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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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I’m glad the instructor wasn’t super strict like the stereotype. She was very informative and also had a sense of humor.

@lucia1982

2 жыл бұрын

Yup and its weird to see cause ive gone to etiquette school non stop since i was like 6 im 17 and usually teachers are like very strict

@Shushishtok

2 жыл бұрын

I assume they talked before the filming and decided that they should be less strict in favor of having more exposure - people aren't going to want to watch this if all they see is her being strict with her students.

@bookcrazy001

2 жыл бұрын

All good etiquette teachers should be this way! My etiquette teacher was fabulous and super understanding (took it as a child because my adoptive grandfather cared about it). After my many times failing at walking and posture because of ankle issues, she worked with me to show what I can do to still have a presence. She then said she thought the shashay walk method might suit me more to help hide my bad ankle. My teacher even worked with wheelchair bound ppl to show them how even rolling around with good posture or holding your head up can bring presence to the room. Fantastic class. Really opened my eyes to how taking a few etiquette lessons is for everyone.

@bookcrazy001

2 жыл бұрын

@@lucia1982 I'm sorry you had a strict teacher. My experience was so inclusive, understanding and loose with her roles. I guess my teacher cared more about bringing basic manners into the 21st century.

@lucia1982

2 жыл бұрын

@@bookcrazy001 thats great good for you i mean we are kids after all and the point is to learn manners but i kinda get why she was the way she was. However i dont agree with many things that formed part of the "etiquette' like if youre overwight is considered unclassy, or if youre not white looking, or gay specially as a girl, or be like short, etc

you should try nanny school next! They go all out and train nannies to take care of royal children and everything. it's no joke

@MichelleKhare

2 жыл бұрын

This is actually a video we've been working on for a while!! Hopefully we can make it happen soon. :)

@musicalifornia49

2 жыл бұрын

@@MichelleKhare I can't wait!

@Vermicelli98

2 жыл бұрын

YAY

@ashley7630

2 жыл бұрын

Lol

@nataleeisjustchilling2737

2 жыл бұрын

I’ve heard of that lol

I was forced to go to ettiquette classes as a kid. It was one of the more insulting decisions my mother made when I was little. I was kicked out the first day for goofing off though... I did the walrus thing with the utensils. The lady was so mad she grabbed my hand and took me downstairs to another classroom where she opened the door and shouted "I have another one for you!" and then left. It was a drama class. Loved itttttttt... But my mom was furious so I didn't get to stay in it.

@KD-ou2np

Жыл бұрын

Okay honestly.. maybe it was a bit harsh but I love that she did that. Thats hilarious.

@Viviana_V412

Жыл бұрын

Omg the walrus thing!? Haha always makes me laugh. I would’ve been dragged away too just for laughing with you 😅

@Affluent_Pomegranate

Жыл бұрын

insulting was your behavior towards the instructor and the class. I wish there were more mothers like yours

@LeftOfToday

Жыл бұрын

@@Affluent_Pomegranate Ya, sure... Abusive alcoholics who expect their children to bend to their entire will and live up to unrealistic expectations because they have undealt with trauma of their own make great mothers. Get a grip.

@WouldRather-iu3tl

Жыл бұрын

@@Affluent_Pomegranate Tbf they were a kid, what do you expect?

"Are you ready for dessert? Do you still have room in your belly?" Michelle and the others who barely ate anything: *YES*

@AWlpsSHOW36

2 жыл бұрын

They didn't even eat the food!

I love that she says that etiquette is about making people feel at ease, followed up by making them feel ill at ease.

@constantly_nerfed

2 жыл бұрын

Right? Kelsey said her dad was really uncomfortable and embarrassed about the plate thing, followed up with Lisa saying “they were making him more comfortable!”

@vixikie

2 жыл бұрын

@@constantly_nerfed I'm from Sweden and one time during the nobel banquet a lady who sat next to the queen put her handbag on the table and the queen did the same thing.

@mlast2181

2 жыл бұрын

@@constantly_nerfed They were trying to anyway. He happened to notice it and thus felt more like a twit, but it clearly was their intention to try and put him at ease by doing the same thing instead of making him stand out with everyone else doing the 'correct' action. There is a story about Queen Elizabeth and a visiting dignitary that drank out of what was supposed to be a finger bowl - so she did too. I imagine he was less familiar with customs and probably didn't notice any hesitation on everyone else'ss parts, whereas Kelsey's dad immediately picked up on his oops. Just because they failed, doesn't mean it wasn't a nice gesture.

