Unpopular opinion, if you're facing 6 guys with knives, you're screwed regardless of training. No one will win that fight.

@cahallo5964

Жыл бұрын

Give me a spear and a sidesword and I'd do it

@Patrick-sh9tt

Жыл бұрын

Yep, the video is the height of delusion tbh. It’s like going back to the 90’s again listening to your mate telling you how his kung fu instructor beat up 6 guys in a street fight. Total b@llox.

@zappersolo7588

Жыл бұрын

100 meter dash: hold my bear

@dylan.-6527

Жыл бұрын

There was this video on Flippino martial arts, I saw awhile back. This dude faced against 5 dudes armed with knifes. He got out ( with FMA training and running). He still got stabbed in the abdomen, where he showed his scar.

@zappersolo7588

Жыл бұрын

@@dylan.-6527 link sound cool

Nothing wrong with being afraid. Fear kept you alive. Being attacked by 5 people is an abnormal experience and your response to that was natural. You have also taken a very negative experience and turned it into a net positive experience which is pretty incredible.

@joonasmukala8208

Жыл бұрын

Best case scenario your adrenaline spike works in your favor and you're able to run like a jack rabbit. Conflict would've been probably bad in an open area.

@PaMuShin

Жыл бұрын

There is a big problem with fear, you tense up, you lose strengh and confidence. You can see same problem on a lower level with people afraid to socialise not looking at other people, maybe even missing the chance for situational awareness and get into dangerous situations. You can get some quality only if you let fear go, same reason the trainer of Mike Tyson hypnotized him to lose fear in fighting, look what he created, a champ like no other. On the other side, Cassius Clay began to lose after getting robbed by multiple attackers and lost confidence, basically the end of his career. Tyson came even back after beeing in prison with all this horrible experiences, which makes him in a way even greater no matter how much people are judging him.

@zakosist

6 ай бұрын

Agree. It just shouldnt be so strong it makes you panic. COMPLETE lack of fear is even worse, you would basically lack the drive to both fight back and run, and just let it happen

I remember this talk with my dad when I was a young scared kid. "What if i lose?" He smiled and said "Do your best, but sometimes life serves you a s#it sandwich. Make sure you you bring your hot sauce." In other words. Beleive in what you stand in and be spiritually fit in case your best isn't enough.

@lafielanarchy

Жыл бұрын

And prepare. I heard people put iun razors in their clothing so if somone tries grab and hit they get sliced. They made it so you dont get cut but criminals are.

@JustinMcVicar

Жыл бұрын

My dad told me something similar when I was a kid, "mate, you're not gonna win all of them, but you can at least go down being the craziest fucker they've ever seen."

@waefawawrgaw2835

Жыл бұрын

or your dad just meant to bring your heat aka a .45 lmao

@kubikiribasara3499

Жыл бұрын

Or....he could have meant that you're not going to win them all despite your best efforts and the "hit sauce" is resting satisfied that you DID do all that was in your power physically and mentally to avoid and physically beat your enemy, just shy of killing him.

@davereid-daly2205

Жыл бұрын

Out on the street your best has to be good enough, which means learning to do things that are ruthless in a fight and being prepared to face up to the consequences when you do. Simply put, you may fight people that are stronger and technically better than you but they don't like excruciating pain and will back off immediately they experience it. If someone attacks you, damage them, give them so much pain and discomfort for the next 6mths that they never think of attacking anyone else again.

One of your absolute best videos Rokas! 👏 Keep crushing it my friend 🔥

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Jesse!! KZread stats don't t seem to agree with this statement at least yet, but your words mean a lot to me 🙏🙏🙏

@nunninkav

Жыл бұрын

His editing and story telling has clearly leveled up. This one was fantastic, the edits, the montages, the voice over, all of it. Great art.

@LambSauce.

Жыл бұрын

Karate Nerd does Defence Lab?! Lol would be a great video!

@Dilzze

Жыл бұрын

Agree with you!

@olivierdepryck5610

Жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/iZeTscuncaWzdrw.html

I mean this in the sincerest way possible. you are like the Socrates of KZread Martial Artists, because it seems you know that true wisdom comes from knowing that you know nothing and asking the tough questions to find understanding. I respect your humble approach to learning martial arts.

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thanks you! Socrates approach is awesome

Getting jumped is just a different experience all together. As a multi jumped survivor myself I feel you. Despite having training, unknown unknowns exist. Glad you made it out.

@deadmeatgames2

Жыл бұрын

Yeah it sucks. Glad you made it out as well

@yeout4386

Жыл бұрын

@@deadmeatgames2 i was attacked as a kid never reallygot over it

@deadmeatgames2

Жыл бұрын

@@yeout4386 yeah started for me as a teen,as well. It's rough to lose that innocence. I used it to become more aware and capable so my family and friends didn't have to suffer it. You survived it you didn't do anything wrong. It will always be with you but how you use it is up to you.

@FlyingTigersKMT

Жыл бұрын

Why you always getting jumped?

@ninjuhdelic

Жыл бұрын

@@FlyingTigersKMT racism, stupid kids who dont like when you are smarter than them, beating ppl in games, boyscout racism, helping a friend get revenge on a rapist. one was my fault cuz at the time i pulled a sword on some dudes smoking weed by the apartments i lived at.They caught me later unarmed. The D.A.R.E program and training to be in the marines had me wild at that point in life tho so i deserved that one.

I am so proud of you. You are doing a great service for everyone. Cutting through the crap, sharing your fears and doubts and continuing your journey and sharing it with us. Kick like a mule bite like a crocodile.

