I stayed in an abusive marriage for years, could not find the strength to walk out but I finally did

When Carol got into her first marriage, she ignored all the red flags from the word go. She knew she had no business being with that man but the fear of, “what will people say” was so strong that she opted to remain in that marriage for years.,
However, after years of suffering, she left that marriage, started doing inner work, attended therapy and got to know herself more.
Then one day, love presented itself again, but this time she was ready, aware and healed. She said a big yes, and the rest is history
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  • @CarolineMbithiDey
    @CarolineMbithiDey10 ай бұрын

    Thanks Lynn and Your Amazing Team💕 for Providing a Safe Space to Share My Story and i pray it Empowers snd Impacts Others 💕

  • @JulzMuya

    @JulzMuya

    10 ай бұрын

    Hey sis!!❤❤❤ I can't wait to watch this episode my dear. Just logged on after my morning devotion and I strongly belive this story will change lives and give hope to those who want to rebuild and have a second chance at love. Lots of love sis ❤❤❤.

  • @miss60kiss

    @miss60kiss

    10 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing ❤

  • @LynnNgugi

    @LynnNgugi

    10 ай бұрын

    More Grace to you❤❤❤

  • @majamaja8136

    @majamaja8136

    10 ай бұрын

    You are telling a story of many who haven't yet found their voices, thank you.

  • @NancyMwangi-hy2cy

    @NancyMwangi-hy2cy

    10 ай бұрын

    At Carol I just can't enough of your story because it's sounds like paste and copy of my love story. To God be the Glory for another chance. Xoxo to Lynn and you. Love from Delaware 🇺🇸 🌎

  • @jackiewacuka
    @jackiewacuka10 ай бұрын

    I shed a tear when Charles said "...I want to apologize for the Trauma and the pain you've been through. Even though it wasn't done by me, I think it's appropriate for someone to say sorry...". This is truly healing.

  • @omo926

    @omo926

    8 ай бұрын

    Yes, its really an important thing to do , just to bring healing .

  • @winnieawuor9129

    @winnieawuor9129

    8 ай бұрын

    There aren't so many Charles out here.Girl, you are blessed!

  • @lauralaurenwamucii3542

    @lauralaurenwamucii3542

    6 ай бұрын

    This really got me crying 😢 too. Such a loving man, I didn't know they exist

  • @millyadhiambo238
    @millyadhiambo23810 ай бұрын

    Wooow,this lady describes my life with my ex,for like 16yrs ,today am happily marriage more than 15yrs,God is a God of 2nd chance

  • @faithfaith.2945
    @faithfaith.294510 ай бұрын

    The ones that narrate these stories in English are the ones that have really made this channel international

  • @motivator1992.

    @motivator1992.

    10 ай бұрын

    True coz I don't miss any and am Ugandan. All ladies she brings really are so beautiful but passing through alot which anyway makes them stronger 😢😢😢

  • @user-nr7tj6ct1t

    @user-nr7tj6ct1t

    10 ай бұрын

    I am so encouraged that there are men who can love us despite òur past Amen

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for listening to my story i pray that you’re encouraged

  • @matts6894

    @matts6894

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@WILMA_she lives in Tx

  • @genevieveokyere2124

    @genevieveokyere2124

    10 ай бұрын

    So true, I'm in Ghana 🇬🇭. Watch Lynn's shows all the time. God bless you Caroline and Lynn. This is true Ministry.

  • @shirleysmith3954
    @shirleysmith395410 ай бұрын

    I lost everything being in a mental abusive marriage for 43 years and I lost everything during the marriage. It effected my life and my children. I have found an Amazing Loving Nigerian man now for 6 years. We have met challenges because I am African American Black strong woman. I always asked God to send me a Godly man who will love me and be my faithful Hubby. We put God first in everything we do. God’s Grace and mercy has been the anchor for us.🙏🏾🇺🇸

  • @graciahalukoma4517

    @graciahalukoma4517

    10 ай бұрын

    Aawwww… that’s so sweet. More blessings upon y’all 😇

  • @anneanne893

    @anneanne893

    10 ай бұрын

    Wow so good to hear. I was in same situation and pray someone nice comes my way.

  • @orokokemunto4769

    @orokokemunto4769

    10 ай бұрын

    More years of happiness 🎉

  • @EdnaMwende-zf4xf

    @EdnaMwende-zf4xf

    10 ай бұрын

    More blessing ma grea to hear❤

  • @jaquelineokioma840

    @jaquelineokioma840

    10 ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @carolmathenge3
    @carolmathenge310 ай бұрын

    As a domestic violence survivor, I totally relate to Caroline's experiences. It's amazing that we are both Carolines that have survived much and love God. Am glad she gave you your flowers Lynn, because you deserve them and much more. Thank you for Hosting my namesake. And YES LYNN!!! God has just begun His work through You. Thank You Caroline for sharing your story and am also trusting God for a man that loves Him too and can wait untill marriage. Shalom.