@madixoxo246d6

2 жыл бұрын

@@mlast2181 lol that reminds me of the Shrek dinner scene

@adrianazashen

2 жыл бұрын

Lady got jokes

her: etiquette is about putting others at ease also her: this is my wedding's china, you break you pay.

@alishashashasha6909

2 жыл бұрын

Well.. Etiquettes for that will be to not break anyone's dishes let alone wedding China so yeah Lmao.

@cathpalug1221

2 жыл бұрын

I consider myself a barbarian yet if someone break my ordinary china I will do the same

@ruthb.s.9346

2 жыл бұрын

@Cath Palug, 😂🤔😶 I'm sorry for laughing

@lifewitholga_

2 жыл бұрын

😂

@philh1245

2 жыл бұрын

exactly what i was thinknig

From a small Indian city, eating using hands, I came to Cambridge university, formal dinners in University's colleges are a common thing here. I remember going through a very very good course on the internet to learn how to eat. She gave the tip BMW, bread, meal and water/wine from the left to right. I never have made a mistake. My eating etiquettes are spot on. I still use my hands to eat at home.

They are very relevant skills. In graduate school I found myself eating dinner at a Supreme Court justices house. His wife was VERY into proper etiquette at the dinner table. So I learned and was SO thankful I did my research!

I love how the instructor mentioned that good manners are about being respectful of others, about how they feel and their personal space. It's true that today most people aren't aware of that at all.

@sakuraesther6309

2 жыл бұрын

Even if they dont respect yours??

@stuffmewithpasta756

2 жыл бұрын

@@sakuraesther6309 Yep. Don't stoop down to others levels. If someone is very intolerable though, stay away from them. But do not speak ill because that will reflect to others what you actually see in yourself.

@leapintothewild

2 жыл бұрын

@@sakuraesther6309 Absolutely! The height of poor manners is pointing out someone else's bad manners. 🙂 Unfortunately, many these days take it as an opportunity to criticize or drop to an even lower level.

@voidify3

2 жыл бұрын

@@stuffmewithpasta756 being a doormat is not the answer... do no harm but take no bs

@adaliawright6891

Жыл бұрын

​@@stuffmewithpasta756yes! I like to think if it like Uncle Iroh from Avatar the Last Airbender. No matter how rude anyone is to him, he keeps his composure and politely stands his ground.

I’m not sure how you made manners INTENSE, but I was on the edge of my seat the whole time - awesome video!

@MichelleKhare

2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha THANK YOU @Louis!!!

@trash9378

2 жыл бұрын

@@MichelleKhare @Louis 💀 jk all love ❤️ you're a massive inspiration

@TheMrsCookieMonsterx

2 жыл бұрын

I hooe you had your back straight and your hands on your knees! 😉😉

@kpopscenario1406

2 жыл бұрын

yea

@guysumpthin2974

2 жыл бұрын

The teacher uses WAY TOO MANY hand gestures !! Pretentiousness and causing anxiety over tableware; Massive point reduction … grade C-

The handshake part reminded me of my typing teacher in middle school. He was in business, and we had to shake his hand the professional way before entering the classroom. If we did it wrong, we had to go to the back of the line and do it again.

@DeeBelluptownflavor

2 жыл бұрын

Our life skills teachers in high school were so strict. This was in the 80s. My lowest grades were in Typing and sewing.

2:12 "It's nice to meet you 😊" "You too ☺" "..." "gOoDbYE"

*Fun fact:* While Kelsey's bread/drink memory rule is a nice trick, it's actually the opposite in Sweden, so if you're ever invited to the Nobel banquet you need to unlearn that. Also don't clink glasses. *Ever!* When you toast at informal dinners in Sweden you raise your glasses, look around the table and say "Skål". At formal dinners there's a whole procedure of nodding at people (For men: left, right, opposite. For women: right, left, opposite.) before drinking, and then you nod at everyone in the opposite way before lowering your glass.

