I’ve RESIGNED from my job of nearly 20 years! Hardest decision ever!
After being a law enforcement officer for most of my adult life, I have chosen to resign and begin a new chapter. In today's video, I will share just a small bit of information that went into my decision making process. I thank you for watching and I hope everyone is doing well. #lifechanges #lawenforcement #harddecisions
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After battling Psoriasis for years, I discovered the power of quality food and its positive impact on my skin condition. This sparked my desire to raise my own quality food. So come along with our Family as we transition from urban living to small self sustaining family farm. Learn from both our successes and failures in hopes it may inspire others to try new things. We entered into this journey with no prior experience and hope to provide many laughs and learning experiences. We learned most of how to do what were doing from watching others and hope to be able to provide a similar learning opportunity to anyone else who may benefit from this. Thank you for coming along with us on this journey and we hope it is enjoyable for you and your family.
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"If you want to know who's in power in your country think about who you cannot criticize." -Amala Ekpunobi. Thank you for service in law enforcement and thank you for sharing your homesteading path ( also community service ). It is a positive contribution that doesn't require a bulletproof vest.
I agree 100%. I left after 29 years for about the same issues. When you can trust the drug addicts and dealers more than your own administration, time to get out. I just felt bad about leaving my fellow offices and the people of the community I served. Good luck to you with your new job.
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately there’s truth to that. It seems more and more if it’s not on camera then your word means nothing. I’ve had people respond to aid other officers and forget to turn their cameras on and then I’m supposed to counsel them. I get frustrated because when you’re rushing to aid an officer in need, body camera doesn’t always pop in as priority one. It’s just weird times and a time when my mindset isn’t lining up as much any longer
@stephenstorm9477
Жыл бұрын
@@RockyCreekHomestead I hope things start to swing back to the way it was when I started.
@gregsheriff5895
Жыл бұрын
Just found your page this morning when I was searching how to raise pigs. I feel this was meant to happen. Praying for you brother
Thanks for your service I just found your channel today an officer in my city was shot and killed when serving a search warrant on someone's house very sad its a dangerous job
@RockyCreekHomestead
6 ай бұрын
Oh man, so sorry to hear about the loss of a fellow officer. The job is becoming increasingly hard. We thank you for your support
My husband left the FD in Cary NC after 17 faithful years for the same reasons you did. He, too, loved what he did, planned to retire from there, etc. But they turned on him in an ugly way all because of politics. My hat is off to you, sir. Thank you for standing on your principles and being a man of integrity. Thank you for your faithful service. 💙
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry he’s had to resign. Hopefully he’s moved on and is doing well outside of the FD. I appreciate your words and overall things are going well with the transition. Thanks
I found your channel today, thank you for sharing your heart and experience. Blessings to you and your family as you begin a new journey! Subscribed 🇺🇸
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Welcome to our channel and thanks for your support. It’s a hard decision but one I think will be the best in the long run.
I salute and commend you brother! RESPECT 👍🏼
@RockyCreekHomestead
6 ай бұрын
Thank you, much appreciated. Thanks for spending time with us recently as well
Thank you for keeping your morals and values a priority. 👍👍 🙏🇺🇸❤️🇺🇸🙏
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
May God bless you and your family in this transition and the journey ahead
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thank you.
Watching your videos I see where you always do everything to the best of your abilities…
@RockyCreekHomestead
3 ай бұрын
I appreciate that! Thanks for watching
Commending your moral compass. I feel confident that you are a grounded enough person that this was the right thing for you and your family. Praying for and wishing you much prosperity on your new journey!
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I believe this will all work out fine in the end
Public school teacher here. We are going through similar circumstances here. Drives me nuts. Something has to change.
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Oh yes, Mrs. Rocky Creek is a school teacher and this past year really tested her. In one of my rolls of supervising school resource officers, I got to see glimpses of the running of the school system and there was much I disagreed with
You are a quality person. You remind me of my husband who passed to Heaven last year. He was 77, former school teacher, pastor, and the greatest person I ever knew. Integrity is very important. Congratulations.
@RockyCreekHomestead
8 ай бұрын
Thank you. I’m sorry about the loss of your husband. I’m sure the upcoming holiday season can be a tough one. He sounds like he was in roles that impacted many people. Wishing you the best and thanks for taking the time spent with us.