  • @myaeve007
    @myaeve0078 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much Lynn for bringing Carol to the show! Her story resonates with so many women ( and men), myself included. We need to share our stories and give each other hope. Leaving a failed marriage does not mean you are a failure, it is the marriage that has failed, a distinct entity from you as an individual. I believe marriages fail because we marry for the wrong reasons e.g. he paid my university fees it means he loves me. Narcissists do that so they can control you. Desperation makes young girls rush into marriage because any act of perceived kindness is seen as love. For those who can afford it, i challenge the women on this platform to identify just one girl to sponsor through school, related or not. That act of genuine kindness will help one girl to have an opportunity to marry when she is ready, not because she needs financial assistance.

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    5 ай бұрын

    @myaeve007 thanks for watching my story 💕 blessings to you

  • @marymuthie5844
    @marymuthie584410 ай бұрын

    Carol yr story is so inspiring...I love the fact that God is in the centre of your relationship. You have encouraged many ladies going thru toxic relationships and those yet to get married to take note of the red flags....thank you for giving Lynn her flowers while she is still alive...🎉🎉she has really healed many lifes. Life lessons learnt:- -everyone has greatness inside of you. -you are not what happens to you. - take time to heal...healed people heal others, hurt people hurt others. Lynn keep up the good work and stretch your tent.

  • @johnmaelfu1360
    @johnmaelfu136010 ай бұрын

    Ladies...men lie to get you in the box..stop being carried away by an illusion 'he loves me'..focus on who he is..at personal level

  • @Lifewithdeniskii75

    @Lifewithdeniskii75

    10 ай бұрын

    💯💯

  • @TaminaTamina-fy8yd

    @TaminaTamina-fy8yd

    10 ай бұрын

    Sure

  • @lilianmunene6622

    @lilianmunene6622

    10 ай бұрын

    Why didn't you say this 8years ago

  • @nyarjagor3497

    @nyarjagor3497

    10 ай бұрын

    I agree 💯

  • @shikuliz4134

    @shikuliz4134

    10 ай бұрын

    💯 percent

  • @imeldamarcos335
    @imeldamarcos33510 ай бұрын

    I've watched this episode and I've seen myself in it all through,from dating the wrong person,to your mum having an itch about the partner,the emotional abuse,healing and finally giving myself a second chance to love. Everything was like she was talking about me. Even though i don't have a ring on my finger yet,im hoping for the best with the person we trying at the moment. May i have an happy ending like Carol and i tap that in Jesus name.

  • @bridgetibrahim4508

    @bridgetibrahim4508

    8 ай бұрын

    Amen 🙏🏽

  • @user-tr4iy2bo6i
    @user-tr4iy2bo6i9 ай бұрын

    I'm 19 with two kids ,the father is a narcissist and, the emotional abuse I have gone through in my relationship with him has caused me suffer from depersonalization, anxiety and depression but currently I'm trying to get my self together at my parents place , don't let anything hinder you from walking out of a toxic relationship or marriage everyone deserves to be happy ❤

  • @Nia-Kenia

    @Nia-Kenia

    9 ай бұрын

    ‘Depersonalisation’! So so true ❤

  • @sharonmicheni2018

    @sharonmicheni2018

    9 ай бұрын

    All the best. All will be well sooner than you think

  • @pastormungaianne2039
    @pastormungaianne203910 ай бұрын

    Lynn, Thanks for hosting Calroline. Having known her since she landed in Boston, and truly, She is a Queen who was meant to shine. Even in those tough days in the 90s, we knew she is coming back. Carol we love you and Mr Dey. Keep on shining

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks Pastor for taking the time to watch my story and all you have done and continue doing for the community in the diaspora

  • @LynnNgugi

    @LynnNgugi

    10 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much Pastor🙏🙏

  • @jeddymoon3803
    @jeddymoon380310 ай бұрын

    Its too sad that "what will people say" keeps so many people in abusive relationships

  • @karenwanjiru5276
    @karenwanjiru52769 ай бұрын

    My mum was a victim too, and her whole struggles with healing has made me want to be graced as a tool for healing for wounded souls. If God opens doors for me to study counselling psychology and therapy, i will serve Him with that career in church as those amazing tools of healing did for Caroline.