@aubrey6073

2 жыл бұрын

Yesss when we toast we say skål and we pronounce it as scole

@latronqui

2 жыл бұрын

Wow

@Yourfriendlysuburbanstoner

2 жыл бұрын

Me, an American teenager screenshotting this just in case:

@TeenDream888

2 жыл бұрын

I know, there's so many different styles of dining, with Continental styles and American, and with Continental the rules change based on which country you might be in. it's very confusing.

@gsiya4023

2 жыл бұрын

@@Yourfriendlysuburbanstoner me an Indian teenager screenshotting this :

🙌🏻🧐❤️ It was an HONOR learning how to be Fancy with you Michelle! Thank u for having me! *Crys in peasant for getting a B* lol

@danksquidward

2 жыл бұрын

Cool

@chwakrine

2 жыл бұрын

lmao Chris you got a humor

@stephanieyang1397

2 жыл бұрын

LMAO

@Tn-qr1kb

2 жыл бұрын

They sort of teach this in private school.

@thesabiqoon4178

2 жыл бұрын

Chris you were already a natural at this... I think your score should have been higher but it is etiquette to make ladies feel better so they got higher scores lols.

It's super ironic that the etiquette instructor's last name is Gaché, which means "spoiled" (like food that's gone bad) in French

@bernadetteriohunter6520

Жыл бұрын

XD

@aljor6981

Жыл бұрын

can be a spoiled brat in Philippines as well.. one who expects to have anything he/she wanted.. which most of the time, they get as they wish for real. 😁

@AWlpsSHOW36

Жыл бұрын

Lol! Because she's spoiled.

I love this etiquette thing because it makes my mental health better and makes SO MUCH MORE AWARE

"Manners are designed to put everyone at ease." *literally are a strict formula for every tiniest gesture to adhere to*

@briargray2355

2 жыл бұрын

I do think an important lesson this provides is on mindfulness, because she had a really good point about people often times not respecting others' personal space and it's good to keep in mind habits you have that can be actively intrusive. But the side the bread plate is on? Not drinking first if you're the subject of a toast? Your dress zipper accidentally being a bit down? Your back not being allowed to touch the back of a chair (dafuq is the back of the chair there for, then??). These are things that are only really offensive due to not adhering to an expectation, rather than being any sort of intrusive or aggressive. Imo, if you see someone leaning back in a chair and your first thought is they're uninterested, that says way more about you. I've seen some people who lean back because of disinterest, but have also seen plenty who lean back because they're pensive and processing what they're being told. It doesn't represent disengagement, it represents receptiveness. I think there's a certain point where you're being so self aware that you become self-centered, and are more concerned about your current state than the situation and people around you. It's a balancing act, being mindful of your bearing on a situation but also reserving brainspace for organic communication, observation, and empathy. High-class "manners" like this are too far to one extreme methinks.

@loria287

2 жыл бұрын

That’s why it’s to put everyone at ease I believe. If everyone is on one accord and knows how to properly use certain utensils and how to carry themselves it makes for a real comfortable environment, because you know what to expect. Also eating with people who don’t have table manner makes some feel very uneasy. It’s a matter of perspective.

@briargray2355

2 жыл бұрын

@@loria287 perhaps, but most people I know who have been in these scenarios (mind you, I came from one of those families that did this shit) almost always end up being the one who are emotionally falling apart from the pressure of perfection and keeping up appearances. Not exactly some uncommon phenomena I don't think.

@phs125

2 жыл бұрын

When her dad moved that bowl to the right, everyone did the same to make him feel better. But if he himself had to make others feel better, he would need to never move the bowl. That's how etiquettes work...

@Leofric000

Жыл бұрын

@@briargray2355 that’s because there’s a fine line between having proper etiquette and obsessing over it. Like she said during the dining portion about how the other men switched plates for the sake of Kelsey’s dad. If they obsessed over etiquette they would’ve all looked at him like a moron instead they all went along with what he did because he didn’t know in order to not make him feel like he’s sticking out

Shortly after HS graduation, some friends and I were invited to a Navy Ball by a friend in the military. My grandmother was big into etiquette and dining. So when the table setting was a full setting I was not thrown at all. But everyone, my friends and the military students at my table were lost. My friends knew just to grab whatever utensil I did because I warned them of it. It was amusing because the commander stopped by the table to greet us since we were off base guests and I could see that he was amused that no one at the table would touch anything unless I did it first. 😂

@exp-io853

2 жыл бұрын

I can say thats some flex. Respect too. Great job! I should memorize this too

@thisismyname3328

2 жыл бұрын

Military Dinner - you do not touch your port (after dinner drink) until the highest ranking person/host has toasted to the queen - then you wait for all the other toasts to finish before you can drink casually

@exp-io853

2 жыл бұрын

@@thisismyname3328 i thought that goes for most formal dinners to show some respect

@leapintothewild

2 жыл бұрын

Ditto on our junior-senior trip, which was a cruise with full dinner service every night! I was a band nerd and certainly had friends, but by the second night the cheerleaders wanted to sit at our table. lol

@alysiabernardo8900

Жыл бұрын

@@leapintothewild Mhmm....

