Hey Toraisa! I'm Chris Weaver and I just found out yesterday that you are my first cousin born just 2 months before me. I have been doing all in my power to reach out to you. I would love to finally get to meet you and your family.

@tiffanyb.9551

Жыл бұрын

Have you met yet?

@ebenezerkittoe9115

Жыл бұрын

Wow, hope you have met her.

@FaeForest999

5 ай бұрын

Have y’all met yet?

@gg5508

Ай бұрын

She totally ignored you!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 that’s messed up!!!

@ResinEssenceByCheri

Ай бұрын

If this connection was on an ancestry site then she would have gotten the same match. If she didn’t, then this message is BS.

I found your story exactly when I needed to hear what you had to say. Thank you for sharing. Im 74 and my 1/2 brother is soon to be 80, we just found each other after all this time through Ancestry DNA. I had found my birth mom and her side of the family. I visited, and while I never had a deep connection, at least I knew. But she told me she had also given up my older brother, as she had me and asked me to continue the search. I did but I didn't know his correct legal name after he was adopted. We are going to meet this next week near San Diego, CA.

@ToraisaJ

Жыл бұрын

What a blessing!!! I am praying that all goes well and your questions you have are answered. Stay encouraged ❤️

People keep telling me to let the past be the past, but just like you, I want to know. I grew up in fostee care. I identified my biological mother through AncestryDNA in 2017. I still have no clue who my dad is/was, but I've been embraced by all of my dna matchs on his side. Knowing the truth is a game changer in so many way. Im glad you got to know, meet and experience your biological family. You are loved and blessed. Tragedies make us stronger individuals. God bless !!! ❤

@adrienjohnson591

3 ай бұрын

It is your right! You have the right to know.

Omg sis you bought me to tears watching this. You are so courageous and strong and even though your not sure who your birth parents are your still so sweet and pure. That’s just crazy that your uncle is actually blood related! It’s amazing that you got in contact with the person that wrote the article and the woman that found you 😢 whew ! That’s awesome that your in contact with your blood related cousins. Families can be sooo huge so it may take sometime to find out who your birth parents are but I think with you putting this video out will help with that process as well. You should definitely do a part 2. I pray that God keeps you strong and know that you are loved no less, everything happens for a reason. You created your own beautiful family and you are blessed friend 💜 I’ve never did ancestry DNA but I’m gonna look into it. Thanks for sharing hun

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭😭 I warned everyone to have tissue lol I was shaking when I spoke to her. Everything happens for a reason. God definitely created me for a reason and I hope anyone dealing with a similar situation knows that. I could of gave up on life but I didn’t. I love my little family so much and I thank God everyday. He knew I needed them. Thank you for watching and always being supportive 💕

I just did 23andme. Nobody on my mystery father's side will talk to me. Nobody trusts me. It's disappointing. I'm taking a step back. At least I know my ethnicity now. It explains a lot. I'm 57 and will probably never know more because of suspicious cultures.

@ToraisaJ

6 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching my video. I pray you get more answers. Sending you love ❤️

I remember going through the process with my ex helping him find his parents and It helped change him in so many ways. It's a blessing to see you all are related in some way. This is only the beginning, there will be a part 2, and you will find all you seek! Thank you for sharing this part of yourself with us.

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

I just might do a part two because I’m doing more research and putting the pieces together. The truth always comes to the light.

@rosahacketts1668

2 жыл бұрын

@@ToraisaJ What is hidden in the dark is revealed in the light. DNA has been your light.

@ToraisaJ

2 жыл бұрын

@@rosahacketts1668 So true! Stay tuned for part 2. Thank you for watching!

You look sooo beautiful friend!! You had me in tears..😢 I know this is just the beginning. I’m praying for you! Love you!!😘❣️

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you love! ❤️❤️ Love you too 😘

Such an heartfelt, selfless video and the way you summed up at the end - expressing your feelings and saying you hope your experiences help others - just beautiful. Also that you are acknowledging & counting your blessings is admirable. Good luck on your journey and God bless 🍀🙏

Wow! I didn’t want to watch when it 1st came out because I am so emotional. I finally watched and I have to say this story is fascinating! It’s like a onion. I trust you will get the answers you seek and deserve! Thank you for sharing your story, I know it is helpful for others.