  • @katelairene6915
    @katelairene691510 ай бұрын

    Wow! Nice conversation here. There is just so much of us ladies who would or occassionally fall into this trap, " he's been so nice to me, he has sacrificed so much for me" , and then he makes an advancement and truthfully you may not want to consent but the thought of how much he has done blah blah .... you fall in. Yes as she is saying learning to affirm your No is something that every lady can learn and be unapologetic about it. Personal dignity for self matters and doing it for the other is selfish when you are hurting 😢. Thank Lynn and team

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

  • @flohMN1356
    @flohMN135610 ай бұрын

    I can't miss this lesson.. Thank you Lynn for this amazing episode. Myself I know in future when I get to have my own family, am sure what I've learnt from this show will be a lifetime guide.. Blessings to LNN❤❤

  • @Kangostone

    @Kangostone

    4 ай бұрын

    Me too!

  • @floraigokiterah1642
    @floraigokiterah164210 ай бұрын

    How about we start a funds drive for that studio?Why not?

  • @wangui0011
    @wangui00118 ай бұрын

    This particular show was for me!! My Mum met my ex 2 years into the relationship and she said, "he's not the one for you". Regretfully, I stayed for way longer than I should have. I experienced emotional, physical and financial abuse at the hands of this person. To this day i regret staying and losing so much...myself, energy, precious time, my confidence, trust in people. But I'm thankfully i FINALLY got out with my life on 10/14/2022. Hardest thing I ever did. Been through some therapy after getting diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder and Anxiety. Thank you for sharing your story Caroline, and thank heavens God turned it around for you with a wholesome partner. Lynn, you're an amazing talk-show host. Keep on keeping it real

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    8 ай бұрын

    @wangui0011 sending hugs and loads love your greater days are ahead of you

  • @atienoo9704

    @atienoo9704

    5 ай бұрын

    Sending you love mama ❤

  • @thesecretplaceofthemosthig2377
    @thesecretplaceofthemosthig237710 ай бұрын

    Wonderful show Lynn your guest speaks for a lot of women who are suffering in abusive marriages and hoping it will get better but instead gets worse. God bless u Lynn & your crew

  • @catherinemuiruri6098
    @catherinemuiruri609810 ай бұрын

    This is one of the most powerful impact full interviews 👏🏽. The Lord bless you, Caroline, for hearing God and encouraging Lynn so powerfully and timely 🙏🏽

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks Catherine for listening to my story i pray that you’re encouraged

  • @raelgaro7157
    @raelgaro715710 ай бұрын

    This story is exactly like mine.Ladies ..we go through alot when we don't have the right partner.

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

  • @chania80
    @chania8010 ай бұрын

    I love Carols' spirit and indeed its absolutely true, healing is key, otherwise you wont recognize a good person plus you can also repeat patterns. I am so happy for them both. Charles seems gentle and that's what women need. I can relate to her story and the bounce back and peace is everything. I pray all women in abusive situations get the courage and the realization that there is a way out. You can start again. Not easy, but you can!!

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

  • @carolinewanjiru3739
    @carolinewanjiru373910 ай бұрын

    Caroline your story resonates with mine, only that it took me 19yrs of perseverance and covering up to walk out. There's nothing worse than being married to a street angel who's a devil at home.

  • @polinekilengelu9163

    @polinekilengelu9163

    10 ай бұрын

    Hungs…

  • @dotgazelle

    @dotgazelle

    10 ай бұрын

    Wow! You have put up so well. Hugs, love and prayers that you find healing and someone that loves you dearly.

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Hi Caroline thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

  • @carolinewanjiru3739

    @carolinewanjiru3739

    10 ай бұрын

    @@CarolineMbithiDey Amen 🙏

  • @lisak9361

    @lisak9361

    10 ай бұрын

    Sorry you had to go through that. I also stayed for 15 yrs.

  • @joycekimani9812
    @joycekimani98129 ай бұрын

    This lady's composure is so admirable ❤. The way she narrates her story and how consistent she is. The God who loves her did this for her and made her smile😊. What a beautiful story with a happy ending 🎉😊. One day I will tell my story.

  • @annkirethi3812
    @annkirethi381210 ай бұрын

    Relationships at a young age can drive one crazy,glad for the lessons this forum continues to offer to so many generations ❤

  • @nyamburarachel8184
    @nyamburarachel818410 ай бұрын

    I used to ask myself why would a woman leave her matrimonio home just like that? The more I kept growing up and experienced it, I know understand,we can always love again and stay where our love is not limited, trigger,where there's peace to be precise.