Ok this video is great love it love everything about it. @3:49 when he sat with better poster he actually looks tense and doesn't want to be there vs when he sat more relaxed he looked approachable.

I love how you try everything like there’s no limit. You got this girl!!!

Watching Michelle overcoming these crazy challenges over the years has been so amazing to watch

@user-ev8jc7uo1v

2 жыл бұрын

simp

@wilh3lmmusic

2 жыл бұрын

Fake verified

@LEADERCHICKADEE

2 жыл бұрын

Greetings from Edmonton City, Canada. Your Username is literally Fart ;) i chuckled because that is the most un-etiquette concept. imagine farting at a fancy dinner!

@YourMajesty143

2 жыл бұрын

I'm loving that a channel named Fart is interested in learning etiquette 😆

I loved the "do you want your dress zipped all the way in the back" part, such a gentle way of calling someone out like maybe they like it partly unzipped 🤷‍♀️🤣

@marciavox8105

2 жыл бұрын

I mean, you never know if it is a fashion statement 😂

@karenknapp8891

Жыл бұрын

No, you would speak very discreetly to a lady.

@JasmineTea127

Жыл бұрын

The polite thing is to say nothing and not embarass them lol.

@davidmdertu1267

Жыл бұрын

​@chamomile8170 yeah let someone else embarrass them, not our problem right?

@lydiaahubbell8545

5 ай бұрын

@@JasmineTea127Then they will be mortified when they undress at the end of the day and realize how exposed they were snd nobody told them.

I love all etiquette related stuff and finishing schools! I'm happy to hear they are still a thing :) love the elegance, and it's fun too 😄

“queen of england” 4:47 what queen 💀

@suky-annhayer6349

Жыл бұрын

Lol she SAT with good posture

I really needed this video, I have been doing EVERYTHING wrong lol.

@MichelleKhare

2 жыл бұрын

who knew there's a proper way to eat soup 😅 thank u for watching!!

@r.s.j.studios

2 жыл бұрын

pigmi?! Love your videos!

@Primseygirl101

2 жыл бұрын

@@MichelleKhare Michelle I really love your content but notice you often only respond to other verified creators with a large following, would be nice for you to respond to your other viewers when you have time. We love and support you too❤️

@AWlpsSHOW36

2 жыл бұрын

And that's okay! The things here are stupid and not about living.

@abhimanyusagrawal2005

Жыл бұрын

U can get it right, but u gotta focus

Michelle - you've actually highlighted a very interesting aspect of etiquette in your videos and I thank you for it. The 'traditions' of many cultural forms of etiquette are HUGE indicators of class when you are with other people. While it may not matter to some folks whether you bow at the right moment or know which side to start using utensils from, to others it is a very obvious indicator of whether you grew up with wealth. If you don't have it, you either grew up poor and aren't aware of it, are new money and never learned it, or your wealthy family didn't care enough to teach it to you - which are important cues for others that want to know. My mother's family was hyper aware of dining and serving etiquette due to high end restaurant work, but they did not grow up with the money that my father's family did and with that came a whole bunch of different rules of behavior. My grandmother made sure all of her grandchildren were properly instructed on these types of cultural indicators as a matter of maintaining 'class appearances' even though our families no longer lived within that world of wealth. While many etiquette schools will argue that teaching 'basic manners' is just the right thing to do in a polite society (which I respect completely), it nonetheless does function as a class indicator and is fascinating in that respect - speaking as someone who has to chameleon their way through social events occasionally.

@purplestickyrice4

2 жыл бұрын

This!!!!

@iamshraddhakhedkar

2 жыл бұрын

Most important point!

@yothiga

2 жыл бұрын

It’s slightly gate keeping isn’t it?

