

    @ilinzrh

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this explanation too! I was listening to the examples of what a love bomber would do and I was like “hey my boyfriend and i were like that from the get go, is there something wrong with us?”. We have been together for 2 years+ and we’re still as intense. It’s weird that this new term of love bomb came up (not just from this video) and made me question how I love my partner 😭

  • @vladislavkozlov4978

    @vladislavkozlov4978

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ilinzrh get BetterHelp

  • @Dismythed

    @Dismythed

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, the love 'em and ghost 'em aspect seemed a bit of a left turn.

  • @RicardoMoralesMassin
    @RicardoMoralesMassin2 жыл бұрын

    Julie you are SO GOOD at the actin thing. I always forget your characters are played by the same person. And your storytellin is top notch too. This is awesome.

  • @CLdanse
    @CLdanse2 жыл бұрын

    That’s really good. Love the inner dialogue ending up being a outer dialogue of 2 versions of you. And with just enough sense of humour. More eye-openers like this please ! The world needs it. Please do a series of all the narcissistic tools : love bombing it just one of them …

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq2 жыл бұрын

    Mirror Julie is the best agony aunt ever, she's always there to dispense advice, and point out obvious red flags!

  • @virbilaisa8899

    @virbilaisa8899

    2 жыл бұрын

    𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna Anna is a beautiful girl. He's the person I love, he's my light day. The way the music flows and sounds is extravagant and fun. Anna is icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration, a star. I could go on and on, understand this. I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

  • @oversoul7

    @oversoul7

    2 жыл бұрын

    Um what’s an agony aunt…. Cus I need one asap

  • @nawrr7438

    @nawrr7438

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@oversoul7 it is this thing in newspapers where people sent the problems so somebody could anonymously give advice

  • @zutty69
    @zutty692 жыл бұрын

    For someone who's been in a committed relationship for years, Julie seems to know a bizarre amount about how terrible the dating world is these days.

  • @MsZephyra

    @MsZephyra

    2 жыл бұрын

    I've also been very confused about this...!!

  • @SpearAndMagicHelmetYT

    @SpearAndMagicHelmetYT

    2 жыл бұрын

    Maybe she's non-monogamous?

  • @JNDReacts

    @JNDReacts

    2 жыл бұрын

    She put out a community post a week or so ago about this skit, asking about people's experiences with love-bombing.

  • @fignewton0000

    @fignewton0000

    2 жыл бұрын

    Jenny was right. It was a community post earlier last week

  • @ritugoswamy

    @ritugoswamy

    2 жыл бұрын

    She does her research. :-)

  • @heathen4236
    @heathen42362 жыл бұрын

    Mirror Julie is legitimately my soulmate. I feel like I could have hour-long, wordless conversations with her while we sat at a table in a crowded place and communicated exclusively with exasperated sighs and brow nods.

  • @beberivera7011

    @beberivera7011

    2 жыл бұрын

    And maybe a whiteboard...😋

  • @jenn-k-h
    @jenn-k-h2 жыл бұрын

    I wanted Mirror Julie's white board drawings to be brilliant works of art, like she turns it around and we're all astounded at her drunk artistic ability 😂🤣

  • @phenomenonnarutokun
    @phenomenonnarutokun2 жыл бұрын

    The best thing about the relationship between Struggling Julie and Mirror Julie is that after they completely disagree on something, they reunite and have a little beautiful banter. Love to see it

  • @nowshowjj
    @nowshowjj2 жыл бұрын

    "Do bears wear funny hats?" I'm using this forever.

  • @krisalan5327

    @krisalan5327

    2 жыл бұрын

    Try using does a one-legged bear poop in a circle. You'll be amazed at the looks you'll get

  • @susanmarki2027
    @susanmarki20272 жыл бұрын

    I can applaud enough. The drawings and analogy spiderweb was precious. Love your videos.

  • @dougimmel
    @dougimmel2 жыл бұрын

    brilliant stuff, smart, quick, great timing, cant get enough.

  • @marlenr8691
    @marlenr86912 жыл бұрын

    As a survivor of an emotionally abusive relationship with a covert narcissist and professional love bomber, I enjoyed this so much!!! If only we could have vaccines!!!

  • @marthamryglod291

    @marthamryglod291

    2 жыл бұрын

    If you don't mind, would you give bullet points?

  • @1chienandalou

    @1chienandalou

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@marthamryglod291shut the door literally and figuratively, delete and block number and don’t check their social media. Get help.