  • @murielhampson6643
    @murielhampson664310 ай бұрын

    This episode was so inspiring, I know how that kind of relationship can be, it is very narcissistic and very painful. Thanks to Caroline for sharing her story. I was very moved, we all need to learn to find our selves and stand up for what's right, not just make excuses and allow things to continue down the wrong path.

  • @esthergithogori2930
    @esthergithogori293010 ай бұрын

    Finally. Thank you Lynn for hosting my friend Caroline. She’s such beautiful soul. I thank GOD seeing her and seeing where God took her from. God is good. She’s meant to shine. Thank you Lynn. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯

  • @margaretgithu-hj1il
    @margaretgithu-hj1il10 ай бұрын

    Stayed mine 16yrs now single raising 3kids but i still believe in marriage works n i know one ntapata mr right

  • @polinekilengelu9163

    @polinekilengelu9163

    10 ай бұрын

    You’re not alone me too, I’m the same journey….raising two beautiful girls .God will see us through ❤

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for taking the time to watch I pray Your Boaz will find you and your beautiful children 💕

  • @mamaketotos4414
    @mamaketotos441410 ай бұрын

    Lynn your energy and wisdom matches all the ages from teenagers, thirties, forties and even people who are much older than you may God contribute blessing you for us

  • @loisenjeri7379
    @loisenjeri737910 ай бұрын

    That is my friend and coach! Everytime I listen to your story, I still learn so much. I love how you and Mr. Dey do life together and treat each other. You are such a gift to the hurting. May God continue blessing and enlarging your territory Caroline!!

  • @shikuliz4134
    @shikuliz413410 ай бұрын

    I don't blame anyone who hold on so long on an abuser because of their love bombing trait's . you're always confused but you feel not okay

  • @guidinglightorphansinc.5255

    @guidinglightorphansinc.5255

    10 ай бұрын

    True

  • @faithamaro5134
    @faithamaro513410 ай бұрын

    Caroline, thank you for heeding God's voice and doing this interview! Thank you for embodying so much grace and strength, and vulnerably sharing your story. Although I haven't been married before, you spoke to me on so many fronts. May you continue to be salt and light, and shine your light so bright 💝

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    8 ай бұрын

    @faithmaro5134 dis💕 you’re welcome its my moral obligation to share and testify and empower others blessings to you

  • @elijahm1717
    @elijahm171710 ай бұрын

    May she find complete healing. She gave too much to be with her ex, including ignoring her values, her parents, the red flags. They moved in without setting healthy boundaries/standards. It was bound to fail from the word go. Love with your eyes open ladies. Again, this is the reason enjoying the fruits before the tree matures leaves you with a bitter taste

  • @lennahombiro3577
    @lennahombiro357710 ай бұрын

    Thanks Caroline and Lynn for sharing this. Counseling and healing time is important.

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for listening to my story i pray you’re encouraged

  • @priscachika6797

    @priscachika6797

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@CarolineMbithiDeythe same story with me but for 18yrs before I pull off 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @HRL.
    @HRL.10 ай бұрын

    God bless her for all she's telling you directly about God's messages to you. On a personal note, I think it's time to reach out and host other communities outside the Kenyan community. Spread your outreach, Lynn. God bless you and your team.

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

  • @HRL.

    @HRL.

    10 ай бұрын

    @@CarolineMbithiDey You're most welcome 🙏 and your hubby as well.

  • @carolinekiai2631
    @carolinekiai263110 ай бұрын

    The rebuilding series has had a huge impact on my life as a woman and a mother. Thank you, Lynn. God bless you. People are healing and rebuilding their lives from hurt, pain, deceit, revenge .....etc....to finding themselves and being better.

  • @anttoinetteselynemakokha7413
    @anttoinetteselynemakokha74139 ай бұрын

    This lady is amazing. For the first time in LNN I had pen and paper, wrote some beautiful notes.

  • @janeg7109
    @janeg710910 ай бұрын

    Thanks Carol for pouring out I remember when I met you, you’re young beautiful girl who loved God with beautiful voice. God gave you Dey with a purpose. I attended your 2nd wedding which was very colorful and I knew you are healed. ❤❤continue serving God.

  • @muthonim2905
    @muthonim290510 ай бұрын

    I am so happy Caroline has said this. Lynn is Lynn. Our Lynn. Herself!! Unique!! Like no other. Let’s stop comparing her. She is joining the realm of global change makers. Bringing her own unique and authentic light! Just…Our Lynn! She is enough!!

  • @LynnNgugi

    @LynnNgugi

    10 ай бұрын

    Thank you❤❤❤🙏🙏

  • @judahwillgofirst7964

    @judahwillgofirst7964

    10 ай бұрын

    We want our Lynn,to sit with akina Oprah,but our girl,will tell the world,you can make it and still be God-fearing.