@AE-ld9ck

2 жыл бұрын

It would be nice to see etiquette as an elective of sorts. I learned through similar circumstances, and I always thought if it was more widely accessible it would be seen as fairly positive. Treating each other as equals, being civil, showing respect for others and oneself, all those things are helpful not only at a business dinner but in general too. Obviously, depending on time and place but still something I think younger generations would be able to give a more inclusive meaning to. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@HattieMcDanielonaMoon

2 жыл бұрын

@@yothiga What is?

Dope story about the businessmen switching plates for her dad. Great tip about b and d. My mom made me study Emily Post and Amy Vanderbilt when I became a teen. So many rules and guidelines to remember. It truly is a lost art, even amongst the upper echelon.

They were like three Musketeers in this & laughing like kids on each, i’ve been taught etiquette and I wouldn’t have laughed at all around such a expert 😊 but i loved how fun you guys had 😁

“Everything was fine until this was WEDDING CHINA” meant everything to me! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Thanks for having me!

@rethinks5054

2 жыл бұрын

I saw that white dress, white shoes👟, white smile and I thought where can I see more, Now I know.

@Ale-bx9xf

Жыл бұрын

Knew it was u

Had fun with this video! My mom taught my sister and me the basics of this stuff when we were very young (late 1950's; Emily Post, anyone?) Pleased to see that it stuck, but I wanted to learn more about the place setting and all those glasses. IIRC, the shape is important as well as position in the arrangement.

Ive been reading a lot of fantasy historical manhwa(romance and more on the reincarnation revenge etc.) and it really inspire me to learn more about etiquettes the this vid shows up well what a great timing ig

My grandmother had to go through finishing school in the early 1910s and put all of us through the training, she made it fun though! It all was a game and I am so grateful that she taught us everything she knew. Her first lesson was to be polite and afford everyone you met the same respect you expected to receive, but take no shit. She was a true lady lol.

@capuchinosofia4771

Жыл бұрын

That sounds fun! May I ask in what way she made the etiquette training seem like a game?

@leolapennington264

Жыл бұрын

@capuchinosofia4771 For poise, my sister and I had to walk to the end of the hall and back with a book on the head and a teacup of water properly held in our hand, she wanted us to glide when we walked, not stomp. Made everything a bit of a competition, but for fun and not prizes or one upping each other.

@misssparkle6421

11 ай бұрын

​@@leolapennington264 soo, did that help? I feel like I walk wrong and have been wanting to try that. I'm good with etiquettes I'll say, eating, talking, dressing etc except for walking. I feel like I'm 'heavy footed' if that's even a word 😅

Thank you so much ! This was a great piece of information which we miss out all the time. And, the instructor was amazing.

I genuinely enjoyed this video and felt that anyone could be entertained and learn from it. Thanks for posting

If Michelle ever stops doing KZread, she can literally do anything ever. She has trained to do every job and is somehow pretty good at everything lol

@brooklynstephens2359

2 жыл бұрын

A real life barbie

The china moment was akin to "Welcome to parenting class. Now hold this. Careful, do not drop it. It contains a real baby".

@DC-gf8nl

2 жыл бұрын

So awkward and unnecessary, can’t fake class.

Its giving: “to be a princess is to know which spoon to use, to be a princess is a thousand pairs of shoes, to retain a regal gait leave the parsley on your plate, stay quiet, detached and yet amused, to be a princess is to never be confused (doo doo doo doo do doo doo doo) do a plié and never fall, dont ever stray from protocol all through the day theres just one way you must behave” if u get that reference, we’re besties now 😌

In the south, we call this Charm School. I attended at 14 and learned to sit, stand, enter and exit a vehicle, which piece of silverware to use when, even how to properly introduce the President to the Queen (the method depends on whether you're American or British!). That, along with a semester of golf in college, put me in good stead when I entered business! Honestly, none of it really matters, but her message is absolutely correct: good manners give you confidence, and they ensure you're paying attention to the comfort of others. Many of us could use Charm School in the past few years!

I love seeing the diverse challenges lately. Having some non-athletic challenges between the physical ones is really cool to see!

Wow, Kelsey's story about her father really changed my perspective about the ettiquete and manner. The fact that they all changed their plates for one person is really great. Still, it must be very embarrassing for him 😆

I love etiquette and I learned something new as well! :D i always like dressing up and feeling fancy so this was very helpful

Hi I just started watching your channel and I have never seen a you tuber doing changes like this you are doing a good job!!

