The title brought me here

@brandonhohwald1152

20 күн бұрын

i as of 1007 saw the spotify release, saw the title and decided i needed to see it rather than just hear it😂😂😂

@chrisivan_yt

20 күн бұрын

Never clicked so fast 😂😂

@tommydaniels1805

20 күн бұрын

Dirty birdie

@offtime915

19 күн бұрын

The calls will make you stay The shows will make you a fan

@paulsomething8

19 күн бұрын

Vape for peggin... the literal carrot and stick method right there.

This channel has showed me how weird people really are.

@torin8871

20 күн бұрын

How intersting people are*

@NexusGamingRadical

19 күн бұрын

@@torin8871 How interestingly weird people are**

@Zagar099

19 күн бұрын

Tbh if you don't enjoy the gentle caress of a tongue on your chocolate starfish, you aren't living life. Let alone being pegged.

Deep down I want to live in a universe where everyone is as weird as the callers on this channel, man.

@lukasskisland

20 күн бұрын

Congratulations you win!!🥇

@Ayla_Evanscence

19 күн бұрын

The truth is everyone is as weird as the callers. Everyone has something in their lives that is strange and hidden. These are the few who talk about it and get it off their chest 😂

@SidVicious47

16 күн бұрын

Right all the callers have some obscure story and it’s fascinating

@X862go

8 күн бұрын

You do

Hello I am Gabe the one who called in about talking to people. Thanks for the advice geck and thanks to the community offering advice as well I will be doing my best to keep these thoughts in mind as I try to get over my fear of people. I was super nervous on the phone as I’m sure y’all could tell so I couldn’t share my appreciation on the phone thanks for taking the time to talk to me geck ❤❤

@GoldenVulpes

17 күн бұрын

Your question really resonated with me Gabe. It's like my mind goes completely blank when I talk to people

@rooryan

5 күн бұрын

Gabe, you’re so brave for sharing your struggles with us. And geck’s advice for you was incredible. Remember what that person finds interesting, get them talking, genuinely empathize with them, that’s 95% of the work. If you can do that people will feel like they got something out of talking to you, the most important thing of all: the feeling of being heard.

"Is this the gicko"

@anti_MATT_er

19 күн бұрын

that sounds australian

@blakkauldronmusic5280

19 күн бұрын

@@anti_MATT_er "oi m8s' ima try ta touch the creature with me hand."

The play is literally called Gas Light, by the way

Kabu is totally an alcoholic. If she reads this, I hope you know that it's not meant to be taken as an offense, it's something that you need to know to help you. Japan is hardly the only place in the world that sells alcohol in 7/11, most states in the US allow for this too. The ease of accessing alcohol to others does not mean that everyone who lives in these places are more inclined to drink all of the time. People are inclined to drink all of the time if they have a problem with managing themselves with it, it's as simple as that.

As somebody who quit heroin and meth 9 years ago, cigarettes 10 years ago, and vaping 11 years ago... No. Vaping is not in the top 5 hardest things to quit. Not even close.

@BureauATF

19 күн бұрын

Oh, and bro is a simpy little soiboi.

@user-kh3jj4rx2v

8 күн бұрын

vaping is nicotine and nicotine is one of the hardest substances to quit.

@BureauATF

8 күн бұрын

@@user-kh3jj4rx2v No, it's not. It's only hard to quit because you can find it on any corner. That's the ONLY reason. It is absolutely not in the top 5, and probably the top 10 hardest substances to quit.

She sounds like she wears white t with open flower shirt with backwards cap 😅

@briangarcia8384

19 күн бұрын

Can't forget the eyebrow/lip ring.

"what do you mean you only have 7 shirts?... 7 shirts is a lot of shirts, that's 1 shirt for every day of the week.."

I mean, that’s kinda hot! Motivation is a huge inspiration to quit something.

@puyopop3085

20 күн бұрын

I'd quit vaping if my GF told me I had a 3 month countdown until she pegs me. I would just prefer the opposite outcome from this fellow.

Ngl good for her the first girl

When trying to talk to or meet people you just gotta put yourself out there. It's always hard but the more you give it a go the better you get and the less the rejection hurt. Don't delude yourself too. There will be rejections and things you won't understand. A lot of the time it might not even be a you thing and that's okay too. Try find a hobby, a side job in a social environment, even one day/night a week. A lot of the time it is a numbers game too. The more you let rejection get to you the less you try. It becomes a self fulfilling prophecy too. You're young. Get out there and pretend to be invincible for a night.

Caller: "I'm really bad at talking to people..." 🐸 ... ...

The term “gaslighting” comes from the 1938 play Angel Street, which was later adapted into the film Gaslight, in which a man tries to convince his wife that she is going insane so he can steal from her. When he turns on the lights in the attic to search for her jewelry collection, and the gas lights dim downstairs, he tells her it’s all in her imagination. Gradually she begins to question her own memories and perceptions.

She tried to explain gaslight and she was still wrong about the origin story from where it was derived , like girl...