  • @furries.v
    @furries.v9 ай бұрын

    I came to the US as an 8 year old from Taita taveta. Saa hizi niko 23 year old and i envy this gal's accent. Anipe siri niongee kama yeye. Lynn you came to the US na huwezi come to WA State. Ningekutreat at least na Ice cream gal. Next time please come to Seattle I will host you in my house.

  • @rachaelakello3040
    @rachaelakello304010 ай бұрын

    Thanks Carol for allowing God to use you as a channel of strength and encouragement to Lynn. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @GRACE-pg1mw
    @GRACE-pg1mw10 ай бұрын

    I know Carol personally, she’s a brilliant awesome human being, didn’t even know of her trauma. Thanks for not letting your past overwhelm you 💕💕

  • @AdventinaAnthony
    @AdventinaAnthony10 ай бұрын

    Another day to remind myself to never ignore red flags 🙏

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    God’s got you always and yes always pay attention to the red flags

  • @carolinewanjiku6610

    @carolinewanjiku6610

    10 ай бұрын

    Everyone sees the red flags but I think the pleasure to settle down or keep the marriage as they all say, and comparing oneself to fit in groups.

  • @sabin7327

    @sabin7327

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@CarolineMbithiDey I worked with Charles in the past. He's an amazing soul. Am glad you two found each other. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @Kakwasi

    @Kakwasi

    10 ай бұрын

    N to never ever think of 400 people who are coming to the wedding

  • @marywanjiku9406
    @marywanjiku940610 ай бұрын

    Am watching this crying,I can relate to her story I went through this for 9 year and I thank God I came out of it

  • @rebeccamakenzi9019
    @rebeccamakenzi901910 ай бұрын

    Turning point..... I have done.....the decision point thus turns self slavery into freedom... Quit and go.. Move on... He will change.. Is the Big sickness women are fighting.. God have mercy upon us.. We need God's grace to reign to excel into laughter zones.. Relax into good hands..Lynn you're chosen Queen... Continue being humble. Good goodness is running over you. Amen God bless All. It's a powerful testimony. Be blessed caro

  • @carolineowiti7996
    @carolineowiti799610 ай бұрын

    I was so tired and didnt know i will watch it all. Thank you Lynn and Caroline. I have learned so much. Thank you Caroline for affirming the words to Lynn. Her platform has so much. Its a unique platform, just one of a kind. Its a HUGE BLESSING

  • @dorothyanyango2197

    @dorothyanyango2197

    10 ай бұрын

    Me too, but I'm glad I finished watching the whole show 😊

  • @ninah1628
    @ninah162810 ай бұрын

    Carol's journey of life is a beautiful story.

  • @collettumbo8972
    @collettumbo897210 ай бұрын

    such a powerful and strong message. lynn and your team may the prophecy be fulfilled in Jesus mighty name.

  • @nirvaborgelin5056
    @nirvaborgelin505610 ай бұрын

    Hi Lynn I love your show and love her story today. It’s look like my story 35 years ago, but I broke up my engagement six weeks before the wedding. Good God’s Grace save me. Six years later, God’s blessed me with a wonderful man of God. Now we have four amazing children together. God blessings are with you Lynn and your team.❤

  • @martharinebiseko1457
    @martharinebiseko145710 ай бұрын

    I agree that every guest brings along life lessons

  • @marumbusophie7839
    @marumbusophie78399 ай бұрын

    Pure spirit that cannot be corrupted Lynn,this is great! Next level we are coming...as lynn says, we respect the giver of the gift not the gift itself...purpose,healing and work merged together!

  • @user-ik4ut4ss1l
    @user-ik4ut4ss1l9 ай бұрын

    This is very inspiring. Lynn, God continues to bless you for your good work. this has really uncovered what am going through in my toxic marriage. it has offered me comfort and the strength to move and concentrate on my healing. God bless you and your team.