This is so nostalgic for me. My mother had me in ettiquette school for 5 years when I was younger. We even had written exams and everything😭.

@kiaschaos8818

2 жыл бұрын

wtf 💀💀

@sarahhavillamelooliveira5825

2 жыл бұрын

That sounds good, I wanted to have some when I was a teenager but my parents aren't instructed in it. I got in many embarrassing stuff in school (it was a rich kid school - I wasn't one of them despite beeing in the same space -) because they all knew, but I didn't so I mostly looked like an idiot. Sometimes kids almost a decade youger would come and slip tips to me (as young as 4 or 5 years 'cause I have a soft spot for kids and used to help them in their play pretend endeavors and they helped me back in politeness). The tips where things like: there is a proper way to raise a question, to sit, to sneeze and most things. Young kids are very honest in teaching and don't try to embarrass you, older ones not so much.

@kurofan4235

2 жыл бұрын

Wow...five years? Did you have to take notes? Did you have a textbook? I had "lady lessons" at home with my grandmother. I learned a lot from her, but I've always wanted to know more.

@sakuraneko2595

2 жыл бұрын

I would fail being a lefty XD

@AWlpsSHOW36

2 жыл бұрын

You poor thing.

This is the Good Challenge kind of etiquette!!! Keep up you're great challenges Michelle 👍👍👍

This one is amazing! its actually really cool to know where it all comes from and why it is used. so interesting!

This is worth learning. I'd love Ms. Lisa Gaché to do more of such videos. Saw one of her short videos from 8 years back on etiquette (home and family YT channel). Wish I'd learn more from her.

omg, the lady is so likable & relatable, while knowing all the pitfalls one can potentially take. she is joy & mastery combined

This video was not long enough! I love that you invited your friends to join. I love Kelsey too, and you can tell she has experience popping open a bottle of champagne lol. The Princess Diaries is one of my favorite movies, and this reminded me of it so much. Especially the dining portion. The lady who taught the class was so nice even though you messed some things up

i grew up in an insanely etiquette strict home but everyone in my family feared my grandma who used to tie wooden desks to our backs in order to good posture and it’s quite a challenge to dine with her at the same table

I am loving her videos, she is so talented on trying new things.

I learned all of these etiquette rules from my grandma, to the point I do it unconsciously. I do love that they show the 'putting other at ease' and not embarrassing people who don't know! I'm so glad, great episode! :DDDD

“Goodness me, did you chip my china?” 🤣 I love her! 13:22

this video is actually so fun haha Lisa is such a great teacher.

Omg this was a great video. Love your friendship chemistry. Could not stop laughing ❤️

12:55 this is so very true! People not educated in etiquette or manners don't have the self awareness, just that alone can save you. Someone's self-space must always be respected. Because many people are not aware of this, I often have to establish mine because this behavior is not commonly known anymore.

@inspirobotinspiration4360

2 жыл бұрын

They do have the self-awareness, they just don't have unhealthy hyper-awareness.

I remember when I took a Business Etiquette Dinner workshop in college and it was a lot of fun!!! One trick that I taught my brother is when we are eating or finished eating, the way you place your fork and knife in certain positions will signal the servers what you want done to your plate. It is very interesting.

@cutaebear1109

2 жыл бұрын

It is, it's very important how you position your utensils on the plate. It's kind of a silent feedback to the chef and also to the servers, it's easier for them to read your opinion on the entire setting. It's really fun, I have been doing this for years so it's kind of muscle memory to always know what to do

such a nice episode! i really liked this one :)

7:50 This was very refreshing to hear. Yes! The manner and etiquettes exist to put the others in comfort, not to enforce your way onto them.

I had etiquette classes at my English boarding school. They were a lot milder than this but we were still prepared for a formal dinner party.

To me, it's kind of revealing that after being taught all of these strict rules which are supposed to govern our behaviour in every setting, the "grades" that Lisa gave were more-or-less arbitrary.

Oh my god that was so amazing!!! Im so proud of you guys!! Congradulations ❤❤

Every part of etiquette clashes with every aspect of my social anxiety!

I've learned in the US that firm, eye contact, inner thumb touching handshake is good manners, but in other countries it's like giving a cat call.