Thank you for sharing your story. The negative divisive politic is getting overwhelming for me sometimes. I'm glad to know more people like you.
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
It is a concerning trend. I just hope things turn around for those still serving. Too many uneducated decisions being made. Thanks for your support
It’s ok you are gonna be fine, all the best
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thanks buddy.
The same thing is happening with education and teachers. All the best to you in your next venture.
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Oh I know. Mrs. Rocky Creek is a teacher and we’re seeing it happen here. One of my rolls was school safety and supervision of School resource officers. I bumped heads with the leaders of the school division several times during my final year.
I so admire you Stan; you are a man of principles and have serviced your community well. May God bless you, your family and future endeavors ! ….. Give Mater a scratch for me ❣️
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for those kind words. I feel better about the decision as time passes. There’s other ways to serve and I’ll always continue to support and advocate for this serving in law enforcement
I just did the same. Left a very toxic job that I thought at one time would be where I retired. We decided I would take the summer off to concentrate on spending time with our 5 yr old and building our 2 acre homestead that we just purchased. Praying for you, your family and new opportunities 🙏
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
It’s hard to change but ultimately I hope it’s the right choice. I hope you’ve found peace with your decision and the homestead is progressing well. Thank you
You’re gonna be just fine.. Trust the process, work hard, and most importantly, keep your integrity! The man upstairs will take care of the rest. My family and I are making a huge change in about 6 months. Leaving both of our careers and moving to a different state so that we can raise our kids in a better environment. God will open new doors because he’s got a bigger plan for you! I’m rooting for you my friend!
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the words of encouragement. I’ve had several times where things didn’t seem to make sense or was nerve wrecking, but in the end it all worked out and proved to be the right decision. Hoping and praying this will be the same. Wishing you all the best in your upcoming life changes.
Im glad my agency is dependable to me and trusts its officers to do the job thsy hired to do. That being said my last agency was absolutly terrible in everyway
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
That’s great your at a great department now. My department overall wasn’t terrible, but the poor management of the city is certainly trickling into the agency. It went from being the most sought after one in our area to one of the least now. It’s unfortunate. Thanks for your service, stay safe
@ryancollins3227
Жыл бұрын
@@RockyCreekHomestead thats why iv stayed with sheriffs offices, they tend to be better than PDs just dont pay as much as some PDs but where im at i make out good
Stan I appreciate your honesty. I have followed you since the beginning. 5 years ago I had ambitions to leave my career and become a LEO. My wife and I had some financial goals we wanted to accomplish first. Once we met those a year and a half ago I applied and tested at big city PD here in Indiana. I got accepted into the academy and was excited and proud. One of the best experiences of my life so far. However… It became very clear I was going to have very little time with my family. 6 days on middle or Night Shift and rookies picked up the OT. I have a 3 year old. I don’t want to miss these moments I’ll never get back. We also were told over and over again about the possibility of being sued in civil court and prosecuted criminally even though we followed all of administrative procedures. It came down to politics and the prosecutor not being on the same side as law enforcement. So before going out to field training I made the decision that as much as I want to serve my community it’s not worth the politics and my family well being. I can serve my community other ways through volunteer work.
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience and it’s unfortunate times are how they are that you didn’t feel comfortable proceeding further. I’m having to come to the idea as you have that I can serve in other formats. Wishing you all the best as you navigate your future decisions
You are definitely gonna be missed in many ways brother. It has been a pleasure to serve with you. I do think you made the right decision and I am right behind you...keep in touch.
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thanks buddy. We’ll definitely stay in touch. Appreciate all you’ve done and for your friendship
Thank you for your service to our community. It is not just about the money or physical labor, sometimes it's the EMOTIONAL LABOR of caring for others that can wear us down. Take care of yourself and know you will have our support and prayers moving forward.
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Many thanks for the encouragement and support. Means a lot.