A great video as always, Rokkas! A personal experience here: I am a doctor, currently working in an ER setting. One day, there was a rowdy psychiatric patient who was trying to escape. Problem was, I was in his way, and he took it that I was challenging him (which I was not, mind you. I was just standing around). He immediately went to a fighting stance. A bad one, but a stance, nevertheless. He kept pointing at me, shouting, "What's wrong, huh? Something wrong, huh? You got something to say???" (Was not a direct translation, but it was in Indonesian, and this was the best translation I could get). By that time, I already had some training of MMA (boxing, muay thai, and no-gi BJJ). I was like, "Wait, he is challenging me to a fight! What should I do???", then I was like, "Wait, I know how to fight! Calm down, damnit." So slowly, I transitioned myself to an MMA stance: feet apart front and rear, elbow tucked, and lower arms near my face. However, I modified my stance from the usual closed fists to open hands as if showing that there was nothing in my hands. "No, nothing sir, nothing is wrong sir." I looked like a helpless person, but an experienced fighter would realize that I was actually prepared as soon as he tried to hit me. The patient then immediately ran to the other direction (to my big relief). I then calmly lowered my stance and walked toward my peers, who were staring aghast. Soon after, the security arrived, and we put the patient to sleep with some drugs. I just wanted to highlight 2 things: 1) the most important aspect of fighting is actually the VIGILANCE, not the TECHNIQUE. An experienced street brawler with no technique can actually take down a fighter full of techniques but little to no experience. Usually, those people compensated their lack of techniques by using their raw strength and their surrounding objects and environment. Based on my experience, if I actually froze and did not get into my stance immediately, I might have got beaten down by a punch from that person. 2) you may remember that I commented in your knife fighting videos that I suggested running away when you see a knife (which you tackled in your next video). I just want to highlight to everyone here: do NOT engage in a fight, unless you are forced to do so! Fights are not like Hollywood movies (which I blame for this viewpoint) where you can easily evade every hit and come out the fight (almost) woundless. When you get into a fight, know that you WILL be injured, no matter how good you are. Now, if you are fighting against a knife? Remember, you will always get slashed or stabbed, no matter how good you are. The question is not "will I get slashed/stabbed?" but "how much will I get slashed/stabbed?". Granted, if you are protecting someone or yourself, you need to fight as you have no choice. However, if your attackers are just asking for your wallets, phones, or jewelries (which is true in most cases), I suggest just give it to them. No materialistic things worth your lives. In essence, try to avoid fights as much as you can! You have to highlight this more in your videos, Rokkas. As an MMA fighter myself, I only train in MMA to make fighting as my last resort. Realize how I was just trying to protect myself in my experience. Had he demanded something, I would have given to him (as long as it is something reasonable). Only fight if the alternative outcome is _worse_ if you do not fight at all, i.e. death. Well, that is all from me! Another thing, Rokkas. The statements "The only chance I can get is in Spain" and "Defence Lab has member all over the world" sound contradictory. Does it mean that the global members were not good enough to teach you? Coz that sounds weird coming from a martial art that promotes a fighting style for everyone xD

@alvaroprietotorres4508

Жыл бұрын

The original style is named Keysi and this is a variant. Keisy was created in Spain by an Spanish. Good history doctor 💪

@BugnOutLLC

Жыл бұрын

I have complete confidence in a .308 at a hundred yards.

@Starexe97

Жыл бұрын

@@BugnOutLLC sorry, not American, no guns here xD we do have pepper spray tho

@alisalman5917

Жыл бұрын

I’ve gotten into MMA for the same reasons! I live in Khartoum, Sudan and people here are so problematic and are always looking for a fight💀especially if you’re “innocent looking”. I’ve gotten into MMA since July but only started taking it seriously during December(where my progress actually started kicking). I first came cuz i wanted to “beat some ass and prove myself” but now i realise that i only want to use it as a last resort. Besides i’ve always been the type to avoid fights even when it meant people calling me a “pussy” or straight out disrespecting me.

@Starexe97

Жыл бұрын

@@alisalman5917 good to hear, bro! There is a Chinese philosophy: “the greatest martial artist is the one who never need to fight”, accentuating how the more experienced a fighter is, the more that person understands how awful it is to actually fight.

Thank you for all the wonderful content that you produce. In the future, whoever has you as a teacher shall be blessed.

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! I appreciate the kind words 🙏

Great Video as usual. As a BJJ student, multiple attackers has always been my worst nightmare. I’ve heard of the defense lab and Keysi from a colleague and how effective it is but I saw a lot of negative trolls on the internet that put me off. But I guess there’s some value in most of the systems that can be effective under circumstances. I don’t have access to a lot of these systems here in south India, thank you for making these videos that educate us about the reality of these modern arts.

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

@davereid-daly2205

Жыл бұрын

Don't be put off by what others say about the fighting system that you are training in. Just train hard and fight other fighting styles as much as you can, then you will soon figure out what doesn't work for you and what does. There are great fighters across all the styles and like wise there are many bad instructors that couldn't win a fight against an eight year old.🤣Pick your your teacher carefully. From what this guy is saying in this video is that he trained with a teacher not a fighter, bad luck to him. But to measure all martial arts as inferior to this, is simply being dishonest.

@allan459415

Жыл бұрын

@@davereid-daly2205 Well said, I used to practice TKD and Karate earlier during my college days, a lot of people started trolling those systems. Now I found a legit BJJ school here (actually the only school) and people are already talking about how it doesn’t work as you shouldn’t take people to the ground and then there’s multiple attackers scenario. I’ve sort of come to a conclusion to keep getting better at what I’m doing now and figure it out on my own. I guess this is my journey now.