  • @mmapekwanalamola8377
    @mmapekwanalamola837710 ай бұрын

    I always love seeing love projected.I shed a tear,I cried observing such tons of love showered on Lynn today by Carol.Lynn you stole my words'I love,love'.May God continue to bless you,Lynn you deserve it precious soul...All the way from South Africa

  • @nancykibe8559
    @nancykibe855910 ай бұрын

    Hi Lynn.What an Amazing Show!! There are So Many Carolines out there looking for Healing and Encouragement to leave Abusive Relationships & Marriages! Well done Caroline for listening to that Voice Within You saying....This is Not Right. And getting the Therapy that helped you & Ofcourse God was in that Mix.All the Best Caroline in your 12 year Marriage & as for Lynn....You're Simply the Best & looking Good in that Black Outfit🎉 🎉🎉

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

  • @raisingremarkableteenagers
    @raisingremarkableteenagers10 ай бұрын

    Wow Carol thanks for sharing- I was feeling like you’re telling my story 😢) - that’s a common line with abusers ( no one will love you like I do… you’ll not find anyone) 🎉kudos to you - and look what the Lord has done ❤after you’ve let go of what’s not good for you

  • @goodmusic1802
    @goodmusic180210 ай бұрын

    Some people mistake when we say we like to be chased as women. The chase means when I say yes, keep dating me and being a gentleman. When I say no, it means I don’t want you and I don’t want you to try.

  • @abby-oj3md

    @abby-oj3md

    10 ай бұрын

    Narcissist never take no for am answer. Note, that's a red flag. Because they don't respect boundaries.

  • @prosistalaswai1901

    @prosistalaswai1901

    10 ай бұрын

  • @ichooseviolence2532

    @ichooseviolence2532

    10 ай бұрын

    Buy a Dildo and leave men alone

  • @wanjiruwambui1
    @wanjiruwambui110 ай бұрын

    Carol!!! Glad you shared it on this platform💕

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

  • @judynyokabi8502
    @judynyokabi85029 ай бұрын

    God can collapse timeframes on your behalf! Wow! Such a gracious show. Lynn, you truly are designed for even greater things!🤩

  • @shalomministries_ojwigaros1916
    @shalomministries_ojwigaros19165 ай бұрын

    Indeed Ms. Lynne you are exceptional. 🎉❤ you give healing and comfort to many broken soul out there (women) iam one of those.

  • @xxxdidthatsmall7815
    @xxxdidthatsmall781510 ай бұрын

    We learn a lot throughout this platform. God bless you Lynne. Also try to get some people who are going through something but they don't see there in citation so they don't have to hit the wall.

  • @praxidiceokello5207
    @praxidiceokello520710 ай бұрын

    Lynn you are amazing, you always bring us the best experiences, let's learn from those experiences, people go through alot but keep to themselves am happy many have decided to open up. God bless your work and expand your territories

  • @depest_eugie810
    @depest_eugie81010 ай бұрын

    Be blessed Lynn,you have a pure heart...I'm motivated from Caroline's story wish her well

  • @user-oy4wf6hn4m
    @user-oy4wf6hn4m9 ай бұрын

    Watching from Zimbabwe. I love watching your shows Lynn. You are so amazing I like the way you interview your guests. You don’t interject you give them time to flow with their stories. Keep up the good job 👏🏽

  • @sarahwangare9247
    @sarahwangare924710 ай бұрын

    This one is life changing for me,God has used you Caro to shift my paradigm. Thanks Lynn

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Sarah thanks for listening to my story i pray you’re encouraged

  • @reginahenry513
    @reginahenry51310 ай бұрын

    LNN ,this is me ,this is my life story ooh I thank God for He rescued me and my 3 beautiful daughters. I can say am healed and still healing. One day I will share the story of my life . Sharing helps many many others

  • @roseemwanjama4042
    @roseemwanjama404210 ай бұрын

    Love you, Lynn. Love your show. Caro, I am inspired. Won't allow abuse.

  • @teresawayesu1340
    @teresawayesu134010 ай бұрын

    Thank you carol.for sharing your journey. May God bless our pastor Greg whatever he is.

  • @ReneeMurunga
    @ReneeMurunga10 ай бұрын

    My cousin... God bless you. You are a brave woman and a great inspiration.

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks cousin for listening blessings to you

  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi10 ай бұрын

    Good morning team LNN, What is your take-home from today's conversation with Carol? You can connect with her on Facebook: Caroline Mbithi Dey Stay tuned for our episode with her husband tomorrow at 10am! Our episode is proudly powered by TapTap Send! Tell your loved ones abroad to download the TapTap send app on either Play Store or App Store and use the code LYNN to get $20/£15/€15 and AED 50 bonus on your first transaction where the amount is $50/£50/€50 or more! TapTap Send has convenient, safe and fast transactions! To share your story on Rebuilding, send a brief summary to our emails Info@Lnn.digital or Lynn.ngugi@Lnn.digital Thank you so much for watching

  • @sheilahendrich6995

    @sheilahendrich6995

    10 ай бұрын

    Wow!! I know Carol ,thank you Lynn to bring her here 🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @GraceWanjakaranja

    @GraceWanjakaranja

    10 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing such an amazing story. I dated one such guy for 7years .... broke the engagement and I have never been happier. I didn't even know what he was doing was gaslighting, even when I knew I knew, I never left.

