Living in survival mode is a natural reaction after experiencing trauma. I was scared, depressed and I didn’t know how to get out of bed without crying for hours. Everything was a big challenge and I thought that I was never going to be able to live life again. I am still healing, and I know I have a long journey ahead until I feel like my happy self again. For now I try to focus in what I can control. I am trying to skate more, enjoying nature more and try not to stress out too much when life is not going my way. Have you ever experienced anxiety or panic attacks!? If so, how did you get out of that emotional state?

@Mikefngarage

16 күн бұрын

Next weekend Free EVENT.....need to get there early Capistrano Volkswagen dealership takeover. not too far from SD area They give you a T shirt Lunch ticket and the event is totally free. All Classic VWs take over the whole parking lot.

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

@@Mikefngaragethat could be nice! I should look into it!

@Mikefngarage

16 күн бұрын

@@LidiaRico check the website info all there. will be fun to meet some more VW folk. Lots come from the SD clubs.

@alexeatonexploresamerica5511

16 күн бұрын

Hi I hade a skate board's year's and I sold it but now in Florida's toughest swimmer🏊‍♂️

@alexeatonexploresamerica5511

16 күн бұрын

The heat can be awful it was 160° in my van once I just drink lots of water and have a fan blowing me

Pain allows us to evolve and be reborn. Over time the scars close, it's a painful moment to go through. God Bless You.

Lidia, well here I am again. As a guy who has experienced trauma on many different levels, from my fiancé, to family members, to guys in the Army that I considered my brothers. My point is, the key to healing is acceptance and not blaming yourself. As I have said before, thanks to my PTSD, I know what a lot of them go through. I fight the same monsters in my head. Lidia, you are a strong woman and a fighter. You have monsters of your own as well as the monsters that have been projected on to you, but they CAN be beaten. Just stay the course, be strong, and keep being the amazing young lady you are. As always, BIG HUGS from Tennessee! 😁

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

Thanks for always sharing here in the comments! It’s a constant mental battle but I’m here to never give up!

@bobs1648

16 күн бұрын

@@LidiaRico You just keep being you. Because you cannot be beat!

@Mikemonoa-hz2rz

16 күн бұрын

My self with depression and anxiety thee only thing that keeps me strong is my family, my gym and my gym buddy's and motivation

@cindyeyler

16 күн бұрын

Solid ❤

@angeldon731

15 күн бұрын

Nicely said, I can relate with both, saludos desde Puerto Rico

Loss and grief is so very hard to get over. May you heal and find joy again.

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

Amen 🙏🏽 thank you so much for your kindness

Sounds like you’re in the right track. Keep that chin up. Time heals.

@LidiaRico

14 күн бұрын

Thank you! I am trying :)

It wouldn't be real life if there were no disappointment and pain. Stay safe and positive. Hugs for Lidia Rico

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

Yes, we have good and bad things happening to us

Lost my mom 2017 old age then my son 2019 to seizure in bath tub < 30 years old. I gained 30 lbs., I had big sobbing grief at work, while driving to work, doing anything. I had to go back to work 4 days post so my family didn’t go into financial ruin. I still have breakdowns. Site of things that remind me of my son just make me breakdown. We find our way to sometimes we don’t. Loss and grief is personal to each of us. Don’t let someone’s coping mechanism make you feel guilty for your grief mechanism You do you. Sending Love from one human to another❤

Stumbled upon this channel. i know loss, seen loss… I’m also in Southern California… after 20 years divorced after my wife forgot what vows meant, one of my 12 year old twin sons died 4 years ago, mom died 3 years ago, uncle, brother and grandmother died within the last 2 years… worked in pediatric advanced life support and advanced cardiac life support ambulance for many years… so when I say I’ve seen loss and experienced much loss that’s what I meant.. after my kiddo died I went through a period where I’d stare at the wall for 18 hours a day… went through a bunch of dark stuff.. finally pulling myself out of the hole and getting back to myself… to be able to smile or experience joy sometimes is hard. I can easily go a couple of days without smiling. Without turning this into a seminar I just wanted to say I enjoyed the few videos of yours I’ve seen. Stay strong sis and continue to push forward. 👊🏾🤘🏾

@LidiaRico

13 күн бұрын

YOU ARE MY INSPIRATION! KEEP GOING! Thank you so much for sharing all the hardships you have endured and you are still here fighting like a Roman Soldier! I know it's hard but we are fighters, we will survive the darkest days and life one day will make sense. I love you thank you so much for sharing your story wit all of us and for being an example of resilience

Grief is crippling. Be gentle with yourself. “Kick at the darkness until it bleeds daylight.”