  • @Maplecook

    @Maplecook

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm a guy, but I went through this with my ex, too. This video hit close to home.

  • @WayneLynch69

    @WayneLynch69

    2 жыл бұрын

    Guy's see this so differently....and much less sympathetically. Elementally; you abandon responsibility for self, then complain you weren't protected. It's cringe-worhy to hear these middle-age women talk aboiut becoming "invisible". It's worth noting, men/boys were NEVER other than invisible; and it not only doesn't occur to women, they would blame the boy for not being a star.

  • @TeutaTheQueen

    @TeutaTheQueen

    2 жыл бұрын

    We do have a vaccine. It's called r/fds. Men usually have a meltdown when it's mentioned.

  • @whitehawk5
    @whitehawk52 жыл бұрын

    ok so the love bomber and fuckboy evolution art need to be put on t-shirt as merch, you are welcome mirror julie, and dont forget us little people

  • @ketoincontext2306

    @ketoincontext2306

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes!

  • @2livenoob

    @2livenoob

    2 жыл бұрын

    There needs to be a ghant chart to prove there is no level of attention women won't shame. If you don't respond to a text in 5.023437s you are an fboi, if you reply in 5.023436s you're a love bomber.

  • @8675309eahine
    @8675309eahine2 жыл бұрын

    The line that got me was “Did you see the diagram?” You are so funny.

  • @habbadabbado5765
    @habbadabbado57652 жыл бұрын

    “I would just take the almost out of that sentence” great line and delivery!!

  • @mattofthenorth
    @mattofthenorth2 жыл бұрын

    At first I thought mirror Julie had her own mirror 😲 That could change everything!

  • @PeterSedesse

    @PeterSedesse

    2 жыл бұрын

    physicists could finally go back to string theory.

  • @FlatOnHisFace

    @FlatOnHisFace

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow! Imagine that story arc. Mirror Julie buys a mirror, gets Julie to look into it, trapping her in the mirror-verse, and then Mirror Julie is able to take her place in the real world. The chaos that would ensue!

  • @MadMadCommando

    @MadMadCommando

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mirror Julie’s mirror Julie is just passed out drunk in a mud bath

  • @carola-lifeinparis
    @carola-lifeinparis2 жыл бұрын

    Amazing advice from Mirror Julie. And so realistic, I am pretty certain I cancelled a tinder date with someone exactly like Marco because I was a bit overwhelmed by these long, like 2 screens long, messages about how fantastic our life together will be before even meeting him in person. And good morning messages. And goodnight messages. And "getting sad when I did not reply right away" messages. This is really the most relatable channel I can imagine right now, presented by a drunk person living behind Julie's mirror :D :D

  • @julienolke

    @julienolke

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh my god I’m so glad you cancelled!! F*ck Marco! Thanks for watching 🥰🥰🥰

  • @Joseph_Roffey

    @Joseph_Roffey

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@julienolke Why do I suddenly feel like I’m watching a Disney movie…? Silencio Marco! We don’t talk about Marco no, no, no!

  • @TheKeksletsplay

    @TheKeksletsplay

    2 жыл бұрын

    Imagine genuinely liking someone. Rather play hot cold and send mixed signals. Much more effective.

  • @Joseph_Roffey

    @Joseph_Roffey

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@TheKeksletsplay yeh I felt bad about Marco… It looked to me like Julie was about to genuinely miss out on a possibly great guy in this vid until Mirror Julie made it clear she knew Marco and knew he sent that playlist out to everyone at which point it was obvious he was not particularly genuine at all..😔 I’m not sure this video constitutes an attempt at genuine love bombing, but even if that was what it was, love bombing is only distinguished from genuine affection by the removal of affection at a later stage. Even the slightly toxic “I feel so bad when you don’t reply quickly” that Marco was associated with could still just be romantic honesty and not manipulative. It’s only manipulative when the intention is to take those affections away once the other person is hooked so that they might feel compelled to try to get them back. As far as I understand the concept anyway. Xx

  • @SepiaMaddy

    @SepiaMaddy

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Joseph_Roffey The true difference (and the reason why kicking Marco to the curb is a good thing) is that he doesn't have enough emotional intelligence to recognize that it's not possible to love someone enough to spend the life with them when they haven't even met yet. That's not love, that's infatuation in the best case scenario. Worse even: it's infatuation with a mostly imaginary person because the brain just fills in the gaps with some "romance" when you barely know someone. To know someone takes time and opportunities so see them how they really are. That's why I absolutely agree with the Julies and say bye to every Marco out there. (Sorry Marco, you will only temporarily be memed.)