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Well my story will make you shed a tear. My goal was to help others and let them know that you have to always try to find the good in tough situations. Many think my life is perfect but it isn’t, I’m just cherish the family I do have. Thank you for watching!

You are so brave for going through with this! Not only that, you’re brave for sharing this with us. ❤️❤️❤️

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you love and thank you for watching ❤️

So happy you shared your journey with us. You know I love your transparency.. I was a big bag of tears watching this sis.. You are so courageous and I pray god gives you the answers you are searching for..

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you friend!

WOWW, I'm watching this like a movie. I want to know more about my ancestors as well. I am so happy that you were brave enough to do this. You don't have the full story just yet but the pieces of the puzzle are connecting. I hope there is a Part 2! Wishing you lots of love & light on your continued journey ❤️

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

My life is a movie 😩 Thank you for watching and your sweet words ❤️ I will be doing a part 2 since I have found out more info.

The biggest thing I've admired about you since we met is your heart. This is beautiful. Im so proud of the strength you have in not only starting this journey but sharing it with us. Much love to you friend ❤

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Aww 😊 Thanks Cherelle. I’m a walking testimony. Thank you for watching!

You need a special hug ❤💯 you look stunning on that orange dress, everything is gonna be alright

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. I need lots of hugs 😩

Hey my love! Omg I love you so much friend❣️ I cannot possibly imagine all of the emotions you went through when you received your results. You are a strong, beautiful, black woman and I adore you. You are amazing and I admire your resilience 💞🥰

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Kaleia! It was hard but I hope my story encourages someone to go after answers even if it hurts. Love you too!

I'm so proud of you! You are so brave and strong. Good luck and I'm very excited for you. Ashley.F

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Ashley ❤️

Nice my dude, I wish you nothing but love ❤

Virtual hugs to you friend.. I know this is something you’ve been in search of since we’ve met years ago.. You are truly blessed and favored.. One day you will get the information you want about your birth mom and dad.. I’m happy and proud you took this route and got some information

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks friend! You know I really wanted to know. This is a start. Thanks for always being encouraging!

You look so beautiful!!! I love the fall scene outside. You had my hubby and I about to cry..love you baby cakes 😥💞❤️

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🥰 Fall is my favorite.

I feel like hugging you honey. Honey you are stronggg I would have broken down. 😩😩😩 Remember You are very blessed hun remember that

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Natural Bebe Very blessed 😊

God bless you💗 Your story is overwhelming but an inspiration at the same time. I can't imagine the strength it must have took to even film this video😢 you look beautiful and you're glowing❤️

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching! I’m blessed.. despite of .. and always tell myself that. Thank you! I feel pretty 🥰

God bless you and you’re beautiful inside and out 🙏🏾

@ToraisaJ

2 ай бұрын

Thank you!

I liked your presentation. You are a mature person ready for the answers be what they may. I can respect that and feel sad about your beginning life experience. The thing is you are a happy, loving person. Give it time. By getting your answers you come full circle. I did ancestry but for different reasons. I am from Puerto Rico and found I’m very mixed ethnically. All the best to you and yours.

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for watching! Being sad all the time won’t help the situation. I have cried enough and have accepted everything I’m finding out. At the end of the day I’m still blessed. I’m glad you were able to do Ancestry DNA. Thank you did the sweet worlds ❤️

You are so brave to start and see this process through. I can't imagine all the feelings that come along with this...but I am glad you're able to face this head on and show the way to others. You are blessed, I hope you find all you're seeking. My mom didn't know her dad that raised her wasn't her dad until her biological dad had passed. She found out in time to make it to his funeral and meet her family, but not her father. His children confirmed that he wanted her in his life desperately, but her mom cut contact. She says meeting her siblings helped her understand herself so much better. My mom rarely cries but that's one of the few times I've seen her cry was to talk about that ordeal. I pray for your strength and peace as you continue this path💗💗

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for those words Tiff ❤️ Wow! You’re mom is strong. I’m stronger then I know experiencing this.