@davereid-daly2205

Жыл бұрын

@@allan459415 Fighting multiple people is always hazardous. The Systema community always go to the ground and have some innovative solutions for street fighting. My style and preference is to stay upright, although I can work from the ground if I must. I love the fact that everyone posts their techniques on line, because I get to see all the new innovations and what I might come against on the street. It helps me stay sharp and ahead of the curve...

@VenturaIT

Жыл бұрын

Listen to what some of the actual Gracies say about the difference between sport BJJ and self defense BJJ... they are not the same thing and many or possible most BJJ schools don't teach the self defense BJJ. kzread.info/dash/bejne/l2xqlsuTZNaoaLQ.html

I have immense respect for you Rojas, the honesty with which you talk about fears in public is some of the hardest shit I've ever seen and inspiring.

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

Have to say, respect for opening up and sharing what MANY men feel inside. Many of us are here because we have been hurt in some way and doubted ourselves (still do). We are looking for something to ‘make it right’. I know i wouldn’t have the confidence to share my inner weakness with the world like you have. That’s perhaps the biggest sign that you have overcome.

I have a bit of history with Andy Norman and Justo Dieguez who were the two originally behind KFM - Keysi Fighting Method, of which Defence Lab is an off shoot from. I trained with an ex-Keysi instructor who made his own school from the system back in 2017 until November 2019 when the school closed down. I never did Defence Lab, but the core of it are the fudamentals from Keysi which is to guard your head with the Pensador (thinking man) and move your forearms to block the brunt of an attack. Against an untrained opponent, or two, you could block a fair few strikes in a pinch that way, as well as retaliate yourself. I ended up with a Yellow grade in Keysi, studying for roughly two years, and a lot of the core striking techniques and self defence stuff continues to be useful in some situations out in the street. It's not an encompassing system, you'll still get hurt likely if you're attacked by multiple people as I have been, but it'll save you from being knocked out or worse. What I found the most useful was moving with the guard to check strikes. Even though I now train BJJ, I'm thankful for the time spent training the system. Thanks for shedding light on a lesser known martial art which meant a lot to me.

@captainkirk7513

Жыл бұрын

hm Where you exposed to real strikes to the head though? i mean a person throwing a punch full force at you?

@IAmAleksha

Жыл бұрын

@@captainkirk7513 No, not quite. When I went for white grading, it was purely being slapped with a pad in the head, but my yellow grading was against people wearing 4oz gloves but they weren't going all out.

@bombapow

Ай бұрын

instead you couldve learned a functional martial art

I was in an institution because of my anger issues growing up. I got attacked alot there and was forced to defend myself. when I got out I learned martial arts and it taught me to defend myself properly and control my anger. Thank you for this video my friend. 🤝👊

Thanks for making this video! I’ve seen at least one video that was highly critical of Keysi in particular, in which the KZreadr did the usual “it’s not pressure tested” line, blissfully unaware that Keysi and Defence Lab have multiple attacker strsss tests in every class…I know, I remember how tough it was when I did it(you did great). I think a lot of the critics are going off what they’ve seen in the training videos rather than an actual class. What you filmed is what my experience of Keysi was like.

It's hard to believe this isn't an old martial art, the table manners and thinking man are so 'logical' why hasn't someone formalised this into an art until now? Impressive stuff Rokas, great video. (edit) - Sweet thumbnail too.

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! I really appreciate it 🙏

@moltascarlsson6394

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing! However, I do believe there are similiar elbow techniques in some styles of gong fu. Of course, in most of those styles there are different problems, but I do think that this is more of a redisocery than an invention. Not that it is any less significant by any means. This looks fantastic and I would honestly want to try this myself!

@samlecoupe1309

Жыл бұрын

It reminds me of Baji Quand elbow style, and Keysi fighting system used by Christian Bale and Tom Cruise in certain movies. Take Care of you, From France.

@zber9043

Жыл бұрын

It looks a lot like Yang Mian

@johncasarino5627

Жыл бұрын

@@moltascarlsson6394 some forms of mauy boran are like this, as well as the most well known indian martial art (forget the name, begins with K)

The World's *best* self defense system is Detroit Urban Survival Training (DUST) as taught by the legendary Dale Brown. 👊

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

No question 😎 Of course Master Ken is somewhere close too

@kingartifex

Жыл бұрын

its the smart intelligent option for those who want to increase their survivability

@GiangoPT

Жыл бұрын

How to eat doughnuts properly

@mellonhead9568

Жыл бұрын

Intelligent options for increased survivability

@pieguymcduck8600

Жыл бұрын

For sure

In Somatic Experiencing, a trauma therapy modality, there’s this concept of titration: slowly exposing yourself to your trauma to work through it without getting overwhelmed by it. What Andy is doing here is good work.

@captainkirk7513

Жыл бұрын

i dont think that is neccessarily how this works A soldier who gets PTSD doesnt go through his war scenarios over and over again while exposing gradually

@jonathanmarkov1741

Жыл бұрын

@@captainkirk7513 trauma is not about the event, it's about how the event still lives inside your body. The way I understand trauma therapy, as someone who's been in it for several years now, is that it's general intention is to slowly expose yourself to triggers, memories, and sensations that are related to the trauma in a safe (and informed) space for your body to be able to process it.