  • @marykaluki1945

    @marykaluki1945

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks Lynn for sharing such a great story.This relates to what am going through today and funny enough I can't move out.i don't have the courage to do it.i have no one to talk to...no one really will understand. 😢😢it's my prayer God that you rebuild my foundation like you did to Carol

  • @carolkami.671

    @carolkami.671

    10 ай бұрын

    @@marykaluki1945 please dear I pray that you heal. Real courage is when you're afraid but still manage to face your fears anyway..I did it only last year and I believe you too can do it.. coincidentally my name is Caroline!!🤩

  • @carolkami.671

    @carolkami.671

    10 ай бұрын

    @Lynn, I perfectly know this is not a mere coincidence but a sneak peak into my future.. It's not a coincidence that my name too is Caroline and early this year I sat down with you narrating of my story which is eerily similar to this!! I too testify of the power in therapy/counseling, which you so graciously offered me.. even though my story wasn't aired, a breakthrough followed soon after my encounter with you. I'm currently still pursuing total healing, re-discovery and personal development. Yes indeed Lynn yours is purpose, work and ministry 🙏 keep it up!!

  • @mith5271
    @mith52719 ай бұрын

    Awesome word healing purpose, and work..Glory to God!!! Thank you ladies for doing the work. I am so excited about doing my work.Lynn that dress is beautiful. Thank you God for healing !!

  • @wilkistermakani1593
    @wilkistermakani159310 ай бұрын

    The story is exactly what I have gone through, am rebuilding myself right now thou I don't know how to do it but I believe God has got my hand, I even threw the ring. Caroline you have spoken to my heart, let me have the courage perhaps one day I will also have a beautiful ending, even though the trauma is too much😢😢😢😢

  • @lulu-xt5gs
    @lulu-xt5gs10 ай бұрын

    I listened,i cried ,laughed and learnt.Thank you.

  • @agnesnjeri8402
    @agnesnjeri840210 ай бұрын

    I agree with the fact that Afro looks good on you, it's our signature 😅😅 you're looking beautiful as usual 🥰🥰

  • @jmb3699
    @jmb369910 ай бұрын

    Lynn I love this interview and Caroline. She is a gift to life.

  • @celineachieng4963
    @celineachieng496310 ай бұрын

    I love how Lynn loves love without envy..God will give her the Best Love ❤️. Am touched by him apologising to his wife for the previous wounds..may God give the wounded women such comforters.

  • @khadee8129
    @khadee812910 ай бұрын

    You can see how these sorts of shows excite Lynn. I enjoy the way she laughs when the story gets on her. Love you Lynn. I watch this show even though I am not from that part of the African continent. A great show!

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for taking the time to watch the show blessings to you

  • @daisychemutai9967

    @daisychemutai9967

    10 ай бұрын

    Caro..you have inspired me. I'm on my way to healing being in an abusive marriage for many years more than you. Girl, you are destined for greatness. I love you so much Caro. You have an amazing empath's heart

  • @ekudamekimombasa461
    @ekudamekimombasa46110 ай бұрын

    LNN is going to be one of greatest channels in world Lynn kip trusting God and don't allow pride to kill your future. JUST Continue being humble Before God and my sister sky will be the limit.

  • @LynnNgugi

    @LynnNgugi

    10 ай бұрын

    Thank you❤❤❤

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Amen 💕

  • @irenenyaboke1401
    @irenenyaboke14018 ай бұрын

    Thank you Lyn for the rebuilding series. Learning alot. Truly we shouldn't allow what we have gone through to define us❤

  • @Nyakallo_203
    @Nyakallo_20310 ай бұрын

    Your channel is a life changer Lynn, thank you for such a wonderful interview with an incredible woman. More growth, expansion....mega love ❤ 😍 💖 ❣ South Africa 🎉

  • @veronicakanga7204
    @veronicakanga720410 ай бұрын

    Carol Mbithi Dey thank you for being vulnerable enough to pour out your heart. Well articulated, you hv encouraged many. Great job Lynn.

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks Veronica for taking the time to watch my story blessings to you

  • @johealingtouch6683
    @johealingtouch668310 ай бұрын

    Beautiful... walking away is always the best decision...to stay and suffer is absolute cowardice!!! May the path ahead be prosperous. @Lynn you should organize an online meetup for singles men and women who ready for marriage, who have gone through self work and healing. " Heal so that you don't breed on those who didn't hurt you "

  • @angelinemuriuki7384

    @angelinemuriuki7384

    10 ай бұрын

    Victims of abuse stay in abusive relationships because of the emotional damage that's inflicted through emotional & at times physical abuse - it's nothing to do with cowardice. When you are not in the right state of mind it's very difficult to make rational decisions. It's important to empathize with victims & survivors of any form of abuse.