That’s awesome they were willing to help. So touching your such a strong person and it’s great to see that you choose to move forward with life in a positive light love it

You are so lovely! Proud of you, girl!

Oh wow! 🙏🏾 going up! Thank you for taking us with you on this journey.

God definitely knew your strength even from before your birth ❤️ you shine as His precious daughter first and foremost. I pray if He wills that He will allow you to know the truth about your birth parents. Nothing is too hard for God! God bless you 🌷

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Joy Ful Thank you for your kind words 💕

Proud of you. Seek the truth.

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you cuz for watching and always being supportive ❤️

Dont worry girl god dont abandon you he loves you and will see you true i get tearry eyes when i losten to you story no one should go true what u been true but god have you here on this earth for a purpose bless.

@ToraisaJ

2 ай бұрын

Thank you!

This is very touching. Stay blessed.

Thank you so much for sharing your truly touching story - thank you and thank you again! I admire your upbeat and informative video. May you be blessed.

@ToraisaJ

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching and your kind words.

I love fall as well. My absolute fav. You look beautiful!

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Don’t gas me up! Thanks boo!

you are beautiful lady, glad you found some peace and being positive.

I’ve heard of people not wanting to search for their birth parents due to possibly hurting their adoptive parents feelings. Which makes a lot of sense. But, I understand wanting to know where you came from. You want to see how they look and who you resemble your birth mom or dad. So totally makes sense. That’s something how your adoptive moms aunt is really your blood family member!

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

I had to do it for me. Thank you for watching!

I hope your doing well hun..I remember when you first posted about it on Instagram...sending you a big warm hug 🤗

Thank you everyone for your comments. Keep up with my journey. I ended up finding my biological mother. kzread.info/dash/bejne/iY6CrbVuppy9dLg.htmlsi=My7RVDO4SrMxKxka

Hey sis! I finally made it. I've been wanting to watch this ever since I seen your notification.

@Briisvanity

3 жыл бұрын

Sis you are so brave! This whole video had me in awe sis I was crying with you. You are extremely blessed and you have such an amazing soul. I would've never known you went through a tragedy like that because you have such a kind heart and you're always smiling. I'm still sitting here in awe like I wish I could hug you right now. Is it possible that there may be a footage of your birth mom putting you in the van? I also would've loved to hear what Ms.Robinson had to say about finding you.

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

I’m a very a strong person and always try to be positive. Thank you doll! I cried again watching it. I try to always remember that I’m blessed and the devil won’t still my joy. I’m receiving virtual hugs from you 🤗 Unfortunately, they didn’t have footage. I wish they did. Mrs. Robinson went over the moments when she found me. It was a lot to take in but glad we spoke. Thank you for always supporting my channel ❤️

You click on the closest relative and click the shared relatives column and take note of who the shared relatives are . Go to the next closest relative and to the same . By figuring out how the closest relatives of shared relative groups are connected , That’s how you find who your parents are . Your brothers and sisters will likely be half siblings , they’ll come up as first or second cousins . Pay attention to the amount of cmg. You share with the relative . Also note the shared relatives to determine maternal and paternal . Work both sides , you’ll figure it out in no time

Amazing story

You’re so strong! 💗

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

I have to be 🙃 Thank you for watching!

Bless you Dear. Keep your chin up..!

@ToraisaJ

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊

Awww you got me in tears with this one. Sorry i am late here but i had to wait until i could fully watch. Your story touched me bc i have a friend that just went through something similar. She found her mom but the dad is prob not going to be found at this point bc of her story. Im so thankful that you have your parents and im so sorry that happened to you. I can't even imagine what you must feel inside but you are a strong one even for speaking on this on this platform. So proud of you and i know you have prob helped some that wouldn't speak on this. I was wondering if you was related to your adoptive fam in some way bc that is something the friend of mine found out as well. Oh great the reporter tried to help you. So amazing! Your smile when you spoke to the person that found you in the van. Wow. Did your uncle have any explanation for you? Im sorry if i missed you saying. This one got me over here in tears. Thank you for sharing. You are so strong and i wish you the best finding them or getting more answers!