@LidiaRico

10 күн бұрын

🙏

@SailorGerry

5 күн бұрын

Is not that from a Bruce Cockburn song?

Loss and grief is so hard...it never stops you just make room for it in your heart.... Sending much ❤..

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for understanding ❤I hope you had a great weekend

Hello from Vancouver Island, British Columbia, Canada. I love how real this is. I used to live in Cali. I was in Chula Vista for 3 years, then LA and then San Luis Obispo, before I moved up here for total peace and quiet. I’ve only watched two of your videos so far, but I love your content and your attitude of gratitude, or as I call it; GRATTITUDE!! Thanks for being here.😊🙌🏾❤️

Lidia, sometimes the worst things that happen to us can actually be life's greatest gifts. I know that's hard to understand right now. But we all go through our own challenges as well. Some even worse. You WILL get through this! As long as you take your followers through your recovery process your support will grow tremendously! Your channel will thrive because you're providing a gift to humanity. The world needs a lot more people like you. Maybe you can create episodes explaining how you deal with each challenge? You don't have to offer solutions. Other people just like to know they're not alone while dealing with their own challenges. This is just a friendly suggestion. Only YOU know what's best for yourself. I just subscribed and looking forward to your next video. ✌️👍

I’ve followed you for years with no judgement. I’ve met you and you’re truly genuine. You’re doing well.

@LidiaRico

14 күн бұрын

Thank you 🙏

Lidia, I’m so happy and proud of you. You represent what a kind human being you are. You are blessed. And I will continue to pray for you that you get many beautiful blessings coming your way. Life can hurt but it also can be very wonderful. Hugs my sweet girl💕🙏🏼🫶🏼

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

Thank you so much dear online friend ❤ I am blessed to have people like you in my life. Your prayers are powerful and I can feel them in my heart ❤ I hope you have a happy 4th of July weekend! 🇺🇸 🎉

@warmbreeze43

16 күн бұрын

@@LidiaRico thank you. You as well

I lost the love of my life the same way too recently 😢 You're very brave to share as I'm sure like me my life has now forever changed. Grief is now a daily part of my life and I don't want to move on as my grief shows the just how much I love her and I don't ever want to forget but I will forever cherish my memories ❤

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

That’s very beautiful what you said. I understand completely we are learning how to navigate our pain but it’s a reminder of how much we love them still. It’s okay to feel this way we just don’t have to let it consume us

70 y.o. and not a creepy old man, just KZread algorithm. I get the deeper meaning in channels like yours. I bet you made your dad happy and he wishes the same for you. Your ex has his own problems and you can’t save him. Maybe right now you just bring smiles to the universe and the little surprises are conversations with your loved ones. Or not, just a thought.

As someone who is stuck in survival mode and always waiting for the next bad thing to happen I appreciate the realness of your videos.❤ Those skateboards are beautiful pieces of art! Love your videos Lidia and thank you for sharing your journey!🫂

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

🫂 thank YOU for always being respectful and supportive ❤

I’m 33 years old too, whenever I get anxiety I close my eyes and take the deepest breath I can. You seem chill and your van is the coolest van I ever have seen 💯

@LidiaRico

13 күн бұрын

Thank you os much fro sharing, deep breathing helps me too!