@captainkirk7513

Жыл бұрын

@@jonathanmarkov1741 " to slowly expose yourself to triggers, memories, and sensations that are related to the trauma in a safe (and informed) space for your body to be able to process it." Exactly and not the event itself. nor the resimulation through reanactment

@jonathanmarkov1741

Жыл бұрын

@@captainkirk7513 I hear what you’re saying better now. It has me thinking about whether or not this training method would be a good idea for people who were severely traumatized in such a situation (or if maybe particularly sensitive individuals would benefit from a gentler approach). I’m interested in seeing how Rokas might fare in this over time and how his fear might be either released, unchanged, or worsened.

@hurricaneseason073

3 ай бұрын

@@jonathanmarkov1741It would help, slowly. The difference was said in the video, you're not going out picking fights with randoms to see if this time it would be different, that's the definition of madness. You are, however, exposing yourself to the fear and doubts that the trauma created in a SAFE and CONTROLLED enviroment, one where you can meltdown safely, one where you can call quits. This will slowly, among with therapy of course, override the freeze factor. Freezing is a traumatic response and a very hard one to get out from, the important thing is to be able to think when you think you might be in a situation. Freezing stops your thought process and instincts. I believe that with time, self care, TONS of work and help you can gain your instincts back. I really liked how they expressed that the idea is to work with your instincts and not against them, so as you slowly feel them coming back, you gain some confidence in yourself, now you can trust your instincts again. I have not been beaten to a pulp, but i was attacked by more than one person before. My freezing started with molestation and then SA. I'm not scared of dying, i'm scared of having to survive, to endure more pain, of freezing again, of SA.

Wow that was great Rokas! It really goes to show you that there is a world of difference between training in martial arts (whatever the art) and an ACTUAL fight for your life. Keep owning your journey brother... ✌

What strike me on more than one occasion was your honesty in facing your own shortcoming and fear, not something you see everyday in someone who trained a long time in martial art. Kudos to you!

Thanks for continuing to share your journey. You are not the only one out there who got into martial arts due to trauma.

I've been following your channel for a long time and I really identify with your experience. I grew up in one of the most dangerous cities in Latin America and had similar experiences with street crime. Bro, some advice is that fear is not going to disappear completely unless you treat it with psychological therapy along with your training. Best wishes and may the journey continue.

Fear is your friend. It keeps you alive and sharp so long as it doesn’t control your actions. The trauma will pass if you pressure test yourself often. Flooding technique is the key. The keysi method is very clever and I like their emphasis on multiple attackers as most male attacks are done in groups. Makes sense you’d use elbows in a situation where you are overpowered. It’s always better to keep the attackers at a distance but if you can’t elbows can control the fight as my Sifu used to say. Great video

Same reasons I quit traditional Kung Fu. My road took me to hybrid systems and then to Krav Maga, and then to HEMA styles like boxing and wrestling. Now in my mid 50s with some serious injuries, I seldom go about unarmed.

I always enjoy your approach to martial arts. It seems we've led similar paths in search of the ultimate fighting/ self defence system and to face our personal demons. Well done mate. All the best with your journey. I hope you find what you're looking for.

I had similar experiences and fears in my adolescence. Interestingly, my solution always was to move to a safer place. And I did. 30+ years later no regrets (I am in my fifty’s now). It may sound cowardly but in reality it probably takes as much effort as learning how to fight. Prerequisites for a “safer place” are higher grades at school, higher education, higher paying job, so I had to work hard to get all that, and eventually I did. Also, having genetically a rather fragile bone structure, I knew that chances for me to become a good fighter are slim to zero, so I decided not to waste my time on it. Looking back at my life I am glad I did.

Hearing this story has just confirmed what I have always been saying about martial arts. Many people do not know the difference between combative sports and self defence. There is more to self defense then just hitting people. It involves being street smart, self aware, knowing when to make the correct judgement in a dangerous situation. Many school and combative sports will never teach you this.

@imthebestthingsinceslicedr5400

Жыл бұрын

Being aware of your surroundings and spotting trouble is the biggest thing people should think about instead of thinking their martial arts skill makes them invincible. Thats the big problem of most sport based martial arts system. They think on the streets people will follow fighting rules and not fight dirty

@jonjames5411

Жыл бұрын

@@imthebestthingsinceslicedr5400 well said

@TheFredmac

5 ай бұрын

I took Kuntaw for a college physical education credit in college in the 90's. The instructor focused on self defense not competition. Situational awareness, using anything available as a weapon, fighting from the ground or seated at a table, appropriate force, and how to break contact to get away. Over the years I have never used what I learned in a fight but the situational awareness has stuck with me.

Thank you for these videos. To see a normal person overcome fears and show us how it can be done is very inspiring. Congratulations!

@handroids1981

4 ай бұрын

Absolutely. I think Rokas is one of the most important Martial Artist of this decade. _Because_ of his humility, caution, anxiety and honesty.

Damn. I also have been assaulted by random dudes in public before. And my karate teaching did absolutely nothing for me because I just froze. I was just 12 when a grown man punched me in my face and asked for my phone. You describe feeling uneasy just being around strangers you didn't know and I could relate a lot. I remember seeing strangers walking down the street and planning how I'd defend myself. I never had to, thankfully. But I still wonder. I've been in a much better place though. Ten years later and I don't live with that fear anymore, and it's not because I'm a master of any martial art but I'm just more confident in myself and the forces of nature. I wish you the best and I hope your trauma has been healing with time.

Hats to you for your journey and sharing it in a way that can help others. I like the idea of training for fights at tables and against multiole attackers.