  • @Roodneyfb
    @Roodneyfb2 жыл бұрын

    Such a talented artist! Great job!

  • @BlackCat-jg9cc
    @BlackCat-jg9cc2 жыл бұрын

    I like the little details, like how julie has her ring on her left hand while Mirror-Julie has her ring on her right because she's a reflection 😁

  • @jennifermc1221
    @jennifermc12212 жыл бұрын

    I will only think of love bombers as a new type of variant from now on

  • @julienolke

    @julienolke

    2 жыл бұрын

    we need a vaccine!

  • @Darwinwasright167

    @Darwinwasright167

    2 жыл бұрын

    “A stupid amount of people won’t take it” ---Julie Nolke 2021

  • @DivineDancing1

    @DivineDancing1

    2 жыл бұрын

    A serious disease

  • @MattGoodreau
    @MattGoodreau2 жыл бұрын

    You know what's amazing!? Sometimes I get lost in Julie's performance and forget that MJ is not another actress....just Julie...playing both parts perfectly lol

  • @MrAlexEart
    @MrAlexEart Жыл бұрын

    I love how excited Mirror Julie was about the whiteboard!

  • @TimGreen87
    @TimGreen872 жыл бұрын

    Love the writing in this one

  • @JasWritesInDarkness
    @JasWritesInDarkness2 жыл бұрын

    Me: “Dammit Julie! Why you do this to me!?” Also me: “I love her so much!”

  • @julienolke

    @julienolke

    2 жыл бұрын

    awe shanks

  • @JasWritesInDarkness

    @JasWritesInDarkness

    2 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome! 😁❤️

  • @heysunshine648
    @heysunshine6482 жыл бұрын

    the ways that this sketch imitates my own recently developing long-distance relationship with the only difference of the guy definitely not being a love bomber are incredibly hilarious and frighteningly creepy at the same time. i'm having fun but also a mild existential crisis classic julie content

  • @TheEldarGuy
    @TheEldarGuy Жыл бұрын

    "You had to be there" Yep, my shadow self is having a much better life than mine.

  • @thomasd3146
    @thomasd31462 жыл бұрын

    These are the kinds of projects you do as a kid. So great that she grew it up!

  • @nrsrymj
    @nrsrymj2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Julie! Congrats on the million!

  • @julienolke

    @julienolke

    2 жыл бұрын

    thank youuu

  • @nrsrymj

    @nrsrymj

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@julienolke aaahh she answered! Thanks for all the laughs. Really made this crappy time easier! Also you're gorgeous. Loved your roller skating photos ❤️

  • @Chromicon
    @Chromicon2 жыл бұрын

    The first time Julie said, Marco, I kindof expected Mirror Julie to say, Polo.

  • @ursulashebear9798

    @ursulashebear9798

    2 жыл бұрын

    I said it for her.

  • @lucretiaswords5142
    @lucretiaswords51422 жыл бұрын

    Loving this sooo much!! Beware the Love Bomber!

  • @mconnaghan
    @mconnaghan2 жыл бұрын

    "I love you so much and I'll see you next week." Ohhh, I see how it is.

  • @DJ-fn3jm
    @DJ-fn3jm2 жыл бұрын

    Some people might think Mirror Julie drinks too much. But imagine this: You live in the mirror. Trapped there. Always primping and shaving and waxing and getting ready to go out. and...never...ever...leaving. I think she is under consuming.

  • @virbilaisa8899

    @virbilaisa8899

    2 жыл бұрын

    𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna Anna is a beautiful girl. He's the person I love, he's my light day. The way the music flows and sounds is extravagant and fun. Anna is icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration, a star. I could go on and on, understand this. I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

  • @johndododoe1411

    @johndododoe1411

    2 жыл бұрын

    I would imagine she appears in all the mirrors Julie passes while out and about, so she actually goes out in the mirror world and gets visible hickies from mirrors of Julie's boyfriends.

  • @NonFerricIrony

    @NonFerricIrony

    2 жыл бұрын

    That sums up this *whole* past two years for me.

  • @Tom_YouTube_stole_my_handle

    @Tom_YouTube_stole_my_handle

    2 жыл бұрын

    We have to consider the question of where does the booze come from? Either the mirror apartment is much larger to contain an unlimited supply in which case Mirror can pass time exploring the apartment or she is able to leave at will. Given we never hear her calling Julie we might assume there are times when Julie's calls to her go unanswered.