@trashmail8

9 күн бұрын

@@LidiaRico I've experienced hundreds of panic attacks and suffered from them for 10-15 years. Then I stumbled upon the Buteyko breathing method and finally I learned that I was chronically over breathing and often breathing through my mouth. Started retraining my breathing patterns, slowly moved to nose breathing 24/7 and my panic attacks are gone. I can still get anxious or very anxious given circumstances, but nose breathing is your "always with you safety net" that prevents you from spiralling into more and more panic and loss of control. You can go a few weeks without food. A few days without water. A few minutes without breathing. Still when we work on our health, we tend to spend so little time on the thing that we need the most and most frequently for our physical and mental well-being: proper breathing.

Nobody has a right to say to you you need to get over it now, you will get over it but you will never truly get over it but you will move on in a more positive direction when you feel like you can nobody's judging you they have no right to do that losing someone you loved both your father and your ex-husband is devastating I actually remember your videos when you first were getting a divorce and you were devastated by it it came out of no where and unfortunately now you know why he probably did this because he knew he was going to kill himself and he loved you enough to try and detach himself just do you keep putting out your videos if that's the form of taking care of yourself monetary wise an express yourself when you need to and we are all here to support you when you do God bless stay strong

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

Thank you for being so understanding ❤ it’s important for me to share my progress with you guys. I know it’s helping others too ❤

@jerrygarcia4390

4 күн бұрын

Wow 🤯 ❤

Your openness is admirable and I really believe this van life and your channel is life support for you. You are truly a survivor a wonderful example!!

Thank you! I'm not in your shoes, but I'm passing through many losses and changes in my life in the past two years as well and I really got inspired for your strenght to say what you said. It is not easy to respect our time to heal when everybody is saying for us to move on. Just do what your heart says so. You are brave.

3:07 omg what a cutie!!! 😻💕 Glad you're healing little by little. Takes a long time. Been years for me after similar situation I found myself in. I had to take medication to snap out of deep depression, and after that staying busy and exercise helps me stay away from the darkness

I am impressed about how you manage your life. It takes a great amount of strength to display an upbeat mood here, even when you aren’t truly feeling it.

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

Thank you, I understand my calling now! I am meant to show others that anything is possible

I lost my first son and my father and my love and now I’m living in a tent in the woods because I couldn’t get it together I’ve been frozen in my life and i wish people would smile back at me when I put my best self forward, I’m happy to find your channel and hear your story and see your smile

I respect the fact that you know exactly what you're doing. Hats off. Genius. ❤

You got this. We all experience life differently and that's what makes us unique. As a diehard VW enthusiast I clicked on your videos for the van =)

I really genuinely have a lot of respect for Lidia. She's tough and despite the hard times she's suffering through she seems to have found the bright side of life. We have all been through our trials but it's how we carry on that counts. The future is bright for you Lidia.

It's always so good to see a new Lidia video! ❤I LOVE those little Jump Starters - one of my brothers gave me one a couple of years ago, and I always keep it charged and in my car now; I got one for my kid and my other brother too. Your honesty in showing and telling us all about your journey of the past couple of years helps all of us to remember it is normal to feel lost and in pain. I can identify with you so much because you are always grateful for what you have, but also open about your worries and those days when it's just hard to get out of bed. So many people on social media pretend they and their lives are perfect; and we all know that's not the truth. Thank you so much; sending you good vibes and love always! ❤😘

Thank you for sharing your healing journey. I think you help more people than you may realize. You are truly a beautiful soul.

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

Thank you so much! It’s my goal to hopefully help others while I entertain them as well ❤

Hello Lidia, I appreciate you. I am also divorced and I lost my mother and father, unfortunately they passed away and I perfectly understand your grief and what you may have gone through. I believe that since you are a strong and positive person, you are overcoming everything and you will once again have the partner you deserve, as strong and happy as you, and you will live a full and happy life for all time.

@LidiaRico

10 күн бұрын

My heart is with you, sorry for your losses as well. Thank you for sharing in the comments, it helps me and many others to hear everyones stories

@pedrojuan7407

10 күн бұрын

@@LidiaRico 🥰🥰🥰

Thank you for speaking so openly. It is great that you share your struggle with us and in that way take a little more of that taboo away from these mental challenges. I wish you all the best, you are doing great!