Mate I love your honesty in your videos. You seem like a great guy. I understand how you felt. Doing martial arts is my life and I trained Keysi for years and it definitely has helped me in my life. I've trained with Justo and was one of the best things I've ever done in my life. Love your videos. Good luck on your journey.

You're doing a great job my friend. You have learned so much and treated us all to your journey so we may learn as well. Keep up the journey.

There's a lot of videos/forums about keysi and defense labs and not many are very positive, it's nice to see that you found something positive from this experience. Great video as always.

Great stuff in this episode. Can't wait to see you try it in your Self defense competition

Great vid on Defense Lab system. I’d like seeing and learning more of their techniques of their system. Thank you for your time and energy producing this great vid. Peace

This was a beautiful video that I think speaks to most people who began martial arts. Thanks for all you show Rokas. Much love from Ireland.

Hey Rokas, excellent video. There is a fighting system called 52 Blocks that mixes boxing with dirty fighting tactics based on the creators experience in prison. I see some similarities here with the use of the elbows being a defense and attack at the same time.

@mysticvisions9810

Жыл бұрын

After 26 years on a max unit, I can honestly say it can definitely be a very “real” school of self-defense. After years experience with Kenpo and Aikido, I had to relearn and unlearn a lot.

@kamenwaticlients

Жыл бұрын

From personal experience growing up in the hood in BK NYC in the 80s and 90s I can say you are correct about the similarities. Rokas you should learn more about 52 Blocks/JailHouse Rock. It was one of the fighting styles Riggs used in Lethal Weapon movie from the 80s and it was used by Ludacris "fast and furious 9".

@Santeria78

Жыл бұрын

@@kamenwaticlients Hey, then 52 hand blocks are a real thing. Excellent!

@kamenwaticlients

Жыл бұрын

@@Santeria78 Indeed it is. I'm glad it didn't die with my generation. The later generations don't fight much anymore and don't have fair ones or fades these days. Weapons such as guns are way easier to come by now especially clean guns. Back in the day unless you were down with someone or had connections you had to spend a lot of money or went OT. If you didn't do that then you were getting a burner with bodies on it.

@stevebb2915

Жыл бұрын

52 is stolen wholesale from silat/panuntukan and repackaged to the insecure who want an urban flavour. total bullshido.

Loving this more cinematic format !

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! I decided to do my best to level up the effort I put into my videos... 😊

As usual, an awesome journey you had the curtesy to share with us, thank you very much for that and keep up the good work !

Been subbed for a little over 3ish years and your production value has gotten SOOOO high it’s cool to see man keep it up!

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! This is the video I invested most time and energy compared to any other video. I am happy to hear it was worth it. I will do my best to continue holding up the same level of production value :)

Still amazing to watch your journey. Fear is annoying no matter how much you train. For me going to the ground is scary so I'm working on that as well as stand up a bit. When talking to a few people they all said work on your strengths and get good at it. Can't wait to see what's next

Wow, what a piece Rokas. Great story telling and really good editing.

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

Great Video,Appreciate the honesty you've been putting out there.

I’m glad Rokas has found what he needed to deal with this tough situation and was able to overcome his fear. That’s always the biggest opponent we have

We appreciate your content. Keep up the good work.

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

I really enjoyed watching this and how open you are about the process of learning and fears, mixed in with past traumas. It’s very honest and much more realistic than when some folks pretend to be super in control and act fearless. This makes me like your approach and thought process much more.

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Rokas, this is an amazing video! You did a great job starting the story with the fear and doubt you were dealing with and then turning it into a positive and empowering journey and destination. People who are complaining aren't watching past the very start. Also, I found it incredibly insightful to learn details of what you'd gone through and get a deeper understanding of what your journey is about. You have such a great story! I can personally relate to losing all your confidence after a violent experience, as I experienced that myself, and this video showed and REASSURED me that I'm on the correct path as well. Non consensual violence IS NOT a "feel good" story, and I think that anyone who wants you to "happy it up" has never experienced what you've gone through. GREAT storytelling, and I felt the video played out like a film, with the victim turning the tables and triumphing at the end!

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

One of your best videos so far Rokas, thank you for sharing your personal insights. You have come a hell of a long way.

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Hi Rokas, You might not remember me, but we met several years ago training Aikido in Switzerland; I was visiting from the UK at the time as an uchi-deshi for a month in Montreux, though, I may have still had hair back then 😅 I don't train these days, but I still keep an interest here and there. The journey you've been documenting in your videos is really inspiring; I was amazed at your transformation from when I last saw you! I regularly watch your videos, but this one was especially fascinating - I'm going to be looking for whether there are any links to the organisation in the UK, as I would like to get back into training /something/ again. Thank you for sharing your experiences, and keep up the good work!

Your videos are always very interesting. It would be very helpful to see a comparison of the best self defense styles.

Really happy to hear about this leg of your journey! I've slowly been watching all of your videos and I think you are pointing out some really important differences between martial arts and self defence. The vulnerability is honestly inspiring and I think shows some of the major gaps in the way we commonly think about self defence and fighting. It's worth noting that dipping into fight or flight mode and disassociating or 'blanking out' can be a symptom of PTSD which effects your nervous system. Looking at your nervous system could be an alternative entry point for working through some of this stuff as well. Healing from PTSD is notoriously slow and difficult. Gradually upping the intensity of triggers in a safe controlled space is referred to as exposure therapy and is commonly part of a larger therapeutic program. Anyways good luck and thanks for this really important story you're sharing!