  • @chantalfinn6173

    @chantalfinn6173

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@NonFerricIrony 💯

  • @AlysonTabbitha
    @AlysonTabbitha2 жыл бұрын

    Omg guys like this are actual nightmares. Thank you mirror Julie for your wisdom

  • @Aschell91

    @Aschell91

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey I love your work! You do a kickass job

  • @edmis90

    @edmis90

    2 жыл бұрын

    Difficult to imagine such exist. I feel like a person would have to be a psychopath, devoid of any empathy, in order to do that.

  • @Wintertidal

    @Wintertidal

    2 жыл бұрын

    people* ...gender inclusivity of all sociopaths is important!

  • @eat_pray_porg8450

    @eat_pray_porg8450

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, AT! I didn't know you were a Julie Nolke fan! That's awesome! :-)

  • @PeterAcrat

    @PeterAcrat

    2 жыл бұрын

    Actually: _"People"_ like this (regardless of gender) are toxic narcissistic types to be avoided.

  • @Duryism
    @Duryism2 жыл бұрын

    Mirror Julie's subtle, yet secretly vast, excitement that she got to use her whiteboard to explain something was so pure.

  • @mazeknox
    @mazeknox2 жыл бұрын

    This is now one of my favourites with mirror Julie. The back and forth banter feels VERY natural and on point. I mean...I know Julie is just 1 person, but sometimes I forget that..

  • @chasbodaniels1744
    @chasbodaniels17442 жыл бұрын

    So many great hooks in this. Tempted to play it at .75 speed to catch them all. One of your best.

  • @virbilaisa8899

    @virbilaisa8899

    2 жыл бұрын

    𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna Anna is a beautiful girl. He's the person I love, he's my light day. The way the music flows and sounds is extravagant and fun. Anna is icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration, a star. I could go on and on, understand this. I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

  • @MANU123423
    @MANU1234232 жыл бұрын

    Just discovered your channel, it’s incredible how quick I stopped thinking about the two characters being the same person! So seamless, well done!

  • @virbilaisa8899

    @virbilaisa8899

    2 жыл бұрын

    𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna Anna is a beautiful girl. He's the person I love, he's my light day. The way the music flows and sounds is extravagant and fun. Anna is icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration, a star. I could go on and on, understand this. I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

  • @metatron6661
    @metatron66612 жыл бұрын

    This is/was/will forever be fantastic

  • @lia636
    @lia6362 жыл бұрын

    Omg omg omg !!! This fits so well with my current situation !!!

  • @writechris2
    @writechris22 жыл бұрын

    Aw, I was hoping to get the playlist, mirror Julie! Also, where were you when I was still dating? Could have used your wisdom for sure.

  • @tylerboyce4081
    @tylerboyce40812 жыл бұрын

    4:58 Julie: "It's been a challenging year to say the least." Jack Donaghy: "It's February, Nolke..."

  • @Tom_McMurtry

    @Tom_McMurtry

    2 жыл бұрын

    Both are true! 😅

  • @elissachasen2528

    @elissachasen2528

    2 жыл бұрын

    January was a really tough year.

  • @normanclatcher

    @normanclatcher

    2 жыл бұрын

    _This is foreshadowing. You might wanna write that down..._

  • @FlatOnHisFace

    @FlatOnHisFace

    2 жыл бұрын

    She's setting up a future Future Julie revisits her past self sketch.

  • @Thundersnowy

    @Thundersnowy

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 true and true.

  • @ciel319faves
    @ciel319faves Жыл бұрын

    This is sooo relatable!! 🤣🤣🤣 love the evolution drawing on the whiteboard makes so much sense 🤣🤣🤣

  • @aaronzimmer9825
    @aaronzimmer98252 жыл бұрын

    This was really great!!!

  • @MikeCiccolo
    @MikeCiccolo2 жыл бұрын

    Love the stick figures running away from the love bomber!😄

  • @AlaskanNativeRedEagle
    @AlaskanNativeRedEagle2 жыл бұрын

    "I feel like the bar has gotten very low!" -I died laughing! haha

  • @hcarley
    @hcarley2 жыл бұрын

    Please can you make this from the perspective of her recognizing that she is the love bomber?!

  • @davidpietarila699
    @davidpietarila6992 жыл бұрын

    I am SO glad that I came from a generation where courting was an in person thing.