Sweet Lidia it is so important that even though you are going through challenges you have dignity and that beautiful smile. I really pray for people with good quality souls like yours to be protected from darkness and find same quality souls to surround yourself.

@LidiaRico

14 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for your kindness

It’s hard to move on. I totally get it. It took me a while to realize that I can’t be on others’ expected grief timeline.

@LidiaRico

14 күн бұрын

Exactly, people is self centered the majority of the time

Hola Lidia ❤! You're an inspiration for sooo many people. It sounds/looks like you've turned a corner (in a good way) on your journey/fight towards being "happier" again. PLEASE Stay strong, keep skating & know that you are loved. 🤙🏽💕🦸

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

Thank you so much!! ☺️ I’m trying had to stay positive

Lidia, I enjoy your zest for life, the fun you have on your adventures all over the world. And the fact that you have traumas does not make life easier, but it does make it more human. It is a path of life in which I see a lot of recognition. But I always try to focus on the beautiful moments that I encounter every day and notice that I have become much stronger because of them. I am now a father and grandfather to my children and grandchildren, while I thought I would never have children, because of my childhood trauma. Believe in yourself and trust the intuitive power within you, then your life will catch its breath again. Your energy will again be sufficient to process the battle with your past, I believe in that power, because I have experienced it myself. And continue with your fantastic adventures, that way you will make this older man happy again.

I’ve just stumbled upon your channel and have subscribed almost straight away. It’s probably the first van based video I’ve seen in a long time that has some weight to it which gives it meaning. I’m sorry to hear you’ve been through so much in such a short space of time but I think there’s a therapy to be had from making videos and documenting your journey through it. I’ve been in survival mode for about 45 years. It’s just me now I guess but I’m about to start down a similar path to yourself on KZread. Thanks for the inspiration. Oh, and the skateboarding helps keep it fun too so I’m all in. Van

@LidiaRico

14 күн бұрын

Thank you so much fro leaving a nice comment! You are so kind and I appreciate you taking the time to write me a message! Skateboarding is my therapy atm

Im really sorry for your losses. Sending you strength and love. Thank you for your honesty and realness. Life is so hard and I relate to what you said about being stuck in survival mode and always thinking about worst case scenario's. Its stressful

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

Thank you for your support ❤ it’s important to acknowledge our emotions and move forward

I'm sorry for your loss. You look so happy in all the videos I've watched, so I didn't expect such pain behind it. Survival mode sucks. Hope you'll find the things that make you feel safe and happy soon!

You are doing a great job! You are still going through the process of a lot of personal life trauma and its not a weeks or months process. Clearly you are moving in the right direction. Keep up the good work.

Really appreciate your videos. And how honest and vulnerable you are. It's refreshing to see someone be so authentic. I too have experienced a loss like alot of others here in the comments. Lost my mum 7 years ago to cancer. It was really difficult. It does take time to heal. And eventually joy will return more frequently. I think you find acceptance. In the way that part of you will always miss that person. And sometimes feel sad about what happened. But that's ok. You can enjoy life and be happy. But sometimes you'll feel sad about them not being here and that's ok. You can life live. No one is happy all the time. Little things can definitely help. Like finding time for the simple things that cheer you up when you're feeling down. Self care. Connection with people. Stay well. Much love ❤️

Love the classic skateboards 🛹. Hope you have some support or groups you have joined online , trauma and PTSD can be a hell and you can tend to isolate and be in dark loops. Much love and hugs 🫂

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

Thank you and yes I am using my videos as therapy and people in the comments as my support group

@larsstougaard7097

16 күн бұрын

@LidiaRico ok good to hear 💚

You are so beautiful, not only your appearance but also your thoughts and feelings. You have a very deep personality. I'm sorry you experienced the pain of life at an early age. but it taught you about life. It made you realize life earlier. I love your videos and your conversations with deep feelings and thoughts. Life is temporary and I wish you a beautiful life for the rest. Hope to see you if you come to Istanbul, Turkey...🍀

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for listening until the end. Life is not perfect but we need to be strong and chose to smile