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you

Your journey is such an inspiration. Please keep going. !!! And. Thank you.

I've looked into this system over the years. Andy seems like he understands violence, especially as he worked as a Bouncer. But I feel it's too niche for a self defense system. I think it would be good if you get ambushed, and don't have the time to do a traditional block and counter, you get with most self defense systems. I just feel a good self defense system should cover a broad range of scenarios. I will also say dealing with multiple attackers, you need to circle around them, and try to deal with only one at a time. Don't let them surround you. Also, if you're planning to do more self defense systems for your journey, I recommend looking into Lee Morrison and Richard Dimitri 😃

@asharedo

Жыл бұрын

Yeah I don't understand why the guys using this system don't attempt to break out of the circle and instead just bounce around in between 4 guys trying to hit them on the head at the same time lol. Best thing you could do is break out of the circle and put them all in front of you, and partially blocking each other. Which is exactly what every person does in every video out there showcasing a real multiple attackers scenario live and unedited. kzread.info/dash/bejne/n458pq-hksawpqQ.html example. When chaos is going on, there's dim light and multiple people trying to hit the same target, chances are their strikes are going to be very inaccurate (they're unlikely to get a knockout blow on you right away), so you have a good chance of using wrestling skills to break away from them and position yourself with all opponents in front of you.

@ricksterdrummer2170

Жыл бұрын

You got a good point, but you're forgetting that YOU don't dictate what happens in a fight. You say ''don't let them surround you.'' What if you're already surrounded before the fight has started? ''You need to circle around them.'' That's great. If you're in a big parking lot and not in a small hallway. Not to forget the fact that your opponents can move as well. If you move away, they'll follow. ''Try to deal with only one at a time''. How are you gonna do that if you're surrounded and getting punched by 4 guys at the same time both from the front AND back? This is what makes Defense Lab great. It's not about what you SHOULD do, but what you CAN do.

@CynicalSnowflake

Жыл бұрын

@@ricksterdrummer2170 You're right, these guys always assume that the attackers will just stay frozen in place while you're trying to put them in front of you. If you're busy fighting one guy, there's nothing stopping the others from encircling you. Keeping them in front of you just doesn't work, period.

@imthebestthingsinceslicedr5400

Жыл бұрын

Yup your attackers are not going to simply stand there and allow you to move to a spot that will be to your advantage. These opponents would also think how they can get to an advantageous position and will also try to outsmart you

@imthebestthingsinceslicedr5400

Жыл бұрын

They also have the wrong mindset where they dont think about not putting themselves in that kind of situation just because they have martial arts training. Most important thing is to ba aware of your surroundings and know how to spot trouble before it happens, then if you got caught in a situation you have multiple attackers, why do you want to engage when you are clearly out numbered and think hey ill just line them up like Steven Segal then do my fancy moves. Why not immediately run for safety like similar to what Rokas did? If you engage on a street fight you have less time to react and so many unkowns that one should think carefully why would they shouldb put themselves to take unecessary risk thinking its a sport fighting match with rules. Have that mindset your martial arts makes you invincible is recipe to get you killed

Excellent video! This is definitely a reason why I have been avoiding self defense classes all together all my life, the fear of failure. The fear of getting hurt even if it sounds contradictory. It takes courage to face yourself and your deep rooted fears. Sometimes I find it best to accept those fears as I learn more about myself and know that some anxieties and some fears will always stay with me. You have my utmost respect.

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Awesome! Let's push ourselves out of our comfort zones together :)

Rokas,You are capable and distinguished in all your topics and information about martial arts around the world. Thank you for all your wonderful and distinguished videos. I wish you prosperity

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! 🙏

So happy for you. Sincerely. Thank you for sharing.

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you

I didn't know these guys still existed. Since this isn't really available in most of the world, all I can do is speculate. It seems like they have some good principles that would mix well with an existing base in striking and grappling. Pretty open to takedowns with that defense being so high but at least they keep a relatively low center so they can try to respond well. Plus, most street fights aren't like an MMA match with people shooting quality doubles/singles/high c's. I'd love to see you work with Ramsey Dewey in particular to go over the things you learned and hear his opinion on the techniques. He's a really thoughtful coach when it comes to systems like this.

If somebody markets anything as "Best in The World" and others fail to ask "For what Purpose?" then something is .... WRONG. PS: First time First!!!

@piotrd.4850

Жыл бұрын

Ramsey Dewey has great insights on martial arts, self-defence on streets etc. PS: no martial art helps against ambush with pepper spray.

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

I definitely agree with you :) Also to put it on record, Andy and his team didn't say their system is the best. They were very realistic and humble about the limitations of any system including their own. Calling their system one of the best self-defense systems in the world is my statement :)

@gingercore69

Жыл бұрын

@@piotrd.4850 Military units sometimes are forced to resist pepper spray or tear gas, and sometimes even try to do stuff like carrying someone out of a building, fighting someone or doing pushups or squats while breathing it... Closest thing ive seen in traditional martial arts was a ninjutsu gotonpo in wich you could use metsubushi, so people would throw powder into eachothwrs eyes and from that point, you decided if escaping or fighting, you had to do the mission, so it was not scripted as in "fight back" or "run" it was just something that could happen and you would have to deal with it yourself

@piotrd.4850

Жыл бұрын

@@gingercore69 That's why militaries - at least more sane and reputable ones (British Army, USMC) still train obstacle courses, h2h fighting and bayonet. Also USMC also has the pepper spray test (I think) you mentioned ( any Marines, feel free to comment!). In short "train as you fight so you can fight as you train" - true since Roman legions. CONDITIONING (for given purpose) and CONFIDENCE BUILDING.