@mistressofthedark5775

2 жыл бұрын

Well that's just because etiquette it's cultural. Most people learn the one from their country, but if you are someone who travels a lot for work (or anything formal), you'll have to learn basic etiquette from the major cultures. It's just good manners.

I am very grateful that my Danish grandmother taught me all this as a child. Even with little money, we always attached great importance to etiquette. That gave me a sense of security later on, even at the biggest diplomatic events.

I never knew I needed this. I never knew I wanted this. WHY IS THIS SO ADDICTING TO WATCH?!?

you could try learning how to become a dungeons and dragons dungeon master and leading your own game at the end! it’s far more difficult than it seems 😁

@lydiawillow5800

2 жыл бұрын

Yes definitely! Playing the game is complex enough nevermind running one, plus you could reach out to critical roll or dimension 20 for some cool collab time

@garrettkennell

2 жыл бұрын

TRUST ME -- I've been trying to make this happen for YEARS

@antares9792

2 жыл бұрын

@@garrettkennell Time to roll for persuasion again. 😅 Michelle has experienced so many wild things, I bet she could imbue a game session with plenty of wisdom, humor, and insight.

@hafsa_hanafi

2 жыл бұрын

@@garrettkennell OH MY GOSH GARRETT THAT WOULD BE AMAZING!!!!

@ZellieMoogle

2 жыл бұрын

@@garrettkennell What about LARP? Then you could pitch the fitness side of it 😀🤣

I find it astounding that schools like this still exist...

@hiimjai6064

2 жыл бұрын

Celebrities use them!

@AWlpsSHOW36

2 жыл бұрын

Me too.

@basilbat273

2 жыл бұрын

I wanna learn it for that little girl in my heart but I'm not even a girl~

@echoeddra8on

2 жыл бұрын

Etiquette classes are becoming popular with millennial business professionals.

@lilofi825

2 жыл бұрын

@@basilbat273 as an actual little girl let me tell you no little girl needs this. do it for yourself if it makes you happy.

I got the ad with you in this video and I love it 😂😂😂

I really enjoyed this episode and I learnt so much in the process.

Trying to learn how to be in a marching band could be really cool! you’d have to learn to play the Instrument plus how to March properly and memorize drill, it’s a lot harder than it looks and I think it could be a cool video

@sonyaberry9805

2 жыл бұрын

Ha. Yes. She could do a series about "going back to school" and do some school challenges starting with marching band, football, or some kind of team sport & explore so of the challenges teen face.

I used to watch your channel so much. Life has been so hectic and I found it again. I remember being blown away by your courage to try new things when I first watched. I’m so glad to be here again.

That is the cutest story Kelsey and the epitome of true etiquette!

12:05 he just ask is this squid game hahah I was laugh to hard it hurt

I would love to see Michelle try training like a concert pianist. It's quite a regime.

After I heard this on this instagram live I was so excited to see this video! Chris and Kelsey was such a great addition, this was definitely worth the wait!

I am shocked! Thank you for sharing this awesome lesson! 🙌

This is truly a forgotten art. There’s nothing snobby about having proper etiquette and encouraging others to have it too. It’s about having respect for where you are, who you are with, and most importantly who you are yourself. Nobody likes someone who is a slob, or someone who can never decompress every once in a while.

@jupitersworld244

Жыл бұрын

Yeah stop it this is ridiculous

@stellastarfield1111

Жыл бұрын

Or we can stop taking life seriously 24/7/365 and act according to a given situation while still being yourself. There's a time and place for extreme formality.

@Leofric000

Жыл бұрын

@@stellastarfield1111 yep nobody is arguing that don’t know why you replied tbh

When she said it was her wedding china, I suddenly got flashbacks about my mom's own collection and how dead I was going to be if anything happened to it.

Yes!!! Now this is a challenge I would LOVE to do! But, I think the struggle would be REAL! I don’t think I’m very lady like😅

@thetiredworm2100

2 жыл бұрын

Haha same!

I loved finishing school, it did me so good and I use my etiquette to this day. Opened so many business doors for me and made me so much money. People feel comfortable around me and very well respected. In fact, somehow they feel they can trust me too, which I honor of course. I love etiquette. I feel good around people who know how to carry themselves.