Stan, happy for you and proud of you, my friend. I can only imagine how difficult this decision was for you and, like you said, I'm sure there will be 'difficult' days ahead with the transition but, you know how to make it through difficult times and you've got a great support system with Mrs. RC and the rest of your family. Prayers for courage and wisdom for you as you continue this journey towards the family business. As I have told you before, our daughter, son-in-law, brother, uncle, and cousin are all LEO's and it has drastically changed over the past 3-4 years and it takes a toll on a family to live with all the pressures that come with working in this field. Like you said, you could go on for an hour on the topics surrounding life for LEO's and that would just begin to scratch the surface of the issues involved. You're a good guy and you will always serve your community simply because of who you are. Years ago I heard a saying that says, 'stand for something or you'll fall for anything' and I think we're watching that come true in our country in many ways. The good thing is that you have stood for something and you will see God provide for you in different ways. I'm a firm believer of where God guides, He will always provide. Blessings, my friend.
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I just hope things turn around for law enforcement sooner than later. Our chief was actually a good person, but unfortunately the greater problem is the city leadership. Hopefully that will improve over the years. One positive already is my off time, truly seems like off time. Phone is quiet and I’m not constantly thinking about what issues we’ve dealt with or may come up. There’s pros and cons to all decisions and I hope in the long run this will prove to be the right decision. I thank your family members for their service and appreciate your support
I agree with you 100%! One of my best friends works for a county sheriff and is just biding her time until she can retire with full benefits. Thank you for supporting your community and your dedication to your family. Many blessings to you and your family in your new career!
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
I know many like that. I’m fortunate I had an opportunity available. I would’ve been one of those biding my time as well had I not.
Bravo, good for you for making that choice. I am in the same profession. About 10years in. Not leaving but seriously working on exit strategies if the day comes before I want it to. Be proud of the service you provided and even prouder that you have what it took speak up for your self.
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thanks and thanks for you service. Having options in todays works is always a good thing. Stay safe
☹The truth is the TRUTH😞Continue to stand on your square!
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
It’s unfortunate buddy. I’m going to miss it big time
Thanks for your service to your community Stan. I hope you enjoy the new adventure!
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, hopefully it’ll be a good one
It’s really difficult to leave your dreams, I have been in firefighting and EMS for 33 years, I am about to leave because of health issues.
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to hear your having to leave your profession. I pray your health issues improve. Take care and stay safe
RESPECT !!
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thanks
I agree with your decision & know many friends that were LEOs that left for the same reason. Thank you for your service and God Bless you & your Family
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. It’s been a hard one. Some tears where shed on the last day. Change is scary but we don’t know our potential sometimes without change. Appreciate your support
I had a similar sadness as a 28 year Captain FF Paramedic. Got sick from work, and they never heard of me, ever again. Family while you are there, get ill, zzzzzzz. Very alone now.
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
That’s a shame. Sorry about your experience. I hope your sickness is doing better now.
Peace of mind is priceless ❤
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
It’s been a hard transition but one that I hope will provide much greater peace
29 years here. I’ve never wanted to leave more than right now. It’s been bad for sometime but definitely agree with what you are saying. It’s sad the pro criminal politicians are getting their way, but I agree with your assessment and would love to do the same thing. Happy for you
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your support and understanding. I commend you for your dedication and 29 years of service. Hopefully your retirement will be soon and without issues. I’ll continue to support you and all other law enforcement across the nation. Stay safe and thanks again
Thank you for your service. Law enforcement is something that I always wanted to do. I put myself through the academy 13 years ago and decided to stay at my job when given good chance for movement. After another decade at that job, I decided at the start of this year to finally go do what I always wanted to do. Hired on with an agency here on FL.
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Congratulations on the new adventure. Wishing you all the best. I’ll continue to support and advocate for those serving. Thank you for your service, stay safe
Thanks for your service! What kind of business will you be working for?
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. It’s a monument company such as tombstones, statues, stone engraving etc
Sounds like the family you served a warrant on had like one well connected relative or something. Best of luck, expect you'll be able to accomplish a lot around the homestead with the little bit of free time and lots of peace of mind you're probably gaining.
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Fortunately that wasn’t the case with this one. There’s a lot more details to the story but I wasn’t trying to make a super long video. This one was more where the laws were slated to change in the near future but the current law still allowed for how we executed this issue. It was the fear of liability that resulted in the issue.