@gingercore69

Жыл бұрын

@@piotrd.4850 fun fact, the mcmap used by the us marines is based in bujinkan... Even has the musha dori, wich is a technique that i have only seen in catch wrestling, mma, bujinkan and mcmap... But we know it was taken grom bujinkan because the guy who designed it is a bujinkan blsckbelt... And bujinkan is where those "mock missions where they might throw blinding powder to each other" happens...

This is hands down your best video so far. Thanks for opening up and sharing. I hope you find your way in the end.

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! 🙏

I look forward to your videos the most on KZread! This was fantastic

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏

Hey, another martial arts KZreadr called Steven Strangles People actually heavily criticized this martial art,”I’m afraid Batman is a fraud.” I’ve always enjoyed your content and would love to see what you’d have to say about his opinion.

@dlworksop3052

Жыл бұрын

I’ll answer that for you buddy Steven has no experience in Keysi or DL He has watched some vids and that’s it, he doesn’t know how it works l, how it moves or even understand it very well.. sadly that makes people like him a fraud as they are making stuff for likes, it’s like me doing a video on quantum physics saying it’s BS .. but I don’t know anything about it, but I watched a KZread video.. he would I change his opinion if he actually experienced it! Fact

I have trained Defence Lab for the last 2 years and I love it. I get frustrated when people who have never tried it, nor been victims of violence bash it. If you can get your head out of the TV violence/MMA space, and understand what real street violence looks like, there is real value in what they teach. I was happy to see someone try it and give honest feedback on the experience. Andy and Grek are such good dudes. Miguel is a beast. He's so handsome, yet terrifying, lol! I hope you stick with it. The journey just gets better! Proud of you my guy!

@captainkirk7513

7 ай бұрын

i get frustrated with guys who dont do sparring and claim their stuff work

I admire your openness and honestly about the feeling of uncertainty and fear when it comes to self defense in real life. I truly appreciate the work you are doing, blogging your journey and I feel very inspired to restart my own. Thank you. This video and the one with the knife attacks on the self defense tournament are my two favorite. I think self defense systems should be trained in as real life simulated situations as possible. I am incerely wishing you for the best.

I feel like watching all your videos that I've been on the journey with you and as you're learning I am as well.

Great video!

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

I don’t know you personally but I feel like I do with your openness and vulnerability in your videos thank you so much for your constant courage to be who you are

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏 Means a lot to me

Thanks for your honesty

I never knew this happened to you, I was impressed by your journey and now even more! You are an inspiration man!

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! 😊🙏

Great video. Ačiū Rokai.

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Ačiū! 😊

Dude you brought back Defence Lab from the dead. Been soo long since I heard about it. It's cool to see Andy back killing it. Also you should try Urban Combatives they also provide top notch combatives stuff..

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Urban Combatives is definitely on my list!

@ThorOdinson13

Жыл бұрын

From what I have seen from them they have been influenced by either KFM or DL as it looks very similar just demonstrated in a more aggressive manner. Definitely give it a go and see how they compare.

@soumyabratachakraborty3544

Жыл бұрын

@@ThorOdinson13 yeah they use the keysi helmet guard when dealing with punching aswell. What they do so well than any other self defense classes is the pre-fight cues, descalation training, situational awareness and obviously their infamous and what they are know for are their pre- emptive striking

@dlworksop3052

Жыл бұрын

All that exits in the above Ans it’s just as nasty but more fluent l, they just market and cater to a different audience .. these style sessions still exist in DL for the hardcore that want it

This style combined with your Aikido and boxing! Man you gonna be even more amazing!

Great video and a great lesson for us. Keep going Sensei. I hope someday our paths will cross and I will have the good fortune to gain wisdom from you.

I've been in 3 real fights. All 3 were terrifying. In all 3 I forgot most of what I learned aside from basics, but somehow was able to power through the fear. I'm not a badass or tough person by any stretch, by the way, just VERY lucky.

@Zodak5D

4 ай бұрын

I liked and probably still like to fight. But I did get a taste of fear when my brother and I were chased by 15 other boys. I was laughing until I got cornered into a fence covered in branches, I couldn't climb thru all of that. Luckily they didn't do anything but give me a warning.

My issue about this is the same about keisy fighting method (the inspiration of this one I believe). You go inside a very close quarters distance always....should you be there in the first place? ....

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

We touched this question with Andy, I just didn't include it in the video. DL's approach isn't necessarily to always go in close quarters. It depends on the situation.

@hybridkarate4106

Жыл бұрын

@@MartialArtsJourney nice to know. Thanks for the info

Good video! Thanks for sharing!

Wow, well done. Thank you for sharing.

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

"Fighting is not about knowing how, but chosing to". BTW: there's self-defence school in Poland which kinda.... orchestrates street assault on trainee as semi surprise.

I used to do KFM (Keysi Fighting Method) in Germany. Many years later, after not having continued it, I noticed that Justo and Andy must have broken apart (in some sort of schism) since one now called his technique Defence Lab while the one renamed it to Keysi. Do you know what exactly led to this separation and what are the exact differences between them nowadays? Also interesting to note is that their schools or dojos are never to be found in the same city at the same time. They seem to have agreed on who keeps which territory. In Berlin it is all Defence Lab now, while Moscow has the Keysi school.