Really solid advice from you on the third call.

keep making these vids please lyle

Top 5 addictions 😂

@ktmmechanicsandaudio6803

19 күн бұрын

lol well nicotine is def like high high up lol ppl have a better time quitting heroin u ever smoke? or u just think vapes are candy yum yum flavored smoke lmfao

@luman1109

19 күн бұрын

​@@ktmmechanicsandaudio6803 we have some super potent highly addictive compounds nowadays. Pyrovalerones, Cathinones, Nitazines, Fent, Synth-Noids. These are the top 5 (in no order) if you ask me. Quitting smoking is hard because it's socially acceptable so the temptation is always around the corner.

43:50 - the type of thing that keeps me coming back to this podcast. Great life advice from Lyle

Geck’s advice for holding conversations was solid gold. Step 1: figure out a way to remember what the other person finds interesting, meaningful, or important. Step 2: Get them talking about it, smile and nod to show that you’re interested. Step 3: This is the hardest bit, because you can’t logic your way out of it. As you listen to what they have to say, try to empathize with them. Genuinely feel the same way they do about the subject. Feel the same love, hatred, joy, etc. that they feel in their heart. Step 4: Give your genuine reaction to what they’re saying. Share your thoughts and feelings about what they’re saying. Look for new ways get them to say more (see step 1). That’s what I learned today. Easier said than done, at least until you practice enough to get it right.

You really need to watch king of the hill. That's all.

I have never related more to someone than the caller who has a hard time talking to someone. Like I swear to god my brain just freezes in the cold space of time when I begin to speak to a coworker or a stranger

@rooryan

5 күн бұрын

100% and Geck’s advice was gold. Step 1: figure out a way to remember what the other person finds interesting, meaningful, or important. Step 2: Get them talking about it, smile and nod to show that you’re interested. Step 3: This is the hardest bit, because you can’t logic your way out of it. As you listen to what they have to say, try to empathize with them. Genuinely feel the same way they do about the subject. Feel the same love, hatred, joy, etc. that they feel in their heart. Step 4: Give your genuine reaction to what they’re saying. Share your thoughts and feelings about what they’re saying. Look for new ways get them to say more (see step 1). That’s what I learned today. Easier said than done, at least until you practice enough to get it right.

“Nothings been up there, how could I say no”

Thank you for uploading this episode and may the God of Gecko’s 🦎 always protect you at all times. A big hug from Puerto Rico 🇵🇷

Damn dare I say I'm right on time

Really wise advice this ep Lyle, it helped me tons

VALID

This is a Real relationship guys ❤

Please come back to Milwaukee, I missed you ):

Genius

girl, yolo. if you dont have any pets, move to Japan! but be aware that I have heard it is difficult for non-Japanese residents to get housing or jobs.

28:55 "They have great 7 elevens over there too"

@gaslight_gatekeep_girlboss3732

19 күн бұрын

She's not wrong but FamilyMart is better

To Turnip: Way to go! Good luck with your great adventure! I would also try to follow Geck's advice to test the waters somehow. Maybe you find ways to "prototype" a future in Japan? Maybe an internship or a stay there on a small saved up budget for some longer time before making too huge commitments? This may also help soften the blow of culture shock once you do decide to make the "big move"... Do you have contacts to people from Japan, that are now living in the US? Maybe that would be a great way to make your plan become more real - less through online contacts? Anyways: I wish you and your boyfriend all the best! I disagree slightly with the Geck: I think the boyfriend is a very nice reason to move... of course he shouldn't be the only reason, but I think love is still an amazing, positive force to be driven by and to gain the necessary momentum to dare such a big adventure!

You 100 percent do not need a teaching degree to teach English in Japan.

If only Frued could hear this.

“Byeee! :D”

8 hours of drinking??? Holy moley.

@DasGoodSoup

11 күн бұрын

Thats just the average work day

Smoke ass and eat grass is fucking gold

Ready for Texas 🎉

wish this was her avid vaper no plans to peg anytime soon :( thank you geck for sharing these experiences

lol hen pecking

Honestly, it should be a lot easier to travel to and immigrate to other countries. It was different 40 years ago, but now we're globally connected via the internet, and our antiquated, 18th century notion of national borders needs to catch up.

Ngl good for her

Missouri has alcohol at the 7 11. I'm sure other states do to

43:10 internal RPG

I tank 100 solo eps for the 1 doja cat or dominic fike ep

Moving to Japan for long distance boyfriend with no job prospects was screaming lover boy scam.

@okiemax

19 күн бұрын

Hella

3:23 Who tf didnt tell you that!!???

No

There are maybe 7 women like this.

@fauxsuede.

20 күн бұрын

There are maybe 7 men like this.

@theravenousrabbit3671

20 күн бұрын

There are WAAAAAY more women who having pegging fantasies, dude. It originates from watching guy on guy porn, by the way and as a bisexual, this is a plague when looking for a GF.

@lilnutt1938

20 күн бұрын

7 couples

@ryv2484

20 күн бұрын

Wait you mean to tell me people are unique and don’t all fit into neat little boxes?! 😨

@seanconklin5707

20 күн бұрын

I have this

1:01:40 - 🤣🤣🤣

I don't believe no one had been in there before.