I am so sorry the the decision you had to make. More and more good cops are having to do the same. I don’t recognize this country anymore. 😢
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thanks buddy. Definitely different times. Appreciate your support
It boils down to doing what is right.....I am glad you choose to do what is right.... My Dad was a Police officer, my half-brother was Deputy Chief in Michigan, my nephew is a Police Officer in North Carolina....these days we have to be steadfast to Honor God and live a life that shows evidence of righteousness in this changing world....God be with you as you move forward....God is good He will be your strength....In Christ Sherril...
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I thank your family for their service as well. It’s definitely changing times we’re in. Hopefully things will get back to how it once was.
Thank you for your service and dedication to the community. Sadly, it’s happening in the military too. What’s right isn’t right anymore. There’s a saying that goes around, “If you don’t evolve with the times, you’ll go extinct”. The issue is, the evolution is/has taken a wrong turn, depending on who you talk to. I’m just lucky that I retired last year. Again, thank you and enjoy the time with your family. You’ve spent many days and nights away from them. Good luck with future endeavors
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. It’s certainly has changed a lot. Overall we didn’t have it as bad as many do but it’s still cause for concern. I don’t get into much politics or opinions on here but I definitely have great concerns where much of the country is heading.
Awesome decision. Life is so short and dedicating your life to be an office is outstanding. As life goes, everything changes, and you are going with change and not fighting it. Good job😊. I'm still Q-tips #1 fan. Love to you from British Columbia Canada 🇨🇦
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
I’ll be sure to let Q know you’re her top fan 😊. Thanks for the words of encouragement. Your support is much appreciated.
I left law enforcement in 2015 after 10 years of service. I really loved it and wasn’t doing it for the money either but I could see back then things were going downhill and it just didn’t make sense to keep putting my life on the line everyday just to wind up getting sued for doing my job. After being out for 8 years now I can honestly say I haven’t missed it like I thought I would although I do miss the people I worked with. I think a few years down the road you will look back and be glad you did it. Good luck in your new adventures.
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience. Certainly reassuring
It’s sad to see but you need to follow your conscience
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, I think it’s the right decision
@ThatBritishHomestead
Жыл бұрын
@@RockyCreekHomestead good 😊
I love real life events. Love the store. Thank you for making people safe, from Oregon. New to your channel
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Welcome and thanks for spending time with us.
LISTEN... this video is exactly why we have got to Vote in every local election in our area... those local politicians from the Sheriff, the County Supervisors, Town Council Members, School Board Members, and right on down to Dog Catcher has more power over your life than the State and Federal government ever will ... please... vote.
It’s sad to say the politics now do not in any way protect our families or children or anyone else who doesn’t want to see their deranged way
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately I feel like no one is willing to compromise and have logical adult conversations in politics anymore. It’s all about what’s in it for me. It’s concerning
I had to pop on my laptop to respond to this one! I found your channel about 2 years ago, from homesteading, I didn't find out until probably months later into following your channel you were a fellow brother. Finding that out made me instantly feel more connected to you, and I've been following ever since. I gotta say, I did not see this one coming from you, I was truly shocked. I completely resonate with what you've said in this video. You absolutely have many more years of experience and skin in the game than I do, but it doesn't take long for anyone in this field to figure out how much the pendulum is swinging against law enforcement -- in more ways than one. I work for a state agency vs, a municipal town/ city, and I can say it's not much different here. Pay discrepancies, not being backed by your own administration, no support from state officials (politics) for proper pay/ pension. It's truly so disheartening to see how such critical jobs are put on the back burner. People are walking away from what were once highly sought after jobs (like you mentioned when you first got on!) I have hope things will change, it's getting to a breaking point across the country with staffing shortages, security and safety risks, that eventually things are going to have to get fixed to retain officers. I wholeheartedly support your decision to walk away, everyone has to do what is best for them and their families. I wish you so much luck and happiness in your new endeavor. I'll be right here still supporting!
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Appreciate your support through the years. It’s been neat seeing some glimpses of your career. I still have a huge passion for the profession and if I didn’t have this family business opportunity I would’ve continued the grind to retirement. I’m leaving my service years alone so If I needed or wanted to get back into the field I could continue on. I’m very confident I’d get hired on by just about any agency around. It is very disheartening to see how the profession has been tarnished by a couple bad seeds and politicians. I have a tremendous amount of respect for you and all those continuing the course. The one silver lining is there should be promotional opportunities for many younger officers and those who shine will hopefully have opportunities earlier than normal. I know it may have been a shock because I try my best to keep politics and opinions surrounding anything that could be associated with politics out of my content. I thank you for your service in your department and your continued support. Stay safe
You made the right choice. I read all the time where police officers are not backed up like they used to be. There is certainly danger in the mindset of the politicians against officers.