Lidia, take your time on your grieving process everybody is different on how long it takes. Do the little things that makes you happy and enjoy life. Over time things will jet better and better. I feel your pain and my heart go's out to you. Be safe and be well. Awesome videos. Love u. ❤❤

I appreciate the honesty in your videos so much. I also have lost so many people close to me in a short period of time. I'm trying not to judge myself too harshly for being in freeze mode. You give me inspiration that things can get better and we can start to move forward again. Just the energy it requires to film yourself and put out videos I know is enormous and I admire you for your consistency. Looking forward to seeing how things progress with you. ❤️

You are doing amazing. Deep breath, one foot in front of the other, your making it look easy

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

That’s exactly right ❤

I admire you Lidia, you're a real badass, I can't do most of the things you do alone, so hold on and keep doing your thing. Cheers from Venezuela. 🤓👏🏻❤✌🏻

Thank you for sharing your pain. You’re an amazing person

I think that what you are doing is authentic and brave. That you are working through your pain. It’s okay to be sad eventually it won’t hurt like it does now. The time it takes is unknown you will wake up one day and realize you aren’t sad anymore.

Take one day at a time and you do what's best for you. Everyone heals differently and it's not easy to get back up but eating healthy and taking your walks and skateboarding is a great way to start. I lost one of my best friends and went thru a divorce of 21yrs and my father passing all in one year and it was the hardest year of my life. It took me a long time to heal and focus on myself. I too took 1 day at a time❤ I know its not easy but you have so many followers who love to watch your videos and see all the beautiful places you go and the sunsets and you meeting new friends. I feel you encourage so many people Including me😊

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing ❤I’m sure it has a hard time to navigate through life back then… I agree with you eating right and staying active helps a lot

@kimmonette1004

16 күн бұрын

@@LidiaRico ❤️

Your editing is outstanding I can’t stop watching your videos

@LidiaRico

10 күн бұрын

Thank yo so much! I am so happy that you like my work! It's part of my therapy

I dislike when people say time heals all. I think healing comes with exceptance. The love of your life made a choose because of life's pressure. YOU have the where withal to struggle through it to the others side. As far as Dad,,, I'm am truly sorry for yours and his loss so early in life. He misses you too.

@LidiaRico

14 күн бұрын

Thank you so much 🙏

What a beautiful person you are, Lidia! Thanks for the reminder to stay grateful 😊

@LidiaRico

14 күн бұрын

As beautiful as you are!

Hey Lidia I just started following you because I’m going thru a lot of similar issues with life such as divorce and death. Your story is helping me cope and seeing the real struggles of a woman helps me realize I’m not alone. I do all the same activities as you and sometimes it helps and sometimes it doesn’t. I wonder if I will ever get past this trauma. I look happy but I’m sad inside. I see your truths and I support you Lidia. Don’t ever give up because I think you’re doing such a beautiful job with your trauma by sharing your story with the world. Thank you Lidia your a amazing woman❤

You get better at your own pace, every person is different and responds different to grief, sorrow, shock etc. I believe that simply the fact that you are able to talk about the events that shocked you indicates that your healing process has begun. Maybe making videos, travelling and talking about it is what you need right now. You are awesome! Greetings from Greece!

I saw before another person on a thumbnail who wants to get views, but after reading the title and listen to you, i think i have understand your message. Thank you !

I completely understand, loss is such a heavy burden on the soul. I’ve gone through two episodes and I’m entering another one now. It is SO hard so days. I’m loving your channel just for the realness of it. Thank you so very much for sharing your story with all of us. 💕🥰💕

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

You got this! Thank you for sharing 🙏🏽❤️ I hope to help people hopefully when I share my story that’s my goal here

@mitzieat307junkjournals4

16 күн бұрын

@@LidiaRico you’re so very brave and amazing! You’re doing great. Karma will definitely bless you.

tía eres mucho!! estás haciendo un trabajazo manteniendo esa actitud positiva mientras sientes que tu mundo se derrumba y vas a salir muy reforzada de esto! Ánimo, fuerza y sigue así :)

I know that knowing that others too are battling tough obstacles help those of us who feel as though it is only us. Your videos, I've only see this one and the one before it, helps to show that I am not the only one. Keep pushing on .