I loved this video a lot, I learned a lot, thank you!! 😊

What I love about you and your videos is that you are so sweet, awesome, gorgeous, fun, and so much more. I am almost 15 and you inspire me to grow up with a healthy lifestyle and you obviously show that woman can do pretty much everything. Thank you for inspiring me to be a better and healthy person. I’m so glad I found your channel

I love videos on etiquette & all things upper class! ✨ Thank you Michelle for a very entertaining & informative video 🎀 The best past this I discovered your channel! I can't wait to see more soon! ☺️

Right at the intro, that laugh is so awesome!

I think shes so talented, i love Michelle

This vid is so funny to me but also makes me get what ettiquete is about! The instructor is so easily likable and thats her trained skill! Woah!

I am in love with your videos! you literally motivate me alot with trying new things and trying to achieve things that I have never tried before! thank you so much for taking your time to create these awesome videos. All the love and support from Indonesia

man im glad i didn’t grow up with parents that care about manners. people criticize them but being more free as a child honestly makes the biggest difference as a teen now. i grew up burping loudly at the table, eating with my hands/tortillas, and being hella vulgar at home and it worked out very well for me. obviously i don’t do it in public but i enjoyed my childhood

Lol I am all about dining and manners overall, but, wow I needed this.

The fact that she seems so much more confident in every video . Show how much shes realy growing as a creator and person .i love her videos so much keep up the great work 💕

It'd be cool to go to Racing School, or like Training like a pro drag racer. Something along those lines. There was a little bit of it during the Police Academy, but it'd be cool to see it more indepth. Also with Porshe's first female GT racer in the Middle East there'd be nice tie in to current events.

@tamamshud5879

2 жыл бұрын

Yeeeesss

@CGT80

2 жыл бұрын

She could collaborate with the Cleetus McFarland channel. He has his own speedway and he holds oval stock car races, drift events, as well as burn out competitions and he has set records for drag racing. He could have her running an 8 second quarter mile in one day.

@jsplit9716

2 жыл бұрын

I don't think there's any school for drag racing. It's just holding your car straight and shifting at the right point after all. There's schools for any other kind of racing though.

@CGT80

2 жыл бұрын

@@jsplit9716 I don't know about schools, but there are people who teach and there are different licenses based on how fast you run a quarter mile. No, drag racing isn't just about shifting and holding the car straight. Watching the Cleetus channel, you can see how they have to steer to compensate for what the car does and track conditions. They explain all the issues they run into. Staging can be complex, especially for a higher level car. The burnout is done a certain way and then they roll up to the first beams and set a trans brake and get the engine on a 2 step so the turbos build boost, then hit the bump button on the steering wheel to get into the second beams. Breaking the second set starts the count down of lights. At the end of the track a parachute (sometimes 2) has to be pulled and then gathered up afterward. There are different types of drag races....some have a bracket or goal time such as 8.5 seconds. If you go faster, your time doesn't count, so you want to stay closer than your opponents. Like many topics she covers, it seems simple and can be for a mild car at slow times, but the advanced/pro races are quite complex. There is plenty for her to make a video and even in a one day shoot, there would be more details than the etiquette video. I thought this one was lacking/short compared to her other videos.

@basilbat273

2 жыл бұрын

Wait what kind of racing do you mean? Because she should totally do drag!

I’m learning so much from this

I love the soundtrack! Purcell loved too... and Pride and Prejudice hahaha

I love these challenge accepted episodes! Keep up the good work Michelle!!!!! I also had the idea that you can try becoming a contortionist. There are so many great contortionists out there who I am sure would be willing to help and so many tutorials. I would love to see this and it would make me so happy to see you try this. I also think the contortion is so cool and would such a good challenge for you.

I love how they were actually super nice and sweet and tried not to break anything especially after knowing it was a wedding china ❤️❤️❤️

So funny! Some of us never get to dine like this, so we really need to know!😂

6:00 Well...Let's all act like creepy robots 😂

@DVnc_

2 ай бұрын

I do this(

I do recall some of the dining etiquette from my home economics class my senior year of High School. This just refreshed my memory, thank you!!!!! Great job Michelle!!!!!!

@-HolySpiritDove-

2 жыл бұрын

Just a reminder for all, that the American (high society) way is not the same as the ‘European way’ (which may only be the western European way…). These are different from elsewhere too. Do review before going to whichever location... Take care 😇