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for watching! It was hard to discuss on camera but I know I needed to do this. I could barely breathe before I talked to her lol My Uncle said he didn’t know anything 😢 but I believe family knows more then what they are telling me. I will be doing a part 2 because I have more things I’m doing behind the scenes. I’m hoping that people know that you can go through things in life and still make the best out of life.

And I think it’s really awesome that one of your uncles turned to be blood related to you. Do you think he could possibly know your parents personally? That’s amazing. And yes you really are blessed and you’re such a great mother with your children ❤️❤️❤️

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Someone knows something. I’m just not sure who does. Thank you! I love my children so much!

Thank you for sharing your process with us! I have always been curious about how ancestry.com works

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Hi love! Thank you for stopping by! You should do it, if you have questions about family.

You're in my head! I was saying that I was going to do one of my vlogs on my ancestry results!

@ButterflyGoddessMoe

3 жыл бұрын

Yea.... it's not about them... it's about you and having a deeper understanding of self. I'm sure they'd understand

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

I had to do this for me and glad I did. Thank you so much for stopping by 😊

94 precent African, nice.

I'm sorry for so many comments. Just really intrigued. I guess I'd like to know how close was your so called uncle showing up on ancestry... that is key. If he's showing up as a cousin or uncle or brother, your mom or dad is near.

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

I’m glad you were into the video. He was 3rd 4rd cousin.

@SimplyShakendra

3 жыл бұрын

@@ToraisaJ Ahhhhh 🤔

@gailthompson2271

Жыл бұрын

A third cousin means that the two of you shared a second great grandparent.

Wow!!! One of your uncles from your adopted parents is actually blood? Okay so the mom is really close 😢

@Furienna

8 ай бұрын

Or it could the dad, who is related to her adoptive mother.

Wow bless your heart none deserve this

@ToraisaJ

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching!

My cousin did ancestry and she found some really crazy things. She knew she was lied to immediately after the results

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

I know it’s more to the story that I’m not being told. Maybe I will do a part 2 because I still doing more research.

@SimplyShakendra

3 жыл бұрын

@@ToraisaJ I will def stay tuned! ❤

Girl... I'm slightly over 9 minutes in and about to cry... first off you're glowing in your yellow! Secondly, the news story!

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

I cried watching it myself 😭 Thanks hun! This baby is having me looking good lol

💕💕💕

I got 70% sub saharan african

This just made me so sad to see you go threw this.

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

I was picked for a reason but thankfully I have accepted everything.

#IAmSoSorryForWhatHappebedToYou #YouDidNotDeserveToBeAbandoned #IHopeYouAreDoingWell

@ToraisaJ

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊 I am doing well!

You were such a cute baby ❤

You are beautiful and strong 😍

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! 😊

Wow 61like👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️

You knew your ethnicity from the beginning!! African American is an ethnicity and cultural group.

Sounds like hwr adopted moms brother is her dad. Seems like she does really want to know?

I found my ex husbands parents , they’re still alive and don’t want anything to do with anybody , which is fine by us . However , there’s a history as long as humankind that’s the line in which you’re evolution evolved in . Those people that for what ever reason didn’t to their job as parents they don’t get to erase that history or decide for anybody else that history ! It’s yours ! Yes I believe it and it means they wanted you close .

Hey ! My name is Dawn. Tracia But ists pronounced the same as yours ! Not traysha.

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Seems like now you k ow you are related, you should know who can help you fill in the gaps. Your adopted Uncle is relate to you? How close?

@ToraisaJ

Жыл бұрын

Hello Patricia, thank you for watching. I put the pieces together and found my biological family. I did a video discussing how I found my birth family. Be blessed ❤️

@patriciakeats1621

Жыл бұрын

@@ToraisaJ Yes, thanks. I saw where you met your brother. How lovely, and a few pics where you met your Mom. I hope it is going well. Xo.

@patriciakeats1621

Жыл бұрын

Maybe, I missed something in between. I will look again. 🙂

So you’re related to the woman who found you and the one who adopted you. Whew

@ToraisaJ

2 ай бұрын

Yes I am.

I did my DNA it did not yield any results

@johndean5036

2 жыл бұрын

No family matches????

Did someone in your family come clean and tell you the truth yet? They know what happened

@ToraisaJ

3 жыл бұрын

I wish 😭