  • @Lumas101
    @Lumas1012 жыл бұрын

    *Prepares to have “Confessions Part 2” in my head for the rest of the week.*

  • @normanclatcher

    @normanclatcher

    2 жыл бұрын

    reluctantly crouched at the starting line...

  • @marcokrueger3399
    @marcokrueger33992 жыл бұрын

    Hey Julie, I hope you're not giving up on us! I always thought of that as a long term thing and I'm definitely not a subscribe-bomber. I'm so glad we have you!

  • @sanjuseesstuff

    @sanjuseesstuff

    2 жыл бұрын

    This comment needs to be pinned

  • @lfreuja92
    @lfreuja922 жыл бұрын

    Now I want to listen to the playlist too.

  • @JCookie721
    @JCookie7212 жыл бұрын

    I need this playlist!

  • @nurse425
    @nurse4252 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love how her flask is just THERE, LOL! 🙃

  • @virbilaisa8899

    @virbilaisa8899

    2 жыл бұрын

    𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna Anna is a beautiful girl. He's the person I love, he's my light day. The way the music flows and sounds is extravagant and fun. Anna is icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration, a star. I could go on and on, understand this. I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

  • @Vorundor
    @Vorundor2 жыл бұрын

    Great way to start my day, Mirror Julie is DA BEST. Her diagrams are exquisite. The fuck boy evolution had me dying LOL

  • @Marss13z
    @Marss13z Жыл бұрын

    OK. So I found your channel in 2020 during lockdown and I was squandering time. I got really good at pasta. Lost you for a year and a half and here you are again. Delightful episode. Glad you're there.

  • @T0MMYNAT0R
    @T0MMYNAT0R2 жыл бұрын

    I need the playlist!

  • @TimKaseyMythHealer
    @TimKaseyMythHealer2 жыл бұрын

    Your skits are so smart! Love all that you do, ❤

  • @julienolke

    @julienolke

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!

  • @TimKaseyMythHealer

    @TimKaseyMythHealer

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@julienolke ,❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @DeejayCombsGoesLive
    @DeejayCombsGoesLive2 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations on one million subs, Ilysm ❤️

  • @julienolke

    @julienolke

    2 жыл бұрын

    thank you!!

  • @alyssawatson9289
    @alyssawatson92892 жыл бұрын

    Oh my God, I was literally just in this situation last month 😮😅 Julie, get out of my mind!!!!😂🤣🤣 love you! You are hilarious 😭😂😍😘

  • @lucashouse9117
    @lucashouse91172 жыл бұрын

    I can't get enough of these videos

  • @bcreativecarson5973
    @bcreativecarson59732 жыл бұрын

    White board comedy is a genre that is underutilized. Thank you, Mirror Julie, for bringing this style of comedy back to the forefront! Also, are you up for a game of Pictionary? I love Julie Nolke. ❤ (But not in a bombing kind of way.)

  • @digital_gravity
    @digital_gravity2 жыл бұрын

    I was thinking Mirror Julie was unusually sober at first.

  • @julienolke

    @julienolke

    2 жыл бұрын

    it didn't feel right

  • @victorhugoeh974

    @victorhugoeh974

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yup, and then "we need to celebrate!" and takes out the flask 🙊😂🤣

  • @simond.455

    @simond.455

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@victorhugoeh974 She didn't even have to get up. 😂

  • @victorhugoeh974

    @victorhugoeh974

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@simond.455 like a SEAL team: "always ready" 😂🤣🤣

  • @ther.s.hilluniverse8467
    @ther.s.hilluniverse84672 жыл бұрын

    Bravo,Julie. Great writing. 👍

  • @qwertykey6586
    @qwertykey65862 жыл бұрын

    The drone illustration killed it🤣🤣🤣 Forget that the evolution chart is insane

  • @michaelmolarsky8524
    @michaelmolarsky85242 жыл бұрын

    Mirror Julie gives spot on assessment of Narcissism at it’s core. Takes one to know one!😁

  • @19thHour
    @19thHour2 жыл бұрын

    "Shoot the puck." We get it Mirror Julie, you're Canadian 😅

  • @khriswildt5633
    @khriswildt56332 жыл бұрын

    This was one of your best ever!

  • @Hullj
    @Hullj Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. The humor is wonderful. And the direction towards mental health examination and protection is exceedingly valid exceedingly necessary and God I wish I lived in can

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