GECK

Neck Beard Degeneracy 😂😂😂

A hole filled life is a great oxymoron

Shinji

Where do you find a woman like that?

Listen i have no quarrel with what 2 people do behind closed doors. Doesnt affect me in the slightest so have at it...... But WTF?!?!?!

Vaping is dangerous. Scientifically proven, comparable to smoking. Different, not less. Can even kill you quicker Don't be stupid and either never do it or start the process of quitting. I know it's hard by the way, was a smoker for years. Failed quitting many times. Until I succeeded. Been off for years now. Absolutely worth it

@puyopop3085

20 күн бұрын

You have any sources to that?

@brunodangelo1146

19 күн бұрын

@@puyopop3085 yt keeps deleting my replies. Look for sources, they are there.

@medlink1

19 күн бұрын

Just like smoking, what and how matters. Vaping a garbage, cheap distillate with Vitamin E? Good way to die. Vaping raw weed(not oil based, just ground flower) on a low temp in a proper vaporizer? Nope, you'd be wrong, worlds apart. Also, nice source. And if the come back is "just google it/look it up yourself", you clearly don't care enough to be taken seriously, especially when nearly every study in existence nowadays has a significant financial interest backing it that wants a specific result more than a proper study.

@parafraceren

19 күн бұрын

@@puyopop3085I cannot really back his claims that it’s scientifically proven to be like smoking and able to kill you quicker. It is however not only self evident but also proven (Bracken-Clarke et al 2021, Vaping and lung cancer-A review of current data and recommendations) that vaping fluids contain oncogens and therefore can cause (lung)cancer and negatively impact respiratory health (Jonas 2022, Impact of vaping on respiratory health) and these are just results after a few years. We are just now finding new ways vaping is causing damage in different ways than regular smoking, so the claims some well known carcinogens are not present in vapour should be for overall health purposes be placed in a context of unknown other toxins if taken to conclude anything at all (Nayeri & Middlekauff 2021, Vaping Instead of Cigarette Smoking: A Panacea or Just Another Form of Cardiovascular Risk?)

@parafraceren

19 күн бұрын

@@puyopop3085and of course there have been cases of lethal lung disease, which could be an entirely different way vapes can not only kill you but do so in a more sudden fashion, which might be what the original commenter was referring to (Mado et al 2021, The vaping product use associated lung injury: is this a new pulmonary disease entity?)

Ayooooooooooooooo!

hi gaybe

Bruh wtf

First 10mins in & I’m saying wtf

WHATTTT

Being perma-banned from Reddit because everyone is dumb is the most Reddit mod thing I've ever heard

@illsmackudown

19 күн бұрын

fuck reddit, dude

First girl sounds like she might have adhd and the second that he has autism. The way autistic people like to start and continue conversations are like starting to talk about hobbies and interests and not on small talk that's mundane and "boring to us" eye contact and social cues are difficult, as well as memory issues, getting distracted because you trying to maintain eye contact so much that you are not then paying attention to what the person your talking to is saying etc, this going for overthinking about how your posture look, your facial expressions, you speak patterns and the list goes on, if your in a group setting its worse.

@sarahmiller6265

19 күн бұрын

Are u a psychiatrist?

@someusername4129

19 күн бұрын

The internet brings out the best armchair diagnoses of questionable origins.

@Seamus_Dolan

19 күн бұрын

Definitely not the person to diagnose that.

@sammydamo

19 күн бұрын

At this rate every single fucking person on the planet has ADHD and/or autism.

Ima just skip this first caller…. WTF

@riverathebean

20 күн бұрын

right?! imagine if a guy called with that same premise, it's so weird how comfortable people get with double standards.

@AltLmaoo

20 күн бұрын

@@riverathebeanhuh? I think you’re the one with the double standards lol I’d enjoy it either way this is interesting as f*ck!

@olaoluwaolojede3705

19 күн бұрын

​@@riverathebean Isn't it normal for guys to ask for anal on the Internet? I don't see how this is a double standard

@Seamus_Dolan

19 күн бұрын

​@@riverathebeanthey both love it

@parafraceren

19 күн бұрын

@@riverathebeandouble standards? Dude it’s pretty lighthearted

...i feel like this girl is going to get her heart broken when this guy realizes he's gay af. i mean that is one hell of an adorable laugh. but the fact he had conservative parents makes me feel like there is a fairly high chance she's a beard for the guy so his parents "accept" him. if i were a betting man i would take those odds. but i really hope i am wrong and they are just a happy couple who are enough for each other.

@i.f.5566

19 күн бұрын

I mean, there are straight men who like more “feminine” things. Gender is a concept after all.

@cjboyo

19 күн бұрын

What are you talking about? Straight men also have a prostate.

@user-rs1fj1is8c

19 күн бұрын

I know this sounds controversial or counter intuitive but there’s nothing inherently gay about pegging.

@samable668

14 күн бұрын

Yeah the guy having sex with his girlfriend is definitely gay You guys are actually insane. The insecurity is real

Can I get the first couples contact info? Just for research