@LidiaRico

13 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing this with me because it's the only reason why I am making these kind of videos! I am happy to hear that it helps others. Stay strong

Hi Lydia, I was so sorry when you revealed what had happened in your life before you left here. I am so glad that you have returned. You have been through such a terrible ordeal and even though you still are going through it, your resilience shines bright. You are strong and I know you will find peace. Keep pushing forward...

Thanks! Lidia, I want to just send you some peace and joy, and praying for you too.

@LidiaRico

14 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for being the kind of person making a difference ❤ YOU ARE AMAZING THANKS FOR YOUR PRAYERS

Well first off I've been watching your videos for a while now and you are awesome! Always remember that! I'm so sorry for what you have gone through! I lost my Dad also he was 56..It was the hardest thing I had ever dealt with! People that say just move on perhaps weren't as close to their Dad I don't know, but I was very close to mine! I miss him still and it's been years.. God bless you and all your endeavors! I will keep you in my prayers!❤️

I love how honest real and courageous you are such a rare quality but one you exhibit consistently such an amazing lady inside and out hugs and love your way❤

Considering what you've been through, I think that you're a very strong individual. You didn't cave. You came back to your channel, which is a very good sign. You will have a lot of support from your fans. You gave yourself a year to go through the grieving process. I know it won't go away, but it gets better over time. Love and hugs.❤

Thanks! Lidia-you’re a shining light!

I just found your channel today and I’m soul grateful I’ve been at my lowest these past few months and it’s amazing to see someone around my age truly doing their best to stay positive especially when life has thrown SO much at you. I’ve binge-watched your videos all day and I hit subscribe after the first 5 minutes. Thank you for being ✨💐✨ sending you soul much love ~ I know the next time you upload you’ll be at 100k you have GREAT content and footage and editing skills! 🔥

I See the message in your video's and i appreciate you sharing them with all of us. i lost a friend that was pretty much my brother. all my old hobbies don't seem to bring me much happiness and enjoyment anymore. i've always had friends, but now a days i'm a loner mostly. most of my friends are back home where i grew up. but the ones i made where i live now, i have started going out with them more. to the lake to go swimming, kayaking, fishing. and just randomly stopping by their house has put me into a better mental state. just bought a mini moto motorcycle and seeing life in a new way is helping a lot. i will never forget my brother, but i know the time i have left here he wouldn't want me to struggle. so i'm gonna live my life for him. I thank you for your videos and I hope you can find your peace and total happiness.

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

I think you found your a new hobby wish that motorcycle ❤ thank you so much for sharing

I remember you and your Ex always building amazing vehicles and showing your life and I don't watch much social media daily but He always seemed so cool and had it together and was truly talented. I'm sorry you have dealt with so much and I'm truly sorry to hear about him 🙏 You are a strong woman and you're likely a role model for so many young women. Take Care and Stay Safe.

I get it. I went thru something similar, losing both of my parents within a 3 yr period 2018, 2021. Then I lost 2 close friends. It was rough. You are doing you. You look good. just stay your course. It takes time. Have fun. Ignore the critics. Sending hugs.

Just keep moving , always take care , keep healthy, life goes on.

You are a brave woman...I admire you and the road you travel...I pray for you - as I too experienced such dark lows ...face the direction you need to travel - travel one step at a time ...I will support you ❤🙂

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

Thank you for the warmth ❤love you!

You are an inspiration, your doing the right thing by taking your time and figuring all of it out , I wish you the best in life n in travels

Keep feeling your emotions and letting them all out, through crying, laughing, screaming out loud throughout the ocean waves while standing at the water-edge...yes, try to keep being positive also, by skateboarding, listening to happy music, and talking to a good friend, along with your dear mom and brother... just keep busy and know that your love-ones are watching from above, will always be with you and will be leaving you signs...yes, may they come visit you in heartfelt dreams that bring you much comfort... 😇❤️ Mucho love & blessings ❤️

I can’t imagine what it’s been like for you, with one tragedy after another. Now with constant van issues, unexpected expenses like your laptop, it must feel like you can’t catch a break. But you are doing a great job and I hope you are receiving more support than negativity. As they say, when the going gets tough, the tough get going and you’ve had to be strong to make it through the last several years. Wish you the best and happy I found your channel!