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately some people don’t realize how bad it would be without police. One day some localities will realize it. I thank you for the words of encouragement
From one LEO brother to another... welcome to freedom!😁
@RockyCreekHomestead
11 ай бұрын
Thanks buddy. It’s been a transition for sure but overall it’s been good thus far.
I agree with you on concerns and why you would want to stay..but I agree more with you getting out of law enforcement. As a nurse that admits kids ages 4-18 to a behavioral/mental health facility the children live in bad to horrific environments. I have wanted to quit almost daily. It does weigh on you heavily. And I plan to retire by the end of January 2024. I stay because I think maybe I can help one more child deal with a bad situation or see they are not alone and things can get better. Or make a DCFS report for them and pray it is followed through on by a concerned and loving worker. Of course the children are not perfect but none of us are perfect. By the beginning of February someone else will need to carry that burden because I will be 66 1/2 and need to take care of myself…for my grandchildren. I wish every police officer could get out of law enforcement..but that is unrealistic. I also wish every nay sayer and Politician would open their eyes and see how much law enforcement officers are needed and how much they do to help our communities. I know that is unrealistic also. I wish you great success in your new journey and prayers to accept that you did the right thing for your family. First and foremost God expects you to be there and lead your family. And by doing so you will be given opportunities to help your community in other ways. Have a Blessed Week.
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
I’m not sure how you’re state operates but I know our mental health system and processes are very flawed. Unfortunately it is my opinion that law enforcement has had the mental health problems dumped on their lap. I can’t imagine what it’s like for the workers such as your self who help them once they’re admitted. Thank you for your years of dedicated service to people.
@donnalovintexas8760
Жыл бұрын
@@RockyCreekHomestead I believe the mental health system is very flawed everywhere. And I agree law enforcement officers get it dumped on them. Some are horrible and tear the hospital up..punching holes in walls, punching staff and other patients. The Veterans I took care of for 12 years at the VA are very different from the general public I admit now. The veterans learned respect in the military. The general public have no respect for anyone not even themselves typically. It a love hate thing. You love people and want to help but hate the lack of truly helpful services.
I understand what you saying but the reason everything' getting harder on the cops y'all have The thin Blue line and y'all will stick up for that gang no matter what officer safety it used to be public safety . I have seen the black and white flag and the police department with a grey line through it which is the clans flag but that officer said that was there playing in the color their uniform but it's the same flag that the clan uses. I can remember the cops when I was a kid and we always talk to the cop you can't now
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
I think your statement is painting with a broad brush and isn’t fully informed. There’s no doubt some people become officers who have no business being officers. I can speak for the many men and women I worked with that we are interact with our community on a daily basis and are actually very well supported by our citizens. I have conducted and reported internal investigations that resulted in termination of officers who didn’t conduct themselves with integrity and honesty. It’s unfortunate you’ve had some bad experiences but I respectfully disagree with your perspective
My grandfather and his brother were Canadian mounted police. My grandfather never liked the politics back then and changed his career to Pharmacist. My now FIL was also a mounted police officer. He has mentioned the lack of funding and training has gone to hell in a handbasket. I have a cousin that is an investigator. I was driving home listening to the cbc radio and constable Jack Henzie was being interviewed about the Highway of tears investigation. I damn near drove off the road lol. I had no idea this was my cousin with the same name as his dad, my grandfathers brother. I thought it was a ghost lol Any way lol I've herd stories about how things are not what they use to be. I finally met the cousin on the radio at my grandfathers funeral.
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
Wow that’s wild how that came full circle. Law enforcement unfortunately is one of those things people don’t want or understand a need until they are who needs it. People don’t understand how much true prevention we do or what we deal with that they have no idea is within their living area. Sounds like the desire to serve runs deep in your family.
Love the animals!
@RockyCreekHomestead
Жыл бұрын
They’re great. Thanks