  • @Kerrry-34

    @Kerrry-34

    8 ай бұрын

    Do not be harsh in your judgement. Just thank God that you have never been in such a Situation.

  • @winnetmadziwa7076
    @winnetmadziwa707610 ай бұрын

    Too much inspirational thanks for your shows Lynn ❤ and to Carol May the God of mercies richly bless your marriage lovely couple indeed

  • @jeniffermutisya6147
    @jeniffermutisya61478 ай бұрын

    This is so timely. I'm glad to have watched and listened today.

  • @joyajuogaosano3507
    @joyajuogaosano350710 ай бұрын

    This story resonates with me. I am also a testimony of what can do if you turn your life to Him and let Him lead. From Kenya to The US and changing my life. God is Great.

  • @janemathenge2820

    @janemathenge2820

    10 ай бұрын

    I tap to your blessings .may he lead my life as well

  • @veronicahnakitto1808
    @veronicahnakitto180810 ай бұрын

    Yes, very very true, I have similar experiences with her, isolation from your loved ones, physical, emotional, verbal, psychological, sexual, financial, social abuse... I really faced it, thanks Lynn for the show, ts me Veronicah from Uganda, I am your great follower n I refer alot of people to your content darling❤

  • @winniewambui4277
    @winniewambui427710 ай бұрын

    This story is everything...Lynn God bless you...I relate to everything they are...I am even more hopeful!!!!it's how he looks at her for me!!!!

  • @user-fr7fp8dk6j
    @user-fr7fp8dk6j8 ай бұрын

    Purpose healing & work...Much love @ Lnn ❤️❤️... I'm not what happened to me! we are healing slowly by slowly Thank You.

  • @IANA2030
    @IANA203010 ай бұрын

    I just left unapologetically very peaceful and happier now❤❤❤

  • @johnmaelfu1360
    @johnmaelfu136010 ай бұрын

    unfortunately, if you tell someone they are being used..they will think you are jealous..you want to snatch their people

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for listening to my story and life lessons blessings to you

  • @ruthnyokabi4096
    @ruthnyokabi409610 ай бұрын

    So encouraging,,,,,,,,,yes healing is a process and I believe one day I will heal completely and get another chance of love in my life 🙏🙏🙏 .

  • @user-ty6wr6dr4h
    @user-ty6wr6dr4h9 ай бұрын

    This lady is prophetic… Lyn, you better write down this and more such like

  • @lynnmems2076
    @lynnmems207610 ай бұрын

    Asking God for His guidance before all undertakings is the best way to handle life's issues.

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    💯 correct thanks for taking the time to watch my story

  • @melphonejoan6410
    @melphonejoan641010 ай бұрын

    True when you are in abusive relationship never tell your abuser guy your leaving because that will now be the beginning of tough life

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for watching my story and you’re absolutely 💯 correct

  • @bilhahnjeri6427
    @bilhahnjeri642710 ай бұрын

    Carol has a lovable spirit she makes us believe that we can give love another chance thnx for the encouragement

  • @mariabaemedi3326
    @mariabaemedi33269 ай бұрын

    Totally agree to what that lady said about Lynn's show, she's such an inspiration every time I watch her shows I am like my God elevate her to greater heights.

  • @jackienjunge5134
    @jackienjunge513410 ай бұрын

    Thanks Lynn for hosting my friend Caroline Dey. What a blessing and great testimony.

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks Jackie for taking the time to listen to my story

  • @jackienjunge5134

    @jackienjunge5134

    10 ай бұрын

    @@CarolineMbithiDey you are welcome and keep the fire burning. Enjoy your holidays.

  • @mbojemaina
    @mbojemaina10 ай бұрын

    With determination and a good therapist you can always come out of the pit and thrive again. God bless Caroline and her God ordained husband.

  • @carolkami.671

    @carolkami.671

    10 ай бұрын

    This is true,I'm currently practicing it and already feeling great from the inside!

  • @CarolineMbithiDey

    @CarolineMbithiDey

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

  • @justinaopit8089
    @justinaopit808910 ай бұрын

    That was a good message to you Lynn. Carol, thanks for Obeying God to bless Lynn. Surely, healed people Heal

  • @nabbosabeldine8885
    @nabbosabeldine88858 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing the painful story 😭😭😭. We praise God for not giving up on us .. . Thanks for sharing be blessed always. . be blessed always 🙏🏾 thx

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