@LidiaRico

10 күн бұрын

I am happy that you find value in my videos! It helps me a lot reading comments like yours! Thank yo so mcc for taking the time

Lidia thank you for sharing. Sending good healing vibes. Keep going girl✌️❤

Praying for your continuous healing...Love and Light XOXO

Your story resonates with me. I too am going through a near to identical problems. Your videos are amazing and you're such a genuine person from what I've seen. Keep it up because you're motivating me to keep getting at it! I wish you all the best and you have a friend if you are ever in Australia. Vamos!!

Aww Lidia … sending so much love ❤️ it IS hard to have 1 loss nonetheless 3 and that doesn’t include all the difficulties emotionally, mentally and keeping up with societal life demands and pressures. I pray you can breathe deep, let go and experience more ease. Go with the flow. Take things day by day. You will get better but will be a whole different person because of everything. It’s ok that things are different it just takes time to know what that is. Love and hugs sister ❤

If I didn't already love you...I love you so much now. You have a beautiful heart and soul. I agree 💯 with the message you're trying to send. You are a deep thinker and an old soul. Others aren't always on that same level. Good on you for trying to drive home the point with your bluntness...sometimes you just have to spell it out so others understand. I am sorry for the pain you've had to endure. You are not alone. We are all in this human life together, enduring hardships and struggling with human emotions. Thank you for sharing the real journey with others. It helps us all to keep our head up and not feel alone. Love you, sister. Keep on keeping it real like you do. ❤️🤗🇺🇸

Hi Lidia, I found your channel a while back when you started again. I don’t know your other channel or ex relationship details, but I know your story. I lost my dad to suicide and left my boyfriend I was going to marry within four months of each other. I was devastated and it was difficult to get out of bed. I know what you are going through. It does get better and you have to try to meditate and get out of your head replaying the “stories.” You will overcome this battle, and I’m sorry it happened in the middle of a pandemic. Mine was in my 30’s and older now. You will be fine, I am just glad you are taking time in nature! Being by the beach is healthy for you! Negative ions are taking your pain away. Sending you healing vibes!! 🥰🥰🥰 Block all negativity from your life and even if they are bots 🤖 or actual people….STAY in your ❤️

@LidiaRico

13 күн бұрын

Thank you so mucho fro sharing your story with me, I am sure you understand me; I am trying hard to cut out every negative person and thing around me :) hopefully soon things look brighter

I can totally relate! Especially with feeling frozen you described it perfectly to what I was feeling. I had to move from the east coast to the Midwest cause of a family tragedy. It was extremely traumatic and the move itself was another battle. I’m still tryna process everything despite it being already two years since then. I’m in my mid twenties and feel way behind compared to my peers. I’m tryna to do better but it’s so hard to live everyday when the littlest things are such a task. You aren’t alone and I’m hoping we can heal / sending much love ❤️

I cannot imagine what you’re going through. I can only wish you the best and offer encouragement. I hope you have some trusted people to lean on. Hang in there. Scream and cry if you need to.

I resonate with your reality. I understand 'frozen' & 'numb', grief, fear. I continue to search for unconditional support. I can't stop. I push forward when can. I seek courage, every day.

Your a strong woman ,time will heal

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

Thank you ❤ we’ll see

Lidia, that was very honest spech. I did not know about your chanel, so now I will be here little longer and I will start subscribe! Best for you! Take care!

Hi Lidia ❤ That frozen state is such a hard place to be in. I’ve been crawling out of it day by day. Some are harder than others, I’ve been trying to let the hard days just pass and not to do much damage to myself. I do really know what you are going through. Big hugs, lots of love and always holding a good thought for you ❤

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

Sending you much strength ❤ I believe in you!

May we pray for sweet Lidia. May we surround her with protection. We rebuke all that is not of the highest good. We surround Lidia with love. Thank you.