B.E.A.utiful upload. Keep climbing that ladder and finding ways to stress test yourself. The confidence will eventually follow. Cheers mate

It's great to see you going down this path as well as spiritual and sport side of MA

You just inspired me to get back to training defence lab. Wow! I gave up trying to learn because I listened to others say how stupid and horrible it was but now I'm like why tf did I let their opinion influence me?!

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

I think it's very important to make the final decision ourselves :) Glad to hear about your discovery!

@captainkirk7513

Жыл бұрын

well maybe they had valid arguments? what were they saying?

@LambSauce.

Жыл бұрын

@Captain Kirk basically saying how they would react if someone who trained defence lab did this or that. Basically saying how they would react to whatever move they did when in reality, you don't know how you're gonna react when you're face to face with something like this. They said it was ineffective, but if you get elbowed in the chest, limbs or head, you're not gonna be able to do much.

Love your stuff man🙏

I overcame fear not by choice. You have the courage to search for it! Keep it up, it's a never ending battle.

I like that you actually tried it and got training from these guys. Armchair clowns are making videos bashing it and other systems they haven't even tried. This actually gives your opinion meaning and respect. Good job

Should have worn a Batman shirt for this. This must have been a really cool experience. Thank you for sharing ☺️.

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

I did have a Batman t-shirt around 😅

@shadowfighter6445

Жыл бұрын

@@MartialArtsJourney Oh well, still a great video 😄.

@PaMuShin

Жыл бұрын

He already wore batman socks, does this not count anything?

1:56 This is the most important lesson. If you only train, when a real situation happens you still tremble. Nothing can prepare you for the real deal. If you feel your nerves just run. Being coward has nothing to do with you wanting to be in a safe place. It has everything to do with you hurting people or animals that can't defend for themselves. Great vid.

Another great video Rokas. Thank you.

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! 🙏

It's bizarre to me that you'd call anything in fighting the best when I see no evidence. Has a single professional fighter come out of this system? with the popularity of MMA surely there should be a Defense Labs pro MMA fighter.

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

From what I know there's a Defence Lab BJJ champ, and Andy worked with some UFC fighters. In the end though self defense and fighting is related but not the same thing

@dapro5002

Жыл бұрын

@@MartialArtsJourney who are they, if I may ask? Not judging, just wondering who they are

@dlworksop3052

Жыл бұрын

We have trained my friend and UFC fighter in Nottingham ufc gym .. they wanted DL in the UFC or her manager and trainer did .. but only elements work as it’s based around stress and multiple people.. We have video, pics etc .. maybe one day it will be edited and come out, but covid hit !!! Any way after a full day with Andy and the ufc fighter who has trained DL with me and done a seminar they were blown away by what they saw .. two problems though !!! The fighter would have to immerse in it to get good as it’s slightly different .. and you’d need Andy !! Or some equivalent.. which is hard to find that has what the mma guys or girl needs.. often times a factor And DL is a global company and fairly new with enough on its hands .. also they made a MMA stem years ago But it never came out fully, this also had braulio Estima involved in the ground sections a bjj champ as it blew him away .. so it exists .. it’s just that time and things like this are a factor in realty

Great video Rokas! It takes a lot of courage to embrace fear and face the situation. I watched a Korean guy’s video (don’t remember the name). He mentioned fact that if someone is attacking you with a knife, you have to think beforehand that you are going to get hit, there’s no escaping the knife. But, once you admit it you would face the situation better. I am not sure but to me, it made a lot of sense.

Great video, great edition and great story... you are great Rokas

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Daniel!

I missed your videos. Hope both you and Gaby are feeling better. Your journey is our journey: All bullied kids at school trying to find our power. Blessings, Batman from Lithuania.

Beautiful video here, thank you for this one🙏🏾🙏🏾

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thank you

What an excellent video, thank you & congratulations 👍👍👍

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Thanks!

My own martial arts journey began 41 years ago, when I was 9, and began training in my first style. Like Rokus, one of my favorite content creators, I also am from a very dangerous city, and also was attacked by multiple opponents. In my case it was four, and unlikethe five cowards attacking him, the cowards attacking me were not afraid to fight. After the initial exchange, I also managed to get away, and I also had trouble seeing, though in my case, it was because my nose, cheek, and jaw were broken, and both of my eyes were swelling shut. Holding my swelling eyes open with my fingers, I finally managed to find assistance. I have, since that time, just like him, studied other styles to increase my skills, and become a more well rounded practitioner. I knew there was a reason I felt such kinship with him, but am utterly blown away by so many parallels. To Rokus, thank you for sharing your story. I wouldn’t have thought it possible to be even more of a fan, but you managed to make me one. Thanks again.

You're the best for confronting the old fears and trauma, and giving Defense Lab a try. I saw Andy Norman before, and he has a good point. Train the natural instincts, educate those very natural instincts. Weaponize the frightened person. Great perspective.

awe and respect you have gained a subscriber!

I love how open and honest you are with your journey. Vulnerable. Inspiring. Definitely give Tommy Carruthers of Glasgow a look . Its JKD but really in its most simplistic form. I’m sure you’ve seen some of his videos on KZread that has been posted and re-posted. The flashiness of his videos don’t really do justice to the simple form self-defense that he teaches. You can also connect with Thomas Marx of tommy’s IFO out of Germany. His KZread is really starting to build a good following.

Thanks man! Your videos helped me a lot ❤ Going my way now 😊

@MartialArtsJourney

Жыл бұрын

Awesome!

This is great. Kenpo has 'mass attacks' dealing with multiple opponents. It's not perfect but it works. Really you should never stop keeping an open mind and continue training!

Thanks for sharing