I’m so sorry to hear about your tragic losses, Lidia. It’s hard to stay upright and keep moving forward when someone you love, who gave your life balance and kept you from falling, suddenly dies. I’m no skateboarder, but I’m guessing even the best skateboarders fell down many times before they found their balance and began to move forward with any confidence. Maybe grief is a bit the same. You just keep getting back up off the floor every day, and trying to get your balance back and one day (hopefully soon) you will have enough forward momentum to stay upright again!

@LidiaRico

13 күн бұрын

Thank you for this beautiful analogy, yes skateboarding is a lot like the grief process, sometimes we fall but we have to stand up every time and try again!

stay safe young lady....sometimes this world is not so nice...but keep smiling and enjoy life. life is short so keep up the great work!

If there is a person giving you bad voodoo. I'm sending you good prayers. I know money doesn't grow on trees when something breaks. It's time for an upgrade. You are a very good skater. I can't wait to see your next video.

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

I rebuke the evil sent my way in the name of Jesus! 🎉

Bless you 💖 I wish you so much enrichment and expansion as you come out of such a dark time

Wow, I can relate to the shower commitment thing. It's really a big deal. It's amazing how a shower can pull you up out of whatever funk you're going through, it's like a fresh start with a clean slate for me. I appreciate your honesty and just being real, always. You have a very beautiful soul and I'm glad you let it shine 😊✌

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

It really is! I wish I had a shower 🚿 😂

Lydia, I too have been through a divorce, and lost almost everything. It is so so scary; your mind does not work the same and you scare your own self. Especially when you are alone with anxiety, freeze -fear . I once thought that I was so lost in the dark, that my brain could not hold a job, because of the fear. I even once tried to commit myself in a mental ward, when my anxiety felt crazy and was turned away because of my lack of money. You are the first person I feel I can relate to, so thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your soul. It is really hard to explain what this feels like and not wanting to date. OMG my heart is pounding as I type this. I wish you to transform into the most benevolent version of Lydia with all your understanding. p e a c e.

This is just the second video that I watch from you and already I have good feeling about your content. Very real and interesting. Thanks for sharing.

@LidiaRico

7 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for watching! Make sure to subscribe so you won't miss any of my videos! God bless!

You're the greatest. Always enjoy your content. I've been through lots of ups and downs, loss and heartache but sublime highs as well as counterpoints. Love your smile and your verve. La Vida dulce luv.😊

@beowulfvladmax7710

16 күн бұрын

Get a light adjustable dumbbell set you can store in your rig. Lots of video's on KZread on workout variations. Get into it. Use it as an adjunct to your skating. Eat well. Lean and healthy. 😊

Lidia i love you girl keep doing whats best for you and know that you are in my prayers and thoughts. God Bless you Always. Know He is with you.

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

God bless you and your family ❤

What happened to you is insane. I'm probably not able to understand how you may possibly feel. You deserve all the love. And I am really looking forward to follow your journey.

Good job Lidia 👏 . You are on your perfect path staying positive in the hardest time is not easy. But the wisdom that you receive in the end is absolutely priceless ❤️. Just remember to give yourself credit stay humble and pat yourself on the back sometimes literally. Try to remember where you where a year ago and then now can help . KEEP YOUR HEAD UP YOUR AMAZING...

@LidiaRico

13 күн бұрын

I am patting my self in the back right now hehe 😜 thank you so much for being kind and showing that there is still good people out there!

@jesseburgoyne6783

12 күн бұрын

@@LidiaRico good I hope so . Like wise it is nice to know there is good people. Your always you whitch is priceless these days . Your positivity and humbleness and kindness help me and I'm shur others would say the same . THANK YOU LIDIA...😁

….sending you hugs and support as this journey continues❤

Hello, hang in there everything's going to get better.

@LidiaRico

16 күн бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏽 I hope so! I’m trying to be positive

You are doing a great job on your videos. I’m sorry for those crucial losses in your life. Your natural and organic and authentic nature is going to win you many likes and new subscribers so that KZread will finally monetize you. I really want you to be able to support yourself.